The Jayson Gaddis Podcast

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Coaching Reframes and Context with Master Coach John O’Connor Jun 10, 2025

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What does it mean to follow your deepest calling? How do you get clear on what actually matters and act on it today? Jayson sits down with executive coach John O’Connor to explore what it takes to create real transformation.

They get into symbolic sovereignty, creating a clear vision, and how deep callings can emerge from deep traumas. Jayson shares what it means to earn your black belt in relationships, they discuss why music is a powerful metaphor for life, and the one skill every facilitator needs. They also talk about entanglement, and having a shared vision with your partner. Stick around for grounded insights on leadership, connection, and showing up fully to the work only you can do.
John O’Connor is an executive coach and facilitator living in Boulder, Colorado. For more than a decade, John has coached the top CEOs and leaders in hedge funds, startups, and Fortune 500 companies. John embodies a masterful level of skill to create radical transformation. His coaching path emerged out of 17 years as a massage therapist, after working through tens of thousands of bodies, he developed a deep connection and curiosity to the unconscious mind, learning how to facilitate behavioral, emotional and mental change at the deepest level. John was a co-lead facilitator at the first two Open Source Retreats that helped lay the foundation for the EVRYMAN movement. He is also a certified NLP and hypnosis trainer, a certified master coach, creator of The Access Method, and author of the upcoming book From Ordinary to Extraordinary.

Timestamps:

1:23 - What is your deepest calling?
3:49 - Stepping out of time
8:54 - Creating a clear vision
10:43 - What are the three most important things you need to do today?
13:19 - Symbolic sovereignty
32:24 - How to get your black belt in relationships
37:36 - Music as a metaphor for relationships
45:48 - Having a shared vision
52:42 - Deep callings can emerge from deep traumas
58:56 - Dealing with entanglement
1:04:00 - An important skill for facilitators and coaches

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The Core Inner Conflict Jun 03, 2025

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Jayson breaks down the problems with one common strategy—people-pleasing and how it relates to the core inner conflict. What are the childhood roots of people-pleasing? Why do people-pleasers become resentful? Why do integrated individuals make better coaches and therapists? Tune in to this insightful episode to learn how to stop betraying yourself in the context of your relationship.

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1:37 - Client example
5:43 - The childhood roots of people-pleasing
12:04 - Betraying yourself to fit in
14:46 - Why people-pleasers become resentful
18:23 - Why integrated people make better coaches and therapists

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50 Years As A Therapist- Sage Advice for All Coaches & Therapists - Duane Mullner - 528 May 27, 2025

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Jayson sits down with Duane Mullner to talk about the role of the therapist or coach. Why is the here and now so important? Can clients help their coaches and therapists? How should you prepare for a session? What should you do with a client who isn’t making progress? How can you help clients who are stuck in victimhood? Don’t miss this chance to hear Duane Mullner share the wisdom he has accumulated over his long career.

Timestamps:

6:44 - What is the role of the therapist/coach
15:30 - What’s going on between therapist and client?
20:31 - Why is the here and now so important?
27:39 - Don’t make resistance wrong
34:35 - How clients help coaches and therapists
41:46 - How to prepare for a session
44:51 - Making progress with clients
54:18 - How to help people who are in their victimhood
1:07:00 - Should you trust clients to treat you about their problems?

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Coaching Yourself with AI - Jayson Gaddis - 527 May 20, 2025

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Jayson breaks down how to coach yourself using AI and shares a variety of example prompts. Can AI offer constructive criticism? What can it do with astrology and Gene Keys? Can it give you a tough-love wake-up call? Stick around until the end to learn how you can use AI to get the most out of your therapy sessions!

Timestamps:

2:40 - Ways to use AI as a client
4:52 - Using AI for constructive criticism
7:50 - Astrology
10:27 - Tough love
13:36 - Getting the most out of therapy

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Will AI Replace Coaches and Therapists? Jayson Gaddis - 526 May 13, 2025

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Jayson discusses the role of AI in the therapy and coaching space. Will AI replace therapists and coaches? Can it ever be better than a real coach or therapist? What are the downsides of using AI to coach yourself? Stay tuned until the end of the episode to find out how you can thrive—rather than just survive—as a coach or therapist in the age of AI.

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5:42 - Price point
9:10 - Who will lose their jobs?
12:53 - What AI can't replace
19:24 - AI and intuition
23:47 - How should coaches and therapists adapt to AI?

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User Error- How to Be a Great Client - Jayson Gaddis - 525 May 06, 2025

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If you want to get the most out of therapy or coaching, it’s important to know how to be a great client. In this episode, Jayson shares his experience of being a client and breaks down how you can make sure you’re getting the results you want. Is it ever okay not to make progress? Learn how to advocate for yourself, prepare for your sessions, stay accountable to friends and family, and much more in this episode!

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1:40 - Is it okay not to make progress?
4:01 - Jayson's story
8:51 - How to be a good client
15:53 - When to have a frank conversation with your coach or therapist

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Therapy & Coaching Advice from Alexandra Solomon - 524 Apr 29, 2025

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Clinical psychologist Alexandra Solomon joins Jayson to offer valuable advice for therapists and coaches. What are the unique challenges of working with men in couples work? How should therapists and coaches manage countertransference? What common issues are individuals bringing to therapy these days? And how can therapists help people most effectively? Find the answers to these questions—and more—in this insightful episode!

Timestamps:

10:11 - Gendered issues in therapy
19:45 - Individuals vs couples therapy
26:45 - Countertransference
39:23 - Advice for new practitioners

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Introducing: Integrated - Why Being a Team Is So Hard Apr 25, 2025

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Jayson and Ellen have started a new podcast!

Integrated is for entrepreneurial couples who want both a high-impact career and an exceptional partnership. Jayson and Ellen blend cutting-edge relationship science with decades of coaching experience to help you balance leadership at home and in business, fostering deeper connection and lasting success.

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In this episode Jayson and Ellen talk about five reasons why being a team is so hard. How do culture and personal history impact teamwork? Is your sense of entitlement holding you back from effective collaboration? How can differences between people make for a stronger team? Find the answers to these questions and more in this episode!

Timestamps:

1:00 - 5 reasons why being a team is so hard
1:47 - Cultural backdrop
7:00 - Personal history
11:49 - Your entitlement
16:56 - Differences
20:41 - Sharing leadership takes time

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Understanding Over Solutions - Jayson Gaddis - 523 Apr 22, 2025

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What’s wrong with going into fix-it mode when someone shares their problems?

Jayson explains why it’s better to offer understanding rather than jumping in with solutions—and how people are more likely to come up with their own answers when they feel truly heard.

Timestamps:

0:03 - What's wrong with "fix-it" mode?
3:49 - Reflecting instead of fixing
7:08 - Giving people space to come up with their own solutions
8:30 - Understanding first, then solutions

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Coaching Someone Who Wants a Successful Relationship - Jayson Gaddis - 522 Apr 15, 2025

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How should you coach someone who wants to be in a successful relationship? Jayson breaks it down. Do you need to have successful relationships yourself to coach effectively? How can you teach your clients the skills they need to develop, and what does that process look like? Don’t miss this insightful episode.

Timestamps:

0:36 - You have to have successful relationships
7:05 - Skill acquisition
13:27 - Don't be uncomfortable with intimacy

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