The Gender Rebels Podcast

Our "Will & Harper" review, Part II Nov 12, 2024

We review Netflix's Will & Harper. Overall we think it's really really good and can help educate people who might need it. Faith says she can't get U.S. State Department Security Clearance because she's too weird. We agreed Mike "I'm a weird guy" Warnke is also probably ineligible. But Weird Al is pretty wholesome; I bet he could get it. Could you get clearance?

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Music by one of our favorite bands, the super cool, all-female punk band Jasper the Colossal. Download their new album "Take Your Time" and all their tracks on iTunes.

"Will & Harper" : The Gender Rebels Review Nov 05, 2024

We review Netflix's Will & Harper. Overall we think it's really really good and can help educate people who might need it. Faith says she can't get U.S. State Department Security Clearance because she's too weird. We agreed Mike "I'm a weird guy" Warnke is also probably ineligible. But Weird Al is pretty wholesome; I bet he could get it. Could you get clearance?

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Faith's book, American Transgirl, available now!

Music by one of our favorite bands, the super cool, all-female punk band Jasper the Colossal. Download their new album "Take Your Time" and all their tracks on iTunes.

Trans Surgeries for Prisoners Oct 21, 2024

We're in the news again, yay. First, the stats:

The US held 21.0% of the world's prisoners in 2015, even though the US represented only around 4.4 percent of the world's population in 2015. The Wikipedia site "Comparison of United States incarceration rate with other countries" has additional sobering stats. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comparison_of_United_States_incarceration_rate_with_other_countries#:~:text=The%202021%20US%20incarceration%20rate,in%20adult%20facilities%20in%202015. Highlights of Kamala's fox interview https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbNxiLaY6I0 Alford plea (not "Alfred" plea): https://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/alford_plea An Alford plea, also known as a "best-interests plea," registers a formal admission of guilt towards charges in criminal court while the defendant simultaneously expresses their innocence toward those same charges.(It) skips the full process of a criminal trial because the defendant agrees to accept all the ramifications of a guilty verdict (i.e. punishment). Prisoners were left to their own devices during Hurricanes Milton, Florence, and Katrina: https://www.ncja.org/crimeandjusticenews/some-florida-jails-and-prisons-evacuated-ahead-of-milton-but-many-incarcerated-remained-in-storm-s The number of inmates requesting gender affirming surgery every year is miniscule, according to Bureau of Prisons. There have been only two known surgeries approved via court action. https://www.nytimes.com/2024/10/16/us/politics/trump-prisons-transgender-care-harris.html Trans folx are more likely to be a victim of a crime: https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/press/ncvs-trans-press-release/ Let's step outside of prison for a minute. The #1 most common gender affirming surgery in minors? Researchers found roughly 150 cases in which a minor received gender-affirming surgery in 2019. But of those cases, 146 — about 97% — were chest reduction surgeries performed on cisgender male youth, constituting gender-affirming care for conditions like gynecomastia (which can develop nearly half the time among those undergoing testosterone-dominant puberty). https://www.them.us/story/gender-affirming-surgery-vast-majority-cis-kids-study

She's the Man Sep 04, 2024

Faith and Kath are surprised that they liked this movie so much. Remember Amanda Bynes? She's so funny and we at TGR Headquarters wish her well. The movie is helped by surprisingly funny Channing Tatum in his first movie role and a bonkers story by Billy Shakespeare. Apparently pretending to be the opposite sex is stressful and Bynes said she struggled with depression for months after seeing herself onscreen. Sounds like gender dysphoria is hard even in small doses.

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Some Like It Trans May 26, 2024

Today we watched director Billy Wilder's 1959 hit Some Like It Hot, winner of 11 Academy Awards. Our feelings are... complicated. But for a movie with cross-dressing, produced in compliance with the Hays Code's absurd limitations, it is actually pretty cool.

Marilyn Monroe's character gave off "Born Sexy Yesterday" vibes. Pop Culture Detective coined the phrase for characters like The Fifth Element's Leeloo; learn more here!

In 2023, J. Harrison Ghee won a Tony Award for Best Featured Actor in a Musical for their performance in the Broadway musical, the second out nonbinary actor to win the award. (Mere MINUTES after Alex Newell, the first out nonbinary Tony winner. So close!) I know what you're thinking-- Best Actor? Nonbinary person? Well, there is a larger conversation happening about gendered award categories for major performance awards. Maybe we'll see some changes in the future.

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I Saw the TV Glow: The Rebels Go To the Movies May 05, 2024

Yesterday we went to I Saw The TV Glow followed by a Q&A with writer/ director Jane Schoenbrun. Brigette Lundy-Paine and Justice Smith star in a coming-of-age story where two junior high outsiders find each other and bond over a creepy Buffy The Vampire Slayer-like TV show. The show gets darker and the protagonists' ties to reality start to loosen.

We've loved Brigette Lundy-Paine ever since Atypical and see all their work-- even Amelia's Children, yikes.) Unlike Amelia's Children, I Saw The TV Glow was excellent: dark and strange and sad, with an amazing soundtrack. We highly recommend it!

Topics of conversation covered:

Buffy creator Joss Whedon is a terrible person
The Cocteau Twins has an album The Pink Opaque
Our episode on Bringing people into the closet with you
Faith like the band Velocity Girl
Faith's blog is still up!

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Music by one of our favorite bands, the super cool, all-female punk band Jasper the Colossal. Download their new album "Take Your Time" and all their tracks on iTunes.

You Can Get SRS and Still Be a Good Leftist Feb 09, 2024

This week we saw a reddit post that asked "Would I be a bad leftist if I get SRS?" It started with "my ex told me that girls who get SRS are an obstacle for trans liberation." Wow. We knew Faith needed to weigh in.

Caution: we make pretend sex noises throughout this ep. Try to not get too turned on, thanks.

Gaslighting means "manipulating someone into questioning their own perception of reality".

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Movement for Transwomen Sep 30, 2023

Listener Claire asks a great question about how to move in a more feminine way. We can't all be ballerinas or elegant gliding angles on ice like the truck drivers of Manitoba, but we can all take some yoga or barre, work on our posture, get video to track our progress, and attempt to emulate the Playboy bunny walk. But ultimately, it all comes down to practice.

Barre class and how to pronounce it. (It's just "bar", y'all.)

Frances Ha starring (probable possible likely Academy Award winning director of "Barbie") Greta Gerwig where the character Frances has a "weird man walk". Fashion Week staffers work for free. What's Guelph? Faith loves her chirp wheel because her shoulders and neck get super tight from sitting at her desk.

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Fight Your Health Insurance to Get Your FFS Covered Sep 24, 2023

Facial feminization surgery (FFS) is not covered by some health plans. If your health insurance company says they won't pay for a surgery you need, you can appeal that decision. Listener Robin asks for tips from Faith, who succeeded with her appeal on her third try.

Our other FFS episodes: Faith F's her F Part I Faith F's her F Part II

Faith vs Her Health Insurance

"Insemination style genitalia" and "gestational genitalia" are terms that Faith thought up in her weird brain and we do NOT recommend googling them. Kath thinks AFAB and AMAB are adequate. Faith learned about appealing decisions from your health insurance at the Philadelphia Trans Wellness Conference. There was no 2023 conference but there will be one in 2024 and we will see you there! Legal aid societies that can help you with your appeal, for each state. Faith said people with gestational genitalia (aka AFAB people or people who were assigned female at birth) "retain neoteny". Neoteny refers to child-like facial characteristics. These “neotenous” characteristics include a large forehead with lower set eyes, nose and mouth; a smaller, shorter, more recessive chin; fuller lips; larger eyes; a smaller nose; higher, thinner eyebrows; and a rounder, less angular face. This can be (but is not always) associated with attractiveness, to some people. Our old video of conventionally attractive people whose facial features are androgynous or even skew toward those of the opposite gender included the jerk Ezra Miller. Join us in cancelling that creep. Faith's surgeon, Bella Avanessian, MD at Mt Sinai, also has Jazz Jennings as a patient. See Dr. A. in this video as a baby doctor, just starting her surgical fellowship. Legal Eagle YouTuber has an episode about arbitrators and also "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia". Former New York State governor Mario Cuomo groped staff members and helped the LGBTQ+ community a lot. Those are two uncomfortable truths we have to live with.

Why Are the Evangelicals So Scared? Jul 16, 2023

Ken Ham founded the Creation Museum and Faith got extra credit for going to see him speak on--what else?-- science.

This is a cool diagram of all the metabolic processes. Kath remembers each and every detail of this diagram, even now, 20 long years since her graduate biochem class. Amanda The Jedi reacting to "Pure Flix", the Christian alternative to Netflix. Her other videos are really good, too. Bob Jones University is accredited by the Southern Association of Colleges and Schools Commission on Colleges (SACSCOC) as of 2017 and the Transnational Association of Christian Colleges and Schools as of 2011. The Kids in the Hall sketch Homo Alone. At 3:30 in this video, Pat Robertson says people in San Francisco wear rings to give other people AIDS. The southern strategy linked the GOP with racists and evangelicals. Check out Self Made Kingz for cool shirts!

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Everything sucks. Get loud. May 27, 2023

"If you can convince the lowest white man he's better than the best colored man, he won't notice you're picking his pocket. Hell, give him somebody to look down on, and he'll empty his pockets for you." We misattributed this quote to Lee Atwater. It was in fact Lyndon B. Johnson. Don't feel bad for Atwater; he was no peach either. Here's audio of him spelling out how Republicans should signal that they support racist policies without actually saying racist things. TW for some seriously fucking brutal racial terms.

Fauci could have handled the AIDS crisis better. This Frontline tells you all about it. The Justins in Tennessee. (the link is a gift article; enjoy!) The GOP won't change their policies to get more voters. They'll just get rid of democracy. Protest works. There were sustained protests in East Germany before the wall fell like the Leipzig prayer protests every Monday. ACT UP used unapologetically confrontational die-ins to force progress on AIDS funding, research, and treatments. Conservatives don't want their kids learning about Ruby Bridges or Rosa Parks. RIP Congressman John Lewis and let's all make good trouble.

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Trans Music Part III Apr 17, 2023

In our final episode on transgender music, we discuss Jenny Lewis in Rilo Kiley One of The Guys, The Regrettes A Living Human Girl, Liz Phair Firewalker, Metric Too Little Too Late, R.E.M. Hope, and Chvrches Death Stranding. We really hope you liked this series!

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Trans Music Part 2 Mar 05, 2023

We're back with even more songs. And this ain't all, there's still a part 3 in your future!

In this episode, we discuss:

Fraulein Wunder Wenn Ich Ein Junge War or "If I Were A Boy". Faith's judgment: a good song.
The Soviettes Middle of the Night
Hole My Beautiful Son and the link shows you a picture of Kurt Cobain looking pretty in a dress and lipstick and pearls at 0:52
Lords of Acid I Like It (best known for the song The Crab Louse about pubic crabs)

James Laid

St Vincent has a song about Candy Darling
Green Day King for A Day
The Replacements and Peter Buck Androgynous
Laura Jane Grace is lead singer of Against Me! and she transitioned in public. One of the band's albums is Transgender Dysphoria Blues.

Pitchfork hates every album.

Trans or queer musicians:
Kim Petras
Romy Haag
Pete Burns of Dead of Alive which you know from "You Spin Me Round (Like A Record)".
Kurt Cobain
New York Dolls
David Bowie

Getting a used toaster as wedding gift is just one of the many objectifying, dehumanizing virginity metaphors Faith was taught. But sure, let's follow that comparison to its conclusion. A used toaster? What if it's just the right toaster for you? What if it's amazing, and it sees you and treasures you for who you are, and it makes you laugh, and it shares your values and interests? Yes, then I wouldn't care if the toaster has a few crumbs in its tray from a previous owner.

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Trans Music Part 1 Feb 01, 2023

You KNOW we have opinions on everything from "Lola" to "Walk On The Wild Side" to "Dude Looks Like A Lady". The good, the bad, and the strange. And this is just part one!!

Links galore:

Jasper the Colossal Markers and Beer live version. It slaps.

Make famous friends by cultivating fandoms for less- famous people. Faith admires awesome YouTuber Lindsey Ellis -- and she reteweeted one of Faith's dog pics!

Lake Baikal is a super deep lake. Terrifyingly deep.

SNL Ashlee Simpson debacle.

Okay, music! In this ep, we discussed:
Aerosmith's Dude Looks Like A Lady. Faith's judgment: Not a good song.

Here's a picture of Vince Neil of Mötley Crüe (not Poison; apologies to both Mr. Crüe and Mr. Poison), for reference.

Hair metal, for reference including two cool lists of Top 10 Best and Bottom 5 Worst Hair Metal Bands.

The Kinks Lola. Faith's judgment: Good song but not on her mix or karaoke list.

Lou Reed and the Velvet Underground Take a Walk on the Wild Side (Faith's judgment: good song and not on her karaoke list) and Candy Says (Faith's judgment: same-- good song and not on her karaoke list)

Learn about:
Candy Darling !
Andy Warhol's Factory !
Joe Delassandro !

The Community commercial where they say "meet different people!"

Many familiar crabs are of the genus Cancer

Suzanne Vega As Girls Go. Faith's judgment: not a good song.

Matt Baum's Culture Cruise on YouTube talks about the representation of gays in TV and movies.

Madonna's What It Feels Like For A Girl. Faith's judgment: a good song.

Garbage Cherry Lips (Go Baby Go), Androgyny, and Bleed Like Me . Faith's judgment: 100% awesome songs. Bonus is their cover of Candy Says that's also spectacular.

The JT Leroy literary hoax

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OnlyFans Jan 01, 2023

Transition is expensive. A listener writes in to ask, what's the harm with starting an OnlyFans account to help with the costs? Chasers are creepy, but money is money. She's got systems in place to ensure her anonymity and safety. What do you think?

Topics in this episode include:

Usury laws
Bible says don't charge interest when you lend money, but Christians still seem to like it for some reason.
"Caveat" means an old-fashioned necktie, we're pretty sure.
Don't Fuck With Cats taught us people can locate you based on your images, if they're motivated enough.
NYC paramedic outed (correction: not fired) for having an OnlyFans account.
The concept of "less dead" in criminal justice
Porn actress Asia Carrera retired to Utah because no one looks at porn in Utah.
Speaking of Utah: the only thing better than the breathtaking canyon walls of Zion National Park were the cute Utah queers we encountered there. We see you and we love you.

Faith does not love driving in Phoenix AZ.
Listen past the end credits for sounds of one of our dogs sleep- barking!

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Faith Takes Self Defense Nov 23, 2022

Krav Maga is a hand- to- hand combat technique originally developed by the Israeli armed forces. And Faith and Kath took the field by storm a few months ago. Hear how it's going in their women- only classes and their mixed classes.

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Mourning Your Lost Girlhood. Also, Boundaries. Sep 04, 2022

Listener and Rebel Erin wrote in to ask about mourning her lost girlhood, and also about her obligations to help other transfolx having a hard time with transition. Thanks Erin!

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Video Games, The Public Eye, and Academia Jul 30, 2022

Listener Hayley actually wrote in with three excellent questions. She asked the Rebels' thoughts on transgender representation in video games, transitioning in the public eye, and how transgender academics handle a lifetime of publications attributed to their deadname.

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Faith has been playing Civilization for years and Civ 6 is the newest one.

A recent article about trans representation in video games-- including 3 games that get it right.

The super-easy, super-tasty popcorn recipe Faith likes. And that website has a TON of great vegetarian recipes. We're not even vegetarian and we like Cookie & Kate's recipes!

Within the last year, leading academic publishers have developed a simple policy to help transgender academics: rapid and discreet revisions on all electronic resources. Nature, Science, Elsevier, Wiley and other of the top academic publishers are paving the way.

Kath does not know how to pronounce Elsevier. It is "el suh veer". Both of her guesses were wrong.

Wiley published the MR safety book with Kath's chapter, chapter #30. But don't buy that book. Buy Faith's book.

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Athletics and Transfolx Jul 03, 2022

You know things are bad if the Gender Rebels do a political episode about sports. But ignoring politics is a luxury for privileged people and we're just plain pissed.

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Book Release: ”Trans Bodies, Trans Selves” Apr 26, 2022

The book is here! The book is here!! The second edition of Trans Bodies, Trans Selves is finally out, featuring 2 pieces by our very own Faith Da Brooke!! We can't contain our excitement even though this 649-page ENCYCLOPEDIA is going to put us out of business. Written almost entirely by trans people, it is an exhaustive resource on healthcare, legal stuff, relationships, history, poetry, and more. And we were so lucky to have the opportunity celebrate the launch by interviewing 2 of the people who were the force behind this, Kelsey Pacha and Kevin Johnson.

Kelsey Pacha is more than just President of the TBTS Board. He's also a consultant for workplaces who want to move forward with their diversity, equity, and inclusion.

Kevin Johnson is a doctor in upstate New York specializing in addiction medicine.

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But Gender Is A Construct Apr 17, 2022

What does it mean to want to transition, while also being aware gender is a construct? Does transition mean gender is not a construct? Taylor writes in with this excellent question and a few other great insights.

Faith brought up the monkeys who wash their sweet potatoes, which is an atypical behavior that nonetheless spread through the troop and was even handed down through generations. They do it today; you can go to Japan and see them. It's an amazing case study of behavior that meets three proposed aspects for a cultural behavior: emergence, propagation, and modification.

The "modification" part is most relevant to Taylor's question. Yes, gender is a construct, a cultural behavior. It has a lot of problematic aspects but also a LOT of aspects that feel right to many people. So trans* people and even plenty of cis people modify gender constructs to fit themselves. We live gender in the way we want.

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Tips & Reassurance for a 13 Year Old Transgirl Apr 10, 2022

Listener Emma is early in her journey, and she writes in to ask for tips or reassurance.

Your first step on your trans* journey is always LEARNING as much as you can! Emma is already right on track but there are great resources that can help. Check out My New Gender Workbook by the always amazing Kate Bornstein. Also, You and Your Gender Identity: A Guide to Discovery by Dara Hoffman Fox.

Our episode Bringing Others In The Closet With You.

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Explaining ”Nonbinary” Sep 05, 2021

"I don't understand," they say, and now you've got some work to do. Listener Kai asks how to explain what nonbinary means to their boyfriend's religious parents. Luckily, Faith knows how to talk to religious people so you know The Gender Rebels have some thoughts.

Checkout our episodes with our nonbinary friend Avery: Everything In Between and Nonbinary Talk With Avery.

A nonbinary person is not necessarily intersex, but Avery said it can be a helpful metaphor to people who prefer to start from a scientific example. Check out our intersex episode for details.

Faith is a fan of Sci Show and they also have an episode on intersex people.

Becoming Eve: My Journey from Ultra-Orthodox Rabbi to Transgender Woman by Abby Stein is just one of many stories from religious or formerly religious people dealing with queerness, transition, or being nonbinary or intersex. Also it's just a great read.

We love Austen Hartke and he has done so much fascinating work on queer interpretations of the bible. Check out his book Transforming: The Bible and the Lives of Transgender Christians if that YouTube clip piqued your interest.

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"Manning" the Grill May 31, 2021

Memorial Day used to be Decoration Day because you're supposed to decorate the graves of fallen soldiers.

Yes, housewives were told to put hot dogs in Jello. We wouldn't make up something like that.

NASA briefly considered sending women on the Mercury VII mission but ultimately made John Glenn the first American astronaut in orbit instead. NASA's official selection criteria for astronauts was

Less than 40 years old;
Less than 5 feet 11 inches (1.80 m) tall;
In excellent physical condition;
With a bachelor's degree or equivalent;
A graduate of test pilot school;
With a minimum of 1,500 hours total flying time; and
A qualified jet pilot.

But the unofficial criteria? Well, they were all white male Protestants with wives and children. They were all the eldest or only sons in their families and they were all raised in small towns.

Grilled broccoli is amazing. Don't forget the red pepper flakes! I like to leave the stems long; they make a nice handle for turning on the grill surface.

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Star Trek's First LGBTQ Episode Apr 01, 2021

Faith is a Star Trek fan, and this is Kath's first Star Trek episode ever. The New Generation's Season 5 Episode 17 "The Outcast" was a heavy-handed, clumsy, well-intentioned episode about gay things. It was 1992 so we're giving them a break.

Why is the flight deck called "the bridge"? There's only one way to find out.

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Hedwig and The Angry Inch Feb 27, 2021

Kath has questions for Faith about John Cameron Mitchell's discomfiting masterpiece Hedwig and The Angry Inch. (Several unpleasant topics come up, so heed the trigger warning at the start.)

Origin of Love is a song that makes Kath cry. Happy tears-- it's ok. Maybe it's time to get an Origin of Love tattoo. That'll give her something to cry about.

Learn more about Romy Haag.

Learn more about Theo Kogan.

Watch Shortbus if you dare.

Got a great voice? Are you scrawny or Taye Diggs? You, too, could play Hedwig, like all of these people.

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Movie Review: Carol Dec 24, 2020

A gay holiday movie with the luminous and exquisite Cate Blanchette? Yes please.

Accidental Affirmation Nov 26, 2020

You're a transman but internet trolls only see "trans" and assume you're a transwoman. "YOU'RE NOT A REAL WOMAN. YOU'LL NEVER BE A REAL WOMAN!1!!11!" might feel great. But does it feel great? Should it feel great? What do you do when you accidentally receive affirmation from a hater?

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The Rebels Go to the Movies: The Matrix Oct 04, 2020

We've created a podcast within a podcast: The Rebels Go to the Movies! In our first episode, we watch and review The Matrix. SO MANY SPOILERS. So see it before you listen. If you haven't seen it yet, why not????? It's so good! Lily Wachowski recently confirmed it is, indeed, an allegory for the transgender experience.

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Transition: Done! Now What? Sep 27, 2020

Listener Devin sent this question many months ago (and we re-recorded this episode to replace the one we lost when Kath's hard drive died). It's great to have accomplished everything: coming out, the surgeries, the name change, building a support group. But now what?

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Nostalgia and Your Old Wardrobe Aug 13, 2020

Listener Cormac asks if Faith felt nostalgic when getting rid of her old clothes

We have previous episodes on Developing a Sense of Style and Feminize for Free. They're female-oriented episodes but a lot of the advice applies to guys too.
Faith loves Manda & The Marbles. You should too. Get your own Music Band T-shirt like Steve Buscemi wore in 30 Rock. High-quality Inkbox fake tattoos seems like a great Christmas present for Faith, right? Yeah but not, like, 20 of them. Lesson learned. Faith only wears black T-shirts. Lou Malnati's Pizza doesn't make a black T-shirt. (Note: Lou's is not Chicago's best deep dish. Giordano's is. Specifically, the 730 Rush St location for its convenience to Kath's old lab at Northwestern Memorial.) Salvation Army dislikes gay people no matter what they say. Goodwill isn't great either but at least they're not actively homophobic. Out Of The Closet is a national chain of non-homophobic, non-exploitative thrift stores that directly help people living with HIV and AIDS. From their website: Ninety-six cents of every dollar collected at the stores directly fund AIDS Healthcare Foundation's HIV/AIDS programs and their new housing services, as well as on-site pharmacies and free HIV testing. AND they were featured in First Girl I Loved, a super-gay movie WE loved. Queer Exchange is a buy and sell group on Facebook. They have them for lots of cities, not just NYC. But Housing Works is NYC only. Guys helping guys at r/malefashionadvice Green Day Good Riddance lyrics so you can sing along REM Don't Go Back to Rockville lyrics so you can sing along

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GRS recovery: At Home Jul 22, 2020

Faith finished her time in the hospital and is now home, recovering. Her final day as an inpatient was an ordeal. Post-op care is going much better at home.

We discuss everything about vaginoplasty in two different previous episodes so check them out if any terms are unfamiliar.

Blood pressure is measured with a sphygmomanometer (not a "sphygmamomometer" as we mispronounced it).

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Faith's GRS: Days 1-3 Jul 05, 2020

Pardon the poor audio quality. We recorded this episode on my phone and I did my best to clean it up! THANK YOU to everyone who was so supportive and encouraging on Facebook and everywhere else. We really felt the love. More updates to come! Stay safe and healthy, Rebels!

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Black Lives Matter Jun 14, 2020

Systemic racism is deadly. We need to put in the work to educate ourselves and start to proactively dismantle destructive organizations and unquestioned assumptions. We're using this episode to amplify the voices of POCs and keep society moving along the road to recovery. CLICK THESE LINKS.

Black Lives Matter

If you have some cash, consider donating to the NAACP Legal Defense Fund.

Activists we love: Munroe Bergdorf and Janaya Future Khan

Podcasts we recommend: Queer Women of Color and Afroqueer

VOTE VOTE VOTE VOTE in your local elections. Here's how to register and here's how to find when they are and who's running.

Merriam Webster improved and clarified the definition of racism.

The protests are working. Minneapolis will disband the police force. Other areas are discussing defunding their police forces. "Breonna's Law" outlaws no-knock warrants in Louisville. The Louisville police chief was removed from his post after an unrelated shooting by police officers-- another unarmed black citizen, this time at a protest. Louisville's mayor has issued a request for proposal for a comprehensive, top-to-bottom review of the entire Louisville police department The officers who killed Breonna are on administrative leave. (The question of their firings or prosecutions come after the investigation.) Keep it up.

Redlining is an example of deliberate, institutionally-deployed racism. We still deal with its repercussions today.

The Tulsa Race Massacre of 1921 is just one of many attacks on thriving African American communities throughout history.

Read The New Jim Crow about racial discrimination in law enforcement and the rise of mass incarceration.

Finally New York State has a special prosecutor's office to investigate cases where a person dies while in police custody. Previously, these investigations were done by local district attorneys. This old system was crippled by built-in conflicts of interest, since local district attorneys have to work with cops on their other cases.

A good article about armed cops in schools aka "school resource officers".

Remember that stupid whitewashed Stonewall movie? At least the Marsh P. Johnson character appeared onscreen for four seconds.

Kath is always talking about asymptotes: things approaching zero, always getting closer to it but never quite getting there.

GRS: Bad News at T Minus 3 Weeks Jun 13, 2020

No visitors in the hospital. Thanks, COVID. Can Faith doing this without Kath, or should she reschedule AGAIN?

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Your New Name May 09, 2020

In this episode we answer a question from a young transgender girl who is curious about the potential issues and frustrations involved with changing your name.
Be sure and check out Kath's other podcast Lab In the Time of Coronavirus.

And if you want to learn more about Life Magazine's privacy issues, check out this Dollop episode.
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11 Rapid-Fire Questions From Reddit (fixed audio) May 01, 2020

An awesome Redditor sent Faith 11 great questions and we go through them all, bam bam bam, for your listening pleasure.

The Pitch Drop Experiment is a demonstration of viscosity where pitch in a funnel yields one very slow drop every 7-9 years (until the lab installed air conditioning which then slowed the rate of drippage too ever 12-13 years).

Of course Flying Synagogues are a thing. Or they were in 2006.

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"Tootsie" Movie Night Sun Apr 4 with Faith & Kath for our patrons! Apr 04, 2020

Got Netflix Party? Patrons are invited to join us in watching Tootsie on Sunday Apr 4 at 8 pm eastern time! Is it a bold mainstream portrayal of crossdressing with A-list actors and comedians, a tasteless comedy that makes trans people the butt of every joke, or something in between? Join the chat and chime in when you're moved, tickled, or aghast. And y'all? Faith has never seen it!

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Pandemic Tips for Transguys Apr 01, 2020

Neither of us are transguys. Still, we know how to kill time during SIP (shelter-in-place).

Practice tying your ties! Actually, no. Instead, perfect that bowtie. Long ties are vectors. Gross.

Prep for your grandpa days and learn to whittle! Smoke a pipe! Figure out your future grandpa smell! (Usually tobacco, hair pomade, aftershave, and grandpa funk, but do it your way.)

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5 Tips During A Pandemic Mar 23, 2020

Delicious Chik Fil A sandwich recipe-- all the yum, none of the hate! Brining the chicken in pickle juice is the secret.

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How Can Faith Tell If She Passes? Mar 10, 2020

And does it matter? Why? Let's say she passes. Is she done with the transgender community? And is that shitty? Why? Anyway, here are some links:

Faith is using an app to count calories and it's actually helping her lose weight. Also it's kind of interesting learning about the calorie density of different foods. We call it "Data Not Deprivation". Faith loves Grimes. Grimes has a new album. And Faith REALLY loves Grimes. Kath is glad Grimes is pregnant because Faith dislikes kids and Kath is pretty sure if kids weren't in the picture, Faith would leave Kath for Grimes. The "thorn" phoneme aka the "th" sound, which Faith couldn't pronounce as a kid, so she had mouth surgery to fix because otherwise she would be bullied. She was still bullied, of course, but not for the thorn thing. Faith is a very accomplished podcaster and her other podcasts include the Last Podcast on The Left, Hardcore History, Serial , and the first- ever podcast, War of the Worlds . Acquitted child-murdering mother Casey Anthony did not work at Universal Studios, but kept the lie going as long as she could. Food life hack: vegetables are very nutrient-dense and low calorie. Roast chunks of carrots, potatoes, cauliflower, Brussels sprouts, zucchini, and red onion with salt and a little olive oil, and toss a little lemon tahini dressing on top. OMG yum.

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Vaginoplasty 101 Part II Mar 03, 2020

Post-surgical recovery, physical therapy, and the patient panel were in the second part of the NYU-Langone day-long class in vaginoplasty. Faith got antsy toward the end of the class but Kath took her to the Waterfront Ale House right after (1 block away) and everything was okay.

Peggy Huddleston wants you to heal from surgery faster. Visualization and breathing have empirical data supporting them but reiki lacks reliable evidence at this time. Trick or Treatment is a great book that looks at high-quality scientific publications about several alternative medical practices.

The dilator set: throw away the purple and work your way up to the orange!

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Vaginoplasty 101 Part I Feb 25, 2020

NYU-Langone offers a day-long class in vaginoplasty for women who have their GRS scheduled in the near future. Caregivers are able to attend too! So we went, listened, took notes, asked questions, and ate sandwiches. We learned SO MUCH that we couldn't fit it all into one episode. We could barely fit it into two. So enjoy these mega-episodes!

A hand mirror is recommended for looking at one's brand-new vagina. Your phone, or a compact, won't work. Sure, any hand mirror will do. But here, we like to go big or go home.

Psychology Today can help you find a therapist. (That's the US link, so go here if you're Canadian, Mexican, or if you live outside North America.)

The OUT Foundation partnered with NYU-Langone for the class. They can provide resources for people traveling for their GRS, and seem pretty cool overall. They have an inclusive gym finder, host the Big Gay Field Day , and started the Don't Be An Asshole Tour.

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Faith The Grifter Feb 14, 2020

Faith wants to be a grifter. Help Kath talk her out of it. This episode is kind of a throwback to the first podcast we dd together, Fool Me Once about scams (patrons can hear all 3 episodes we did)

A bounty of links for this episode:

The Community Service Society of New York helped Faith take on her health insurance company.

The Mt Sinai plastic surgery dept staff supporting Dr. Avanessian are amazing human beings-- so amazing, the famously misanthropic Faith DaBrooke wrote thank you notes to them Faith says, see Birds of Prey . Kath says, see Parasite . Read the book My Friend Anna, so you can learn more about the shitty human being Anna Delvey, whose black chiffon babydoll dress is 99% of the reason Faith wants to be a grifter. "Oh no! I dropped my twelve pack of delicious Sticky's chicken fingers! My boss is gonna KILL me!" Ear Hustle podcast from prison, where we'll definitely end up. Orange is the New Black , the book, not the show, is really good.

If You Can't Take HRT Jan 20, 2020

If there's a medical reason (or any other reason) that makes HRT impossible for you, are you screwed? Thanks to a great question sent in by listener N.R. whose pulmonary embolism makes HRT too risky for her, Faith and Kath discuss what other options exist. They also think up terrible metaphors.

You can have an excellent stew without meat. Seriously, try it. We're not even vegan and we love this recipe.

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Faith's New Dirtypillows Dec 29, 2019

BREASTS! Faith discusses her recent breast augmentation surgery: the ordeal itself (not bad), the immediate followup (kind of bad), and the weeks since then (not great, but getting better every day). Next time they tell you to grow a pair, just say "no thanks. I'll BUY a pair!" No, wait, don't say that. That's weird.

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Supporting A Gender-Questioning Partner Dec 15, 2019

Awesome partner Jenny asked us "I was wondering if you could discuss the gender spectrum a bit and what it means to be gender questioning. My partner doesn't really know how they feel but they know that they don't feel entirely their assigned gender. As a straight cis woman, I am having a really hard time understanding these feelings and what to do, if anything, to support them in helping them figure out what makes them most comfortable." We discuss how labels can be both helpful and unhelpful, the kinds of questions necessary, what societal strictures should be ignored, and the frustrations Jenny's partner may encounter.

There's a great guide to figuring out a non-binary identity from Micah at Everyday Feminism.

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Makeup 101 Dec 01, 2019

An interested listener wrote in to ask how Faith does her makeup. We discuss the basic items you need and starter tips and techniques. YouTube will take you farther in your journey but here's how to get started. Faith got questionable advice about Cover Girl from Claire Storm-- check out her dramatic but effective contouring!

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Faith Gets Triggered Oct 11, 2019

Sorry about the dog noises. They think they deserve peanut butter to keep them quiet whenever the microphone is out. We're trying to break that habit.

Scarlett Johanssen has said some regrettable things.

Faith loves the movie Gattaca and if you haven't seen it, or it's been a while, you should at least watch the preview.

New York State and New York City have very good job protections for trans* people. Move here! Get jobs! Hang out with us!

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Wearing The Trans Flag 101 Sep 21, 2019

Gaysper is an adorable gay ghost with his own twitter account. Faith made Kath a trans flag Gaysper tshirt. What are the rules for cis allies wearing trans gear? Or even for trans people wearing trans gear? Is it safe? Does it spread awareness? Or is it basically invisible to most people?

Faith's favorite band is Garbage. We have an episode about chasers, if you want to hear how they steal transwomen's photos to attract other transwomen online.

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Faith Fs her F Part 2 Sep 05, 2019

Here it is! The surgery happened! Hear about the day itself and the start of the recovery process. And thank you to everyone who wished Faith good luck and a speedy recovery-- you are THE BEST.

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Faith vs Her Health Insurance Aug 29, 2019

FFS ain't cheap, paying out-of-pocket isn't an option, Faith's health insurance decided to not cover it, and multiple appeals have been rejected. Time to lawyer up. Tune in for the exciting conclusion of Faith's legal battle to have her facial feminization surgery covered!

Faith loves The Regrettes and you should too.

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A Supportive Cis Coworker & "Operation Faith 100" Aug 08, 2019

An awesome listener wants to know how to support their newly-out transgender coworker. Gosh we love questions like this! And if you're wondering if we've ever addressed workplace issues,or cis questions, before: why yes! Yes we have. You can check out:

Sept 2018: Interviewing and Starting Jobs
Mar 2018: What Cis People Shouldn't Say
Sept 2017: Coming Out Transgender at Work
Nov 2016: So Long, Privilege

Also: Operation Faith 100!

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Even Introverts Need A Community Aug 01, 2019

Ugh, MORE talk about the Philadelphia Trans Wellness Conference?? Yes but this will be the last episode where we go over the PTWC the until next year, we promise. But all you wonderful listeners who stopped to talk with us at PTWC got us drunk on dopamine, so all this Philly material is kind of your fault. But it also brings up the importance of community,even to introverted misanthropes like ourselves. While online communities are invaluable and even lifesaving, there's just something about being in a room full of people like you.

Watch First Girl I Loved and weep along with Faith.

Join us in our fangirling over First Girl I Loved star (and Philadelphia native) Dylan Gelula. She also played Xanthippe on Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt.

Check out the Wingnuttery podcast!

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See You In Philadelphia! Jul 19, 2019

Next week's Philadelphia Transgender Wellness Conference is going to be amazing. We hope we see you there. COME SAY HI AT OUR TABLE! But 75% of the reason we got to Philly is the food. For that reason, please educate yourself on the following important information:

1) There's an art to ordering a Philly cheesesteak, and it's worth getting it right.

2) You can have a sandwich of pork roll or Taylor ham, but it's smart to know the difference.

You can admire the luminous Faith DaBrooke on her instagram, especially her foxy new haircut.

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Okay, Sometimes Pride is Annoying Jul 11, 2019

Are we OBLIGATED to celebrate Pride? What if parades and dance parties are just not your scene? What about those people wearing nothing but body glitter? You can support their life and autonomy without wanting to be around genitals and glitter. What if house music isn't your thing? Do you have to turn in your gay card?

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Is 2019 a Bad Time to Come Out Trans? Jul 04, 2019

Is the political climate right now conducive to coming out trans? In this week's episode we answer a listener question: "Someone close to me has come out to me as trans and I’m so proud of her but so many things in the news scare me. I know she finds them scary too. I just wonder, if you were facing starting a transition in today’s world, would you? Would any of the threats to trans rights going on today give you pause if you were still at the beginning of this process?"

Be sure and check out Queer and Pleasant Danger by Kate Bornstein.

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It Feels Good to be Yourself: Interview with Theresa Thorn Jun 27, 2019

In this episode we talk with author, podcaster, and mom to a transgender kid, Theresa Thorn. We'll talk about how parents can be supportive of their LGBTQ kids and we'll discuss her new kids book "It Feels Good to Be Yourself: A Book About Gender Identity."

You can find the book It Feels Good to Be Yourself: A Book About Gender Identity on Amazon and the illustrator Noah Grigni on Instagram. Be sure to check out Theresa Thorn's podcast One Bad Mother. And you can find more information about all of her creative endeavors at Theresathorn.com.

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Taylor Swift: Friend or Foe? Jun 20, 2019

Is Taylor Swift a true ally or is she just using Pride to sell albums? In this episode we take a look at Taylor's controversial new single "You Need to Calm Down" and its related video. Is it a genuine, albeit clumsy attempt to show support for the LGBTQ community? Or is it merely a straight cis person trying to use Pride to sell more records?
Be sure to check out the New York Times article "Is Ego Stronger than Pride?"

The Onion's "Taylor Swift Inspires Teen to Come Out as Straight Woman Needing To Be At Center of Gay Rights Narrative."

Check out Kendall Jenner's tasteless and out of touch Pepsi commercial from a couple years ago.
Lastly, be sure and check out Taylor Swift's amazing testimony when she called out the person who sexually assaulted her.

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Should Pride Include Cops and Corporations? Jun 13, 2019

Should Pride parades ban police from marching or being involved with the parades? What part should corporations be allowed to play in Pride celebrations? In this episode we explore the question of whether some organizations should be dis-invited to Pride celebrations.
A group called the Reclaim Pride Coalition announced in May that it will mark the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall riots with a separate march. Reclaim Pride’s Queer Liberation March will begin 2.5 hours before the official parade on June 30, and will not allow either corporate or police contingents.
Here is an article about the NYPD apology for their actions that led to the Stonewall Riots.

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Pride Jun 06, 2019

Why do we have Pride Month and Pride marches? In this episode we'll explore a bit of the history and meaning of Pride over the years.
Be sure and check out this list of world-wide Pride festivals and celebrations. Here are some stories about Marsha P. Johnson and Stormee Delarverie and Audre Lorde. Also be sure and read the history of the Stonewall Riots.
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Crossdressing= Genderqueer? May 30, 2019

What is about crossdressing that draws some people to it? Is it a turn-on? A way to relieve gender dysphoria? Rebellion against the binary? Or something else. In this week's episode, we answer a listener's question about crossdressing and motivations. Our listener asks "What drives this feeling for me? I kind of have a hard time answering this. There have been a lot of times in my life where it has been a fetish of sorts for me and I wonder if that is attributable to the fact that it was my secret. I say this because now that I'm able to paint my toes, put on makeup once in a while, and wear some female undergarments to work, that fetish aspect has gone away. It's more just something that makes me feel good about myself. I guess I'm wondering if other crossdressers experienced their fetish transform into something more subdued when they begin to be open with people close to them. I view this as a healthy development for me."
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Snapchat Filters May 23, 2019

So what's up with those gender transforming Snapchat filters? Are they a blessing or a curse? In this week's episode we answer a listener question from Bridget who asks "I was wondering if you had an opinion on the new MtF and FtM Snapchat lenses. People on Twitter seem to be having a field day with them having fun. I was wondering what your thoughts were in it. Is it awesome, awful, or couldn’t care less. It seems like there is a lot of ways to look at this. On one hand it’s nice to get a 'helping hand' for selfies that can help your self esteem. In the other hand, I could see it as people making light of something that causes restless nights of in the trans community."
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For the Unhappy Cis Partner May 16, 2019

Has your significant other come out you as transgender? And you're flabbergasted? Maybe you think it's weird, or sinful, or even a personal attack. Maybe you're afraid for the future of your relationship. Well this episode is you. Today we're talking to the cis partners of trans people. Your partner has come out to you. You're bewildered, maybe angry, worried, scared. It's okay. The Gender Rebels are here.
Be sure to check out Psychology Today's therapist database.

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My Transie Sense is Tingling! May 09, 2019

How does transition change society's view of a person? In this episode we'll explore how transition can change a person's level of privilege. What do we gain? What do we lose?
Check out Dr. HD's blog and the two episodes we did with them. Here is who Jack Antanoff is. And here's who the Kids in the Hall are. You might also be curious about the Roubelad art party we mention. And be sure and check out the book Gift of Fear. And also you might enjoy Faith's essay "What I Dislike the Term TERF" and her Instagram.

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Photos of The Old You May 02, 2019

Awesome parents E & E asked if they should take down old pictures of their transgender daughter before she comes home for summer break. Faith talks about how it feels to see old photos of her from the bad old days before coming out.

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The Hugbox: Support vs. Honesty Apr 25, 2019

Is a hurtful truth helpful? Do supportive lies really benefit us? In this episode we'll explore the phenomenon of the "hug box," spaces, usually internet spaces, where positiveness is all pervasive.

If you'd like, check out the sub-reddits r/transpassing and r/transpositive.

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What If You Can't Escape Your Dead Name? Apr 18, 2019

No one wants to get called by their dead name. But what if you can't escape your former name? In this episode we answer the question "What do you do if someone in your life—coworkers, roommate, zeppelin maintenance technician—has your dead name and you still have to hear it all the time?"

Faith's sad instagram post that we mention at the top of the episode.

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Are Transgender People in League with Satan? Apr 11, 2019

In this episode we tackle the twisted world of Celebrity Transgender Conspiracy believers. Are Hollywood studios, the CIA, and many of our favorite stars actually involved in a widespread Satanic plot to poison minds with secret transgender operatives? Was Taylor Swift assigned male at birth? Is Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson actually a transman? Fear not, the Gender Rebels are on the case.

Check out our video on the Celebrity Transgender Conspiracy. And if you'd like you can read about that time Scarlett Johansson was going to play a transman. And also check out all the end of the world goodness of the Book of Revelation and the Book of Daniel (the four headed, four winged leopard monster can be found in Daniel 7:6).

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Should I Tell My Date I'm Trans? Apr 04, 2019

In this episode we answer a listener question from Bree who asks "What do you think about of disclosing you are trans up front when dating? Disclose or not? I feel like getting to know them a bit first is good but, I don't want to be accused of 'tricking' someone down the road."

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Faith's Transition Timeline: A Retrospective Mar 28, 2019

Does transition ever go exactly according to plan? In this episode, Faith and Kath go through the old "Transition Timeline" document that Faith had created prior to even starting HRT. We'll explore how sometimes transition can be smooth, other times life throws you a curve-ball, and how reality can often diverge from even the best laid plans.

Be sure and check out:
The spoons as energy metaphor.

Fresh Meat the British comedy series.

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How to be Trans on a Boat Mar 21, 2019

Being transgender isn't always easy. And that's just on land! What about on a boat? In this episode we answer a listener question from Jeff who writes "Cruises are a super fun and generally safe way to be your true self without worrying about who you know might see you, or whether someone is judging you, but there are some peculiarities. Namely, getting through security when your passport's gender marker or name doesn't match your gender presentation, going ashore in a culture which may not be as educated about trans issues, dealing with cruise lines' various policies about gender expression, and of course, the bathing suit dilemma. I would sooooo love to spend a day in a bikini in the Caribbean, but I'm deeply concerned about how I'll be treated by the cruise line, the ship's staff, and how to remain safely tucked so I'm not viewed as 'the freak on the boat' people are staring at.

Be sure and check out:

Rejected Gender Rebels Episode Ideas episode.

Industrial Thong. Our episode with lots of tips on tucking.

Devils on the Deep Blue Sea book about the cruise industry.

A Supposedly Fun Thing I'll Never Do Again by David Foster Wallace

Tina Fey's book Bossypants.

Why cruise ships fly flags of convenience like Panama and Liberia.
Wendover Productions' video about Maritime Law.

Article on specialty LGBTQ cruises.

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Being Transgender in the Star Wars Galaxy Mar 14, 2019

So with the Gender Rebels logo as it is, why don't we talk about Star Wars? This episode is inspired by iTunes reviewer Settlechaos who writes "First of all this podcast has nothing to do with Star Wars." Well, Settlechoas, that is about to change. In this episode we are looking at what life would be like for a transgender person, droid, clone, or alien in the Star Wars Galaxy. And by the way this episode will contain spoilers - in case you happen to be in that small Venn overlap of people who want to see the Star Wars films but just haven't quite managed to get around it to.

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Traveling While Trans Mar 07, 2019

Will transition change where you go on vacation? For this episode we answer a listener question from Jane who writes "How has transition change the places you go or the things that you do? It's pretty well known that not all places are welcoming of LGBT families. Are there places that you will not visit now, or places that you do visit now? Here is a personal example. Two years ago my family took a rode trip from our home in Washington State to Detroit and back. Last year we flew to Germany and visited many German towns and the city of Prague. A huge bucket list item for me is to see first hand the changes to Yellowstone National Park after the reintroduction of wolves. Are any of these trips something you would consider as an LGBT couple?"

For Americans be sure and check out the US State Department Travel Advisories Page and the State Department's advisory for LGBTQ travelers. Might be helpful to non-Americans too.
There is also the Transequality page on travel but it's most TSA stuff. You can also check out our video on the TSA.

And please don't go to Kiribati.

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Faith F's her F Feb 28, 2019

Facial feminization surgery can be life changing. But getting it can be complicated. In this week's episode Faith shares the story of her recent FFS consult, her own issues with dysphoria, and how she hopes this surgery will make life a little easier.
Be sure and check out our previous episode where we interviewed Sara who told us all about her FFS.
Here's an interesting article about how sometimes plastic surgeons can make all their patients look the same.

And check out music from fun, feminist punk band The Regrettes.

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Leelah Alcorn's Story Feb 21, 2019

TW: Discussion of suicide.
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LGBTQ people often have to deal with rejection, despair, or loneliness. Sometimes that can lead to a particularly dark place. In this episode we look at the story of transgender girl Leelah Alcorn who, after coming out to her religious parents, faced rejection, isolation, and abuse that led her to take her own life at the young age of 17.

If you or someone you know may be at risk of suicide, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255. If you’re a young LGBTQ person and need to talk to someone, call The Trevor Project’s 24-hour crisis hotline for youth at 1-866-488-7386. If you are a transgender person of any age, call the Trans Lifeline at 877-565-8860.

Other Resources:

Center Link: The Community of LGBT Centers: YouthLink

International Associate for Suicide Prevention

It Gets Better Project

Suicide Prevention Resource Center: Suicide Risk and Prevention for LGBT Youth

Soulforce. "The purpose of Soulforce is freedom for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people from religious and political oppression through the practice of relentless nonviolent resistance."

Links:

Human Rights Campaign's article "The Lies & Dangers of Reparative Therapy."

Article about suicide regret.
Some info on the Inquisition and the Tuskegee Syphilis Experiments.

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Passing? Thanks, But I'll Pass Feb 15, 2019

Who cares about passing? It's not everyone's goal and sometimes it's just a realistic goal. So how does that affect transition? This week we answer a question we got off twitter. The listener asks "I'm a transwoman and musician and podcaster and love your podcast. But I would love to have a conversation about being a transwoman that doesn't pass or care to, that deals with another side of the same situation you are in. Simply because I hear many instances that could potentially and do trigger and wish someone could interject at times to clarify. Also I'm not white and have a platform and am very visible. Could be a great talk on our podcast or yours."

Be sure and check out Faith's blog post on privilege.

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Gender Conformity Feb 07, 2019

Does being transgender mean you have to accept binary gender roles? In this episode we answer two different listener questions. Hanna writes "How does one know what to change when transitioning? This seems related to the pressure everyone feels on some level to embody the vague collective ideals of one's multiple social roles (gender or otherwise), but trans people have extra baggage from another role they inhabited before choosing to live a different one. How have you navigated this in your transition? Is there anything you started doing differently after transitioning only to realize it didn't really feel like you?" Riley writes "Do you think society puts unfair pressure on binary trans folx to uphold gender stereotypes, for fear of the perception that you're not putting enough effort into your gender presentation?"

And if you didn't grow up reading Mad Magazine, be sure and check out the comedy of Dick DeBartolo, who helped shape Faith's sense of humor.

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Kath's Transition Jan 31, 2019

What changes for a cis partner of someone who's transitioning? In this episode we answer a listener question from Jane who asks "Here is my question, and it is really for Kath...How did finding out Faith is transgender affect you? I think in many ways you have transitioned too, how has your transition gone?"
Also for the curious, here is the Wikipedia page for asymptote.

Also be sure and check out OSHA's page on proper silo safety or the University of Illinois own page on the topic. #pss #practicesilosafety.

You might also enjoy our episodes Passing, Pansexuality & Transdads, and Are We Gay?
And be sure and check out Transpantastic, a great podcast hosted by couple with similar circumstances.

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Bringing Others Into the Closet with You Jan 24, 2019

Is coming out to one person really coming out? Or are you just inviting them into the closet with you? In this episode we'll answer a listener question on the difficulties of only being out to some, but not all, the people in your life. Our listener asks "When I came out it was a huge strain on my relationship with my mother. Both my father and sister separately told me that one of the things that was a strain on my mom was the fact I wasn’t coming out to everyone, but it was put on everyone else to tell people (or not). This was a big emotional and mental burden for her she didn’t want to carry it. When you come out to someone you are there and somewhat prepared for the questions but are your friends family ready to answer questions? Because if they aren’t ready to handle it what happens when the person who just learned this has to process all this emotionally in a bubble?"

If you're in a similar situation, you might find PFLAG's PDF "Our Trans Loved Ones" to be a great resources for family who may need some basic info on transgender people and transition.

You might want to check out some of our other episodes that touch on a similar topic; Coming Out, Being a Partner in Limbo, and Should Faith Come Out to Her Grandma?

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Transition Envy Jan 17, 2019

Transition is already hard. Seeing other people's amazing results can sometimes make things even harder. In this episode we answer a question from a listener who writes "I have a partner who is trans masculine and has been on HRT for a year and just got top surgery two days ago. While watching them go through their transition I have come to the realization that I too am NOT cis. I now identify as GNC or non-binary/trans. I am now struggling with extreme gender dysphoria and even worse jealousy of my partner being so far in their transition. Do you have any tips on how to not let your jealousy of your partner's growth and transition get you down about yourself or make you resent them? I want to be 100% supportive of them but I find myself being so jealous of their new chest that I can't help but to cry about my own dysphoria in return."

Be sure and check out Maya V Henry's Instagram if you want to better understand one source of Faith's insecurity and transition envy.
And if you'd like to help advance the horizons of human knowledge, and your a partner of a transperson, check out this research project that needs your help.

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Does God Make Mistakes? Jan 10, 2019

Does transition mean going against God's plan? In this episode we answer a listener question from a transwoman. She asks "I am finally taking steps necessary to create the happiness and peace I need in my life through transition. I have come out to some people who are very close to me but have not come out to my parents. I have this itching feeling that my mom knows. She confronted my fiancé about me and one of her comments was 'I’m okay with being gay but transgender is something different. God doesn’t make mistakes when it comes to gender.' What is your take on religion and gender?" So does God mistakes with gender?

Be sure and check out Austen Hartke's website and his book "Transforming: The Bible and the Lives of Transgender Christians."

He has also done some thoughtful and fun talks like one the Gender Rebels attended at the Philly Transgender Wellness Conference.

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HRT: Should I Tell My Parents? Jan 03, 2019

How open should you be about expressing your true gender if people aren't supportive? In this episode we answer a listener question from Quinn who writes "I'm planning on getting HRT, and I really don't want to hide it from my parents, but I think I will have to. I just don't feel comfortable with talking to them about my gender because they said they weren't ready for the change. I am going to go through with getting HRT no matter what, but should I let them know? I don't want to hide this from them, but if I tell them I don't know if they will let me go through with it, even though I am an adult and get to make my own medical decisions."

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Dating as a Crossdresser Dec 27, 2018

Dating is already hard enough. Adding crossdressing to the mix can make things even more difficult. In this episode we answer a listener question from Natasha who asks "I'm a cis male, straight crossdresser with no intent to transition. After purging and buying clothes/breastforms/makeup for the what feels like the 20th time in a row, I'm done suppressing the femme side of me. The problem lies in relationships; while I've had several girls crush on me, I've never gotten the courage to ask any of them out for fear of ruining the relationship, or them not accepting me. I don't want to be the stereotypical "crossdressing husband/boyfriend" whose girl 'puts up with it and survives.' My question is: What tips would you give a straight crossdresser for finding a potential partner?"

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Erections & Squirrels Dec 20, 2018

Hormones can change a lot. But how much do they affect ones sexual arousal? In this episode we'll answer two different (but related) questions from listeners Sammie and Cici. They write: "We are a cis woman and trans woman in the early stages of hormone therapy and have a question for you: Erections!? Sammie’s doc told her that the end of erections is how they judge the success of the hormone therapy! Yikes! Maybe this question is too X-rated for the podcast but we are feeling conflicted about parting with Sammie’s erections.

One thing Sammie has been and is still hoping for is the"remarkable clearing of the mind,"the "sense of relief" described by trans women "that comes from eliminating their masculine sex drive, which had previously interrupted their thoughts like a car alarm that couldn't be shut off." Sammie wonders, will the “Squirrel!” like effect of girls' curves in yoga pants ever diminish? Is there tranquility ahead? Would love to hear the experience and thoughts of you, Kath and Faith, as well as our fellow gender rebels in podcast land."

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Transgender and Gay Dec 13, 2018

There's a lot of letters in LGBTQAI+. But people waren't limited to just one. In this episode, Kath and Faith discuss Faith's own history growing up not only transgender but also gay.
Be sure to check out Matt Baume's YouTube channel for a lot of great videos about the history of LGBTQ representation in popular media, especially classic American sitcoms. Here's his video Ellen [DeGeneres] Gives America a Crash Course in Coming Out.
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How Can I Be More Than a Burden to My Cis Partner? Dec 06, 2018

Relationships are already hard. But when one partner transitions they can sometimes get harder. In this episode we answer a listener question from someone who asks "What have you seen trans people do to support and enrich the lives of their cis partners? How can I be more than a burden?"
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Should Faith Come Out to Her Grandma? Nov 29, 2018

Coming out to family is hard. But what about extended family members that you're not close with? In this week's episode we'll tackle the important question of whether Faith should come out as a transwoman to her highly conservative and religious grandmother. Is it worth it to keep things simple so other family members don't have to remember who you're out to yet? Or should one just not try and rock the familial boat? What do you think?

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Dealing with Persistent Misgendering Nov 22, 2018

No one likes to be misgendered. But what point do you stop being patient with people? In episode we answer a listener question from James who asks "When does the grace period end? I’ve come out as trans to everyone in my life at this point, but there are a few who still aren’t getting it. They use the wrong pronouns, name, and never apologize. It’s been several months now and these 'problem people' are unavoidable. They’re at my work. In my family. And even a roommate. How many times do you kindly correct someone before you’re allowed to lose your patience?"

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Being a Nonbinary Therapist and Faith Gets Electrolysis Nov 15, 2018

What does transgirl Faith think of her first electrolysis? In this two question episode we'll first answer a listener question from Danika who is a non-binary therapist with anxiety about how their presentation might affect their work. And we'll also discuss Faith's thoughts on getting her facial hair the electrolysis treatment.
Be sure and check out Dara Hoffman-Fox's page for some great NB content. And check out our earlier episode where we talked to Sarah about her electrolysis experience.

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How NOT to Come Out to Your Significant Other Nov 08, 2018

Coming out to a partner can be difficult. But there are ways that you can make it way more difficult for yourself. In this episode Faith and Kath discuss some really, really bad ways to come out to an SO.
Be sure and check out Dara Hoffman-Fox's page for some great NB content.

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Are You Intimidated By Cis People? Nov 01, 2018

Presenting as female is no small feat, even for cis women. Transwomen sometimes have a lot of catching up to do in the "living as a female" department. And cis women have had their entire lives to figure it out! Does that intimidate Faith?

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Will My Halloween Costume "Out" Me As Trans? Oct 25, 2018

(Note: skip to 16:29 for the BEST costume for closeted/ questioning MtFs seeking last-minute ideas.) Listener Jaylah is still male-presenting, and she asks if she can use a Halloween party as an opportunity to girl up for the first time. Her important colleagues and awesome new friends will be at the party. Or will it raise too many eyebrows? The tricky theme for the party just increases the challenge level. We say go for it, but of course you need an awesome costume, so we give lots of good suggestions. The Gender Rebels believe in you, Jaylah!

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Does Transition Change Your Hogwarts House? Oct 18, 2018

Listener Vanessa is asking the hard questions! What if you used to be Gryffindor but now come up Ravenclaw? Are all transpeople automatically Gryffindor? What is the Sorting Hat's actual methodology of personality assessment? Is the Sorting Hat clairvoyant? And the name "Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry" is so binary. What do enbies do?
Be sure to also check out Faith's piece Being Transgender at Hogwarts.

Get sorted at Pottermore. (They make you login first, but it's quick.)

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Awesome Announcement OMG Oct 17, 2018

Just listen, silly!

To Stealth,or Not To Stealth? Sep 27, 2018

Not everyone who CAN be stealth WANTS to be stealth. Thanks to a great listener question from Devin, Faith and Kath discuss the pros and cons of being stealth, including the effect of social media. What's the best way to make this decison? What do you think? Are you stealth, or loud & proud?

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Interviewing & Starting Jobs Sep 13, 2018

Should you come out during the interview? On the first day? In the first month? Never? Changing jobs is extra tricky outside the gender binary. Whether your work is blue-collar, white-collar, pink-collar, or other, Faith and Kath discuss all the factors to consider when making big changes in your professional life.

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When It's Time To Take The Makeup Off Sep 04, 2018

You know that complex emotion, when you have to change out of your real presentation and go back to your assigned presentation? It feels worse than just changing clothes. It's so unspeakably bad/ sad/ wrong/ unfair. Kath and Faith try to come up with a name that encompasses all these nasty painful facets.

Big thanks to listener Xan for the question. She recommends Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss, and the Fight for Trans Equality by Sarah McBride.

Baby Faith looking super-cute back in the day.

Boy Meets Girl is Michelle Hendley's awesome movie. Girl Meets Boy is... not.

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Illegal Silicone Injections Aug 23, 2018

Lots of gruesome details in this one. But we wanted to be really sure we convinced you that silicone injections from an unlicensed practitioner in, like, a hotel room?? Bad idea. Faith already knew this thanks to TS Roadmap. We hope you did too.

Trans Wellness Conference, Philadelphia 2018 Aug 09, 2018

The amazing people at the Mazzoni Center in Philadelphia have done it again. They organize the Philadelphia Trans Wellness Conference every year. This is a gathering of trans and cis doctors, lawyers, therapists, scientists, professors, vendors, social workers, health insurance insiders, artists, activists, poets, writers, YouTubers, podcasters, clergy, parents, nurses, comedians, entrepeneurs, and even a witch. All these fine people come together to work towards a world with greater access to resources and acceptance of transfolks. They present workshops, give talks, throw parties, and discuss and celebrate YOU. We describe our experience of our first year at the conference: the talks we heard (Seeing Myself in the Bible: Gender Minorities in Scripture, My Journey With Illegal Silicone Injections, Communication With Your Cis Partner, Getting FFS and Breast Implants Covered By Insurance, The Road To Desired Vocal Identity), the events we attended, and the joy of meeting some of our listeners in person! We hope we see you there next year!

What's It Like To Be Cis? And Other Gender Philosophy Aug 03, 2018

Our perceptions are limited by our own lived experience, but it's still good to know how other people experience the world. At least, as close as is possible. In this episode, listener Lee asks Kath "What's it like to be cis?" Another thought puzzle: what does one do whenvthey know they're different somehow, but none of the labels apply? What then?

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Reverting to Boy Mode As Needed Jul 17, 2018

When your family won't accept your true gender identity, but you don't want to cut them out of your life, what can you do? Listener Melanie asks if she can be on HRT but switch to boy mode as needed. She loves her family, but knows they won't support her transistion. She asks "Is it possible to be on HRT, but revert back to boy mode passably enough for the purposes of semiannual family meetings?"

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How to Support a Trans Partner Jul 12, 2018

Being the partner of a transgender person can be complex. All relationships involve work, but how does having a transgender partner ? In this episode we'll answer a listener question from Catherine whose partner is dealing with some issues unique to trans people. What do you do when your partner is stressed because everyone sees them as only their transition and either stares or offers constant, unwanted niceness?

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Aunt Nina's Rant Jul 05, 2018

Why are some people so out of touch? It's 2018 right? In this episode we'll give a point by point response to a letter one listener's Aunt Nina sent her. We'll give a point-by-point response to every homophobic, transphobic, outdated, bigoted, or just jerky comment in the letter.

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Special Kath-Only Microepisode: For Cis Straights At Their First Pride Jun 14, 2018

We ARE on vacation, but Kath had to make this microepisode for the cis and straight people who may be attending Pride celebrations this month. Here's what to do to be a great ally-- and what to avoid! Play it for your cool ally friends. Happy Pride!

Invictus Animus' amazing article Why "Ally" Is A Verb Not A Noun

Katie Rain Hill Jun 01, 2018

Author, activist, and super wonderful fantastic person Katie Rain Hill sits down with the Gender Rebels for the second part of our 100th episode. We'll talk about growing up transgender in a religious, military family, transitioning at a young age, coming out, why listening to oposition matters, and the importance recycling bins at conferences.

Be sure to check out Katie's memoir Rethinking Normal on Amazon (we can't recommend this book enough! You should buy it and read it).
Also be wowed by the Barney's Spring Campaign 2014 that Katie modelled for.
And here's a link to the WPATH standards of care.

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Michelle Hendley May 31, 2018

Actress, star of Boy Meets Girl, and all around aweseome person Michelle Hendley sits down with the Gender Rebels for the first part of our 100th episode. We'll talk dating after transition, navigating the gaming world as a trans woman, the best pizza in NYC, and potential proof that CERN has led us into an alternate dimension.
We discuss a lot in this episode, so here are all the links:

Michelle Hendley's YouTube

Boy Meets Girl trailer

Everybody loved Boy Meets Girl

No joke, everyone.

Seriously, everyone.

They LOVED it. Becasue it's awesome.

All The Little Things We Kill teaser trailer

Even Brad Pitt endured a lot of rejection in his career.

Michelle’s Twitch stream

L&B Spumoni Gardens is Michelle's favorite sit-down pizza in NYC

2 Brothers is perfectly decent $1 pizza to keep you company while stumbling home after an awesome night out

BZ Grill Greek food place in Astoria is the best gyro (/yee-roh/ or if you must, /gear-roh/)

Michelle Hendly: The Biopic will star either Eve Lindley or Hari Nef

The Mandela Effect

Did CERN cause the Mandela Effect? (Answer: possibly. Skip to 5:37.)

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Rejected Gender Rebels Episodes May 24, 2018

With almost a hundred episodes, we've covered a lot of topics. But, there are some ideas and topics that aren't quite up to snuff when it comes to putting out a new Gender Rebels episode. So, as we begin celebrating the major milestone of 100th episodes, we thought it would be fun to share some of our rejected episode ideas.

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Intersex Lives May 17, 2018

What does it mean to be intersex? How common is being intersex? How does being intersex relate to being transgender? And should intersex people be included in the rainbow flag community? In this episode we explore some the many issues faced by intersex people today.

Be sure and check out Delaney King's amazing Twitter thread that started it all. Also here is an easy, straightforward Intersex 101 article. Faith mentioned Olympic controversies, including doping among East German athletes and their current efforts to address intersex athletes. Also check out The Gender Puzzle documentary.

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Clocking May 10, 2018

What is clocking? This week we discuss clocking; from accidental passing fails to horrible jerk people. We'll talk ways to deal with being clocked, how to react, and how to cope with this awful hurtful thing that transgender people sometimes have to deal with.

Check out Faith's transition video on the Gender Rebels YouTube chanel. Be sure and subscribe!

We mention our episode on being part time-- checkit out!
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Being a Partner in Limbo May 03, 2018

How do you date someone who doesn't know if they're trans? This week we answer a listener question from Beth who writes "What advice would you or Kath have for a partner trying to cope with a transperson living in the closet and living in uncertainty about whether HRT or transition will ever happen?"

Check out Faith's transition video on the Gender Rebels YouTube chanel. Be sure and subscribe!

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Listener Question: Am I a Chaser? Apr 26, 2018

Does being attracted to a transgender woman make you a chaser? In this episode we read a listener question from Stephen who asks "I met this girl online and we started dating. A couple dates in, she tells me that she's trans. I was totally okay with it, and so we continued dating. We shortly thereafter ended up in the bedroom, and at the danger of being crass, dare I say that it was probably one of the best experiences I'd had in that department. As time went on, our relationship devolved for reasons unrelated and came to an end, but it left me more sexually open and interested.So, I tried my hand at dating men, since they share some of the parts that were fun, but I didn't like it, because as it turns out, I'm not into men. While I still very much enjoy cis women as well, I think I've grown a preference towards trans women. I definitely think that I go out of my way to be respectful and a gentleman to anyone I date, regardless of where they are on the spectrum. Does this make me a chaser, and if so, do I just stop attempting to date trans folks?"

We're fans of Her Story, starring Jen Richards.

There's plenty of talk about fetish porn in this episode, but you're going to have to do your own research there.
Check out our episode about Chasers.
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Does Faith Hate Transgender Media? Apr 19, 2018

Do you watch movies and TV shows with trasngender characters and themes? In this episode we'll discuss how representation of transgender people has changed and evolved over the last few decades.
Check out the YA novel Dreadnought about a transgender superhero. And be sure to check out Eddie Izzard's hilarious comedy special "Dress to Kill."
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How to Take Good Photos Apr 12, 2018

Everyone loves to look great in pictures, but how do you make that happen? In this episode we'll discuss some great tips and tricks for making you look your best in photos.
For the best in pictures of Faith and New York scenery, be sure to follow Faith on Instagram here. Also here's Faith's infographic on how to take great photos.
Check out Vertiasium's video about how the functioning of our lazy brains makes us like certain photos more than others.

For reference here is actress Reese Witherspoon's IMDB page which includes forty-one different feature film appearances.

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Parents Coming Out Transgender: Part 2 Apr 05, 2018

Coming out transgender is already difficult. Having kids can make it even harder. In this episode we discuss some of the difficulties inherent in come out as a parent and provide some how-to recommendations for helping to make the coming out process a little easier.
Check out Cassie Brighter's "Coming Out Trans to Your Children: A Step-by-Step Guide."
Here is a resource for finding a family therapist.
Be sure and check out the children's book Red: A Crayon's Story and the YA superhero novel Dreadnaught.

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Parents Coming Out Transgender: Part 1 Mar 29, 2018

Coming out transgender is already difficult. Having kids can make it even harder. In this episode we discuss some of the difficulties inherent in come out as a parent. We'll also discuss some stories of parents coming out to younger and older kids and how attitudes can change over time.

Here are the stories we reference in the episode if you want to explore them further:
My Father is Now a Woman by Katheryn Leehane
When My Father Came Out as Transgender by Johua Hewitt
It Happened to Me: My Father Transitioned When I Was a Kid and It Was Nothing Like "Transparent" by Sara Bibel
Transgender Parent: Child's Journey When Mom Becomes Dad by Susan Donaldson James

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How to Get on Hormones Mar 22, 2018

Taking hormones can be a huge part of starting transition, but how does one get HRT? In this episode we answer a listener question from Mia who asks "I want to get on hormones, but am having trouble figuring out how to get access to hormones? Who can I talk to about this?"
If you are in the greater NYC area, check out Callen-Lorde Community Health Center. Planned Parenthood also provides HRT services among other important health care work. You can also search for transgender health care providers here.

Our first episode with Dr. HD of Hormones Demystfied has a lot of good info on HRT.

Check out the Center for Transgender Health which has a page on the Transgender Standards of Care.

(And a clarification regarding psychologists and prescriptions: in some states, psychologists can prescribe medications. However, it's only for medications that treat psychiatric conditions, not HRT.)
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Do You Miss Anything about Living as a Guy? Mar 15, 2018

It's amazing to transition, but is everything always perfect afterward? This week we answer a listener question from Nora. She asks "Is there anything about being a cis male that you miss? Please don’t misconstrue this as 'do you regret transitioning?' That question would be rude, inconsiderate, and non of my business. And it’s not a sociological question such as 'Don’t you wish women earned as much as men?' I’m just wondering about day-to-day stuff where there’s a (generalized) difference between the way women and men do things, or the way they act.

As we discuss in the episode, check out this article on Everyday Feminism about women's secondary status in public places.

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What Cis People Shouldn't Say Mar 08, 2018

What would you hate to hear when you come out transgender? In this episode we talk about all the wrong things that cis people sometimes say be they ignorant, condescending, or just misguided.

Also be sure and check out our What Are Cis People Thinking episode. And if you're looking for resources for the cis folk in your life, direct them to PFLAG as a way to start their search.

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Being Transgender at the Gym Mar 01, 2018

Finding the will to get in shape can be tough, doubly so for transgender people who may be nervous about going to a gym with binary changing rooms. In this episode we answer a listener question from Bree who asks "Do you have any tips for going to the gym? Despite having been full-time for almost a year, I am terrified of going to they gym. My problem is I just don't know how to approach the gym and I am dragging my heels getting back in there because of it. Any advice?”

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So What's Hair Transplant Surgery Like? Feb 22, 2018

How does it feel to get a hair transplant procedure? In this episode Faith describes her recent procedure to help correct a male patterned baldness issue. We'll discuss preperations, the precedure itself, and the recovery. Also check out our Hair Transplant episode for information on finding a good doctor.

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Relationships & Transition Feb 16, 2018

How does transition affect romantic relationships? How does one keep a relationship strong after one partner comes out as transgender? In this special Valentines episode we'll answer our most often asked listener question.

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Impostor Syndrome Feb 08, 2018

Are you transgender but sometimes feel like an imposter? In this episode we answer a listener question from Ashley who writes "How do you deal with impostor syndrome? I'm six weeks into HRT and while I still have to present male most of the time, I'm generally hopeful for the future. But some days (rarely) I wake up and ask 'What am I doing?' I know in my heart of hearts that I'm a trans woman and that transition is for me, but some times I feel like a total fake.'"

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HRT in the Closet Feb 02, 2018

Will taking hormones inadvertantly out you? In this episode we answer a question from Dace who asks "If I’m on HRT will it become obvious to everyone? Is it a good idea or even possible to be on HRT and hide it from some people (i.e. family and friends who I think wouldn’t be ok with it)?"

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Hair Transplants Jan 25, 2018

Male pattern baldness can be the bane of a transwoman's existance. Faith has struggled with this for years. In this episode we'll talk about the solutions she's looked into, including wigs, drugs, and surgeries. We'll explore all the information on hair transplant surgery that Faith found including various methods, different doctors, psudoscience, and more.

Be sure and give our wigs episode a listen. Here are some tips for how to tell fake Yelp reviews from the real ones. If you're looking for info on hair tranplants, be sure and talk to the people over at r/tressless and the Hair Transplant Network.
Check out Faith's blogpost on hair transplants for links to all the doctors mentioned in this episode.

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Developing a Sense of Style Jan 18, 2018

A sense of style can show the world who you are, but how do you figure out your own sense of style? In this episode we answer a listener question from Steph who asks "I am a primarily feminine non-binary individual, born male. How does one go about developing a sense of style for one's new self? I am trying to learn what feels right for me, but I do not have the education of someone that grew up female. Also, do you have any advice for growing a brand new wardrobe?" We'll talk about finding different looks, keys to a robust wardrobe, and how to have fun figuring out your own sense of style.

Check out Faith's Pinterest for ideas on business goth, and check out British TV show Fresh Meat for Oregon's cool outfits. Reddit Makeup Addiction is a great resource for learning makeup basics (and complex stuff too). Also be sure and check out our Feminize for Free episode for some great frugal fashion ideas.

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Internalized Transphobia Jan 11, 2018

(Content warning: discussion of transphobia.) Internalized transphobia can cause a mess of negative emotions. In this episode we discuss all the dark, inner thoughts that transgender people sometimes grapple with when they feel negatively about other trans people or themselves.

Check out one of John Green's video on Imagining Others Complexly. And YouTuber Vihart's video on realizing other people are not us.

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The Endgame Jan 04, 2018

What does it feel like when transition is done? A gender transition is a slow process involving myriad steps like hormones, coming out, and even surgery. But what is life like for transgender people who have completed every item on their transition checklist? What does it feel like when you've reached transition's endgame?
Faith's book, American Transgirl, available now!

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Transgender Friends Dec 28, 2017

How do trans get to be friends with other trans people? Everyone loves friends, especially friends with whom we share common experiences. But transgender people are a small percentage of the total population. How do you find good transgender friends to hang out with so you can talk HRT, surgeries, or coming out?
Faith's book, American Transgirl, available now!
Faith met some transfriends at URNotAlone
The good trans subreddits:

A Facebook group called Transgender Friends

Meetup.com's options for transgender people around the world

Do you live in Minnesota? You don't hear this often in December but YOU'RE IN LUCK.

Scrupulous research shed no light on the question of whether the Unabomber is transgender. But we did find this song. (Warning: it's terrible.)
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Endocrinology Questions: Part Two Dec 21, 2017

How do hormones really affect the body? Are injectables better than patches or pills? Are there potential dangers? In this episode, the first in a 2-part series, we'll speak with endocrinologist Dr. HD and bombard him with all our questions about hormones, HRT, and how they affect your endocrine system and the rest of your body.
Check out Dr. HD's blog Hormones Demystified for lots more great info, especially the one entitled Why I Wish All Of My Patients Were Transgender. Another really good post is Top 5 Reasons Your Doctor Is Quitting.

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Endocrinology Questions: Part One Dec 14, 2017

How do hormones really affect the body? Are injectables better than patches or pills? Are there potential dangers? In this episode, the first in a 2-part series, we'll speak with endocrinologist Dr. HD and bombard him with all our questions about hormones, HRT, and how they affect your endocrine system and the rest of your body.
Check out Dr. HD's blog Hormones Demystified for lots more great info, especially the one entitled Why I Wish All Of My Patients Were Transgender. Another really good post is Top 5 Reasons Your Doctor Is Quitting.

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Chasers Dec 07, 2017

Who are chasers? Are they as creepy as people say? In this episode we'll dive into the twisted world of chasers, those men who fetishize transgender women and seem to be everywhere on the internet. We'll talk who they are, why they act that way, and most importantly how to deal with them.
Be sure and check out urnotalone if you've never been there. Faith found it to be a great resource back in the day.

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How to Choose Your Name Nov 30, 2017

How do transgender people go about choosing a new name? In this episode we answer a listener question from Maddie. She asks "How did you ultimately decide on your female name? Did you create a list of names? Was it a painfully obvious choice that you'd known for years? Did you choose something that still had a connection to your male name? Or did you just try on different names until one finally stuck and felt right?"

Be sure and check out the Social Security names database if you're looking to figure out common names from around the time you were born. And be sure and check out Faith's new novel American Transgirl.

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Non-Binary Talk with Avery Nov 23, 2017

What's it like being non-binary in a world that's far too stuck in the gender binary? In this episode we talk with our friend Avery. They explain the issues non-binary people face shopping for clothes, looking for a job, deciding to physically transition, finding language to express themselves, and fitting in in the fitting in to the LGBTQ community.
Be sure and check out our other episode featuring Avery, Everything in Between. And also check out this helpful tutorial about turning men's band shirts into slim fitting, curvier shirts.
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Transposeur Nov 16, 2017

It's great when cis people are trans allies. But can you screw up being an ally? Will people think you're trans if you join in the fight? Will you make it too much about you? In this episode we answer a listener question from Sarah who asks "As an ally, I worry about potentially falling into a cultural appropriation trap. Am I sending a transmission through some of these choices? I don't care whether or not people in general wonder if I'm trans, but, I also don't want to end up centering myself in the process. In other words...I don't want to be a Rachel Dolezal."
Check out wikipedia if you want to read to sordid tale of Rachel Doezal. Also here's the list of films featuring a "White Savior" narrative. In this episode we mention Callen Lorde Community Health Center, an LGBTQ health center in NYC that provides care regardless of ability to pay. They do amazing, sorely needed work for vulnerable communities. You can click here to donate and help support their work.
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Picking Up a Transmission Nov 09, 2017

What do you do if you see another transgender person out in the world? Do you approach, compliment their look, and hope to maybe make a cool, new trans friend? Or should you let them be? In this episode we'll discuss the tricky situation that can happen if you find yourself unexpectedly face to face with another transgender person in the wild.
In this episode we mention Callen Lorde Community Health Center, an LGBTQ health center in NYC that provides care regardless of ability to pay. They do amazing, sorely needed work for vulnerable communities. You can click here to donate and help support their work. Here are some other LGBTQ charaties as well.
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Surprising Things About Transition Nov 02, 2017

We don't always know what gender transition will bring? Sure, we can anticipate HRT, coming out, a new wardrobe, maybe even surgeries. But what about those things that we just can't anticipate that throw us a bit of a curveball during transition? In this episode, transgirl Faith tells about some surprising things she discovered about herself and the world during transition.
In this episode we mention Callen Lorde Community Health Center, an LGBTQ health center in NYC that provides care regardless of ability to pay. They do amazing, sorely needed work for vulnerable communities.
Also be sure and check out our episode on Coming Out at Work.
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Transgender Halloween Adventures Oct 26, 2017

Halloween can be an amazing time for transgender people. It can provide an opportunity to dip your toe into coming out and to present how you've always wanted to without fear of judgement or rejection. But, Halloween can also be a time for inadvertently offensive costumes. In this episode we answer a listener question from Shayla, who asks about how to do a feminine-presenting costume without accidentally offending the transgender people in her life. We'll also share some listerner stories about their own Halloween adventures.
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Street Harassment Oct 19, 2017

Street harrassment and unwanted sexual advances are awful. In this episode we answer a lister question from Amy who asks "When it comes to creepy guys hitting on you, how do you deal with the dual feelings of 'Omg, maybe I'm a woman now?' with 'Omg, guys are fucking scum!'" We'll talk harrassment, unwanted sexual advances, and tips to help keep you safe from this awful type of social interaction.
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Transgender Life and Social Media Oct 12, 2017

Social media can be a tricky place for transgender or queer people. This week we answer a listener question from Rachel. She asks about running multiple accounts on Facebook when you're not fully out or using a new name when you've not changed it legally. So how are transgender people to navigate Facebook and other social media avenues?

Make sure your Facebook profile is 100% private and that no one can tag you without your permission. Also be sure to follow Faith on Instagram and follow the Gender Rebels on Tumblr.
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Coming Out in a Tough Situation- featuring Brooke Guinan Oct 05, 2017

Coming out is hard, and a non-supportive situation only makes it harder. In this episode we answer a question a lot of listeners have asked: How do you come out when your family, friends, co-workers, and neighborhood may not be supportive? To get some insight from someone who did just that, we talk with Brooke Guinan. She's the first openly transgender firefighter in the FDNY, the New York City Fire Department. We'll learn about this third-generation firefighter who grew up steeped in tradition, and how she found the courage to come out and be her true self.
Be sure and check out the new documentary film, Woman on Fire, which tells Brooke's story. It was awarded an Official Selection at DOC NYC. We saw an advanced copy and this movie is funny, heartfelt, and moving. Check out the trailer here or watch now on iTunes.
Also, Brooke mentioned GSA, Gay Student Alliance Network, which is a student-led organization dedicated to helping LGBTQ junior high and high school students. They support each other and provide safe spaces to be who they are.
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Am I Transgender Enough? Sep 28, 2017

How do you know you're transgender or ready for transition? In this episode we answer a question a lot of listeners have asked. Do the thoughts and feelings I have make me transgender? What if I'm not ready for that? Am I really transgender enough to transition? Other trans people I've seen seem so much more advanced than me. On this episode we'll discuss how to deal with dysphoria and questions about whether transition is right for you.
Check out New Gender Workbook by the always amazing Kate Bornstein. Also, You and Your Gender Identity: A Guide to Discovery by Dara Hoffman Fox.
Here's a link to the DSM V. This one's big and expensive. Don't buy it, but if you see it in the reference section of your library and have an hour to kill, it's fun to flip through. "Gender Dysphoria" is what we usually talk about on TGR, but the whole book is pretty cool, according to Kath.
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Part Time Sep 21, 2017

What does it mean to be a "part time" transgender person? In this episode we'll discuss the difference between being part time and full time. We'll talk what it means to live part time and discuss the costs and benefits of being out only some of the time to only some of the people in your life.

If you are thinking about harming yourself, please, please, please reach out for help by calling the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-8255 or the Trans Lifeline - 877-565-8860. You are not alone and you are worthwhile.

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Fat Redistribution Sep 14, 2017

What can hormone replacement therapy (HRT) really do? In this episode we answer a listener question from Sabene. She asks "Once I start on female hormones, will there really be a 'fat redistribution?' Will those fat cells in my belly call a moving company and haul ass down to my ass?". We'll discuss HRT, body shape and whether HRT will really let your cells haul ass around your body.
Here's the famous chart showing effects of HRT over time for MtFs, including, yes, fat redistribution.
You might aslo want to check out our episodes on Feminizing for Free and Shapewear.

And if you're in the greater New York area, why not stop by the Alley Pond Adventure Course where you can learn to overcome your fear by jumping off a 40-foot telephone pole. You'll survive. Faith did. (Kath chickened out.) Have faith.

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Fear. Sep 07, 2017

Transition can be scary. Transgender people face fear of rejection, fear of loneliness, fear of poverty. They fear for their safety. In this episode, we answer a listener question from Sabene who asks "How do you combat and overcome that fear? I am really struggling with that right now. I mean, it's almost pathological. And so I'd love to get your points of view and your experiences. I have to get over this hurdle... and I don't know if I ever will."
Some songs that deal honestly with mental illness (not that transgender people are mentally ill) and fear, and might prove inspirational, include Better Son/Daughter by Rilo Kiley, Bravado by Lorde (again with the Lorde), and Silk by Wolf Alice.

Also check out Faith's review of Boy Meets Girl featuring the wonderful trans actress Michelle Hendley.

And if you're in the greater New York area, why not stop by the Alley Pond Adventure Course where you can learn to overcome your fear by jumping off a 40-foot telephone pole. You'll survive. Faith did. (Kath chickened out.) Have faith.

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Coming Out Transgender at Work Sep 01, 2017

Coming out at work is a major step in transition. How does one even start? In this episode, we'll discuss some ways to help your workplace transition go smoothly, peacefully, and as stressfree as possible. We'll talk planning, working with your organization and supervisor, dealing with problems and more.

Check out Faith's Guide to Coming Out at Work. Here is Faith's coming out memo/email that went out company-wide, her own workplace transition plan, and a sample workplace transition policy that she helped write.
Lamda Legal and the ACLU both may be resources if you encounter employment discrimination. Also check out the US Labor Laws, as they can vary from place to place.
Also check out the Lorde song Bravado, which helped Faith screw up the courage to come out to HR.

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Everything In Between Aug 25, 2017

What does it mean to have a non-binary gender identity? In this episode, we talk with Avery who identifies as non-binary/genderqueer. We talk with them about the joys and frustrations of being non-binary, what it's like coming out, how fluid a concept gender really is, how we can all help make the world a friendlier place for non-binary folks and more.

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Choosing Your Label Aug 17, 2017

How can an LGBTQ person figure out what label really works for them? In this episode, we answer a listener question from Sasha. She asks "Faith, you've mentioned several times that you spent many years identifying as a cross dresser and some time identifying dual gender. I'm wondering if you could share more about that time of your life and what that experience was like for you." Faith tells the story of her own journey through the labels, what labels mean, and how you can start to figure out who you are.
Check out urnotalone and tsroadmap - two early websites Faith frequented in her early days. Also,be sure and check out the the famous K.D. Lang and Cindy Crawford Vanity Fair cover. And perhaps you'll find some solace in the song Ring of Keys from the Broadway musical Fun Home .

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Feminize for Free Aug 10, 2017

Creating a new look isn't cheap, especially if your goal is to be more feminine. This week, we answer a question from listener Zoelle who asks "What are some feminizing tips for looks and clothing for someone who can't afford clothes or accessories?" In this episode we'll share some great ways to feminize your look for free and for super cheap. Because no matter the contents of their pocket book, everyone deserves to look great and express who they are. And we'd love to hear your tips too! Share them with us by email or on Twitter with the hashtag #FreeFeminize.
Check out Sephora or Harmon Face Values for free makeup samples, or check out Wet & Wild cosmetics at your local drug store or supermarket. Reddit's /r/crossdressing and /r/MtF for tips and info. Also be sure and check out our friend Jess at the podast Transpantastic.

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Electrolysis: Destroyer of Hairs Aug 04, 2017

The best way to rid yourself a nasty case of beard is electrolysis. To get the skinny on this procedure, we talk to Sara, a transgender woman who's personally had thousands of hairs ripped out of her face thanks to the magic of science. We'll talk about the costs, the effects, the pain (ouch), and what to expect when you go in for your electrolysis appointment.

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Are We Gay? Jul 27, 2017

What do you do when your boyfriend decides to transition? In this episode cis girl Kath discusses how it feels when your straight male partner lets you know they're a transgender woman. What's it like going from a simple straight relationship with a guy to a gay relationship with a girl? Does that make her gay now? Does it really matter?

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Facial Feminization Surgery (FFS) Jul 20, 2017

Facial Feminization Surgery (FFS) is a tool that some transgender women utilize. To learn more about this surgery, we'll talk to Sara who had FFS. We'll discuss the various surgical procedures, how to find a good doctor, costs involved, what recovery is like, and what results can be exected.

Check out Jane Krakowski and Charlize Theron's perfect noses (at least according to Faith). Oona Chaplin from Game of Thrones, who is lucky enough to resemble our guest Sarah. Here are some pictures of nasal surgery spacers, once of which does sort of resemble a surfboard. Plus here's a website where you can see what celebrities you look like (though we make no claims as to the quality of their algorithm).

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The Ins & Outs of Female Voice Jul 13, 2017

Voice can be a huge stubling block for transgender women. In this episode we answer a listener question from Kimberly who worries that voice is her biggest obstacle to passing. Kimberly also asks us how Faith feels about her voice, especially when considering how podcasting is such a voice-based medium.

Check out Zoe Alexandra's YouTube video "How to a Achieve a Natural Female Voice" as a good place to start a YouTube binge watch on this subject. TS Roadmap is a classic of info for people who are in any stage of transition. Be sure to check out our episode on voice feminization surgery. Why not listen to Kath's other podcast But I Digress. Also check out the episode of Hey You Know It podcast that we were on.

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Legal Questions for Transfolk Jul 06, 2017

When it comes to the law, transgender people face unique challenges. To get some insight on name changes, ID updates, discrimination, and other potentially tough-to navigate-legal questions, we spoke with our friend Caleb Arring. Not only is he a transgender man, he's also a bonifide attorney.

Check out Caleb's wonderfully informative podcast, Beyond Gender. For US & Canadian name change resources, visit Dr. Becky. San Francisco's National Center For Lesbian Rights (NCLR) will do all the name change paperwork for you! For our Empire State listeners, here is New York State's name change oetition template. If your local DMV is being a butthead, check out the Transgender Law Center or your local ACLU.

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Are You a Real Girl? Jun 29, 2017

Let's face it, no one wants to be asked if they're a "real girl." In this episode the Gender Rebels answer question from listeners Laura Jean and Nathalie who enjoy taking in a drag show now and again. But, they ask, what do you do when you're having fabulous fun and a random person comes up and asks "Are you a real girl?" How can a cis girl, a trans girl, or anyone respond to that?

Sadly, both local CSRA gay bars we mentioned, Colosseum and Marlboro Station, are both appear to closed.

Also to clarify, Imam is most commonly used as the title of a worship leader of a mosque and Muslim community among Sunni Muslims.

Also, Ramadan Mubarak to our Muslim listeners!

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Interview with Transgender Candidate Mel Wymore Jun 22, 2017

Mel Wymore is trasngender but that hasn't stopped him from running for New York City Council. In this episode we talk Mel about the unique challenges faced when transgender people choose to get involved politically. We also discuss why LGBT people need to be involved in their communities and how you can get started.

Check out Mel Wymore's website. Plus some great articles about his campaign from LGBTQ Nation and NBC News.

Social services organizations for the LGBTQ person without resources and support: Yes Institute in Miami, New York's LGBT Center, and the Ackerman Institute for the Family.

Coming Out to the Inlaws Jun 16, 2017

Coming out transgender is hard. Coming out transgender to your inlaws is even harder. For this, our 50th episode, Kath and Faith discuss a recent trip to Chicago where Faith came out to all of Kath's family. How'd it go? Was anyone rude? Was everyone nice? Listen now for all the details.
For some background, check out our previous episode ID Trouble & Coming Out to Kath's Parents.

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Passing Jun 08, 2017

Passing as cis can be an important concern for transgender people. In this episode Kath and Faith discuss what passing is, along with its benefits and drawbacks. Should passing as cis be the goal of every transgender person or are there other factors to consider?

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Shopping Jun 01, 2017

Here's our shopping guide for transgirls and crossdressers. Going out shopping in public can be stressful for transgender women, crossdressers, non-binary folks and even lots of cis girls. How do you figure out your size? What fitting rooms are okay to use? What are the salespeople and customers going to think? Kath and Faith discuss these questions and give some tips and tricks for shopping for clothes, makeup, underthings, shoes and all the other fabulous stuff we love to shop for.

Reddit's Makeup Addiction subreddit is a great resource.
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The Switch: We Talk with Amy Fox May 25, 2017

The world's first transgender sitcom is here! In this episode Faith and Kath interview Amy Fox who is showrunner, co-writer and co-star of The Switch. The Switch really is the first transgender sitcom in the history of television. Not only that, but it features transgender actors in transgender roles. Who knew such a thing was possible? We speak with Amy about transgender representation, comedy, roleplaying games, and more.

The Switch is produced by Trembling Void Studios and will be on air in Canada. But, you can go to Revry and watch it right NOW.

For more info, check out out The Switch on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. You can also check out their website We Love the Switch.

If you love that, you can check out Switch star Nyla the Destroyer or Amy's feature length film Floating Away.

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Voice Feminization Surgery May 18, 2017

Does MtF transgender voice surgery work? In this episode Gender Rebels Kath and Faith interview special guest Sara who recently travelled to Korea to get vocal chord surgery. We'll discuss the details of this surgical procedure; what it is, what it costs, does it hurt, how's recovery and most importantly, how are the results?

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Can You Be Trans and Republican? May 11, 2017

Can a person really be transgender AND a Republican? Sure, the GOP doesn't seem like a friend to the LGBTQ community, what with their bathroom bills, fight against gay marriage and now laws trying to stop LGBTQ people from adopting children. But, what about people who feel gender dysphora and also love the Second Amendment, a flat tax, and states' rights? Are they traitors to the cause or a real part of the LGBTQ community? In this episode Kath and Faith discuss the intersection of politics and identity.

Also check out Beyond Gender podcast who provide great LGBTQ news updates.
What Pat Robertson has to say about trans folk.
Stephen Colbert's take on Trump and bathroom bills.
Kristin Beck's book Warrior Princess and an article about how she applied to work for the Trump Administration.

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An MD's POV: Interview with Dr. Aron Janssen May 04, 2017

Aron Janssen is a doctor but he doesn't play one on TV. In this episode, the Gender Rebels interview Dr. Aron Janssen MD, director of the Gender and Sexuality Service at NY Langone's Child Study Center. There he works with gender varient and gender non-conforming children and adolescents. We discuss trans-related health issues, self-medicating, and how trans people (especially trans youth) can navigate the complex world of health care.

Dr. Aron Janssen's bio and his webinar on how to talk to your kids about gender and sexuality.

For those looking for resources; Callen Lorde Community Health Center's Health Outreach to Teens, Ali Forney Center for homeless LGBT youth, and The Door which provides services for youth.

WPATH Standards of Care and Endocrine Society Guidelines

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All About Wigs Apr 27, 2017

Wigs can be fun, they can be a pain and they can be an important tool. In this episode Kath and Faith answer a question from listener Christine who asked about options for the follically challenged. So listen now and learn everything about wigs; types, costs, wig materials, shapes, where to get them and why Faith hates them!

The movie Colossal, in which star Anne Hathaway may or may not sport a wig

Indie film Little Sister where the main star Collen Lunsford definitely wears a wig. Good movie - worth checking out.

NYC wig shop Wigs & Plus - Faith's favorite spot for store-bought hair.

A gallery of unfortunately-attired people who ordered clothes from China.

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All About Binding Apr 20, 2017

So what's up with binding? In this episode our special guest, Caleb from the Beyond Gender podcast, tells us everything about binding for FtM transgender men. What is binding? How do you get started? What's safe and what should you look out for? Where can you get a binder? Caleb helps us out with these and lots of other questions as we explore everyting about binding.

Beyond Gender Podcast
Transistional Male - Binder vendor with a big brother binder sharing program.
Autostraddle binder sharing site.
DC King's drag king how-to guide.

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Is Faith Happier after Starting Transition? Apr 13, 2017

Does transition make transgender people happier? What's it like to spend your whole life dreaming of something, planning for it, wishing for it, only to have it actually happen? In this episode, cis woman Kath asks transgender woman Faith if she's happier after starting to transition? Is life all good now? Do you still feel dysphoria? Plus we go over common transgender "bingos," those annoying responses and questions transgender people hear far too often.

Faith's novel "The Homebody's Guide to Falling in Like."
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Blake Lively's famous bandage dress.

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ID Trouble and Coming Out to Kath's Parents Apr 06, 2017

ID cards and coming out can be super stressful for trans people. In this episode Kath and Faith discuss how people who are only part time, or who are in the process of tranitioning, deal with drivers' licenses, passports and other identification that doesn't match their gender presentation. In the second part of this episode, Faith shares her worries, fears and hopes for the tricky and troubling issue of one day coming out to Kath's parents and extended family.
The TSA's guide for Transgender Passengers.
The Intrepid, Sea, Air & Space Museum.

Faith's own recollections of this feeling and how she dealt with it.

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Waxing and Waning Dysphoria Mar 30, 2017

Is it normal for gender dysphoria to dim and grow from time to time? In this episode we answer a question from listener Jaylah who asks if it's normal to have strong gender dysphoria for a time when other times you don't feel dysphoric at all. Do other transgender people feel okay in their birth gender sometimes and super unhappy other times?

Faith's own recollections of this feeling and how she dealt with it.

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Are We SJWs, Clocking and Past Tense Transies Mar 23, 2017

What does it mean to be a social justice warrior? Gender Rebels Kath and Faith (in this episode from the archives) discuss what it means to be a social justice warrior and why some people are bothered by this. In the second part of this episode we discuss what it means when a transgender person is "clocked" and how that feels. Lastly, we talk about what pronouns to use to describe a transgender person in the past tense, back before they transitioned.

Anita Sarkeesian's Wikipedia page and the page on Gamergate.
Folding Ideas Youtube video about Gamergate.

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Coming Out Transgender on Active Duty Mar 16, 2017

What's it like coming out transgender while on active duty in the military? The US Military tends to be a conservative place where traditional gender roles are the norm, where comformity is required and where the rights LGBT service members have been a decades-long political hotspot. In this episode, the Gender Rebels talk with Elizabeth about her time in the US Navy, about coming out transgender while serving in the armed forced and about her experiences, service and transition.

National Center for Transgender Equality's resources for military & veterans.
Gender therapist Lisa Barrow in NC.

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Why is it Awesome to be Transgender? Mar 10, 2017

Beatboxing skills are just the beginning. In this episode of Gender Rebels we answer another question from our favorite listener @JenDurbent (FYI if you'd like to be our favorite just send us lots of questions like Jen did). She asks "Why is it awesome to be trans?" Yep, it's easy to get sad about this world, so on this episide we explore all the things that make being transgender a blast.

Here's the book we mentioned- "How to Pass as Human."
And check out the Lorde song "Bravado," for when you come out to HR.
Faith's essay on privilage.

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How to Trans in a Red State Mar 02, 2017

Yes, "trans" is a verb. In this episode, cis girl Kath asks transgender girl Faith to answer listener @JenDurbent who asks "Do you have any advice for transgender people living in Red States?" How can transgender people cope and thrive in America's Red States? These are the places where transgender people face a great deal of discrimination, harrassement, and threats of violence.

Find Your State Legislators

Still think your Red State legislators aren't interested in you? Check our our friends Micah and Genevive at The Bomb Shelter. In this episode they sit down with Alabama State Representative Patricia Todd to learn more about Alabama government, how she was elected as the first openly gay woman, and the upcoming bill that could target trans people in Alabama.

GLAAD's Transgender Resources Page
Advocate article Why Red State Queers are the New Frontier.
The American Prospect article Trans in the Red States.
Reddit's /r/TransSupport, /r/MtF, and /r/AskReddit.

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Sexist Language & How Do I Know if I'm Transgender? Feb 24, 2017

"Grow a pair." "Man up." "Way to go, LADIES." In this episode cis girl Kath asks transgender girl Faith discuss how sexist langague seems to permeate our culture. We also discuss the normal process of questioning, self-doubt and confusion that many transpeople go through as they decide to transition or not.

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Shapewear Feb 17, 2017

Luscious curves for everyone! In this episode cis girl Kath asks transgender girl Faith about how some transgender women and crossdressers manage to look to so feminine? We discuss breast forms, corsets, hip pads, butt pads and more.

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Faith's Rey costume from Star Wars: The Force Awakens
Hip and butt pad tutorial from YouTube user petrilude.

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Transface Feb 09, 2017

Cismen in dresses are a problem. The Gender Rebels Kath and Faith discuss the the number of transgender characters in TV and movies that are played by cis actors. Why is it that casting directors so rarely cast actual transgender actors in these roles?

Link to Her Story with Jen Richards

Link to Elementary and their trans character. link to The Switch

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Commodification of Transgender People Feb 02, 2017

Newsflash: trans people spend money. Your Gender Rebels Kath and Faith discuss some recent television commercials that show transgender women. Are such advertisements respectful to transgender people and their experience or are they simply turning transgender people into a commodity that can be exploited for PR and profits.

Here are the two ads:
Secret Deoderant Transgender Ad
Danish Electronics Store Transgender Ad

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Ms. Gender Rebel Goes to Washington Jan 27, 2017

Uteruses and vaginas and pussy hats, oh my! Gender Rebels hosts Faith and Kath went down to DC to take part in the Women's March on Washington. We had a wonderful time being there with so many people who also wanted to be sure their voices were heard. But after seeing so many signs with pictures of vaginas or uteruses, or about reproduction, cis host Kath started to wonder if those signs would make a transgender woman feel left out. So in this episode of everyone's favorite podcast she asks trans girl Faith if vaginas on protest posters make transgirls feel left out.

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The Cis Gaze Jan 19, 2017

Look, see? There she is! In this episode the Gender Rebels explore the issue of the "cis gaze," how cis people see transgender people, their natural reactions and how that should or shouldn't effect the way cis people interact with transgender people in their lives.

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Special Bonus Episode: The Women's March Jan 19, 2017

Forward, MARCH. Your Gender Rebels, Faith and Kath are going to be in DC for the Women's March on January 21, 2017. It's an important moment for our nation and for the world, so we thought we'd put together a special bonus episode this week wherein we discuss the march, safety tips and other good info for those who will be able to march with us. Though we will be proudly displaying transgender flags at the march, this isn't really a transgender or non-binary themed episode, so consider it a B-side, a deleted scene, or a free bonus!

Check out more information at https://www.womensmarch.com/

Professional douchebag's wikipedia page. We don't want to give his pages any web traffic.

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So What Are Cis People Thinking? Jan 12, 2017

Fonzie can teach us a lot about respect for others. Sometimes after transgender people come out, they often encounter cis people who knew them as their previous gender. And sometimes in conversation those cis people seem to go out of their way to ignore the elephant in the room. In this episode of Gender Rebels, transgender girl Faith asks cis girl Kath just what it is going on in cis peoples' heads when they try to play it as cool as Fonzie?

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Deadnames Jan 05, 2017

We at TGR don't love the term "deadname", but it IS annoying to hear "What's your real name?" Many transgender people choose to adopt a name that better confirms their preferred gender. And often transgender people will refer to the birth-name as their "deadname." In this episode, Gender Rebels Faith and Kath explore why dealing with their deadname is such an annoying thing for transgener people.

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Compliments & Clocking Dec 29, 2016

When is it not so great to get a compliment? In this episode the Gender Rebels tackle the question of what it means when strangers compliment a transgender person. Does getting a compliment always mean that a transgender person has been clocked? How should transgender people take a compliment?

Thanks to /r/asktransgender and /u/ucaffejsheckereit for this topic idea.

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Holidays and Bigotry Dec 22, 2016

Holidays are a time that brings the whole family together. And as anyone who's ever had a family can tell you, that's not always a good thing. It's especially difficult for LGBTQ people who might find themselves having to pass the mashed potatoes to the transphobic or homophobic person sitting next to them at dinner.

This holiday season we answer a question from Embedded Emily on twitter (@embeddedemily). She asks "I'm a grown up transgender person who lives on my own and my parents refuse to use preferred name/pronouns. They've claimed it's explicitly for religious reasons. Should I go to holiday events with them and just accept their disapproval or is their disapproval such that I should just avoid them and all the family's holiday gatherings?"

Ted Chiang's "Stories of Your Life" book on which the film Arrival is based.

Info on Leela Alcorn's tragedic death.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-8255
Trans Lifeline - 877-565-8860 When we talk about "the good subreddits" we mean /r/TransSupport and r/transpositive

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Transitioning Later in Life: Our Interview with Erica Dec 15, 2016

Every person who transitions has a unique perspective, experience and story to tell. While many people choose to transition earlier in life, some people (especially those who grew up in more decades before transgender topics were mainstream discussions) choose to transiiton later in life. In this episode, The Gender Rebels hear from Erica who transitioned in her 50s. How is later transiiton and what unique insights, struggles and opportunities does it present?

Hannah McKnight -Website of the Minnesota T Girls organizer.

Minnesota T Girls - A great group for trasgender women in the North Star State.

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THE Surgery Dec 08, 2016

GRS, SRS, Sex Change Operation, Bottom Surgery...it goes by many names but no matter what you call it, it's something that most people (especially cis people) know almost nothing about. Your Gender Rebels, Kath and Faith, discuss the information and the misinformation about this infamous, little understood, and fairly difficult to get medical procedure.

The U.S. Trans Survey (USTS) is the largest survey ever devoted to the lives and experiences of trans people, with almost 28,000 respondents. Today, Dec 8, 2016,the National Center for Transgender Equality (NCTE) launched the survey report!

Kath's source for the percentages of transfolk who get ANY kind of gender confirmation surgery (top, bottom, or other), and those who never want bottom surgery MtF gender confirmation surgery video, not at all gory, but probably NSFW. FtM gender confirmation surgery video. Also not at all gory, also NSFW. For both videos, we recommend muting the sound (it's just some odd music) and DO NOT READ THE COMMENTS.

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Levels of Transieness & Drag 101 Dec 01, 2016

Does there exist a heirarchy in the transgender community with those further in their transition sitting at the top above all the part-time or non-HRT, non-op plebes below? Also what do transgender women think of drag performers? Are they on the same team or something else entirely? The Gender Rebels drive right into these questions to bring you our wisdom about the world.

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Pansexuality and Transdads Nov 25, 2016

We're joined by the hosts of TransPanTastic, Jess and George. They tell us all about pansexuality and being a transdad. Plus!! You get a bonus "how we met" story that will drive you insane with cuteness. If you're not already a listener, I urge you to check out their awesome podcast!

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How to Ladies' Room: A Guide for Transgender Girls Nov 17, 2016

Restroom use has become a serious civil rights issue for transgender people in the United States. In this episode transgender woman Faith queries cis woman Kath about ladies' room ettiquite. Are there secret social cues or other things that transgender women should be aware of that will help them pass, blend in or be more comfortable in public bathrooms? If you have questions, post them in the comments!

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Crossdresser Deluxe™ Nov 10, 2016

Are transgender people crossdressers who chose to become transgender? Do all transgender people start down their path by being crossdressers first? Are transgender people crossdressers who just graduated up to being trans? Is being transgender just mean that you're a Crossdresser Deluxe™? In this episode of yet-to-be award winning podcast The Gender Rebels we explore the intersections of terms and communities.

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So Long, Privilege - Coming Out at Work & More. Nov 03, 2016

In this episode of The Gender Rebels we discuss the idea of privilege. protected classes, Reddit, red pills, Civilization, and coming out transgender at work. Why is coming out at work such a huge and extra-scary step for a transgender people? Faith shares her thoughts about coming out as a transgender woman at work. Special thanks to @TeelaWild for the great topic!
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Check out some of our favorite subreddits; transpositive, transtimelines and trans.
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Do You Wish You Weren't Transgender? Oct 27, 2016

This may come as a shock to some people, but being transgender isn't always a super ride of a kitten rainbow fun. Well, sometimes is is, obviously. But other times it can be downright rough. So in this episode we explore the existential question; if there was a magic cure for transgender feelings, would you take it?
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Neuroscience and Transgender People Oct 20, 2016

The human brain is a complicated and wonderful thing. But do the brains of trans and cis people differ? Is there neural component to being transgender? Luckily Gender Rebels host Kath is a neuroscience expert and ready to tackle these and other questions at the cutting edge of science.
For more on this topic: Check out Robert Sapolsky 2011 Stanford lecture on YouTube (Jump in at 1 hr 25 min for all the transie stuff, but the whole video is really interesting). Big thanks to Dorian Michélle Vrenden of the Beyond Gender podcast for sharing this with us!!
For those who love peer-reviewed literature, check out The Transsexual Brain – A review of findings on the neural basis of transsexualism (Smith et al, 2015).

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The Bloody Truth about Periods Oct 13, 2016

When it comes to periods what do transgender women really need to know? In this episode of Gender Rebels, transgender woman Faith asks cis woman Kath all about tampons, pads, cups and all the other fun things that come along with this magical monthly cycle.
Here's the link about runner Kiran Gandhi who took a stand against period shaming.
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Interview with Maddy from Minnesota Trans Atheist Oct 06, 2016

We're excited that this week the Gender Rebels had a special guest. The host of one of our favorite podcasts, Minnesota Trans Atheist, stopped by to share her thoughts on coming out transgender at work, the best ways to communicate with religious proselytizers, and raising kids atheist. And most importantly of all, we answer perhaps the greatest questions facing humankind today; is there any good evidence out there to prove the existence of Sasquatches?
Be sure and check out Maddy's super fun podcast on the Queer Life network or on iTunes!
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A Transgender Girl's First Time at the Beach Sep 29, 2016

For people who are transitioning there are many important "firsts." First time presenting as their chosen gender, first day on HRT, first voice lesson, first time meeting family as the real you. And of course, the first time at the beach. With limited clothing being the norm, the beach can be an especially stressful situation for transgender people. It can also be a lot of fun.
In this episode, your hosts Kath and Faith discuss their recent trip to the Rockaways, and transgender girl Faith's first time as a woman at the beach.
If you'd like to read more, check out Faith's blog post about our beach adventure.
To get your own mermaid tail (even though you'd totally be ripping off Kath's style) check out 2Tails.
And if you ever find yourself in the Rockaways, be sure and stop by Connolly's Bar for a delicious ice cold beer or frozen drink.
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Industrial Thong: So What's Up with Tucking? Sep 22, 2016

As transgender women, crossdressers and others want to look their best they've got to do something to hide their male-shaped bits. In this episode the Gender Rebels discuss different methods, theories and products to help you get the absolute perfect tuck. So get out your duct tape, gaffs, and pantyhose and give a listen. Of if you have another method that you like, why not drop us a quick line (photos not encouraged).
Check out Gender Rebel host Faith's own Guide to Tucking (NSFW).
And for those interested, you can read more about KT Pro Tape here.
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Beyond Gender Rebels Sep 15, 2016

We are super excited to share our very first Gender Rebel's guest, Caleb Arring from the Beyond Gender podcast. Caleb helped us understand the experience of transgender men and is also just a cool, funny guy.

Beyond Gender podcast is a wonderful resource for transgender, queer or non-binary people as well as allies. Super cool host Caleb Arring does weekly interviews with different LGBTQ people from all walks of life. Plus there's always news provided by the seriously well-informed Dorian Michelle Vrenden.

Check out all their amazing episodes at www.beyondgender.com

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Where Are All the Transgender Men? Sep 08, 2016

Is this episode we answer the question of why the media and popular culture (and even some LGBTQ people) seem to not notice transgender men. Where are all the FtMs?
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For those who are interested, we already live tweeted The Danish Girl. But, stay tuned because we'll be live tweeting some other LGBTQ films soon!

Offense-o-Rama! Sep 01, 2016

Trigger warning! All the trigger warnings! In this episode the Gender Rebels tackle offensive terms and labels used for transgender, queer or non-binary people. Some may be used by those people themselves, some are derogatory or dismissive and some are just made up. We rate them all on a scale of 1 to 10 where 1 equals cuddly and wonderful but 10 equals absolute horror and evil.
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From Fabulous Crossdresser to Normal Girl Aug 25, 2016

We now turn to listener mail to answer Petra's question; When a transgender woman who once identified as a crossdresser transitions and begins to spend more time presenting in preferred mode, do they lament the loss of dressing "up"? How does it feel trading heels and skirts for jeans and flats? Petra writes "Thing is, really, normal would require me to learn how to walk in flats, wear simple jeans and t-shirts and go without smoldering eyes. I just do not feel ready for that. The heels, the skirts, the make-up, the everything is a big part of me.Thing is, I am running out of environments where my "normal" dressed up is the norm." So how does one handle that part of transition?
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Titty Skittles & Acronym Soup Aug 18, 2016

In this episode we answer the age old questions that have bothered humankind since time immortal:

What are "titty skittles?"
What the heck do all these trans-related acronyms really mean?

For more information about The Neon Demon check your local internet. Also, NB stands for Non-Binary. Despite what Faith may have told you, she does not in fact know everything.
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The Transluminati Aug 11, 2016

In this episode we tackle the questions that everyone wants to ask about the transgender community Is Caitlyn Jenner the queen of all transgender people? Who are the famous transgender serial killers? Is Caitlyn Jenner the Zodiac Killer? Is the Transluminati really a secret society of LGBT people bent on global dominance? And what's up with the Michigan Womyn's festival?
As promised, here is the proof that Caitlyn Jenner is the Zodiac Killer!
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TRENDSgender and Gatekeepers Aug 04, 2016

Are more people choosing to be transgender just because it's trendy and popular? In this episode we also explore the issue of gate-keeping and the hoops transgender people often need to jump through in order to get medical care.
For more information on Callen-Lorde, please check your local internet.
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Wachowskis and Inspiration Jul 31, 2016

In this episode we'll delve deep into these exciting topics:

Are the Wachowskis better or worse filmmakers now that they've transitioned?
Who are our gender rebel inspirations?
What can Laura Jane Grace teach us about wishes and serial killers?

For more on the Wachowskis, Jamie Clayton or Laura Jane Grace, or Sylvester & The Magic Pebble check your local internet.
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Dresses to Die For Jul 31, 2016

In this episode we'll discuss how transgender people balance their personal safety with being out in the world. And Faith tells the story of the first time she ever left the house in a dress.
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The Asterisk and Tricking Straight Guys Jul 31, 2016

We're super exited to post this, our very first episode. In this episode we discuss the following topics:

What do the letters in LGBTQ* mean and why is there so many letters? Are there too many or not enough?
The perils and pitfalls of dating cis people.
Are there questions that cis people aren't allowed to ask transgender people?

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