The Feminist Dating Show - TopPodcast.com

View Top 200 Chart

Back to Rankings Page

The Feminist Dating Show — Relationships
The Feminist Dating Show

How do I find the right relationship when dating apps suck? How can I find better dates? How can I deal with that nagging anxiety that no one is out there for me? How can I navigate dating with more confidence and find that right relationship?

Welcome to The Feminist Dating Show, where we’ll answer ALL of these questions and so much more. Week after week, host, former top matchmaker and dating coach, Lily Womble brings you all the tools, strategies and coaching you need to build a clear path to the best relationship of your life.

After matching hundreds, Lily realized that with training, women can match themselves better than anyone else ever could. Now she helps thousands of women around the world build fulfilling, joyful and successful dating lives on their own terms. She’s here to help you do the same.

If you’re looking for unconventional, feminist leaning dating advice that works, this podcast is for you.

Along with her best kept secrets, Lily will share interviews with experts and live coaching sessions, so you can feel seen, heard and inspired.

Latest Episodes:

98. Becoming the MAIN Character of Your Life: Lauren's Brazen Breakthrough Story Mar 01, 2022

Show notes

This week Lauren, one of my clients from the Brazen Breakthrough Mastermind, joins me to share her transformation story. And y'all, her courage to do something that is out of her comfort zone, like being on a podcast, is indicative of her power to show up for herself. Before the Brazen Breakthrough, Lauren felt as though something was inherently wrong with her because dating didn't come easily. In this episode, she shares her decision to join the Brazen Breakthrough and explores how it helped her to become the main character in her life, show up for herself, and embrace her power. She also talked eloquently about how her biggest breakthrough had very little to do with dating and everything to do with believing in herself.

Hot-takes From This Episode:

We explore the idea of being stuck in the story of "I'm too old to find a partner."
How the patriarchy frames and shapes our thoughts about dating.
The deep work we do in the Brazen Breakthrough is not just about finding a date.
How Lauren learned to harness and embrace her main character energy.
You are worth the investment.
Lauren's realization that she has everything she needs in order to get everything she desires.

Here Are The Links & Resources Mentioned In Today's Episode:

Join the Brazen Breakthrough - Apply Today!
Date Brazen on Instagram @datebrazen
Untamed, Glennon Doyle

Show Notes: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/laurens-brazen-breakthrough-story

97. Is an emotionally intelligent AND attractive partner possible? Feb 22, 2022

Show notes

"I can't expect to have an emotionally intelligent partner and be attracted to them." Woah. If you are thinking to yourself, "Yes, that's me. I think that!" Then yes, friend, that is where we are going today. In this episode, I help illuminate this story you have been carrying around about your love life, help you to excavate it, gently, and come out the other side feeling more in control.

So yes, you have a lot of expectations and desires for your dating life. Your job is not to know how things are going to happen. Your job is to ask for what you want and to learn how to overcome patriarchal narratives that have been keeping you confined.

Tune into this episode as we hold space for your human experience and rewrite narratives that have been holding you back from the expansiveness of who you are!

Hot-takes From This Episode:

What is an emotionally intelligent partner, anyway?
How to describe and attract what you desire.
Confirmation bias: if your brain has decided what you want doesn't exist, your brain will continue to look for that evidence!
Wanting what you want means starting to look for evidence that what you want DOES exist.
Consider: What does attraction mean to you?
Moving from an Either/Or mindset to a Both/And mindset.
The patriarchal influence on your dating life.
Journal: What is a thought that feels useful and true?

Here Are The Links & Resources Mentioned In Today's Episode:

Join the Brazen Breakthrough - Apply Today!
Date Brazen on Instagram @datebrazen

Show notes: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/is-an-emotionally-intelligent-and-attractive-partner-possible

96. How to respond to bad dating advice Feb 15, 2022

Show notes

Have you ever received bad dating advice from family or friends? And has that advice impacted you in negative ways? Well, this week, I talk about how to deal when you get bad dating advice from people who have no business dishing it out.

Some of the advice could sound something like:

"Maybe you're single because you asked for too much."

"Maybe you're single because you didn't lose weight."

"Maybe you didn't give them enough of a try."

"Maybe you are just too old."

Getting bad advice SUCKS. Yes, and, if you think those thoughts to be true, it's time to breathe new life into the stories you are believing about your love life. This episode is going to help you do just that.

Hot-takes from this episode:

Acknowledge that bad dating advice SUCKS.
Allow yourself to feel your feelings, including anger, resentment, or fear.
Ask yourself: What does this advice say about the person giving it?
Prioritize your self-care.

Here Are The Links & Resources Mentioned In Today's Episode:

Join the Brazen Breakthrough - Apply Today!
Date Brazen on Instagram @datebrazen

SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/how-to-respond-to-bad-dating-advice

95. What to do when you're jealous of your coupled friend Feb 08, 2022

Show notes

Jealousy can be a scary emotion for a lot of women. With Valentine's Day coming up, you may have some complicated feelings about yourself, about your love life intermixed with some feelings of jealousy.

In this episode, I dispel jealousy myths and talk about what to do if or when you are feeling jealous. I'll also give you some of my hot takes about why jealousy isn't bad, how to hold yourself with compassion, and move forward powerfully.

Remember, jealousy is not something that excludes you from attracting more, it just means you are human.

Are you all in for the Brazen Galentine Extraganva? Learn how to create your most joyful, courageous love life. Instead of figuring it out "one day", join me and other courageous, strong, and amazing women in building a solid game plan to reach your desires right now. It's free to join, click this link to register and save the date for February 13th 💜

Hot-takes from this Episode:

Why it's hard to feel negative emotions, such as jealousy.
Journaling prompt: What story are you making up about feeling jealous?
Your feelings are your feelings and you get to have them.
A reminder that desiring something is normal.
Notice where you are feeling jealous in your romantic life.
Think about: What the feeling of jealousy is meant to teach you about yourself.

Here Are The Links & Resources Mentioned In Today's Episode:

SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/what-to-do-when-youre-jealous-of-your-coupled-friend

94. How Jessie Jolles and Claire Burns created badass love lives Feb 01, 2022

Show notes

This week I dive into the good and bad of dating with guests Jessie Jolles and Claire Burns, hosts of the popular podcast No Such Thing As Love. In this episode, they share some of the ways in which their dating lives have changed over the past two years and some of the lessons they have learned.

SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/how-jessie-jolles-and-claire-burns-created-badass-love-lives

93. Why West Elm Caleb is a Call to Action For the Dating World Jan 25, 2022

Show notes

West Elm Caleb is taking social media by storm. In this episode, I break down who West Elm Caleb is and why his dating style, which included love-bombing and ghosting, was causing an uproar online. More importantly, I explain why this entire scenario is a call to action for the dating world. Alright, if you want to know why I am referring to this as a call to action - here's a quick hot-take, which I dig deeper in this episode:

Dating is experiencing a public health crisis. Yes, you read that correctly, my beautiful friend. The way in which dating has evolved, with dating apps at the center, is deeply affecting our nervous systems. Dating is exhausting and affects our nervous system to the detriment of our health.

The goal of every dating app is this: to introduce you to someone outside of your social circle and to make money.

Your job is to take care of your nervous system.

Your job is to learn to trust yourself so that you can spot the next West Elm Caleb versus someone who is interested in a deeper connection.

Of course, sometimes shit is going to happen. Both, and - your job is to respond to it with self-compassion. I dive into a lot more in this episode.

SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/call-to-action-for-the-dating-world

92. From ordinary to extraordinary: Creating a safe and confident sex life with Vanessa Marin Jan 18, 2022

Show notes

I have a spicy and amazing episode for you this week! Joining me to talk about how to take the intimidation out of being intimate is Sex Psychotherapist, Vanessa Marin. Vanessa's work is so impactful and has shifted the way couples (and singles) view sex, helping them create extraordinary sex lives and relationships. In this episode, we get into the topic of authenticity in the bedroom, explore some of the shoulding we have about sex, like, "I should be more bold and adventurous," and discuss the various baggage we carry around about sex and dating.

SHOW NOTES:

https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/creating-a-safe-and-confident-sex-life

Episode Spotlight: Worthiness + Winning Results with Simone Grace Seol Jan 11, 2022

Show notes

Today I wanted to draw your attention to one of my favorite episodes ever of the podcast. It is with the incredible Simone Seol, who is a business coach who coaches people around the world who deeply care about making an impact in the world. We talked about how to focus on what you can control instead of fixating on goals that are measuring your worth. This episode is a must-listen!

SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/worthiness-and-winning-results-with-simonegraceseol

91. Episode Spotlight: Envision your future partner meditation Jan 04, 2022

Show notes

I have something special for you this week; a future-self meditation. Yes, that's right, I am going to walk you through a 10-minute meditation that will help you to embody the feelings you want to have in your future relationship. It will allow you to release the tension and suspend your disbelief that there is more for you.

SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/episode-spotlight-envision-your-future-partner-meditation

90. What to expect from 2022 dating (my trend predictions!) Dec 28, 2021

Show notes

I have another juicy episode for you! I am sharing three of my top dating trends for the new year. Plus, I'll share three tips to help you experience agency and joy in the dating process. My desire is that this episode will leave you feeling hopeful for the new year and beyond.

SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/dating-trend-predictions-and-tips-for-2022

APPLY FOR THE BRAZEN BREAKTHROUGH: https://date-brazen.mykajabi.com/BrazenBreakthrough

Related Podcasts