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The Feminist Dating Show

How do I find the right relationship when dating apps suck? How can I find better dates? How can I deal with that nagging anxiety that no one is out there for me? How can I navigate dating with more confidence and find that right relationship?

Welcome to The Feminist Dating Show, where we’ll answer ALL of these questions and so much more. Week after week, host, former top matchmaker and dating coach, Lily Womble brings you all the tools, strategies and coaching you need to build a clear path to the best relationship of your life.

After matching hundreds, Lily realized that with training, women can match themselves better than anyone else ever could. Now she helps thousands of women around the world build fulfilling, joyful and successful dating lives on their own terms. She’s here to help you do the same.

If you’re looking for unconventional, feminist leaning dating advice that works, this podcast is for you.

Along with her best kept secrets, Lily will share interviews with experts and live coaching sessions, so you can feel seen, heard and inspired.

Latest Episodes:

171. Money and your dating life: A conversation with financial therapist Aja Evans Nov 21, 2023

Show notes

Financial therapist Aja Evans joins Lily this week to discuss money and your dating life. The conversation is meant to inspire you to take up space in your financial life, challenge limiting beliefs, and prioritize relationships that align with your values and aspirations. Aja is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who specializes in financial therapy. In this episode, she helps us understand the connection between emotions and money and explores the varying dynamics of partnerships and money.

Episode Topics and Hot-takes:

You don't need to make yourself smaller to accommodate a potential partner's ego.
Aja helps us understand how to move through financial shame.
How to talk about money and finances on a date

Links:

Aja's website Aja on Instagram

Show notes:

http://datebrazen.com/blog/money-and-your-dating-life-with-aja-evans

170. Decolonizing coaching and building self-trust with Shirin Eskandani Nov 14, 2023

Show notes

This week, Lily welcomes Shirin Eskandani to the podcast! Shirin is a former opera singer turned coach who, in this episode, opens up about her quest for fulfillment beyond external achievements. From navigating the challenges of dating to discovering the unexpected depth of inner work in coaching, Shirin shares the transformative power that led her to pursue coaching with a commitment to inclusivity and decolonized perspectives.

Shirin shares her mission to diversify the coaching world, highlighting the need for more inclusive certifications. Lily and Shirin also dive into the concept of being "wholehearted," exploring themes of empowerment and the profound impact of coaching on personal and professional aspects of life.

Listen in to hear this fantastic conversation that empowers self-discovery and self-trust.

Hot-takes from this episode:

Nothing outside of you will ever make me feel fulfilled or enough. That is something you have to be working on yourself.
"It isn't just about my dating life. It isn't just about my work. How we do one thing is usually how we do all or most things."
Decolonizing is about questioning and getting curious about what you value and believe and whether those values and beliefs were handed to you from society or family. Then, decide that you get to choose what you value and believe and how you want to move forward.

Links: One-on-One Coaching with Lily Wholehearted Coaching: The Podcast Whole Hearted Coaching Certification Shirin on Instagram @wholeheartedcoaching Wholehearted Coaching Certification Program on Instagram @wholeheartedcertification

Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/decolonizing-coaching-and-building-self-trust-shirin-eskandani

169. Harnessing your fears to step into your power with Farnoosh Torabi Nov 07, 2023

Show notes

Farnoosh Torabi joins Lily on the podcast this week! Farnoosh is a leading financial expert, host of the So Money podcast, and author of So Money, Psych Yourself Rich, and When She Makes More. In this episode, she discusses the teachings and insights from her new book A Healthy State Of Panic, Follow Your Fears To Build Wealth, Crush Your Career, And Win At Life. The book (and this episode) illustrates how fear can be your superpower in this heartfelt and clever guide to maximizing your success to live richer and happier. Lily also parallels the topics in Farnoosh's book (related to fear) and how they can apply to the dating world. This is a fun, thoughtful, and heartfelt episode!

Featured Conversation Topics:

The difference between harnessing fear and indulging it?
How to build a healthy relationship with fear
The fear of rejection, loneliness, and exposure in dating
As you listen, think about one action step you can take to move with your fear in a more healthy manner.

Links: One-on-One Coaching with Lily So Money with Farnoosh Torabi A Healthy State of Panic, Farnoosh Torabi

Show Notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/harnessing-your-fears-with-farnoosh-torabi

168. Healing, Hilarity, and Main Character Energy with author and TikToker Devrie Brynn Donalson Oct 31, 2023

Show notes

Get ready for a healing and hilarious episode! Lily introduces a special guest who radiates "Main Character Energy" in every aspect of her life. Devrie Brynn Donalson, the creative force behind the book, "You're Gonna Die Alone (& Other Excellent News)," unpacks her life-altering choices and journey.

Devrie reflects on her inspiring journey to Scotland, her struggles with body image, and her pursuit of self-discovery. Lily and Devrie also delve into the compelling dialogue on personal growth and societal pressures.

This episode is a rollercoaster of emotions, filled with humor, wit, and authentic storytelling.

Don't miss this captivating conversation on the Date Brazen podcast!

Featured Conversation Topics:

Devrie shares the story of her bold decision to move to Scotland, a journey sparked by friendship breakups and a quest for self-discovery.
Discover how Devrie makes life-altering decisions by imagining herself as the main character in her story, ultimately guiding her choices.
The challenges of growing up in a culture fixated on body size and appearances and the impact it can have.
Devrie's thoughts on the fear of being unlovable and how it influenced her choices and relationships.

Links: One-on-One Coaching with LilyDevrie on Instagram & TikTok @devriebrynn You're Gonna Die Alone (& Other Excellent News)

Show link: http://datebrazen.com/blog/healing-hilarity-and-mce-with-devrie-donalson

167. How to go from dead-end dating to only great dates with Brazen Breakthrough Client Michelle Oct 24, 2023

Show notes

This week, we're breaking down the journey to creating a dating life that's joyful, boundary-filled, and confidently your own. Michelle, a Brazen Breakthrough client, joins Lily for a fantastic conversation about how she went from dead-end dating to only great dates. Plus, hear how she learned to stop compromising her desires and find joy in all areas of her life.

🔥 Hot-Takes Alert! 🔥

Ever wondered, "What if I do this thing and it doesn't work for my love life?" We're diving into that fear and breaking it down.
It's time to stop compromising your desires. Learn how to permit yourself to want what you want without apology.
The "shoulds" – we all know them, but how do we escape their grasp when it comes to dating, life, and love?
🗨️ Michelle reminds us, "Dating feels less like a 'life or death thing' when you are having fun in other areas of your life."

Links:

✨Join The Brazen Breakthrough Now! ✨ The doors to Brazen Breakthrough close on Oct 27th at 11:59 pm EST

Bonus: Create a Confident and Joyful AF Dating Life Oct 19, 2023

Show notes

Lily is bringing you a bonus episode! If you missed her free live training, Create a Confident and Joyful-as-Fuck Dating Life, or want to hear it again - you're in luck! Today, Lily is sharing the entire training on the podcast. This training will help you build confidence, practice self-compassion and self-trust, and ease in your dating life.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to create a fiercely confident as-hell dating life (without the overwhelm, anxiety, and burnout).
How to be completely dating-app optional and find juicy dates in person
The anxiety-relieving plan of action that will make the right relationship inevitable.
You'll also get a special invite to join us in my signature program, The Brazen Breakthrough.

This bonus replay is jam-packed with Q&As that cover many dating questions and questions about what it's like being a part of The Brazen Breakthrough. There is so much good stuff - this is such an informative (and fun) episode!

Links: ✨Join The Brazen Breakthrough Now! ✨ The doors to Brazen Breakthrough close on Oct 27th at 11:59 pm EST

166. How to stop panic dating with Brazen Breakthrough client Anna Oct 17, 2023

Show notes

Anna joins Lily to share her experience in the Brazen Breakthrough (Lily's proven feminist as fuck group coaching program). In this episode, Anna shares what led her to join the Brazen Breakthrough and how it helped her feel supported, get unstuck, and stop panic dating. This episode is going to be so freaking good!

We're excited for you to listen to Anna's story. If it resonates and you are listening on the day it airs - October 17th - join Lily for a live free training. In this live free training, Lily will teach you how to be dating app optional, how to create a dating life with more ease, joy, and power, and how to make the right relationship inevitable. You'll also learn about the Brazen Breakthrough. It's going to be an amazing time. Find all the links below; we hope to see you there!

Hot-takes from this episode:

How to approach finding a partner in a way that is sustainable for your mental health and move away from panic dating
"You're for the few and not for the many."
When you learn the skill of self-advocacy and step deeper into agency in your love life, what you believe is possible is inevitable.
Anna shares how understanding what she wanted in her dating life led to her going on a great date!

Links:

Join Us TONIGHT, October 17th, for the Free Live Training → ✨ Creating a Confident and Joyful-as-fuck Dating Life That Makes the Right Relationship Inevitable ✨ The Brazen Breakthrough

Show link: http://datebrazen.com/blog/stop-panic-dating

165. How to start dating as a "late bloomer" Oct 10, 2023

Show notes

If you think you are "behind" in your dating life, this episode is for you. Lily is going to teach you how to start dating with confidence. Your "lack of romantic experience" is not a dealbreaker for finding love.

If you've never been in a relationship… If you've never been kissed… If you've never had sex…

There's ZERO wrong with where you've been. There's only the invitation waiting in front of you to build what you want NOW and move forward.

Don't NOT go to the party because you're afraid you're too late. The best stuff happens at a party once it's started, anyway.

Hot-takes from this episode:

"If you believe that your lack of experience is embarrassing, then that is holding you back from finding love on your terms."
"The idea of being a late bloomer rushed me into dating to "fix it."
"Your assumed late-bloomer status does not have to be your identity."
Neutralize your dating history with self-compassion. History does not mean anything about what is possible.
Build a strategy that honors your power
Bring on a community that supports the hell out of you

Links:

Join Us on October 17th for Free Live Training → ✨ Creating a Confident and Joyful-as-fuck Dating Life That Makes the Right Relationship Inevitable ✨ Show Link:

http://http/datebrazen.com/blog/start-dating-as-a-late-bloomer

164. How to create an in-person dating life if you're scared to start Oct 03, 2023

Show notes

This week's episode is all about in-person dating! Lily is sharing step-by-step how to build confidence and become the version of yourself who approaches people in person with empowered action.

This in-person dating lesson isn't meant to make you micromanage; it's to help you SHOW UP for your desires. The advice inside this episode will help you approach somebody in person in the next 30 days. You've got this, and Lily and the entire Date Brazen community have your back.

Episode Hot-takes:

Permit yourself to be in progress, and stop self-blaming for being "bad" at dating.
"How do you get out of self-blame? By practicing self-compassion."
"Commit to getting messy and practicing. You are not good at in-person dating because you haven't practiced yet." What if you just took one action step today?
Celebrate yourself! "Self-celebration is an in-person dating strategy. Celebrate every time you practice in-person dating!"

Links: SAVE YOUR SPOT for Creating a Confident and Joyful-as-fuck Dating as a Burnout Feminist Badass

Show notes:http://datebrazen.com/blog/approach-in-person-dating-even-if-youre-scared

163. Breaking dumb dating rules Sep 26, 2023

Show notes

Today, Lily is sharing an incomplete list (because the list just keeps on growing!) of the dumbest dating rules. She also offers her hot takes on how to break them. The "rules" covered in this episode include:

Dumb Dating Rule #1: You have to be on a dating app to be trying Dumb Dating Rule #2: Playing the numbers game - by constantly going on dates. Dumb Dating Rule #3: "Give them one more chance. You NEVER KNOW"

This episode is going to help you free yourself from standards, rules, and pressure that are not serving you or your love life.

Some Episode Hot-Takes:

"A dating app can be a really powerful tool when you use it with boundaries; specifically when you see it as a tool and not the answer to your dating life."
"Know your preferences deeply and choose dates intentionally. You get to trust yourself."
"Pursuing the numbers game myth in your dating strategy is a quick ticket to burnout."
"Hold your expectations to growth, not perfection."

Links: SAVE YOUR SPOT for Creating a Confident and Joyful-as-fuck Dating as a Burnout Feminist Badass 131. How your coupled friends can help you 135. How to create your essence-based preferences 162. The complete dating detox guide

Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/breaking-dumb-dating-rules

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