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The Feminist Dating Show

How do I find the right relationship when dating apps suck? How can I find better dates? How can I deal with that nagging anxiety that no one is out there for me? How can I navigate dating with more confidence and find that right relationship?

Welcome to The Feminist Dating Show, where we’ll answer ALL of these questions and so much more. Week after week, host, former top matchmaker and dating coach, Lily Womble brings you all the tools, strategies and coaching you need to build a clear path to the best relationship of your life.

After matching hundreds, Lily realized that with training, women can match themselves better than anyone else ever could. Now she helps thousands of women around the world build fulfilling, joyful and successful dating lives on their own terms. She’s here to help you do the same.

If you’re looking for unconventional, feminist leaning dating advice that works, this podcast is for you.

Along with her best kept secrets, Lily will share interviews with experts and live coaching sessions, so you can feel seen, heard and inspired.

Latest Episodes:

216. Stop overthinking your love life decisions (and how to actually trust yourself) Oct 01, 2024

Show notes

Are you stuck in a cycle of overthinking and self-doubt? Lily tackles exactly how you can break free from that mental loop. We dive into the real cost of overthinking—how it's draining your energy, wasting your time, and slowing down your life's momentum.

Lily shares methods to help you stop doubting yourself and start building a rock-solid foundation of self-trust. By the end of the episode, you'll have a clear plan of action so you can confidently take bold steps toward the life you want, without the exhausting mental spirals.

What if overthinking was just a roadblock on your journey to becoming the main character in your own story? This is your invitation to shift into that energy, giving yourself permission to trust, transform, and take massive, messy action.

You'll learn:

How to recognize the signs that you may have a self-trust deficit and how it affects your daily life
Why building self-trust, even imperfectly, is an essential step toward living a rich and fulfilling life
The reasons behind why you struggle to trust yourself and how fear and past experiences may be holding you back
That self-trust is a skill that takes time and practice to master
How to build self-trust and confidently take action, leading to more clarity and control in your life

Links:

RSVP for Take That Risk with Confident Main Character Energy

Lily's book: Thank You, More Please

Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/how-to-trust-yourself

215. How to ask for exactly what you want, nurture big dreams, and overcome your fear Sep 24, 2024

Show notes

Want to know how to ask for exactly what you want, nurture your biggest dreams, and crush your fears along the way? You're in luck! Lily and her guest break down how to tap into your main character energy and own every aspect of your life. In this episode, you'll learn how to reclaim the parts of yourself you've left behind, nurture your inner light, and permit yourself to ask for – and actually receive – what you truly want.

We get into:

The disconnect between showing Main Character Energy on the outside but not feeling it internally
Giving yourself permission to take the chance and truly nurture your own needs
The power of finding support through a community coaching space and receiving collective encouragement
The challenges of asking for what you want, and learning that sometimes it's about asking less of yourself and allowing others to show up for you
How slowing down, even during success or failure, doesn't stall your growth
Understanding that listening to your desires only fuels more of them
The willingness to embrace more joy and actively seek it out in your life

Links:

RSVP for Take That Risk with Confident Main Character Energy

Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/ask-for-what-you-want-mce

214. From an exhausting job, to taking a huge leap and confidently prioritizing herself with main character energy with client Erica Sep 17, 2024

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Ever thought about making a big leap from your current job to your dream career? Discover how Erica ditched an exhausting job and became a full-time romance novelist with main character energy! Lily welcomes Erica a former Main Character Energy Mastermind client who made the leap from feeling stuck in her career to living her dream as a full-time romance novelist. Erica gets real about facing her fears, ditching self-doubt, and breaking free from the "shoulds" to follow her passion. This convo is a must-listen if you're ready to trust yourself, go after what you want, and make some bold, messy moves. Plus, Lily spills the details on her live training event happening October 9th, all about taking risks with main character energy.

This episode will leave you feeling inspired and ready to take tangible next steps to embrace main character energy, stop "shoulding" all over yourself, and step into a braver, bolder, and more magical season of your life.

We get into:

How Erica embraced her desire to become a full-time romance novelist
Tapping into main character energy to choose yourself and make your dreams a reality: "Here is an opportunity to figure out a way to choose me," said Erica.
Get the scoop on how trusting yourself can lead to bold moves and major life changes
"What you want doesn't just appear one day because you wish for it hard enough. It's about really taking into consideration the work that I put in, the talent that I know I have, the want and just going after it."
How stepping away from people-pleasing can help you build the self-trust you need to chase your true desires

Links: RSVP for Take That Risk with Confident Main Character Energy Erica's books, including "Witty in Pink"

Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/choosing-yourself-with-erica

213. How Jackie went from burnt out to taking a huge risk (that paid off) with confident main character energy Sep 10, 2024

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What happens when you stop playing it safe and start betting on yourself? In this episode, Jackie spills on how she shifted from burnout to bold moves, and what it takes to embrace that Main Character Energy. Jackie, a former Main Character Energy Mastermind member, joins Lily for a convo about how she went from frozen in fear and burnt out to making some serious boss moves in her life. Together, they dive into the power of community and the mindset shifts that make growth happen. Spoiler: It's all about trusting yourself, embracing the messiness, and going after what's yours—whether it's your career goals or relationship desires.

We get into:

How self-trust can lead to unexpected joy and experiences
Transitioning from a background character energy to main character energy
"Whatever growth you are looking to make - if you put in the effort, it will come."
Taking imperfect action and claiming that things are working out - even when it feels uncomfortable
Jackie's experience as a researcher of joy!

Links: RSVP for Take That Risk with Confident Main Character Energy

Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/huge-risks-with-mce-with-jackie

212. Knowing if something is right, long-term relationship questions, and dating as an independent badass with Ali & Erica of Finding Mr. Height Sep 03, 2024

Show notes

Is it possible to stay true to yourself while navigating the world of dating? Absolutely! We're pulling back the curtain with special guests Ali and Erica from Finding Mr. Height. Lily sits down with the duo to discuss how they decided to start their dating podcast and offers a glimpse into the clues, details, and breadcrumbs that help you figure out if someone is right for you. We also dig into the anxieties that surface in new and long-term relationships, offering strategies for navigating them with confidence and clarity.

You'll also hear Ali and Erica's candid thoughts on their least favorite—and most favorite—pieces of dating advice. Plus, Lily explores some uncharted territory, sharing her take on long-term relationships. This episode is packed with humor and practical tips to help you own what you want and build strong relationships.

We get into:

What inspired Ali and Erica to launch their dating podcast, Finding Mr. Height
Spotting the subtle clues and signals to determine if someone's right for you (or not)
Relationship anxieties—whether you're just starting out or deep in a long-term commitment
Finding and building a meaningful relationship that works for you
Ali and Erica's top dating tips and the advice they'd rather skip

Links: Finding Mr. Height podcast

Finding Mr. Height on Instagram @findingmrheight

Erica on Instagram @spericaa Lily's appearance on Finding Mr. Height

Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/finding-mr-height-ali-and-erica

211. Why you need to brag more to find love (and how to do it) Aug 27, 2024

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Hot-take: Bragging is key to attracting more in your dating life. That's right! We're diving into Lily's favorite chapter from her book, Thank You More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love. It's all about the Brazen Bragging Revolution! 🚀

Lily breaks down why bragging isn't just a power move but the key to attracting more fulfilling relationships. She gets real about her journey, tackles the societal BS that holds us back and gives you the ultimate guide to celebrating your awesomeness. Plus, there's exclusive bonus content waiting for you if you snag her book from her website.

You'll learn:

Why hiding your full awesomeness leads to uninspiring dates
Why it feels weird to brag and how to get over it
How to choose your bragging support and community wisely
Mastering the art of brazen bragging
Real-life examples of what you can start bragging about today

Links: Lily's book: Thank You, More Please

Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/brag-more-find-love

210. From feeling "behind" in dating to confidently shooting her shot 100% of the time with client Allyson Aug 20, 2024

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What does it take to go from feeling "behind" in dating to confidently making your move every single time? This week, Lily welcomes client Allyson, who shares her journey from feeling behind in dating to embracing self-compassion and taking control of her love life. They chat about the game-changing power of self-love, shaking off society's BS standards, and how stepping into a main character mindset has leveled up not just Allyson's dating game, but her whole life.

Tune in for some real talk on how to attract meaningful relationships while staying true to yourself, taking your shot, and feeling all kinds of empowered.

We get into:

The struggle of feeling behind in dating – "It felt like a mountain I couldn't climb."
Why it's okay to be uncomfortable, and how to find safety even in the discomfort.
Owning the fact that you are in complete control of your love life.
How Allyson found the courage to shoot her shot and ask someone out
Allyson's new beliefs about her future, and how it's all coming together

Links:

Main Character Dating (formerly known as Brazen Breakthrough)

Lily's book: Thank You, More Please

Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/shooting-your-shot-with-allyson

209. From paralyzing dating fear to confidently Blessing and Releasing with client Miriam Aug 13, 2024

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What if the key to transforming your dating life is all about owning your worth? Listen in to find out how Miriam went from dating fear to confidently choosing people who were aligned with what they truly wanted.

Join Lily and client Miriam as they dive deep into the thoughts that so many of us have about dating, worthiness, and settling, and how these can keep us stuck on a hamster wheel, going through the motions without real progress. Miriam shares their journey from feeling frustrated and scared about dating to radiating confidence and truly enjoying the experience! We get into:

The dating hamster wheel: How to break free from the endless cycle of dating without progress and finally make things happen.
Tips for overcoming those nagging thoughts like "I'm too much" or "All the good ones are taken" and boosting your dating confidence
Dealing with fears of settling, picking the wrong partner, or just getting started in the dating world
How Miriam mastered the art of blessing and releasing when there was a values mismatch, rather than sticking around to "see where this goes."

Links:

✨RSVP for Lily's Free Training - 3 Steps to Attract the Right Partner as a "Late Bloomer" ✨ Main Character Dating (formerly known as Brazen Breakthrough) Lily's book: Thank You, More Please Date Brazen on YouTube Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/bless-and-release-confidently-with-miriam

208. Why I want you to make the first move 100% of the time (and how to do it successfully) Aug 06, 2024

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Hot-take: You should make the first move 100% of the time. If you read that and feel a sense of fear, that's okay! In this episode, Lily breaks down everything from rocking a proactive mindset to embracing those awkward moments and showing yourself some self-compassion so you can confidently make the first move every time.

This is the most passionate lesson Lily teaches, and she has seen a major difference in clients' ability to attract the right partner. Tune in to learn how to transform your dating life with bold confidence and get the deets on more resources to help you along the way.

You'll learn:

How to embrace the awkwardness, recognize your inner power, and remember you're resilient AF.
"You can't say the wrong thing to the right person."
Take Your Shot: Every attempt brings you closer to what you want because you're actively attracting and asking for it.
Use the S.O.F.T. method to move through rejection: Self-compassion, Own Your Needs, Feel Your Feelings, and remember that Thoughts Are Not Facts.
Creative and practical suggestions to help you take that first step!

Links:

✨RSVP for Lily's Free Training - 3 Steps to Attract the Right Partner as a "Late Bloomer" ✨ Main Character Dating Lily's book: Thank You, More Please 162. The Complete Dating Detox Guide Kristin Neff's Self-compassion.org Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/make-the-first-move-every-time

207. Coming out, trusting yourself after a breakup, and finding love with my client, Liz Jul 30, 2024

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Are you wondering, "How do I pick up the pieces after this horrible breakup?" This week, Lily dives straight into an inspiring conversation with Liz, a former client who turned the heartbreak of a broken engagement into a powerful journey of healing and finding new love. Liz keeps it real, sharing her experiences of embracing pain, seeking support, and rebuilding self-trust.

Together, Lily and Liz explore the transformative process of becoming your main character through the work of Main Character Dating, formerly known as Brazen Breakthrough. Returning to the podcast after her first appearance in 2023, Liz brings a full-circle perspective, offering wisdom and insights for anyone navigating post-breakup life or re-entering the dating world.

Listen in as Liz reflects on how the principles of Main Character Dating have evolved with her, revealing how embracing self-discovery and vulnerability can be your greatest strengths.

We get into:

Picking up the pieces after a shitty breakup
Liz shares her raw experience: "I had to fully feel all my pain," emphasizing the importance of embracing and processing emotions to heal
When you show up with your feelings, the right people show up for you as well
Navigating the desire/shame see-saw means trusting your gut and understanding there's no perfect timeline for getting back into dating
Liz explores, "What does self-trust look like for you now?" sharing how she found courage and rebuilt self-trust

Links:

✨RSVP for Lily's Free Training - 3 Steps to Attract the Right Partner as a "Late Bloomer" ✨ Lily's book: Thank You, More Please

Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/self-trust-and-love-after-a-breakup-with-liz

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