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The Secret Many Women Carry with Molly Bertles Feb 10, 2026

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In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter is joined by Molly Bertles, pastor’s wife, mom of five, and author of You Are Not Alone. Molly opens up about her personal journey with shame, faith, and healing, and why conversations about sexual struggles among women are long overdue in the church.

Molly shares how secrecy and isolation keep women trapped in shame, why access to inappropriate content has changed how women struggle today, and how faith, community, and honest conversations can lead to real freedom. This episode is a powerful reminder that no one is uniquely broken—and healing is possible.

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✨ Episode Topics Discussed

• Why women often feel isolated and ashamed when struggling with sexual sin
• How secrecy and silence keep shame alive
• Molly’s personal story and why she wrote You Are Not Alone
• Why women’s struggles are often overlooked in church conversations
• The impact of technology, books, and online content on women today
• How faith reshapes identity, shame, and healing
• First steps toward freedom and who to talk to
• How parents can disciple children and talk about sexuality
• Why community is essential for healing
• Encouragement for women seeking hope and restoration

📘 Resources Mentioned

You Are Not Alone by Molly Bertles – https://www.amazon.com/You-Are-Alone-Molly-Bertles/dp/1633423727

Harvest USA Transforming Love Course- https://harvestusa.org/courses/transforming-love/

Embark on a journey to recovery: Arise is a 21 Day Free Program for Women- https://www.covenanteyes.com/arise/

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Shame, Silence, and Why Women Don’t Speak Up
00:26 – Welcome & Guest Introduction
01:20 – Molly’s Story and Why She Wrote the Book
04:18 – The Response from the Church
05:21 – Why Women Feel More Shame About This Struggle
06:50 – Secrecy, Isolation, and the First Steps Toward Freedom
07:29 – How the Gospel Reshapes Shame and Identity
09:34 – Why So Many People Struggle Privately Online
10:52 – Why Certain Stories and Media Appeal to Women
12:04 – Talking to Kids About Sexuality and God’s Design
15:16 – Parenting, Hypocrisy, and Healing Your Own Story
16:57 – Where to Find Molly’s Book and Resources
17:32 – Encouragement for Women Seeking Freedom
19:52 – How Church Leaders Can Respond with Wisdom and Grace
21:58 – Closing Thoughts and Next Steps

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Your Body Remembers What You Forgot with Adam Young Feb 03, 2026

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In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter and co-host Rob are joined by Adam Young, licensed clinical social worker, former pastor, author, and host of The Place We Find Ourselves podcast.

Adam shares deep insight into how early life experiences shape the brain, body, and nervous system—and why engaging our personal stories with care and support is essential for healing. Together, they explore trauma, shame, memory, and the redemptive truth that God designed us for restoration.

This conversation offers hope for anyone carrying unresolved pain, reminding listeners that healing is possible and that our bodies and hearts were created with the capacity to recover and be made whole.

✨ Episode Topics Discussed

• Why shame resists being brought into the light
• How personal stories shape the brain and nervous system
• The difference between explicit and implicit memory
• Why unresolved trauma often lives in the body
• Understanding complicity and misplaced shame
• The concept of “the trauma before the trauma”
• How family systems shape vulnerability and healing
• Why healing requires community and trained support
• Trauma-informed therapy and what to look for in a clinician
• The hope of healing rooted in God’s design and goodness

📘 Resources Mentioned

Adam Young Counseling – https://www.adamyoungcounseling.com
The Place We Find Ourselves Podcast – https://adamyoungcounseling.com/podcast/
Make Sense of Your Story by Adam Young – https://www.amazon.com/Make-Sense-Your-Story-Everything/
The Allender Center – https://theallendercenter.org

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Shame, Silence & the Path to Healing
00:25 – Welcome & Guest Introduction
01:35 – Adam’s Background & Work
02:10 – The Importance of Personal Stories and Adam’s Book
03:32 – Why Shame Keeps Stories Hidden
04:45 – Explicit vs. Implicit Memory
06:40 – Understanding Complicity and Moving Past It
10:25 – The Trauma Before the Trauma
11:51 – Betrayal, Trust & the Body’s Awareness
13:26 – Finding and Naming Formative Stories
14:14 – Trauma-Informed Therapy
16:46 – Trauma in the Body & Nervous System
18:54 – Generational Trauma & Healing
20:09 – Resources & Where to Find Help
20:46 – Encouragement & Closing Reflection

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The Cost of Ignoring the Truth with Seth Gruber Jan 27, 2026

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In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter is joined by Seth Gruber, speaker, filmmaker, and founder of The White Rose Resistance, for a wide-ranging conversation on faith, discipleship, and the church’s responsibility to engage cultural challenges with clarity and courage.

Seth shares why the Christian worldview offers a coherent framework for understanding modern cultural struggles, how faith speaks to both personal integrity and public life, and why pastors and church leaders play a vital role in equipping believers to live virtuously in a complex world.

This episode is a call to move beyond silence and isolation—encouraging churches to disciple boldly, protect human dignity, and help people find hope, healing, and freedom through the gospel.

✨ Episode Topics Discussed

• Why the Christian worldview offers clarity in confusing cultural moments
• How faith addresses both personal integrity and societal issues
• The role of pastors in discipling believers for everyday life
• Why courage and conviction matter in Christian leadership
• How digital habits shape hearts, minds, and relationships
• The importance of protecting human dignity at every stage of life
• Why discipleship must address real-world challenges
• Hope for the next generation and the opportunity before the church
• Why accountability and community are essential for spiritual health
• Equipping believers to live with purpose, conviction, and grace

📘 Resources Mentioned

The White Rose Resistance – https://www.whiteroseresistance.com
Life or Death Conference – https://www.lifeordeathcon.com
The Seth Gruber Show – Available on YouTube and podcast platforms
Covenant Eyes Church Resources – https://www.covenanteyes.com/church

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – A Biblical Framework for Cultural Challenges
00:20 – Welcome & Guest Introduction
06:12 – A Call for Pastors to Lead with Courage
14:09 – Reaching the Next Generation: Cultural Shifts and Emerging Hope
32:39 – The White Rose Resistance & Upcoming Events
38:47 – Resources for Pastors and Church Leaders
41:44 – Final Encouragement & Closing

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The Hidden Cause Of Your Pain with Dr. Mark Mayfield Jan 20, 2026

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In this thoughtful episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter welcomes Dr. Mark Mayfield—former pastor, mental health counselor, certified Christian coach, and Assistant Professor of Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Colorado Christian University—for a timely conversation on loneliness, connection, and purpose.

Dr. Mayfield brings decades of ministry and counseling experience to help unpack why loneliness has become so widespread, how technology and culture have reshaped relationships, and why biblical community remains essential for emotional, spiritual, and mental health.

If you or someone you love feels disconnected, overwhelmed, or unsure how to build meaningful relationships, this episode offers wisdom, hope, and practical next steps.

✨ Episode Topics Discussed

• What’s driving the modern loneliness epidemic
• How smartphones and digital habits impact connection
• Why humans are wired for safe, trusting community
• The church’s role in addressing mental health needs
• Creating spaces for honest, meaningful relationships
• How faith provides purpose without eliminating struggle
• Why loneliness can impact mental and physical health
• Practical ways to walk through lonely seasons well
• How parents can foster connection at home
• Healthy boundaries, reciprocal relationships, and next steps

📘 Resources Mentioned

American Association of Christian Counselors (AACC) – https://aacc.net

Mental Health Made Simple – https://mentalhealthmadesimple.life

Dr. Mark Mayfield’s books & workbooks – https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Dr+Mark+Mayfield

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Teaser
00:21 – Introduction 00:46 – Why Loneliness Matters Today
01:48 – Dr. Mayfield’s Background & Work
04:09 – The Loneliness Epidemic & Cultural Shifts
07:00 – Community, Church, and God’s Design
09:40 – Gen Z, Connection, and the Church’s Opportunity
12:49 – Building Safe, Healthy Communities
15:55 – Faith, Purpose, and Human Connection
18:39 – Self-Awareness, Reflection, and Community
21:10 – Parenting, Home Culture, and Connection
25:37 – Loneliness, Anxiety, and Health Impacts
28:16 – Walking Through Lonely Seasons Well
32:38 – Helpful Resources & Support
33:50 – Final Encouragement & Wrap-Up

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This Secret Controlled My Life for 15 Years Before Discovering a Path to Freedom  Jan 13, 2026

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In this powerful episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter welcomes Sathiya Sam, founder of Deep Clean and host of The Man Within Podcast, for an honest, hope-filled conversation on recovery, identity, discipleship, and the transformative power of community.

Sathiya shares his story of early exposure, a 15-year struggle, and how God led him into lasting freedom—and eventually into a ministry that has now helped over 1,000 men walk in integrity. Together, Karen and Sathiya explore practical tools, biblical frameworks, and the heart-level work required for real restoration.

If you, your family, or your church is navigating hidden battles, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and a path toward healing.

✨ Episode Topics Discussed

• How early exposure impacts emotional and spiritual development
• Why unwanted habits are a symptom—not the root issue
• The three stages of heart-level transformation
• Why shame and isolation keep people stuck
• The role of community, discipleship, and vulnerability
• How parents can cultivate open, healthy conversations at home
• The connection between purpose, identity, and long-term freedom
• How pastors and ministry leaders can safely open dialogue
• Staying vigilant through community, discipline, and support
• Encouragement for anyone who feels alone, overwhelmed, or unsure where to start

📘 Resources Mentioned

Deep Clean Program- https://www.sathiyasam.com/coaching
The Last Relapse- https://www.sathiyasam.com/books
The Man Within Podcast- https://www.sathiyasam.com/podcast

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Teaser

00:22 – Introduction

02:00 – Early Exposure & The Digital Landscape

05:31 – Pornography as a Symptom, Not the Root

07:33 – What the Recovery Journey Looks Like

10:30 – Fear, Shame & the Power of Community

13:22 – What Deep Clean Looks Like Practically

14:43 – How Christian Parents Can Fortify Their Homes

18:43 – Why Faith Matters in Recovery

22:11 – Identity & Where It Comes From

26:59 – “I Don’t Have Anyone to Talk To”

31:32 – How Pastors Can Reach Men in Their Congregations

36:59 – Staying Vigilant Long-Term

39:46 – The Role of Discipleship

44:06 – About The Man Within Podcast

45:47 – Encouragement & Prayer

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Are We Losing the Next Generation? | Covenant Eyes Podcast Season 5 Premiere Jan 06, 2026

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In this special season premiere of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter is joined by Rob and Theo to kick off Season Five with excitement, vision, and a renewed commitment to serving individuals, families, and churches.

Together, they reflect on five years of podcasting, share what’s ahead this season, and highlight Covenant Eyes’ growing mission to equip churches with practical, grace-filled resources. This episode offers a behind-the-scenes look at upcoming guests, key themes for the year, and the launch of the Five Stones Church Resource Kit.

If you’re a pastor, ministry leader, or someone passionate about helping the church respond with wisdom, compassion, and truth, this episode sets the tone for what’s to come.

✨ Episode Topics Discussed

• Celebrating five years of the Covenant Eyes Podcast
• What listeners can expect in Season Five
• Why diverse voices and perspectives matter
• Addressing cultural challenges with a holistic faith approach
• The importance of equipping churches to lead with grace
• Why awareness and safe conversations are essential
• Introducing the Five Stones Church Resource Kit
• How Covenant Eyes is supporting churches nationwide
• How listeners can suggest future topics and guests

📘 Resources Mentioned

Five Stones Church Resource Kit – https://www.covenanteyes.com/church
Covenant Eyes Church Team – Available through CovenantEyes.com
Podcast Contact Email – podcast@covenanteyes.com

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Why Churches Need Better Resources
00:25 – Welcome to Season Five
00:51 – What’s Coming Up This Season?
02:05 – The Value of Diverse Perspectives
03:07 – Holistic Faith & Cultural Challenges
03:35 – Introducing the Five Stones Program
06:24 – Supporting Churches Across the Country
07:02 – How Churches Can Get Connected
07:17 – Final Thoughts & How to Reach the Podcast Team

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Healing, Identity & Real Freedom: Garry Ingraham’s Journey + The Mission of Love & Truth Network Dec 10, 2025

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In this powerful episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter welcomes Garry Ingraham, co-founder of the Love & Truth Network, for an honest and hope-filled discussion on healing, identity, belonging, and the role of the church in restoring lives.
Garry shares his deeply personal story of early trauma, emotional isolation, and identity confusion—and how God brought him into genuine freedom and a renewed sense of purpose. His testimony offers hope for anyone who feels stuck, overwhelmed, or alone in their struggles.
Together, Karen and Garry explore:
• Why early experiences and emotional wounds often shape later behaviors
• How shame, secrecy, and isolation keep people trapped
• Why genuine discipleship and spiritual family are crucial for healing
• How the church can move from silence to restoration
• The difference between behavioral cycles and true transformation
• Why identity in God—not culture—anchors lasting change
• How healthy, vulnerable community helps break old patterns
• Practical, realistic steps for finding support and walking in freedom
Garry also explains the mission of Love & Truth Network, which equips churches to restore relational wholeness and strengthen biblical identity in a culture filled with confusion.
If you've ever felt hopeless, disconnected, or unsure where to start, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and a path forward.
✨ Learn more about Garry & Melissa Ingraham:
https://LoveAndTruthNetwork.com

Love & Truth Network Podcast (video + audio): https://LoveAndTruthNetwork.com/podcast
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Healing, Hope & Digital Freedom: Dr. Peter Kleponis on Restoring Lives and Relationships Dec 05, 2025

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In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, Theo McManigal sits down with Dr. Peter Kleponis—Catholic therapist, author, and creator of the Integrity Starts Here recovery program. Dr. Kleponis shares his 30-year journey into counseling, his discovery of a growing digital-behavior crisis, and how faith-centered healing can transform individuals, marriages, and even vocations.
He discusses:
• Why unwanted online habits often stem from emotional wounds, not desire
• How these behaviors impact trust and intimacy in marriages
• What spouses need to begin healing from betrayal
• The difference between a habit and a full-blown behavioral addiction
• How accountability tools and supportive communities foster long-term freedom
• Why prayer alone is not meant to “make the struggle disappear,” and how God instead walks with us through healing
• Practical steps clergy, parents, and couples can take right now to protect themselves and those they love
Dr. Kleponis also offers insight for parents navigating early exposure risks, tips for choosing a therapist, and encouragement for anyone ready to take the first step toward lasting freedom.
✨ Connect With Dr. Kleponis:
https://PeterKleponis.com
https://IntegrityCounselingPA.com

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Reaching Men in the Marketplace: Joe Beckler on Discipleship, Purpose & Integrity (CBMC) Nov 21, 2025

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In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, Rob Stoddard sits down with Joe Beckler, Vice President of Development, Marketing, and Communication for CBMC (Christian Businessmen’s Connection) — an organization celebrating 95 years of equipping men to live out their faith in the marketplace.
Joe shares the remarkable story of CBMC’s origins during the Great Depression and its ongoing mission to reach business leaders through life-on-life discipleship, mentorship, and spiritual community. He also discusses his personal CBMC journey and why the marketplace remains one of the largest mission fields today.
You’ll hear powerful insights on:
✓ Why so many men feel isolated in today’s digital, high-pressure culture
✓ The deep challenges facing Christian business leaders
✓ How destructive patterns often take root — and how to break free
✓ The power of accountability teams & one-on-one discipleship
✓ CBMC’s transformative tool: Operation Timothy
✓ What it looks like to walk in freedom, calling, and purpose
✓ Why reaching the next generation of men is CBMC’s top priority
✓ How men (and churches) can get connected today
Joe also shares how digital pressures are shaping culture — and why intentional community and Christ-centered mentorship are more important than ever.
🔗 Learn more about CBMC: https://www.cbmc.com
🔗 Join a Team or Find a Group Near You: https://www.cbmc.com/connect
🔗 Operation Timothy & Other Free Tools (ADVANCE Platform): https://advance.cbmc.com
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Welcome to the Covenant Eyes Podcast
00:29 – Introducing guest Joe Beckler from CBMC
02:40 – How CBMC builds life-on-life relationships
06:38 – The challenges Christian men face today
07:20 – Digital pressures & cultural isolation
08:18 – Why harmful digital content is a growing epidemic
09:00 – The “mask” men wear in the workplace
09:53 – CBMC’s positive, empowering approach to men
13:49 – One-on-one discipleship: Joe, Gary & Matt’s story
14:32 – How Operation Timothy creates generations of disciples
15:07 – Why digital integrity is essential for men today
16:00 – The global impact of digital culture
17:52 – Men sharing their struggles openly
18:22 – How culture is being reshaped by digital influences
19:01 – Discipleship as the heart of lasting transformation
19:49 – Joe’s big hope for the next 95 years: reaching the next generation
20:44 – Helping younger men navigate a new digital landscape
21:19 – How to get involved with CBMC locally or virtually
22:09 – The ADVANCE platform (free global resources)
23:03 – Why personal connection is the game-changer
24:08 – A final message of encouragement for men & pastors
25:30 – Closing thanks & next episode preview

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Healing Marriages & Strengthening Families: Focus on the Family on Real Recovery & Hope Nov 19, 2025

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Join host Rob Stoddard for an impactful discussion with Geremy Keeton, Senior Director of Counseling Services at Focus on the Family. With more than two decades of experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist, Geremy brings deep, compassionate insight into how families can heal, reconnect, and thrive in Christ.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
✓ The most common ways hidden struggles impact marriages
✓ Why trust is often the first casualty — and how to rebuild it
✓ The myths couples believe that make healing harder
✓ What a healthy, transformative accountability relationship really looks like
✓ Practical, hopeful guidance for parents raising children in a digital world
✓ The role of the church in fostering healing, support, and restoration
✓ Key Focus on the Family resources for individuals, couples, and pastors
Geremy also shares wisdom from Focus on the Family’s counseling team, who serve thousands each month through free ministry consultations.
📘 Featured Resource: Aftershock — A step-by-step guide for couples recovering from betrayal
🔗 Focus on the Family Help Line: 1-800-A-FAMILY
🔗 Focus on the Family Resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com
🔗 Recommended Resource Hub: https://focusonthefamily.com/pornography
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Welcome
00:28 – Introducing guest Geremy Keeton
00:52 – Geremy’s background & 23 years at Focus on the Family
02:03 – Issues couples bring to their first phone call
02:31 – How hidden struggles impact marriages & families
03:38 – Spouses coping with fear, shock, and confusion
04:04 – How integrity affects a believer’s walk with God
04:57 – Challenges for families teaching healthy sexuality
05:29 – The deep relational damage Geremy’s team sees
05:58 – Common myths couples believe
06:52 – The myth of “just have a more exciting marriage”
07:17 – Why a “send him/her to get fixed” mindset fails
07:47 – Three journeys of recovery: husband, wife, and marriage
08:43 – Why the issue is deeper than the unwanted behavior
09:12 – What truly drives relational disconnection
09:38 – The myth of “just try harder or pray harder”
10:08 – What healthy accountability actually looks like
11:20 – Transformative relationships vs. check-in relationships
13:04 – Avoiding shame-based accountability
13:33 – Parents: how to start healthy conversations with kids
14:49 – Sex education as prevention
15:27 – Teaching dignity, protection, and healthy boundaries
17:16 – What churches can do to help
20:32 – Focus on the Family’s resource hub
21:25 – How to contact Focus for help
24:56 – Final encouragement & closing

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