The Business of Pleasure

45. Halfway Up To Manhood, Pt 2 Dec 09, 2025

In Part 2 of our Men’s Health Month feature, @_WolfTaylor and @YourSexologistBestie dive further into the intersections of pleasure, sex, religion, and the taboos that shape how men learn to show up in intimacy. The conversation gets honest, insightful, and unexpectedly hilarious when Kash surprises Wolf with a curated set of Bedroom Kandi essentials… and his reactions are priceless. Featured items include the Sidekick sleeve, Silk lubricant, the R&B rechargeable C-ring, Eros Pheromone Body Spray, our Fine Men’s Scrub in the Eros fragrance, and the Velvet Organic Sugar Scrub. Wolf gets hands-on learning about enhancing sensation, boosting confidence, and elevating his entire pleasure routine. We talk about unlearning shame, redefining masculinity through wellness, and the freedom men find when they finally give themselves permission to explore pleasure without judgment. It is equal parts comedic, vulnerable, and deeply necessary. Join us for Part 2 as The Business of Pleasure continues creating space for men to grow, heal, laugh, and honor their bodies in new ways. PT 2, let’s get into it.

44. 12 Days of Kandimas Black & Gold Takeover — Pt 2 Dec 02, 2025

Part 1 took us from the bathroom to the edge of the bedroom… but Part 2? We are diving straight into the bedroom just in time for the launch of Bedroom Kandi’s 12 Days of Christmas celebration. For the next 12 days, a new item drops at 30 percent off every single day and stays on sale until the end of the 12th day. If you want to understand how to use these goodies, what they feel like, and why they make perfect gifts, this is the episode you do not want to miss. In this special Black & Gold Week continuation, @YourSexologistBestie, @CallMeCoach.MrsBellamy & @yesssterday test, taste, and react to some of Bedroom Kandi’s most loved bedroom essentials: • The Edible Massage Oil Trio, a sensual blend in Strawberry 🍓, Watermelon 🍉, and Vanilla 🍦 • The Edible Massage Candle Duo, a delicious melt-and-pour experience in Mango 🥭 and Pineapple 🍍 • The Sweet Spot, our honey-flavored warming arousal gel that brings instant heat and deep sensitivity Plus, a lineup of toys designed to deliver unforgettable pleasure: • The Petal Pleaser, our flower-shaped flicking stimulator • Candy Kisses, a silky gold vibe made for precision and power • Groove, the remote-operated panty pleasure system for play anywhere • Love Life Krush, our app-controlled G-spot vibe and kegel trainer with sound-responsive technology • The Womanizer Duo, the legendary clit-air suction + G-spot vibration combo The reactions were priceless, the products were a hit, and the gift ideas are top-tier whether you’re stuffing stockings or planning your own naughty-and-nice wishlist. Tune in and tap in. This Part 2 episode kicks off 12 days of pleasure, play, and presents — Bedroom Kandi style.

43. The Bathroom to the Bedroom, Black & Gold Takeover — Pt 1 Nov 24, 2025

Part 1 of our Black and Gold Week Kickoff takes us from the bathroom straight into the bedroom as we celebrate 25 percent off all regular priced Bedroom Kandi products. With @yeesssterday and @mrsbellamy.callmecoach, we hosted a full Black and Gold pleasure party packed with wellness, grooming and intimacy gems. Bathroom Essentials Where the glow-up begins: • MANIFEST Foaming Face Wash and MANIFEST Moisturizer, our men’s skincare duo designed to deeply cleanse, hydrate and keep the skin smooth, fresh and balanced. • Pragmatism Beard Oil, a conditioning blend that softens the beard, boosts shine and nourishes the skin underneath. • Eros Shave Cream, a rich, luxurious formula that gives a close, irritation free shave. • Premonition Men’s Pheromone Cologne, crafted to enhance scent, confidence and attraction. • Haute Cakes Intimate Elixir, formulated to fight odor causing bacteria with a coconut oil base while leaving you smelling like warm cake all day. • Butter Me Up Body Butter, a deep moisture body treatment that melts into the skin for all day softness and glow. ⸻ Bedroom Essentials Where softness meets wildness: • Massage Oil Trio, edible oils in watermelon 🍉, strawberry 🍓 and vanilla 🌼 to set the mood, awaken the senses and glide effortlessly across the skin. • Light My Fire Massage Oil Candle, a soy based edible candle that melts into a warm massage oil for sensual temperature play. • Sweet On Me Buttercream Icing, an edible arousal cream safe for the external genitals, designed to enhance blood flow, increase moisture and boost sensation. • Stamina Male Prolonging Spray, a topical delay formula to support longer lasting pleasure. This kickoff episode blends intimacy, grooming and irresistible touch as we get ready for the biggest sale week of the year. @businessofpleasurepod, hosted by @yoursexologistbestie Powered by Bedroom Kandi, rooted in empowerment, education and earning through pleasure and wellness.

42. Halfway Up To Manhood - feat. Wolf Taylor Nov 17, 2025

As we step into Men’s Health Month, Wolf Taylor brings a grounded, honest voice to a conversation men rarely get space to have. Wolf, creator of the Halfway Up Podcast, talks about growing up with a strong family and faith foundation while also realizing in adulthood that some tools he needed simply were not passed down. Not out of neglect, but because every generation teaches from what they knew. We dig into how many men today are thrown into pressure, responsibility, and emotional silence long before they are prepared for it. That silence shows up in their mental health, their intimacy, their relationships, and their ability to perform. We talk about the rise in anxiety, depression, and performance challenges in younger men and why men need safe places to be vulnerable without their masculinity being questioned. This episode keeps the heart of Business of Pleasure at the center, focusing on wellness, emotional safety, and how Bedroom Kandi continues creating judgment free spaces where people can learn, connect, and heal through community. Part One ends midway through our Adult Edutainment segment, so tap back in for Part Two as we take the conversation even deeper.

41. Rated R for Radiant, Part 2 - Feat. Master Radiant Nov 03, 2025

PART TWO! Watch the second part of our episode where @YourSexologistBestieKash links up with @master_radiant — sensual Dom, educator, and embodiment of calm control — for a deep dive into the art of pleasure, power, and presence. 😈 From impact to intention, Kash and Master Radiant explore how kink can serve as both release and restoration — where safe touch, guided pressure, and intentional restraint help the body let go of what the mind holds on to. They unpack the psychology of pleasure, how negotiation builds safety, and why aftercare is just as sexy as foreplay. This episode reminds us that kink isn’t just about dominance or pain — it’s about trust, healing, and the confidence that comes from knowing what (and who) moves you. 🖤 Products Featured: • Spread Desire Spreader Bar • Bonds Of Desire Ankle & Wrist Restraints • Heart Desires Paddle • Royal Treatment Your Highness

40. Rated R for Radiant - Feat. Master Radiant Oct 28, 2025

This Kinktober, @YourSexologistBestieKash links up with @master_radiant — sensual Dom, educator, and embodiment of calm control — for a deep dive into the art of pleasure, power, and presence. 😈 From impact to intention, Kash and Master Radiant explore how kink can serve as both release and restoration — where safe touch, guided pressure, and intentional restraint help the body let go of what the mind holds on to. They unpack the psychology of pleasure, how negotiation builds safety, and why aftercare is just as sexy as foreplay. This episode reminds us that kink isn’t just about dominance or pain — it’s about trust, healing, and the confidence that comes from knowing what (and who) moves you. 🖤 Products Featured: • Spread Desire Spreader Bar • Bonds Of Desire Ankle & Wrist Restraints • Heart Desires Paddle • Royal Treatment Your Highness 🎙️ Business of Pleasure – Episode 40: Rated R For Radiant Hosted by @YourSexologistBestieKash Featuring special guest @master_radiant

39. From Pain to Proposal: Reclaiming Love After Survival - Feat. Dannie of Diamond Daddy Oct 20, 2025

⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of domestic violence, reproductive trauma, and child loss. In this heartfelt and healing episode of The Business of Pleasure, your sexologist bestie Kash sits down with Dannie of Diamond Daddy— jewelry designer, diamond specialist, and survivor — for an intimate conversation on love, loss, and the journey to rediscovery after abuse. Both women open up about their personal histories with domestic violence. Kash shares how witnessing and experiencing abuse — even before recognizing it as abuse — shaped her own understanding of love, safety, and boundaries. Together, they unpack the complexity of realizing you’re being mistreated only once it becomes physical, and the emotional patterns that make so many survivors second-guess their pain. Dannie courageously details her story — surviving domestic violence, enduring reproductive trauma and child loss, and finding the strength to rebuild her life and heart. Her story is one of rebirth: from pain to proposal, she found a love that honors her healing, safety, and wholeness. ✨ Topics include: • Recognizing emotional and psychological abuse before it turns physical • The generational echoes of trauma and survival • Healing from reproductive trauma and child loss • Relearning intimacy and trust after abuse • Rediscovering self-worth and creating space for love again 💼 Adult Edutainment Segment: Kash highlights Bedroom Kandi’s Royal Treatment Collection, featuring tools that nurture safety, self-connection, and sensual healing — including The Queen vibrator, Get In Touch finger vibe, and Delicious Encounters lubes. These products are designed to help survivors rebuild intimacy with their bodies in a way that feels safe, empowering, and affirming. 🎧 Tune in to this emotional yet empowering conversation on reclaiming pleasure, love, and purpose after survival — a reminder that even the deepest scars can heal, and every woman deserves her royal treatment.

38. The Power of Touch – Feat. Mama Dee of D’Vine Touch Oct 06, 2025

Touch is more than physical… it’s connection, communication, and one of the most powerful love languages we have. 💆🏽‍♀️💋 In this Pro Touch Month kickoff episode of the Business of Pleasure Podcast, @YourSexologistBestie sits down with Mama Dee — sensual healer, erotic masseuse, and founder of @d.vine.touch — to explore the sacred and sensual side of touch. Together they dive into the emotional, spiritual, and physical power of hands-on connection, and how intentional touch can soothe trauma, spark intimacy, and help you reconnect with your own body. Kash also breaks down the difference between sensual and erotic touch, shares tantric principles, and reveals how nervous system regulation and self-awareness can turn simple touch into full-body healing. This episode features Bedroom Kandi’s new Pro Touch Collection: 💫 Warm Me Up – reusable heating pad for soothing warmth 💫 Massage Oil Trio – for glide and sensory exploration 💫 Get In Touch – finger vibrator with 20 vibration patterns 💫 Make Me Over – discreet hand-strap vibe in a luxury compact ✨ Because sometimes, the softest touch has the strongest impact.

37. Unboxed Evolution: From Pioneer To Purpose - feat .Mandii B Sep 29, 2025

As we close out Self-Care September and Mental Health Awareness Month, we sit down with NY Times Best-Selling Author, media personality, and sex-positive pioneer Mandii B (aka @fullcourtpumps) — host of Whoreible Decisions, Decisions, Decisions, Selective Ignorance, and more — for a deeply honest, liberating conversation about breaking free from boxes, owning your voice, and the climb that made it all worthwhile. From achieving recognition as a big voice in sex-positive conversations to the discouraging moments that came with her rise, Mandii shares how she continues to reinvent herself while staying true to her power. Alongside her partner Weezy WTF, she became a New York Times Best-Selling Author, and today she continues to expand her influence across multiple platforms — proving there’s no limit to what women who refuse to be boxed in can achieve. Follow Mandii B: Instagram & X: ⁠@FullCourtPumps

36. The Inner Kid, Part 12- Feat. Tahoe, Chris, and Kent Jones Sep 22, 2025

In Part 2 of The Inner Kid conversation, @KentJonesOfficial, @Big_Black_Supervillain, @Tahoe_TV, and @YourSexologistBestie dive deeper into the idea of making space for our inner teenagers—the “big kids” inside us who never fully got their moment. From sneakers and video games to the hobbies and passions we once couldn’t afford, the things we chase as adults often connect back to pieces of ourselves that were left behind. Instead of weaponizing those joys in relationships, we ask: what happens when we honor them, and how does that shift intimacy, safety, and emotional connection? The guys open up on how seeing the “baby picture” version of your partner can change the way you love them, and why everyone deserves to be seen in every phase they’ve lived through. We close with a little fun, gifting Kent some of Bedroom Kandi’s Manifest Men’s Care, Eros head-to-toe balm, and Black Excellence soap set—plus a live demo of our Lovelife Krush, the sound-responsive toy that had the whole room in awe. A mix of emotional transparency and playful exploration, this episode is all about living without boundaries and creating space for the versions of ourselves that still deserve care.

35. The Inner Kid, Part 1 - Feat. Kandi, Tahoe, Chris, and Kent Jones Sep 15, 2025

Season 3 of The Business of Pleasure keeps the energy high and the conversations raw. In PART 1 of this episode, Your Sexologist Bestie @yoursexologistbestie is joined by @kandi, @tahoe_tv, @big_black_supervillain (the other half of The Soft & The Strong), and Grammy-nominated artist @kentjonesofficial. We open with Kandi sharing a saving grace tip using Bedroom Kandi’s Nourish Whipped Body Butter before she dips out — then the conversation takes off. From Kent’s rise in the music industry to his bold transparency about his foot fetish (something he’s spoken about on The Breakfast Club and Angela Yee’s Lip Service), we dive into how pleasure, kinks, and lifestyle intersect with growth. Kent reflects on how even the things that once defined his joy — like his love of feet — have evolved, pushing him to explore new spaces, like submission and kink dynamics. Chris opens up about aftercare in their relationship, and the guys expand the conversation into something deeper: the little boy and teenage self that still live inside us, and the need to make room for those parts of ourselves in adulthood. This episode is an emotional and sensual roller coaster — touching on everything from sexual exploration to emotional transparency, and how true intimacy means caring for the whole person, inside and out.

34. Dream Big, B*tch - feat. Kandi, Tahoe, Lady D and Anisha Sep 08, 2025

In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, Your Sexologist Bestie Kash and BK Founder Kandi Burruss sits down with Bedroom Kandi top performers and Consultant Advisory Council leaders LaDonya "Lady D" McClure and Anisha Robinson. Together, they dive into what it really takes to keep intimacy alive — from everyday sensuality to the art of creating pleasure-centered experiences in and out of the bedroom. With years of success as BK leaders, LaDonya and Anisha share how their journeys have been fueled not just by business wins but by a deeper understanding of self-care, confidence, and connection. This episode blends laughter, candid talk, and a few naughty insights 😉 — proving that when women own their pleasure, they own their power.

33. MANIFEST Lifestyle - feat. Mr. Organik, Kandi & Tahoe Aug 28, 2025

In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, Your Sexologist Bestie Kash is joined by Bedroom Kandi founder Kandi Burruss and influencer Tahoe for a no-holds-barred conversation with the larger-than-life Mr. Organik. Known for his disciplined lifestyle, fitness, and entrepreneurial hustle, Mr. Organik opens up about his brand, his mindset, and the routines that fuel his success. But the conversation doesn’t stop there — things get wild when the crew dives into his dating life, relationships, and the reality that even a man this confident still has room to grow when it comes to women, romance, and intimacy. It’s raw, funny, and eye-opening — a mix of business talk, magnetic energy, real talk about love and sex, and BK product play woven throughout. If you’ve ever wondered how discipline, manifestation, and masculinity collide with vulnerability and growth, this episode will have you locked in.

32. Take Care of Both His Heads - Part 2 Jul 01, 2025

In Part 2 of this deeply intimate episode, Chris and Kash go beyond playful banter and dive straight into the real—unpacking fears, emotional weight, and the truth behind what it means to love boldly while still healing. Kash opens up about the silent fears she carried at the beginning of their relationship—how loving a man who felt like home came with the terrifying possibility of losing him. Chris listens in real time as she shares parts of her heart he never knew existed, reminding us that even in healthy love, there are shadows we don’t always talk about. Together, they reflect on the importance of creating safe emotional spaces in relationships—where vulnerability isn’t punished, truth isn’t weaponized, and intimacy is built not just through touch, but through trust. They also explore the ways pleasure and emotional safety are connected, and how their Bedroom Kandi favorites (like the Mic Drop Wand and the Head to Toe balm) become tools for both sensual care and bonding. This is more than a podcast episode—it’s a love-u-ment. 🎧 Tune in for: • How fear shows up even in healthy relationships • What emotional safety looks like for high-functioning women • Creating soft space for masculine healing • Why pleasure and vulnerability are lovers, not opposites Part 2 reminds us that real love doesn’t avoid the hard conversations—it thrives in them. And when you’re brave enough to speak your truth, the right partner won’t run—they’ll reach deeper.

31. Take Care of Both His Heads — Part 1 Jun 24, 2025

🧠❤️ When a Man Cries, Listen Closely… In this powerful first half of the episode, Kash (@YourSexologistBestie) invites you into her love life—not for spectacle, but for expansion. Joined by her partner Chris (aka Supervillain), the two unpack his evolving relationship with pleasure across different life stages: before marriage, during it, post-divorce, and now. What begins as a conversation about intimacy and masculine vulnerability quickly deepens when they discuss the accident that nearly took Chris’s life—and how it became one of their most profound, non-sexual experiences of intimacy. Chris opens up about pain, recovery, and what it meant to feel truly cared for by a partner, leading to a moment of raw emotion that closes the episode. This is the kind of emotional honesty we don’t often hear from men… but Kash brings it out with care, curiosity, and love. Part 2? Let’s just say—she gets into the other head and a whole lot of BK for pleasure and wellness 😏 🎧 Watch now and subscribe to @BusinessOfPleasurePod

30. The Married Man’s Pleasure Mindset Jun 16, 2025

In this grown and grounded episode of The Business of Pleasure, I’m joined by Ro from the 237 No Place Like Home podcast—a Brooklyn husband, father, and real one with insight for days. This convo is for anyone wondering what intimacy looks like when you’ve been committed for the long haul—and why the mindset of a mature man hits different than the typical “young dude energy.” We talk about what it means to show up for your partner and your community, how Black men can model intimacy and leadership for younger generations, and the responsibility that comes with love, growth, and longevity. Ro breaks down how he keeps things fresh in marriage, what intimacy really means to him, and why it’s deeper than sex—it’s legacy. We also explore the difference between being performative vs. being present, how emotional awareness shapes connection, and why seasoning your sex life isn’t just about toys—it’s about effort, creativity, and care. 🛍️ BK Products Featured: • Head to Body Body Balm – because touch matters • Embrace C-Ring – for couples looking to spice things up and stay connected This episode is full of gems from a man who’s living it, not just talking about it.

29. Delusional & Proud: When Boundaries, Survival & Beyoncé Collide - feat. Billy the Bad Guy Jun 10, 2025

This episode of The Business of Pleasure is more than just laughs and lipstick—though we have plenty of that too. I’m joined by my Delusional Bestie, Billy the Bad Guy, and we go from twerking to truth-telling as we explore what it really means to choose yourself—loudly, confidently, and sometimes painfully. We talk about the decisions we make in the name of love that are really rooted in survival, and what it feels like to set boundaries that make you the “bad guy” in someone else’s story. We reflect on identity, healing, and how to show up fully as you are. Then we switch gears with some Bedroom Kandi fun—featuring our Them Moisturizing Balm, Pride Lipstick Collection, harnesses, our Rainbow Dildo, and Male Pleasure Sleeve—plus tips for loving the love below, no matter your anatomy. And of course we talked pheromones and grooming to make sure Billy spent men’s health month right! A little shade, a lot of heart, and some damn good pleasure gems.

28. How Well Do You Know Your D? - Feat. TahoeTV Jun 02, 2025

This Father’s Day, we’re giving men more than a tie—we’re giving real talk, real pleasure, and real tools to stay ready. 💪🏽🌹 In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, Tahoe and Kash dive into men’s health, performance anxiety, touch starvation, and the truth about ED. We’re breaking myths, exploring the male G-spot (no entry required 😏), and testing how well Tahoe really knows his own D. Featuring BK’s Stamina Spray, Sidekick Pleasure Sleeve, oral sex cards, and role-play dice—because pleasure is part of your wellness plan too.

27. The Chemistry of Clean - feat. Angela Solomon May 27, 2025

In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, @YourSexologistBestie Kash sits down with chemist and product developer Angela Solomon—founder of Sunshine Creations and one of Bedroom Kandi’s original beta consultants. Angela shares how her Caribbean roots and background in biology and chemistry led her to create a skincare product to help a loved one, which blossomed into a full collection now offered by Bedroom Kandi. The two discuss Caribbean hygiene culture, the quiet labor women carry in caring for men, balancing motherhood and business, and Angela’s journey from consultant to formulator. Plus, with Father’s Day around the corner, Kash plugs BK’s current promo: spend $100 and get a free Men’s Grooming Kit—or join the Bedroom Kandi community for free. Shop or join now: https://poplme.co/bedroomkandi

26. Started From The Bottom May 19, 2025

Kasha started as a Bedroom Kandi consultant… but working hard and showing up got her all the way to top team leader, CAC leader, national top performer, Director of Training & Development, and now Master Trainer, influencer, board-certified clinical sexologist, and host of The Business of Pleasure podcast. Her journey even led to a feature on The Real Housewives of Atlanta and a presentation spot at Kandi’s iconic Dungeon Show. In this solo episode, @YourSexologistBestie Kash opens up about the highs, the heartbreak, the hustle—and how Bedroom Kandi gave her more than a business… it gave her a family. Products mentioned in this episode: Allure, Amaze, Cuddle, Queen, Petal Pleaser, Love Triangle, Velvet, Makeup Brushes, Soft Spoken Suede, Delicious Encounters Lube, Revitalize Me Shop her faves + join the BK movement (for free!): https://poplme.co/bedroomkandi

25. Ovary It, But Not Over Pleasure May 13, 2025

Healing, Mapping, & Reclaiming the O! Liberation Coach Aysha Bellamy joins Kash for a powerful, pleasure-packed episode where they get into therapy culture, medical trauma, and that one time the military accidentally took her ovary — yes, for real. From navigating early menopause to mapping a new relationship with sensation and self, this episode is about reclaiming your body, your power, and your pleasure. Oh, and of course… she left with some Bedroom Kandi gifts that’ll help along the way. Plus, Kash walks Coach Bellamy through some of her favorite sensory tools to help her experience more pleasure without direct stimulation on the clitoris for beginners and experts alike, and we break down how solo pleasure can be your ultimate self-care. Don’t miss this powerful conversation about resilience, liberation, and reclaiming joy.

24. Add Some Spice To Your Vanilla - feat. Davida D, Love Jones & Moe May 05, 2025

It’s the Masturbation May kickoff, and we’re bringing heat! I’m joined by comedian Davida D plus BK stars Love Jones & Moe for a wild ride of laughs, education, and spicy surprises. We kick things off with the BK TikTok Fantasy Draft—building the ultimate pleasure night using both Soft Line and Adult Line faves. Then we dive into all things self-pleasure, stepping outside the vanilla box, feminine hygiene, and top-tier product tips to upgrade your solo (or partnered) play. Davida even gets some personal pleasure coaching—and let’s just say, the convo gets hotter the longer you watch!

23. Organize & Orgasm! feat. Tina House & Toni Drumwright-Antoine Apr 28, 2025

Welcome back to Business of Pleasure with Your Sexologist Bestie, Kash! This week’s guests are Tina House Latiker and Toni Drumwright-Antoine as we dive into Organize & Orgasm. We talk about how labor organizing intersects with pleasure advocacy, the current challenges impacting intimacy spaces, and what leadership means to them. Tina also shares how she stays grounded navigating advocacy work while Toni talks about the work she does with the homeless! Plus… we have some fun with the BK Boom Boom Sing-Along Game, and spotlights on a few BK favorites including Kandi Kisses, and Toni schools us on lube and demos the Helping Hand male pleasure sleeve! Tune in for pleasure, power, and a little play!

22. Sisters in Sickness - Feat. Brandy DeJesus & Chante Devers Apr 21, 2025

In this powerful and emotional episode, we’re joined by sisters Brandy DeJesus and Chante Devers for an intimate conversation on sisterhood, strength, and staying connected through sickness and healing. Brandy opens up about her journey battling cancer and how Bedroom Kandi products supported her pleasure and self-care during chemo. Chante shares her experience as Brandy’s rock, best friend, and business partner—proving that sisterhood can be both sanctuary and strategy. We laugh, cry, and celebrate resilience in our BK Bestie Quiz—where each sister answers heartfelt questions about the other. This episode is a joyful rollercoaster you won’t forget, filled with truth, tenderness, and testimony. Tune in, subscribe, and get ready to feel inspired.

21. From Hurting to Hitting the Spot Apr 14, 2025

In this powerful yet super hilarious episode of The Business of Pleasure, we’re joined by two Bedroom Kandi Consultant Advisory Council trailblazers: Noni (In2MeIC) and LaDonya (Lady D). Together, they open up about their deeply personal journeys of reclaiming pleasure after trauma and the tools that helped them get there. From navigating pain to rediscovering intimacy, this episode is filled with laughter, vulnerability, and real talk. Noni and LaDonya share how Bedroom Kandi products supported their healing, how they’ve used their stories to empower others, and what advice they have for consultants holding space for survivors. Whether you’re on a healing journey or supporting someone who is, this conversation reminds us that pleasure is not a privilege—it’s a right.

20. Pride. Power. And A Lil Neurospice - feat. Waya Kellie Apr 07, 2025

Representation isn’t a trend. It’s a truth. In this episode, I link up with Waya Kellie aka Waya the Healer—trans male influencer, BDSM dom, spiritual empath, and proudly neurodivergent. From policy to pleasure, Waya shows how autism isn’t a barrier—it’s part of his brilliant blueprint. We unpack how identity, advocacy, and emotional depth collide when you’re navigating the world as both healer and fighter. And of course, we show how Bedroom Kandi continues to pull up and stand strong for the LGBTQ+ community—not just during Pride, but every damn day. Our collection intentionally allows our consumers to wear their pride and focuses on inclusive branding! Take a peek at this mind shifting discussion!

19. S-Liquid Gold - A Tribute To Our Lube Dude Dean Elliot Apr 01, 2025

In this special memorial episode of The Business of Pleasure, we honor the legendary Dean Elliott — CEO and founder of Sliquid, lovingly known in our Bedroom Kandi community as “The Lube Dude.” Dean wasn’t just the mastermind behind some of our most beloved and best-selling lubricants and bath products — he was the kind of man who entered every room with vibrant energy, a booming laugh, and a heart full of love. From the early days of Sliquid to becoming an irreplaceable part of our BK family, Dean poured passion, purpose, and integrity into every product he touched. In this episode, you’ll hear from Dean himself as we revisit clips of him sharing how he got started in the business, his vision for clean and conscious intimacy products, and his powerful contributions to our Natural Wellness Panel. We also celebrate Dean’s bold, hilarious, and unforgettable spirit — the one who brought the slip, the slide, and the soul to the pleasure industry. Join us as we laugh, reflect, and honor the man whose legacy continues to flow through everything we do. This one’s for you, Dean — you’ll forever be part of our story.

18. I'll Take F.R.I.E.S. With That - feat. Goddess Aya Mar 17, 2025

In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, we sit down with Goddess Aya—Rope Bunny, Switch, LS Event Curator, and Educator—to dive deep into the world of pleasure exploration, rope bondage, consent, and creating inclusive, body-positive spaces. She breaks down the FRIES model of consent, the traffic light safe word system, and the etiquette of safe play at her events and pleasure liberated retreats. We also explore how rope play fosters intimacy, trust, and artistic expression, with tips for incorporating Bedroom Kandi’s bondage tools for at-home exploration. Plus, Goddess Aya shares how she turned her passion into a business, curating educational LS events and sex-positive retreats designed for safety, freedom, and pleasure. Tune in for an empowering conversation on pleasure, safety, and informed exploration—because when it comes to intimacy, consent is always on the menu!

17. Breaking Free Through Bondage, with Sir Daniel and Slave Sunflower Mar 11, 2025

In this episode, Your Sexologist Bestie Kash sits down with Sir Daniel & Slave Sunflower to explore the deeper meanings of dominance, submission, and autonomy in the Black kink community. We break down the history of “Master” and “Slave”, how these terms are being reclaimed and redefined, and the role of sensual kink in building trust and connection. Sir Daniel shares his expertise in custom kink furniture, handmade floggers, and glow-in-the-dark wax candles, while we dive into wax play safety, impact play, and how to recognize quality fetish/kink gear. 🔗 Plus, we’re plugging the Northeast Conference of Kink (July 2025)! Hit play to explore the balance of power, trust, and liberation!

16. Melanated, Liberated & Bossed Up Mar 03, 2025

Join Your Sexologist Bestie Kash, Bedroom Kandi founder Kandi Burruss, and top BKBC consultants as we take the stage at the Melanated Sex Expo in Tucson, Arizona, hosted by Orgasmic Melanin Goddesses. In this live discussion, we dive deep into pleasure, freedom, and success—not just physically and emotionally, but financially too. From breaking taboos to navigating entrepreneurship in the pleasure industry, we share insider tips on building a thriving business and owning your power. Whether you’re an aspiring entrepreneur or just curious about the intersection of pleasure and profit, this episode is packed with game-changing advice for those ready to rise. Tap in, take notes, and step into your power!

15. Breaking Barriers: Pleasure, Trust, and Unconventional Love Feb 10, 2025

Your Sexologist Bestie Kash and Bedroom Kandi founder Kandi Burruss sit down with sex educators Lady V and D Black for a raw, unfiltered conversation about open relationships, trust, and breaking the rules of traditional love. Kandi was all in their business, asking the questions you really want to know—how do you keep trust strong in an open marriage? What pleasures are worth exploring, even if others don’t understand? From unconventional desires to game-changing Bedroom Kandi products, this episode is all about embracing pleasure on your terms. Plus, we’re dropping gems on how to turn passion into profit with Bedroom Kandi’s business opportunities.

14. Love Day Party: Lips, Skin, and Everything In Between! Feb 03, 2025

With Valentine’s Day around the corner, The Business of Pleasure is here to get you Love Day Ready! Host Kasha Johnson is joined by Bedroom Kandi’s Top Georgia consultants, Anisha & Serenity, to share their passion for pleasure, empowerment, and business success. Come play in products with us and get ready for your season of looove!

13. Centered in Pleasure: A New Year, A New You Jan 26, 2025

Host Your Sexologist Bestie Kash is joined by Bedroom Kandi founder Kandi Burruss and holistic wellness expert Dr. Tamara Rose to explore how pleasure, self-care, and empowerment set the tone for the new year. From grounding practices and sacral health to sensory connection and Bedroom Kandi’s latest NEW products, this episode is all about finding balance, embracing pleasure, and starting fresh in 2025.

11. Unveiled: Monetizing Your Pleasure Nov 25, 2024

In part two of this empowering conversation, Your Sexologist Bestie Kash delves into how Melissa (Mel) and Dr. Quida Payne have successfully integrated Bedroom Kandi products like the Seduce Me Perfume and Amaze Dual Stim Vibe into their personal and professional journeys. The discussion highlights the innovative ways they’ve monetized their unique skills—Mel through her body-positive influence, poetry, and spiritual creations, and Dr. Payne through her work as a sexuality coach, birth worker, and therapist. Together, they share insights on blending sensuality with business, turning passion into profit, and creating sustainable models for self-love, empowerment, and entrepreneurship.

10. Unveiled: Sensuality, Self-Love, & Embodiment Nov 17, 2024

Your Sexologist Bestie Kash leads a powerful conversation with two extraordinary guests: Dr. Quida Payne, Hall of Fame BK Consultant, sexuality coach, birth worker, and BK consultant with a DSW and LMSW, and Melissa (Mel), a body-positive BK influencer, poet, and spiritual creator. Together, they explore the intricate connection between sensuality, self-love, and the art of embodiment. From transformative tips for Men’s Health Month to embracing body positivity through dance and healing practices, this episode offers a deep dive into healing, celebrating your body, and creating space for pleasure and self-care. With heartfelt advice and inspiring insights, this is a conversation that will leave you empowered to embrace your most vibrant self.

9. Peak Performance - feat. Sir Marvelous & Tahoe TV Nov 12, 2024

Join your host, Kasha, your Sexologist Bestie, as she sits down with special guests Tahoe TV and Sir Marvelous for an eye-opening discussion on men’s health, pleasure, and performance. This episode dives deep into the often-overlooked aspects of men’s wellness, exploring topics like erectile dysfunction, sexual performance, and essential practices for optimal penis health. From techniques to improve blood flow and reduce refractory periods to exercises for strengthening stamina, we’re covering it all to help men live their best pleasure-filled lives. Plus, we spotlight Bedroom Kandi’s “Sidekick” — a textured male pleasure sleeve designed to elevate your experience. Don’t miss this candid, informative episode filled with tips and tools for achieving peak pleasure and performance.

8. Strong, Silent & Stressed feat. Sir Marvelous & Tahoe TV Nov 04, 2024

Welcome to an episode where we take off the masks, flex the feels, and redefine what it means to be a man in today’s world. On this episode of The Business of Pleasure podcast, presented by Bedroom Kandi by Kandi Burruss, we’re joined by the candid and charismatic TahoeTV and Sir Marvelous to dive deep into men’s health, wellness, and pleasure. We’re breaking down the barriers surrounding men’s mental and emotional health, looking at how self-care, vulnerability, and wellness practices can reshape strength from the inside out. Join us as we explore everything from handling stress and societal pressures to the importance of pleasure and self-care in a man’s life. Plus, we’re highlighting a must-try product designed specifically with men’s wellness in mind.

7. Sisters in Submission, Pt 2 - The Switch's Perspective with Syphon The Unicorn Oct 28, 2024

In this week’s Business of Pleasure episode, Kasha welcomes Syphon The Unicorn, a Bedroom Kandi influencer and educator, to explore the world of switching in the kink lifestyle. As a “switch,” Syphon shares her journey of balancing both dominant and submissive roles and how this impacts her personal life and work within the Bedroom Kandi community. From insights into power dynamics to tips for Bedroom Kandi consultants on connecting through intimacy, this episode dives into the fluidity of relationships, self-discovery, and the power of embracing both sides of pleasure.

6. Sisters in Submission, Pt 1 - Feat. Rita Mason & Master E Oct 21, 2024

In this episode of The Business of Pleasure Kinktober Special, host Kasha sits down with Rita Mason, VP of E-Commerce & Brand at Bedroom Kandi—and Master E in the world of kink. As a proud submissive, Rita gives us the scoop on how her kink journey has shaped her executive role, influencing product development, marketing, and empowerment strategies. From power dynamics in a marriage to navigating business with pleasure, this episode dives deep into submission, inclusivity, and the ways consultants can cash in on Bedroom Kandi’s kink and BDSM-inspired products. It’s a spicy blend of education and business advice you won’t want to miss!

5. Bosom Buddies, Feat. Jamela Mack Oct 15, 2024

In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, we explore reclaiming pleasure after a breast cancer diagnosis with Jamela Mack, CEO of Jhems By Jayda. Diagnosed at 28, Jamela transformed her experience into a mission, creating products that empower others. She shares insights on intimacy post-treatment and her journey toward self-love, including a special appearance on The Jennifer Hudson Show. We also discuss self-care tools, such as the Bedroom Kandi Horizons Vaginal Dilators Set and Jhems By Jayda Scalp Flourish Oil. Plus, learn how to turn life’s challenges into opportunities with Bedroom Kandi. Tune in for inspiration and empowerment!

4. Extraterrestrial Pleasure, Feat. Kenneth Play Oct 07, 2024

In this episode of The Business of Pleasure, Kasha sits down with renowned sexpert Kenneth Play, author of Beyond Satisfied, for an in-depth conversation on non-traditional relationships and pleasures, as well as the business of pleasure. Kenneth shares insights from his journey through swinging and polyamory, and discusses how he built a community focused on safe spaces for sexual exploration.

3. For Yourself But Not By Yourself Sep 30, 2024

We are back here with The Business of Pleasure where we're putting the fun in funds and the sexy in success! This episode is a celebration of success, collaboration and how BK takes the solo journey of entrepreneurship and makes it a journey of collaboration! This episode features Kandi Burruss & BK Top Performers, Consultant Advisory Council Leaders and serial go-getters Freda Hobbs, LaRonda White, Anisha Robinson and LaToya Kirkman. Join your host Kasha as she interviews these powerhouses and gets you all of the keys to success in business and especially the Business of Pleasure!

2. He Has Nipples Too! Feat. TahoeTV Sep 23, 2024

2. He Has Nipples Too! Feat. TahoeTV by Bedroom Kandi

1.2 Giving Her Her Flowers, Pt 2 - Feat. Kandi Burruss Sep 16, 2024

1.2 Giving Her Her Flowers, Pt 2 - Feat. Kandi Burruss by Bedroom Kandi

1. Giving Her Her Flowers, Pt 1 - Feat. Kandi Burruss Sep 09, 2024

Welcome to the all-new relaunch of The Business of Pleasure Podcast, featuring Kandi Burruss and hosted by your Sexologist Bestie, Kasha! We're exploring a whole new way of giving her flowers in this episode.

45 - Exploring Kink Jun 28, 2018

In this week's episode, Nadine talks with former dominatrix and BDSM mentor Mona Darling about kink, fantasy, and the profound importance of communication.

44 - 'That's a Lot of Toys' Jun 21, 2018

In this week's episode, we speak with one of our top performing BKBCs and Team Leaders, FREDA HOBBS, and her team members ANISHA ROBINSON and BRIDGET BRAY from TEAM INNOVATE!

43 - Just the Two of Us May 24, 2018

In this week's episode, we are on the road, and have Bedroom Kandi Consultant and Sexual Health educator Tawanda Y. Sanders-Williams calling in to join us on the podcast!

42 - V! Apr 13, 2018

In this week's episode, we have clinical sexologist Dr. TaMara Griffin on the podcast to talk about understanding our sexuality and pleasure, being empowered, and her new book, V! A Love Letter to Every Woman and Girl

41 - Inviting Sex Toys Into Your Relationship Apr 05, 2018

In this week's episode, we are rejoined by Gail Crowder for a conversation about work-life balance, making time for relationships, and how to introduce a sex toy into the bedroom.

40 - The Light: A Celebration of Poetry and Sensuality Mar 23, 2018

This Wednesday was National Poetry Day! In this week's episode, Nadine talks with Bedroom Kandi Customer Care specialist Ellie Willis about her poetry and the sensuality of the written word.

39 - Blue Life 2 - The Value of a Woman! Mar 16, 2018

This week, Nadine speaks again with poet and erotica author Cynthia "X Blu Rayne" Jowers.

38 - Embracing Life! Mar 01, 2018

Join Nadine and Dora as they speak about Dora's New Seasons Healing Circle & Spa Retreat. They will discuss the incredibly healing and restorative work Dora and her team have been doing with breast cancer survivors and their supportive circle of sister-friends. The retreat this spring was held in Charlotte, NC and was attended by many women including some pretty fabulous Bedroom Kandi consultants.

37 - Wild Sex Feb 22, 2018

In this week's episode, Nadine speaks with author Dr. Carin Bondar about her book, "Wild Sex: The Science Behind Mating in the Animal Kingdom," along with the sexual power dynamics in multiple species, and the science and sex habits of animals and human beings alike.

36 - Vivid Feb 16, 2018

In this week's episode, Nadine speaks with Kendall Davis, aka Jenae' Jones, author of Vivid: Erotic Short Stories, about her book, the intimacy of erotic fiction, and being sexually adventurous.

35 - Intercourses Feb 08, 2018

In this week's episode, Nadine speaks with Martha Hopkins, co-author of the aphrodisiac cookbook The New Intercourses, about aphrodisiacs, romance and intimacy in cooking, and what dish to serve this Valentine's Day!

34 - Let's Talk About Couples Jan 26, 2018

Nadine sits down with our Master Trainer and Toy Expert Rita Silva-Grondin, and BKBC Trenda Nelson to talk about working with couples, couples-friendly toys, and our newest toy, We-Vibe Unite!

33 - New Year Resolutions Jan 18, 2018

Nadine sits down with BK Consultant & high seller from the Chicago-area, Zenita Monroe, to talk about her approach to the BK Business, her techniques for success, and making the most of 2018!

32 - #MeToo Jan 12, 2018

Nadine sits down with BK Consultant & Leader Ms. Sonia M Benson to discuss Sonia's participation in the recent XSCAPE Concert VIP Lounges and the public's response to the BK brand as well as a very important topic being discussed in the media right now, "Me Too". Nadine and Sonia will discuss their thoughts on the topic and some implications for our BK community.

31 - Dark Chocolate Chronicles Jan 04, 2018

This week, Nadine speaks with poet and erotica author Cynthia "X Blu Rayne" Jowers.

30 - Toys & Same-Sex Couples Dec 21, 2017

In this week's episode, Nadine discusses the BK line with BK's Director of Training, Rita Silva-Grondin -- with a focus on items for same-sex couples, a culture of inclusivity, and the wonderful perks of lube!

29 - Sex & Relationships Nov 29, 2017

This week, Nadine talks with sexologist and physician Dr. Rachael Ross about intimacy, sex, and relationships.

28 - BUZZ Nov 02, 2017

Nadine speaks with Hallie Liberman about her new book BUZZ. They discuss the brilliant microhistory of the sex toy that ultimately tells the story of our changing sexual mores and evolving cultural values.

27 - "Hey Dad, I sell sex toys!" Oct 20, 2017

This week, Nadine talks with BKBC Freda Hobbs about storytelling, freedom, and the business of selling sex toys.

26 - Changing Your Why Oct 12, 2017

This week, Nadine talks with BKBC Tracye Hamler about her life as a BK Consultant, the positive impact sex toys can have for military couples, staying motivated, and changing your "why" over time as you move forward.

25 - The Toy Chest, Part 1 Oct 06, 2017

This week, Nadine and our Bedroom Kandi Director of Training, Rita Silva-Grondin, talk about our wonderful new Bedroom Kandi products!

24 - Have Toys, Will Travel Sep 28, 2017

This week, Nadine talks with Trenda Nelson about her journey in the business of pleasure, saving lives, and educating women!

23 - Bringing Sexy Back Sep 14, 2017

This week, Nadine talks with Gail Crowder about Bringing Sexy Back to the Marriage! Gail discusses finding balance, making time for relationships, and dealing with insecurities in order to make for a more fulfilling sex life in one's marriage.

22 - Sex is a Gift! Jul 20, 2017

This week, Nadine talks with Nicole M. Haig, MD about the physiological and emotional benefits of sex, common questions about sex and sexuality, and the fact that sex is a gift that is given to both women and men!

21 - Telling Your Story Jul 13, 2017

This week, Nadine talks with BK Graphic Designer Alena about branding, social media, telling your story through marketing... and Wonder Woman!

20 - Tales From BK Jul 06, 2017

This week, Nadine talks with BKBC Shawn Wilson and her team about having fun, memorable, and successful Bedroom Kandi parties.

19 - Who You Want to Be Jun 22, 2017

This week, Nadine chats once again with Bedroom Kandi Boutique Consultant Sonia M. Benson about becoming who you want to be versus who you are supposed to be in the minds of others, and how important authentic self-expression and identity are in the context of pleasure and sexuality. They also discuss the topic of discovering your "why" and sources of compelling vision.

18 - The Road to Entrepreneurship Jun 01, 2017

In this week's episode, Nadine chats with new BK Consultant and rising star Zenita Monroe about her experience with diving headfirst into the Business of Pleasure!

17 - The Joys of Self Pleasure May 26, 2017

In this week's episode, Nadine meets with Sexologist, Author, and Speaker, Dr. TaMara Griffin to talk about -- you guessed it! -- Masturbation.

16 - A Party For One Is Still A Party! May 18, 2017

In this week's episode, Nadine speaks with BKBC and social media guru Shika Langford about self-pleasure in honor of May being National Masturbation Month!

15 - Sex Inspires My Best Poetry May 11, 2017

In this week's episode, Nadine speaks with the Cleveland-based author of Sex Inspires My Best Poetry: The Urban, Erotic Poetry of Lady K, Keyana Williams!

14 - There Are No Overachievers May 04, 2017

In this week's episode, Nadine speaks with renown speaker Brian Biro, America’s Breakthrough Coach, on seizing opportunities, making every moment count, and living to one's potential.

13 - On Leadership Apr 27, 2017

Dora Chambers returns to the podcast to talk about leadership, significance, and where the business of pleasure intersects with the business of people.

12 - Open Mind, Open Heart Apr 20, 2017

Miss Tisa Bradley is one of our original Beta consultants who has been doing the Bedroom Kandi business for 5 years! This week, Nadine chats with her about openness, honesty, and the importance of communication -- and an incredible story of the Bedroom Kandi community coming together to help one of their own.

11 - Fun with BK Toys Apr 13, 2017

This episode of the business of pleasure is perfect for anyone who wants to gain a better understanding of Bedroom Kandi's uniquely designed line of adult toys. Nadine and Rita take a fun look at the toys, exploring their uses and the pleasure they can provide. This interview gives an in depth look into the business of pleasure. Enjoy!

10 - Your Why Mar 30, 2017

Nadine speaks with Success Coach, International Speaker & Trainer, Radio Talk Show Host and Philanthropist Dora Chambers about achieving success and finding Your Why!

9 - I Am Sex Mar 16, 2017

Nadine sits down with sexologist and sex therapist Dr. TaMara Griffin, author of the book "I AM SEX."

8 - It Begins With Self Love Mar 02, 2017

Nadine sits down with top performing Bedroom Kandi Boutique Consultant Shawn Wilson to talk about her approach to the business, coaching, and sharing experiences while encouraging self-love.

7 - In It To Win It Feb 23, 2017

Nadine sits down with Bedroom Kandi Boutique Consultant Tracye Hamler to talk about her approach to the business, what being a BKBC has meant to her, her favorite toys, and her drive to succeed.

6 - One Sexy Wife! Feb 16, 2017

Nadine sits down with Mrs. Gail Crowder of Bringing Sexy Back to the Marriage and The One Sexy Wife about intimacy, healthy marriages, bringing sexy back to your relationship, and how to have a great, emotionally and spiritually-fulfilling sex life.

5 - Arousal & Desire Feb 09, 2017

Nadine chats with Bedroom Kandi Boutique Consultant and psychotherapist Renée Burwell about sex therapy, the connection between arousal & desire, toy recommendations, and creating healthy sexual relationships.

4 - Dewing You Feb 02, 2017

Nadine chats with Bedroom Kandi Boutique Consultant Sonia M. Benson about self-reclamation, spiritual healing and growth, and creating supportive and safe communities and venues of communication -- and of course, about working the business of pleasure at Bedroom Kandi!

3 - Intimacy is Key! Jan 26, 2017

Once again, Kandi Burruss sits down with Nadine Thompson, this time to discuss intimacy, its importance in relationships, and the role Bedroom Kandi parties play in providing a safe and comfortable environment to talk about sex without shame or anxiety.

2 - Confidence is Sexy Jan 19, 2017

Thoughts with Kandi Burruss on the fact that a person's self confidence is sexy and key to creating an exciting sex life. Confidence is not only an important factor for women but it is extremely sexy with our male partners as well.

1 - Success and Entrepreneurship Jan 09, 2017

Nadine sits down with Kandi Burruss to discuss entrepreneurship and more!

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