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Not acting out is a thing and often times is the immediate goal. However, when we don't feel better and our partners seem to feel the energy that goes with the white knuckling, things can get tough. So why can't I stop white knuckling?
Coby could not figure out how to build trust as he did not know how to speak the truth even in small things. The effect on Ashlynn was significant to see him hide or lie about the little things in life. Brannon leads these two on the journey of discovering why truth was so hard for Coby to speak and what the effect was on Ashlynn.
There is so much that goes into recovery. Doing can keep everyone busy till the wee hours of the night but what happens when we feel like something is missing? Here some things to consider when you get to that spot.
This delicate episode will describe how Ashlynn and Coby were raised when it comes to demonstrations of love and those behavioral norms impact their relationship. Brannon leads them through the path of bridging the gap.
Ashlynn and Coby are guided by Brannon on how recovery can be a drag and what that looks like. It can be a hardship to put so much time, energy and resources into such a devastating thing when you don't feel better.
When things went wrong for Ashlynn and Coby, they developed eyes to see all the things that were bad, hard or fell short of expectations. This episode describes what that looked like and how Coby developed eyes to see his failings from a young age and how he carried that into his marriage and perpetuated addiction.
Boundaries are a critical piece of any relationship, especially a committed relationship. Today, the BAE crew discusses what healthy boundaries in marriage and relationships should look like. And what boundaries are not. If you want a thriving relationship boundaries are critical and here you'll find Brannon provide a checklist of effective boundary creation.
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#Recovery is so hard because it makes me so uncomfortable at best and painful at its worst. So how long does it take cause it is exhausting? This episode will illustrate how pain tolerance is a key function of recovery so we don't see time as working against us.
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In today's culture, it is not whether someone has seen porn or not. The foregone conclusion is that people have seen it since a young age by choice or by porn finding them. So while #dating how do you have the conversation about the experience each person has with #porn so it is known what you are dealing with? What are the considerations and what are dealbreakers?
PATREON LINK Got Questions? Want more content, access and interaction with Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon? That is found at https://www.patreon.com/betrayedaddictedexpert
For therapy at Brannon's clinic go to https://therapyutah.org
For group mentoring with Ashlynn for the betrayed and group and/or one on one mentoring for the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com/contactus
Coby used to give the power of his emotions to Ashlynn and others to determine how he felt (Codependent). Ashlynn would emotionally withdraw to a state of independence where she would function in a detached way from Coby and operate as an independent partner in their relationship (Independence).
Listen as they discuss what they did and what the implications of this behavior were.
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