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#3: Swinging 101, How To Explore Swinging Safely With Your Partner & How To Make It Incredible For Both Of You With Cooper S. Beckett Feb 14, 2017

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In this episode of the Bad Girl's Bible podcast, I talk to swinger Cooper S. Beckett from the Life in the Swingset podcast. Cooper explains in detail what swinging is, the steps a couple can take to safely explore it, how it can help your relationship (or hinder it!) and more.

Show Highlights 1.25 - how he got into the swinging scene. 4.55 Why monogamy, NOT SWINGING is the right choice for many people. 6.05 - The traditional definition of swinging 6.50 - What polyamory and why it's different. 8.15 - Why swinging and polyamory is definitely not cheating 9.45 - The problem with life's unspoken "social contract." 10.35 - How to start talking to your partner about swinging in a smooth way. 18.10 - Why non-monogamy has improved Cooper's communication skills. 18.35 - How to start your swinging journey with your partner and make sure it's a great experience, and why some couples have a bad first experience. 21.55 - Tips on how to spot and avoid fakers when using swinging sites 23.30 - How to make your first swinger date easy going and successfull. 25.10 - What to do if one partner has reservations. 28.40 - Dealing with jealousy. 33.55 - What to do if swinging doesn't work for you 43.55 - One of the most important benefits of non-monogamy

Show Notes Kinsey scale - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale Cassidy - https://www.kasidie.com - the swinger site Cooper mentioned on the show

More On Cooper If you want to get in touch with Cooper, you can find him online at:

http://coopersbeckett.com/ https://twitter.com/coopersbeckett?lang=en https://www.facebook.com/coopersbeckett/ https://www.instagram.com/coopersbeckett/ Cooper's Podcast Podcast website: http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/ Podcast on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/life-on-swingset-swinging/id354627460?mt=2

Cooper's Collection of Swinging Podcasts: swingset.fm

Cooper's 1st book http://coopersbeckett.com/books/my-life-on-the-swingset-adventures-in-swinging-polyamory/

Cooper's 2nd book http://coopersbeckett.com/books/a-life-less-monogamous-a-novel-by-cooper-s-beckett/ Special Discount for Listeners Cooper kindly gave me a discount code that you can use to get 10% off anything you purchase on his site, coopersbeckett.com. Just enter the word bible in the offer code section and that 10% discount will be applied to your order.

#2: More Orgasms, How To Explore Sexual Fantasies & Why "Asking" For Sex Is A Bad Idea With Dr. Lori Buckley Feb 14, 2017

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Sex Therapist Dr. Lori Buckley is my guest on the podcast today. We talk about everything from how to more easily reach orgasm during sex to getting over sexual shame and exploring new fantasies and ideas in the bedroom. You'll also learn why a "judgy" attitude in the bedroom is a bad idea and why "asking" for sex is even worse. Show Highlights 1.35 Lori's background and how she became a sex therapist. 5.10 We discuss why some women struggle to reach orgasm during sex. 9.20 Why getting "out of your head" is vital for reaching orgasm more easily. 11.40 A simple technique to help you orgasm during sex. 15.30 Tips for getting over sexual shame and exploring new fantasies and ideas. 20.00 Simple steps for sharing your sexual fantasies and fetishes with your man. 23.10 Why a "judgy" attitude is going to kill your sex life. 28.30 An easy trick for getting in the mood, IF you are in a long term relationship. 29.15 Why asking for sex is a BAD idea. 35.30 Why women sometimes need their man to be more assertive. 36.20 Why many gifts don't need to cost a cent but still have a massive impact. 37.00 We talk about the deep importance of sexual tension in your relationship. You can learn more about Dr. Lori Buckley at https://www.drloribuckley.com/ and listen to her podcast here on iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/looking-for-love/id1146640020).

#1: The Importance of Communication in your Relationship and Masculine v Feminine Energy with Scot McKay Feb 08, 2017

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Welcome to the very first episode of the Bad Girl's Bible podcast. In this episode, I interview Scot McKay from X&Y Communications and the Mountain Top Podcast. We talk about a range of issues to keep your relationship and sex life red hot and satisfying.

Show Highlights

3.45 Avoiding Netflix and chill

4.50 Why finding your best friend is more important than finding someone hot

6.35 The importance of communication

7.05 Why relationships aren't hard work if you're with the right person

10.45 The mistake people make when they try to spice things up

12.25 We talk about the value of arguing the right way

14.05 Why Scot and Emily give each other space to be angry and frustrated.

17.25 One of the most important things about sex.

19.15 why sex shouldn't be so serious

21.00 how men can bring more masculine energy and women can bring more feminine energy to their relationship

27.45 We talk about how people carry negative experiences from previous relationships into their current relationship and why it's dangerous