The Art of Love Podcast

Episode 679: 5 Phrases Avoidants LOVE To Say Nov 18, 2024

Is your ex an avoidant? How do you know for sure? Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 5 phrases people with an avoidant attachment style will use when they're dating someone.
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Episode 678: 5 Signs Your Ex Will Eventually Come Back Nov 11, 2024

If your ex is starting to change their mind about the breakup and is thinking about coming back, there are always signs. Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares the 5 top signs your ex will eventually come back.
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Episode 677: Warning: THIS Will Make You Break No Contact (And You'll Regret It) Nov 04, 2024

Your strong desire to hear from your ex makes you susceptible to manipulation during no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals a trick that may cause you to reach out to your ex.
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Episode 676: 7 Ways To MAKE Your Ex Reach Out First Oct 28, 2024

If you've been dumped, your number one wish right now is to talk to your ex. If you're in no contact, you know you can't reach out first. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to make your ex reach out to you.
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Episode 675: How A Secure Person Deals With An Avoidant Pulling Away Oct 21, 2024

If you have an anxious attachment style, your first instinct when your avoidant partner pulls away will be to run after them. But this rarely works. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explain what a secure person would do when an avoidant starts to pull away.
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Episode 674: THIS Is Why You Have NOT Gotten Your Ex Back Oct 14, 2024

If you did everything right after getting dumped and still haven't gotten your ex back, there may be an invisible reason why. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly why you don't have your ex back and what to do about it.
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Episode 673: This Always Happens Just Before Your Ex Comes Back Oct 07, 2024

If your ex is having second thoughts about the breakup, there's something they'll do that signals they want to come back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly what your ex will do just before they come back.
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Episode 672: How To Behave When She Comes Back After No Contact Sep 30, 2024

Is she back because she wants to try again or because she wants to put you in the friend zone? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to find out what your ex really wants when she returns after dumping you.
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Episode 671: When He Comes Back: How To Handle His Return Like A Pro Sep 23, 2024

He broke your heart and now he's back. Whether you're feeling confused, hopeful, or even a bit skeptical, dating/relationship expert Lucia has got you covered with advice to help you navigate this tricky situation. Find out the signs that he's genuinely changed, how to protect your heart, and the steps you should take before making any decisions.
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Episode 670: Stages Your Avoidant Ex Goes Through During No Contact - Part 2 of 2 Sep 16, 2024

If you don't know the stages your avoidant ex is going through after a breakup, you risk ruining the power of no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the remaining 4 stages your ex will go through during no contact, before they're ready to get back together.
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Episode 669: Stages Your Avoidant Ex Goes Through During No Contact - Part 1 Sep 09, 2024

How long does it take an avoidant ex to realize they made a mistake in breaking up with you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the first 3 stages an avoidant goes through after a breakup when you do no contact.
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Episode 668: The Evil Reasons Your Ex Wants To Be Friends Sep 03, 2024

When someone dumps you but wants to be friends, you should always say no. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the real reasons an ex would still want to be in touch.
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Episode 667: If Your Avoidant Ex Did THIS, They Are NEVER Coming Back Aug 26, 2024

What are the chances your avoidant ex will come back? If they did "this", the chances aren't good. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what "this" is, and exactly what percentage of avoidant exes are likely to come back.
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Episode 666: One Year After No Contact FEELS GREAT! Aug 19, 2024

How will you feel after being in no contact with your ex? Will your ex still be interested or curious? Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares an email from a guy who is shining & thriving one year later.
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Episode 665: Avoidant Exes (Almost) ALWAYS Come Back IF You do THIS Aug 12, 2024

Is it possible to get an avoidant ex back, or is it a lost cause, since they value independence? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you have to do to get an avoidant ex back.
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Episode 664: How To Successfully Detach & Move On From Your Ex Aug 05, 2024

Have you decided you don't want your ex back and it's best to let them go? Dating/relationship Lucia explains exactly what to do to detach from your ex and move on.
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Episode 663: Social Media Games Your Ex Will Play During No Contact Jul 29, 2024

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, there's a very good chance your ex will try to get your attention through social media. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the games your ex will play to trick you into breaking no contact.
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Episode 662: Yes, You WILL Hear From Your Ex. Here's WHY! Jul 22, 2024

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, you're constantly wondering if you'll ever hear from your ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what the chances are that your ex will reach out to you after a breakup.
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Episode 661: Your Ex Must Feel The Consequences Jul 15, 2024

Before your ex can decide they want you back, they need to fully feel the consequences of their decision to break up with you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what your ex will go through before they decide they want you back.
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Episode 660: Think You'll Never Hear From Your Ex Again? Jul 08, 2024

If you've been in no contact for months & months and haven't heard from your ex, this video is for you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia offers hope if you think you'll never hear from your ex again.
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Episode 659: Doing THIS Will Make Your Ex Miss You Like Crazy Jul 01, 2024

In order to get your ex back, they need to miss having you in their life. How can you make someone who dumped you, miss you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you can do to make your ex miss you like crazy.
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Episode 658: What Happens When Your Ex Finally Breaks? Jun 24, 2024

The day you've been waiting for has arrived. Your ex who dumped you is starting to have second thoughts about the breakup. Now what? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains exactly what happens when your ex decides they want you back.
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Episode 657: The Real Reason Why No Contact Works To Get Your Ex Back Jun 17, 2024

If you've been dumped or had to dump someone because they cheated or took you for granted, no contact is your best option if you want them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why no contact is so powerful when it comes to getting an ex back.
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Episode 656: How Soon Will An Avoidant Break No Contact? Jun 10, 2024

If your ex is an avoidant and you're in no contact, when will they reach out? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when you can expect your avoidant ex to contact you.
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Episode 655: How To Love Your Avoidant Partner Jun 03, 2024

If you're dating someone with an avoidant attachment style or you're trying to get your avoidant ex back, this video is for you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to love your avoidant partner so they don't feel the need to run away.
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Episode 654: The SHOCKING Reason Why You Want Your AVOIDANT Ex Back May 27, 2024

Why are people who have an anxious attachment style so attracted to people with an avoidant attachment style?
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the shocking reason why you desperately want your avoidant ex back.
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Episode 653: What Are The Chances My Ex Will Come Back? May 20, 2024

If you're in no contact, will your ex reach out? Will they change their mind and want you back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly what the chances are that you'll get your ex back.
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Episode 652: What Happens When You Respond To Breadcrumbs From Your Ex? May 13, 2024

What happens when you keep in touch with an ex and respond to every breadcrumb they send you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you're playing yourself when you stay in touch with an ex who isn't trying to come back.
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Episode 651: You'll Never Get Your Ex Back Unless You Have THIS Apr 29, 2024

There's something your ex has to have for you, in order to want you back. Without it, your ex won't be back. Dating/relationship expert reveals what it is and how to get it from your ex.
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Episode 650: Will My Ex Miss Me If I Leave Them Alone? Apr 22, 2024

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, you're probably worried that your ex will move on. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how leaving your ex alone will make them miss you.
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Episode 649: The Key Sign Your Ex Is Hurting Apr 15, 2024

Being dumped is painful. Somehow, knowing that your ex is also in pain, helps to make the breakup easier. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the key sign your ex is hurting.
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Episode 648: What Your Avoidant Ex Needs From You Apr 08, 2024

There are two key things avoidants needs from you in order to not pull away or to come back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to get your avoidant ex back by giving them what they need.
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Episode 647: Why Silence Makes Your Ex Come Back Apr 01, 2024

Why does going silent after a breakup make your ex come back? Why is the strategy behind no contact so powerful? Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses why going silent will make your ex lose their mind.
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Episode 646: Will Your Avoidant Ex Come Back? Mar 25, 2024

There are 3 factors which determine whether an avoidant ex will come back or not. You're in control of one of those factors. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what makes an avoidant ex come back.
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Episode 645: NEVER Do THIS When Your Ex Calls Mar 18, 2024

Should you respond or not when your ex calls you, if you want them back? The answer to this will determine how long it will take to get your ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains exactly what to do when your ex calls you.
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Episode 644: AVOIDANTS May COME BACK When These Two Things Happen Mar 11, 2024

Avoidants are the hardest of all attachment styles to get back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 2 things you must do to get your avoidant ex back.
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Episode 643: Narcissism vs Avoidant Attachment Mar 04, 2024

Is your ex a narcissist, a dismissive avoidant or a narcissist AND an avoidant? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the differences between people with narcissism personality disorder and an avoidant attachment style.
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Episode 642: The 3 MISTAKES People Make AFTER No Contact Feb 26, 2024

Once you're back in contact with your ex, if you don't handle it correctly, you'll find yourself back in no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to behave with your ex in order to get them back and keep them.
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Episode 641: The REAL Reason Women Can't Stand Nice Guys Feb 19, 2024

Women often say they're not attracted to "nice guys" because they don't have boundaries and let them walk all over them. However, that's not the main reason women prefer bad boys. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the real reason women can't stand nice guys.
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Episode 640: An AVOIDANT Explains EXACTLY How To Get Your Ex Back Feb 12, 2024

People with an avoidant attachment style are the hardest of all attachment styles to get back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains exactly how to get your avoidant ex back.
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Episode 639: Why An Avoidant Will Not Chase You After A Breakup Feb 05, 2024

Were you dumped by an avoidant and are wondering why they haven't reached out or tried to get you back? In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia shares 9 reasons why someone with an avoidant attachment style will not chase you after a breakup.
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Episode 638: When An Avoidant Realizes They Lost You - What Happens Next? Jan 29, 2024

How do avoidants process a breakup? What happens when it finally hits them that they've really lost you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what your avoidant ex is going through and what you absolutely must do if you want them back.
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Episode 637: 7 Signs An Avoidant Loves You Jan 22, 2024

Even though someone with an avoidant attachment style may keep you at arm's length, they still want to love and be loved. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 7 signs an avoidant loves you.
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Episode 636: What To Do If Your Ex Unblocks You Jan 15, 2024

If you're in no contact and your ex unblocks you but doesn't reach out, what should you do? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do when your ex finally unblocks you, if you want them back.
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Episode 635: Meditation To Take Your Power Back From Your Ex Jan 08, 2024

When you think or talk about your ex, you're sending them energy, which they can feel. This is a way that you're unknowingly breaking no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia guides you through a meditation to take your energy and power back from your ex, which may result in them contacting you.
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Episode 634: Signs Your Ex Regrets The Breakup Jan 02, 2024

The first step to your ex changing their mind about you is regretting the breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals signs your ex regrets the breakup.
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Episode 633: Does No Contact Work More Than Once? Dec 26, 2023

If you've broken no contact, or you got back together but then broke up again, you may be wondering if no contact will work again. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals whether no contact will work more than once.
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Episode 632: No Contact Is EASY (If You Do THIS) Dec 19, 2023

Most people find no contact difficult. However for some people, no contact is very easy. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses how to make no contact easy if you're having a hard time not reaching out to your ex.
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Episode 631: Why Your Ex Is STILL Watching Your Stories Dec 11, 2023

Why is your ex still watching your stories, even though they didn't want to be with you anymore? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the reasons why your ex is watching your stories.
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Episode 629: Never Trust THIS Person During No Contact Dec 04, 2023

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, there's one person you absolutely cannot trust to be able to help you get your ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals who this person is and why you can't trust them.
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Episode 628: Losing Hope That You'll Ever Get Your Ex Back? Nov 27, 2023

If you've been in no contact for many months and haven't heard from your ex at all, should you give up and move on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you shouldn't give up hope yet!
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Episode 627: Why Your Ex Wants You But Won't Come Back Nov 20, 2023

Is it possible that your ex wants you, even though they still haven't come back? What's holding them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the reasons why an ex is holding out even though they still want you.
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Episode 626: Is Your Ex's Text A Breadcrumb or Significant? Nov 13, 2023

If you hear from your ex after being dumped, and you want them back, should you respond or wait? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to know if your ex's message is significant enough for you to respond to.
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Episode 625: How No Contact Affects Your Ex's Brain Nov 06, 2023

How will no contact affect your ex's brain when you use it correctly? How does it make your ex want you back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how no contact affects your ex psychologically and helps you get them back.
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Episode 624: Dumper Feelings When Their Ex MOVES ON Oct 30, 2023

How will your ex feel when you move on or appear move on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how moving on may actually bring your ex back.
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Episode 623: Why Is My Ex Taking So LONG To Come Back? Oct 23, 2023

If you're in no contact, the #1 question on your mind is when you'll hear from your ex. At a certain point, you'll get impatient and wonder why it's taking so long for your ex to reach out. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the reasons why your ex hasn't reached out yet.
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Episode 622: If You Don't Get Your Ex Back, It's YOUR Fault Oct 16, 2023

If there's a chance to get your ex back, you know about no contact and you don't get your ex back, it's probably your fault. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why people don't get their ex back, even though they know about the no contact rule.
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Episode 621: When Is Your Ex Most Attracted To You? Oct 09, 2023

In order to get your ex back, their interest level in you has to go back up to over 50%. How can you re-attract your ex? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 3 times your ex will be most attracted to you after the breakup, giving you the best chance to get them back.
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Episode 620: Warning: THIS Will RUIN No Contact Oct 02, 2023

Most people find no contact difficult, as it requires self control to go against your feelings and not reach out or respond to an ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing that could ruin no contact if you're not careful.
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Episode 619: Why You Should NEVER Respond To BREADCRUMBS From Your Ex Sep 25, 2023

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, the chances are very high that you'll hear from your ex. However, their messages will most likely be breadcrumbs. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you should never respond to breadcrumbs from your ex and what to do instead.
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Episode 618: 3 Reasons Why MOVING ON Will Attract Your Ex Sep 18, 2023

If you've tried to get your ex back and haven't been successful, maybe it's time to use an unexpected strategy. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why moving on may be the reason your ex comes back.
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Episode 617: Dumper Social Media Behavior Sep 11, 2023

If you've been broken up with and want your ex back, your ex's social media behavior can be quite confusing. Dating/relationship expert Lucia decodes what your ex is thinking and feeling based on their social media posts.
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Episode 616: 7 Signs Your Breakup Is NOT Permanent Sep 04, 2023

Just because your ex broke up with you, or you had to break up with them, it doesn't mean your breakup is permanent. Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives 7 signs your breakup may only be temporary.
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Episode 615: Dumper Guilt Timeline Aug 28, 2023

Will your ex feel guilty for dumping you? If so, when will they start to feel guilty? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the timeline for dumper guilt after a break up.
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Episode 614: NEVER, Ever Get Back With Your Ex, Until You Do THIS! Aug 21, 2023

When you've been dumped and your ex wants you back, most people will get back together with no questions asked. Some people will live to regret it. Dating/relationship Lucia explains what you absolutely MUST do when your ex wants you back, in order to prevent another breakup.

Episode 613: Think You Can't Get Your Ex Back After Years Apart? Aug 14, 2023

If it's been more than a year since your break up, you may think you'll never get your ex back. But you'd be wrong. Dating/relationship expert Lucia has a success story from one of her clients who got their ex back after over 2 years.
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Episode 612: NO CONTACT - Watch This If You’re BARELY Hanging On Aug 07, 2023

If you're having a hard time with no contact, you must watch this video immediately. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you desperately want to contact your ex and what to do instead.
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Episode 611: How To Know If You Broke No Contact Jul 31, 2023

Not sure whether you broke no contact or not? Dating/relationship Lucia explains what constitutes breaking no contact and what doesn't.
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Episode 610: How Long Will It Take To Get My Ex Back? Jul 24, 2023

If you've been dumped, the #1 question you have is: how long will it take to get my ex back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how long you'll have to wait before you're back with your ex.
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Episode 609: Dumper Regret Triggers Jul 17, 2023

When you're dumped, the dumper is not usually not 100% sure they should breakup with you. What will make them regret the breakup? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the triggers which will make your ex second guess their decision to dump you.
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Episode 608: If You Think It’s IMPOSSIBLE To Get Your Ex Back, Listen To This! Jul 10, 2023

If you're going through a breakup and think you'll never get your ex back, this video is for you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads a success story from a client who got their ex back even though it was long distance and he cheated. Find out how she did it!
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Episode 607: The ONE And ONLY Reason Exes Come Back Jul 03, 2023

There's only one reason why your ex will come back after a breakup. Every other reason you've heard is only a secondary reason. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the real reason why exes come back after a breakup.
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Episode 606: Dumper vs Dumpee - The Value Switch Jun 26, 2023

When you're dumped, the dumper initially has a higher value than you. If you do things correctly, the situation can eventually change. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how the values switch. You can end up having a higher value and re-attracting your ex after they dump you.
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Episode 605: How To Know If Your Ex Is Still In Love With You Jun 19, 2023

Just because your ex broke up with you, it doesn't mean they don't love you anymore. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the signs your ex is still in love with you.
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Episode 604: Why Silence Will Always Work On Your Ex Jun 12, 2023

If you're trying to get your ex back, not reaching out to them seems counterintuitive. How can you get them back if you don't reach out? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why being silent is the best way to get your ex back.
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Episode 603: Why Moving On Attracts An Ex Jun 05, 2023

Is it possible that showing your ex that you're moving on will actually help to get them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 4 reasons why moving on is sometimes the best way to get your ex back.
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Episode 602: Be Prepared For Your Ex To Beg & Chase You May 29, 2023

Is it possible to reverse the breakup and have your ex begging & chasing you? Dating/relationship expert tells you exactly what to do to turn the tables on your ex.
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Episode 601: Why Your Ex Is Still Silent Even Though They Have Feelings For You May 22, 2023

Most people will hear from their ex within 60 days of no contact. So why is your ex still silent? Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives the reasons why you haven't heard from your ex, even if they have feelings for you.
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Episode 600: What If Your Ex Is Also Doing No Contact / Who Should Reach Out First? May 15, 2023

Is your ex also using the no contact rule? Who should reach out first? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do if your ex is also doing no contact.
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Episode 599: THIS Person Will Stop You From Getting Your Ex Back! May 08, 2023

If you're trying to get your ex back, there's someone you need to watch out for, who may stop you from getting your ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals who this person is and what to do about it.
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Episode 598: How To Make Your Ex Regret Breaking Up With You May 01, 2023

Before your ex can start to re-think their decision to break up with you, they need to realize they made a mistake and you're actually the best option. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you can do to make your ex regret breaking up with you.
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Episode 597: Never Give THIS To Your Ex Apr 17, 2023

If you run into your ex or speak to them on the phone during no contact, there's something that you must never do, if you want them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you should never give to your ex during no contact.
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Episode 596: Why You Must Push Your Ex Away If You Want Them Back Apr 10, 2023

When you've been dumped, your first instinct is to try to get your ex back. As with most things in dating, that instinct is the complete opposite of what you need to do. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why the best way to get your ex back is to push them away.
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Episode 595: 3 Signs Your Ex Is Starting To Regret The Breakup Apr 03, 2023

Is your ex starting to regret the breakup? If so, what are the signs? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 3 signs that your ex is starting to regret breaking up with you and may want you back.
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Episode 594: 7 Ways Your Ex Will Test You After A Breakup And How To Respond Mar 27, 2023

Don't be surprised if your ex tries to test you after they broke up with you. Why would they test you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how your ex will test you and how to respond.
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Episode 593: 7 Reasons Why Your Ex Contacted You & Then Disappeared Mar 20, 2023

Your ex has finally contacted you during no contact! You text or talk for a few days and then they disappear. Why did they do that? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why an ex will first reach out and then ghost.
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Episode 592: Can ChatGPT Help You Get Your Ex Back? Mar 13, 2023

Have you heard about the new AI everyone is talking about - ChatGPT? You can ask it almost any question and it will have an answer for you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia asks AI about getting an ex back to see if it will give the best answers.
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Episode 591: If You Think Your Ex Will NEVER Come Back, LISTEN To This! (Part 2) Mar 06, 2023

If you're going through a breakup and feel hopeless about ever getting your ex back, this video is for you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives more reasons why it's still possible to get your ex back, no matter how bleak the situation seems right now.
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Episode 590: If You Think Your Ex Will NEVER Come Back, LISTEN To This! Feb 27, 2023

If you're going through a breakup and feel hopeless about ever getting your ex back, this video is for you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's still possible to get your ex back, no matter how bleak the situation seems right now.
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Episode 589: How To Get Over Someone (Even If You Think You Can't) Feb 20, 2023

How can you get over someone and move on, especially when you don't want to? Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses why it's hard to get over someone and 3 things you can do to let go.
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Episode 588: What To Do If Your Ex Immediately Starts Dating Someone Else Feb 13, 2023

If you've been dumped and your ex starts to date someone soon afterwards, you'll probably assume there's no possibility of getting back together. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's actually a good sign if your ex starts dating someone new immediately.
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Episode 587: You Ex WILL Keep Tabs On You! Feb 06, 2023

If you were dumped, there's a very good chance your ex is still keeping tabs on you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why your ex would keep tabs on you after they broke up with you.
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Episode 586: I Got My Ex Back, Even Though I Did Everything Wrong! Jan 30, 2023

Is it possible to beg and plead an ex, respond to breadcrumbs and still get your ex back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia tells a story of a man who did everything wrong and still got his avoidant ex back.
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Episode 585: Do You Need To Rebuild An Emotional Connection To Get Your Ex Back? Jan 23, 2023

Should you break no contact to rebuild an emotional connection with your ex, so that they will want you back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what happens if you reach out to your ex to rebuild an emotional attraction in the hopes of getting them back.
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Episode 584: Why Exes Act Like They Don't Care Jan 16, 2023

Does your ex really not care about you anymore or are they just pretending not to care? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the reasons why exes act like they don't care.
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Episode 583: How To Get In Your Ex's Head Jan 09, 2023

If you want to get your ex back, they need to start thinking that maybe their decision to break up with you was a mistake and they should re-consider. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the ways you can get into your ex's head in order for them to realize they shouldn't have dumped you.
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Episode 582: 10 Signs Your Ex Is Testing You Jan 02, 2023

Is your ex testing you? If so, why would an ex test you and how can you know you're being tested by an ex? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why an ex would test you, signs your ex is testing you and how to respond appropriately for each test.
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Episode 582: 10 Signs Your Ex Is Testing You Dec 31, 2022

Is your ex testing you? If so, why would an ex test you and how can you know you're being tested by an ex? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why an ex would test you, signs your ex is testing you and how to respond appropriately for each test.
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Episode 581: 16 Secrets Your Ex Doesn’t Want You To Know Dec 26, 2022

Although it may look like your ex doesn't care and is doing fine without you, that's usually not the truth. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 16 secrets your ex doesn't want you to know.
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Episode 580: No Contact & The Power of Time Dec 19, 2022

Most people who are using the no contact rule to get their ex back are very impatient. They want to hear from their ex sooner rather than later. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why time is actually on your side during no contact.
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Episode 579: How To Get Your Ex Back When They Don't Have Feelings For You Dec 12, 2022

If your ex said they don't have any feelings for you when they dumped you, is it possible to ever get them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you need to do to get your ex back when they don't have feelings for you anymore.
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Episode 578: No Contact vs Radio Silence To Get An Ex Back Dec 05, 2022

If you want your ex back, should you do no contact or radio silence? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the difference between the two and which one you should be using to get your ex back.
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Episode 577: Why Your Ex Suddenly Dumped You! Nov 28, 2022

Why would someone you're dating or in a relationship with suddenly dump you or even ghost you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what's behind someone breaking up with you out of the blue.
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Episode 576: The Real Reason Your Ex Is Breadcrumbing You! Nov 21, 2022

Is your ex breadcrumbing you? Why would an ex breadcrumb the person they broke up with? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the signs you're being breadcrumbed, the reasons why your ex is doing it and what to do about it.
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Episode 575: How To Never Get Your Ex Back Nov 14, 2022

If you never want to get your ex back, follow the steps in this video, and you're guaranteed to never get them back. However, if you want them back, just do the opposite of what dating/relationship expert Lucia tells you to do here.
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Episode 574: What is Your Ex Thinking & Feeling? Nov 07, 2022

People want to know what their ex is thinking & feeling during no contact, because it often makes the breakup easier. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly what your ex is going through when you ignore them.
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Episode 573: Make Your Ex Beg To Be With You - Guided Remote Seduction Meditation Oct 30, 2022

If you want to get your ex back, you must leave no stone unturned. That includes remote seduction. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to seduce your ex remotely with a guided meditation that will make your ex beg to be with you again.
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Episode 572: The Golden Rule of How To Respond To Your Ex Oct 24, 2022

When someone breaks up with you, they usually think they can get you back anytime they want to. They don't have any fear of loss. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when and how to respond to your ex in order to induce the fear of loss that will lead to getting them back.
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Episode 571: Why Is No Contact So Hard? Oct 17, 2022

No contact can be the hardest thing you've ever done. Why is no contact so hard to do? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what's going on in your mind and body during no contact.
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Episode 570: The Shocking New Way To Get Over Your Ex Oct 09, 2022

If you're trying to get over your ex, there's a shocking new way to do it. It may be the key to finally letting go. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals a new way to get over your ex and you won't believe what it is!
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Episode 569: Manifest A Text Success Stories (Part 5) Oct 02, 2022

Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads comments from viewers who have successfully manifested a text from their ex using her manifestation meditation.
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Episode 568: Heard From Your Ex (After Months or Years)? Do THIS! Sep 26, 2022

What should you do when you hear from your ex after many months or years have gone by? Why are they contacting you after all that time? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the rules for handling an ex who contacts you months or years after the breakup.
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Episode 567: Afraid Your Ex Will Forget You During No Contact? Sep 19, 2022

One fear people in no contact have is that their ex will forget about them. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why the chances of your ex forgetting about you during no contact are very low.
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Episode 566: Break No Contact At Your Own Risk! Sep 12, 2022

If you're in no contact, you'll probably be tempted to break it at some point, especially if you're triggered or have an anxious attachment style. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads a comment from someone who broke no contact and lived to regret it.
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Episode 565: Never Respond To This Text From Your Ex Sep 05, 2022

If you're in no contact, there's a 90% chance you'll hear from your ex at some point.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what your ex will probably say when they reach out and why you should never respond to that text.
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Episode 564: The Danger Of Breaking No Contact Aug 29, 2022

If you're about to break no contact, you're setting yourself up to be rejected again.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why breaking no contact when you want your ex back is the worst thing you could do.
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Episode 563: 6 Insanely Effective Ways To Re-Attract Your Ex Aug 21, 2022

If you've been dumped, it's because your ex's interest level went below 50%. The only way to re-attract your ex is to raise their interest level above 50.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 6 ways to re-attract your ex back into your life.
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Episode 562: How To Keep Someone Interested - An Interview With Doc Love Aug 15, 2022

If dating coaches are talking about interest level today, it's thanks to Doc Love, who came up with the concept after interviewing over 10,000 women. Dating/relationship expert Lucia interviewed Doc Love in this funny and fast paced interview from 2008.
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Episode 562: How To Keep Someone Interested - An Interview With Doc Love Aug 15, 2022

If dating coaches are talking about interest level today, it's thanks to Doc Love, who came up with the concept after interviewing over 10,000 women. Dating/relationship expert Lucia interviewed Doc Love in this funny and fast paced interview from 2008.
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Episode 561: 9 Signs Your Ex Is Emotionally Immature Aug 08, 2022

People often think their ex was a narcissist or selfish, when they were actually emotionally immature.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 9 signs your ex is emotionally immature.
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Episode 560: How To Make Your Ex Contact You Jul 31, 2022

Besides no contact and manifesting a text, there are 2 other ways to make your ex contact you.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 2 actions you can take to hear from your ex.
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Episode 559: Why You MUST Be Polite To Your Ex Jul 24, 2022

If you want your ex back, you need to be nice with your words and tough with your actions.
Dating/relationship Lucia explains the mindset behind (almost) always being polite to your ex.
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Episode 558: Texts Your Ex May Send (And How To Respond) Jul 17, 2022

There's a 90% chance you'll hear from your ex after a break up. If you want them back, you should only respond to certain texts.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains which texts to respond to and which one to ignore.
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Episode 557: Why You MUST Reject Your Ex (If You Want Them Back) Jul 10, 2022

If you want to re-attract your ex, being nice, looking good and being flirty will only take you so far.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why rejecting your ex is the key to getting them back.
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Episode 556: What To Do After No Contact Jul 05, 2022

What should you do/not do and say/not say to your ex if you hear from them after you've done no contact?
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly how to deal with your ex when you hear from them after no contact.
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Episode 555: Why You Shouldn't Be Mad At Your Ex Jun 27, 2022

You may be angry at your ex but have you stopped to think about how you contributed to the break up? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads responses from people who admit to what they did wrong in their relationship and advises on what they should have done instead.
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Episode 554: How To Stay In No Contact (If You Have An Anxious Attachment Style) Jun 20, 2022

If you have an anxious attachment style, no contact will be more difficult for you than most people.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 2 scientific reasons why no contact is difficult and how to overcome them.
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Episode 553: 9 Signs Your Avoidant Ex Misses You Jun 13, 2022

If your ex has an avoidant attachment style, it's not always easy to figure out whether they miss you or not. Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives 9 signs your avoidant ex misses you during no contact.
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Episode 552: Why You Must Ignore Your Ex - Followup Jun 05, 2022

Most dating coaches say you should always respond when your ex reaches out, but is that the right thing to do? Dating/relationship expert Lucia has an update from a listener who learned the hard way why you shouldn't respond to your ex when they first reach out.
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Episode 551: When Will You Hear From Your Ex? May 30, 2022

If you're in no contact, the one thing you want to know is when will you hear from your ex, if you do hear from them. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 4 times you're most likely to hear from your ex during no contact.
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Episode 550: THIS Will Make Your Ex Come Back May 22, 2022

In order for your ex to want you back, there's something that they need to feel. Without this, they won't care about getting back together. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what will make your ex come back.
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Episode 549: Afraid No Contact Isn't Working? Listen to THIS! May 16, 2022

Are you afraid that no contact isn't working? Do you feel like breaking no contact because you think you'll never hear from your ex? Dating/relationship expert has a a testimonial from someone who overcame their fear of no contact and heard from their ex.
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Episode 548: Can You Get Back An Avoidant Ex? Yes, here's how! May 08, 2022

If you're trying to get your ex back and they have an avoidant attachment style, you've probably realized it's not that easy. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the "secret trick" that will help you get your avoidant ex back.
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Episode 547: Is Your Ex Thinking About You? How To Know For Sure! May 01, 2022

When you've been dumped, you'll continually be asking yourself if your ex is thinking about you or if they've forgotten about you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the #1 sign that your ex is definitely thinking about you.
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Episode 546: The Most Dangerous Part of No Contact Apr 25, 2022

If you've managed to stay in no contact, there may come a time when you'll be tempted to break it and undo all the progress you've made. Dating/relationship Lucia reveals what the most dangerous part of no contact is and what to do when it happens.
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Episode 545: Why Some Exes Never Come Back Apr 16, 2022

Why do some exes come back while others don't? Will your ex come back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 2 reasons why some exes never come back.
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Episode 544: No Contact Rule Pep Talk Apr 11, 2022

Whether you just started using the no contact rule or you've been in no contact for weeks or months, at some point you'll wonder if it's working and whether you should continue. Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives you a pep talk to keep you motivated to stay in no contact until you hear from your ex.
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Episode 543: When Will No Contact Not Work? Apr 04, 2022

The no contact rule is usually the best way to get an ex back, however there are certain situations when no contact will backfire. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when you should absolutely not use the no contact rule.
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Episode 542: THIS Is What Happens When You Break No Contact & Get Your Ex Back Mar 26, 2022

What happens if you break the no contact rule and get your ex back? Is it worth it to get your ex back by breaking no contact? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the ugly truth about what happens when you go back to someone who dumped you.
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Episode 541: Is It Wrong To Do No Contact? Mar 20, 2022

Is the no contact rule manipulative? Is it game playing?
Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's not wrong to use the no contact rule to get an ex back.
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Episode 540: Why You Should NOT Manifest A Text From Your Ex Mar 14, 2022

Should you manifest a text from your ex if you haven't heard from them? Can it backfire to manifest a text from an ex? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should NOT manifest a text and reveals what to do instead, in order to get your ex back.
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Episode 539: What Happens When You Stop Chasing An Avoidant? Mar 07, 2022

If your ex has an avoidant attachment style, what happens if you chase them or you stop chasing them? Dating/relationship expert explains how to deal with an avoidant ex in order to have the best chance at getting them back.
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Episode 538: I Miss My Ex- NO You Don't And THIS Is Why Feb 28, 2022

After a breakup, it's inevitable that you'll miss your ex. But do you really miss your ex, or is something else going on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you don't miss your ex and what it is you actually miss.
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Episode 537: The Tinder Swindler: How To Not Get Played Feb 21, 2022

Why do women get scammed into giving men thousands and thousands of dollars? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reviews The Tinder Swindler on Netflix and points out the red flags and mistakes the women made that led to them losing money.

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Episode 536: 2 Ways To Respond If You've Been Ghosted Feb 14, 2022

What should you do if you've been ghosted, either by someone you were dating or in a relationship with? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 2 ways to respond when someone ghosts you.
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Episode 535: Social Media During No Contact Feb 07, 2022

How should you deal with social media if you're in no contact? Do you continue posting or do you stop? What should you post? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the do's and dont's of dealing with social media if you want your ex back.
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Episode 534: If You're In No Contact, Do This Immediately! Jan 31, 2022

If you don't want to accidentally break no contact, there's one thing you must do immediately.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing you must do, to make sure you don't break no contact.
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Episode 533: 10 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You Jan 24, 2022

When you've been dumped, you have a 90% chance of hearing back from your ex. However, they're not necessarily reaching out to get back together. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 10 reasons why your ex is contacting you.
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Episode 532: 5 Stages A Man Goes Through During No Contact Jan 17, 2022

A man who breaks up with a woman experiences no contact differently than a woman who breaks up with a man.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what a man is thinking during no contact using neuropsychology and biology.
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Episode 531: Should You Block Your Ex? Jan 10, 2022

Most people trying to get an ex back block them at the wrong time for the wrong reasons. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what's happening when you're triggered and want to reach for the block button and what to do instead.
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Episode 530: How To Stay Strong During No Contact Jan 03, 2022

For most people, staying in no contact in order to get an ex back is one of the most difficult things they will ever do.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives tips to motivate you to stay in no contact while you're waiting for your ex to reach out.
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Episode 529: Should You Be In No Contact? Dec 27, 2021

The no contact rule isn't right for every breakup. At times, using doing no contact will actually hurt your chances of getting your ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains when you should and shouldn't do no contact on your ex.
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Episode 528: 10 Reasons Why You'll Regret Breaking No Contact Dec 20, 2021

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, at some point, you'll be tempted to break it and reach out to your ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives 10 great reasons why you must absolutely stay in no contact, no matter what.
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Episode 527: Which Texts From Your Ex Should You Respond To? Dec 13, 2021

If you hear from your ex during no contact, how do you know which texts you should or shouldn't respond to? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the difference between texts which should be answered and texts which should be ignored.
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Episode 526: The 5 Stages Of A Rebound Relationship Dec 06, 2021

If your ex is in a rebound relationship, it's helpful to know the stages they'll go through, in case you need to be in contact with them or they reach out to you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the 5 stages of a rebound relationship.
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Episode 525: Always Respond To This Text (From Your Ex) Nov 29, 2021

If you're in no contact and you hear from your ex, is there a text you should always respond to? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one text from your ex that you should never ignore.
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Episode 524: Find Out If Your Ex Is Still Interested In You (Sneaky Trick) Nov 15, 2021

Is there an easy way to find out if you still have a chance with your ex? Yes, there is! Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals a sneaky trick that will instantly tell you if your ex is still interested in you.
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Episode 523: Never, Ever Respond To This Text From Your Ex Nov 08, 2021

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, there's a text you should never, ever respond to, unless you cheated or took your ex for granted. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what the text that should always be ignored is.
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Episode 522: How To Steal Your Ex From Their Rebound Oct 31, 2021

If your ex is dating someone new, is it too late to get them back? Should you just give up and move on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives tips on how to steal your ex back from their rebound.
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Episode 521: How To Make Your Ex Jealous (And Get Them To Reach Out) Oct 25, 2021

If you want to hear from your ex, one of the best ways to get them to reach out, is to make them jealous. If they still have feelings for you, they'll be triggered when they think you've replaced them. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to make your ex jealous and possibly want you back.
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Episode 520: How To Get Your Ex Back By Texting (Get Your Ex To Obsess Over You) Oct 18, 2021

Can you get your ex back through texting? Are there specific texts that will raise their interest level and make them think about you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the secrets to getting your ex back through texting.
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Episode 519: How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back (If You Took Her For Granted) Oct 11, 2021

If you took your ex girlfriend for granted, full no contact won't work on her. It will push her further away. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to do no contact properly when you a woman breaks up with you because you took her for granted.
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Episode 518: 10 Signs Your Breakup Isn't Permanent Oct 04, 2021

Is your relationship over for good or is there a chance your ex will come back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 10 signs that your breakup is not permanent and your ex will be back.
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Episode 517: Will I Ever Hear From My Ex Again? Sep 27, 2021

Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what the chances are that you'll hear from your ex and what you should be doing while you're waiting for them to reach out.
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Episode 516: The #1 Reason Why Your Ex Will Most Likely Come Back Sep 20, 2021

When you've been dumped, your primary desire is to get your ex back. What are your chances that your ex will come back?
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the #1 reason why an ex comes back .
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Episode 515: When Your Ex Realizes The Breakup Was A Mistake Sep 15, 2021

Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 5 situations which will lead your ex to realize they made a mistake in breaking up with you.
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Episode 514: How To Get Your Ex To Think About You 24/7 Sep 07, 2021

You're constantly thinking about your ex, but are they thinking about you? Is there a way to make your ex think about you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to get your ex to think about you 24/7, which is the first step to getting them back.
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Episode 513: Will Your Ex Leave You Again? Aug 28, 2021

If your ex comes back, what are the chances they'll leave you again?
Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to properly get back with your ex so that they're less likely to break up with you again.

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Episode 512: Never Do This With An Ex Aug 23, 2021

When you hear from your ex during no contact, your desire to get back with them will make you believe they've changed their mind. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should never assume your ex wants you back and what to do instead.
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Episode 511: Why Your Ex Isn't Attracted To You Aug 16, 2021

If you want your ex back, you'll need to re-attract them and raise their interest level above 50%.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 7 letter word to keep in mind in order to win back your ex.
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Episode 510: Manifest A Text Success Stories (Part 4) Aug 09, 2021

If you haven't heard from your ex, don't worry. You can always manifest a text from them. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads comments from people who heard from their ex (some within minutes) after setting the intention to hear from them.
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Episode 509: Will My Ex Come Back? (How To Know) Jul 24, 2021

Will your ex come back? Is there a way to know what your chances are of getting your ex back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the factors which determine whether your ex will be back or not.
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Episode 508: 6 Mind Games Your Ex Plays When They Want You Back Jul 19, 2021

When an ex wants you back, they don't always just come right out and say it. They'll play mind games with you in the hopes you'll bring up the subject first. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 6 mind games your ex will play when they want you back.
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Episode 507: No Contact Success Stories (Part 21) Jul 12, 2021

If you're about to break no contact, put down the phone and watch this instead, to motivate you to stay in no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads and comments on success stories from viewers and clients who used the no contact rule successfully.
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Episode 506: Never Respond To These Texts From Your Ex (If You Want Them Back) Jul 05, 2021

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, there's a 90% chance your ex will reach out to you at some point. There's 3 texts they're most likely to send you when they first reach out. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what those 3 texts are and why you should never respond to them, if you want your ex back.
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Episode 505: Accidentally Broke No Contact? Do THIS right now! Jun 28, 2021

What should you do if you accidentally broke no contact by sending a text or hitting the facetime button by mistake? Should you send a message telling them it was a mistake or do nothing? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what to do when you accidentally break no contact, so that your ex doesn't think you were trying to contact them.

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Episode 504: Why You Must NOT Block Your Ex (If You Want Them Back) Jun 21, 2021

If you've been broken up with or had to break up with someone because they cheated or took you for granted, one of your first instincts will be to block or unfollow them. However, that's not the right move, if you want them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should NOT block or unfollow your ex right after a break up.

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Episode 503: Dumper Experience: From Breakup to No Contact Jun 14, 2021

What does a dumper goes through if they had to break up with their ex because they were being taken for granted? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what the dumper is thinking and feeling by reading and commenting on an email from one of her coaching clients who got her ex back after she broke up with him.

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Episode 502: Will No Contact Work After Multiple Breakups? Jun 07, 2021

Will no contact work if your ex broke up with you several times in the past and you always chased them to get them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals whether no contact will work if you've never used it on your ex during previous breakups.

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Episode 501: 10 Signs Your Ex Is Thinking About You Jun 01, 2021

Is your ex thinking about you after the break up? Is there any way to know if they're thinking about you or not? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 10 signs your ex is thinking about you.

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Episode 500: How To Know If Your Breakup Is Real Or Fake May 23, 2021

When someone breaks up with you, it's not always a real breakup. They may be doing it as a manipulation. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what a fake breakup is and how to know if your breakup is real or fake.

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Episode 499: No Contact Success Stories (Part 2) May 16, 2021

Can you get your ex back after years apart? Does no contact work on women?

Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers these questions from emails and comments of people who used the no contact rule successfully.

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Episode 498: Can No Contact Make Him Commit? May 10, 2021

Will no contact work after multiple break ups, if you weren't even in a relationship? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads an email from a woman who was finally able to get a commitment after using the no contact rule.

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Episode 497: Beware: This Will Make You Break No Contact! May 03, 2021

If you're in no contact long enough, at some point you'll be tempted to break it. How you handle that moment may mean the difference between getting your ex back or living in regret. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what will make you want to break no contact and when you'll most likely be tempted.

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Episode 496: Don’t Listen To This Person During No Contact Apr 25, 2021

If you're trying to get an ex back, you probably already know that you shouldn't ask your family and friends for advice, because they will always tell you to break no contact. There's also someone else you shouldn't take advice from after a breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one person you should not go to for help in getting your ex back, and who to listen to instead.

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Episode 495: 12 Signs Your Ex Is Pretending To Be Over You Apr 19, 2021

Is your ex really over you if you don't hear from them, or are they just putting on an act, in the hopes you'll contact them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 12 signs your ex is only pretending to be over you. The more signs you see, the higher the chances that they are just "the great pretender", but actually miss you and maybe even want you back.

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Episode 494: Will No Contact Work On A FWB? Apr 13, 2021

Will no contact work on someone you were fwb with or it only works if you were exclusive? Dating/relationship expert Lucia responds to an email from a coaching client who was in a fwb relationship and wonders if he can get her back with no contact.

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Episode 493: Should You Call Your Ex Back? Apr 09, 2021

You probably already know you shouldn't answer if you're in no contact and your ex calls. However, if they don't leave a message, should you call them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should never call your ex back if they don't leave a significant message.

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Episode 492: How to Make Your Ex Come Crawling Back Apr 04, 2021

Do you dream of your ex begging you to take them back? It's totally possible, if their interest level is high enough and you do everything correctly. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals all the steps you need to take to get your ex to come crawling back.

Episode 491: 4 Powerful Ways To Make Your Ex Chase You Mar 29, 2021

Is it possible to get your ex to chase you, even if they broke up with you? Yes it is! Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 4 best ways to make your ex chase you and be on the road to getting them back.

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Episode 490: The #1 Thing That Determines If You’ll Get Your Ex Back Mar 22, 2021

There's many variables that affect whether or not you'll get your ex back. However, there's one factor that trumps everything else. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the #1 thing that determines whether your ex will come back or stay away forever.

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Episode 489: 10 Exceptions To The No Contact Rule Mar 14, 2021

Even though no contact is the best way to get your ex back, at times it's necessary to break it and contact your ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 10 situations where you should break no contact and reach out to your ex.

Episode 488: Ignore Your Ex And Get Them Back Mar 08, 2021

Many people have a problem with the idea of ignoring an ex they're trying to get back until they hear something significant, instead of responding to breadcrumbs. Dating/relationship expert Lucia has another success story from a woman who ignored her ex and eventually got him back.

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Episode 487: No Contact Success Stories (Part 19) Mar 01, 2021

When you're going through a break up and doing no contact, you need faith to believe that in the end it will be worth it and you'll hear from your ex and possibly get back together.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia is back with more no contact success stories to help you stay in no contact until you hear from your ex.

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Episode 486: The #1 Reason You MUST Stay In No Contact Feb 22, 2021

If you want to get your ex back, there are many reasons why following the no contact rule is your best bet. However, it's not easy and you'll be tempted to break it many times. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the #1 reason why you must absolutely stay in no contact, no matter what.

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Episode 485: 10 Signs Your Ex Wants You To Contact Them Feb 15, 2021

Everyone knows that if you're dumped and your ex changes their mind and wants to get back together, it's up to them to reach out to you. However, fear of rejection and/or pride may stop them from doing that.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 10 signs your ex wants you to contact them, even though they broke up with you.

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Episode 484: 9 Reasons Why Your Ex Broke Up With You Feb 08, 2021

The reason your ex broke up with you is usually because their interest level in you went down. However, what causes someone to lose attraction and dump their partner? Using points from LMFT Tory Eletto (@nytherapist on IG), dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 9 reasons why your ex left you.

Episode 483: 20 Signs Your Ex Is Not Over You Feb 01, 2021

Just because you haven't heard from your ex, it doesn't mean they're over you. There are always signs that they still have feelings for you and may want to get back together. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 20 signs that your ex is not over you.

Episode 482: Why You'll Never Get Your Ex Back Jan 25, 2021

Many people don't get their exes back because their actions after the breakup push their ex even further away, instead of bringing them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what the two factors are which determine whether or not you'll get your ex back.

Episode 481: How To Go From No Contact To Engaged (To Your Ex) Jan 18, 2021

If you have an anxious attachment style and pleaded with your ex, along with sending millions of texts after the breakup, is it still possible to get them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia analyzes a break up with a woman who did all those things, yet still managed to get her ex back, along with a marriage proposal.

Episode 480: Psychology Of An Ex During No Contact Jan 11, 2021

What is your ex thinking and feeling right after the break up? Do they feel the same after 30, 45 and 60 days of no contact? What will it take for them to reach out? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the stages a dumper goes through after the break up and how long each stage lasts.

Episode 479: Stop Doing No Contact! Jan 04, 2021

The no contact rule isn't a cure all for every dating or relationship issue you have. It's only to be used for very specific situations, otherwise, it will backfire. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the situations where you should definitely not be using no contact.

Episode 478: No Contact Rule Q & A (Part 3) Dec 28, 2020

Should you move on from your ex, should you write your ex a letter, how can you find out if your ex wants to get back together, is it a bad sign if your ex is mad at you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers all these questions and more in part 3 of No Contact Q & A.

Episode 477: When Should You Break No Contact? Dec 21, 2020

If you're in no contact after a breakup, the chances of hearing from your ex are very high. However, in order to have the best chance at getting your ex back, you have to wait for the right time to respond. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the two things to look for, that will let you know it's the right to time to answer your ex's text or return their call

Episode 476: No Contact Success Stories (Part 18) Dec 14, 2020

Back by popular demand - more no contact success stories to keep you motivated to stay in no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads emails and comments from viewers who either heard from their ex during no contact or decided that they were better off without their ex.

Episode 475: If You Want Your Ex Back, Ignore Them Dec 07, 2020

Contrary to what most dating coaches say, if you want the best chance at getting your ex back, you must ignore them when they reach out, unless they say something significant. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads a success story of.a woman who was broken up with via email and got her ex back by ignoring him.

Episode 474: Do Not Contact Your Ex On Their Birthday Nov 29, 2020

If you're doing no contact, there's a possibility that your ex's birthday will be coming up. Should you wish your ex a "Happy birthday"? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should absolutely NOT break no contact to wish your ex a happy birthday.

Episode 473: No, Do Not Get Back With Your Ex Nov 23, 2020

You shouldn't always try to get an ex back, especially if the relationship was toxic. What behaviors should you walk away from? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads and comments on 2 emails from women who should not get back with their exes.

Is No Contact A Bad Idea? Nov 15, 2020

Is the no contact rule manipulative and a childish game? Should you just reach out to your ex, even though they broke up with you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the doubts some people have with no contact and addresses those concerns.

Are You The Dumper Or The Dumpee? Nov 09, 2020

After a breakup, how do you know if you're the dumper or the dumpee? Is it always up to the dumper to get their ex back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to know if you're the dumper or dumpee and whether or not it's up to you or your ex to put the relationship back together.

8 Ways To Stop Yourself From Breaking No Contact Nov 02, 2020

Most people who start to use the no contact rule to get their ex back will end up breaking it at some point. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 8 ways to stop yourself from breaking no contact, and thus have a better chance at getting your ex back.

Stop Chasing Your Ex (If You Want Them Back) Oct 26, 2020

If you're in touch with your ex because you did no contact successfully, you want to make sure you don't mess up, otherwise, all the time spent in no contact will have been for nothing. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the common mistakes people make when they start to talk to or meet up with their ex, and what to do instead.

Will No Contact Work More Than Once? Oct 19, 2020

If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back, there's a very high probability you'll break it at some point, but your ex will not want to get back with you. Will no contact work a second or even third time? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals who is most likely to break no contact, why they do it and how to prevent breaking it.

40 Responses To The “I Miss You” Text Oct 12, 2020

If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back, at some point you may receive the "I miss you" text. Do they really mean it? Should you answer? What should you say? Dating/relationship expert Lucia provides 40 useful, funny and sarcastic responses to send when your ex says they miss you.

The #1 Mistake People Make When They Get Back With Their Ex Oct 05, 2020

There's a mistake that many people who get back together make, which usually leads to another break up. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what that mistake is and what to do instead.

Can You Get Your Ex Back If You Acted As A Beta Male? Sep 28, 2020

Why do women prefer alpha males and get turned off when a man they're dating starts to behave as a beta male? Is it possible to get a woman back if you behaved as a beta either in the relationship or after being dumped? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what a man needs to do to get his ex back if he acted as a beta male.

No Contact Success Stories (Part 17) Sep 21, 2020

If you want to get your ex back and need some inspiration to stay in no contact, here it is. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads emails from listeners and clients who either got their ex back using the no contact rule, or decided they didn't want their ex back, even when they head from them.

Is Your Ex Breadcrumbing You? Sep 14, 2020

During no contact, there's a very good chance you'll hear from your ex at some point. However, it may not necessarily be to get back together, but instead for many other reasons. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the many reasons why your ex may breadcrumb you during no contact and how to handle it.

Do NOT Tell Your Ex How You Feel Sep 08, 2020

When you finally hear from your ex, and they say that they miss you and/or love you, you'll be tempted to say that you do too. Is that the right thing to do? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why revealing your feelings to an ex you want to get back with is not something you should do.

The #1 Mistake People Make When They're Dumped Aug 24, 2020

When people get dumped, they usually make one crucial mistake that hurts their chances of getting their ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what this mistake is and what you need to do instead.

How To Get Over Your Ex Aug 17, 2020

If you've decided you don't want your ex back and would rather move on, how can you get over the relationship and your ex? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to successfully get over your ex, using a client success story of a woman who moved on and got over her ex.

You're Doing No Contact Wrong Aug 13, 2020

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, are you sure you're doing it correctly? If you hear from your ex, should you respond? Should you block them or unfriend them? How can you handle the anxiety that comes with no contact? Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the common mistakes people make in no contact, by reading comments of people who are doing it wrong.

Manifest A Text From Your Ex Success Stories - Part 3 Aug 10, 2020

If you're in no contact and haven't heard from your ex, it may be time to manifest a text. Many people who used Lucia's technique heard back from their within hours or days. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads comments from people who heard from their ex in order to inspire you to manifest a text from your ex.

How To Get Your Ex To Unblock You Aug 03, 2020

Why do exes block you when they break up with you? What are the chances that they'll unblock you at some point? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do and most importantly what not to do when your ex blocks you, in order to be unblocked as soon as possible.

No Contact Horror Stories (Part 2) Jul 31, 2020

If you're thinking of breaking no contact, put down that phone and listen to this instead. You just may change your mind about breaking it afterwards. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads comments of people who broke no contact and lived to regret it.

Why You Must IGNORE Your Ex (To Get Them Back) Jul 27, 2020

If you're listening to different ex-back coaches, you're probably confused as to whether or not you should respond to your ex when they reach out during no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's absolutely imperative that you do NOT respond the first time your ex reaches out.

No Contact - Q & A (Part 2) Jul 20, 2020

Dating/relationship expert Lucia responds to viewer emails about getting an ex back using the no contact rule.

Does No Contact Work On Short Term Relationships? Jul 12, 2020

Will no contact work if you only dated for a few weeks or a few months or is it hopeless because you didn't spend enough time together? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why all is not lost when a breakup happens after only a few weeks or months of dating.

You MUST Ignore Your Ex (If You Want Them Back) Jul 06, 2020

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back and you finally hear from them, should you respond to their first message or wait? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should ignore messages from your ex until they say something significant.

10 Signs Your Ex Still Has Feelings For You Jun 29, 2020

When you're in no contact and hoping to hear from your ex, you'll constantly be looking for the smallest of signs that your ex may have changed their mind and want you back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 10 signs your ex still has feelings for you and may possibly want you back.

No Contact Success Stories (Part 16) Jun 22, 2020

If you need inspiration to stay in no contact in order to get your ex back, here it is. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads viewer emails of dumpees who were able to get their ex back using no contact. Check out her new book at: www.nocontactsecrets.com

Don't Respond To Your Ex (Until You Listen To THIS) Jun 14, 2020

Should you always respond if you hear from your ex during no contact or is it better to wait until they say something significant? Dating/relationship expert Lucia goes through a comment from a viewer who did both while she was in no contact. She responded and she also didn't respond. Find out which strategy worked to get her ex back.

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How To Get Your Ex Back Jun 05, 2020

When you're trying to get your ex back, it's easy to overreact and make a lot of bad decisions that will only push your ex further away. Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives a detailed, step-by-step account of how she helped one of her clients get his ex back.

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No Contact Success Stories (Part 15) Jun 01, 2020

If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back, you already know it's one of the most difficult things you've ever done Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads viewer emails of dumpees who were able to get their ex back using no contact.

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6 Signs Your Ex Is Miserable May 25, 2020

What is your ex feeling after a break up? Is there any way to know if no contact is affecting them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 6 signs your ex is miserable without you during no contact. Check out her new book at: http://www.nocontactsecrets.com

6 Reasons Your Ex Is Silent May 21, 2020

Why is your ex silent after breaking up with you? Will they ever reach out? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the reasons why you haven't heard from your ex and what you need to do.

How To Get Your Ex Back If You Cheated May 18, 2020

If you cheated and were dumped, is it possible to get your ex back? Should you use the no contact rule? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly what to do if you want to get your ex back after you cheated on them.

12 Signs Your Ex Will Never Come Back May 11, 2020

If you want your ex back, it's scary to think that they may never come back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 12 signs your ex will never come back. The more of these signs you see, the less chance you have of getting your ex back. However, it's possible to see one or more of these signs and still get your ex back.

My Breakup (True Story) May 07, 2020

Before I specialized in helping people get their ex back, I was a "general" dating expert, discussing many different dating topics. When I was broken up with in 2014, I wanted him back and started to look for information on how to do this. That's when I discovered that a lot of the "dating coaches" who specialized in getting an ex back, didn't know what they were talking about.

Thus began my journey of learning how to get an ex back effectively. In this video I tell you about my relationship and breakup, which led to me deciding to specialize in ex back coaching.

10 Things Never To Say To A Girl May 04, 2020

Are you losing girls by asking questions or making comments that turn them off? Being hot will get you in the door, but you can easily mess it up with the things you say. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 10 things you should never say to a girl.

7 Stages The Dumpee Goes Through (After A Breakup) Apr 26, 2020

Being dumped is one of the most painful experiences you'll ever have. It usually comes as a surprise and you'll feel a rollercoaster of emotions. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the 7 stages you'll go through after you've been broken up with.

Why Is Your Ex Contacting You? Apr 20, 2020

It can be very confusing when you've been broken up with, yet your ex starts to contact you after a period of not hearing from them or they stay in contact. What do they want? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the many reasons why your ex wants to stay in touch.

6 Signs Your Ex Is Dating A Rebound Apr 17, 2020

When you're dealing with a break up, one of the biggest fears is that your ex will quickly move on to someone else, and you'll never get them back. Is it possible to know if it's totally over and they've definitely moved on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the six signs your ex is dating a rebound.

Your Ex Will Never Get Back With You (Until THIS Happens) Apr 13, 2020

Before your ex can even begin to think of possibly getting back with you, there's something that needs to happen. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what needs to change, in order for your ex to want to try again.

10 Things Never To Say To A Guy Apr 09, 2020

Are you losing guys by asking questions or making comments that turn them off? Being hot will get you in the door, but you can easily mess it up with the things you say. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 10 things you should never say to a guy.

6 Questions To Ask Your Ex (When They Want You Back) Apr 06, 2020

The biggest mistake people make when their ex wants them back, is to take them back too easily. This makes them look low value. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 6 questions to ask your ex when they tell you they want you back. If they're unable or unwilling to answer them, you should think twice about getting back together.

Guided Meditation - Manifest A Text From Your Ex Apr 02, 2020

Use this meditation to manifest a text or call from your ex or a specific person. Using the law of attraction, get your specific person to text you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia guides you through a meditation to manifest a text from your ex.

THIS Always Leads To A Breakup Mar 30, 2020

When you first start to date someone, there are several red flags to look out for, if you're looking for a relationship. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads an email from a listener and points out all the warning signs she ignored, which led to a breakup. Ignore them at your own risk.

Do NOT Get Back With Your Ex (Until You Do THIS) Mar 27, 2020

If you want the best chance at things working out if you get back with your ex, there's something you absolutely must do, or you may get dumped again. What is it? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you should be doing during no contact, so that you don't blow your second chance if your ex takes you back.

How To Get Your Ex Back If You Begged & Pleaded Mar 23, 2020

Is it possible to get your ex back if you begged and pleaded with them not to break up with you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly what works to get an ex back if you didn't handle the break up well, using an uplifting success story.

Should You Break No Contact During The Coronavirus Pandemic? Mar 19, 2020

If you're in no contact during the coronavirus pandemic, you've probably started to wonder whether this is an exception to the no contact rule. Should you make an exception and break no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals who can break no contact a this point, and who should absolutely not break it.

Why Nice Guys Get Dumped Mar 16, 2020

Why do women seem to prefer bad boys or jerks over a nice guy? Do nice guys have to start being mean to women, in order to be successful with them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what women really want in a man and the main difference between nice guys and jerks.

Is Your Ex A Narcissist? Mar 09, 2020

The word narcissist is often used to describe an ex. This wasn't always the case. Is it possible that there has been an increase in narcissistic personality disorders? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains whether your ex is really a narcissist or if there's something else going on.

How To Get Your Ex Back If You Were Too Needy Mar 02, 2020

How can you get your ex back if you were dumped for being too needy? Will no contact work in this case, or do you need to do something else? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what you absolutely must do if you were too needy in your relationship and now want your ex back.

Should You Trick Your Ex Into Contacting You? Feb 10, 2020

Is there a way to make your ex reach out to you? If so, should you do it or wait for them to contact you when they're ready? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why trying to get your ex to reach out to you often backfires.

10 Things Never To Say to Your Ex (When You Re-Connect) Feb 03, 2020

If you've done no contact correctly, there's a good chance you'll hear from your ex. How you handle re-connecting with your ex will make the difference between getting back together or losing them again. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 10 things you should not say to your ex when you text/talk to them after no contact.

Manifest A Text From Your Ex Success Stories - Part 2 Jan 19, 2020

If you've been trying to manifest a text from someone but haven't been able to, get ready to be inspired. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads comments from people who have followed her technique for manifesting a text from an ex and have been successful.

How To Do No Contact If You Work/Go To School With Your Ex Jan 13, 2020

How do you do no contact if you have to see your ex at work, school or some other place? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to do a modified version of no contact in these situations, as well as how to behave when you see your ex, in order to have the best chance at getting them back.

No Contact Success Stories (Part 13) Jan 06, 2020

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, you already know it's one of the hardest things you've ever done. Dating/relationship expert Lucia inspires you to keep going by telling you about others who have had success with the no contact rule.

The Top 3 Dating Mistakes That Lead To Breakups Dec 30, 2019

There are many reasons why people break up, but there are 3 mistakes that the majority of people who are dating make. These often lead to breakups. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what the top 3 dating mistakes are, based on her experience speaking to hundreds of clients who are trying to get their ex back.

The #1 Thing You MUST Do When You Get Your Ex Back Dec 23, 2019

When you get your ex back, there's something you must do, otherwise, there's a chance they'll break up with you again. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and why it's so important.

Why You Can't Manifest Dec 15, 2019

Some people are able to manifest a text from their ex, and yet some aren't. Why is that? What is the difference between someone who is able to manifest and someone who isn't? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what you may be doing wrong, by using an example of how she manifested a text from a celebrity.

What Happens When You Break No Contact? Dec 09, 2019

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, you've most likely been tempted to break it at least once. However, you probably know it's a bad idea. Dating/relationship Lucia reveals what happens when you break no contact, using real life stories. She then explains what to do instead of contacting your ex.

No Contact Success Stories (Part 12) Dec 01, 2019

If you're in no contact in order to get your ex back and you need inspiration to stay the course, here it is. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads more success stories from people who successfully got their ex back using no contact.

Why You MUST Hurt Your Ex (If You Want Them Back) Nov 26, 2019

When someone is trying to get their ex back, they often make the mistake of thinking they have to be "nice" to them, in order to get them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why being nice may actually backfire and why you have to "hurt" your ex in order to get them back.

How To Get Your Ex Back - Q & A Nov 18, 2019

Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers listener emails about everything from how to get your ex back to the no contact rule.

The ONE Thing You MUST Have To Get Your Ex Back Nov 15, 2019

If you want to get your ex back, there is something you absolutely must have if you want to have a chance to get them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing you need to get your ex back and why it's so important.

Texts Your Ex May Send You (And How To Respond) Nov 15, 2019

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, you will probably hear from them at some point. Should you respond when they reach out? If so, what should you say? Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives the exact words to text back when you finally hear from your ex.

Why No Contact Isn't Working Nov 04, 2019

If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back and it doesn't seem to be working, does that mean it failed? Or could something else be going on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives the top 3 reasons why the no contact rule doesn't "seem" to be working.

Why You Can't Let Go Of Your Ex Oct 28, 2019

If it's been months or years since your break up and you still refuse to let go - whether it's physically or emotionally - what's going on? Why can't you move on? Dating/relationship Lucia has a success story from a coaching client who reveals the reason why people are often afraid to move on after a break up.

Should You Delete Your Ex's Photos On Social Media? Oct 21, 2019

If you've been dumped and you want your ex back, should you delete their pictures on social media or keep them up? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains if and when you should delete your ex's photos if you want the best chance at getting them back.

Should You Respond To Your Ex's Text? Oct 15, 2019

If you're in no contact, there's an excellent chance your ex will text you at some point If they don't say anything significant, should you even respond? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you don't need to respond to a text like, "Hey" and why you don't have to worry about your ex getting angry if you don't respond.

The #1 Way To Know If Your Ex Wants You Back Oct 08, 2019

Besides your ex actually telling you that they want to get back together, what's the #1 way to know that they want to get back together? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you have to look at what your ex does, and not what they say, to know if they're serious about getting back together.

What To Do If You're Dumped Via Text Oct 01, 2019

When someone breaks up with you by text, it's classless and cruel. What should you do when you're dumped via text? Dating/relationship Lucia has a surprising take on how to handle being broken up with by text, especially if you want them back.

How To get Your Ex Back In A Long Distance Relationship Sep 24, 2019

Is it more difficult to get an ex back if the relationship was long distance? Is the strategy the same as getting back an ex who lives in the same city as you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to get an ex back if you were in a long distance relationship, while responding to a reader email from a woman trying to get her ex back.

Why Do Exes Come Back? Sep 19, 2019

As a follow up to "The Top 3 Reasons Exes Come Back", dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 3 more reasons why someone comes back after they've broken up with you. You probably won’t like the first reason!

Can You Get A Stubborn Ex Back? Sep 16, 2019

If you've been broken up with and are doing no contact in the hopes of getting them back, you may have asked yourself if it will work on your stubborn ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to deal with a stubborn ex if you want them back.

Get Your Ex Back Using The Law Of Attraction Sep 12, 2019

If you haven't been able to get your ex back and you've lost hope that it will ever happen, this video is for you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how the law of attraction works, using an inspirational example, and gives you hope that all is not lost when it comes to your ex.

You Don't Need Closure Sep 07, 2019

If you've been broken up with and weren't given a clear reason as to why, you probably have a lot of questions that you want answered. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why asking for closure is rarely a good idea, and what to do instead.

The #1 Reason You Can't Talk Your Ex Into Coming Back Aug 25, 2019

If you've been broken up with and tried to stop the breakup or have tried to talk your ex into coming back, you've probably found out that trying to convince them with words doesn't work. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the principles behind why you can't talk your ex into coming back, and what to do instead.

The #1 Mistake People Make When They Run Into Their Ex Aug 24, 2019

If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back, there's a possibility you may run into your ex in public at some point. Will you know what to do or say when that happens? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what you absolutely must NOT do when you see your ex in public and how to prepare for it.

No Contac Success Stories (Part 11) Aug 15, 2019

If you're doing the no contact rule to get your ex back, you know that sometimes you will lose faith and wonder if it's ever going to work. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads emails from people who got their ex boyfriend back or ex girlfriend back using the no contact rule, in order to inspire you to have faith and stick to no contact.

The Top 3 Reasons Why Exes Come Back Aug 15, 2019

If you've been broken up with and you want your ex back, you're probably wondering what your chances are that they will come back. Do you have a chance? Is there hope? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the top 3 reasons that make exes change their mind and want you back.

The #1 Mistake People Make When They Hear From Their Ex Aug 05, 2019

If you've been doing no contact after a breakup, there's an excellent chance you'll hear from your ex sooner or later. Will you know how to handle that situation or will you ruin all the effects of no contact with the wrong reaction? Dating/relationship expert Lucia goes over the rules for how to respond to your ex when you hear from them after no contact, in order to ensure you have the best possible chance of getting back with them and having a great relationship.

7 Stages The Dumper Goes Through During No Contact Jul 29, 2019

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back and haven't heard from your ex in days, weeks or months, you're probably wondering what they are thinking and what they are feeling. Do they miss you?. Have they quickly moved on? Are they angry? Are they relieved? Will they ever reach out? Have they forgotten about you? In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia goes through the 7 stages a dumper experiences after they break up with you, using a first person account from a woman who broke up with her boyfriend.

The Rules of No Contact Jul 22, 2019

If you're trying to get an ex back, no contact is the most effective strategy to use. However, there are several "rules" you need to keep in mind when using the no contact rule. Dating/relationship expert Lucia goes over all the things you need to do and not do during no contact.

The 2 Times You're Most Likely To Hear From Your Ex Jul 14, 2019

One of the most asked questions when someone has been broken up with is, "When will my ex contact me?" There are 2 times when you're most likely to hear from your ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what those 2 times are so that you'll be ready and won't be caught off guard.

No Contac Success Stories (Part 10) Jul 11, 2019

You want them, you got them. More no contact success stories to motivate you to stick to the no contact rule. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads emails and comments from people who have gotten their ex back using the no contact rule.

A New Way To Get Your Ex Back Jul 06, 2019

If you've been in no contact for at least 2 months and still haven't heard from your ex, there's a new strategy to get your ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals a new way to get your ex back if no contact hasn't worked for you yet.

Are You About To Break No Contact? Jun 30, 2019

If you're doing no contact to get an ex back and you feel you're at the point where you're about to break it, you MUST listen to this video. Dating/relationship expert Lucia will give you all the reasons why breaking no contact is a bad idea and hopefully you will change your mind and continue with the no contact rule.

What To Do If Your Ex Blocks You Jun 21, 2019

If you thought being broken up with wasn't bad enough, getting blocked by your ex is even worse. What should you do if your ex blocks your number or blocks you on social media? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the reasons why your ex blocked you and what to do to get unblocked.

Fake Breakups Jun 17, 2019

What is a fake breakup and how should you handle it? Should you follow no contact or reach out to try and fix it? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads an email from a viewer who did no contact with a fake breakup when he should have been reaching out instead.

Why Is Your Ex Watching Your Instagram Stories? Jun 10, 2019

If you're in no contact to get your ex back and haven't blocked your ex from Instagram, there's a good chance they're still watching your stories. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the many reasons why your ex is watching your Instagram stories, even though they broke up with you.

How To Handle Being A Rebound Jun 06, 2019

If you're dating someone who recently got out of a relationship, there's a high probability that you're a rebound and that they may end up going back to their ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the two ways to handle being a rebound if you're interested in a long term relationship.

No Contac Success Stories (Part 8) Jun 03, 2019

If you're using the no contact rule to get an ex back, at times you will lose faith and wonder if it's working. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads emails from people who got their ex back using no contact, in order to inspire you to have faith and stick to no contact.

How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back May 28, 2019

If you're trying to get your ex girlfriend back and are starting to lose hope, this video is for you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia describes a success story from one of her coaching clients who heard from his ex girlfriend during no contact after she had told him she was completely done with him.

10 Powerful Signs Your Ex Misses You May 23, 2019

If you've been dumped and want your ex back, you'll constantly be on the lookout for signs that your ex will change their mind and want you back. Before they can change their mind, they first have to miss you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 10 signs that your ex misses you. The more signs you see, the higher the chances are that they'll regret breaking up with you and want you back.

Should I Break No Contact? May 20, 2019

If you're in no contact with your ex or someone you were dating, at some point you may ask yourself if you should break it. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads a viewer email and tells him whether or not he should break the no contact rule.

No Contact Has A 100% Success Rate May 09, 2019

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, there are 2 possible outcomes. Dating/relationship expert Lucia what those 2 outcomes are and why no contact always has a 100% success rate!

The Biggest Mistake People Make After No Contact May 06, 2019

If no contact has worked for you and you're finally in touch with your ex, you're not out of the woods yet. There's a big mistake people often make when they are back in touch with their ex after using the no contact rule. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the biggest mistake people make after no contact ends and how to avoid it.

What If My Ex Is Also Doing No Contact? May 02, 2019

If your ex broke up with you and you are in no contact and they are too, what will happen? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the possible outcomes when both of you are in no contact.

How To Make Your Ex Regret Leaving You Apr 29, 2019

When you've been dumped, one of the many thoughts that will be going through your mind is: How do I make my ex regret leaving me? Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives detailed steps you can take to ensure that your ex regrets leaving you and starts to want to get you back.

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When Does No Contact Start Working? Apr 22, 2019

When someone decides to start using the no contact rule to get their ex back, one of the first questions they have is, "When does no contact start working?" Although everyone's situation is different, dating/relationship Lucia reveals when the no contact rule will most likely start to have an impact on your ex.

No Contact Success Stories (Part 7) Apr 18, 2019

The no contact rule success stories are coming in so fast, we've already reached part 7. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads comments on emails from people who got their ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend back using the no contact rule.

How To Do No Contact If You Have Kids Apr 11, 2019

If you want to get your ex back using the no contact rule and you have kids with your ex, you won't be able to do full no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to navigate the no contact rule if you share children with your ex, in order to effectively get your ex back.

How To Get Revenge On Your Ex Apr 08, 2019

When you've been dumped or cheated on, you're probably going to want to get to get revenge at some point. What's the best way to get revenge on an ex? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the right ways to get revenge on your ex so that they'll regret losing you.

How To Easily Make Her Want You Apr 04, 2019

Men often say they don't understand women or they can't figure them out. The truth is, women are actually not that difficult to figure out. This is the key to understanding women that you've been looking for. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the ONE thing you have to remember when dealing with a woman in a COMMITTED, romantic relationship. Keep it in mind and your relationship will immediately begin to improve. There are also a few tips if you're dating and not yet in a relationship.

10 Signs Your Ex Doesn't Want You Back Apr 01, 2019

If you're trying to get your ex back, you've probably wondered what your chances are that they'll want you back. You're constantly on the lookout for signs that your ex may or may not want you back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 10 signs your ex doesn't want you back. The more signs you see, the higher the chances are that they don't want you back.

I Got My Ex Boyfriend Back (Using No Contact) Mar 28, 2019

If you're trying to get your ex boyfriend back and/or you're having a hard time doing no contact, this video is a must listen! Dating/relationship expert Lucia recounts the story of how one of her female coaching clients got her ex boyfriend back after using the no contact rule for 3 months.

How To Make Your Ex Miss You Mar 25, 2019

If you want your ex back, the one thing that absolutely must happen is that your ex has to miss you, before they can even begin to think about getting back with you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you can do to make your ex miss you so that you can be one step closer to getting back together.

Red Flags - How To Spot Them Mar 21, 2019

This podcast is the story of a woman who started dating a man a few months after his divorce. She proceeded to make mistake after mistake by ignoring red flags or being unaware that certain behaviors were red flags. Dating/relationship expert Lucia provides colorful commentary throughout the reading of the email to point out the red flags and mistakes she made throughout the relationship.

Dear Ex - Should You Send Your Ex A Letter? Mar 18, 2019

If you want your ex back, should you write them a letter? What should you write and when should you send it? Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers all the questions around sending a letter to your ex in the hopes that you will get back together.

I Got My Ex Girlfriend Back Using No Contact Mar 13, 2019

If you're one of those guys who think men can't get women back using no contact, this podcast is for you. Dating/expert Lucia reviews an email from a guy who got his ex girlfriend back by not contacting her. He also reveals what his ex was thinking during the break up.

No Contact Success Stories (Part 7) Mar 06, 2019

If you're currently in no contact to get your ex back, then you know how difficult it is and how you want to break it everyday. Dating/relationship expert Lucia goes through comments and emails of people who successfully did no contact and eventually heard from their ex!

10 Things Never To Say to An Ex Mar 03, 2019

If you've been broken up with and want to get your ex back, there are some things which you should never say/text, otherwise you will lower your chances of getting them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 10 phrases/texts you should never say/send to your ex if you want them back.

No Contact Success Stories (Part 6) Feb 27, 2019

If you're currently in no contact to get your ex back, then you know how difficult it is and how you want to break it every day. Dating/relationship expert Lucia goes through comments and emails of people who successfully did no contact and eventually heard from their ex, in order to inspire you to stay in no contact.

How To Get Your Ex Back After Years Apart Feb 25, 2019

Is it possible to get an ex back if you've been broken up for 1 or more years? Yes, it is! And sometimes it's easier to get an ex back if you've been apart for years. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the reasons why it's possible to get your ex back after years apart and how to do it.

Manifest A Text From Your Ex (Success Stories) Feb 20, 2019

This podcast is a follow up to "How To Manifest A Text From Your Ex". So many people who used the technique described in that podcast heard back from their ex, that we wanted to share their stories as inspiration. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads comments from people who heard from their ex within hours or days of learning how to manifest a text from their ex.

7 Reasons Why The No Contact Rule Works On Everyone Feb 17, 2019

The no contact rule is so powerful and effective, it works on both men and women. No one is immune to the power of the no contact rule. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why no contact works on everyone. If you want to get an ex back, the no contact rule is the only rule you should follow.

Will No Contact Work If My Ex Has Moved On? Feb 13, 2019

The #1 fear of people doing no contact is that their ex will move on or has moved on with someone else. So they think that staying in touch instead of doing no contact will prevent their ex from meeting or moving on with someone else. As with many things in dating, this will have the opposite effect and will lower your chances of getting your ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why staying in contact with your ex will lower their interest level and why you can't stop them from moving on. She also reveals why you still have a chance to get your ex back, even if it appears that they've moved on.

Should You Break No Contact On Valentine's Day? Feb 11, 2019

Valentine's Day is coming up in a few days. If you've been using the no contact rule to get your ex back, you may be thinking of breaking it to send a card or flowers. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses whether or not you should break the no contact rule and reach out to your ex on February 14.

What Should You Be Doing During No Contact? Feb 06, 2019

What should you be doing during no contact, now that you have a lot of extra time. How you choose to this time, is going to affect your future relationships. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what to do during no contact so that you will have the best chance of either getting back with your ex and having a better relationship.

No Contact Rule - Does It Work On Women? Feb 04, 2019

Does the no contact rule work on women? Can you use the no contact rule to get your ex girlfriend back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals whether or not you can use the no contact rule on your girlfriend to get her back. If you're a woman, and you don't think the no contact rule will work on you, you may change your mind after seeing this video.

Should You Do No Contact If You Were The Dumper? Jan 30, 2019

If you've been broken up with, no contact is the best way to get your ex back. What about if you were the one who did the breaking up? Can you get your ex back if you broke up with them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains under what circumstances the dumper can get their ex back using no contact.

Will Time Make My Ex Forget Me Or Miss Me? Jan 27, 2019

Will time make your ex forget you or miss you? People doing no contact are often worried that their ex will forget them. They also wonder if their ex will miss them. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why "faded affect bias" and an "open loop" will make it difficult for your ex to forget you and, if their interest level is high enough, they'll also miss you.

Yes, You Can Break No Contact Jan 23, 2019

This is the podcast you've been waiting for! The one that tells you if and when you can break no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the exact time and situation when it will be okay to break no contact and reach out to your ex if you still want them back.

How To Deal With Depression During No Contact Jan 16, 2019

Being dumped can be one of the most devastating things to happen to you. It's very easy to slip into depression when you've been rejected by someone you love. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses why you don't need to be depressed after a break up and what you can do instead.

What Your Ex Is Thinking During No Contact Jan 13, 2019

What is your ex thinking during no contact? Are they thinking about you? Do they regret breaking up with you? Do they wish you'd reach out? Are they wondering why they haven't heard from you? Or are they not thinking about you at all and they've moved on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia goes into detail to tell you exactly what your ex is thinking during no contact.

I’m Afraid My Ex Will Think I’ve Moved On If I Do No Contact Jan 06, 2019

One of the biggest fears of people doing no contact is that their ex will think they've moved on if they don't hear from them. So they stay in touch with texts, calls and even meeting up in person, in order to reassure their ex they're still available.

They also want to make sure their ex doesn't move on with someone else. They think that staying in their ex's life will stop them from moving on with someone else.

Unfortunately, as with many things in dating, the right way to handle this is counter-intuitive. Staying in touch with your ex only gives them the confidence to look for someone else, knowing that if they fail, they can always fall back on you.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why your ex will NOT think you've moved on if you do no contact.

No Contact Success Stories (Part 5) Jan 02, 2019

As the first podcast of the year, we want to inspire you to stick to no contact by hearing about others who've had success with it. This version includes: A woman who didn't respond when her ex texted her during no contact. After running into him at an event, he reached out again and said he'd been a jerk and wanted to get back together. A woman who heard from her ex after 32 days of no contact after begging him not to break up with her A woman whose ex is begging her for another chance after 30 days

How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back (Using Science) Dec 27, 2018

What is the most effective way for a woman to get her ex-boyfriend back? For this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia interviewed Dr. Duana Welch, who is know for using social science to solve dating and relationship issues. Dr. Welch reveals the best way (according to scientific research) for a woman to get back with a man who dumped her.

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How Offset Can Win Back Cardi B. Dec 19, 2018

Hip hop power couple Cardi B and Offset recently separated after rumors about Offset's infidelity during Cardi B's pregnancy became public. Offset stopped Cardi B's show recently to present her with 2000 roses and an apology. It didn't work and Cardi B kicked him off stage.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why his apology didn't work and what Offset needs to do in order to win back Cardi B.

What Is No Contact? Dec 17, 2018

What is the no contact rule? There seems to be a lot of confusion as to what no contact is. Does it mean you don't respond when your ex contacts you? Does it mean you wait 30 days and then contact your ex if you haven't heard from them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia clears up the confusion as to what no contact is and most importantly, what it isn't.

The #1 Reason Why Your Ex Broke Up With You Dec 10, 2018

No matter what the specific reason why your ex broke up with you, it's always a secondary reason. There is only one reason why your ex broke up with you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why attachment styles, childhood trauma and trust issues are not the main reasons why someone ends a relationship and what the #1 reason for breakups is.

How To Behave When Your Ex Asks You Out Dec 05, 2018

If you've done no contact correctly, at some point your ex will reach out and you'll eventually meet up. You've made it to this point, so don't mess it up now! Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives a detailed account from what to wear, where to sit and how to behave when you finally get together with your ex after the breakup.

The #1 Way To Find Out How Someone REALLY Feels About You Dec 03, 2018

Is there a way to find out whether someone is interested in you, without asking them? Or should you just ask so you'll know for sure? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the #1 foolproof way to find out how someone really feels about you, without having to ask.

6 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back Nov 26, 2018

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, you're probably on the look out for signs that they want you back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the signs which show that your ex may want you back.

What To Do If Your Ex Is Angry With You Nov 18, 2018

If you're trying to get your ex back, you probably think you need to make sure you don't make them angry, or they'll never come back.
This leads to behaving like a doormat and thinking that you have to respond to whatever crumb of attention they give you during no contact. That's why you think you don't want to make your ex angry.
What does it mean if your ex is angry at you? Does it mean you don't have a chance at getting back with them?
Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why your ex being angry with you is actually a good thing!

Does No Contact Work If You Only Dated A Few Months? Nov 14, 2018

If you only dated your ex for a short time - a few weeks or a few months - will no contact still work? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why the length of the relationship doesn't determine whether no contact will work.

Should You Respond To Your Ex's Text? Nov 11, 2018

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back and your ex finally texts you, should you respond? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains when you should respond to your ex texting you and more importantly, when you shouldn't respond.

You Will Never Get Your Ex Back Unless... Nov 07, 2018

If you're finding it difficult, if not impossible, to not contact your ex after a break up, you're not alone. It's not your fault. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the biological reason why no contact is so difficult and offers a solution.

The 60 Day No Contact Rule Nov 04, 2018

You may have heard of the 30 day no contact rule but did you know there is also a 60 day no contact rule? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what the 60 day no contact rule is and why it’s more effective than the 30 day rule.

What To Do If You Run Into Your Ex Oct 31, 2018

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, you may eventually run into your ex somewhere. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do and what not to do so you don't mess up the progress you've made up to that point.

When Should You Block Your Ex On social Media? Oct 28, 2018

If you’re doing no contact to get your ex back, should you block your ex on social media? If so, when? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when you should block your ex and why it’s so effective.

How To Manifest A Text From Your Ex Oct 24, 2018

Find out how to manifest a text or call from your ex using the law of attraction. Dating/relationship expert Lucia used this technique and heard from her ex within 48 hours. Buy Pam Grout's book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2CTIXLO

Stop Trying To Get Your Ex Back Oct 21, 2018

There is a common mistake most people make when they first hear back from their ex, which will delay the time it takes for the ex to come back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what you should do instead.

Why You Can't Stop Thinking About Your Ex Oct 18, 2018

When you're going through a breakup, you will not be able to get ex out of your mind and will think about them constantly. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why this happens and what you can do to deal with this difficult time after the breakup.

No Contact Is Not A Sprint, It's A Marathon Oct 15, 2018

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, impatience is not your friend. Your ex didn't decide to break up with you overnight, so they're not going to decide to get back with you overnight either. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you must be prepared for many months to go by before you hear from your ex or before you get back together.

When Should You Start No Contact? Oct 10, 2018

When is the best time to start new contact in order to get your ex back? Should you do it as soon as someone breaks up with you or only after you have tried to talk them out of breaking up with you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains when you should start no contact and why it’s so effective.

The Crazy Reason Why You Can't Let Go Of Your Ex Oct 08, 2018

If you’re having a hard time letting go of your ex, it’s probably because you are looking at the situation from a certain point of you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what that point of you is and how you should be looking at your relationship instead.

Should You Respond If Your Ex Wishes You A Happy Birthday? Oct 03, 2018

If you're a regular listener, you probably know you shouldn't reach out to your ex on their birthday. But what if your ex reaches out to you on YOUR birthday? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what to do when your ex wishes you a happy birthday, in order to have the best chance at getting them back.

The Shocking Reason You Want Your Ex Back Oct 01, 2018

Do you really want your ex back or is something else going on, that’s causing you to want them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the shocking reason why people often want their exes back, which has nothing to do with love.

Why It's So Easy For Me To Do No Contact Sep 25, 2018

Most people find no contact difficult, if not impossible to do. However, for dating expert Lucia, it's the easiest thing in the world. She talks about her dating experiences and why she has no problem doing the no contact rule.

How To Respond When Your Ex Contacts You Sep 23, 2018

When you finally hear from your ex, should you respond? Are there times when you shouldn't answer your ex's text or call? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains in detail which communication you should respond to and which you should ignore.

How To Survive Dating Someone Who Is Under 25 Sep 20, 2018

If you're dating someone under the age of 25, you've probably already found out it has its own set of unique challenges. People that age are fickle and flaky. Dating/relationship Lucia explains how to approach dating someone under 25 so that you'll have the best chance at making it work.

Will You Get Your Ex Back? Sep 16, 2018

When someone breaks up with you, at that moment, you are temporarily powerless. Whether you get your ex back or not often depends on how you react to the breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to react to a breakup in order to ensure that you have the best chance at getting your ex back.

If You're Thinking of Breaking No Contact, You MUST Listen to This Sep 12, 2018

If you've been doing no contact and you feel that you're at the breaking point and you want to reach out to your ex, listen to this video first. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads a success story from someone who didn't believe they would hear from their ex but eventually their ex called.

5 Signs The No Contact Rule Is Working Sep 07, 2018

If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back and still haven't heard from them, you're probably wondering if it's working. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 5 ways to know that you're not wasting your time and no contact is working.

Will No Contact Work For Me? Sep 02, 2018

No Contact is very effective when someone has broken up with you and you want them back. But will it work in other situations? Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers an email from a woman who wonders if no contact will work in her situation.

The 3 Times You're Most Likely To Break No Contact Aug 25, 2018

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, you already know that it's difficult to maintain. However, there are 3 situations when it will be more difficult than normal. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what those 3 times are and how to deal with them.

What Does It Mean If Your Ex Is Viewing Your Snaps/Stories? Aug 22, 2018

When someone breaks up with you, you rightly assume they want nothing more to do with you. That's why it's so confusing when you see that they're still viewing your snaps or IG stories. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what this REALLY means and why you shouldn't assume your ex wants to get back together.

Is It Too Late To Do No Contact? Aug 20, 2018

If you begged and pleaded when your ex broke up with you, will no contact still work for you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's never too late to start no contact.

Breakup to Millionaire Aug 15, 2018

A woman who finally got closure almost 35 years after a guy ghosted her, shares her inspiring story of how the break up probably led to her becoming a millionaire. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you can't always blame yourself when someone breaks up with you without giving you a reason.

What To Do If Your Ex Is Being Hot & Cold Aug 13, 2018

Did your ex contact you and then pull away when you responded? What's going on? Are they playing games or regretting their decision? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what's happening with your ex when they send mixed signals by being hot and cold and how to handle this frustrating situation.

Does No Contact Work On Women? Aug 08, 2018

A dating "expert" is telling men that no contact doesn't work on women. Once they're gone, you can't get them back with no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers the question as to whether no contact works on women and reveals the truth.

I'm Afraid My Ex Is Going To Move On Aug 05, 2018

If you're doing no contact to get an ex back, at some point you'll start to worry that if you don't reach out to your ex, they will move on with someone else. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why reaching out is a bad idea and what to do instead.

2 Exceptions To The No Contact Rule Aug 01, 2018

If you're using the no contact rule to get your ex back, you may be wondering if your situation is the exception and if you should break it. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 2 exceptions to the no contact rule and when you should break it.

Can You Talk Someone Out of Breaking Up With You? Jul 30, 2018

When someone breaks up with us, our first instinct is usually to try to talk them out of it using logic, but this rarely, if ever works. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you can't talk someone out of breaking up with you and what to do instead.

6 Tricks Your Ex May Use To Get You To Break No Contact Jul 25, 2018

If you're doing no contact in order to get your ex back, there's a good chance your ex may try to get you to break no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 6 tricks your ex may use to get you to reach out first.

When Will My Ex Contact Me? Jul 23, 2018

One of the most asked questions when someone has been broken up with is, "When will my ex contact me?" Believe it or not, the answer to that question usually depends on you and what you do after the breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia goes through the factors that determine if and when you'll hear back from your ex.

3 Ways You May Be Breaking No Contact Jul 14, 2018

If you are doing "no contact" in order to get your ex back, you may think you're doing it correctly if you're not calling or texting your ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 3 ways you may unknowingly be breaking no contact and hurting your chances of getting your ex back.

Don’t Let Your Ex Push You Around If You Want Them Back Jul 07, 2018

If you're trying to get your ex back and you're doing no contact, your ex may get an attitude when they see that you're not responding to their texts/calls. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you can't let your ex push you around if you're trying to get them back.

Should You Bribe Your Ex? Jul 01, 2018

If you've been trying to get your ex back with flowers and gifts, save your money. It won't work! Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why bribing your ex won't work and what to do instead.

What Is My Ex Thinking? Jun 24, 2018

One question that everyone who has been dumped asks is, "What is my ex thinking?" However, no one except your ex can every really know what they are thinking. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why this isn't what you should be focusing on during no contact and what to focus on instead.

Should You Answer If Your Ex Calls? Jun 17, 2018

What should you do if you're in no contact and your ex calls but you miss the call and they didn't leave a message? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you should not answer the phone if an ex you want to get back with, calls you.

No, You Do NOT Love Your Ex Jun 11, 2018

Do you love your ex? Do you want them back? In this cutting edge podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you don't really love your ex if you want to get back with them.

My Ex Insists On Being Friends Jun 04, 2018

If you're trying to get your ex back, but they insist on trying to be friends with you while you're trying to do no contact, what should you do? Dating/relationship expert Lucia responds to comments from 2 guys who are letting their ex's push them around and explains why this will only drive the ex's away even more.

10 Signs You're About To Be Dumped May 28, 2018

What are the signs that someone is pulling away? Are you about to get dumped? Find out 10 signs to look for. You're not going to like #10! Dating/relationship expert Lucia also reveals the 5 options you have to stop someone from dumping you. You probably won't want to do #5!

My Ex Broke Up With Me Because I Was Needy May 21, 2018

Trying to get reassurance from your partner that they'll always love you and never leave you is not attractive and lowers interest level. Being needy and insecure often leads to your partner breaking up with you.
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to get the security you crave in a relationship and stop obsessing over your ex.

When Should You Respond To Your Ex? May 13, 2018

If you want to get your ex back and you've been doing "no contact", there's a very good chance that you'll hear from your ex sooner or later. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you probably shouldn't respond to the first message and what to do instead.

My Ex Is Dating Someone New May 06, 2018

What should you do if your ex is dating someone new and you want them back? Should you accept that they've moved on and move on yourself? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you don't have to worry if your ex is dating someone new and how to deal with the situation.

So You Broke No Contact - Now What? Apr 30, 2018

If you're trying to get your ex back and doing no contact, you will probably slip up at least once. That's because dealing with a breakup is very similar to a drug addict trying to get off drugs. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's important that you stick to no contact and what to do when you break it.

Should You Move On From Your Ex? Apr 16, 2018

If you've been trying to get back with your ex but it still hasn't happened, you may be wondering whether you should just move on. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why this isn't the question you should be asking yourself and what you really mean when you ask that question.

When Will My Ex Come Back? Apr 08, 2018

There's a certain phenomenon that often happens when you're in no contact and hoping to hear from your ex. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when you are most likely to hear from you ex, other than 6-8 weeks after the point of last contact.

It's Your Fault Your Ex Broke Up With You Apr 02, 2018

When your ex broke up with you, they felt they had a good reason, even if you don't agree. It was based on something(s) you said/didn't say or did/didn't do.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how putting yourself in your ex's shoes and seeing things from their point of view will be helpful in getting them back.

How to Lose A Girl In 7 Days Mar 26, 2018

In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia answers an email from a guy who met a woman online. Things got hot and heavy quickly, but within a week she was pulling away. Lucia explains what he did wrong and what he should have done to keep the fire burning.

Are You Text Stalking Your Ex? Mar 18, 2018

What is a text stalker? What makes someone continue to send texts when the other person isn't responding? In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia responds to an email from a woman who continues to text her ex, even though he told her it's over and he's not returning her texts.

Break Up Season is Here Mar 12, 2018

Spring cleaning, spring break, spring fever and sadly, peak breakup season is coming up. Besides the 2 weeks before Christmas, spring is the other time of the year when a breakup is likely to occur. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to avoid and prepare for a possible breakup.

What to do When Your Ex Contacts You & Then Disappears Mar 05, 2018

Your ex has finally contacted you after you did no contact! You text/chat for a few days and then they go cold. What's going on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the next move to make when your ex ghosts you after reaching out.

How to Get Your Ex to Text/Call You Back Feb 26, 2018

If you're trying to get your ex back and decide to break no contact, you need to at least have a good reason for contacting them. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why most people go wrong when they contact an ex and what to say to increase your chances of getting a response.

Will My Ex Come Back? Feb 19, 2018

The #1 question that everyone who wants their ex back asks is, "Will my ex come back?" The answer to this depends on many things, including your ex's interest level when they broke up with you. In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why the most important factor in whether your ex comes back is how YOU behave after the break up.

No Contact Means NO Contact Feb 12, 2018

People trying to get an ex back often break the "no contact" rule without knowing it. Once you break it, you have to start "the count" all over again and go back to zero. In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the small ways in which you may be breaking no contact.

My Girlfriend Wants to See Her Ex! Feb 05, 2018

What should you do if your partner tells you they want to meet up with their ex? Should you forbid them, break up with them or have a fight? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals exactly what to say in this situation so that no matter what happens, you'll remain a high-value partner.

So Your Ex Liked Your Instagram Post Jan 29, 2018

What should you do when your ex starts to like or comment on your social media posts? Should you acknowledge it or ignore it?
Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals that responding to your ex's sudden appearance actually breaks the "no contact" rule and makes it less likely for them to text/call you.

I Found Love on Tinder! Jan 22, 2018

Is it possible to find love on Tinder or is it just for hookups? In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reads an email from a woman who listened and implemented Lucia's dating strategies. She's now in a happy, loving relationship with a man she met on Tinder.

Will Your Ex Forget About You? Jan 15, 2018

One of the most asked questions when someone wants to get their ex back is if their ex will forget about them if they don't contact them after the breakup. In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's actually your ex who is going to be wondering if you've forgotten about them!

The Secret to Getting Someone Hooked on You! Jan 08, 2018

Is there a way to make someone fall for you so completely that they wouldn't ever dream of letting you go? Yes, there is! In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why we need only look at Vegas to understand how to get someone "addicted" to you.

Best No-Swipe Dating App Jan 01, 2018

Happy New Year! If you're like most single people, one of your resolutions is to find someone to share your life with. If you're tired of "swiping apps", it's time to try something new!
Happn is a dating app that's strictly location based. With more than 40 million users, you can find the people you've crossed paths with IN REAL LIFE. When you cross paths with someone, their profile will appear on your app and vice versa. This solves the problem of missed connections or being matched with people you have little in common with!
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My Fake Breakup Backfired! Dec 26, 2017

A fake breakup is when someone breaks up with their partner in order to get his/her attention, but they don't really want to end things. However, sometimes your ex will call your bluff and agree to the breakup. In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what you have to do in order for a fake breakup to work.

Should You Text Your Ex? Dec 18, 2017

If you want to get your ex back, should you re-establish contact by texting them? What should you say? Dating/relationship expert Lucia talks about why she's against most "advice" which tells you to text your ex.

'Tis The Season to be Jilted Dec 10, 2017

Did you know that the 2 weeks before Christmas is the time of year when couples are most likely to end their relationship? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why this is and what you should do if you're thinking of breaking up with someone before Christmas or if you're the one who is broken up with.

"No Contact" Horror Stories Dec 04, 2017

Not contacting an ex after a breakup is one of the hardest things you'll ever do in your life, but it's essential if you want the best chance at getting back together. In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia goes through real comments and emails from people who have broken the "no contact" rule unsuccessfully.

No Contact Success Stories (Part 2) Nov 27, 2017

Not contacting an ex after a breakup is difficult at best and impossible at worst. In this inspirational podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reads several more comments and emails from people who maintained "no contact" and ended up hearing back from their ex.

An Easy Way to Know if Someone REALLY Likes You Nov 20, 2017

Is there a way to know if someone - be it a romantic interest, friend, colleague or family member - really likes you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals an easy and foolproof way to know how someone feels about you.

5 Ways to Get Over A Breakup - #5 Is Crazy! Nov 12, 2017

Whether you end the relationship or your partner breaks up with you, it's always painful. What can you do to make this emotionally intense time more bearable? Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses 5 ways to get over a breakup - #5 is unheard of and pushes the envelope.

Can You Get Your Ex Back With the Law of Attaction? Nov 06, 2017

What is the "law of attraction"? Can you use it to get an ex back? What's the most effective way to use the LOA? In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, while it's possible to get an ex back with LOA, most people won't be able to do it.

Should You Contact Your Ex on Their Birthday? Oct 29, 2017

Should you break "no contact" to wish your ex a happy birthday or to give them a holiday greeting? Will contacting them make them want to get back with you again? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why breaking "no contact" is rarely a good idea.

Are You a Crazy Girlfriend? Oct 22, 2017

This week's podcast is the story of a woman who met a very eligible bachelor who was very into her but proceeded to ruin the relationship with her insecurity and anger. Dating/relationship expert Lucia provides commentary throughout the reading of the email to point out where she went wrong and how to fix it.

Stop Giving Flowers to Your Ex Girlfriend! Oct 16, 2017

Will giving flowers and gifts to your ex girlfriend make her want you back? If not, why not? In this podcast, dating/relationship Lucia explains what you HAVE to do in order to get your ex girlfrfiend back (hint: It doesn't involve flowers!)

3 Great Reasons Why You Should Never Act Jealous Oct 07, 2017

If you're jealous, does it mean you're in love? What does it say to your partner when you're jealous of someone in their life or someone they're talking to? In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should never show jealousy and what to do instead.

Why You Go "Crazy In Love" Oct 02, 2017

Why do lovers often act crazy and make decisions that make no sense? Are they under some kind of spell? In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what's happening and what you can do to stop the crazy behavior.

THIS is Why You Shouldn't Be Friends With Your Ex Sep 24, 2017

Should you be friends with your ex if you want to get back with them? Absolutely not! In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why staying friends with your ex actually helps them move on and find someone else.

Do THIS To Make Someone Fall In Love Sep 15, 2017

Is there something you can do that will make someone you meet or date realize that you could be "the one"? Most people aren't doing "this" but it's extremely powerful. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing you MUST do to make someone fall in love with you.

The 5 Most Asked Questions About "No Contact" Sep 11, 2017

Will your ex forget about you if you don't contact them? Will "no contact " work? In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia answers these and 3 more questions most people have about "no contact".

Hold On Loosely Sep 05, 2017

When it comes to dating & relationships, most people fall into 1 of 2 categories. They either hold on too tightly or too loosely. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why the lyrics "Hold on loosely, but don't let go" is great advice when it comes to your love life.

He Was Texting Other Women! Aug 28, 2017

What should you do if you find out your partner is flirtexting with members of the opposite sex? What does it mean if they get defensive and only focus on the fact that you invaded their privacy? In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses how to deal with this situation when they won't tell you the truth.

He Went Back to His Ex Aug 22, 2017

What should you say when the person you've recently started dating tells you they're going back with their ex? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, if you'd like to have the possibility of dating them in the future, you should handle this situation with class.

He Moved Out! Now What? Aug 14, 2017

What should you do when your partner unexpectedly moves out, says you're still a couple yet barely sees you or talks to you? In this podcast, dating/relationship Lucia answers an email from a woman who wonders what she should do in this situation.

No Contact Success Stories Aug 03, 2017

Not contacting an ex after a breakup is difficult at best and impossible at worst. In this inspirational podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reads several comments from her YouTube channel of people who maintained "no contact" and ended up hearing back from their ex.

What Do Cars & Breakups Have in Common? Jul 27, 2017

How is your relationship with your car similar to a romantic relationship? What makes you start to think about changing cars, or partners? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains, with tongue in cheek, why losing trust in your car is similar to losing trust in your partner.

If They Do THIS...Run! Jul 19, 2017

What should you do if your partner wants to check your phone, is jealous and thinks your clothing is too revealing? Should you be understanding or is it time to end the relationship? Dating/relationship Lucia expert discusses what these red flags are all symptoms of and why you need to run!

Should You Break No Contact? Jul 12, 2017

Is there ever a good reason to break no contact with an ex (unless you have children or business together)? Will contacting them make them rethink the breakup and want to get back with you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what really happens when you break no contact.

Should You Let Go? Jul 05, 2017

What should you do when someone breaks up with you but wants to remain friends? Should you continue to see them or stop all contact? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals if and when you should let go of an ex.

Did Tinder Kill Dating? Jun 27, 2017

Why does online dating seem to be so difficult these days? Why do people you're chatting with disappear, seemingly without reason? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how Tinder drastically changed the dating scene and how the "swiping" culture can be fixed.

Is Your Breakup Real or Fake? Jun 22, 2017

Did you know that not every breakup is real? Sometimes, when someone breaks up with you, it's because they want to shake you up and see if you'll step up to the plate. Dating/relationship expert Lucia describes the difference between a real and fake breakup.

Ladies: Dating is EASY if You Do THIS Jun 15, 2017

Women are usually ready to be exclusive and to make a commitment a lot sooner than men are. This usually leads to fights, misunderstandings and breakups. In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the easy way to get what you want with a man.

How to Raise Someone's Interest Level Jun 08, 2017

When you first start to date someone, the only thing you should be focused on is raising their "interest level" in you, and everything else will take care of itself. Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives examples of what to say in order to keep things light and upbeat and in doing so, raise the interest level.

Should You Unfriend Your Ex on Social Media? Jun 01, 2017

When someone breaks up with you, is it better to unfollow/unfriend them on social media or should you keep them on your pages? Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the benefits of both choices and what you should do if your goal is to get back with your ex.

Confrontation - How to Do it Right May 24, 2017

What is the definition of confrontation? Is it possible to confront someone without having them get defensive? In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to express your feelings about what's going on in a way that doesn't lower interest level.

THIS Is Why They Broke Up With You! May 17, 2017

There's ever only one reason why anyone breaks up with anyone! They may say it's something else, but any other reasons are all symptoms of this main reason. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what you can do about it in this groundbreaking podcast.

Not Interested or Not Available? May 10, 2017

How can you tell if someone isn't that interested in you or if they're not available because they're already seeing someone? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the main difference between someone who's just not into you and someone who's just not available.

Can You Talk Your Ex Into Coming Back? May 03, 2017

Is it possible to talk someone out of breaking up with you or into coming back? If not, are there any exceptions? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the two circumstances under which you may be able to talk your ex into coming back.

The Major Mistake You're Making with Online Dating Apr 27, 2017

In between matching and meeting someone from a dating site, many people are making mistakes when they start to communicate with their match. Dating/relationship expert Lucia tells men what they need to do to be more appealing to women online and reveals the number 1 thing women need to make sure they don't do.

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How to Stop Wasting Time With Online Dating Apr 20, 2017

Are you getting burned out with online dating? Do you spend days or weeks chatting with a potential love interest online, only to find out there's no chemistry when you finally talk or meet? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing you must do sooner rather than later in order to find out if there's a true connection or if you should keep it moving.

Jealousy + Insecurity = Breakup Apr 12, 2017

It was recently announced that Mariah Carey & her backup dancer boyfriend Bryan Tanaka had broken up over his jealousy & insecurity over Mariah spending time with her ex-husband Nick Cannon. Dating/relationship Lucia explains why you don't have to worry about who else is spending time with your partner but instead who you really need to worry about!

The 30-Day No Contact Rule is BS Apr 06, 2017

If you follow the 30-Day no contact rule and reach out to your ex after 30 days, you're in for an unpleasant surprise. Any "expert" that touts this rule doesn't know what they're talking about. Dating/relationship Lucia explains why your ex needs a lot more time than 30 days and why you don't need to worry about them forgetting about you if you don't contact them.

The Heart Wants What The Heart Wants Mar 30, 2017

Does crying and begging someone that has broken up with you ever work? Should you get back with someone who broke up with you, because, after all, the heart wants what the heart wants? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why this popular way of looking at romantic relationships doesn't work.

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Who Cares About Rejection? Mar 22, 2017

Why do we fear rejection, even if it's with someone who doesn't know us? Is it possible to have a "who cares" attitude when it comes to rejection? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what it takes to be able to easily deal with rejection and move on.

What Can a Con Woman Teach You About Love? Mar 16, 2017

In the Bravo TV show "Imposters", Maddie is a con woman who get guys to fall in love with her, propose, get married and then she runs off with their money. How is she able to get these guys to fall for her? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 3 powerful phrases Maddie used on the show that you can apply to your own life.

THIS Is What Happens If You Move Too Fast Mar 09, 2017

When you first meet someone you feel a strong connection with, it's instinctual to want to move things along as quickly as possible. In this podcast, dating/relationship Lucia discusses why this is rarely a good idea and what usually happens when you move too fast.

Who Should Pay? Mar 02, 2017

This week's email is from a woman who broke up with her boyfriend because his views on how to divide expenses in a relationship weren't "traditional". How should money issues be handled? Who should pay for what? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the best way to deal with this touchy subject.

Yoga Ended My Relationship Feb 23, 2017

What should you do if your partner's family doesn't approve of you? Should you still try to make it work or move on? In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia answers an email from a woman whose fiance was influenced by his family to break up with her.

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Ghosting, Benching & Breadcrumbing Feb 16, 2017

What the heck is ghosting, benching and breadcrumbing when it comes to dating? How do you know if you've been ghosted, benched or breadcrumbed? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what these new dating terms mean and how to handle each situation.

Are You A Text Stalker? Feb 09, 2017

What is a text stalker? What makes someone continue to send texts when the other person isn't responding? In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia responds to an email from a woman who continues to text her ex, even though he told her it's over and he's not returning her texts.

She Went Back to Her Ex! Feb 02, 2017

What should you do if you break up with your partner, they go back with their ex and you regret your decision. In this week's podcast, Lucia answers an email from a guy who is in that situation. Find out what she thinks he should do.

How to Be A Woman That Men Desire Jan 25, 2017

What type of woman do men want? Which personality traits attract them? Which traits are a turnoff? Dating/relationship Lucia explains in detail the 4 things that will make you the type of woman that men desire.

What Can You Learn From Matthew McConaughey's Wife? Jan 19, 2017

Matthew McConaughey recently talked about what happened the night he met his now wife Camila. What did she do/not do and say/not say that got his attention? Dating/relationship expert Lucia analyzes the evening and what women can learn from it.

How to Find Out What Someone Is REALLY Like! Jan 12, 2017

Even if someone looks good on paper or has a great dating profile, until you do THIS, you won't know what they're REALLY like. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you absolutely MUST do if you want insight into someone's true personality.

He Keeps Breaking Up With Me! Jan 05, 2017

What should you do if someone keeps breaking up with you? How many times should you go back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia advises 2 women in on again/off again relationships about how to handle their most recent break up.

Should You Give Expensive Gifts? Dec 28, 2016

Should you buy a birthday gift for someone you've been dating for 2 weeks? How much should you spend? Should you decide how much you spend based on how much you make, how long you've known them and/or if you're having sex? Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down all the gift giving "rules" to make sure you and your gift make a good impression.

Long Distance Cheater? Dec 15, 2016

This week's podcast is about a woman who has a long distance relationship with a man in another country. She found out he was being unfaithful and is conflicted about what to do next. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses what the options are and what needs to be done in order for these types of relationships to work.

The "30 second" Date Dec 06, 2016

Have you ever been on a date that lasted 30 seconds? What could someone do or say that would end a date before it had even started? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what happened to her recently and what you can learn from it!

Bad Boy or Nice Guy? Nov 30, 2016

Why do women often choose the bad boy over the nice guy? Is there something nice guys can do to make sure they don't "finish last"? Using the example of The Bachelorette Canada, dating/relationship expert explains why, when a woman has to choose between 2 men, she'll often choose the one who is the most alpha.

The Way to a Man's Heart? Nov 20, 2016

You've most likely heard "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach" but is it really true? Is a woman who feeds her man or cooks for him what men are looking for? Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses what happens when a woman starts to cook for her partner.

Will They Cheat? Nov 16, 2016

While there is no foolproof way to know if someone will cheat, there IS one factor that is quite reliable in determining how faithful someone will be. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, when it comes to infidelity, how a person makes decisions will tell you everything you need to know.

THIS Is How You're Turning Women Off Nov 09, 2016

What's the number 1 question guys have about dating? How are guys getting in their own way when it comes to meeting women? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what guys are doing wrong when it comes to attracting the opposite sex.

Are You Too Picky? Nov 02, 2016

We're all entitled to try to find a relationship that really works for us, and if you haven't found it yet, is it because you're too picky or maybe not picky enough? Dating/relationship expert discusses what it means to be too picky and how to find the right person for you.

Are You Afraid of Intimacy? Oct 26, 2016

This week's podcast is from a man whose fiancee has left him twice and cheated on him 3 times, yet he wants her back. Most people would advise him to move on, but dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why this couple is a perfect match and what the issue is.

Don't Do THIS After An Argument Oct 17, 2016

What should you do after an argument? Should you contact your partner the next day to patch things up or wait for them to contact you? What if you're always the one to extend the olive branch? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing you absolutely must NOT do after a fight.

When Does A Woman Know If She'll Have Sex? Oct 12, 2016

When does a woman know whether or not she'll have sex with a man? How long does it take for her to make up her mind? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how soon a woman knows and what the exceptions are.

If You Make More Money Than Your Man, Do THIS Oct 05, 2016

Do men have issues with women who make more money than they do? What should you do if you're more financially successful than your partner and it's causing friction in your relationship. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses this issue that will become more common as women become more successful.

The Brangelina Breakup: What Can We Learn? Sep 27, 2016

Everyone was shocked to learn that Angelina Jolie had filed for divorce from Brad Pitt. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses what supposedly happened and what we can all learn from their relationship.

"I'm Not Sure What I Want" Sep 21, 2016

What does it mean when someone says they're "not sure what they want"? Are they confused or is it an excuse to back away from you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what that often used phrase means and what you should do when you hear it.

When Should You Have "The Talk"? Sep 12, 2016

Should you ever have "the talk" when you start dating someone? If so, when is the right time to discuss exclusivity? As usual, dating/relationship expert Lucia has a unique approach to this age old question that not everyone will agree with.

Don't Do THIS If You're Not Engaged! Sep 06, 2016

This week's podcast is about a woman who broke up with her boyfriend, but the break up could have been avoided if the woman had waited to do what she did until she was engaged. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what to do instead!

What Do Dating & Vegas Have in Common? Aug 29, 2016

If you're not doing THIS in your relationship, you're at risk of a breakup. You may think you're not doing anything wrong, but it's the kiss of death in a long term relationship. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what THIS is by using Vegas as the perfect example.

Doing THIS Will Turn Men Off! Aug 24, 2016

There is something that most women do which men wish they didn't do! Are you guilty of this? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what to do instead so that men will find you more attractive.

Why I Didn't Go On A Second Date Aug 16, 2016

In this week's podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia analyzes a recent date to reveal the incompatibilities (also known as yellow flags and orange flags) that most people miss when they're on their first date. Find out what some of the things you should be on the lookout for are.

How to Approach Women Online Aug 10, 2016

What does it take to be successful with women online? Is there an opening line that most women will respond to? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you need to know when you're approaching women online.

What To Do If He/She Is Ignoring You Aug 03, 2016

What should you do if your partner or the person you're dating starts to ignore you when you're together? Should you tell them they're being rude? Should you ignore them too? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals an easy and effective way to handle this situation and turn it around.

Is it Infatuation or Love? Jul 27, 2016

How do you know if what you're feeling is love or infatuation? What are the signs that you're infatuated? How do you know if it's real love? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the difference between these 2 polar opposite feelings.

How to Know If Someone Will Cheat Jul 19, 2016

Is it possible to know if the person you're dating is going to cheat? Is there a foolproof way to know beforehand? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals whether there is and what you can do about it.

This Person is Undateable! Jul 12, 2016

Is there ever a time when someone who is an otherwise a "good catch", someone that you should temporarily avoid? If so, how long should you wait to date them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to handle the situation when you meet someone who is temporarily undateable.

How To Know If He's A Player Jul 05, 2016

Is it possible to know if someone is a player? Is there something that all players do or say that reveals that they're not who you think they are? Dating/expert Lucia reveals the #1 way to easily know if you're dealing with a player.

How To Get Him To Commit Jun 24, 2016

How does a woman get a man to commit? What are the mistakes that women make in relationships that cause men to not want to commit? Find out in this podcast where dating/relationship expert Lucia is intervewed by dating/relationship coach Alicia Ashley.

I Want My Ex-Girlfriend Back! Jun 21, 2016

This week's podcast is about a guy who wants to get back with his ex, even though he broke up with her 3 times in the past! Should he try or just give up and move on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, in this case, it's best to just move on.

My Cat Made Me Break Up With Him! Jun 15, 2016

In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia tells the story of how her cat Boo Boo helped her break up with someone first as a girlfriend and then as a friend. Find out how your pets can help you decide who to date and why you shouldn't date someone you wouldn't trust to look after your furry friend.

"It's Not You, It's Me" Jun 08, 2016

What does it mean when someone breaks up with you and says, "it's not you, it's me"? Is it true or does it mean something else? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the answer while responding to an email from a woman whose boyfriend has broken up with her.

Are You A People Pleaser? Jun 01, 2016

Do you worry that if you say "No" to the people you're dating, that they won't like you anymore or that they'll leave? Do you constantly put others' needs before yours? You may be a "people pleaser". Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains where this personality trait comes from and how to start putting yourself first.

How To Keep The Sex Amazing May 24, 2016

How do you keep the sex exciting in a long term relationship? What are some common misconceptions people have about sex? Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers these questions and more in this upbeat interview with dating coach Devan Brown.

Should You Stay Friends With An Ex? May 18, 2016

Is it ever a good idea to remain friends with an ex? If so, under what circumstances? A recent study shows that staying friends with an ex says something about your personality - and it's not flattering! Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, most of the time, you should not remain friends with an ex.

How to Lose a Girl in 5 Emails May 11, 2016

It's safe to say that most people are not totally honest in their online dating profile. What do men lie about vs what do women lie about? If you hate it when women lie about their age or if you hate having to reveal your age, find out how dating/relationship expert Lucia says you should handle this touchy situation.

Love Zombies May 03, 2016

What is a "love zombie" and what should you do when you encounter one? Should you run screaming in the other direction or embrace them? Dating/relationship Lucia expert reveals what to do when someone you've dated in the past returns "from the dead".

Should You Date Someone "Ugly"? Apr 27, 2016

Should you date someone less attractive than you normally would, so that they'll treat you better? Will a relationship with someone "ugly" work out better because they'll be so grateful to be dating you? Find out what dating/relationship expert Lucia says are the factors that determine whether something will work out.

How to Handle A Breakup Apr 20, 2016

What's the first thing you should do when someone breaks up with you? Should you ask why, beg them to reconsider or simply say "Ok"? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 1 simple thing you must do if you want the best chance at having your partner change their mind.

Don't Play Yourself! Apr 13, 2016

When it comes to dating and relationships, people often "play themselves". They don't know how to relieve the anxiety they feel, so they behave in ways that give them short term relief but long term negative consequences. Dating/relationship expert Lucia goes through some dating scenarios where people often end up making things worse and reveals what to do instead.

My Girlfriend Cuddles With Other Guys! Apr 06, 2016

What should you do if your girlfriend regularly cuddles with other guys but says it's because they're childhood friends? Is it cause for concern or harmless? Should you believe her or is something else is going on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what's really going on.

He's Not Over His Ex! Mar 30, 2016

Should you date someone who recently got out of a relationship? If not, how long should you wait to make sure they're emotionally available? Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses how to navigate through a situation where someone is not yet over their ex.

I Want My Ex Back! Mar 23, 2016

Is it possible to get an ex back when you pushed them out of your life because of your insecurities? What should you do and not do when you're trying to win someone back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to get back an ex.

Are You A Bad Dater? Mar 13, 2016

Do you constantly go on 1st dates that never turn into 2nd dates? Are you dating the wrong people or is it something you're doing? Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives pointers on ways you may be turning off your dates.

The Goodnight Kiss Mar 09, 2016

Should you go in for a kiss on the first date? If a woman gives you her cheek when you try to kiss her for the first time, should you forget her number or give her another chance? Dating/relationship Lucia clears up the confusion around how a first date should end.

How to Be More Confident Mar 02, 2016

Confidence is the #1 quality women look for in men. In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia interviews Scott, a personal trainer (www.dofit.life), who lost his excess weight and gained back his confidence. Find out how transforming your body can make you more secure and give you a ticket into a world where women chase YOU!

How to Deal With Insecurity Feb 24, 2016

The irony about insecurity is that you're afraid you're going to lose your partner, but often, it's your own insecure actions and words that cause you to lose your partner, not another person. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses several scenarios where insecurity may pop up and how to handle them.

My Recent Breakup Feb 17, 2016

A breakup is a breakup - whether it's with a lover, business relationship or your cable provider. It always follows the same pattern. Find out about dating/relationship expert Lucia's recent "breakup" and how it applies to the end of all relationships.

My Boyfriend Forgot My Birthday! Feb 10, 2016

What should you do if you forgot your partner's birthday or they forgot yours? Does it mean they don't care about you? Should you break up with them over this? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do in this touchy situation.

I'm Dating My Aunt!!! Feb 01, 2016

This week's email is from a young man who is dating his aunt. He claims they're in love and he's wondering how to handle the situation. Dating/expert Lucia explains that this happens more often than you'd think and lets him know exactly what he needs to do.

He Doesn't Want a Relationship Jan 25, 2016

What should a woman do if she begins to date a man and he tells her he's not interested in a relationship but is looking for "adut play". Should she go along with it, hoping it will turn into something else? Dating/relationship expert Lucia sets the record straight as to exactly how to handle this common situation.

How to Stop An On-Again/Off-Again Relationship Jan 18, 2016

This week's podcast is about a guy who has been in an on-again/off-again relationship for 4 years! He says he treated his girlfriend like a queen and doesn't know why she keeps ending things. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the causes of this type of relationship and how to fix it.

Is He a Player? Jan 13, 2016

This week's email is from a woman who is dating a man who said he is not dating anyone else. However, she thinks he's seeing at least 2 other women. Should she confront him with this information? Dating/relationship expert Lucia sets her straight as to how to handle this situation.

My Insecurity Messed Up My Relationship Jan 06, 2016

What should you do if you're insecure, maybe even paranoid, that your partner is going to cheat? Should you spy on them? Should you confess your feelings? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to deal with this fear when it shows up in your love life.

I'm in Love With My Personal Trainer! Dec 29, 2015

What should you do when you want to date your personal trainer? He's friendly and has long conversations with you at the gym and online, but isn't interested in dating you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to handle this common situation.

I Want to Cheat on my Husband Dec 16, 2015

This week's podcast is about a woman who wants to be unfaithful to her husband because although she's "happily married", she's not happy with their sex life. Dating/relationship expert Lucia's answer to this problem is one that will totally surprise you.

How Can I Go From FWB to Girlfriend? Dec 05, 2015

This week's email is from a woman whose boyfriend broke up with her and they are now in a FWB situation. She wants to know how to make him "fall for her", since he is also sleeping with other women. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains that there is only one way to turn this around.

She Told Me to Slow Down! Nov 23, 2015

What does it mean when a woman you're dating tells you to "slow down"? Is she playing hard to get or does it mean something else? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to make sure this is something you never hear again.

11 Questions by 11 Women Nov 18, 2015

Should I ask him out? Why would he show interest and then ghost me? Why won't he date me if he likes me? Should you tell your bf you cheated? How can you spot a player? These are some of the 11 questions dating/relationship expert Lucia answers in less than 10 minutes.

He's Not Interested In Me! Nov 09, 2015

What should you do if the guy you're into doesn't show any signs of being interested in you or they've already told you they're not interested? Should you give up or is there anything you can do? Dating/relationship expert Lucia advises 2 different women on what they need to do when it seems "he's just not that into you".

I Don't Want to Break Up! Nov 04, 2015

This week's email is from a woman who realized she did all the things dating/expert Lucia advised NOT to do when your partner leaves you. Her husband has filed for divorce and she'd like to know if Lucia's advice on how to get an ex back will help her. Find out what Lucia advises her to do if she wants her husband back.

She Won't Have Sex With Me! Oct 28, 2015

What should you do if you've been dating a woman for 5 months but she still won't have sex with you? Is she playing games, not interested or is something else going on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia sheds light on the situation along with giving the solution.

Is He Backing Away? Oct 19, 2015

This week's email is from a woman who's been dating a guy for 4 months and things seem to have changed. Did she do something wrong or has he lost interest? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what is going on and what she can do about it.

Is He A Narcissist? Oct 12, 2015

Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers an email from a listener who wonders if her former boyfriend is a narcissist. He wanted her to spend money on him but was unwilling to do the same. Lucia explains what is going on and what the listener needs to do, now that she's pregnant with his baby.

Does Begging Ever Work? Oct 06, 2015

Is it ever appropriate to beg your partner when they are breaking up with you? As a follow up to last week's podcast, "How to Easily Get Your Ex Back", dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should never do it and what to do instead.

How to EASILY Get Your Ex Back Sep 29, 2015

What should you do if someone breaks up with you? Should you agree or beg them to stay? What about the 30 day "no contact" rule? Does that work? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to get your ex back in 1 easy step.

Why You Don't Need "Closure" Sep 23, 2015

Why did your ex break up with you? Is it possible to find out the truth? Can you move on without getting "closure"? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you don't need closure.

Do You Need a Dating Coach? Sep 15, 2015

If you're having issues with your love life, should you see a psychiatrist, psychologist or a dating coach? What can private coaching do for you? Does it really help? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the value of using a dating coach.

How to Attract More Women by Being an Alpha Male Sep 08, 2015

Most women prefer alpha males but many people are confused as to what his traits really are. Is he the jerk who is rude and tries to control women? What if you're a beta male? Can you still attract high quality women? Dating/relationship expert Lucia illustrates the differences between alpha and beta males and reveals what to do if you're a beta male.

He Won't Make Me His Girlfriend! Sep 02, 2015

What should a woman do when she has been dating and sleeping with a guy for 3 months without a title because he wants to take things "slow"? Should she hang in there or walk away? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to resolve this very common situation.

When Should You Have Sex With Him? Aug 25, 2015

How long should you wait to have sex with a new guy? Is it okay to wait 3 months or should you do it sooner rather than later? Dating/relationship Lucia explains exactly what you need to do if your goal is to have a committed relationship.

How to Identify a Fake Dating Profile Aug 20, 2015

According to the FBI, an estimated 1 in 10 online, dating profiles are fake. How can you spot a fake profile? Dating/relationship expert Lucia points out what to look for to make sure you don't get your hopes up for someone you'll never meet.

Dating Dealbreakers Aug 12, 2015

This week's email is from a guy who is dating a woman who is very religious, whereas he's not. Also, she doesn't want to have children but will have them if it means he'll stay with her. He wants to know if he should stay and try to make it work or move on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia tells him how to handle this delicate situation.

Should I End This Long Distance Relationship? Aug 05, 2015

What do you to when the person you've been in a long distance relationship gives you an ultimatum - move in together or end it? Yet you're not sure about where you want to live. Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives the tough love answer to this common situation.

My Boyfriend is Addicted to Porn Jul 29, 2015

What can you do when you discover your partner has an addiction and it starts to affect your relationship? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to handle a partner who has an addiction - whether it's porn, alcohol, drugs, etc.

He Cheated But Wants Me Back Jul 23, 2015

What do you do when someone has been unfaithful several times, you've moved on and then they want you back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to handle this all too common situation.

The Only Dating Advice You'll EVER Need Jul 14, 2015

There is so much dating advice available these days for both sexes, that it can be overwhelming & confusing. Dating/relationship expert Lucia simplifies the process by revealing the one thing that men and women can do right now to find and keep a great partner.

Are You Needy In Love? Jul 07, 2015

Do you desperately want to be in a relationship? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why feeling as if you need to have someone in your life is a sympton of a bigger issue and what to do about it so that you choose someone out of desire rather than desperation.

He Wants To Take a Break Jun 30, 2015

This week's email is from a woman who has been in a long distance relationship for 4 months and her boyfriend now wants to take a break. Lucia explains how to handle things when the person you're dating asks for space.

Is He Doing The "Slow Fade" Jun 22, 2015

This week's email is from a woman who went on a few dates with a guy whose "eyes lit up" when they were first starting to get to know each other but now he's not returning her texts. Did he mislead her or did she do something to push him away? Dating/relationship expert reveals what's really going on.

He Won't Commit! Jun 17, 2015

This week's email is from a woman who broke up with a guy after dating for 9 months because he didn't want to make a commitment. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why he won't commit and what she can do about it.

Social Media Ruined My Relationship Jun 03, 2015

People who feel they have unfinished business with someone from the past, often decide to re-connect on social media. This isn't a problem, unless one or both of them are already in a relationship. This week Lucia answers an email from a woman whose boyfriend is cheating on her with a woman he went to high school with. Find out how to handle this situation.

Rejection - It's Not Personal May 27, 2015

Rejection is painful and something that everyone experiences sooner or later. Is there a way to respond to rejection so that it doesn't hurt so much? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you shouldn't take it personally if someone rejects you.

How to Ask A Woman Out Correctly May 20, 2015

What's the right way to ask a woman out so there's a better chance that she'll say yes? Should you compliment a woman you want to date? Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives 3 tips for asking a woman on a date.

The List May 06, 2015

Everyone has a list - whether it's mental or an actual list - of their ideal partner. However, most people are missing one important criteria on their list. Without this, none of the other qualities matter. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what that criteria is.

How Long Should You Wait for Someone? May 06, 2015

This week's podcast is in response to an email from a woman who has been dating a guy for 1 year and still has no "title". Dating/relationship expert Lucia advises her on how to handle this common situation.

Why You Should Date Someone You're NOT Into Apr 29, 2015

Is there ever a good reason to date someone you're not really interested in? Dating/relationship expert Lucia says there are 3 reasons you should go out on at least one date with someone you don't feel chemistry with.

Don't EVER Write a Letter Apr 23, 2015

A woman wants to know if she should write a letter to a guy who is doing the slow fade. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should NEVER write this type of letter.

I Spied on My Boyfriend Apr 15, 2015

This week's podcast is in response to a girl who checked her boyfriend's facebook messages and didn't like what she saw. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do in this type of situation.

The Four C's of Relationships Apr 01, 2015

There are four things that every relationship needs if it's going to last. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what the four c's of relationships are.

Mixed Signals? Mar 25, 2015

This week dating/relationship expert Lucia answers an email from a guy who can't understand why his "lady friend" gets upset when he doesn't call or text and teases him sexually yet doesn't want a relationship with him. Find out what to do if you find yourself in a similar situation.

Texting Games Mar 04, 2015

Most people play "texting games" because they think it shows high value. Does it really? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why waiting to text actually shows low value.

Why Dating Sucks Feb 25, 2015

Does dating really "suck" or do most people approach it with the wrong mindset? Why do so many people dislike dating? Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses how to lighten up and have fun dating.

No Relationship Is Ever a Failure Feb 18, 2015

When a relationship doesn't work out the way someone expected or hoped, they usually consider it a failure. But is it? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why no relationship ever has to be a failure

How to Connect Emotionally with a Guy Jan 28, 2015

This week's email is from a woman who is dating a new guy who let her know he didn't want an emotional attachment. Should she let him go if she wants something deeper or is there a way to change his mind? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to emotionally connect with a guy.

Why Didn't They Call Back After The First Date? Jan 21, 2015

What happened when you had a great first date with someone and then never heard from them again? Was it something you said or did? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what is going on in this all too common situation.

Why Did They Back Away? Jan 14, 2015

What's happening when it seems as if everything is fine and then suddenly the person you're dating starts to back away, or even leave? Is it fear of commitment, do they have someone else or is it something you did? Dating/relationship expert Lucia sheds some light on this often painful situation.

How to Date Better People Jan 07, 2015

Are you happy with the type of people you've been dating? If not, how can you start to date better people? Dating/relatonship expert Lucia reveals why you need to change what you bring to the table in order to make yourself a catch.

How to Get What You Want Dec 16, 2014

In dating, how do you get what you want? Is it by asking for it, needing it or wanting it? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to get what you want in your love life.

My Boyfriend Won't Marry Me Dec 03, 2014

What should a woman do when she's in love with a divorced man who said he doesn't ever want to remarry. Should she believe him and move on or stay and try to convince him otherwise? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the answer to this dilemma.

What Do Women Want In and Out of the Bedroom? Nov 18, 2014

What are women looking for in a man? What do women want in bed? What are some of the mistakes men are making - often without knowing it? Find out in this candid interview in which dating/relationship expert Lucia was interviewed by sex expert David Shade.

If You Want to be Successful, Date an Older Woman Nov 05, 2014

Why should you date an older woman if you want to be successful? Why does dating younger women or being single and on the prowl often keep young men from being as wealthy as they could be? Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the many benefits of dating older women.

He Disappeared After Sex Oct 29, 2014

Why do guys disappear after they have sex with you? Is it because that's all they wanted or is it something else? Should women wait to have sex, in order to make sure this doesn't happen? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what's really going on when a guy fades away after you've been intimate.

How to Make a Great First Impression Oct 15, 2014

What's the easiest and fastest way to make a great first impression? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what's known as "white magic" when it comes to meeting and keeping people in your life.

How to Stop Someone from Cheating Oct 08, 2014

Is it possible to stop someone from cheating? If so, what is it? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the one thing that will drastically lower the possibility of your partner cheating on you.

We Teach People How to Treat Us Sep 09, 2014

A woman wants to know if she is disrespecting herself by sleeping with her ex-husband in order to continue to get spousal support. Lucia discusses what she should do and how we teach people how to treat us.

My Thoughts on the Mariah/Nick Split Aug 26, 2014

Why are Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon divorcing after 6 years together? Can their marriage be fixed or is it a victim of the 50% divorce rate? Find out why dating/relationship expert Lucia believes the divorce rate could be a lot lower.

Just Be Faithful...Dammit! Aug 20, 2014

Are there advantages to focusing on dating one person at a time, even though you're not exclusive, instead of juggling several people. What are the disadvantages of dating multiple people at the same time? Find out in this leading edge podcast by dating/relationship Lucia.

Is The Grass Greener On The Other Side? Aug 12, 2014

Is the grass really greener on the other side, or does it just look that way because you're not close enough to see the weed? Should you leave when you're not happy in search of greener pastures or stay where you are and try to work thing out? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains when you should stay and when you should go.

Am I Attractive Enough to Date? Aug 06, 2014

How important are looks when it comes to dating? If you don't feel good about your looks, should you even bother with dating? Find out if beauty really is in the eye of the beholder in this week's podcast.

Einstein and "The One" Jul 25, 2014

How can Albert Einstein help you find "the one"? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how a law of physics can help you to find Mr/Ms Right or Mr/Ms Right Now. Hard to believe? Listen and decide for yourself.

How to Break Up Jul 15, 2014

What's the best way to break up with someone? Should you let them know you're not happy or just end it? Should you do it via text, phone, facetime, Skype or in person? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the "correct" way to end a relationship.

No Guarantees in Love Jul 08, 2014

Love can be the highest feeling you've ever had, which is also the reason that's it can also be the scariest. We all know there are no guarantees in love, no matter how much you love someone, or they love you. Find out more about this in this podcast by dating expert Lucia.

Is he/she the One? Jun 18, 2014

How do you know if someone is the one for you, especially if you have doubts or society doesn't agree with your choice? Dating/relationship expert Lucia uses a line from a recent Jim Carrey speech to illustrate how to pick the "One".

Sex With My Personal Trainer Jun 11, 2014

This week's podcast is about a woman who wants to have sex with her personal trainer however he's not making any moves, even though she's given him the green light. Dating/relatiionship expert Lucia explains what's going on.

Romance Killers Jun 04, 2014

Why does dating start out as being fun and eventually burn out and turn into boredom? It's usually because you're doing one or more of these three "romance killers". Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what they are and how to stop them.

What Do You REALLY, REALLY want? May 27, 2014

Why do you want a lover or a romantic partner? Why do you drive a certain car or dress a certain way? Dating/relationship expert Lucia believes the reason we do almost everything is to feel "this" way. Find out what "this" is, in this philosophical podcast.

Sexual Frustration May 14, 2014

What should you do if you're sexually frustrated because you don't have a lover? Should you settle and just take whoever is willing and able or is there another alternative? Besides a cold shower, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to handle this common issue.

Online & Flaky May 07, 2014

Are people on dating sites or social media flakier than the norm? If so, why and how should you deal with it? Dating/relationship expert breaks it down for you and explains why it's not you, it's them.

Do Jerks Really Exist? Apr 29, 2014

Are most guys really jerks or is there something else going on? Why are guys so nice in the beginning and then turn into jerks? Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers the question as to whether jerks really exist.

Less is More Apr 23, 2014

When you first start dating someone, how often should you text or call? How often should you see them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how to make sure you're not over-doing it and turning the other person off.

Anticipation Apr 16, 2014

When was the last time you felt anticipation? Although most of the world may function on instant gratification, dating and relationships cannot and should not be rushed. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how anticipation can make a difference in your love life.

Nice but no Chemistry Apr 08, 2014

What should you do if you're dating someone who is "nice" but there is little to no chemistry? Should you wait to see if things change or end it right away? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why "nice" is not always the best criteria for picking a mate.

The 3-Day Rule is Dead Apr 01, 2014

Does the 3-day rule still work, or did it ever? Should you wait to call someone when you get their number or is it okay to call within 24 hours? Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks it down for you.

Dating Without a Job/Car Mar 26, 2014

This week's email is from a guy who's interested in a woman on a dating site who seems to be out of his league. He currently doesn't have a job or a car and wonders if there's any hope. Dating/relationship expert Lucia advises him as to what he should do.

Impatient to Find "The One"? Mar 19, 2014

Are you impatient and restless about finding the love of your life? Do you wish they were here already and wonder what's taking so long? Find out how the story of a couple moving a mattress can be an inspiration while you're waiting.

Should You Ask Your Friends For Dating Advice? Mar 11, 2014

Is it a good idea to ask your friends for advice on your love life? What are the downfalls of getting help from someone who isn't a professional? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why friends often do more harm than good.

How to Bond with a Guy Mar 05, 2014

What's the best way to bond with a guy? Does having long phone conversations or texting sessions lead to bonding? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what is the best way to bond with a guy.

Is Friends With Benefits A Good Idea? Feb 25, 2014

Is a "friends with benefits" relationship a good idea or should you hold out for someone who wants a real relationship? What are the benefits and who gets them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks it down for you.

What Do Photoshop & Breaking Up Have in Common? Feb 19, 2014

Is there anything good that can come from a breakup, even a temporary one? Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses what updating an app has in common with losing someone who's important to you.

February 14 - The Day We Love to Hate Feb 13, 2014

Whether you're male or female, single or in a relationship, you have an opinion about Valentine's Day. Love it or hate it, find out how to get through the day and why guys have such a problem with it!

How NOT to approach a woman online Jan 31, 2014

If you're not having much luck with online dating, you may be making a mistake in your first email, when you contact a woman you're interested in. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what you may be doing wrong and how to fix it.

Why He Broke Up With You Jan 29, 2014

Did a guy break up with you and not give you a good reason as to why? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the common mistake women make that leaves men with no choice but to end the relationshp.

What Type of Woman Do Men Want? Jan 21, 2014

Is there a certain type of woman that men are more drawn to? Yes! Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what to do to be that woman.

My Girlfriend Won't Have Sex With Me Jan 15, 2014

What can you do if your girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with you, even though your sex life was hot and heavy in the beginning? Dating/relationship expert Lucia offers insight into this dilemma.

Guys: Your Dating Profile Photos Suck! Jan 06, 2014

Most, if not all dating sites, have a lot more men than women, so the odds are stacked against you if you're a guy. If your calling card, your profile photo, sucks, the odds are even worse! Dating/relationship expert Lucia tells you exactly what you need to do to make sure you're not ignored online.

Love Is Life Jan 02, 2014

"Love is life. If you miss love, you miss life." Don't miss out on love! Find out what you can do to be more open to bringing love into your life.

Should You Date A Co-Worker? Dec 17, 2013

Is it ever a good idea to date a co-worker? What are the pros and cons of dating someone you work with? Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks it down for you.

How to Meet Women at the Gym Dec 09, 2013

Is it a good idea to date a woman from the gym or is it taboo? What's the best way to meet a woman while working out? Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives tips to make sure you don't crash and burn while lifting.

Last Minute Date? Dec 04, 2013

Is it ever ok for a guy to ask a woman out at the last minute? How do women feel about being asked out on short notice? Dating/Relationship expert Lucia reveals if and how to do this.

"I'm Dating My Ex's Friend" Nov 19, 2013

What advice does dating/relationship expert Lucia have for a woman who is still living with her ex while dating one of his friends? You don't want to miss this!

Rushing into Relationships Nov 07, 2013

Is rushing into a relationship/marriage, ever a good idea? if not, is there an exception? Dating/Relationship expert Lucia sets the record straight.

Are You Working Too Hard To Find Love? Nov 05, 2013

Are you working too hard to find love? Are you worn out from reading all your emails on dating sites or mindless socializing that doesn't lead to anything? Fear not! Dating/relationship expert Lucia has the solution to your dilemma.

4 Signs They Really, REALLY Like You Oct 29, 2013

Is there any way to know when someone is really, really into you, without actually having to ask? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals 4 surefire signs to look for.

If A Woman Has Stopped Speaking To You Oct 21, 2013

What's the best way to handle a situation when a woman you're dating has stopped speaking to you? Is there any way to get her to talk? Dating/Relationship expert Lucia reveals the best way to handle this.

He Disappeared After Sex Oct 12, 2013

What's going on when you have sex with a guy for the 1st time and you don't hear from him again? Dating expert Lucia reveals all the possible explanations for his behavior.

Can He Be Trusted? Oct 07, 2013

Do you have trust "issues"? Do you find it hard to trust men? Dating expert Lucia reveals the easiest way to know if someone can be trusted.

I'm Afraid My BF Is Going to Dump Me Sep 15, 2013

This week's email comes from a woman who has been dating a much younger man for 2 years and she's afraid he's about to dump her. What should she do? Dating/relationship expert Lucia sets her straight!

Should You Make The First Move? Sep 14, 2013

Is it ever ok for a woman to make the first move? If so, how should she do it? If not, why not? Find out in this audioblog by dating/relationship expert Lucia.

The Freakout Aug 20, 2013

What makes someone freak out when it comes to dating and is there any way to redeem yourself afterwards?

Beware the "Ex" Aug 06, 2013

What happens when the "ex" of the person you recently started dating, finds out he/she is dating someone new? There is a common, predictable reaction most of the time. Find out what it is and what you can do about it, if anything.

Relatiionship with No Sex Jul 13, 2013

What happens when one partner in a relationship no longer wants to be sexually intimate? Find out in this audio blog from Lucia about how to handle this very delicate situation.

"Kill Them While They're Young" Jun 17, 2013

Lucia's audio blog about heeding red flag warnings when you meet/start to date someone.

Internet Dating Profile Review May 31, 2013

Dating expert Lucia answers an email from a woman who says she is only being contacted by "losers" on a dating site. Lucia reviews the profile to see what the problem might be and discusses her findings.

Is He "Really" Interested In You? Mar 13, 2013

How can you know if the guy you're interested in is also interested in you? What does it mean if you're not sure? Find out in this audioblog!

How to Make Someone Fall In Love With You in 90 Minutes or Less Feb 17, 2013

Is it possible to create an instant connection and have someone fall in love in 90 minutes? Find out in this fascinating interview with Nicholas Boothman, LIcensed Master NLP practitioner and best selling author of, "How to Make Someone Fall In Love With You in 90 Minutes or Less". Lucia also speaks with YouTube sensation Skyy John about everything from Manti T'eo to whether women should wait to have sex.

Was It Something I Said? Jan 23, 2013

When should you add or defriend a guy on Facebook? How can you get him to change his status to "In a relationship"? Find out in this interview with second time guest Jess McCann, dating coach and author of, "Was It Something I Said?" Lucia also speaks to Marina Sbrochi, author of, "Stop Looking for a Husband: Find the Love of Your LIfe".

The Caveman Formula Jan 19, 2013

Why do women not like "nice guys"? Why do women cheat or end relationships? What's the #1 quality women look for in a man? Find out in this must-hear interview with Linda Gross, psychologist and author of, "The Caveman Formula: 4 Rules You Never Knew You Needed to Conquer Your Woman".

Anatomy of a Cheater Dec 18, 2012

Why do people cheat? What are the signs that someone is cheating? Once a cheater always a cheater? Find out in this exciting interview with Hurchel Williams Jr., former serial cheater and author of, "Anatomy of a Cheater".

The Men's Code of Honor Dec 17, 2012

Is there a "secret" code among men? What does it mean to "act like a man"? Do men regret how they treated women in their past? Find out in this fascinating interview with Dan Stradford,author of, "The Men's Code of Honor: 66 Principles That Make A Man".

Romantic Suicide: The 45 Unbreakable Rules of Dating Oct 14, 2012

Do you always mess up potential relationships in the first 3 months? Find out how to turn that around in this real talk interview with Monroe Mann, psychology student and author of, "Romantic Suicide: The 45 Unbreakable Rules of Dating".

Bitch Are You Retarded? Sep 14, 2012

It's not true men don't like to talk on the phone, say "I love you", wait to have sex, be faithful or get married. Find out why in this shocking interview with Carlos J. Lee, former "player" and author of, "Bitch Are You Retarded"

The Relationships Men Commit to and Why Jul 16, 2012

What's the difference between a bad dater and a bad guy? How can you tell whether a guy is looking for love or sex? Find out in this fun interview with Jonathan Aslay, dating coach and author of, "The Relationships Men Commit to and Why".

The 7 Self-Sabotaging Behaviors That Keep Women From Finding Mr. Right Jul 16, 2012

Are you unknowingly sabotaging your love life by playing hard to get or being too picky? Find out in this fast paced interview with Devon Brown, dating coach and author of, "The 7 Self-Sabotaging Behaviors That Keep Women From Finding Mr. Right".

We Could've Had A Great Date If It Weren't For You Jul 14, 2012

Why do you only get the relationship you're ready for, regardless of what you want? Why can you only attract someone who is at the same level of emotional development as you? Find out in this leading-edge interview with Dr. Bruce Derman, clinical psychologist and author of, "We Could've Had a Great Date if it Weren't For You: A Guide to Authentic Dating".

Confessions of the World's Worst Dater Jun 13, 2012

Are you unknowingly sabotaging your first dates? What does it mean to "date like a grown-up?" What can you do to determine whether a guy cares for you? Find out in this "can't miss" interview with Bobbi Palmer, dating/relationship coach and author of, "Confessions of the World's Worst Dater".

Naked: How to Find The Perfect Partner by Revealing Your True Self May 14, 2012

Why should you decide who to date based on their energy? Who is responsible if your partner cheats? Why is there no such thing as "rejection"? Find out in this fast paced and enlightening interview with David Wygant, relationship coach, speaker and author of, "Naked: How to Find the Perfect Partner by Revealing Your True Self".

Big Red Flags: Relationship Warning Signs You Totally Spotted but Chose to Ignore Apr 16, 2012

How can you know if a guy sees you as girlfriend material? If he's "too good to be true", should you be concerned? What does his "after-sex" etiquette say about him? Find out in this fast-paced interview with Natasha Burton, co-author of, "The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags: Relationship Warning Signs You Totally Spotted but Chose to Ignore".

How to Catch a Cougar Mar 14, 2012

How should you approach an older woman and how can you know if she's interested? What are the 2 types of Cougars? Find out in this fun show about Lucia's recording, "How to Catch a Cougar". In studio guests are engaged Cougar couple Lina and Sean.

Taming Your Alpha Bitch Mar 13, 2012

Does being a bitch help or hinder your love life? How do men react to bitches? Is there power in femininity? Find out in this enlightening interview with Rebecca Grado and Christy Whitman, authors of the New York Times Best Seller, "Taming Your Alpha Bitch: How to be Fierce AND Feminine (and Get Everything You Want)".

The Selfish Path to Romance Jan 18, 2012

Is it possible to combine passion and reason? What is romantic love based on? Is it ok to be selfish when it comes to love and romance? Find out in this leading edge interview with Edwin A. Locke, PhD and Ellen Kenner, PhD, authors of, "The Selfish Path to Romance: How to Love with Passion and Reason".

Are All Guys A**holes? Dec 13, 2011

Are guys truly jerks or is it all just an act? Are they destined to cheat? Is being hot the most important factor if you want to get a guy? Find out in this very interesting interview with Amber Madison, sex and dating expert and author of, "Are All Guys A**holes?"

Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves Nov 15, 2011

Not for women only! We all have the "inner critic" that tells us we're not good enough, unlovable, need someone else to complete us and many other lies. Find out how to overcome the nasty voice in this eye-opening interview with Amy Ahlers, master coach and author of, "Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves".

French Women Don't Sleep Alone Oct 18, 2011

What makes French women so seductive, mysterious and charming? Why don't they go on actual "dates"? Find out their secrets in this nouveau-thinking interview with Jamie Cat Callan, happiness expert and author of, "French Women Don't Sleep Alone: Pleasurable Secrets to Finding Love".

The Magnificent 10: Crucial Dating Tips For Men". Sep 20, 2011

Why should a man have sex with his female friends at least once? How should you deal with a woman who isn't returning your phone calls? Find out in this "keeping it real" interview with Mr. Locario, dating expert and author of, "The Magnificent 10: Crucial Dating Tips For Men".

How to Escape From Relationship Hell Sep 15, 2011

The right person can take you to heaven and the wrong person can take you to hell. Find out how to make sure you pick the right person in this important interview with Lisa Hayes, life coach and author of, "How to Escape From Relationship Hell".

From Friends to Lovers: Stop Being Her Emotional Cookie Man Jun 06, 2011

Is it possible for a man to go from friend to lover? How can you be a nice guy yet still have an "edge"? Find out in my very informative interview with Frank B. Kermit, dating guru and author of, "From Friends to Lovers: Stop Being Her Emotional Cookie Man".

The Four Man Plan May 23, 2011

Do you suck at love? Do all your relationships end with drama? Are you an over-giving, serial monogamist with a suspicious streak? You won't be after listening to this leading edge interview with Cindy Lu, author of, "The Four Man Plan - A Romantic Science".

Men: Ten Secrets Every Woman Should Know From Two Guys That Do May 10, 2011

Is there a way to ask a man a question so that he will tell you what he's really thinking? Is there a way to get a man to give you what you want without having to ask him? Find out in this very revealing interview with Mike Lindstrom, life coach, speaker and co-author of, "Men: Ten Secrets Every Woman Should Know From Two Guys That Do".

The Answers Book Apr 19, 2011

Why do men love bitches? What is chemistry? Why do your ex's usually call back? Find out in my interview with Dr. Pat Allen, renowned Jungian therapist, #1 dating/relationship/marriage expert and author of, "The Answers Book".

Tweet Her and Meet Her Apr 12, 2011

What are the 5 things you should never do on Twitter if you want to meet women? How can you use Twitter to easily meet women at a nightclub, bookstore or anywhere? Find out in this fast paced interview with Your Royal Flyness, author of, "Tweet Her and Meet Her".

More Love Tactics Apr 04, 2011

Why should you ignore what someone says or does when you are trying to win them over? Is it true difficult times make relationships stronger? What do men really want? Find out in this enlightening interview with Tom McKnight, co-author of, "More Love Tactics: How to Win that Someone Special".

How Not to Marry the Wrong Guy Mar 21, 2011

Is he the "One" or should you run? Is it cold feet or just pre-wedding jitters? Find out in this very important interview with Jennifer Gauvain, MSC, LCSW and co-author of, "How Not to Marry the Wrong Guy: A Guide to Living Happily Ever After".

How to Get the Woman You Want Feb 28, 2011

What's the best way to approach a woman you're interested in? How can you tell whether she's just being friendly or she's flirting with you? Find out in this fast paced interview with Katia Loisel-Furey, international flirting, dating and body language expert and author of "How to Get The Woman You Want".

His Ingredient Label Feb 14, 2011

Just as food comes with an ingredient label, so do men. Find out how to easily read it in this fun interview with Jennifer Tardy, relationship activist and author of, "His Ingredient Label: A Woman's Guide to Recognizing a Junk Food Man".

Laws of the Bedroom: What Men Need to Know About Sex and Pleasing a Woman Jan 31, 2011

What is the #1 problem with sex today? What is the #1 solution to satisfying a woman? How can you tell if a woman has faked an orgasm? Both men and women will be interested in my candid interview with Bart Smith, author of, "Laws of the Bedroom: What Men Need to Know About Sex and Pleasing a Woman".

How to Get the Man You Want Jan 25, 2011

What are the signs that a man is interested in a woman? What are some flirting mistakes that women usually make? How can you easily attract men by being the "designated photographer"? Find out in my very informative interview with Katia Loisel-Furey, international flirting, dating and body language expert and author of "How to Get The Man You Want".

Why Men Are Like Dogs Jan 17, 2011

Men have been called dogs, but can they be trained like them? Find out why it's important to "give direct commands", "keep him leash free" and much more in my entertaining interview with Mandy Pratt, life coach and author of, "Why Men Are Like Dogs and How We Can Love Them".

Dating, Mating and Manhandling Dec 20, 2010

What makes a man want to marry a woman? What's the best way to let a guy know he's done something wrong? What's the one question every woman should ask on a first date? Find out in my very informative interview with Lauren Frances, dating coach and author of the popular, "Dating, Mating and Manhandling - The Ornithological Guide to Men". Lauren's website is: www.laurenfrances.com

Love Tactics: How to Win The One You Want Nov 15, 2010

Before "He's Just Not Into You" and "The Rules", there was "Love Tactics". Lucia thinks this is the absolute best self-help book ever! Written over 25 years ago, the principles still hold true today for both men and women. Find out why in this leading edge interview with Thomas McKnight, author of, "Love Tactics: How to Win The One You Want".

How to Get Him to Put That Ring on Your Finger in 365 Days or Less Nov 01, 2010

Do you want your man to "put a ring on it"? Find out how in this fast paced, upbeat interview with Glenda Wallace, author of, "How to Get Him to Put That Ring on Your Finger in 365 Days or Less!" Glenda is about to be married for the 6th time and been proposed to a record 19 times!

The Automatic 2nd Date Oct 25, 2010

What should you do and say on a 1st date in order to guarantee a 2nd date? Is it okay to kiss or have sex on the first date? Find out in my very informative interview with life coach, speaker and former Hollywood agent Victorya Michaels Rogers, author of, "The Automatic 2nd Date"

The Real Reasons Men Commit Oct 05, 2010

Does sex equal commitment? How can a woman know if a man is ready to commit? Find out in this girl-talk style interview with Kimberly Dawn Neumann, relationship expert and author of, "The Real Reasons Men Commit: Why He Will - or Won't - Love, Honor and Marry You".

The Problem with Women...Is Men Sep 27, 2010

Despite the controversial title, "The Problem with Women...Is Men" is not about man bashing. In this upbeat interview, author and relationship expert Charles J. Orlando assists women in regaining their sanity and self-esteem, and empowers men in evolving beyond their primal instincts.

Making Monogamy Work Sep 20, 2010

Who does monogamy hurt more - men or women? What are the rules of monogamy? Is there a difference between monogamy and commitment? Find out in this eye-opening interview with Frank B. Kermit, relationship expert and author of, "Making Monogamy Work"

Get the Man You Want Sep 01, 2010

What's behind the fear of commitment? Why are you attracted to players? How can both men and women deal with the power struggle in relationships? Find out in this informative interview with Dr. Patrick Wanis, human behavior expert and author of, "Get the Man You Want".

Why He Disappeared Aug 23, 2010

Have you ever had a guy you've been interested in suddenly disappear? Find out what happened and how to make sure it never happens again in this eye-opening interview with Evan Mark Katz, dating coach and author of, "Why He Disappeared". Get your copy at: http://bit.ly/WhyDisappeared

Why She Won't Have Sex With You Jul 26, 2010

If a woman doesn't want to have sex with a man, it's because he's not satisfying one or more of her emotional needs. Find out what they are in this truly enlightening interview with Frank B. Kermit, relationship expert and author of, "The Emotional Needs Analysis Workbook".

Sexual Radiance Jun 28, 2010

How can you attract men like bees to honey? How can you have the confidence that men find so attractive? How can you "cheat-proof" your relationship? Find out in this seminar-type interview with Jay Cataldo, author, life coach and creator of "Sexual Radiance".

Lucia's Lessons of Love - A Love Manual Jun 21, 2010

Why are guys you're attracted to never attracted to you and vice versa? When does a woman know if she wants to sleep with a man? Find out in this fun discussion about Lucia's book, "Lucia's Lessons of Love: A Dating Expert Answers the Most Asked Dating and Relationship Questions". Lucia's friend Kimbra sits in as co-host.

Maybe It's You! Jun 18, 2010

Are you tired of being single? Are you wondering why your relationship status still hasn't changed? Find out in this fun, "girl talk" interview with Nikki Nokes, author of, "Maybe...it's You!"

The Eye of the Seductress Jun 07, 2010

Unless a woman addresses a man's emotional needs, no matter how great the sex or how beautiful she is, a high value man will not commit. Find out what those needs are in this eye-opening interview with Frank B. Kermit, author of, "The Eye of the Seductress: A Workbook for Women to Learn About the Emotional Needs of Men".

The Broken Picker Fixer May 24, 2010

Do you always seem to pick the wrong men, even if they seem so right at first? How can you start picking the right ones? Find out in this fun interview with Dawn Maslar, professor and author of, "The Broken Picker Fixer: From Heartbreak to Soulmate Finding the Love You Desire in 12 Weeks or Less".

Emergence of the Sensual Woman May 03, 2010

What is a sensual woman? What is the difference between love and lust? What is the art of succulent living? Find out in this enlightening interview with Saida Desilets, PhD, seminar leader, Universal Tao instructor and author of, "Emergence of the Sensual Woman: Awakening Our Erotic Innocence".

The Truth About Men Will Set You Free Apr 26, 2010

This is the one show you must listen to. Lucia speaks with renowned therapist Dr. Pat Allen, author of: The Truth About Men Will Set You Free but First it'll P*ss You Off. You may have seen Dr. Pat on Millionaire Matchmaker where she gives politically incorrect but scientifically correct advice. In this interview she answers questions such as: Do men just want sex? When should a woman sleep with a man? How do men fall in love?

Ditching Mr. Wrong Mar 02, 2010

What are the red flags you should be looking for when you first start dating a new man? Is there a dating litmus test you can take to see if you're with the right guy? Find out if you're with Mr. Wrong in this straight forward interview with Nicholas Aretakis, author of, "Ditching Mr. Wrong: How to End a Bad Relationship and Find Mr. Right".

Your Ex-Factor Feb 23, 2010

How do you know when it's time to break up? Will you ever get over your ex? Is little to no sex a sign of a relationship about to end? Find out in this fast paced interview with Dr. Stephan Poulter, clinical psychologist and author of, "Your Ex-Factor: Overcome Heartbreak and Build a Better Life".

Sex, Lies and Sabotage Dec 25, 2009

What is a woman's worst fear in a relationship? What is a man's? Why do people cheat? Find out in this refreshing, upbeat interview with Dr. Pamela M. Zimmer, psychospiritual therapist and author of, "Sex, Lies and Sabotage: From Relationship Sabotage to Relationship Transformation".

Decoding Love Nov 24, 2009

Why should women always wear lipstick? Why is marriage better for men than for women? Do men value intelligence and ambition in a romantic partner? Find out in this interview with Andrew Trees, author of, "Decoding Love: Why it Takes 12 Frogs to Find a Prince and Other Revelations from the Science of Attraction".

Men Don't Heal, We Ho Nov 16, 2009

What makes a man commit? Why do men cheat? Why do men do what they can get away with? Relationship expert Steven James Dixon spills the beans in his book, "Men Don't Heal, We Ho: A Book About the Emotional Instability of Men".

Flirtexting Nov 09, 2009

Did you know that what you write in a text and when you send it can determine where your relationship will go? Learn the rules to flirting via text with Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz, authors of, "Flirtexting: How to Text Your Way to his Heart".

Hindsight Nov 02, 2009

If you want the truth about love, dating and relationships, this is the one show you absolutely have to listen to. You will stop wasting your life on drama after hearing relationship expert and author Maryanne Comaroto discussing her book, "Hindsight: What You Need to Know Before You Drop Your Drawers".

The Facebook Datebook for Men Oct 22, 2009

Want to know how to easily meet attractive women on Facebook? Don't miss this fun, lighthearted interview with Flyness, author of, "The Facebook Datebook for Men".

51 Things You Should Know Before Getting Engaged Oct 18, 2009

Married couples who aren't happy often say they wish they'd known their partner better before they got married. Find out what you need to know in this enlightening interview with Dr. Michael Batshaw, author of, "51 Things You Should Know Before Getting Engaged".

Your Girlfriends Only Know So Much Sep 28, 2009

Lucia talks with comedian and former Saturday Night Live cast member, Finesse Mitchell, about his book, "Your Girlfriends Only Know So Much". This lively, upbeat interview is one of Lucia's best!

Why Don't You Understand? Aug 06, 2009

Lucia interviews marriage and family therapist Dr. Karen Gail Lewis about, "Why Don't You Understand: A Gender Relationship Dictionary." Finally, a book which reveals how to talk to women if you're a man and how to talk to men if you're a woman. Find out if men really do have a fragile ego and why they find it so difficult to apologize.

Grant Me A Higher Love Jul 20, 2009

Are you in a soul mate, cellmate or razor's edge relationship? What is the karmically correct way to end a relationship? You'll never look at relationships the same way after listening to Lucia's interview with Cindi Sansone-Braff, author of, "Grant Me A Higher Love".

How Sex Works Jun 29, 2009

Are women biologically driven to find Mr. Tall, Dark & Handsome? Does the threat of competition change male virility? Find out in this fascinating interview with Dr. Sharon Moalem, neurogeneticist, evolutionary biologist and author of, "How Sex Works".

The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love Jun 02, 2009

What makes a man fall in love? What does a woman need to do and say in order for a man to be attracted to her beyond her physical beauty? Find out in Lucia's best interview ever, with Dr. Paul, author of, "The Secret Psychology of How We Fall In Love".

Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man Apr 21, 2009

Lucia reviews Steve Harvey's #1 bestseller, "Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man". Find out why men respect standards, how long you should wait to have sex and how men determine whether you are someone to "plan" with or "play" with.

PowerVision - Visualization Through The Heart Apr 07, 2009

Before "The Secret" there was Carole Dore of Power Vision Dynamics. Lucia has been studying Carole's materials since 1998 and she believes they are the best when it comes to learning how to create what you want. If you are into the Law of Attraction, you will want to listen to this show!

The Soulmate Secret Mar 02, 2009

Lucia speaks to Arielle Ford about her book, "The Soulmate Secret: Manifest The Love Of Your Life With The Law Of Attraction". Arielle has been responsible for launching the careers of Deepak Chopra, Mark Victor Hansen, Jack Canfield and Neal Donald Walsch. Lucia says this is the best book she has read so far, on how to use the "Secret" to manifest a soulmate.

Manslations: Decoding The Secret Language of Men Jan 19, 2009

What does it mean when a guy says he's been meaning to call you but he's been "crazy busy"? Should you ever have "the talk" and if so, how? What is the "golden rule" of dating? Find out all this and more in Lucia's interview with Jeff Mac, author of "Manslations"

Calling In The One Dec 16, 2008

Lucia speaks to Katherine Woodward Thomas, licensed psychotherapist and author of, "Calling In The One". Find out how to finally find the "One" using the "Law of Attraction".

Unhooked Generation Nov 03, 2008

Lucia interviews former Oprah producer and author of, "Unhooked Generation". Find out the truth about why you're still single and what you can do about it.

Breakup Emergency Oct 10, 2008

Lucia speaks to life coach and author of, "Break Up Emergency" Eris Huemer. Find out how to transform you break up into a breakthrough.

Sucka Free Love Oct 03, 2008

Lucia speaks to Deborrah Cooper, author of "Sucka Free Love". Find out how to make sure your relationships are "sucka" free.

Excuse Me, Your Soulmate Is Waiting Sep 28, 2008

Find out how to use the "Law of Attraction" to find your soul mate. Lucia speaks to Marla Martenson, author of, "Excuse Me, Your Soul Mate is Waiting".

Sensuality Secrets Sep 28, 2008

You may be sexy but are you sensual? Find out how to be more sensual in this revealing interview with sensuality expert Patty Contenta.

10 Reasons To Date An Older Woman Sep 28, 2008

Cougar expert Lucia reveals her list of top 10 reasons to date an older woman. She also speaks to Todd Merriman of the #1 Cougar Lifestyle website Urbancougar.com

The Player Slayer Sep 28, 2008

Have you ever been fooled by a man who turned out to be a "player"? Do you want to learn how to handle a player and jam his game? Find out in this fun yet informative interview with Miss T., author of, "The Player Slayer: The Pocket Guide to Jamming the Player's Game".

You Lost Him At Hello Sep 28, 2008

Lucia speaks to Jess McCann, author of "You Lost Him At Hello". Learn how to apply sales techniques to dating. Lucia says this is one of the best self help books she has ever read, so you don't want to miss this interview! Be prepared to take lots of notes!

Women's Infidelity Sep 26, 2008

Are women naturally monogamous? Do women prefer intercourse over oral sex as they get older? Find out the truth in this enlightening interview with Michelle Langley, author of, "Women's Infidelity".

Doc Love's THE SYSTEM: The Dating Dictionary Sep 25, 2008

Why does a woman choose to stay with one man vesus another? What is "womanese". What is "interest level" and why is it so important? Find out in this very informative, high energy interview with renowned dating coach Doc Love, author of, "Doc Love's THE SYSTEM: The Dating Dictionary".

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