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263: Robin Dreeke | Spy Catcher May 19, 2014

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"I know not every mom is a secret KGB spy, but every mom has this whole other life. Every dad and every person has this whole other life." -Keri Russell
Robin Dreeke is an author, teacher of social engineering (sometimes with The Art of Charm's Jordan Harbinger) and the chief of the Behavioral Analysis Program at the FBI. Opinions and concepts expressed on this show are his own and not that of the FBI (just to be EXTRA clear on that).
Today, we'll discuss:
-Pretty much nothing about being the chief spy catcher for the FBI
...and a lot about how to build trust and rapport
-How to get paranoid/sketchy people to trust you
-How to refrain from judging others and why this is so powerful
-Attaining our goals with people in the face of our own emotional resistance
-How to build tolerance of others avoid becoming collateral damage of other people’s insecurities.
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260: Tucker Max | I Used to Be an A-Hole May 12, 2014

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"I'm just starting to scratch the surface of what really makes me happy and it's taken me a while to admit that acting like a little child and being a jerk and a punk is fun." -Leonardo DiCaprio
Best-selling author, investor and a-hole extraordinaire Tucker Max graces us this time around.
We'll cover:
-Being a best-selling author, selling millions of books
-Why he retired from the party-animal way-of-life
-Emotional pain in Tucker’s childhood
-“Growing Up Tucker Max”
-"Emotional promiscuity” and how it fills a hole in our psyche
-The layers in Tucker’s writing and how we see those over time and at different ages
-Parenting advice from Tucker Max (yep, you read that correctly)
-Why what happens to you is not your fault and what you do with that afterward is up to you.
-Why emotional health is one of the most important things in any relationship.
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259: Ben Greenfield | Become Superhuman May 09, 2014

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“The cost of being wrong is less than the cost of doing nothing.” - Seth Godin
Ben Greenfield is kinda crazy, but in a good way. You'll see what we mean when you listen to Ben & Jordan discuss body-hacking, natural supplements (and not-so-natural supplements as well), along with:
-How we absorb metal and toxins through our daily life
-Metal detox and why you might need it depending on where you live
-Underground training tactics (packing hard workouts into short times during your daily routine)
-Detoxyfiying your organs and gut
-Compression and why it’s not just for old people
-Ice baths and metabolism
-Why its important to be PHYSICALLY uncomfortable at some point every day
-How to optimize sleep and get the highest-quality z’s possible
There's more, but we'll let you discover it as you learn & laugh during this episode of The Art of Charm Podcast.
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258: AoC Toolbox | Where to Meet High-Quality Women May 07, 2014

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"Love is the expression of one's values, the greatest reward you can earn for the moral qualities you have achieved in your character and person, the emotional price paid by one man for the joy he receives from the virtues of another." -Ayn Rand
AJ & Jordan Harbinger discuss the age-old conundrum of where to meet & attract high-quality women in the age of internet culture and digital dating.
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257: James Clear | Transform Your Habits May 05, 2014

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"One can have no smaller or greater mastery than mastery of oneself." —Leonardo Da Vinci
Habit-Change maestro James Clear knows about habits, the good, the bad, and how to change them for the better, every day.
During this episode of The Art of Charm Podcast, Jordan Harbinger and James will uncover:
-Why habit is more important that goals and outcomes
-Why you're building habits every single day, good and bad, whether you want to or not
-Meeting Richard Branson and how he advises us to keep it simple
-How "the chosen ones choose themselves"
-That failure is the cost you pay to be right
-How to treat failure like a scientist
-The benefits of a low-INFORMATION diet
-How our language affects our behavior
...and more!
Free downloads and goodies for Art of Charm listeners: http://jamesclear.com/aoc
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256: Elliott Hulse | Strength Camp May 02, 2014

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"Every action is measured by the sentiment from which it proceeds." -Emerson
Mild-mannered yet Super-Human, Elliott Hulse both terrifies and delights small children (and adults).
He also drops serious knowledge on The Art of Charm Crew, including:
-Why its important to become strong (Calm down -it's not what you think)
-How do we become the strongest version of ourselves?
-Much of our intelligence is found in our bodies, literally
-How to find our own path to strength
-How your body and mind are inseparable, and actually the same thing
-How to breathe, for real
-Exercises to stretch out muscular tension that we carry all of the time that impedes proper breathing
-How the Eastern mind and Western mind differ, and how we can absorb some of the lessons that will make us stronger emotionally
-Body-psychology therapy, mattress-humping for a healthy lifestyle and emotional clarity (Yep. Really.)
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255: Susan Winter | Is she crazy or is this normal? Apr 30, 2014

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“Here's all you have to know about men and women: women are crazy, men are stupid. And the main reason women are crazy is that men are stupid.” -George Carlin
Men are apt to say that "women are crazy." And while some women are truly off kilter, many of the reactions men experience in women's emotions have a valid underlying reason. So what's truly crazy? How can you tell if the girl you're dating is a head trip, or just expressing her emotions? How much of that is your responsibility and caused by your actions? And what situations are you being "made wrong" for that have no validity? Relationship Management expert Susan Winter to the rescue.
Today, we're talking about some biggies, such as:
-How to decide on and screen in the girl you want for a relationship
-How to answer the “what are we?” question
-How to set up personal boundaries within a relationship How to handle conflict within a relationship
-How to handle bumps in a relationship after the first few months What to do when you feel your partner is pulling away Handling insane relatives ...and more!
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254: John Corcoran | Systemize your Network Apr 28, 2014

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John Corcoran of Smart Business Revolution tells us how to systemize our networking and relationship-building process, including: Why it’s all about who you know and why that's a GOOD thing (instead of something to whine about) How to start developing a network like a ninja How to network even when you don't know anyone, “have nothing to offer” and don't have any money How to spark interesting conversations and connections Finding the RIGHT people to connect with at events and parties Getting over the ‘fear of being fake’ Following up with connections and making them count How to measure your networking ‘results’ and ensuring you're getting ROI for your time and efforts building your network
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253: Jordan Harbinger on TheLip.Tv Apr 26, 2014

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Jordan Harbinger of the Art of Charm chats with Gabe Mizrahi of TheLip.tv about social confidence, removing social anxiety, and what we do here at AoC! We thought you'd dig this bonus audio (all right, let's just call this Episode 253) where Jordan Harbinger of the Art of Charm chats with Gabe Mizrahi of TheLip.tv about social confidence, removing social anxiety, and what we do here at The Art of Charm. Get a peek inside the kimono of how things work at AoC! Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/bonus-jordan-harbinger-interviewed-lip-tv/ Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

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206: Justin Jensen | Top Excuses for Not Coming to AoC Apr 24, 2014

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Since the foundation of The Art of Charm, thousands of students have come through our doors, graduated and left as the type of man they've always wanted to be. Unfortunately, thousands more have made an excuse NOT to take action. Perhaps you're one of them. In this episode, Jordan Harbinger and Justin Jensen explore (and then debunk) some of the most common excuses that guys have for why they can't change their lives, from time ("I'm just soooo busy!") to money ("There's just no way I can afford it, I've got bills to pay!") to why it couldn't possibly work for them ("But I'm too short/tall/black/white/asian/disabled") to the even more ridiculous. Have a listen. You might hear something that sounds familiar... You’ll also like: The Art of Charm Toolbox Best of The Art of Charm Podcast HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dug this episode, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from all the fluff out there. Ways to subscribe to The Art of Charm Click here to subscribe via iTunes You can also subscribe via Stitcher FEEDBACK + PROMOTION Hit us up with your comments and guest suggestions. We read EVERYTHING. Download the FREE AoC app for iPhone Email jordanh@theartofcharm.com Give us a call at 888.413.7177 Stay Charming!

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