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Ep. 89: Today, We Literally Do Not Care Oct 29, 2020

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Shit is about to get real, y'all. With everything going on lately — the new Supreme Court confirmation, yet ANOTHER Black man murdered by police, and the upcoming election to name a few — Trudi & Weeze are bringing you an old school throwback episode today. Listen in as we share what it's like for us to be in the work that we do, the values we have, the ACTUAL goal of the work we do, and everything that's on our minds, bodies, and souls right now. Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/trudilebron https://instagram.com/accordingtoweeze https://instagram.com/nothowthatworks Music by Dennis "Aganee" Jenkins https://www.aganee.com https://instagram.com/therealaganee

Ep. 88: Ongoing Accountability Oct 15, 2020

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So you've made a public statement that you're behind the Black Lives Matter movement and committed to anti-racism. But what does it mean to make a commitment like this and be accountable to these commitments? On today's episode, Trudi and Weeze are exploring what accountability looks like (in a real way!), why it feels hard, and one of the MOST IMPORTANT things you can do to stay accountable. We're also diving into the most recent example of how companies prioritize profit over people. Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/trudilebron https://instagram.com/accordingtoweeze https://instagram.com/nothowthatworks Music by Dennis "Aganee" Jenkins https://www.aganee.com https://instagram.com/therealaganee

Ep. 87: White Saviorism - Final Answer Oct 08, 2020

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You might be a white savior if… Seriously y'all… we get questions about this one on the daily. "Am I a white savior? What are people gonna think of me if I share online about the work I'm doing? How do I make sure I'm not crossing the line into white saviorism?" So on today's episode, Trudi and Weeze are sharing our FINAL ANSWER on this one. We're exploring all about white saviorism: what it is, why it's so dangerous, the difference between white identity and whiteness, and how to make sure you don't show up in spaces as a white savior. For the full breakdown of white saviorism, go back and check out Episode 19: Let's Cut the BS: From Ally to Accomplice - https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep-19-lets-cut-the-bullshit-from-ally-to-accomplice Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/trudilebron https://instagram.com/accordingtoweeze https://instagram.com/nothowthatworks Music by Dennis "Aganee" Jenkins https://www.aganee.com https://instagram.com/therealaganee

Ep. 86: Ibram X Kendi and How to Not to Write About Being An Anti-Racist Oct 01, 2020

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If you're looking for a guide on how to be an anti-racist, Ibram Kendi's book "How to Be an Anti-Racist" is NOT it, y'all. On today's episode, Trudi and Weeze are diving into this controversial book, why the title is problematic and not accurate, who this book is best for and what it REALLY is, what could have made it better, and what we recommend you read instead if you're on your own journey towards anti-racism. Check out Ep. 25: Can White Folks Experience Racism? (and how TNHTW almost got cancelled) -- https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep25 Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/trudilebron https://instagram.com/accordingtoweeze https://instagram.com/nothowthatworks Music by Dennis "Aganee" Jenkins https://www.aganee.com https://instagram.com/therealaganee

Ep. 85: DEI was DOA - The role whyte folx play and how to remedy Sep 17, 2020

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What do we mean when we say that white folks can't be the poison AND the antidote? What's the difference between DEI and anti-racism work anyway? If you want to know the answer to these questions and what you CAN do in the work as a white person without being harmful, you're not gonna want to miss this episode! Today, Trudi & Weeze are answering these questions as well as exploring the white folks co-opting the movement, why we don't do DEI work with clients before anti-racism work is done, and how BIPOC can continue to protect their peace and hold boundaries. Wanna go deeper? Go back and listen to these episodes for more: Ep. 19: Let's Cut the BS - From Ally to Accomplice Ep. 68: The Basics - Justice, Equity, Diversity & Inclusion Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/trudilebron https://instagram.com/accordingtoweeze https://instagram.com/nothowthatworks Music by Dennis "Aganee" Jenkins https://www.aganee.com https://instagram.com/therealaganee

Ep. 84: The Great White Awakening Sep 10, 2020

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We are 3 months now out of the "Great White Awakening" and it's time for y'all to have a come to Beyoncé moment… Where do you fall in this movement? Why did we even have this "Great White Awakening" now of all times? Why was George Floyd the beginning of it and not Breonna Taylor or any of the other Black folx who have been murdered? On today's episode, we're exploring the co-occurring social crises that created the perfect storm for people to FINALLY wake up, the 3 types of folx we saw in the Great White Awakening, and why it isn't actually in your business's best interest to use this movement to start branding yourself as an "anti-racist or DEI expert." Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/trudilebron https://instagram.com/accordingtoweeze Music by Dennis "Aganee" Jenkins https://www.aganee.com https://instagram.com/therealaganee

Ep. 83: Tag Team Back Again Sep 03, 2020

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We're back, y'all! A lot has happened in the world since our last podcast episode and we're excited to be back to start breaking it all down over this season. On today's episode, we're diving into what we've been up to during the podcast break and exploring the recent resurgence of the civil rights movement, Weeze's farewell to Facebook, the new "Great Awakening," and why the transformational change you're looking for can't be done with a quick fix, DM, or one-off training! Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/trudilebron https://instagram.com/accordingtoweeze https://instagram.com/thatsnothowthatworks Music by Dennis "Aganee" Jenkins https://www.aganee.com https://instagram.com/therealaganee

Ep.82: TNHTW 101: Summer Syllabus Final May 28, 2020

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This is our last episode of the season! Trudi and Weeze will be back in September with all new podcast episodes but in the meantime they have set up a curriculum to go back and listen to some of the most influential episodes so far. These are for you whether you are a newcomer to the podcast or if you just need refreshers as you continue on their path to wokeness. These will work in conjunction with our newsletter (that you should sign up for!) and our Facebook page to continue the discussion as always. Our book club will also be reviewing two books a month so there is plenty of opportunity to learn and interact with us. Until then enjoy these episodes...ok byeeeeeee! Foundational Episode 68 - The Basics: justice, equity, diversity & inclusion: https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep-68-the-basics-justice-equity-diversity-inclusion Episode 25 - Can White folks Experience Racism? (and how TNHTW almost got cancelled): https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep25 Episode 76 - Education vs. Action: Each plays a role in equity but only one creates change: https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep-76-education-vs-action-each-plays-a-role-in-equity-but-only-one-creates-change From Ally to Accomplice Episode 19 - Lets Cut the BS: From Ally to Accomplice: https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep-19-lets-cut-the-bullshit-from-ally-to-accomplice Episode 70 - Wait WTF…I can be down and still not be woke?: https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/wait-wtfi-can-be-down-and-still-not-be-woke Episode 29 - When Glennon Doyle's Attempt at Allyship Went Wrong: https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep29 Whiteness Episode 37 - The Basics of White Centering: https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep37 Episode 41 - Whitesplaining and Webster…A look at language: https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep41 Episode 10 - Don't Be A BBQ Becky: https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep-10-dont-be-a-bbq-becky Safety Episode 64 - Safe Space, a journey: the what, how & how not!: https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep-64-safe-space-a-journey-the-what-how-how-not Episode 46 - Do White Folks Deserve Safe Spaces?: https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep46 Episode 60 - Byron Katie, The Fairy Godmother of Spiritual Bypassing: https://soundcloud.com/nothowthatworks/ep-60-byron-katie-the-fairy-godmother-of-spiritual-bypassing Please join us on the FB Group for more discussion and celebration: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ThatsNotHowThatWorks/ Music by Dennis "Aganee" Jenkins https://www.aganee.com https://instagram.com/therealaganee

Ep. 81: Who is Karen & why does she want to talk to the manager? May 21, 2020

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Have you ever seen a "Karen?" She's the one who storms through the sliding doors with her apologetic husband in tow. Her short "power" haircut, oversized sunglasses and bratty kids let everyone know her entitled ass is getting whatever she wants. She yells and accuses everyone causing as much of a scene as possible, if provoked then she will unleash her final attack saying, "I want to speak to your manager!" This is a "Karen"... she's not a new phenomenon but she can now be identified properly with the rise of social media. In this episode, Trudi & Weeze break down what being a Karen is and how whiteness plays a major role in being one. Listen in as we explore potential outcomes and how you can help combat all the Karening going on. Please join us on the FB Group for more discussion and celebration: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ThatsNotHowThatWorks/ Music by Dennis "Aganee" Jenkins https://www.aganee.com https://instagram.com/therealaganee

Ep. 80: Privilege and Pandemics May 14, 2020

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Privileged during the pandemic? It may not always feel that way, but many of us are in one way or another. What are you doing with it, though? In today's episode, Trudi & Weeze are diving into what privilege IS, what it ISN'T, what choices you have during this time, and how you can use this time to rise while making sure others rise with you. Please join us on the FB Group for more discussion and celebration: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ThatsNotHowThatWorks/ Music by Dennis "Aganee" Jenkins https://www.aganee.com https://instagram.com/therealaganee

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