Last week, Rikki Lee wrote you a letter.
In this episode of That Girl Radio, Rikki Lee goes deeper into the message behind Dear That Girl: Just Be and explores the difference between knowing yourself and creating an image of yourself. Because while there’s nothing wrong with developing your personal style, cultivating signatures, or intentionally designing the life you want, your aesthetic should be an expression of your identity—not a replacement for it.
This is a conversation about personal identity, self-knowledge, the pressure to be aspirational, and giving yourself permission to evolve. Rikki Lee explores why we can become so attached to the version of ourselves we’ve presented to the world that we forget we’re allowed to change, grow, explore, and become.
You’ll be invited to ask yourself: Who am I when nobody is watching? What do I actually like? What parts of my life are genuinely mine—and what parts have I chosen because I thought they would make me more admirable to someone else?
Because the goal was never to become the perfect aesthetic. It was to become more of you.
And as you build your dream life, develop your taste, and create your signatures, remember: you don't have to become a brand to become That Girl. You just have to become intentional about knowing, loving, and living as the woman God created you to be.
Your That Girl Assignment: Spend some time this week doing something you genuinely enjoy without documenting it, sharing it, or turning it into content. Just experience it. Then ask yourself: Who am I when nobody is watching?
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