#teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh

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Motherhood and Kink? Feb 20, 2024

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A bartender tells Eva Oh that she reminds him of his Mother, a Dominatrix. He shares more about what his childhood looked like with BDSM slaves around and Eva is inspired to imagine parenthood as a Dominatrix and Sex Worker. Her investigation finds her clients jumping at the chance to “provide” and proves to be a revealing exercise in societal stigma and suffering.

Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Dominatrix Walks into a Bar
(02:00) - The Bartender Notices Something Familiar
(02:55) - His Mother Is a Dominatrix
(06:00) - I Start to Think About Motherhood
(07:15) - Clients Jumping at the Chance
(08:30) - The Logistics
(11:00) - How Client-Slaves May Be Useful
(13:00) - Ideal Conditions?
(14:30) - Why I Decided Against It, Resources and Suffering
(17:30) - Fostering
(19:00) - A Revealing Exercise
(20:55) - Telling My Child About My Work
(21:30) - Sex Work, Kink and Parenthood
(22:50) - Tell Me About Kink and Parenthood Resources!

My Ultimate Fantasy Feb 13, 2024

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What is Eva Oh’s ultimate fantasy? Find out in this deeply revealing episode. A fantasy born out of graphic novels, porn channels and a lifetime of stimuli - Eva invites us into her masturbatory mind in fascinating detail. Inside we find a dystopian landscape, a robotic facility and otherworldly plays on light, texture, movement and sound.

Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - My Only Fantasy
(01:00) - My First Wet Dream
(02:10) - Erotic-ish Graphic Novels
(03:00) - Motel Porn Channels
(04:00) - The Evolution, from Dreams to Hentai to…
(05:00) - Pay for Your Porn
(06:40) - What Might Tie Everything Together?
(07:00) - What is it?! Describing My Only Fantasy
(07:20) - A Political and Societal Framework
(08:30) - A Human-like Facility
(09:10) - My Infiltration
(10:55) - A Simulation
(13:30) - A Morphing Dress
(14:50) - The Initial Touch
(15:15) - The Room Changes, I “Throw” Us Into Another Scene
(15:55) - Auditory Hallucinations, Surrounding and Within
(17:10) - A Platform Appears in Crystal Dust
(19:00) - Merging with the Target, An Important Realisation
(20:30) - The Visceral
(21:30) - A Near Future
(23:00) - What Might All This Mean?
(27:00) - Zima Blue, Love Death and Robots
(29:00) - Parallels with My Reality?
(31:10) - How Could I Improve My Fantasy?

Season 3 Begins. My Voice Notes are Open! Feb 06, 2024

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Eva Oh kicks off Season 3 on a reflective note, indulging us in how she’s found the podcast so far and what she’s found to be her biggest reward. Eva reveals more on how she creates each episode; and opens up her voice notes - for you to ask questions and share stories that she will respond to and create a whole #teakink season out of next! Leave a voice note here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - Season 3. How I’ve Found the Podcast So Far.
(01:00) - The Biggest Reward
(03:13) - What Season 3 Holds
(04:20) - How I Create the Episodes and Why
(07:14) - What Shall I Do with the Next Season?
(07:55) - My Voice Notes are OPEN, Contribute to the Next Season

How I Play, Season 2 Ends with Some Practical Tips! Jan 30, 2024

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In the riveting season finale of #teakink, Eva Oh delves deep into her career as a Dominatrix, sharing her approach to play, scene negotiation, and offering invaluable advice for BDSM newcomers.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:24) How I Play as a Dominatrix
(03:57) Inside My Mind During a Scene
(05:12) How I Play Now
(06:12) The Role BDSM Tools and Toys Play
(07:49) How I Negotiate a Scene
(09:09) Becoming And Being My Plaything
(12:39) Familiarity and Comfort in My Relationships
(13:41) Presence, Speed, and Communication
(16:29) Is There an "Eva Oh" Domination Formula?
(17:45) Donning and Discarding Intensity
(20:30) Advice From Eva
(24:50) Vulnerability and Ending Season 2

Becoming an AI Companion: Part 2 with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher Jan 23, 2024

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Award-winning Dominatrix Eva Oh meets with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher, to find out more about the potential of her AI Companionship and its overarching effect on our lives. Listen in on a conversation that explores the evolution of human interaction, parallels to the early internet and sex work, chatbot rights, the ‘Interaction Arms Race’ and Åste’s Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test. Eva asks, can designing her AI Companion be done ethically or does that even matter?

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - Meeting Åste Amundsen, Interaction Researcher
(01:40) - How Åste Found Me
(02:40) - How Åste Thinks My Work Parallels to Hers
(06:40) - Why AI Companies Are Interested in Me
(07:30) - The Evolution of Human Interaction including Parasocial Relationship and How AI Could Manipulate Our Shortcomings
(10:30) - Åste's Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test Installation
(13:10) - Sex Workers as Interaction Experts
(15:00) - The Evolution of Human Dating and it’s Merging with Technology
(16:00) - Esther Perel’s Fears for AI Chatbots and Digital Interaction
(18:00) - How Could I Design an AI Companion Ethically?
(21:40) - Sex Work as Emotional Labour, Designing ‘Friction’ Into AI
(24:40) - Sex Work Hobbyists
(26:30) - Porn and Fantasy as a First Sexual Experience, AI Companionship as Similar?
(27:30) - My One Fantasy
(29:45) - Current Attempts at AI Companionship
(32:00) - The Relational Bonding and Interaction Arms Race
(33:00) - Chatbot Rights
(34:00) - Government
(34:30) - What Makes a “Good” Interaction?
(37:00) - What Sex Work Might Become
(37:40) - How Could We Value Ourselves
(41:25) - How These Developments Might Evolve Us
(42:40) - What Motivates Me to become an AI Companion
(43:55) - An Opportunity
(46:00) - Åste’s NSFW Chatbot Research
(48:00) - The Disturbing and The Violent
(50:00) - The Nether, A Play
(52:40) - Angela Carter, Benefiting From Our Sexual Capacity
(57:40) - The Transactional Nature of Interaction
(59:10) - Potential and the Parallels to the Early Internet

Links:
Åste Amundsen, http://asteamundsen.com

My #teakink Berlin Event, but mostly The First Time I Paid to Submit Jan 16, 2024

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Eva Oh revisits Berlin and takes us into an industrial neighborhood where two Dominatrixes would unlock an otherworldly BDSM experience. Later in the episode, Eva reflects on how Berlin has impacted her personally and professionally. And perhaps most importantly, Eva wonders if her professional kink life feeds into her private kink life, and where those boundaries lay. All that and more on this episode of #teakink.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) Hello From Berlin
(02:07) My History With the City
(03:47) My Introduction to the World of Sex Clubs
(04:30) Studio Avalon
(05:58) The Dominatrix Who Caught My Eye
(07:21) I, A Woman, Arrive At The Dungeon
(08:33) The Dungeon Interior and I, an Open Minded Sub
(09:35) But Why is a Dominatrix Paying to Submit?
(10:25) The Scene Begins
(12:00) My First Exposure to Someone Else's Scent
(13:45) Introducing Another Mistress
(15:00) Pleasure and Screams
(17:00) The Scene Simmers Down
(19:20) Filet-o-Fish Sandwich With a Side of Berlin Memories
(20:50) Berlin Today
(22:50) A Personal Rendezvous With Myself

Inside Klub Verboten - The Most Wanted Kink Sex Party in the World [Video Special] Jan 08, 2024

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In this very special video episode of #teakink, Eva Oh brings us into the inner workings of Klub Verboten, the most wanted kink sex party in the world that hosts over 3000 bodies a month in London and Berlin. At Klub Verboten you may see a leather clad human puppy being led around on a leash, or a couple in latex chatting by the bar, or a mass of a more-some gyrating on the dance floor. But how does this all emerge, and do so in a way that can inspire such freedom? It takes a lot thought, structure, dungeon furniture, campaigning against oppression and an ever growing team of very dedicated people. In this episode Eva Oh reveals why the party means so much more to her than ‘just’ sex and she chats with a board member and a safeguard from the team who make it all happen. A special video episode produced by Viscerals. Sound by Zak Nicholls. Music by Simao. More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) Welcome to Klub Verboten, the most wanted kink sex party in the world (01:43) What Happens Inside Klub Verboten (KV) (02:45) We Meet Ayo, A KV Safeguard (03:04) How to Get in to KV, and stay in (04:00) What are Safeguards (04:50) Safeguard Training and The Good Night Out Campaign (05:50) What Safeguards See and Do in the KV Playspace/Dungeon (07:40) How Ayo Became a Safeguard (09:00) the Team Behind KV (10:20) The Dress Code and Why it’s Important (12:10) Vanilla (Non-Kink/Queer) VS Kink Club Spaces (14:25) We Meet a Caged Gimp, a KV Board Member (15:50) Why the Gimp was Searching for a Space like KV (16:25) The KV Advisory Board (17:40) ‘Contemporary’ Kink Culture (18:45) What is Possible Inside KV (19:55) The Queer Kink Community (20:30) We Release the Gimp

Interview: My Main BDSM Slave, m Jan 02, 2024

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Eva Oh interviews her main BDSM slave, m. This intimate conversation offers a unique look into the Dominatrix-submissive relationship, and the extraordinary dynamics that shape it. m sheds light on his journey from fear to complete surrender, candidly discussing his initial hesitance and intrigue, his struggle to let go, and the allure of Eva Oh’s dominating personality that finally led him to cherish the power exchange. Join us as we delve deeper into the dynamics of BDSM relationships, exploring intimacy, trust, and the profound fulfilment they can offer. More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet My Main Slave, m (00.35) - The Foot Cam (00.56) - How We Met (02:10) - Ruling m’s Thoughts (02:40) - Why m Was Interested in Me (03:55) - m ‘Letting Go’ (05:25) - m’s Second Thoughts (06.20) - My ’Strong Personality’ (07.20) - m’s Fears and Attempted Manipulations (08:10) - The Ruler will Rule (08:50) - Rejection, Acceptance and Trust (10.30) - Preconceptions Meeting Reality (11.40) - m’s Growing Relationship to Pain and Resilience (12.20) - Taking Lessons from BDSM into m’s Workplace (13.30) - Love and Lust (15.00) - m Learning Compassion (15:30) - Why m Has Learned So Much (16.30) - What Our Day to Day Looks Like (19.15) - Navigating Expectations (20.13) - Communicating Needs and Understanding Each Other (22.35) - Sexuality and Intimacy (27.00) - m’s Concept of BDSM before Meeting Me vs Now (29.55) - m’s Hopes for The Future (31.00) - m’s Question for Me, Why Do I Accept Him? (35.30) - The Importance of Hearing the Submissive Voice (39.00) - How Vanilla Relationships Fit, or Don’t

The Cucked Cuckolding the Cuck Dec 26, 2023

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Eva Oh reflects on an intimate story concerning an ex-lover, a cousin, and a client who enjoys being a human ashtray and cuckold. She weaves a story of youth, anger, excitement, regret, and reconciliation, and reveals why she wants you, the listener, to have a transparent view into her life on #teakink.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) The Cuck, Lover, Cousin, and Client
(02:51) Reconnecting in Australia
(03:54) A Secret is Revealed
(05:55) More Details About The Secret
(06:39) A Dynamic Shift Happens
(08:20) The Ex-Lover Reappears After the Chaos
(09:23) "Only If You're Going To Be Useful"
(11:29) The Cuck
(12:49) A Human Ashtray
(14:02) The Ex-Lover Meets the Cuck
(15:50) A Look of Terror
(17:26) Looking Back, More Negotiation
(18:10) The Scene Wraps, We All Say Goodbye
(19:47) Regret
(21:11) Reconnecting With Exes
(23:13 ) Why Did I Make #teakink

How to Build My BDSM Dungeon Dec 19, 2023

Show notes

Eva Oh breaks down the psychology that goes into designing BDSM dungeons. Why did she design her former dungeon in Bali to resemble an execution room, and why she is intrigued by last words, death, and performance? And for listers who are architects, see what Eva’s aspirations for her next dungeon are.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:53) Building My First-Ever Dungeon
(01:03) Death's Influence on Aesthetics
(02:35) One's Last Words
(04:17) Bringing My Execution Room to Life
(05:12) Inviting My Practice Into My Space
(06:36) Breaking Down the Experience In My Dungeon
(10:38) Total Ownership and Control
(12:36) Fantasy Aside, Realities Behind Creating a BDSM Space
(13:57) The Dungeon in Cologne
(14:34) My Future Dungeon and My Current Home
(18:15) From My Past Spaces To My Life Now
(21:05) Current Projects
(21:50) A Thank You to Mistress Danielle Blunt
(22:39) Final Thoughts on Death and The Execution Room

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