#teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh

Teas by Eva Oh Nov 12, 2024

Eva Oh launches her own loose leaf teas! A Jasmine Silver Tip and an Aged Port Oolong. Watch her pour herself a tea ceremony as she takes us through the history of how and why #teakink began. A tale of Domme friends, secrets, censorship and platforming the margins.
Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - Teas by Eva Oh
(01:40) - Jasmine Silver Tip Loose Leaf Tea
(02:12) - The History of #teakink, Domme Friends and Censorship
(06:50) - Why Tea?
(09:00) - What next?
(10:55) - Aged Port Oolong Loose Leaf Tea
(12:55) - My Naivety, Censorship and Platforming the Margins
(16:15) - Thank you for your response to the Podcast

Miss Juni, Aspiring Dominatrix: A Mentoring Session with Eva Oh Nov 05, 2024

Watch one of Eva Oh’s mentoring sessions live on the #teakink Podcast. Miss Juni is an aspiring Dominatrix who booked a mentoring call with Eva Oh but ended up on her sofa with her questions instead. From red flags, to client application processes, socialising with clients, and setting rates; Eva and Juni cover a lot of ground. We also get an insight into Juni’s motivations, her use of OnlyFans as a space for trans activism and her thoughts on sissification from a trans perspective.
Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - A Mentoring Session with Miss Juni, Aspiring Dominatrix
(01:23) - Why Become a Dominatrix?
(02:40) - Domination and Acceptance
(05:19) - Sissification from a Trans Perspective
(08:12) - Qtee Foxx, OnlyFans and Trans Activism
(12:35) - Offensive Clients
(18:00) - Red Flags in Professional Domination
(25:00) - My Client Application Process
(27:00) - Dominating the Every Day
(31:00) - My Awkward Moment Trying Professional Submission
(33:30) - How Do You Keep a Client Conversation Going?
(35:00) - Bowling, Karaoke, and My Humiliation
(38:00) - How Do You Create Long Term Clients?
(42:00) - Sugar Babying, the Saviour Complex and Quitting the Industry
(47:00) - Consent is Cool
(48:50) - How Do You Ask for More? How Do We Handle Our Sense of Value?
(01:00:50) - Work-Life Balance as a Dominatrix
(01:04:00) - The Eva Oh Experience
(01:06:50) - How Much Do You Give Before a Session?

Jake Dean: International Gay Escort and Escort Agency Owner Oct 29, 2024

Jake Dean sits down with Eva Oh to chat week-long escort bookings, contentment, client demographics, the concept of ‘high end’ and the whorearchy; and so so much more. Eva shares her tips for managing long term client engagements, decompression and a family heirloom that grounds her as a part of the process.
Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - Meet Jake Dean, Who Starts out by Charming Me
(02:33) - Jake, Escort and Escort Agency Owner
(03:50) - Why Escorting: Playboy, Business Studies and Amsterdam
(06:30) - Jake’s First Booking
(07:30) - Customer Relationship Management in the Sex Industry
(08:10) - How Escorting has Changed (For) Jake
(11:50) - Friendship and Isolation
(15:30) - Finding Contentment in Escorting
(20:25) - Week-long Bookings with a Client?!
(25:50) - How I Stay in Character-ish
(27:50) - How I Decompress from a Long Booking: Habit, Practice and Boundaries
(31:00) - Does Our Rates Effect Client Demographic and Behaviour?
(34:00) - People Skills
(35:15) - A Long Term Job
(36:15) - Unpredictable and Questioning, Improving Self
(38:55) - ‘High End’ and the Whorearchy?
(41:35) - How Jake Runs His Escort Agency
(48:45) - Escort Touring Quirks and Good Habits

Miss Mummy: Adult Babies, Regression and Social Conditioning Oct 22, 2024

‘Miss Mummy’ specialises in regression sessions for Adult Babies out of her specially built adult sized Nursery. Eva Oh joins Miss Mummy in the crib to discuss the motivations, vulnerability and stigma behind her practice; her Adult Baby counselling service; and the potential parallels between her work and that of a professional Dominatrix.
Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - Meet ‘Miss Mummy’ in Her Adult Baby Crib
(01:40) - Adult Babies and Regression
(04:00) - My First Adult Baby Session and the Stigma I Felt
(05:30) - How Miss Mummy Discovered Adult Babies
(09:05) - How Miss Mummy Navigates Her Adult Babies’ Vulnerability
(15:55) - Highly Sensitive People
(17:25) - The Adult Baby Counselling Service
(19:40) - Shame and Guilt
(22:00) - Adult Baby Communities and Gatherings
(23:27) - Dominatrix vs Mummy?
(25:00) - Sex Work and Absurdity
(27:30) - What an Adult Baby Experience Looks Like
(30:20) - Freedom, Peace and Social Conditioning
(34:00) - How Miss Mummy Integrates the Experience for a Client
(38:00) - Miss Mummy’s Future
(40:30) - What is the Demographic of an Adult Baby
(40:50) - The Post-War History of Adult Babies
(47:50) - Holding Men

#teakink Podcast, Here to Stay Oct 15, 2024

#teakink Podcast started out as a seasonal experiment in sharing an often sidelined perspective - that of a sex worker. And Oh, has our host Eva Oh shared. Stories and secrets of the sweet, the challenging and the titillating. But it’s time to share the platform and so from here, this is no longer an experiment. The #teakink Podcast has found its format - to share valuable and underrepresented perspectives from around the world. Eva Oh sits down with international sex workers, sex industry professionals, those adjacent and who champion them; with some solo episodes from our host when the mood strikes. Welcome to the #teakink Podcast, now here to stay.
Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - No More Seasons
(02:30) - Interviews as a Focus

Our 'Interview Season' Ends, or does it? Oct 08, 2024

This episode wraps the special 'Interview' Season of the #teakink Podcast. It's been quite the ride, with deeply insightful and generous guests that included heavy masochists, sex work academics, a submissive called 'Floor' and many more. Will Eva Oh continue? Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Masochism, Survival, Gratitude for People's Sharing (03:40) - Reflections on Reading My Memoir (04:20) - A Rewarding "Hobby", Thank You for Listening

A #teakink Fan, 'M': Parasocial Relationships and The Impact of the Podcast Oct 01, 2024

Eva Oh invites 'M', a fan of #teakink - onto the Podcast. Eva's been curious about why you have been interested in the podcast as much as you have, and even though it turns out to be a little bit of an awkward episode hearing about herself - M's kindness and eloquence reveals a lot about the impact that #teakink has been able to have, what insights are possible through it and it lays a lot of groundwork on what more #teakink could become in time to come. Thanks 'M'! Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Eva Oh Invites M, a Listener of #teakink - onto #teakink (01:30) - How M Found Me (02:20) - Getting Feedback on How I Communicate (04:20) - How has #teakink Impacted M? (06:20) - Questioning Priorities and Values (09:24) - Learning About Dominatrices (11:25) - M's Favourite Episode (14:50) - Parasocial Relationships and Podcast Hosts (16:10) - Why I Did This Episode (16:40) - I Want to be a Resource (20:25) - Making Sex Workers Visible (28:10) - M Introduces Herself - Research, Japan, Investment Banking (37:15) - Writing Women's Stories (39:50) - M's Experience with Kink and Hentai (46:45) - Different Times for Monogomy and Non-Monogamy (47:30) - What is Shareable About #teakink?

Goddess Faye: The Digital Harem, Nerdiness and BDSM, TeamLab, AI and Cyborg Domination Sep 24, 2024

When Eva Oh posted a question on AI and sex work to Instagram a wave of opinions came back, but a referenced musing via Google Docs from Goddess Faye clearly stood out - and now we have quite the episode of the #teakink Podcast on Bizarre Ladies, the potential viscerality of the digital, emotional design in session, nerdiness and BDSM, TeamLabs, Cyborg Dominatrix Dreams, brain tissue, VR Porn, Web3, Digital Harems and more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Goddess Faye aka Sensory Girl (01:20) - From Tumblr to Dominatrix and Pro Deviant (02:45) - Bizarre Ladies (03:18) - Sitting on Wet and Messy Things (04:55) - The Visceral Meets The Digital (09:27) - Emotional Design in Session (11:12) - Nerdiness and BDSM (12:10) - Technology in Session (15:00) - My Ultimate Fantasy and TeamLab (17:45) - Our Cyborg Dominatrix Dreams (20:20) - Brain Tissue, AI and Sentience (22:50) - VR Porn Needs to Evolve (23:35) - Next Innovations in the Sex Industry? (25:20) - Web3 Concerns (28:00) - Truthfulness (30:30) - The Unknown of AI (32:00) - Curator of Your Mind (33:40) - How Will AI Change BDSM and the Dominatrix (34:30) - The Digital Harem (35:25) - Consent, Chatbots and Submissive Control (36:50) - AI as a Good Submissive (39:15) - The Dehumanisation of Sex Workers (42:30) - Skin in the Game

Miss Gold: Sexuality and Parenthood, Fantasy and How to Photograph a Sex Party Sep 17, 2024

Prolific Kink Photographer Miss Gold invites Eva Oh into the contents of her mind on this episode of the #teakink Podcast. We discover Miss Gold's start in fine art, her first steps into fetish, the importance of fantasy in her work, her sexuality and parenthood, and she reveals to us the intricacies of photographing sex parties as an insider. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - You Don't Deserve to See Miss Gold's Feet (01:20) - From Fine Art to Fetish Photography (02:30) - Sex Party Photography Highlights: Latex Pig Masks (04:00) - Fantastical Fantasies (06:20) - How Miss Gold Found Kink (08:00) - How to Photograph a Sex Party (10:00) - Editorial Photography Meets BDSM (12:00) - The Issues of Non-Kinksters Documenting Kink (16:30) - The Surge of Sex Parties (19:35) - Sex Influencer Culture (21:40) - Sexuality and Parenthood (26:00) - Being Pregnant at Sex Parties (28:00) - Discussing Sexuality with Our Children (31:50) - The Contents of Miss Gold's Mind (36:00) - Future Plans, Documenting Our Kink History

Polly: Escorting, Her PhD, Wild Swimming and the State of Queer Cruising Sep 10, 2024

In this episode of the #teakink Podcast we meet Polly - an escort, academic, and community organiser with SWARM who shares the ins and outs of what a kink escort booking looks like, her thoughts on the state of academia, and her love for grimy leather bars and wild swimming. Eva Oh joins her on a campaign for queer cruising spaces and also shares a story of the time she got Root Beer Float Waterboarded. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Polly - Sex Worker, Academic, Community Organiser (02:15) - Non-Monogamy Circles and Sex Worker Friends (03:12) - Polly's First Steps into Sex Work (05:11) - Thinking About Oneself as a "Brand" (07:35) - Polly's First Booking, the Tiniest Double Ended Dildo (09:40) - What Does a Booking Look Like (13:40) - Finding the Kink Community and Grimy Leather Bars (17:40) - The State of Academia (20:15) - SWARM, Sex Worker Grassroots Organisation (25:50) - The Correlation Between Academia and Sex Work (28:15) - Polly's Ideal Week (32:50) - Wild Swimming (36:35) - Queer Cruising (39:50) - Personal Responsibility in Sex Spaces (41:30) - Kink Group Getaways and Murder Mysterys (44:25) - How to Cruise (47:45) - Root Beer Float Waterboarding

Playful's Amanda and Filip: Platforming Voices and the Berghain Darkroom with Eva Oh Sep 03, 2024

Playful Magazine, Podcast, TV... Amanda and Filip of Playful get into bed with Eva Oh to talk about their vision for Playful, platforming sex workers, discovering the fluidity of their sexualities, Filip in lingerie and a surprising experience that they had with Eva in the Berghain Darkroom. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Amanda and Filip of Playful (02:00) - What is Playful (03:30) - How They Choose Their Guests (04:15) - Platforming Sex Workers (07:30) - The Playful Vision (09:40) - Music and Sex (11:30) - Featuring the Path Less Travelled (14:19) - Exploring The Fluidity of Their Sexualities (17:55) - What Makes a "Relevant" Man (19:25) - Peeing on People Together (20:20) - The Story of Eva in the Darkroom at Bergahin (30:25) - Berghain's Sexual Evolution (35:20) - Getting More Naked (39:20) - More Female Friendly Cruising Spots (41:20) - Playful TV

A Mid-Season Memoir Reading by Eva Oh: Golden Showers Aug 27, 2024

We take a mid season pause from the #teakink Podcast Interviews to feature a reading from Eva Oh's memoir in progress. A chapter on perfecting the mechanics of golden showers on a client called 'French Frank', and how Eva discovers a sense of joy that she had never experienced before, in her very first session as a Dominatrix. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - A Reading from My Memoir in Progress (01:15) - Chapter 7, Golden Showers

Ezada Sinn: Femdom, Motherhood, Masturbation and much More Aug 20, 2024

Ezada Sinn graces Eva Oh with her incomparable mind in this episode of the #teakink Podcast. Shot during Ezada's Femdom Summit in Bucharest, the Femdoms chat on the links between communism and women's power, Ezada's ideal relationship structures, raising children as a kinkster and the link between latex body bags and floatation tanks. We also get an insight into the origins of Ezada's personal fetishes and even an early masturbation ritual... Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - The Glorious Ezada Sinn (01:50) - The Femdom Summit, A Vision for Femdom and Bucharest (06:15) - Femdom Sightseeing (08:20) - Romanian History, Communism and Women's Power (11:05) - Discovering Dominance (13:10) - Ezada's Ideal Relationship/s, The Inverted 50s Household (18:10) - Raising a Family with a D/s "Village" (20:30) - Renegotiating Dynamics and Protocol with Life Changes, like Raising Children (23:30) - The Importance of Talking About Kinksters and Sex Worker with Children (27:55) - The Origins of Ezada's Fetishes (30:20) - Ezada's First Masturbation Ritual (32:00) - Latex Body Bags and Floatation Tanks (34:24) - Femdom Friendships (40:00) - Ezada's 'Talking Matriarchy' Podcast

'Floor': From Service Top to Submissive, a Peek into a Submissive Mind Aug 13, 2024

Eva Oh places her feet on the chest of a submissive #teakink Podcast listener for an interview on the submissive mindset. With 'Floor', Eva leads a conversation on how he discovered his submissive identity, his journey from service top to submissive, his early desires to role play as the floor, his craving for connection and how he became a part of Eva's Domme Training Sessions. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - A Submissive Listener Now Under My Feet (02:35) - Is My Persona My Reality? The Sub's Perspective (05:00) - How We Know Each Other (06:39) - Becoming a Part of My Training Sessions (12:20) - What is a Session with a Dominatrix? (13:45) - A Hint at What a Session With Me is Like (16:00) - Discovering the Submissive Identity (17:20) - Finding the Community (19:50) - From Service Top to Submissive (22:15) - Wanting to Role Play as the Floor (24:40) - Thank You Graham Norton (25:20) - A Fetish in Hiding (28:40) - What it's Been Like Looking for a D/s Dynamic (31:40) - Craving Connection (34:45) - 24/7 Power Dynamics (43:00) - The Importance of Communication (45:00) - Finding Satisfaction

Cherry Velour: Torture Porn, Fear and Desire Aug 06, 2024

Eva Oh sits down with Cherry Velour to talk torture porn, discovering fear, creating consensual non consent scenes, the challenge of sensual pleasure, the torture of the patriarchy, submission as a symptom, shattering the ego - and an impressive number of other points that they manage to squeeze into an hour of the #teakink Podcast. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - Meet Cherry Velour (00:30) - Cherry's Torture Porn (03:20) - What is the Sound of Torture? (06:20) - Can a Desire for Torture Meet Reality (07:50) - Discovering Fear (10:00) - Creating Consensual Non Consent Scenes (12:15) - Why is Fear Interesting (13:40) - Maggots and Cold Bodies of Water (15:38) - The Challenge of Sensual Sexual Pleasure (21:03) - The Desire for a 24/7 Power Dynamic (23:20) - The Torture of the Patriarchy (26:00) - Too Few Perverts in Denmark? (27.50) - The UK, A Country of Bottoms and Subs? (31:00) - Submission as a Symptom (32:55) - A Special Breed of Dominant (35:30) - The Benefits of Being Thoughtful About Kink (39:50) - Shattering the Ego (44:30) - What's next for Cherry Velour?

Missy Fatale: Sex, Death, Nudity Jul 30, 2024

We kick of the #teakink Interview Season with Eva Oh’s dear friend Missy Fatale, International Burlesque Siren and fellow female dominant. From an intrigue in sex, death and nudity, to coming up against the patriarchy as a child, we discover how Missy moves from the world of fine art into the liberation of performance, the struggle of surrender as a Femdom; and how a mainstream audience responds to fetish on the stage. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com Missy's Links: instagram.com/missy_fatale instagram.com/vintageartsagency vintageartsagency.com instagram.com/haus_of_fatale vintageartsagency.com/hausoffatale HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Who is Missy Fatale? (02:05) - Sex, Death and Nudity (03:30) - Patriarchy as a Child (05:05) - Discovering Dominance (06:50) - From Fine Art to the Liberation of Performance (13:25) - Fetish in Performance Art (14:50) - Social Media's Effect on Performance (16:15) - Vintage Arts Agency, House of Fatale, Fatalism (17:00) - Bringing the Dungeon to the Stage (18:20) - How Audiences Respond (20:20) - Fetish as Life (23:20) - Attempting Surrender as Dominant Women (27:15) - What Female Dominance Means to Us (31:45) - Using Terms as Opposed to them Using Us (33:25) - Marie Kondo-ing Life (34:25) - The State of Fetish in the Performance Industry (38:20) - Eva Oh, Missy's House Dominatrix (39:55) - Missy Fatale's Final Act

#teakink Season 5: Interviews Jul 23, 2024

Season 5 of the #teakink Podcast is all about the interviews. Eva Oh welcomes sex industry professionals, kink community photographers, masochists, fans and more to her play space sofa for a conversations that offer a deeper look into her world and its inhabitants.
Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:21) - Let the Interview Season Begin
(01:05) - Escorts, Kink Photographers, Masochists and Fans
(01:55) - Get a Deeper Look into My World

The Loneliness in Sex Work Jul 16, 2024

Sex Work can feel isolating because of society’s shortcomings and even simply within the logistics of the job. A question on how to manage feelings of isolation when on tour or travelling for work as a sex worker leads Eva Oh to reveal an insight into her touring history, and the habits, community and secrets that have kept her grounded - including a travelling totem and room service spaghetti bolognaise…
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Touring as a Sex Worker
(01:10) - My Touring History
(02:35) - But I Love Solitude
(03:25) - The Benefits of Sex Worker Communitiy
(03:55) - Familiarity on the Road
(07:15) - Dating App Entertainment
(07:50) - Keeping Motivations Front of Mind
(09:20) - Totems and Spaghetti Bolognaise
(11:10) - Touring in Doubles
(12:30) - Much Love!

Sexologist vs Pervert, Eva Oh? Jul 09, 2024

A somewhat academic question reveals the more visceral leanings of Eva Oh’s view on kink. On this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva reveals why she tends to avoid pathologising the kinks of those who work with her, the neurology of foot fetishes, the potential meaning of what a ‘desire template’ is and more things that she often sets aside to prioritise getting gloriously filthy.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question from a Sexologist on the Origin of Fetishes
(00:55) - I’m Less Academic, More Pervert
(01:45) - Avoiding Pathologising for Experiential Thrills
(04:50) - The Neurology of Foot Fetish
(05:50) - Examining Me, Eva Oh
(10:05) - What Are Desire Templates?
(10:50) - I Think We’re More Similar Than Not
(12:55) - Maybe I Should See a Sexologist?

Bondage and Bubbles: Play in BDSM Jul 02, 2024

A cute story from a #teakink Podcast listener on bondage and bubbles reminds Eva Oh of the magic and importance of play as conduit for expressing and understanding the potential of our humanity.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Story on Bondage and Bubbles
(01:25) - The Importance of Play in the Complexity of BDSM
(07:00) - What BDSM Can Teach Us
(09:50) - My Play Preferences
(10:18) - Play and the Potential of Our Humanity?

Navigating Social Situations as a Sex Worker Jun 25, 2024

It can be a complicated experience navigating social situations as a sex worker. Do we reveal our occupation to the dinner table? Might people react poorly? What can we say to protect ourselves, or shed light on our jobs, and should this even be our weight to carry? Eva Oh gives us some options on how to navigate society and their preconceptions on this episode of the #teakink Podcast.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
#teakink Episode, “Society is Ashamed: At the Dinner Party”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/society-is-ashamed-at-the-dinn
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Social Interactions as a Sex Worker
(00:48) - Society is Ashamed
(02:15) - Some Options
(07:40) - Encountering Shock and Horror
(09:25) - Learning the Vocabulary
(11:20) - Leaving People Behind
(11:50) - In the Uber
(14:40) - It’s What You’re Ready For
(16:00) - Dolphin Trainers

Being Clickbait and Prioritising Goals in Sex Work Jun 18, 2024

We open with a question on PR Agencies and Sex Worker Friendships and we end up amongst the problematic nature of clickbait and hopefully a few alternative ways to drive traffic to OnlyFans and into our businesses. A #teakink Podcast episode on how to think about our personal goals whilst placing worth in the challenges that sex workers face collectively.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on PR Agencies and Sex Worker Friendships
(01:18) - What I Think the Question is
(02:00) - Ways to Drive Traffic to OnlyFans
(04:15) - Sex Work as Clickbait
(06:50) - On the Sex Work PR Campaign Trail
(08:15) - Sex Worker Friendships
(12:25) - Keeping a Wider Perspective

More Men Crying Jun 12, 2024

What’s one of Eva Oh’s favourite things? Men crying. Eva answers a fan's question on whether she’s ever made a man cry through a reflection on one of the most popular episodes of the #teakink Podcast yet, ‘I Love Men Crying”. Reminding us of the potential of surrender and the importance of responsible emotional freedom.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com#teakink Episode, “I Love Men Crying”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/i-love-men-crying-sports-and-t(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on How I Make Men Cry(00:45) - I Love Men Crying, Clearly(01:45) - Crying at a Distance(03:00) - The Physicality of a Session(04:55) - The First Time I Made a Boy Cry(06:00) - The Importance of Surrender(07:57) - Men Crying Compilation Videos(08:25) - I Wish You (Responsible) Emotional Freedom

Gender Fluidity in Sex Work Jun 04, 2024

It’s been a rich experience discovering more about gender fluidity for Eva Oh through her sex worker community and the many requests around it at the dungeon. But it’s a process still in progress, and on this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva attempts to break her experience down. Including some pointers on the challenging balance of our choices of gender presentation, profit and personal sanity.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Gender Fluidity within BDSM and Sex Work
(01:40) - Opening My Eyes at the Dungeon
(03:30) - Thoughts On Presenting in Sex Worker Branding
(06:30) - Gender Exploration within Session
(10:20) - Presenting, Profit and Personal Sanity

Boundaries in Sex Work May 28, 2024

Eva Oh has had a complicated and sometimes rough time in figuring out where her boundaries lie. From the mishap of falling in love with a client, to being asked about personal trauma during a session - it hasn’t been a straightforward path in her work as a Dominatrix. The process of establishing and defining healthy boundaries is an ongoing one for Eva, and maybe it doesn’t need to be so complex - but for her it is, and we hear all about it’s nuance in this episode of the #teakink Podcast.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
#teakink Episode, “Would A Sex Worker Date You?”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/would-a-sex-worker-date-you
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on My Boundaries
(01:05) - A Complicated and Ongoing Path
(03:30) - I Was Shocked Into Developing Professional Boundaries
(08:00) - Falling In Love, with Clients(!)
(09:50) - What Stability Has to Do With It
(11:15) - My Process
(11:39) - How Sex Work Informed My Personal Worth and Boundaries
(12:47) - It Can Get Complex/Complicated
(14:35) - Communicating Boundaries and Understanding

Long Distance BDSM Relationship Games May 21, 2024

From installing CCTV, to office lingerie tasks and Airbnb Hosting - Eva Oh shares ideas on the wide range of long distance relationship building activities that she has implemented over her years as a Dominatrix.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Long Distance BDSM Games
(00:40) - How I Discovered Long Distance
(02:00) - I Prefer - Service
(04:10) - “Traditional” Long Distance Games
(05:10) - How I Do Personal Long Distance
(06:11) - Sustainability for the Top
(07:15) - My OnlyFans Play
(08:06) - Personal vs Professional Pointers
(09:20) - Task Automation and Online Courses on youwillpleaseme.com
(11:11) - Tracking and Lifestyle Apps
(12:10) - CCTV and Phone Speakers, Consensually Please

The Difference Between Women, NB and Other Sex Work Clients? May 14, 2024

Is there a difference between women, non-binary and other clients? Do they apply for a session differently, have differing kinks or play styles? Eva Oh reveals how her bias is the key defining factor in her work with a wide range of individuals as a Dominatrix in this episode of the #teakink Podcast.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on the differences between Women, NB and Other Clients
(00:45) - The Evolution of My Understanding
(02:55) - My Bias
(04:20) - I Need to Expand My Sample Size
(05:50) - Application Quality
(06:05) - When You Are In My Hands
(08:13) - The Limitations of the Professional Session
(09:00) - The Differences in My Personal Interactions
(11:40) - My Ever Evolving Answer

Finding Mentorship and Training in Sex Work and Beyond May 07, 2024

Eva Oh dived head first into a BDSM dungeon with no kink or sex work experience - but she wouldn’t be where she is today if she hadn’t paid attention to the many kind (and not so kind) individuals along the way. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva introduces us to a few key people who have helped her develop her place in the industry, her opinion on Dominatrix Schools and Workshops and why she offers her Mentoring Calls and Training Sessions at this stage of her career.

Book a Mentoring Call or Training Session: https://eva-oh.com/training

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Mentorship
(01:18) - My Mentor Calls and Training Sessions
(02:30) - My Mentors
(07:20) - Elders in the Dominatrix Community
(09:05) - My Opinion on Dominatrix Schools and Workshops
(11:39) - Finding Mentors
(14:20) - Personal vs Professional Mentorship
(17:39) - Leatherfolk, Families and their Value
(21:40) - Booking a Mentoring Call or Training Session

Rivalry in the Sex Industry Apr 30, 2024

Eva Oh’s naivety shielded her from the initial realities of competition and sabotage in the sex industry, but she had to learn some hard lessons eventually. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva answers a question on how rivalry in the industry exists, revealing a slightly rough journey from competition within the brothel styled system of the Dungeon, to gossip over social media; and how she continues to navigate how to best align herself with those who share her values in the present day.

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Rivalry in the Sex Industry
(00:45) - How I See “Stolen” Clients
(02:00) - How I See “Competition”
(03:00) - The Influence of Sibling Rivalry
(04:50) - My Naivety
(05:00) - The Competitiveness of the Dungeon
(05:20) - Sabotage
(11:45) - Competition vs Camaraderie, and Social Media’s Role
(17:00) - Rivalry within Deeper Relationships
(18:40) - The Potential Intensity of Sex Worker Friendship
(20:03) - Aligning Your Values
(21:20) - Some People Adore Drama

Season 3 Mishaps, Season 4 Begins Apr 23, 2024

Welcome to Season 4 of the #teakink Podcast, where Eva Oh answers all the questions! Responding to your voice notes, Eva will lead us into insights on her work as a Dominatrix in the sex industry including episodes on rivalry, mentorship, boundaries, gender fluidity, the importance of play, and loneliness. She also reveals a few mishaps of the last season of the #teakink Podcast, including a slightly touchy update on slave m; and some plans for future seasons ahead.

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:18) - Season 3 Ends, Season 4 Begins

(00:58) - Highlights of Season 3

(01:30) - Season 4, Your Questions Shall be Answered

(02:15) - Mishaps

(02:40) - Changes with slave m

(03:58) - Thinking About Future Seasons, Interviews Maybe?

Eva Oh, The Educator? Mentor? Influencer? Apr 16, 2024

When Eva Oh inched her way onto social media, she didn’t quite imagine the titles that would soon be getting used on her. Not the titles that she was used to, of Dominatrix or Mistress, but Educator, Mentor and Influencer. In this episode of the #teakink Podast Eva walks us through her mild disgust with some of the terms, the gossip that she catches wind of about them, and a few theories as to why things are the way that they are. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Educator? Mentor? Influencer? (01:56) - Playing the Influencer Game, A Mild Disgust? (03:20) - My Mentoring Calls (06:00) - Not As Intimidating as I Look? (09:00) - Great Feedback from Isabella Sinclaire (10:30) - When Gatekeeping is Better or Worse? (11:15) - Desperation for Power Amongst Those Stripped of It (12:15) - Educational Courses? (14:40) - How I Became How I Am

Would a Sex Worker Date You? Apr 09, 2024

When people ask Eva Oh how her dates or partners “handle” her job and industry, it’s a frustrating time. Although she has come to understand the societal shortcomings that inspire this question, she has also learned of the incredible skills that sex work can offer the individuals who choose to work in it - and so perhaps the more important question is, ‘Would a Sex Worker Date You?’. Listen to this eye opening episode of the #teakink Podcast to find out. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Would a Sex Worker Date You? (01:00) - Unfortunate Case Studies (05:11) - Sex Work and Elevated Communication Skills (06:30) - Do You Deserve the Empathy? (08:55) - How Sex Work Has Changed Me (14:49) - Understanding Society’s Shortcomings (16:25) - A Better Case Study (18:00) - “I Never Thought I Could Have a Relationship Like This” (19:50) - How and Why Monogamy Was Constructed? (22:14) - Why I’ve Become So Picky, What I Deserve

The Ultimate Sex Party Episode Apr 02, 2024

What is a sex party? How do you find one? Do you have to have sex there? Eva Oh dishes out her international sex party experience in a #teakink episode with a lot of valuable information gathered through deep, hard and extensively serious research.

Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - The Ultimate Sex Party Episode
(01:09) - What is a Sex Party?
(03:00) - How Do You Find Out What Kind You’ll Liked?
(03:55) - My First “Sex” Party, Hellfire
(05:24) - I Discover Swingers Clubs
(06:30) - Consent
(07:30) - Safeguards
(09:15) - My Sex Party Evolution
(11:20) - Sex Clubs, Membership Spaces and Saunas
(12:15) - Sex Club Nights and Meet-ups
(14:00) - BDSM Clubs
(15:20) - Travel Weekenders and Conventions
(18:10) - The Orgy Dome at Burning Man
(18:30) - From Berlin to Bali, Sex Parties Worldwide
(20:40) - All Women Play Parties
(22:00) - I Probably Need a Second Episode on This, At Least!

Escorting Mar 26, 2024

Eva Oh dedicates a #teakink episode to her experience working as an Escort, Brothel and Massage Worker.

Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:

Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:18) - What is an Escort?

(00:50) - How I Became an Escort

(03:50) - My First Escort Photoshoot, in the middle of nowhere

(07:00) - A Bad Feeling

(08:00) - A Better Feeling

(09:15) - Job Satisfaction

(10:15) - These Ease of My First Booking

(11:00) - Escort Agency and Dungeon Loyalty

(12:20) - What the Job of Escorting Is - to me

(13:20) - Girl Friend Experience VS Porn Star Experience

(15:20) - Brothels

(18:50) - Massage Parlours

(20:20) - How I Structured My Work Life

(21:00) - My Physical Gratification

(21:50) - Missing the Workplace

Assisting a London Dominatrix Mar 19, 2024

A Dominatrix from London walks into the dungeon that Eva Oh is training at, and she chooses Eva to assist on an enlightening session. Eva sees things that take her years to understand. Quite the raucous episode of the #teakink Podcast. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Glorifying a Dominatrix from London (02:45) - She Chooses Me (05:10) - Entering Her Session, Two Slaves - Engorged… (08:40) - Is He Okay? (10:50) - It Took Me A Few Years to Get It! (12:40) - Still Learning, The Value of My Presence (15:10) - She Leaves. Everyone Complains in the Workplace. (17:30) - Time for a Raucous Session?

My Darling Laura Desiree Mar 12, 2024

Listen in on an intimate conversation between Eva Oh and her dear and accomplished friend Laura Desiree that spans erotic callings, orgasms, banned erotica, stigma, drive and their favourite philosophy podcasts. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - My Darling Laura Desiree (00:40) - Disrupting Laura’s Structure (02:04) - What Laura is Up To (02:50) - Laura’s Event, ‘Eros Unbound’ (05:40) - Our Orgasms (07:00) - Voice, Sound and the Erotic (08:15) - Laura’s Erotic Calling (10:00) - Porn vs the Personal (12:15) - More On Our Orgasms, ‘Under the Skin’ and Astral Projection (13:55) - Laura’s Banned Erotica (15:00) - The Shared Stigma, Sex Workers and Sex Educators (18:25) - What Motivates Laura’s Drive (21:00) - Sex Workers Becoming Activists and Educators (23:50) - Eva Oh vs an FBI Agent (24:40) - The Meaning of Podcasting and a Platform? (29:00) - Our Favourite Philosophy Podcasts (29:40) - Limitations Birthing Creativity and Laura’s Tragedy

The Berlin Travel Guide That I Owe You Mar 05, 2024

The Berlin Travel Guide that Eva Oh didn’t give you in Season 2 when she got sidetracked with a salacious story. But here it is! Club culture, sex clubs, sexuality learning spaces, kink festivals, bondage furniture makers, kink gear and fashion stores. Dig into Eva’s favourite places in Berlin, Germany - all from the comfort of her hotel bed after a successful weekend in Berlin herself. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Good Morning-ish from Berlin (00:59) - Why Do I Come to Berlin (04:00) - Club Culture, We Must of Course Talk about Berghain (09:00) - My First Berlin Sex Clubs and Playing with a Stranger (14:00) - Kit Kat Club, My Many Experiences There (19:55) - The German Fetish Ball (23:20) - Sexuality Learning Spaces, Karada House (24:30) - EURIX Rope Week (27:00) - Bondage Furniture Makers (28:40) - Kink Gear and Fashion Stores (31:00) - Playing with the Door Person at a Swingers Club

Aging and Dating, Becoming “Mommy” Feb 27, 2024

Nobody told Eva Oh that there would be an influx of younger folk interested in dating women much older than them. Eva is called “mature” by a date for the first time and “Mommy” by multiple admirers and it stirs thoughts on how she could best approach this surprise. A #teakink episode that makes obvious the difference between the conversations we have around older men dating younger women versus the far more swept under the rug world of the older dating woman.

Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - Being Called “Mature” on Dating Apps
(00:55) - What Do I Do?!
(01:12) - What I’m Looking For
(02:25) - Nobody Told Me That There’d Be All This Interest
(03:00) - “Cougars” and Their Fans
(04:45) - Cindy Gallop’s TED Talk
(06:25) - My Largest Age Gap
(07:00) - Do I Entertain It?
(07:30) - A Slave’s Age and Privilege Gap
(08.55) - My First Age Gap Date
(11:25) - How Desirability Evolves and What Sex Work Taught Me About It
(12:45) - The More Commonly Talked About “Silver Fox”
(14:10) - How I Might Embrace Being Called “Mommy”
(16:30) - Age and Height on Dating Apps
(18:00) - What is Appropriate? Give Me Dating Advice.
(20:14) - Becoming Mommy Part 2?

Motherhood and Kink? Feb 20, 2024

A bartender tells Eva Oh that she reminds him of his Mother, a Dominatrix. He shares more about what his childhood looked like with BDSM slaves around and Eva is inspired to imagine parenthood as a Dominatrix and Sex Worker. Her investigation finds her clients jumping at the chance to “provide” and proves to be a revealing exercise in societal stigma and suffering.

Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Dominatrix Walks into a Bar
(02:00) - The Bartender Notices Something Familiar
(02:55) - His Mother Is a Dominatrix
(06:00) - I Start to Think About Motherhood
(07:15) - Clients Jumping at the Chance
(08:30) - The Logistics
(11:00) - How Client-Slaves May Be Useful
(13:00) - Ideal Conditions?
(14:30) - Why I Decided Against It, Resources and Suffering
(17:30) - Fostering
(19:00) - A Revealing Exercise
(20:55) - Telling My Child About My Work
(21:30) - Sex Work, Kink and Parenthood
(22:50) - Tell Me About Kink and Parenthood Resources!

My Ultimate Fantasy Feb 13, 2024

What is Eva Oh’s ultimate fantasy? Find out in this deeply revealing episode. A fantasy born out of graphic novels, porn channels and a lifetime of stimuli - Eva invites us into her masturbatory mind in fascinating detail. Inside we find a dystopian landscape, a robotic facility and otherworldly plays on light, texture, movement and sound.

Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - My Only Fantasy
(01:00) - My First Wet Dream
(02:10) - Erotic-ish Graphic Novels
(03:00) - Motel Porn Channels
(04:00) - The Evolution, from Dreams to Hentai to…
(05:00) - Pay for Your Porn
(06:40) - What Might Tie Everything Together?
(07:00) - What is it?! Describing My Only Fantasy
(07:20) - A Political and Societal Framework
(08:30) - A Human-like Facility
(09:10) - My Infiltration
(10:55) - A Simulation
(13:30) - A Morphing Dress
(14:50) - The Initial Touch
(15:15) - The Room Changes, I “Throw” Us Into Another Scene
(15:55) - Auditory Hallucinations, Surrounding and Within
(17:10) - A Platform Appears in Crystal Dust
(19:00) - Merging with the Target, An Important Realisation
(20:30) - The Visceral
(21:30) - A Near Future
(23:00) - What Might All This Mean?
(27:00) - Zima Blue, Love Death and Robots
(29:00) - Parallels with My Reality?
(31:10) - How Could I Improve My Fantasy?

Season 3 Begins. My Voice Notes are Open! Feb 06, 2024

Eva Oh kicks off Season 3 on a reflective note, indulging us in how she’s found the podcast so far and what she’s found to be her biggest reward. Eva reveals more on how she creates each episode; and opens up her voice notes - for you to ask questions and share stories that she will respond to and create a whole #teakink season out of next! Leave a voice note here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - Season 3. How I’ve Found the Podcast So Far.
(01:00) - The Biggest Reward
(03:13) - What Season 3 Holds
(04:20) - How I Create the Episodes and Why
(07:14) - What Shall I Do with the Next Season?
(07:55) - My Voice Notes are OPEN, Contribute to the Next Season

How I Play, Season 2 Ends with Some Practical Tips! Jan 30, 2024

In the riveting season finale of #teakink, Eva Oh delves deep into her career as a Dominatrix, sharing her approach to play, scene negotiation, and offering invaluable advice for BDSM newcomers.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:24) How I Play as a Dominatrix
(03:57) Inside My Mind During a Scene
(05:12) How I Play Now
(06:12) The Role BDSM Tools and Toys Play
(07:49) How I Negotiate a Scene
(09:09) Becoming And Being My Plaything
(12:39) Familiarity and Comfort in My Relationships
(13:41) Presence, Speed, and Communication
(16:29) Is There an "Eva Oh" Domination Formula?
(17:45) Donning and Discarding Intensity
(20:30) Advice From Eva
(24:50) Vulnerability and Ending Season 2

Becoming an AI Companion: Part 2 with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher Jan 23, 2024

Award-winning Dominatrix Eva Oh meets with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher, to find out more about the potential of her AI Companionship and its overarching effect on our lives. Listen in on a conversation that explores the evolution of human interaction, parallels to the early internet and sex work, chatbot rights, the ‘Interaction Arms Race’ and Åste’s Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test. Eva asks, can designing her AI Companion be done ethically or does that even matter?

More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - Meeting Åste Amundsen, Interaction Researcher
(01:40) - How Åste Found Me
(02:40) - How Åste Thinks My Work Parallels to Hers
(06:40) - Why AI Companies Are Interested in Me
(07:30) - The Evolution of Human Interaction including Parasocial Relationship and How AI Could Manipulate Our Shortcomings
(10:30) - Åste's Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test Installation
(13:10) - Sex Workers as Interaction Experts
(15:00) - The Evolution of Human Dating and it’s Merging with Technology
(16:00) - Esther Perel’s Fears for AI Chatbots and Digital Interaction
(18:00) - How Could I Design an AI Companion Ethically?
(21:40) - Sex Work as Emotional Labour, Designing ‘Friction’ Into AI
(24:40) - Sex Work Hobbyists
(26:30) - Porn and Fantasy as a First Sexual Experience, AI Companionship as Similar?
(27:30) - My One Fantasy
(29:45) - Current Attempts at AI Companionship
(32:00) - The Relational Bonding and Interaction Arms Race
(33:00) - Chatbot Rights
(34:00) - Government
(34:30) - What Makes a “Good” Interaction?
(37:00) - What Sex Work Might Become
(37:40) - How Could We Value Ourselves
(41:25) - How These Developments Might Evolve Us
(42:40) - What Motivates Me to become an AI Companion
(43:55) - An Opportunity
(46:00) - Åste’s NSFW Chatbot Research
(48:00) - The Disturbing and The Violent
(50:00) - The Nether, A Play
(52:40) - Angela Carter, Benefiting From Our Sexual Capacity
(57:40) - The Transactional Nature of Interaction
(59:10) - Potential and the Parallels to the Early Internet

Links:
Åste Amundsen, http://asteamundsen.com

My #teakink Berlin Event, but mostly The First Time I Paid to Submit Jan 16, 2024

Eva Oh revisits Berlin and takes us into an industrial neighborhood where two Dominatrixes would unlock an otherworldly BDSM experience. Later in the episode, Eva reflects on how Berlin has impacted her personally and professionally. And perhaps most importantly, Eva wonders if her professional kink life feeds into her private kink life, and where those boundaries lay. All that and more on this episode of #teakink.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) Hello From Berlin
(02:07) My History With the City
(03:47) My Introduction to the World of Sex Clubs
(04:30) Studio Avalon
(05:58) The Dominatrix Who Caught My Eye
(07:21) I, A Woman, Arrive At The Dungeon
(08:33) The Dungeon Interior and I, an Open Minded Sub
(09:35) But Why is a Dominatrix Paying to Submit?
(10:25) The Scene Begins
(12:00) My First Exposure to Someone Else's Scent
(13:45) Introducing Another Mistress
(15:00) Pleasure and Screams
(17:00) The Scene Simmers Down
(19:20) Filet-o-Fish Sandwich With a Side of Berlin Memories
(20:50) Berlin Today
(22:50) A Personal Rendezvous With Myself

Inside Klub Verboten - The Most Wanted Kink Sex Party in the World [Video Special] Jan 08, 2024

In this very special video episode of #teakink, Eva Oh brings us into the inner workings of Klub Verboten, the most wanted kink sex party in the world that hosts over 3000 bodies a month in London and Berlin. At Klub Verboten you may see a leather clad human puppy being led around on a leash, or a couple in latex chatting by the bar, or a mass of a more-some gyrating on the dance floor. But how does this all emerge, and do so in a way that can inspire such freedom? It takes a lot thought, structure, dungeon furniture, campaigning against oppression and an ever growing team of very dedicated people. In this episode Eva Oh reveals why the party means so much more to her than ‘just’ sex and she chats with a board member and a safeguard from the team who make it all happen. A special video episode produced by Viscerals. Sound by Zak Nicholls. Music by Simao. More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) Welcome to Klub Verboten, the most wanted kink sex party in the world (01:43) What Happens Inside Klub Verboten (KV) (02:45) We Meet Ayo, A KV Safeguard (03:04) How to Get in to KV, and stay in (04:00) What are Safeguards (04:50) Safeguard Training and The Good Night Out Campaign (05:50) What Safeguards See and Do in the KV Playspace/Dungeon (07:40) How Ayo Became a Safeguard (09:00) the Team Behind KV (10:20) The Dress Code and Why it’s Important (12:10) Vanilla (Non-Kink/Queer) VS Kink Club Spaces (14:25) We Meet a Caged Gimp, a KV Board Member (15:50) Why the Gimp was Searching for a Space like KV (16:25) The KV Advisory Board (17:40) ‘Contemporary’ Kink Culture (18:45) What is Possible Inside KV (19:55) The Queer Kink Community (20:30) We Release the Gimp

Interview: My Main BDSM Slave, m Jan 02, 2024

Eva Oh interviews her main BDSM slave, m. This intimate conversation offers a unique look into the Dominatrix-submissive relationship, and the extraordinary dynamics that shape it. m sheds light on his journey from fear to complete surrender, candidly discussing his initial hesitance and intrigue, his struggle to let go, and the allure of Eva Oh’s dominating personality that finally led him to cherish the power exchange. Join us as we delve deeper into the dynamics of BDSM relationships, exploring intimacy, trust, and the profound fulfilment they can offer. More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet My Main Slave, m (00.35) - The Foot Cam (00.56) - How We Met (02:10) - Ruling m’s Thoughts (02:40) - Why m Was Interested in Me (03:55) - m ‘Letting Go’ (05:25) - m’s Second Thoughts (06.20) - My ’Strong Personality’ (07.20) - m’s Fears and Attempted Manipulations (08:10) - The Ruler will Rule (08:50) - Rejection, Acceptance and Trust (10.30) - Preconceptions Meeting Reality (11.40) - m’s Growing Relationship to Pain and Resilience (12.20) - Taking Lessons from BDSM into m’s Workplace (13.30) - Love and Lust (15.00) - m Learning Compassion (15:30) - Why m Has Learned So Much (16.30) - What Our Day to Day Looks Like (19.15) - Navigating Expectations (20.13) - Communicating Needs and Understanding Each Other (22.35) - Sexuality and Intimacy (27.00) - m’s Concept of BDSM before Meeting Me vs Now (29.55) - m’s Hopes for The Future (31.00) - m’s Question for Me, Why Do I Accept Him? (35.30) - The Importance of Hearing the Submissive Voice (39.00) - How Vanilla Relationships Fit, or Don’t

The Cucked Cuckolding the Cuck Dec 26, 2023

Eva Oh reflects on an intimate story concerning an ex-lover, a cousin, and a client who enjoys being a human ashtray and cuckold. She weaves a story of youth, anger, excitement, regret, and reconciliation, and reveals why she wants you, the listener, to have a transparent view into her life on #teakink.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) The Cuck, Lover, Cousin, and Client
(02:51) Reconnecting in Australia
(03:54) A Secret is Revealed
(05:55) More Details About The Secret
(06:39) A Dynamic Shift Happens
(08:20) The Ex-Lover Reappears After the Chaos
(09:23) "Only If You're Going To Be Useful"
(11:29) The Cuck
(12:49) A Human Ashtray
(14:02) The Ex-Lover Meets the Cuck
(15:50) A Look of Terror
(17:26) Looking Back, More Negotiation
(18:10) The Scene Wraps, We All Say Goodbye
(19:47) Regret
(21:11) Reconnecting With Exes
(23:13 ) Why Did I Make #teakink

How to Build My BDSM Dungeon Dec 19, 2023

Eva Oh breaks down the psychology that goes into designing BDSM dungeons. Why did she design her former dungeon in Bali to resemble an execution room, and why she is intrigued by last words, death, and performance? And for listers who are architects, see what Eva’s aspirations for her next dungeon are.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:53) Building My First-Ever Dungeon
(01:03) Death's Influence on Aesthetics
(02:35) One's Last Words
(04:17) Bringing My Execution Room to Life
(05:12) Inviting My Practice Into My Space
(06:36) Breaking Down the Experience In My Dungeon
(10:38) Total Ownership and Control
(12:36) Fantasy Aside, Realities Behind Creating a BDSM Space
(13:57) The Dungeon in Cologne
(14:34) My Future Dungeon and My Current Home
(18:15) From My Past Spaces To My Life Now
(21:05) Current Projects
(21:50) A Thank You to Mistress Danielle Blunt
(22:39) Final Thoughts on Death and The Execution Room

My Ticklish "Dentist" Dec 12, 2023

Eva Oh sets the record straight about a lie spread by a former client: a dentist with a tickle fetish, a penchant for luxury credit cards, a yellow sports car, and dubious musical talents? Eva also shares insights into the art of spanking and a surprising revelation about her feet.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) Welcome. What is #teakink
(01:48) From The Dungeon to the Penthouse
(04:51) The Tickling...and Everything Else, Begins
(07:06) Chit Chat: Inconsistencies Unfold
(08:53) Douchebag Black Cards and Yellow Sports Cars
(11:47) Advice for New Dommes
(12:00) What Was Real and What Was Artifice?
(14:25) Moving From Tickling to Spanking
(17:04) Protocol Behind Safe Spanking
(22:04) Pinching Nipples With My Toes
(23:02) You Don't Always Need a Suitcase of Tools

My #teakink Tokyo Event, Shibari Living Rooms and Other Finds Dec 05, 2023

Eva Oh Revisits an adventurous journey through Tokyo's kink scene, discovering the city's unique take on sex, modesty, and voyeurism. From erotic shower shows to theatrical shibari and BDSM hostess bars, uncover the hidden stories and personal anecdotes of Tokyo's sexual tapestry. By the end, you’ll have heard stories about Eva’s friendships, an tattoo’d submissive with an amusing relationship with pain, and what she plans to do next in Japan as a tourist.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:19) Revisiting Japanese Kink
(2:12) The Mystique of Soap Bars
(4:28) Shopping Kink Tools
(06:37) Eroticism and Camp Within Japan's Shibari Scene
(10:37) Sisters in Kink: Chiaki, Hinako, and Suzy Q
(15:55) Stepping into BDSM Hostess Bars
(18:51) Bodies, Pain, and Tattoos
(19:29) No Pain, No Pain, No Pain
(22:02) Ginger Cookies, Drinks, and Sushi in Rope Bars
(23:11) Japan Without Speaking Japanese
(24:26) Reflections
(27:28) Away From Kink, Onto Local Vanilla Preferences
(29:05) Repression and Conservatism
(30:06) What to do in Japan Next Time?

My Brush with Toxicity in Celebrity Relationships Nov 28, 2023

You’ve witnessed my dating successes, and now, I’ll dissect my former toxic relationship that was entrenched in the strange world of celebrity culture. It all starts in the dimly lit Thai restaurant located across my former apartment. Unbenounst to me, the minute I locked eyes with my date, the man, the enigma, who would trigger the emotional rollercoaster that ultimately became my life. Our relationship was defined by deception, gaslighting, and misogyny. This is the story about a relationship that chipped away at my confidence and trust, and how I overcame it.  
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:15) - My Worst Relationship? How We Met
(07:30) - Joining the Band on Tour, Sort of
(08:40) - I Move to London to be Together, He Reveals a Secret
(10:50) - I Find Out More Secrets
(12:15) - My First Experience with Gaslighting
(14:20) - I Stay, and Follow Him Around the World
(17:00) - Feeling Misunderstood
(18:00) - Why I Share This
(21:00) - How Meditation Played a Part
(22:30) - Understanding Celebrity Culture
(23:40) - A Revelation at the MTV Awards
(25:50) - His Accusations
(28:15) - More Red Flags
(29:00) - He Starts to Denounce My Work, after being supportive initially
(32:10) - Misogyny at Fuji Rock Festival, the Brit Awards...
(36:40) - Ed Sheeran Saving the Day?
(38:40) - How it Slowly and Painfully Ended

Dating as a Dominatrix: Power, Peril, and Passion Nov 21, 2023

Let's unpack the intricacies of dating as a Dominatrix! It’s been a ride filled with thrills, dangers, self-discovery, and power. I start with recollection about when my newfound dominance found an eager partner I wasn't quite ready for. That story leads into my debatable luck on dating sites before pre-dating apps existed, my discovering the swinger community, what it’s like developing crushes on clients, and ultimately, you’ll see how how my dating habits today are influenced by the hard lessons I learned on the way.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Separating the Work and Dating Headspaces (02:00) - The Early Days of Dating as a Dominatrix (04:45) - "Derrick", My First Attempt (06:55) - My First Mistake (10:00) - My Luck(?) on Dating Sites (12:40) - How I 'Explained' What I Did for Work (15:55) - Sex-Positive Dating Sites and Associated Adventures (22:25) - Loneliness (23:40) - Crushes on Clients (26:10) - My First Long-term Partner as a Dominatrix, it was bad (27:44) - What I Learned from the Bad Experience (28:00) - How I Date Now

Small P**** Humiliation, The Season 2 Kickoff! Nov 14, 2023

Can you recall the terrorizing thrill of a teacher reprimanding you in front of the whole class, the sensation of your heart pounding in your ears, your cheeks burning from embarrassment? Good. Now, imagine someone voluntarily seeking that thrill, craving it. This episode, I’ll explain how I incorporate humiliation in my practice as a Dominatrix, as I breakdown why humiliation is so popular amongst submissives, and the different ways people engage with that emotion. I’ll also provide insights from my unique approach to domination, and how I use humiliation to potentially shatter individuals' self-perceptions. Experience the unexpected as I share personal experiences, including instances where I humiliate clients about their small penises at dungeons and nude beaches. More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Welcome to My Sofa (01:00) - An Introduction to the Humiliation Kink (02:40) - Why is Humiliation So Popular, Societal Shame (05:40) - How to Use Humiliation, Taking Care (06:50) - My First Humiliation Session, Small Penis Humiliation (11:55) - Why is Small Penis Humiliation is Popular, Feelings of Inadequacy in the Pressures of Expectation in Society (15:45) - A Humiliation Session at the Nude Beach (21:45) - Why I Enjoy Humiliation, and How I Integrate It

Season 1 Recap: Why Did I Do This, Am I Crazy? Nov 07, 2023

The Season Finale! It’s been a raw ride of experiences, emotions, and lessons learned and I shared much more with you than I bargained for. Do I regret it? In this season finale I reminisce over what I’ve revealed - my turning into an AI, my sex party adventures, encounters with clients gone wrong and more… It’s been challenging but I hope my life's insights and my world have spoken to you, or at least inspired a little joy. Shall I do another season?

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:15) - How I Created the Podcast This Season

(01:30) - Which Episodes Were Tough!

(02:10) - What Did I Want From It?

(03:00) - Leaving a Rating Really Helps! Thank you

(03:15) - Why I Started This Podcast

(04:50) - What Surprised Me

(06:10) - Vulnerability and Community Support

(07:58) - A Fun Opportunity to Investigate My Own Mind

(09:40) - Major Motivations

(10:40) - A Reflection on the ‘Arsehole Tax’ Episode and Money

(13:15) - Getting to Share My History

(14:20) - How Should I Move Forward?

(15:30) - The Risks

(18:10) - Thank You for Listening. See You Next Season?

How I Get What I Want: Navigating Desire, Power and Contentment Oct 31, 2023

What if the key to attracting wealth, in all its forms, is contentment rather than raw manipulation? In this episode I open up on what I've learned about honesty, assertiveness, observation and communication - to get what I want.

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:15) - Mind Tricks

(01:15) - My Own Mind

(02:10) - Contentment as a Tool, Over Ourselves and Others?

(05:05) - My Values

(07:30) - How My Family Factors In

(09:20) - I Have What I Want

(10:15) - People Are Drawn In

(10:35) - How Being A Dominatrix Has Added To My Success

(11:32) - How My Skills (With Manipulation?) Could Be Problematic

(12:10) - Being Observant and Not Judging Too Soon

(13:00) - Breakdown of the Ego Can Lead to Generosity

(14:00) - Centring My Pleasure, with Less Attachment

(15:40) - Understanding What You Actually Want

(16:55) - Pandering to Ego as a Tactic?

(19:25) - Figuring Out How My Assertiveness Fits in the World

(21:15) - Bringing the Skills of the Dungeon into My Daily Life

(22:25) - A Recap

(24:35) - Choosing When to Use My Skills

(25:55) - A Reflection on the #teakink Podcast

Bali: Corruption, Sex Coaches and Cold Plunges Oct 24, 2023

Can moving to a tropical paradise truly transform your life? I found myself drawn to Bali after a period of burnout, yearning for a slower rhythm amidst nature. I would travel overseas to see my clients and communities once a month. But my idyllic existence quickly gave way to a harsher reality when borders shut for COVID, and I filled the gap by launching myself into the local expat community. Venture with me as I discover a realm of sex coaches and their tantric swinger nights, lost start up founders and their cold plunges and a healthy mass of the generally dysfunctional. I also land myself in the midst of corruption, theft and a growing awareness of the injustice that underpins the islands existence; and spoiler alert, I eventually leave to find a kink community that satisfies what I am looking for, for now…

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:15) - Why Bali?

(01:35) - My Jungle Home

(03:05) - Healing a Burnout

(04:00) - Naivety Against Corruption and Wealth Inequality

(05:50) - Moving to Canggu

(08:02) - The Exoticisation of the Other

(09:00) - Running Away

(10:15) - Misogyny and Safety

(11:05) - Corruption

(12:05) - Dysfunction

(14:20) - The Bali Kink Community

(16:25) - The London Kink Community

(17:05) - What is a Life Coach?

(17:50) - Sex Coaches

(18:50) - Tantric Temple Swinger Nights

(19:50) - Loneliness and Cold Plunges

(20:10) - Start-up Founders and Finding Themselves

(24:00) - Discovering What I Actually Needed

(28:00) - I Just Want to Fit In?

Coming Out to Mum: A Dominatrix's Double Life Oct 17, 2023

For years, I lived a double life. My conservative, Christian mother knew nothing of my profession as a Dominatrix until a revelation seven years in the making unfolded, with surprising results. In this candid, personal episode, I share about the fear, the tension, and ultimately the liberation that came with breaking my silence. I explore the delicate dance of withholding the truth, the strain it put on my relationship with my mother, and the unexpected acceptance that emerged. Disclaimer: Some long pauses towards the end due to tears :)

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Coming Out to Mum About Being a Dominatrix (01:35) - Bible Study, Christianity, Conservatism (03:55) - Hiding My Job and What it Did to Our Relationship (04:40) - Why Did I Tell Her After 7 Years? (05:30) - Sex Worker Friendly Therapy (07:15) - Planning the Coming Out (08:30) - Executing the Plan, Not As Expected (10:04) - Mum’s Questions About the Job (12:15) - My Answers (16:16) - My Mother’s Insight, Humour and Compassion (20:15) - How The Coming Out Settled

Society is Ashamed: At the Dinner Party Oct 10, 2023

Ever wondered how people respond to a woman who chooses an unconventional path for her livelihood? I once met a man so profoundly disturbed by my line of work, he became aggressive and then splurged on two million dollars worth of watches to soothe himself. What does it mean to face aggression and intimidation, not as a result of any personal wrong-doing, but merely from the threat your profession poses to societal norms? On this episode of the #teakink Podcast we explore the array of reactions I’ve received as a Dominatrix. We discuss how these responses are shaped by societal expectations and how I’ve learned to navigate them. This conversation serves as a deep reminder of how society struggles with open discussions around sexuality and the unique strength it takes to be a woman who doesn't back down in the face of such intimidation.

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:15) - Meeting Men Who React Poorly to Assertive Women
(02:50) - Common Ways They React
(03:30) - Why It is Unsettling for Them
(05:00) - Two Million Dollars Worth of Ego Soothing
(06:15) - Managing Society’s Sexual Hangups
(07:45) - The First Time I Came Out at a Dinner Party
(10:35) - Friends’ Reactions
(12:15) - How I Handle Reactions, Then and Now
(12:55) - The Job as a Filter
(13:45) - From Disapproval to Understanding
(15:35) - Women’s Reactions and Anger
(17:10) - Society’s Suffering and Their Resulting Projections on my Job
(21:45) - Puritanical Values That Go Unquestioned
(24:20) - You Are Not Free. That is The Problem
(25:25) - Meaning and Purpose

TV Contracts and Influencer Marketing: Am I a Sell Out? Oct 03, 2023

I, Eva Oh, have found myself at a crossroads - TV show proposals, brand collaborations, and even the prospect of becoming an AI companion have me reflecting on the trajectory of my unconventional career. On this episode I delve deep into the pros and cons; and why now, more than ever, there's a sudden interest in stories like mine. My choices today will reshape the narrative of my life tomorrow, and that's a responsibility I do not take lightly. So, come along as I contemplate the chaos and ponder over whether it's the right time for me - a Dominatrix - to step into the mainstream.

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:15) - TV Producers, Talent Managers and Agents Approaching

(01:40) - Why Would a Sex Worker Say Yes?

(02:20) - What Disgusts Me About the Idea

(03:50) - My Words and Voice

(05:05) - What I Enjoy About Interviews

(06:30) - Why the Media are Interested in Representing Sex Workers Now

(08:20) - How Should I Join the Narrative?

(08:44) - From Dominatrix to Executive Producer

(10:30) - Sex Workers Mistrust of the Media

(11:10) - Seeing it as an Opportunity

(11:55) - TV Hesitation vs AI Enthusiasm

(12:30) - The Chaos of Sex Worker Meets Influencer Culture

(14:25) - How Meditation Plays it's Part

(15:25) - Embracing the Chaos

(16:30) - Am I a Sell Out?

(18:10) - Community and Personal Gain

(18:55) - The Case for RuPaul’s Drag Race

(22:55) - Am I Going to Regret This?

(24:00) - Self-compassion

The Pits of Working and Playing with Couples Sep 26, 2023

I’ve had some trouble working and playing with couples since I first started working as a Dominatrix in 2011. In this episode, hear the story of Fisting Bob, a regular at the dungeon I used to work in, and the strange turns our professional relationship took when I started getting letters from his wife. Follow me into the Piss Pit at Berghain with two dear friends of mine who may have rescued my faith in playing with couples. Find out more about the exploration of our desires and how the BDSM community can give space to the negotiation that can facilitate their satiation. Watch me rethink my past and maybe reframe the opinion that started this episode in the first place.

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:15) - What is a Relationship Unicorn?

(00:52) - Meet Fisting Bob

(07:06) - A Bad Decision?

(15:13) - Exploring Desires and Negotiating Boundaries

(16:59) - The Piss Pit at Berghain

(24:00) - Reflections on Reacting and Seeking Reassurance

(27:21) - Changing My Perception on Being a Unicorn

Ars*hole Tax: How I Set My Rates Sep 19, 2023

Curious about the intriguing world of a Dominatrix and it's relationship to money? Listen in as I discuss the evolution of my rates, the rationale behind the changes, and the crucial balance between wealth accumulation and personal values. I also share the peaks and troughs of my career, including dealing with overwork and burnout, and how and why I pivoted to provide my clients rich, relationship-driven experiences. We will navigate the potential relationship between money and isolation, and how wealth can sometimes create a divide from reality. I also shed light on the importance of wealth redistribution, especially when it's in the hands of women. Let's redefine the power dynamics of wealth together.

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:15) - I Like Taking Money From Rich Men

(01:01) - Should Anyone Be This Rich?

(01:30) - The Evolution of My Rates

(04:30) - Burnout as a Catalyst

(07:00) - Wealth and Fairness

(08:50) - Valuing Ourselves

(10:55) - The Sexism in Money, The Caring Industries

(12:15) - Ar*sehole Tax

(15:20) - What is Money?

(16:20) - My Relationship to Work, Money and Self-Care

(19:55) - Reprogramming my Wealthy Clients

(25:13) - Freedom, Wealth Redistribution, and Women's Impact

LINKS:

Financial Literacy, https://www.investopedia.com/guide-to-financial-literacy-4800530

UN Women, Economic Impact - https://www.unwomen.org/en/what-we-do/economic-empowerment/facts-and-figures

TED Talk - How Economic Inequality Harms Societies, https://www.ted.com/talks/richard_wilkinson_how_economic_inequality_harms_societies?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare

TED Talk - Universal Basic Income, https://www.ted.com/talks/steven_shafarman_the_case_for_universal_basic_income?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare

Sex Work is Damn Hard Work Sep 12, 2023

Curious about how a Dominatrix runs her business? Join me on a revealing journey into the sex work industry. As a Dominatrix since 2011, I'll uncover the complexities, from bookings to emotional labor. This episode goes beyond sessions, touching on banking challenges, service gaps, and the role of sex worker organizations. Discover the resilience that drives us forward. Despite hurdles, I'll explain why this profession brings me a unique gratification.

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - The Scope of My Job (01:45) - The Interest in Sex Work (02:40) - The Intricacies and Evolution of My Work Responsibilities (04:50) - What a Receptionist Shielded Me From (09:30) - Why I Do Sex Work Despite the Challenges (11:05) - Dungeon vs Indie (11:50) - Navigating Societal Stigma (12:30) - Marketing and Perceiving Yourself (14:00) - Navigating Space and Community Challenges (15:55) - Interpersonal Session Skills (17:00) - Feeling Safe in My Workplace vs In Public, Workplace Wins (20:05) - Financial Exclusion and Structural Violence in Banking for Sex Workers (25:45) - The Power of Resilience, Community and You (27:43) - My Internship at a Sex Work Organisation (28:30) - Learning About the Backpage Shutdown Impact on Sex Workers (30:00) - The Data for Decriminalisation by Amnesty International vs Puritanism (31:17) - Why I Love My Job LINKS: Amnesty International publishes policy and research on protection of sex workers’ rights, https://www.amnesty.org/en/latest/news/2016/05/amnesty-international-publishes-policy-and-research-on-protection-of-sex-workers-rights/ Human Rights Watch, Why Sex Work Should Be Decriminalized, https://www.hrw.org/news/2019/08/07/why-sex-work-should-be-decriminalized ‘Global Network of Sex Work Projects’, https://www.nswp.org

I Love Men Crying: Sports and the Dungeon, the Intersection Sep 05, 2023

Ready to challenge perceptions of men, emotions, and sports? Join me in exploring the intriguing links between the fervor of a pub during a match and the emotional liberation I witness in my work as a Dominatrix. This episode uncovers the beauty of unfiltered emotions, the spaces that allow them, and the power they hold. We'll delve into the story of my first profoundly moving session — a testament to human vulnerability. We’ll journey through sports tribalism, my admiration for teams like Manchester City, and the importance of allowing ourselves to express our emotions. Let’s unravel the complexity of men's emotions, the societal pressure they face, and the courage it takes to allow oneself to truly feel.

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:

Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:15) - My Discovery. Men Crying at the Pub.

(06:30) - Tribalism

(07:55) - Manchester City

(08:45) - Parallels to the Freedom of Emotion in My Work

(12:32) - The First Time a Man Cried for Me

(16:00) - What Does Everyone Want?

(17:15) - What is Sexuality?

(19:40) - How Will Emotion be Integrated in a Tech-driven World?

(22:45) - My Emotional Sadism

(25:15) - My Masochism and Meditation

(26:20) - Freedom

(31:15) - Everyone’s Problem

Becoming an AI Companion: The First Episode of a Series? Aug 29, 2023

What happens when a seasoned Dominatrix steps into the world of AI companionship? Brace yourself as I, Eva Oh, navigate the murky waters of digital domination. We will delve into the technologies behind creating AI companions. From collecting OnlyFans chats to photos and audio samples, companies are asking to gather myriad inputs to create a digital doppelgänger of me. However, how does this sync with my stand on image ownership and personal attachment? Exhilarating and unnerving, join me as I recount my unique experience with a tech billionaire-owned company in Singapore, muse over possible government regulation, and contemplate the future of synthetic relationships. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Should I Become an AI Companion? (03:53) - AI Companies Approaching (08:03) - Chinese Tech Billionaires, Will I Win? (11:34) - Exploring AI Avatars and Personal Attachment (15:20) - Why am I Considering This? Why Do I Do Anything? (15:59) - Engaging with Our Own Humanity Through AI Companionship (18:04) - Challenging Societal Norms (19:27) - Using Our Rights (21:39) - Why Work At All? (21:58) - Centre of Humane Technology, Lawyers, Information and Risk (23:37) - Risk, Thrill Values as Motivators? (26:23) - Journaling LINKS: 'Your Undivided Attention' Podcast, https://www.humanetech.com/podcast Center for Humane Technology, https://www.humanetech.com/

My Origin Story: From Corporate Slave to Dominatrix Aug 22, 2023

Ever wondered about breaking free from those conforming roles we play? I'm Eva Oh, and I'll take you on my unconventional journey into the world of the Dominatrix. It started with a joke from my ex about my assertiveness. Little did I know this would lead me to becoming one. Brace yourself as I guide you through uncharted territory, on how I quit the corporate world, to sharing my first day on the job as a Dominatrix, and recounting my exhilarating first session. I reflect on society's view of sex work too. This episode is just the start of a series where I share experiences, insights, and lessons I've learned. Come along for the ride!

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:

Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:15) - Becoming a Dominatrix

(01:39) - Women's Assertiveness and Societal Perceptions

(04:51) - From Strategic Consultant to Dominatrix

(08:51) - First Day as Mistress, New Experiences

(15:06) - A Special First Shadowing Experience

(21:10) - Exploring BDSM and Personal Enjoyment

(27:56) - Work Dungeon to Personal Business Transition

(33:40) - The Power of Non-Judgmental Intimacy