Tea with Queen and J.

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#274 Dave Bokeem Woodbine Chappelle Dec 11, 2020

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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… We don’t believe in humble, but Dave Chappelle is getting on our nerves! Then Blackness, regular Black, Foundational Black, ADOS, Barack, Kamala, and all that in a big conflated nuance lacking sandwich of ‘What does the Black diaspora mean today?’. This week’s hotlist - Birthday affirmations work! Therapy, plants and feel good music, Dave Chappelle’s branding as “epic”, Black mediocrity goals and Kevin Hart. Diaspora wars, ADOS, FBA, the rules of Black ethnicity, race, culture, some chattel slavery facts, intersections of privilege, and all kinds of Black and nuanced sh*t bc the Black experience is NUANCED and that’s powerful! THIS WEEKS SPONSOR 635 Community Health Collective’s Trauma Sensitive Yoga (TS Yoga) 635communityhealthcollective.com/ Or email them at 635communityhealthcollective@gmail.com EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations 7:16 Donation libations 20:04 Affirmations 23:40 Dave Chappelle’s “epic” branding 25:47 Kevin Hart 43:35 Black in the White House 53:49 T*riq N*sheed 1:02:47 “Foundational Black Americans” & ADOS 1:07:08 “Regular Black” 1:14:27 It’s Comma-lah 1:20:14 Chattel slavery sh*t & the no culture myth 1:21:31 Barack & Kamala & privilege 1:32:23 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 How to continue support for the End SARS movement in Nigeria https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/ Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 NOTES AND EXTRA TEA Follow Jimir Recce Davis- filmmaker and music producer on Twitter twitter.com/loneamorphus and Instagram instagram.com/theofficialamorphous This week’s hashtag: #AllBlackLivesMatter This week’s closing clip features Kimberly Foster FOunder of For Harriet: https://www.instagram.com/p/CIGY5HgFcUE/?igshid=sg3aetyrtqeu This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Opening song by Ohene Cornelius Get Out by Jahzzar LICENSE LINK: https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0/ https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0/legalcode

#273 The Janet Hubert Mixtapes Nov 26, 2020

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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… is Will Smith a whole cry baby? We dissect that warm and fuzzy Fresh Prince Of Bel-Air reunion, but also... is he a whole cry baby? Then, the worst voice over you heard in your entire life, and what YOU can do about the Georgia Senate runoffs This week’s hotlist - Half & Half is a comfort jam, quality colorism convos, Janet Hubert sitcom ether, Red Table Talk, male fragility too fragility, support Indiginous women whicho coins, why we still have this election on the brain, audio black-face, how to be a co-conspirator to marginalized demographics in your industry and mad other ish... EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 2:41 Donation libations: 9:06 Affirmations: 13:04 The Fresh Prince & Janet Hubert: 16:06 Pay Black Women: 50:48 What We Doin About Georgia:55:54 The Pit:1:04:50 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 How to continue support for the End SARS movement in Nigeria https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/ Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 PAY BLACK WOMEN Learn more about Native Women’s Wilderness: https://www.nativewomenswilderness.org/donate NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS Georgia Senate Runoffs: How to Help, Donate, and Vote: https://www.elle.com/culture/career-politics/a34692385/georgia-senate-runoff-elections-donate-volunteer-vote/ NOTES AND EXTRA TEA Listen to J.’s conversation with Diamond Stylz on Marsha’s Plate podcast episode #161 Hooking The Ups: https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc/161-hooking-the-ups-feat-j Learn more about Dr. Regina Bradley’s work: http://www.redclayscholar.com Follow Dr. Bradley on twitter @redclayscholar Read Dr. Regina Bradly’s article Da Art of Speculatin’: https://firesidefiction.com/da-art-of-speculatin This week’s hashtag: #ChroniclingStankonia This week’s closing clip features all of us mad at all of you try new sh!t on the holiday ass nakers: https://twitter.com/Miami_Babbyyy/status/1066043975713386496 This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Opening song by Ohene Cornelius

#272 The Forty Year Old Version Nov 19, 2020

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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Grown ass women on film, our homegirl Lacresha Berry joins us as we review the Netflix film 40 year old version, talk about the politics of being grown with no kids (there are politics, we promise!) Black New York, sex and mad other sh!t. This week’s hotlist - Afro’s and Audio festival was lit. That 30 for 30 list is complete trash. Big Toni Morrison energy, Posse scholarships, struggle porn, Charm City Kings and Black New York in black and white. From hiphop to headwraps, and everything in between. Creative gatekeepers, the MTA, teenagers shooting their shot, and much much more... SPONSOR Good Neighbor www.goodneighbor.care 855-355-7001 EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 5:06 Donation libations: 8:52 Affirmations: 11:05 The Forty Year Old Version: 15:16 Sh!t we liked 20:40 Sh!t we thought was meh 45:07 Is 30 under 30 toxic? 58:52 Dealing with parents & mortality 1:07:44 Happily single and childless but then… 1:13:44 Dating 1:23:30 Toxic white rooms 1:25:51 Black Trauma Porn & media 1:37:08 Grown and trying new sh!t 1:44:28 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! Link up with Berry on the socials and check out her website: Website http://www.berryandconyc.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lacresha.berry/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHSoE0E0fgskUIJiU-QBr-g Twitter: https://twitter.com/berryandcompany Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/berryandco/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@berryandco?lang=en OUR WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 How to continue support for the #EndSARS movement in Nigeria https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/ Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 NOTES & EXTRA TEA Follow Afros and Audio on instagram https://www.instagram.com/afrosandaudio/ Listen to Radha Blank explain why she decided on a black and white movie on Raging Gracefully podcast. Convo begins at the 22:25 mark: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/raging-gracefully-presents-conversation-radha-blank/id1416778670?i=1000495851044 This week’s hashtag: #40YearOldVersion #FYOV #FortyYearOldVersion This week’s closing clip features Rahda Blank's rapping debut in The 40 Year Old Version https://www.netflix.com/title/80231356 This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Opening song by Ohene Cornelius Segment music by Chad Milner

#271 Abolish The Black Joy Police Nov 10, 2020

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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Joe Biden was voted president but more importantly Tr*mp and his stank booty were fired. We talk about what that even means in a white supremacist capitalistic patriarchal society, Black joy at a time like this and mad other sh!t. This week’s hotlist - The election is over and Joe Biden and Kamala Harris are bouta get this work! Have you been outside tho? Hiking? Botanical Gardens? Go and get your nature on. How are we in a whole pandemic and white co-workers are still showing their ass? HOW! Don’t worry, we got something for that too. Afros & Audio Virtual Podcast Festival tickets & information: https://linktr.ee/afrosandaudio Receive 25% off of your virtual ticket using code: afautqj20 SPONSOR Good Neighbor www.goodneighbor.care 855-355-7001 EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations 4:18 Donation libations 16:55 Affirmations 18:48 Election Done! Now what? 21:29 My boss is yt and wilding 1:05:30 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 How to continue support for the #EndSARS movement in Nigeria https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/ Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 Watch Queen in conversation with Carlos Kareem Windham on Smoke & Mirrors: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a2-LtjZXVo8&feature=youtu.be Our 2016 Post election episode #79 Bigotry Didn't Start Last Tuesday: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/79-bigotry-didnt-start-last-tuesday This week’s hashtag: #FuckDonaldTr*mp This week’s closing clip features FDT by YG & Nipsy Hussle https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkZ5e94QnWk This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Opening song by Ohene Cornelius Segment music by Chad Milner

#270 Black Capitalism Nov 04, 2020

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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode…Has the apocalypse begun?.... Maybe. We get into voter suppression at the polls, how to stop a whole ass governmental coup, and a window into that segment of wealthy Black folks that vote that pockets over their people This week’s hotlist - Black girls in costume, managing election season depression, stress and anxiety, how voter suppression is upsetting me and my home girl, do you have a go-bag packed? Paul Rudd, and his cookies, Channing Crowder, Brandon Marshall and why Individualism isn’t Black for people. Football and capitalism, America’s favorite things, wealth and morality and mad other ish... Afros & Audio Virtual Podcast Festival tickets & information: https://linktr.ee/afrosandaudio Receive 25% off of your virtual ticket using code: afautqj20 SPONSOR Good Neighbor www.goodneighbor.care 855-355-7001 EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations 4:56 Donation libations 16:37 Affirmations 20:26 Voter Suppression on a Tuesday 23:13 How to survive a whole coup 44:37 Pay Black Women 1:14:32 The Pit/Black Capitalism 1:24:13 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 How to continue support for the End SARS movement in Nigeria https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/ Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 PAY BLACK WOMEN Help Petty get back on her feet by donating to her Venmo: @PettyButter or Cashapp: $PettyButter NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS 10 things you need to Know to stop a Coup https://www.resilience.org/stories/2020-10-16/10-things-you-need-to-know-to-stop-a-coup/ NOTES AND EXTRA TEA Check out Sam’s cosplay on her Instagram: Instagram.com/slamridd Check out Sam’s Black humor on The Pulse Podcast https://whyy.org/segments/nothings-wrong-if-its-funny-black-comedy-taps-a-longstanding-coping-tool/ I Am Athlete https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QvairbgzBIY&feature=youtu.be This week’s hashtag: #Eattherich This week’s closing clip features Instagram comedian Elsa Majimbo https://www.instagram.com/p/CG2yoJtjShg/?igshid=he14ceoe2vr3 This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Opening song by Ohene Cornelius Segment music by Chad Milner

#269 Get Yo' Purse and Dip Oct 27, 2020

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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode…We been in covid-19 quarantino for 8 whole months! How are we doing and how are ya’ll doing? Then what do you do when your job wants to be cheap about racial bias training? And... is privilege fvcking up your friendships? This week’s hotlist - wellness checkin for that ass, being enough, carefree quarantine binge tv, anti-racist work at work, are your white friends, your straight friends, your cis friends good friends?... and mad other ish Afros & Audio Virtual Podcast Festival tickets & information: https://linktr.ee/afrosandaudio Receive 25% off of your virtual ticket using code: afautqj20 SPONSOR Good Neighbor www.goodneighbor.care 855-355-7001 EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations 3:50 Donation Libations 9:10 Affirmations 12:03 Mid Rona wellness check 14:04 So you wanna talk about race at work? 57:10:04 Is your problematic privileged friend still your friend? 1:15:47 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 NOTES AND EXTRA TEA Our thoughts on Beyoncé’s Brown Skin Girl video & audio work revisited: #267 Blood Money - convo starts 48:00 https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/267-blood-money Original dialogue on Brown Skin Girl #215 Brown Skin Girl - convo starts 34:00: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/215-brown-skin-girl This week’s hashtag: #OverDatRona This week’s closing clip features Lizzo in conversation with David Letterman: https://twitter.com/_alexismarie24/status/1319028144053972992 This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Music Opening song by Ohene Cornelius Segment music by Chad Milner

#268 Negritas Del Bronx Oct 21, 2020

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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode…‘Sis - auntie - girl - mama - We get into the politics of Black labels and who can call who what. Then, the Black celebrities trying to sabotage the election, and ‘tu siempre negrita del Bronx’ reminds us that Black girl erasure is the same in English and Spanish. This week’s hotlist - Let’s have waffles! Small purchases for self-care (you deserve!). “Auntie” and centering women over 40 (it’s not as bad as it sounds, we promise). #EndSARS cuz police violence happens throughout the diaspora. Ice Cube, T.I., Kanye might be the feds. Black women erasure by way of J.Lo…again and mad other ish SPONSOR Love. Lavender. Shea. Organics www.Lovelavendershea.com EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations 2:53 Donation Libations 9:23 Affirmations 11:50 “Auntie” and other labels good & meh 14:13 News That’s Not News #EndSARS #EndSWAT 55:20 Pay Black Women 1:06:04 The Pit 1:10:53 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 PAY BLACK WOMEN Support Tiffany for her move to Chicago by donating to her cashapp cash.app/$pickinmyfro NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS: Nigeria: Crackdown Police Brutality Protest https://www.hrw.org/news/2020/10/16/nigeria-crackdown-police-brutality-protests# End Swat: Nigerians reject police unit replacing hated Sars https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-54531449 NOTES AND EXTRA TEA To “auntie” or not to “auntie” in previous episodes #211 Hey Auntie - convo starts 37:46 https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/211-hey-auntie #212 Four Page Letter - convo starts 26:32 https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/212-four-page-letter This week’s hashtag: #EndSARS #EndSWAT This week’s closing clip features Reecie Colbert (@Blackwomenviews) breaking down why the Platinum Plan isn’t shit https://twitter.com/blackwomenviews/status/1316485328040009729?s=20 This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis and edited by a Samantha Riddell Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Music Opening song by Ohene Cornelius

#267 Blood Money Oct 15, 2020

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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode…white people call each other out and it don’t have sh*t to do with us, you love to see it! Also the impact of messaging in audio vs visual media, colorism as a global phenomenon, working while Black AND FREE! (can you do both?) And checking your straight privilege while dating. This week’s hotlist - Go to the doctor yo. Saturday Night Live isn’t our Jam, but Bill Burr made us laugh. White women’s accountability for their role in white supremacy. Y’all watching Real Housewives of Potomac? Revisiting Brown Skin Girl and Beyoncé’s video vs audio representation. Workplace advice in a free Black context (that’s what we be doing). Rethinking ‘I May Destroy You’, nuances and privilege in dating, is it deceitful not to disclose sexuality if you’re trying to avoid bigotry? aaaand mad other ish... SPONSOR Love. Lavender. Shea. Organics www.Lovelavendershea.com Receive 10% off your purchase using code “TEA” now through October 19, 2020 Register for Afrolatinx Reggaeton Virtual Happy Hour https://www.eventbrite.com/e/afrolatinx-reggaeton-happy-hour-tickets-123952857333 EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations 3:27 Donation libations 15:57 Affirmations 20:13 SNL Bill Burr 22:00 Brown Skin Girl Revisited 48:04 Black and free at work 1:06:46 Sexuality, disclosure & privilege 1:15:15 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 NOTES AND EXTRA TEA Bill Burr SNL Clip https://twitter.com/etanthomas36/status/1315264855331528706?s=21 EP. 215 “Brown Skin Girl” - conversation starts at 34:04 - 58:00 https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/215-brown-skin-girl EP. 256 “You About to Lose Yo Job” https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/256-you-about-to-lose-yo-job EP. 265 “I May Destroy You” https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/265-i-may-destroy-you This week’s hashtag: #BlackLivesMatter This week’s closing clip features Monica Roberts from her interview with Diamond Stylz of Marsha’s Plate podcast. May Monica Roberts rest peacefully. https://www.instagram.com/tv/CGIGsfLg_i5/?igshid=1gidlmbqflt5p This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Music Opening song by Ohene Cornelius Other music by Chad Milner Tree Tenants by Revolution Void https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/ https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/legalcode

#266 Is It Even White Supremacy? Oct 07, 2020

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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode…Should we still use the term white supremacy or is it overdone, over used, and affirming all the wrong things? Also, what we’re watching, including Black queer narratives in our collective Black history, and catering to white fragility on the timeline This week’s hotlist - Sex, cuddles and healing. Routines, rituals and time for activities. Going braless and wearing comfort lingerie and dassit! Cheryl Dunye, The Watermelon Woman and queer Black narratives. Vampires vs. the Bronx, BX STAND UP!! Coddling white folks, ain’t nobody got time for that. Black spirituality for freedom. Getting ahead of voter suppression, racism in Canada EH! and mad other ish... TICKETS TO DRUNK BLACK HISTORY https://linktr.ee/drunkblackhistory SPONSOR Love. Lavender. Shea. Organics www.Lovelavendershea.com Receive 10% off your purchase using code “TEA” now through October 19, 2020 EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations 6:09 Donation libations 21:31 Affirmations 23:22 White Supremacy vs White Narcissism 28:05 What We’re Watching 1:08:30 News That’s Not News 1:25:53 Pay Black Women 1:36:15 The Pit 1:41:29 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 PAY BLACK WOMEN: Donate to M., to aid her during her life transition https://cash.app/$JustTheLetterM NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS LINKS Vote.org - provides the following information: Registration status, Voter Registration, Sign up for election reminders, Polling place locator, Request an absentee ballot so you can vote by mail, Early voting calendar Organizations dedicated to reducing voter suppression in the USA: The League of Women Voters: LWV.org The American Civil Liberties Union: ACLU.org Election Protection: 866OurVote.org Fair Fight: FairFight.com The Asian Americans Advancing Justice: AdvancingJustice-alc.org Black Voters Matter Fund: BlackVotersMatterFund.org Voto Latino: VotoLatino.org NOTES AND EXTRA TEA Listen to episode #265 “I May Destroy You” review: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/265-i-may-destroy-you Check out Ev’Yan Whitney’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney/ This week’s hashtag: #JusticeForJoyce This week’s closing clip features Pat Parker (1978) from her poem “For the Straight Folks Who Don't Mind Gays But Wish They Weren't So Blatant” https://twitter.com/soafricane/status/1308459937916481544?s=11 This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima & Janicia with editorial support from Sam Riddell Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

#265 I May Destroy You Sep 29, 2020

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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… We’re reviewing the HBO series “I May Destroy You”. This is a spoiler full episode so if you care about spoilers, go watch the series and come back to us! Content warning, this series explores themes of rape and sexual assault and we will be discussing those themes of rape and sexual assault and at times our own experiences with rape and sexual assault. Our mental health counselor homie Akua of Inner Hoe Uprising podcast joins for added support, but if you feel like this episode is not for you, we get it. We start the show with our usual banter, so if you wanna tap in for that and then turn it off, we get that too. This week’s hotlist - Birthday joy, roller skate bling bling, virtual auntie time with Patti Labelle and Gladys Knight. Micheala Cole is a bad bitch genius. TICKETS TO DRUNK BLACK HISTORY https://linktr.ee/drunkblackhistory SPONSOR Love. Lavender. Shea. Organics www.Lovelavendershea.com Receive 10% off your purchase using code “TEA” now through October 19, 2020 Check out cbd teas at www.teasbyg.com EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations 3:53 Donation libations 13:21 Affirmations 15:34 I May Destroy You 18:56 What we liked 22:33 Stuff we didn’t love 30:20 Exploring consent 39:48 Friendship 52:25 Accountability 1:05:45 Social media 1:17:25 Sexuality 1:33:02 Romantic relationships 1:47:04 Triggers 1:52:48 Final thoughts & self care 2:04:50 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com WHERE TO CATCH UP WITH OUR GUEST AKUA! Akua’s podcast: https://innerhoeuprising.com Podcast Social Media: Twitter-https://twitter.com/InnerHoeUprisin Instagram-https://instagram.com/innerhoeuprising Akua’s Personal Social Media: Twitter: https://twitter.com/heyyakuagirl Instagram: https://instagram.com/heyyakuagirl DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 This week's hashtag #metoo This week’s closing clip features Micheal Cole’s monologue from episode 8 of I May Destroy you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EreKhzIKF_A This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima & Janicia Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.com

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