Talking Kinky - The Kink Chronicles

Kinky UK Cities & An Obsession with BDSM - S7 : E7 Mar 02, 2025

Which UK city is the kinkiest?

In this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle dive into some eye-opening data on kink searches across the UK, uncovering which cities have the biggest appetites for kink and why the obsession with BDSM, fetish play, and all things deliciously deviant.

From the unexpected BDSM capitals to regional obsessions with niche kinks, they break down the numbers, explore what drives these interests, and discuss how culture, history, and access to sex-positive spaces shape the UK’s kink scene.

Is your city topping the charts? Tune in to find out where the UK’s most adventurous lovers reside—and what they’re searching for behind closed doors!

Tie Me Up Tie Me Down - S7 : E6 Feb 21, 2025

In this episode of Talking Kinky, Isabelle and Tom tie themselves up in the tantalizing world of bondage—one of the most popular and misunderstood elements of BDSM.

They unravel the psychology of restraint, exploring why some people find pleasure in surrendering control while others get off on taking the reins.

From silky scarves to intricate Shibari rope work, they’ll discuss the art, safety, and emotional dynamics of tying up (or being tied down). Plus, they’ll share personal stories, expert insights, and practical tips for beginners and experienced players alike.

Whether you're curious about light bondage or eager to explore the deep intimacy of restraint play, this episode will help you navigate the ropes—literally and figuratively!

Place Me In Breathless Bliss - S7 : E5 Feb 20, 2025

Hold your breath—literally!!

In this episode of Talking Kinky, Isabelle and Tom take a 'deep breath' as they delve into the exhilarating world of breath play.

From the psychological highs to the physical thrills, they explore what makes this edgy kink so intoxicating. Is it control? Trust? The ultimate surrender? They'll break down the dos, don’ts, and must-knows, making sure you're well-equipped to navigate the fine line between ecstasy and risk.

So draw in a long deep intake of breath and tune in - it’s about to get breathlessly good.

We're Pegging Again - S7 : E4 Feb 10, 2025

In this episode Tom and Isabelle are strapping in (and on) for a much-requested revisit to the world ofpegging—aka strap-on play.

Whether you’re new to the experience or a seasoned pro, this episode is all about exploring the physical and psychological sides of pegging, breaking down the myths, and answering the big question: why does this kink still carry so much taboo?

From pleasure mechanics to power dynamics, and from first-time jitters to advanced techniques, Tom and Isabelle tackle it all with their signature blend of humor, knowledge, and zero judgment. Get ready for real talk, expert tips, and, of course, a few cheeky puns along the way.

Press play, and let’s get into it!

Domination, Findom and the Dark Side of Desire - S7 : E3 Feb 03, 2025

Power, control, and money—three elements that can make fantasies thrilling or turn them into something far more complicated. In this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle dive deep into the world of domination, from the exhilarating highs of consensual power exchange to the intricate and often misunderstood realm of financial domination, or Findom.

But where does the line blur between kink and coercion? As we explore the allure of being in control—or surrendering it—we also take a hard look at the darker side: romance fraud.

What happens when financial submission crosses into manipulation? How do scammers exploit vulnerability and desire to their advantage?

Join us for an unfiltered conversation on the psychology of dominance, the appeal of Findom, and the cautionary tales of those who’ve been caught in the web of financial and emotional deception.

Whether you’re a curious listener, an active participant, or simply fascinated by the intersection of power and intimacy, this episode promises to be as enlightening as it is provocative.

Let’s get kinky.

Fun with Hentai and Futanari - S7 : E2 Jan 28, 2025

In episode 2 of season 7 you can join Isabelle and Tom as they venture into the colorful and imaginative world of hentai and the unique appeal of the futanari kink.

They explore the creative storytelling, artistic expression, and taboo-breaking themes that make these genres a source of fascination and delight for fans worldwide.

Whether you're curious about the allure or already a fan, this episode sheds light on the cultural, personal, and sensual aspects of these kinks in true "Talking Kinky" style.

Pregnancy & Lactation Kink - S7 : E1 Jan 19, 2025

Welcome to Season 7 of Talking Kinky! We’re kicking off this season with a fascinating and often misunderstood topic: the kinky interests surrounding pregnancy and lactation. Your dynamic co-hosts, Isabelle and Tom, are here to explore the nuances, psychology, and allure behind these fetishes that captivate many but are rarely talked about openly.

In this episode, Isabelle and Tom will dive into the wide spectrum of interests within this kink, from the emotional and nurturing aspects to the more primal and taboo elements. They’ll discuss how cultural, biological, and personal factors can shape these desires, and they’ll also address common misconceptions and stigmas. With their signature blend of humor, empathy, and curiosity, they’ll provide a safe and inclusive space for listeners to learn, reflect, and maybe even discover something new about themselves.

Whether you're simply curious or have a personal connection to this kink, join us for an engaging and enlightening conversation that promises to challenge preconceptions and celebrate the diversity of human sexuality. Season 7 starts now—let's get kinky!

A**l Play For Women 2 - S6 : E8 Jan 12, 2025

In this highly anticipated episode of Talking Kinky, co-hosts Isabelle and Tom revisit one of the most requested topics: a**l sex for women.

With their signature blend of humor, honesty, and expert insights, they delve into the myths, the mechanics, and the mindset that can make anal play a pleasurable and empowering experience.

Whether you’re curious, hesitant, or looking to enhance your experience, this episode offers a fresh perspective to help you explore with confidence and care.

Start 2025 with a deeper connection to yourself and your partner, and let’s talk kinky!

Cuckolding Revisited - S6 : E7 Dec 25, 2024

In the seventh episode of our sixth season, we’re coming back to one of our most-requested and most-listened-to topics—cuckolding—and taking the conversation even deeper.

Isabelle and Tom explore the emotional, psychological, and erotic elements behind this captivating dynamic, shedding new light on why it continues to intrigue kinksters everywhere.

But that’s not all! To bring the discussion to life, they’ll slip into character for a playful role play scenario, illustrating how boundaries, trust, and communication take centre stage in a cuckolding fantasy.

Plus, they’ll answer a few burning listener questions submitted by our curious community. Prepare for insightful tips, candid experiences, and some tantalizing fun in this episode.

Don’t miss out on the chance to gain a fresh perspective on cuckolding—and maybe even discover something new for your own bedroom adventures!

Max & his tOuch kink Movie - S6 : E6 Dec 15, 2024

In this episode of Talking Kinky, the podcast where no topic is too taboo and curiosity is always celebrated, your hosts Isabelle and Tom sit down with Todd “Max” Carey, the visionary behind the groundbreaking new film tOuch kink.

This is a fabulous documentary film where pleasure, trust, and empowerment converge.

The documentary tOuch kink, directed by Todd “Max” Carey, explores the nuanced worlds of kink, BDSM, and fetishism, inviting audiences to see these communities through an intimate, authentic lens.

Carey, a first-time director with global travel experience across 137 countries, brings a unique perspective to the film. His focus is on breaking down societal misconceptions and showcasing how consensual kink fosters trust, communication, and empowerment, especially for women reclaiming their desires and boundaries. Max shares his thoughts on kink and the the movie's creative process, the challenges of portraying kink authentically in cinema, and the importance of de-stigmatising kink.

So, whether you’re new to this world or a BDSM and Dominatrix enthusiast, grab your headphones and get ready for a fascinating conversation that’ll leave you inspired — and maybe even a little curious."

You can watch the film using this special Talking Kinky VOD link from. tOuch Kink - Sun, Dec 15, 2024 at 12:30 PM GMT | Kinema

Dominatrix - To be or not to be? - S6 : E5 Dec 08, 2024

This episode is packed with juicy conversations you won’t want to miss.

Co-hosts Tom and Isabelle take a closer look at the powerful world of dominance and control as they ask, "Dominatrix: To Be or Not To Be?" What does it mean to step into this role, and how does it interplay with empowerment, boundaries, and pleasure?

They also dip a toe in the The Ethical Slut—a book that’s become a modern manifesto for ethical non-monogamy—and chat about how it challenges conventional views on relationships and intimacy. And speaking of intimacy, we’re gearing up for the upcoming movie touch kink by Todd 'Max' Carey, a film we think is going to make waves in the conversation about the kink of being a dominatrix or a submissive.

So strap in—or strap on—as Tom and Isabelle guide you through the ins, outs, and nuances of being a dominatrix.

Whether you’re a curious newbie, a seasoned pro, or just fascinated by this dynamic world, we’ve got something for you.

Let’s get kinky!

Tom & Sarah's Kinky Roadtrip North - S6 : E9 Dec 03, 2024

Buckle up for this very unique and special edition of Talking Kinky as co-host Tom takes a wild and thought-provoking road trip north with special guest, sexuality expert Sarah Tink!

Together, they dive into a smorgasbord of topics, including the complexities of polyamory, insights from the iconic book The Ethical Slut, and the nuances of attraction and the erotic blueprints.

But that’s not all—Sarah and Tom venture into the playful and bizarre as they imagine aliens observing human sexual behavior, unpack the allure of marking and lovebites, and even discuss the risqué subject of feltching.

With candid conversations, humor, and deep curiosity, this episode promises an unforgettable ride through the many layers of kink, connection, and the human experience.

Ready to hit the road? If you would like to know more about Sarah’s incredible scribblings on kink here is the link.

https://open.substack.com/pub/sarahtink?r=4cl1il&utm_medium=ios

Brats, Collars & Domestic Delights - S6 : E4 Dec 01, 2024

In Episode 4 of Season 6, Talking Kinky co-hosts Isabelle and Tom delve into the captivating world of submissives, brats, collars, and domestic delights.

They uncover the nuances of submission, the playful rebellion of brats, and the deep symbolism behind collars in the kink community.

From the balance of power exchange to the joy of creating intimacy through domestic acts, Isabelle and Tom share their personal takes and expert insights on these fascinating dynamics.

Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or just curious, this episode promises a mix of knowledge, humor, and plenty of spicy conversation!

The Kink of Attraction - S6 : E3 Nov 25, 2024

In this captivating episode, Isabelle and Tom dive deep into the fascinating world of attraction—how it drives our search for life partners, hookups, and kinky connections.

The dynamic duo explores the subconscious factors behind attraction, unraveling what draws us to others and why.

They also break down the three phases of attraction: the spark of chemistry, the challenges of the power struggle, and the blissful stage of true love.

With their signature humour and insight, Isabelle and Tom share their personal experiences, helping listeners navigate the complex interplay of attraction and relationships in both vanilla and kinky contexts.

Don't miss this enlightening conversation on how to find—and keep—what turns you on.

Embracing Erotic Shadows - S6 : E2 Nov 18, 2024

Welcome to Talking Kinky Season 6, Episode 2.

In this episode, co-hosts Isabelle and Tom take a close look at the intriguing and often-hidden aspects of their erotic blueprints. Exploring the "shadow" sides of their unique sexual expressions, they reveal how these less-talked-about parts can shape intimacy, spark self-discovery, and create challenges in their relationships.

Join them for a candid conversation as they shine a light on the vulnerabilities and growth potential in understanding the whole erotic self.

If you're curious about what lies beneath the surface of your own blueprint, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

Erotic Blueprints created by Jaiya Ma. ( ⁠Erotic Blueprints and Breakthrough with Jaiya - Miss Jaiya )

Language of Erotic Blueprints - S6 : E1 Nov 10, 2024

Welcome to Talking Kinky – Season 6, Episode 1.

Tom and Isabelle are back, kicking off the new season with Sarah Tink, who returns to the talk show. Sarah is a sexuality enthusiast & erotica author and in this episode, the trio delve into their Erotic Blueprints from the framework, developed by somatic sexologist Jaiya.

This model identifies five distinct erotic types:

Energetic: Aroused by anticipation, tease, and the subtle exchange of energy. Sensual: Finds pleasure in the senses—touch, taste, smell, sound, and sight. Sexual: Directly turned on by explicit sexual acts and imagery. Kinky: Excited by the taboo, power dynamics, and exploring the edges of eroticism. Shapeshifter: Enjoys a combination of all the above, craving variety and versatility.

Understanding your Erotic Blueprint can enhance intimacy and communication in relationships. To discover your own blueprint, visit Jaiya's official website at missjaiya.com.

Join Tom, Isabelle, and Sarah as they share their personal experiences and insights, guiding you to explore and embrace your unique erotic language.

Victoria & Desire - S5 : E8 Oct 20, 2024

In this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle welcome Victoria, an intimacy coach and founder of For Play Chocolate to the talk show, so that they can find out more about her expertise on desire. (www.forplay.co.uk)

This is a perfect throuple for a captivating conversation on desire.

They dig into the complexities of desire—what sparks it, sustains it, and why it's so essential to our relationships.

From understanding how desire can evolve over time to uncovering the psychological and emotional layers that fuel our wants, this episode will help you rethink what it means to truly yearn.

Whether you're looking to rekindle a flame or better understand your own desires, this conversation offers fresh insights and practical advice.

Fantasy V Reality - S5 : E7 Oct 05, 2024

In this episode, our co-hosts are getting cheeky with the age-old debate: fantasy vs. reality.

Ever wondered if your kink would really work outside the bedroom, or is it best left in the world of imagination?

Tom's got his jokes locked and loaded, and Isabelle’s here with her razor-sharp wit to keep him in line as they explore the wildest fantasies, from role-playing and giantess kinks to the very real dynamics of kink in everyday life.

Prepare for laughs, plenty of teasing, and some surprisingly deep moments as they tackle the big question: can all fantasies come true, or are some better left untouched?

Time to get talking, kinky-style!

ENM and Polyamory - S5 : E6 Sep 30, 2024

In this episode of Talking Kinky, dynamic co-hosts Tom and Isabelle dive deep into the world of Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Polyamory.

With their signature humor and thoughtful insights, they break down the differences between these relationship styles, explore the benefits and challenges, and offer perspectives from both male and female viewpoints.

Whether you're curious about non-monogamous relationships or just looking to understand them better, this episode provides a candid, informative, and fun conversation that leaves no stone unturned!

Let's Talk Arousal - S5 : E5 Sep 23, 2024

In this episode of Talking Kinky, co-hosts Tom and Isabelle dive into the complex and fascinating world of arousal.

From the subtle whispers of soft arousal to the more intense experiences of hard arousal, they explore how diverse and personal turn-on's can be.

They discuss the unique ways in which men and women experience arousal, debunking myths and shedding light on the science and psychology behind what turns us on.

Whether you're looking to better understand yourself or your partner, join Tom and Isabelle as they navigate the broad spectrum of arousal, helping you to discover what really gets you going.

More VORE - S5 : E3 Sep 18, 2024

Down the Hatch: Exploring VORE

Join co-hosts Tom and Isabelle as they dive deep into the fascinating world of VORE—a kink that blends fantasy, fear, and desire.

From the psychology behind it to the variety of forms it takes, Tom and Isabelle discuss how VORE plays into power dynamics, escapism, and the allure of the forbidden.

Whether you're curious or experienced, this episode breaks down the complexities of this intriguing fetish in a candid and thoughtful way.

The Keys to Greater Intimacy - S5 : E4 Sep 18, 2024

In this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle delve into the inextricable link between connection, communication and checking in for greater intimacy.

They explore the essentials of connection of communication, and checking in, revealing how these three pillars are not just key to kink, but to fostering deeper intimacy in any relationship.

Whether you're navigating a new romance, exploring a friends-with-benefits dynamic, or nurturing a long-term partnership, our co-hosts provide insights into how staying attuned to each other, strengthens trust and creates more fulfilling sexual and emotional bonds.

Meeting Erica Part 2 - Read By Tom - S4 : E9 Sep 08, 2024

Part 2 of Talking Kinky's Literary Escapades, Tom continues with his reading of erotic literature, Meeting Erica Part 2, a steamy tale from the popular website Literotica. This is an extract from the unpublished memoires, 'Henry, Erica, Van and Me.'

So please join Tom as he brings this seductive story of the second and more steamy second encounter between the two main characters to life. With his signature voice and attention to detail, Tom immerses listeners in a world of desire, passion, and a vivid first sexual encounter.

So, whether you're a fan of erotic fiction or simply looking to indulge your curiosity, this episode promises to deliver an unforgettable experience.

Tune in, relax, and let your imagination run wild as Tom guides you through the tantalizing sequel of Meeting Erica Part 1.Please listen to Episode 8 of season 4 before listening to Episode 9 as it is the prequel of this episode.

Disclaimer: This episode contains explicit content and is intended for mature audiences only. Listener discretion is advised.

Giantess Arousal - S5 : E2 Sep 02, 2024

In this mammoth episode of "Talking Kinky," co-hosts Isabelle and Tom dive into the fascinating world of giantess kink.

They explore the psychology behind this unique fetish, discussing the appeal of power dynamics, the allure of size play, and the ways in which fantasies of being dominated by a towering figure are expressed.

With humour and insight, Isabelle and Tom break down common misconceptions and offer advice on safely exploring this kink.

So, whether you're curious about giantess fantasies or already immersed in the scene, this episode promises an engaging and thoughtful conversation on a rarely discussed topic.

Edging Ecstasy - S5 : E1 Aug 26, 2024

We have entered Season 5 with a bang. Especially after our Episode 9 from Season 4 Meeting Erica Part 2, Read by Tom, was shadow banned. Don’t worry we’ll find a home for it. Watch our social media.

So Episode 1 in Season 5, is all about Edging Ecstasy. A fascinating way to explore your pleasure, either solo or with your partner.

A little bit of orgasm denial can make for some big bang pleasure and Tom and Isabelle, our co-hosts, have a lot of fun discussing the ups and downs and ins and outs of Edging your Ecstasy ❤️

Meeting Erica Part 1 - Read By Tom - S4 : E8 Aug 20, 2024

In this captivating episode, the first of Talking Kinky's Literary Escapades, co-host Tom dives into the world of erotic literature with a reading of Meeting Erica Part 1, a steamy tale from the popular website Literotica.

Join Tom as he brings this seductive story to life, exploring the enticing first encounter between two characters whose chemistry is undeniable.

With his signature voice and attention to detail, Tom immerses listeners in a world of desire, passion, and the thrilling anticipation of what's to come.

Whether you're a fan of erotic fiction or simply looking to indulge your curiosity, this episode promises to deliver an unforgettable experience.

Tune in, relax, and let your imagination run wild as Tom guides you through the tantalizing beginning of Meeting Erica. This is a prequal to Season 4 Episode 9 - Meeting Erica Part 2 (Available Exclusively to Talking Kinky Subscribers)

Disclaimer: This episode contains explicit content and is intended for mature audiences only. Listener discretion is advised.

A Kinky Reflection - S4 : E7 Aug 20, 2024

In Episode 7 of Season 4, Tom and Isabelle take a step back to reflect on the incredible journey that has made this season the most successful one yet.

Join them as they share their heartfelt gratitude for the listeners, the guests, and the experiences that brought their kinky explorations to life.

This episode is a celebration of the boundary-pushing content that resonated deeply with the community, from the art of Role Play and the intensity of Sensory Deprivation to the thrill of Blood Play and the nuances of Genital Stimulation. Tom and Isabelle also delve into the powerful connection between Pleasure and Pain, and the surprisingly potent Power of Kissing.

Tune in for a candid conversation that looks back on the highlights of Season 4, exploring what made these topics so impactful and how they’ve contributed to a season filled with passion, discovery, and empowerment.

Role Play - S4 : E6 Aug 08, 2024

In this exciting episode of Talking Kinky, co-hosts Tom and Isabelle dive headfirst into the tantalizing world of role play.

With their trademark playful banter and insightful commentary, they explore the intricacies and appeal of this dynamic kink. Tom and Isabelle share personal anecdotes and listener stories, shedding light on how role play can enhance intimacy, ignite passion, and create unforgettable experiences.

From classic scenarios to imaginative fantasies, they discuss various types of role play, offering tips and advice for both beginners and seasoned enthusiasts. Tune in for a fun, informative, and slightly naughty journey into the art of assuming different roles in the bedroom!

Sensory Deprivation - S4 : E5 Jul 31, 2024

In this episode of Talking Kinky, your favorite co-hosts Isabelle and Tom dive examine the intriguing world of sensory deprivation. From blindfolds to earmuffs, they explore how limiting one or more senses can heighten others, leading to intensified sensations and unique experiences in the realm of kink and BDSM.

Isabelle and Tom share personal anecdotes and expert insights, discussing various techniques and tools used for sensory deprivation. They cover the psychological aspects, the importance of trust and communication with your partner, and the safety precautions to consider.

Whether you're a curious novice or a seasoned enthusiast, this episode offers valuable information and tips to enhance your kinky adventures.

Tune in for an engaging conversation filled with humor, candid moments, and plenty of practical advice to open your mind to new possibilities and deepen your understanding of sensory play.

Blood Play & Vamping - S4 : E4 Jul 22, 2024

In this thrilling episode of "Talking Kinky," co-hosts Tom and Isabelle dive into the tantalizing world of blood play and vamping.

They explore the origins, safety practices, and psychological aspects of these intense kinks. With real-life stories, Tom and Isabelle navigate the delicate balance between fantasy and reality, offering listeners a comprehensive guide to engaging in these practices responsibly.

Join them as they unravel the allure of blood, menstrual sex and vampiric role-playing, shedding light on the allure and boundaries of this dark and fascinating kink.

Genital Stimulation & Torture - S4 : E3 Jul 16, 2024

Welcome to Episode 3 : Season 4 of "Talking Kinky," the podcast that delves deep into the world of kink, BDSM, and everything in-between. Co-hosts Isabelle and Tom explore a topic that is as intricate as it is intimate: genital stimulation and torture. Whether you’re curious about the nuances of pleasure, the dynamics of pain, or the intersection of both, the discussion in this episode covers a broad spectrum of experiences and techniques. Isabelle and Tom share personal insights, expert opinions, and safety tips to help you navigate this intense and highly individualized aspect of kink. Join our co-hosts as they unpack the physical sensations, psychological elements, and consensual boundaries that make genital stimulation and torture a unique and powerful form of expression in the kink community.

Pleasure in Pain - S4 : E2 Jul 07, 2024

Welcome to another thrilling episode of Talking Kinky, where your favourite co-hosts, Isabelle and Tom, dive deep into the fascinating world of kinks and fetishes. This week, we're exploring the intriguing and often misunderstood realm of painful kinks.

Join us as Isabelle and Tom unravel the complexities of finding pleasure in pain, discussing the psychological and physical aspects, the science behind it, and sharing personal anecdotes and insights.

So whether you're sadistic, masochistic or just curious about BDSM, impact play, or just eager to understand more about this captivating topic, this episode promises to be an enlightening journey. Tune in, open your mind, and let's get kinky!

Power of Kissing - S4 : E1 Jul 01, 2024

In this insightful episode of "Talking Kinky," hosts Isabelle and Tom dive deep into the profound wisdom shared by an article from Wikivorce, titled "Keep on Kissing: An Antidote for the Divorce Factor."

Join us as we explore the essential components of a healthy, loving relationship, including the underestimated power of kissing and affection.

Talking Kinky co-hosts discuss the importance of maintaining love and romance, effective communication, trust, personal grooming, parenting, and the balance between individuality and partnership.

This episode is packed with practical advice and heartfelt insights that will inspire you to nurture your relationship and keep the love alive. Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just starting out, this discussion offers valuable takeaways for everyone.

Tune in and discover how small acts of affection and care can significantly impact your relationship. Remember, keep on kissing and stay affectionate!

Tags: Relationships, Love, Intimacy, Marriage, Affection, Communication, Trust, Parenting, Personal Growth, Romance.

Ethical Non-Monogamy - S3 : E8 Jun 22, 2024

Welcome to the final episode of Season 3 of we are very excited to have you join us in Episode 8, where your hosts, Tom and Isabelle delve into the intriguing and often misunderstood world of ethical non-monogamy. Throughout Season 3, we've explored a variety of topics centered around kink and alternative relationship structures, and we're closing with a bang by tackling one of the most nuanced subjects in the realm of modern relationships. Ethical non-monogamy, sometimes abbreviated as ENM, challenges traditional notions of love and commitment, advocating for honest, consensual, and transparent relationship dynamics involving more than two partners. Whether you're curious about how these relationships function, interested in opening up your own relationship, or just here to broaden your understanding, this episode promises to be enlightening and thought-provoking. Tom and Isabelle discuss some key principles and they also share personal anecdotes, answer listener questions, and provide practical advice for those considering or currently navigating non-monogamous relationships. As always, we invite you to listen with an open mind and heart. Thank you for joining us on this journey through Season 3, and we hope you enjoy this season's final episode.

Lustful Libido - S3 : E7 Jun 14, 2024

Join hosts Isabelle and Tom as they explore the intricate world of libido with special guest Sarah Tink, a committed relationship and sexual health expert. In this enlightening episode, they dive into the various factors that influence sexual desire, from stress, diet, and fitness to the menstrual cycle and anxiety.

The conversation also covers real-life challenges like lack of sleep, exhaustion from parenting, and maintaining a work-life balance. Plus, they explore the exciting role of kink and fantasy in enhancing sexual desire and intimacy. With valuable insights and expert advice, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand and improve their sexual well-being.

Tune in to "Talking Kinky" and learn how to navigate the ups and downs of libido for a healthier, more satisfying sex life.

Bountiful Bisexuality - S3 : E6 Jun 08, 2024

Welcome to another scintillating episode of "Talking Kinky"! In Episode 6, titled "Bountiful Bisexuality," your dynamic hosts Tom and Isabelle delve into the vibrant world of bisexuality and heteroflexibility. Join Tom and Isabelle as they navigate the complexities of these often misunderstood orientations. With their signature blend of humour and insight, they explore the nuances of being attracted to more than one gender and the flexibility that comes with heteroflexibility. In this episode: Defining Bisexuality and Heteroflexibility: Tom and Isabelle break down the basics, debunking myths and misconceptions. Common Misunderstandings: They tackle common stereotypes, such as the idea that bisexuality is just a phase or that bisexual individuals are inherently more promiscuous. Fluidity in Sexuality: Celebrate the beauty of sexual fluidity and how it manifests in everyday life. Community and Support: Learn about the importance of finding like-minded communities and resources for support and validation. With engaging discussions, personal anecdotes, and practical advice, Tom and Isabelle provide a safe and entertaining space for listeners to better understand bisexuality and heteroflexibility. Whether you're part of the LGBTQ+ community or an ally wanting to learn more, this episode is packed with valuable insights and a few good laughs along the way. Tune in to "Talking Kinky: Season 3, Episode 6 - A Good Bi" and join the conversation about love, attraction, and everything in between! Tags: Bisexuality, Heteroflexibility, LGBTQ+, Sexuality, Relationships, Communication, Community, Support, Podcast, Talking Kinky We hope you enjoy the teaser at the end xxx

Top Listener Questions Answered - S3 : E5 Jun 01, 2024

In this episode Tom and Isabelle answer the Top 10 commonly asked listener questions received by the Talking Kinky podcast. As always the talk-show is peppered with Isabelle's wonderful quips and innuendo. The questions addressed are ranked by volume of most asked. Our co-hosts cover questions on bondage play, cuddle kink, BDSM role play, pet play gear, financial dom play, kink guilt, coming out on age play, dom and sub switching, privacy and kink and common kinks. Then our co-hosts discuss submitting their own questions and answer them together.

Art of Intimacy - S3 : E4 May 23, 2024

In this episode co-hosts Tom and Isabelle dive into the delicate intricacies of physical connection. They examine the art of kissing, exploring its profound impact on intimacy and connection.

The discussion transitions smoothly into the realms of foreplay and coreplay, highlighting techniques, emotional significance, and the often-neglected aspects of coreplay.

Join our jolly duo as they unravel the layers of intimacy, offering insights and tips to enhance your personal experiences.

Whether you're looking to deepen your understanding or spice up your approach, this episode promises to enlighten and entertain.

Gimp, Pet & Age Play - S3 : E3 May 17, 2024

In this episode Tom and Isabelle explore the curious intriguing and often misunderstood realms of Gimp, Age and Pet play. Join our effervescent co-hosts as they explore the deep psychological connections, playful dynamics, and profound trust that define these unique practices.

Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or just kink-curious, this episode offers a respectful and in-depth look at the joys and challenges of these fascinating aspects of human sexuality. Learn about the importance of communication, consent, and safety in fostering healthy and fulfilling kink experiences.

Tune in to discover how these kinks can offer new avenues for expression, exploration, and personal growth in the safe, inclusive space of our community.

Deliciously Kinky - S3 : E2 May 09, 2024

Join Tom and Isabelle for a deliciously kinky adventure as they discuss the provocative interplay of food and kink.

They discuss aphrodisiacs, food as toys for pleasure, food play and consider food in advertising and the evocative nature of food, sensuality and its natural allure.

This episode has the usual playful exchanges, humour and cheeky exchanges, as Tom and Isabelle normalise talking about food and its relationship with kink.

Queen of Pleasure - S3 : E1 May 02, 2024

This is Season 3 and in this electrifying episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle sit down with the acclaimed Queen of Pleasure and Sex Toys, Patricia. Website: https://selflovepleasure.com Together we dive into a candid discussion as Patricia reveals her journey into the world of pleasure products and shares her expertise on how to enhance intimacy and personal enjoyment. Expect to hear about the latest trends in sex toys, tips for beginners, and Patricia's top picks for maximizing pleasure. Whether you’re curious or a seasoned enthusiast, this episode promises to educate and inspire. Join us for a deep dive into the delightful realm of self-discovery and empowerment!

Joyride with Sex Toys - S2 : E8 Apr 26, 2024

Welcome to ‘Joyride with Sex Toys’ : The Joys of Self-Pleasure, where your hosts Tom and Isabelle dive deep into the world of self-pleasure, breaking stigmas and exploring innovations in the realm of intimate toys and techniques. In this revealing episode, they discuss everything from classic vibrators to advanced prostate massagers and the notorious Sybian, providing researched advice on choosing and using these devices to enhance personal satisfaction. Tom and Isabelle also tackle the sensitive topic of realistic dolls and the ethical discussions surrounding them, offering a thoughtful perspective on their use for companionship and personal fulfillment. Throughout the episode, they emphasize the importance of self-acceptance and understanding in cultivating a fulfilling sexual relationship with oneself and partners. Join them as they laugh, share expert insights, and answer listener questions about navigating the complexities of pleasure toys. Whether you're curious about the basics or looking to expand your horizons with the latest in sexual wellness technology, "Exploring Solo" promises to educate, entertain, and inspire a deeper understanding of self-pleasure. Tune in for an episode filled with candid discussions, personal anecdotes, and a healthy dose of kink!

Watersports - S2 : E7 Apr 21, 2024

In episode 7 of "Talking Kinky," co-hosts Isabelle and Tom dive into the intriguing world of watersports. This episode explores the psychological and physical aspects of engaging in watersports, addressing both the curiosity and controversy surrounding this practice. Our co-hosts discuss safety guidelines, mutual consent, and the importance of clear communication. Join Isabelle and Tom as they navigate the complex dynamics of this unique kink, providing insights and advice for those interested in exploring it safely.

Beyond The Bedroom, Tantra and More - S2 : E6 Apr 12, 2024

Welcome to Episode 6 of Season 2 of "Talking Kinky" with Isabel and Tom! This week, we're delving into the transformative world of Tantra. From the intimate techniques of Tantric massage to the exploratory practices of pleasure mapping, we're uncovering how these ancient methods can facilitate profound whole body orgasms and deepen your connection with your sensuality. Whether you're a Tantra enthusiast or simply curious about expanding your horizons beyond the bedroom, this episode is packed with insights and tips to enhance your understanding of pleasure. Tune in as we explore the potent possibilities of Tantra, and join us in discovering new ways to connect with your body and spirit. Don't forget to subscribe, share your thoughts in the comments, and spread the word about the enriching journey of "Talking Kinky"!

Kink, Kinsey, Maslow and Sarah Tink - S2 : E5 Apr 04, 2024

In Episode 5, playful co-hosts Isabelle and Tom dive into the intriguing world of kink and sexuality, exploring the reasons behind the societal taboos surrounding these topics. They engage in a candid and fun discussion, shedding light on how the groundbreaking work of Alfred Kinsey and Abraham Maslow contributes to our understanding of human sexuality and its complexities. The episode is enriched with an insightful interview featuring Sarah Tink, a notable figure in the realm of sexual freedom. Sarah shares her personal journey and discusses her article on establishing her sexuality, offering listeners a unique perspective on embracing one's sexual identity and navigating the challenges that come with it. This episode is a deep dive into the essence of sexual exploration, freedom, and the significant role that historical figures have played in shaping our current understanding of kink and sexuality.

Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) & FREE USE - S2 : E4 Mar 27, 2024

In this episode, we're venturing into two complex and often misunderstood territories: Consensual Non-Consent and Free Use. We approach these topics with the utmost sensitivity and an unwavering commitment to understanding and respect. Warning Strong Adult Themes.

The Pleasure Society - S2 : E3 Mar 22, 2024

In this captivating episode of Spotify's latest hit series, co-hosts Isabelle and Tom delve into the exhilarating world of kink and sexuality with special guest Shari Klein, the visionary founder of The Pleasure Society. www.pleasuresociety.nl Together, they embark on a thrilling threesome discussion, navigating the intricate landscapes of desire, fantasy, and the unspoken. This episode promises to enlighten, challenge, and entertain listeners as it breaks down barriers, debunking myths and shedding light on the diverse expressions of human sexuality. With honesty, humor, and an open heart, Isabelle, Tom, and Shari invite you to join them on a journey of discovery, pushing the boundaries of conventional conversation and exploring the depths of pleasure and connection. Tune in to uncover the myriad ways in which we seek and experience pleasure, the importance of consent and communication, and the transformative power of embracing one's sexuality fully and freely.

Top 5 Kinks Explored - S2 : E2 Mar 15, 2024

In episode 2 of season 2 of "Talking Kinky," hosts Tom and Isabelle delve into the fascinating findings of the IllicitEncounters survey, which ranks the top 10 kinks for men and women, as reported by its respondents. This episode stands out as the duo not only reviews the Top 5 on each list, but also share some personal stories, offer their insights and commentary on each kink, aiming to destigmatize and shed light on the diverse range of sexual preferences people have.

Pleasure & Kink - S2 : E1 Mar 08, 2024

Season 2 of 'Talking Kinky' kicks off with a bang as Tom and Isabelle delve into the tantalizing world of kink in Episode 1: The Pleasure of Kink. Our charismatic hosts engage in a candid conversation about the joys and exhilarations that kink can bring into the bedroom and beyond. They dismantle misconceptions, share personal anecdotes, and explore how stepping into the realm of kink can deepen connections and amplify pleasure. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or kink-curious, this episode promises to enlighten, entertain, and inspire you to embrace your desires. Tune in to unlock a new level of intimacy and fun in your life!

Pegging - S1 : E8 Feb 29, 2024

Episode 8 of 'Talking Kinky' invites you into an insightful conversation with Isabelle and Tom, as they explore the world of pegging with openness and curiosity. This episode demystifies the kink, addresses common misconceptions, and shares personal experiences, aiming to enlighten listeners about the dynamics, emotional depth, and physical pleasures associated with pegging. Join Isabelle and Tom as they break down barriers, offering advice, tips, and encouragement for those interested in or practicing this intimate form of expression. Whether you're a pegging enthusiast or simply curious about the topic, this episode promises a respectful, informative, and engaging dialogue.

Bondage & Blindfolding - S1 : E7 Feb 22, 2024

In this captivating episode of "Talking Kinky," hosts Isabelle and Tom delve into the thrilling world of bondage and blindfolding, unraveling the mysteries and allure behind these popular practices. With their characteristic wit and insightful commentary, they offer listeners a comprehensive guide to safely and consensually incorporating bondage and sensory deprivation into their explorations.

Facesitting - S1 : E6 Feb 16, 2024

Warning Adult Content - In Episode 6 of the "Talking Kinky" podcast, co-hosts Isabelle and Tom dive into the intricate and often misunderstood world of face sitting. This episode unpacks the dynamics of trust, communication, and consent that underpin this particular kink, providing listeners with both a comprehensive understanding and practical advice. Isabelle and Tom share their personal experiences and insights, offer tips on safety and comfort, and discuss the psychological aspects that attract individuals to this form of sexual expression. Whether you're curious, experienced, or simply looking to expand your knowledge on kink practices, this episode offers a respectful and enlightening exploration of face sitting within the BDSM community.

Alright Airtight - S1 : E5 Feb 09, 2024

Warning Adult Content - In Talking Kinky Episode 5 we venture into the complex and intriguing realm of the airtight kink, a form of sexual exploration where an individual engages in simultaneous oral, vaginal, and anal penetrations, creating a scenario described as 'airtight.' This episode thoughtfully unpacks the layers of trust, communication, and mutual respect necessary to navigate such a deeply intimate experience. Listeners are guided through the psychological allure behind the kink, emphasizing the paramount importance of consent, safety, and clear boundaries. The discussion sheds light on how individuals and partners approach this kink, balancing physical pleasure with emotional security and connection. This insightful episode aims to demystify the dynamics of being airtight, offering a comprehensive understanding of its place within the spectrum of sexual desires and kinks, all while fostering a respectful and open-minded dialogue.

Anal Play for Women - S1 : E4 Feb 02, 2024

Warning Adult Content - Welcome to Episode Four of Talking Kinky with Isabelle and Tom. Today, we're exploring a topic that's both intriguing and often shrouded in mystery: anal play for women. In this episode, we're shedding light on the pleasures, considerations, and dynamics of this form of intimacy from a woman's perspective. Isabelle and Tom will navigate the waters of preparation, communication, and the importance of consent, ensuring a safe and enjoyable experience. We'll also explore the myths and misconceptions surrounding anal play, providing you with the facts and dispelling the fiction. Join us as we delve into the physical and emotional aspects of anal play, offering insights and advice on how to enhance intimacy and pleasure. Whether you're curious, experienced, or somewhere in between, this episode promises to enlighten and empower. So, let's get started on this journey of exploration and understanding, embracing the full spectrum of sexual pleasure and expression.

Cuckolding - S1 : E3 Jan 25, 2024

Warning Adult Content - In this eye-opening 3rd episode of "Talking Kinky," hosts Isabelle and Tom delve into the intriguing and often misunderstood world of cuckolding. This episode aims to shed light on what cuckolding really involves and why it's a compelling fantasy for many. Isabelle and Tom navigate this topic with sensitivity and openness, breaking down common misconceptions and discussing the psychological and emotional aspects of cuckolding. They explore the dynamics between partners, the role of trust and communication, and how cuckolding can potentially enhance a relationship.

Vabbing - S1 : E2 Jan 18, 2024

Warning Adult Content - In Episode 2 of Season 1, Tom and Isabelle dive deep into the intriguing world of vabbing. This podcast episode offers a comprehensive exploration of the trend, discussing its origins, cultural impact, and the science (or lack thereof) behind it. Listeners can expect an engaging and informative discussion, as the hosts examine both the psychological and sociological aspects of vabbing. They also address the broader implications of this trend on personal expression and societal norms. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about contemporary social trends and their underlying motivations.

Introduction - S1 : E1 Jan 12, 2024

Warning Adult Content - Introducing our hosts Tom and Isabelle as well as an overview of why we’re here and talking kinky. In a nutshell we’re opening up the treasure chest of kinks, from the mild to the wild, we'll cover a bit of everything. Stay curious, stay safe, and stay kinky!

Trailer - Introduction Jan 08, 2024

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