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How Meditation Helps People with ADHD with Greg Anderson Apr 01, 2022

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How Meditation Helps People with ADHD with Greg Anderson

Imagine being in the jungle for three years practicing meditation. You are not supposed to cut your hair, drink alcohol, or have sex. Would you be okay with that?

Our guest today, Greg Anderson, went through meditation in the jungle for three years. He adhered to all the terms and conditions set by the spiritual healer. When he returned, he was a completely new person from how he looked and viewed the world. Grey believes that he got a new set of eyes that have helped him become a better person.

In this episode, Grey will share his meditation journey, the different modalities of meditation, and how it has impacted his life. Also, he will share the businesses side of his life and help us understand how meditation can influence our decision making and grow our businesses.

Listen in and learn.

Key Talking Points of the Episode:

[00:38] Greg's three years of meditation in the jungle

[03:35] How meditation has changed the way Greg looks at the world

[07:44] The different modalities of meditation

[12:25] Greg's experience with plant medicine

[18:17] How three years in the jungle changed Greg

[21:11] What inspired Greg to start a software company?

[39:01] How meditation helps people with ADHD

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

"When you're doing certain kinds of meditations, you're creating a strong mental muscle, so that when you need to focus."- Greg

"It's great to be the idea person, but if you can't, as an owner, latch to an idea and see it through, you will give your team 15 new things to work on. None of them are going to get complete because you're less focused on something."- Greg

"You need to go out and try to find the person that's already built what you want, even if it's only 95%."-Greg

"Once you get super committed, you have a lot of opportunities to do less than what you're committed for."-Greg

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Learning From Our Messes: Two Missed Flights Mar 27, 2022

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Learning From Our Messes: Two Missed Flights

How has your week been?

Mine has been messy. I missed two flights. It is unbelievable! Who misses two flights and, on top of that, forgets his phone in an uber? It can only be me was supposed to be back from Texas on Monday morning. I'll make all the excuses in the world. If I hadn't had smoked a cigar before I got on the plane, that probably wouldn't happen. The fact is, if I had paid more attention, all this mess wouldn't have happened.

I would have been at the airport at the right time and wouldn't have forgotten my phone in an Uber. Besides having such a messed-up week, I got to a lot of talking and got a chance to interact with some amazing people. Also, I'm on a mission to have my book on ADHD about sales and entrepreneurship getting polished.

Do you ever wonder why people hire me for their sales? The reason is, I not only help them sell more but also help them stop losing money. In this episode, I will give you practical examples of people I have worked with and are doing pretty well.

Listen in to this episode and learn.

Key Talking Points of the Episode:

[01:21] My pretty stressing week

[16:36] The benefits of working with me

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

"The point is that things are not as hard as you think. They're not as hard as I think they are. We make them much harder than they are."

"People can't hire you. If they don't know about you, they're not going to hire you if they don't know what you do or what you're about."

"It's really cool to see the light come on when working with somebody. It's amazing to see them make a ton more money."

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7 Ways Superstar Salespeople Easily Handle Rejection3 Mar 07, 2022

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7 Ways Superstar Salespeople Easily Handle Rejection

What comes to your mind every time you are told no?

Does it make you wonder if you are good enough or your product is good enough?

It is only natural to get “no’s”. As salespeople, we hate it when people say no to giving us money. Sometimes it makes us doubt our ability to sell. The fact, smooth seas never make great sailors. In sales, you cannot succeed if you cannot deal with rejection.

In this episode, I will share some actionable tips to make it easier for you to deal with rejection. I will teach you how to you can turn rejection to your advantage.

Listen in to this episode and learn.

Key Talking Points of the Episode:

[03:03] The power of getting a “No”

[05:33] Make sure your counterpart is comfortable is okay with you

[08:55] A story: Make yourself feel less okay

[19:50] Do not take rejection personally

[23:01] Your objection is not rejection

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

“You can’t go through life without going through some sort of rejection.”

“People that avoid rejection, they create a lot of opportunities for themselves.”

“If you know who you’re selling to, then there shouldn’t be an issue with price because you’d be targeting the people that can afford your damn product or service.”

“Just because somebody doesn’t want to buy your product or service doesn’t mean you suck in sales.”

“The money is not the mission, but the money makes the Mission Possible.”

“Your objections are not rejection.”

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How to Become a Successful Business Owner with ADHD Feb 18, 2022

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How to Become a Successful Business Owner with ADHD

Would you like to become successful in business? It would be best to learn how to let other people handle the tasks that you are not great at. For instance, if follow-up is not among your strengths, you need to delegate it to someone else who thrives at it .It is incredible how things can change for the better in your business if you decide to focus on your zone of genius.

A shocking statistic shows 50-60% of business owners have ADHD. Depending on how you look at it, ADHD can be positive or negative. The most significant success in ADHD comes when you focus on your strengths, not weaknesses.

This episode will share some nuggets of wisdom that will help you bring out you’re a game and succeed.

Listen in and learn.

Key Talking Points of the Episode:

[03:29]How essential is it for you to get into the heads of your salespeople as a business owner?

[06:06] Focusing on your zone of genius

[12:45] Hiring someone to do what you are not good at

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

“When you understand how to channel your superpower into your zone of genius. It changes the direction of your business.”

“It is unbelievably different when you’re working with people and when you know what they’re absolutely great at. It’s also amazing and less frustrating when you know what they suck at.”

“ADHD as a deficit, it’s a negative. But if you think about as a superpower, it’s a very different outlook.”

“I have a superpower that most people don’t have. Or maybe, a lot of people actually do have the superpower. But they don’t actually use it because they don’t really understand.”

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How to Calculate ROI on personal Development Investments with Jeff Smith Jan 21, 2022

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When was the last time you invested in yourself? Many people shy away from investing in personal development because they have no idea how to calculate the RIO or are too lazy to do the calculations. If the description suits you, you need to get comfortable, grab your notebook and pen, then listen to Jeff Smith as he unpacks it for us.

Jeff Smith is an experienced business consultant and entrepreneur who has been investing in real estate for more than 15 years. Putting to work his expertise in various topics about entrepreneurship, real estate, and investing, Jeff has helped hundreds of entrepreneurs optimize their lives build their wealth while taking control of their lives in all areas.

Jeff will share his experience in special operations and the lessons that he got in the forces, how he balances being a family man and an entrepreneur, how time blocking works for him and his family, how we can develop better relationships with our spouses, how to calculate RIO ion personal development investments among other exciting things.

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Key Talking Points of the Episode:

[00:53] Getting to know Jeff Smith

[02:46] Jeff’s experience in the military

[17: 06] Jeff’s most significant takeaways from the military

[30:24] How Tom balances family and his businesses

[34:09] How Jeff’s time blocking works

[36:48] Developing better relationships with our spouse

[48:00] Why do people shy away from investing in personal development?

[56:26] The biggest thing that has happened to Jeff’s property during the pandemic

[01:02:11] Jeff’s new mastermind group

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

“Everyone has to think about their perspective of the things that they’re going through. Because oftentimes life is teaching you lessons to give you gifts. Most people just look at things as like shit sandwiches.”

“People just don’t have a concept of what things cost in their business.”

“I’m the reason that I’m no further in life than I am, and I am also the reason that I’m as far as I am.”

“The normal human being in America is just excusing their behavior on a regular basis to chase that same pleasure.”

“Life’s not hard, man. It’s a series of small things over and over and over and over again. It’s also having self-control.”

“The military lessons are consistent of patience and activity done on a small scale regularly without deviation.”

“The path is determined by your ability to be flexible with the situation.”

“When I set my mind to something, it’s zero doubt that I’m getting that.”

“To get into actual gunfights with human beings is an experience that you can’t describe.”

“People don’t understand the sacrifice that’s made by the people that go to combat for this country.”

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Adult ADHD Symptoms Jan 12, 2022

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Symptoms of ADHD in Adults

Do you struggle with ADHD as an adult? Relax, you are not alone. I have had the disability since I was eight, and I'm now 43. ADHD in adults can highly be mistaken for laziness or disorganization. Many people think people with ADHD are lazy, while the truth is, they are fighting a disability. In this episode, I will be addressing some of the symptoms of ADHD in adults.

We say disability is not inability, and that's why I believe that we can use ADHD as a superpower and achieve great things this life. I will share tips on how you can use the disability to your advantage. You need to do the things you are great at and avoid dwelling on things you are not good at. I know it might sound hard, but we have to do it.

Also, keep away from multitasking. Focus on one task after the other. It will help you with your productivity."

Listen in to this episode for more tips.

Key Talking Points of the Episode:

[02:11] Using ADHD as a superpower

[06:43] Is ADD the same as ADHD?

[07:59] Symptoms of ADHD

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

"People that have ADHD, we, for whatever reason, we like to focus on the things that we're not good at."

"There's parts of our brain that don't function like normal people. A lot of times, that's hard to understand for a lot of people."

"When you get overloaded when you start to feel frustrated and overwhelmed and feel like you're ready to punch your fist through the wall. Take out a piece of paper and a pencil or pen and start writing down whatever is in your mind. Get everything on the piece of paper. It will help you ease up."

"If you recognize or you've been tested for ADHD, you've to dial in the medication."

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If you took anything away from this podcast, make sure you subscribe, leave a review, and go check out other episodes. Also, if you have ADHD and need help, feel free to get in touch with me.

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Parenting a pre-teen and the Challenges of being a dad Dec 17, 2021

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Parenting a pre-teen and the Challenges of being a dad

Imagine receiving a call from the hospital at 5 am asking you to immediately take your child to the hospital. You try explaining to them that the child is sleeping, but they insist you have to go. It happened to me when my daughter was diagnosed with diabetes.

It was a difficult moment for all of us since her life changed. She had to be on insulin which made her gain some weight. My daughter is a pre-teen, and you can only imagine what the weight gain did to her. My wife and I had to encourage her a lot. Fortunately, she is such a positive kid.

In this episode, I want to share the struggles I have gone through being a dad to my daughter, how I get along with my family and an encouragement to all the dads out there.

Listen in and learn.

Four Things you'll Learn from this Episode

When you are parenting a pre-teen or a teen, you have to be extremely careful because they are very vulnerable.
If you want something, you need to go for it. You can't keep wishing that you have it and doing nothing about it. For instance, if you feel you have gained some weight that needs to go, you have to work on that; otherwise, it won't go.
Being a parent is such a huge blessing that you cannot afford to take it for granted. Many people would love to have kids, but they don't.
If you are a businessperson, your goal should always be to become better. For instance, if you made X amount of money last year, you should do better than X this year.

Noteworthy Moments:

[01:19] How I became a dad

[06:10] Getting my daughter's diabetic diagnosis

[17:15] What does it mean to be a good father?

Quotes

"When you're entering into a situation to have an arrangement with a dude or a young lady, you got to think about how that's going to affect your kids."

"If you're with somebody that is not important to you, you're between a rock and a hard place."

"You have to bust your ass if you're going to be super successful."

"There's a lot of stuff about owning a business that you're not ever going to know until you do it and fail."

"It's important to have somebody in your life that you can count on, and it's equally vital to feel like somebody counts on you."

KW used: Challenges of being a dad, parenting a pre-teen, family, diabetic diagnosis, businessperson.

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Desperate To Close Deals? Here’s What You Need To Know Dec 08, 2021

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Sales is no longer just about persuasion. To be a successful salesperson today, you need to empathize with the person you’re selling to. You need to have the ability to understand and share the feelings of the other person. Salespeople who have empathy can connect with others on a personal level, making it easier to establish trust, inspire action, and close deals.

In today’s episode, I take you through what it feels and how it should instead feel as a customer confronted by a sales professional. I also talk to you about why you need to respect any profession for the service and value they provide for you (and never look down upon them!), how to view your mistakes as learning opportunities, how to serve your customers better through your skills, what makes a good salesperson, and why empathy is important in any profession.

You’ll also hear me narrate my up-and-down journey through life -- the countless mistakes I made and what they taught me, how I got to a place I wouldn’t have imagined sometime back, and how grabbing an opportunity (a Facebook Live) had me leap closer to my dream life and career.

Do you go hard on yourself for not closing enough deals? Surely, this episode is for you.

4 Things You’ll Learn From This Episode

● Why we need to view people’s professions not just for the money they make out of it but for the VALUE they provide to us
● As a salesperson, your job is to LEAD your customer to the answer, solve their problem, and not just MAKE SALES.
● The revenue you generate for others is the answer to anyone questioning your position or ability.
● If you want to succeed in sales, you’d want to understand your customer and genuinely help them.

Noteworthy Moments

[0:25] Frustration with labeling people as just a salesperson or just a plumber or the like
[2:21] Doing the hero’s job as a salesperson
[6:11] The mistakes I made in my life and how they transformed me as a human being

[10:11] How a Facebook Live changed my life altogether [11:46] If you’re struggling in the trades, you need to know this

Quotes

“Sometimes we make bad decisions. There are times in our lives where we make great decisions in a row.”

“Go see me on more stages, because that's where I really want to be, I really want to be on stage helping people. And that's where I'm headed.”

“If you can figure out how they're feeling, what they're feeling, what they're thinking and get that stuff out on the table, you're gonna make them feel better, you're gonna feel better, you're gonna close more deals. I guarantee it. So stop, always being closed -- that's old. Get that shit out of your head. It's not the way business works anymore.”

KW Used in Title and Summary: close deals, be a successful salesperson, salesperson, what makes a good salesperson, succeed in sales, why empathy is important, make sales

Related keywords: how to close deals, how to succeed in sales, empathy in sales, how to be a good salesperson, how to make sales

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Sales Skills Every Plumber and Tradesman Must Know with Roger Wakefield Nov 18, 2021

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Sales and plumbing guru Roger Wakefield (The Trade Guy) joins Corey to discuss how tradespeople can make more sales. They discuss how to go from service provider to trusted advisor by asking open-ended questions, using winning listening techniques, and the importance of understanding your clients communication style to your sales numbers.

Roger Wakefield is a plumber and YouTuber with 400K+ subscribers. He teaches plumbers and tradesmen the sales skills they need to make more sales.

“When we learn to communicate with people in a way they want to be communicated with, our sales probably have to up 75%” - Roger Wakefield

Timestamps

[00:04] Episode overview and who is the plumber Roger Wakefield?

[01:26] Overcoming the mental barriers and anxiety around selling high ticket products and services.

[04:54] Why you should offer your customers financing options.

[08:20] How ‘listening to repeat’ can level up your plumbing sales skills.

[15:51] The TWO most important sales skills for tradesmen.

[21:14] Why every tradesperson needs to learn body language.

[23:40] Why you need to spend more than 10 minutes with inquiring clients. OR How to gain trust with potential plumbing/hvac clients?

[24:57] Keeping your credibility as a sales lead for tradesmen.

[26:48] What to say and do to easily get reviews/testimonials after performing a plumbing/hvac service.

[30:30] When should you ask your clients for a referral?

[33:55] How has COVID-19 affected the trades business?

[37:33] Should employers make the COVID-19 vaccine be mandatory?

[43:13] Why explaining the science behind the COVID-19 vaccine is so vital.

[51:23] How to connect with Roger Wakefield (The Trade Guy)

5 Key takeaways

When you are selling a high ticket product or service that you cannot imagine buying for yourself, it is hard to put yourself in the customer’s shoes and leverage that empathy to refine your sales technique. A good way to overcome this is to understand where every dollar goes. When you give a job to every dollar, you understand why you cannot offer discounts on your product. Rather than a discount, you can offer financing options.

If you are listening to your customer in a way that you can repeat to them what they are looking for, you can provide a much better service to them. You will be able to detect problems and symptoms that you wouldn’t have if you were not listening and investigating so intently.

We learn through visual, auditory, or kinesthetic means. When interacting with your client, try to detect their preferred learning method and explain your service in their preferred learning method.

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Rookie Public Speaking Mistakes I Made My 3rd Time on Stage Nov 11, 2021

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Summary

Corey shares lessons learnt from his recent experience speaking at Podfest while sprinkling in a few negotiation tactics along the way. Speaking at Podfest was only his third time speaking on stage as a presenter.

Tune in to unlock a negotiation tactic that works every single time AND to learn why getting a ‘no’ while negotiating is sometimes better than getting a ‘yes’.

Timestamps

[01:00] My talk at Podfest didn’t go so well…(here’s why)

[03:30] How mirroring in negotiation works (a real example) OR How to mirror someone in a negotiation and NOT get caught.

[05:52] A rookie mistake I made as an amateur public speaker

[06:16] If you’re looking for an awesome graphic design and marketing team…

[07:15] I'll make you 5X the amount I charge you or your money back + $500 for your time and trouble.

[09:34] A negotiation tactic that works 100% of the time in hotels[a].

3 Key takeaways

When speaking in front of people, don’t forget to put out your credentials and make it easy for people to find you online. Clearly state your usernames on popular online platforms. This will help build your network and make the most of your speaking engagement.

A fail-proof negotiation tactic: before you ask for something small (like early check in in a hotel) start your conversation with the relevant staff member with “I am about to make your day ridiculously difficult”.

You don’t always have to get a ‘yes’ in a negotiation. In fact, you can be better off getting a ‘no’. Surprised? Here is an example: “would it be a ridiculous idea to ask you to (insert small ask or no brainer like: to help you grow your revenue)”.

Links

Podfest 2021: Website

I'll make you 5X the amount I charge you or your money back + $500 for your time and trouble: Sales CEO

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