Stay ConnectedTraditional marriage counseling and marriage coaching will tell you to work on communication. A pastor might tell you to sacrifice more and forget about yourself.
But, what actually works when it comes to creating a strong, passionate marriage? One that’s full of love, connection and intimacy?
Find out with us on our podcast, Strong Men Strong Marriages.
Hosted by psychiatrist and marriage coach Mike Frazier, MD
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You feel like you’re making good changes.
But, your wife keeps bringing up the past. Or she tells you that she’s not sure you’ll keep your changes up. Or she just seems unimpressed by your changes overall. Or she tells you that your changes will be helpful for your next wife.
So, you get frustrated. And that frustration proves to her that your changes are not permanent.
Instead, you need to shift your goal. You need to STOP focusing on changing her mind about you…
And START focusing on being who you want to be and who God wants you to be.
Then, you need to follow a specific process to change the way you think, feel and act…
So that you become the “new you” on default.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Are you ready to become a stronger, more attractive man that sets an incredible example for generations to follow? And are you ready to create passionate mental, emotional and sexual intimacy in your marriage?
If so, then apply to join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages
We’ll help you:
-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting
-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns
-Repeat them until your brain is rewired to be attractive on default
-All while living true to Christian principles
So that you have the fun, passionate marriage that you’ve been waiting for. And become the example for generations to follow.
Let’s get to work! CLICK HERE to apply now.
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
You want your wife to like you. You want her to give you attention, appreciation, affection and sex.
And, the way you go about that is to try to “make her happy.” You cook. You clean. You help with the kids.
But, it doesn’t result in the attraction that you want. She doesn’t seem to respect you. And you end up feeling like you’re losing in your marriage.
Here’s the thing. The root of trying to be “liked” is that you don’t have enough self worth, self esteem or self respect.
You’re trying to “fill yourself up” from the outside. And while that works in some places, like work or church, it doesn’t work in your marriage.
Learn today how you can gain the respect for yourself that will let you finally feel like you’re winning in your marriage.
By freeing you from the need to be liked.
Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Are you ready to become a stronger, more attractive man that sets an incredible example for generations to follow? And are you ready to create passionate mental, emotional and sexual intimacy in your marriage?
If so, then apply to join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages
We’ll help you:
-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting
-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns
-Repeat them until your brain is rewired to be attractive on default
-All while living true to Christian principles
So that you have the fun, passionate marriage that you’ve been waiting for. And become the example for generations to follow.
Let’s get to work! CLICK HERE to apply now.
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
It’s Valentine’s Day today! How special did you make it for your wife?
If you’re like a lot of men, you maybe didn’t have much of a plan for today.
You might be running to grab a card and some flowers or chocolate after work.
Or, you might not be doing anything. Because you know your wife won’t be having sex with you tonight, so why should you do anything special for her?
Unfortunately, last minute plans and spiteful non-action are not very attractive to your wife. And they’re certainly not romantic.
Learn how to be more romantic in today’s episode so that you can create the “feeling of excitement and mystery” that leads to the passionate connection you want in your marriage.
As a summary:
-Make a plan in advance
-Use anticipation
-Make it meaningful for her
-Use erotic (creative) energy
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Are you ready to become a stronger, more attractive man that sets an incredible example for generations to follow? And are you ready to create passionate mental, emotional and sexual intimacy in your marriage?
If so, then apply to join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages
We’ll help you:
-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting
-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns
-Repeat them until your brain is rewired to be attractive on default
-All while living true to Christian principles
So that you have the fun, passionate marriage that you’ve been waiting for. And become the example for generations to follow.
Let’s get to work! CLICK HERE to apply now.
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
You make some good strides. You stop being a mosquito. You handle your wife’s rejection of physical touch well. You control your temper.
For a few days. Or maybe even weeks.
But then, you fall back into the same old patterns. You feel bad. Your wife loses trust. And you feel stuck. Or maybe even like giving up.
But, there’s a reason this happens. It’s just how your brain works.
And, there’s a way to interrupt this negative pattern…
And create a new one…
So that you avoid setbacks and continue on a path of growth towards mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife.
Learn how to avoid setbacks and continue to grow your intimacy on today’s episode.
Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.
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Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/EGYp9mwalPc
Dr. Mike
P.S. Are you ready to become a stronger, more attractive man that sets an incredible example for generations to follow? And are you ready to create a stronger, more passionate marriage? The kind that’s full of mental, emotional and physical intimacy, and the kind you would love for your children to have one day?
Apply to join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages
We’ll help you:
-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting
-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns
-Repeat them until your brain is rewired to be attractive on default
So that you have the fun, passionate marriage that you’ve been waiting for.
Let’s get to work! CLICK HERE to apply now. http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-me
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
You’re telling your wife “I love you” in person, in text or in email.
But, she’s not saying it back.
Or, if she does, she doesn’t seem to mean it.
There’s a reason for this.
Today you’ll learn:
-Why the WAY you say I love you matters most
-Why your wife is not attracted to how you’re saying I love you
-What to do instead that will make it far more likely that you’ll get and “I love you” back from your wife.
Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Ready to become a stronger, more attractive man and create a stronger, more passionate marriage? The kind that’s full of mental, emotional and physical intimacy, and the kind you would love for your children to have one day?
Apply to join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages
We’ll help you:
-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting
-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns
-Repeat them until your brain is rewired to be attractive on default
Let’s get to work! CLICK HERE to apply now.
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
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P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
If your wife is asking for space, turning away from your kisses, avoiding your hugs, and saying “no” to sex…
It can be VERY frustrating.
Especially if you feel like you’re doing “all the right things.” Helping with cooking, cleaning, paying the bills, leading in prayer or scriptures. Can’t she do this ONE thing for you, after all you do for her?
It’s easy to get sad in this situation. And resentful. To pull away from her completely. To become passive aggressive.
It’s even common to turn to pornography. Some men even turn to other women for a physical connection.
Then, they feel guilty. And maybe they try to “make it up” to her. But it still doesn’t result in a good physical connection.
In today’s episode, we’ll discover:
-Why your wife doesn’t want physical touch (It might not be you. It might be past trauma or “touch overload” from the kids)
-If it IS you, why she isn’t interested in physical touch
You haven’t built the 3 Pillars Of A Passionate Marriage. Trust, communication and intimacy.
Trust. She needs to feel like you’re a man of your word in all things. That you can manage your own thoughts and emotions. That you won’t lose your temper or act mopey if she says “no” to touch. That you’re not using her physically or emotionally through sex and physical touch. This lets her say “I feel completely safe with my husband.”
Communication. She needs to say “I feel so heard and understood by my husband.” You need to be able to get to win-win agreements on money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion and time. You now feel like best friends and teammates in life. You have mental and emotional intimacy.
Intimacy. Once you have safety and mental and emotional intimacy, you can add in the fun, flirting and passion that bring physical intimacy. The type you BOTH enjoy and look forward to.
Learn more in today’s episode.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Ready to become a Strong Man who is ATTRACTIVE to his wife...
And has the skills to create a Strong, Passionate Marriage?
Apply to join Strong Men Strong Marriages today!
You'll learn how to build the spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength that help you feel GREAT and become extremely ATTRACTIVE to your wife.
And, build the skills to bring communication and intimacy to your marriage, so you have a marriage full of fun, smiles, and mental, emotional and physical intimacy.
And set a great example for generations to follow.
We'll help you:
1. Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting
2. Replace them with positive, attractive patterns
3. Repeat those new patterns until you can't get them wrong. Until your brain is rewired and you are strong and attractive on default. This helps eliminate the "2 steps forward, 3 steps back" problem that some programs create.
The best time to build these strengths and learn these skills was years ago. The second best time is today.
In the next few months, your marriage can be full of fun, passion and intimacy.
Or, it can be the same as it is now. Or worse.
CLICK HERE to join Strong Men Strong Marriages.
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
Right now, you’re struggling to find love and respect at home.
And it’s frustrating, because people at work and church do seem to give you respect. Maybe even love.
They value your opinions. They appreciate what you do. They listen to you.
But at home, your wife doesn’t do the same.
You try to make her happy. You cook. You clean. You make the money for the family.
But, it never seems to be enough. She doesn’t like how you do things. Or, she wants you do to more.
And it doesn’t lead to the mental, emotional or physical intimacy that you want.
This can be VERY frustrating.
And, it can lead to you getting upset and “laying down the law.”
You hope that will get you respect. And maybe it does. For a little while. While she’s afraid of your emotional outburst.
But then, it’s back to the same old problems. And you’re not enjoying mental, emotional or physical intimacy with your wife.
Learn what to do in today’s episode to become a truly loved and respected leader in your home.
You’ll learn:
-The 3 different types of leader… and why two of them will never get you love and respect
-How to break out of the negative leadership patterns
-How to become the type of leader who is loved and respected… while living true to Christian values
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Ready to become a strong man who creates a strong marriage? If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…
CLICK HERE join The Strong Men Strong Marriages System.
There are 3 ways that we can work together. Let’s get to work!
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Imagine your wife writing down a list of what she wants in a husband. Would she write:
I really want a man who:
-Is afraid to tell me what he’s thinking and feeling
-Bottles up his emotions until they explode
-Is passive aggressive
-Won’t ask for what he wants from me because he’s worried I might say no
-Tries to make me happy while secretly becoming resentful
-Won’t do what he believes is right because he thinks I won’t agree
-Won’t have important discussions because he’s afraid of my emotional response
Of course not. These are all extremely unattractive qualities. They are cowardly. They are based in fear.
And yet, many men do these exact things and hope their wives will be attracted to them.
At the end of the day, your wife is attracted to a man who is strong and courageous. Being courageous requires that you do things that you are afraid to do.
The definition of courage is: The state or quality of mind or spirit that enables one to face danger, fear, or vicissitudes with self-possession, confidence, and resolution; bravery.
Sharing what you actually think and feel with your wife is scary. Do it anyway.
Asking for what you want it scary. Your wife might say no. It exposes you mentally and emotionally. Do it anyway.
*Caveat. Don’t go straight to asking for more sex. You need to build trust and mental and emotional intimacy first for her to actually WANT to have sex with you.
Doing what you believe is right, even when your wife disagrees, is scary. Do it anyway.
Choosing courage over cowardice is hard. Do it anyway. You’ll feel stronger for it. And, you’ll be far more attractive to your wife.
Learn more in today’s episode.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…
CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.
You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
In today's interview I discuss with John what it means to be a leader in your home.
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Dr. Mike
P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create phenomenal mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…
CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.
You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you!
P.S. Get the 7 Day Email Series: How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife at StrongMen.io
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