Soul Talks With Bill & Kristi Gaultiere

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Whole Life Discipleship to Jesus Jan 31, 2023

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What is discipleship? Often our understanding of discipleship separates our spiritual health from the other aspects of our life which can leave us disintegrated and soul sick. Our first call is to be a disciple of Jesus — ahead of the specific work of our ministry — so we learn to live in full dependence on him.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack whole life discipleship to Jesus. You’ll learn how to integrate your mental, emotional, relational, spiritual, and physical health within discipleship to live out of the overflow of your attachment to Jesus.

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Flourishing in Life by Practicing Solitude & Spiritual Direction Jan 24, 2023

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Solitude and silence are essential for deeper submission, trust, and intimacy with the Lord. While our experience of these disciplines may change through different stages of our faith, they remain foundational for us to flourish in life.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share the power of practicing rhythms of solitude and spiritual direction. Together these practices transform and awaken your soul to perceive the beauty, goodness, and love of God, and the many ways he is caring for you right now.

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Dallas Willard, Renewing the Christian Mind: Essays, Interviews, and Talks
Soul Shepherding Institute

Sensing God’s Presence and Leading Jan 17, 2023

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How can we know we are hearing God’s voice? We may hear a call from the Lord, but often there will be decades between receiving a word or promise and its fulfillment. How do we hold on to faith so we don’t lose heart and give in to doubt among the enemy’s attempts to steal it away?

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack the ways God speaks to us through different stages of our faith. You’ll see how the Lord often leads us through experiences and circumstances to become the kind of person who is living a “with God” life in the school of discipleship to Jesus, and that it’s never too late to learn to discern God’s presence, voice, touch, and encouragement more clearly.

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Staying Encouraged That God's Call for You Will Prosper Jan 10, 2023

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We may feel called by God to use our gifts, yet experience confusion during seasons of deep discouragement or setback. David, Joseph, and Moses also walked through years of waiting and mystery, wondering about their dreams and calling.

Tune in to this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi and Bill discuss the seasons of waiting and discouragement that often accompany God’s calling. You will be encouraged to hear how God uses these seasons of perseverance to deepen your first call to love him faithfully and shape your character into the image of Christ.

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A Year of Slowing Down (Conversation With Alan Fadling) Jan 03, 2023

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Many of us have an incredibly strong work ethic, but we don’t have an equally robust rest ethic. The biblical vision of rest as sabbath is the very fabric of creation. Resting is a gift from God just as surely work is a gift from God, so how can we learn to welcome every gift that God has given us?

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill interviews Alan Fadling, author of A Year of Slowing Down: Following Jesus’ Rhythms of Work and Rest. You’ll be inspired by this conversation about pace of life, unique spiritual disciplines to slow down as an act of prayer, perfectionism, and learning to live unhurried in God’s presence.

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Disentangling From Codependent Relationships Dec 27, 2022

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It is a challenge to be present to someone’s emotions with empathy while balancing our own emotions and needs. Patterns of codependency often result when we are unaware of our own unmet needs, unresolved disappointments, or stresses.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi continue their conversation about codependency, empathy, and disentangling from codependent relationships.You’ll learn to cultivate awareness of your own emotions and boundaries through intentional conversations with soul friends, freeing you to bear the burdens of loved ones while maintaining objectivity, hope, and peace.

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Empathy or Codependency? Dec 20, 2022

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What is the difference between empathy and codependency? Sometimes our empathy for loved ones can cross over into codependency, rescuing, and trying to protect them from consequences of their choices that are necessary for their growth and maturity.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack empathy and codependency. You will learn from the Scriptural example of carrying someone’s burden versus his load, and how to draw close to people with empathy while also being able to step back with appropriate boundaries.

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Help For Anticipatory Grief Dec 13, 2022

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Anticipatory grief is often triggered by our own aging, or a loss or grief we know is coming in the future. While these emotions can be robbers that steal the joy of the moment, they can also open us to receive more of God’s grace.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk about healthy and unhealthy ways of handling anticipatory grief. You’ll learn how to acknowledge these conflicting feelings of sadness and gratitude, grief and joy, and be present to enjoy the moments you still have now.

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Calming an Anger Allergy Dec 06, 2022

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Some circumstances we encounter can trigger an “anger allergy”—a strong reaction that may connect to deeper feelings below the surface. Angry emotions are painful and we often want to avoid them, but they are actually a form of intelligence that can help us to grow.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack some recent anger allergies and model the importance and process of emotional repair. You’ll learn steps to understand your anger, resolve conflicts, and restore effective partnerships in life and ministry.

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How to Benefit From Empathy and Spiritual Direction Nov 29, 2022

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We all need a safe place to be completely authentic, free from the pressure to manage our reputations. We are blessed when we have a person in our life who knows us, listens to us, and seeks the Lord on our behalf.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks where Bill and Kristi discuss the benefits of spiritual direction. You’ll learn how a spiritual director can help you in all seasons of your faith, creating space to be present to you and to God—praying for you, listening to the Lord, and helping you access emotions you may not be aware that you carry. This practice is a critical component to a healthy spiritual life.

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