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Are You A Black Supremacist? Jan 28, 2026

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Welcome back to So Shameless!
Lola, Daj, Yesssterday and Tahoe talk the state of the country right now, a guy who was disappointed because his daughters friends werent allowed to sleep over his house because he was there, trump is a rac..an R word, the best way to support a revolution, and more! ENJOY!

Please Dont Yell At Me..I Have A Mommy Wound Jan 20, 2026

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Back from the holiday break..the whole gangs here as Tahoe has an issue with wearing outside clothes in the bedroom, a dad says youre out the will if you marry without a prenuptial agreement,
speaking to your friend about their cheating habits vs speaking to your parents about their parenting skills, does your relationship with the coparent alter how involved you are in your childs life, and how long should your spouse grieve before having relations. ENJOY!

Unconsciously Competent Ep. One "Pick We" Jan 13, 2026

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Welcome to the true birth of Unconsciously Competent Podcast!
In this pilot episode, Kash and Tahoe unpack accountability, dating transitions, vulnerability in men, discernment in relationships, and the patience required to grow something real, whether that’s love, self-mastery, or a goal you refuse to quit on. The topics may feel familiar at times but the perspectives we share will shift you!
Our pilot births our signature segment “Pick We”. One topic, two opposing arguments, and one rule that matters most… you can’t argue your own position. It’s about learning how the other side thinks, not proving you’re right.
When we sat down you wouldn’t believe it but we didn’t even have a name. After being held back long enough, we did the only thing that mattered. We sat down and talked. And began shaping the vision.
You will get to hear the exact moment the name Unconsciously Competent was born, mid-conversation, proving that sometimes clarity comes after you start.
This episode was recorded in July 2023. Yes 2023! It’s January 2026 now… and somehow, it still arrived right on time. Along the road…Life lifed. Hard. Between parenting special-needs kids, running multiple platforms, navigating ADHD, grief, growth, and responsibility, consistency wasn’t always possible, but commitment never left the room. However Competence Collective, Unconsciously Competent didn’t launch late, it launched when we were ready. So while some references reflect the time it was recorded know that the true wisdom is timeless.
Ready to let your ignorance meet its match? Stay and grow with us!
Head over to "Unconsciously Competent" on all streaming platforms and Subscribe or listen to our first episode here with No ADS!

The Rude-off part IV Dec 30, 2025

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Its the last episode of the year and JD and Lola join us to end the year right! Happy New Year everybody! See you in 2026!
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@JDTheOpinionated on Insta
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Im Not Impressed (Part Two) Feat Diamond Dec 18, 2025

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Chaos.. Part Two.
The Views expressed on this episode are not those of our hosts ...besides the ones they actually said but those probably werent either. ENJOY!
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Diamond
Twitter : @MuvaOfGotti
Instagram: @DiamyDarkskinnedVixen
Twitch: MuvaOfGotti
Tune into her show "I'm Not Impressed" every wednesday at 12pm (est) on Twitch

Im Not Impressed Feat Diamond (Part One) Dec 16, 2025

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Welcome to Chaos.
Diamond joins Tahoe, Daj And Yesssterday to talk her new streaming show "I'm Not Impressed" and the resulkt is non stop chaos and hilarity in the way that only she can provide. The topics bounce here there and everywhere as she tells us how much she hates ppl that have a lack of discipline, cheaters, the change in men today vs the change in women today, holding your cheating friend down, and a closer look at hw we feel about 50's vendetta with Diddy. There was so much going on in this episode that we can only tell you to go click and listen cuz man!! Tune in this thursday for part two or go to our patreon to hear the full episode AD FREE right now.
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Diamond
Twitter : @MuvaOfGotti
Instagram: @DiamyDarkskinnedVixen
Twitch: MuvaOfGotti
Tune into her show "I'm Not Impressed" every wednesday at 12pm (est) on Twitch

You Dont Know What You Dont Know feat @ChrysChilds (Part Two) Dec 11, 2025

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Welcome back to the shamelessness!!
Chrys childs is still here with us as we talk women who make over 100k not sacrificing their peace to be in relationships, a young lady says to her boyfriend that she is not blocking her ex, a man says that a man only protects what he can lead, a man says being a provider is a scam, and a pro life supporter confronts a pro life supoorter. ENJOY!!
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Chrys
@ChrysChilds on Instagram
Check her out on Fuburadio.com on the "Chrys with a Y" show!

You Dont Know What You Dont Know feat. @ChrysChilds (Part One) Dec 09, 2025

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Welcome Back Shameless Gang!
This week we welcome media personality Chrys Childs to the couch to talk black people having financial advisors in their life to build wealth, the new Diddy documentary "Sean Combs: The Reckoning", and which generation is worse todays or yesterdays. Tune into our patreon to listen to the whole episode ad free or tune back in for part two dropping this thursday...ENJOY!
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Chrys
@ChrysChilds on instagram
Check her out on Fuburadio.com on the "Chrys with a Y" show!

The Case Of The Missing Pudding (Part Two) Dec 04, 2025

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Welcome back to part two!
The crew continue the conversation as Daj says she expects certain things to be purchsed my men that she would never purchase for herself, a young lady asks for advice about her relationship, and a man loses his wife becuase he had relations with someone while him and his wife were on a break. ENJOY!!

The Case Of The Missing Pudding (Part One) Dec 02, 2025

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Welcome Back Everyone!
This week Daj, Tahoe and Yesssterday discuss Yessterdays pudding being eaten by Tane, egregious Thanksgiving plates, when is the appropriate time to introduce your boo to the family, being the right father to your daughter, being with a person who doesnt show you love the way you receive love, and the three questions to ask when first dating someone. tune in this thursday for part two or go to patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast to listen to the entire episode ad free right now!

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