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The Provider Role Is Changing..So Why Haven't The Expectations? Aug 26, 2026

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This week on So Shameless, Tahoe is joined by Paris Danielle, Lola The Divine and Yesssterday for a conversation that goes from hilarious relationship misunderstandings to some much heavier questions about race, safety and what Black Americans should be paying attention to.
Paris opens up about realizing bartending simply wasn’t for her, before the crew asks why women are so quick to hit their man with “WRONG B*TCH!” when he remembers something she doesn’t. Why is the first assumption that he must be confusing her with another woman?
Then things get serious.
The crew discusses the blackout in Gary, Indiana and questions surrounding the length of the power restoration, reports and concerns involving Black people being found hanging from trees in the South, and what Black communities should realistically be prepared for if racial tensions in America continue to escalate.
We also get into a disturbing Google search observation: why does searching “I’m alone with a white man” trigger language asking whether you’re scared or in danger, while similar searches involving other races or genders appear to produce different results?
Finally, we tackle one of the biggest debates in modern relationships: If men historically became providers partly because women had limited legal and economic opportunities, why are men still expected to financially provide now that women can earn, own, lead and—in many cases—out-earn men?
Have the opportunities changed while the relationship expectations stayed the same?
Featuring: @ParisDanielleco @lolatheedivine @yesssterday @tahoe_tv
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Are Women Being Taught How To Be Wives Anymore? Double Standards, Colorism and Dating For Marriage Aug 21, 2026

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Part Two with celebrity chef Chef Cream gets even more controversial as we dive into dating, marriage, masculinity, race, colorism, and the double standards between men and women.
We start with a woman who says she’s only interested in men who are intentionally dating for marriage—but are men and women actually being prepared to become good husbands and wives? We debate fathers who teach their daughters to stay single, distrust men, and “be a boss” versus also teaching them what it takes to build a healthy relationship with a man.
Then things get uncomfortable: Should a husband feel disrespected if another man is overly complimenting his wife? Why do some men completely lose their composure around beautiful women? And is it ever okay to say the N-word around white people, even if you’re not talking to them?
We also react to Blueface calling a woman a “good darkskin” and debate whether the comment was a compliment, colorist, or just poorly worded. Plus, we get into the sexual double standard: Why are men celebrated for having multiple sexual partners while women are judged for doing the same thing—and should either one be judged at all?
Finally, things take a wild turn when a surrogate mother changes her mind and disappears with the baby.
Dating for marriage, husbands and wives, male and female double standards, colorism, relationships, sex, race, respect, and much more—nothing is off limits on Part Two with Chef Cream.

Are All White People Racist? InvestFest Backlash and What it Means To Not Have A High Racial IQ Aug 19, 2026

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This week on So Shameless, celebrity chef @Chef.Cream joins us on the couch for a conversation that goes from entrepreneurship and community to race, culture, and some of the biggest debates happening in Black America.
We kick things off talking about Traum’s successful block party, the work that went into curating the event, and Tahoe’s new icee cart—which leads to a conversation about his hustler mentality and why he’s always looking for the next opportunity.
Then we address the backlash from last week’s episode before getting into a much bigger question: Are all white people racist? And what do we make of white influencers who build platforms around being “pro-Black”? Are they genuine allies, profiting from Black culture, or can both things be true?
We also discuss Tuskegee University’s new dress code, including the controversy surrounding restrictions on bonnets and durags, and the debate over respectability, professionalism, and cultural expression.
Then we get into the criticism surrounding Earn Your Leisure and Invest Fest, including Rashad Bilal’s comments about creating a festival specifically for Black people and why the event has become such a polarizing topic online.
Finally, we discuss disturbing reports involving Black people being found hanging from trees in the South and the fear, anger, and questions those cases have raised—including what Black communities should demand from authorities when circumstances surrounding a death are unclear.
It’s another uncomfortable, complicated, and very So Shameless conversation.
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Cream
@Chef.Cream on Instagram and TikTok

Why Do Black People Hold On To The Pain Of Racism So Tightly??? Aug 14, 2026

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Tahoe and Norense go head to head in a conversation about racism, christianity, masculinity, black pride and we revisit the covid discussion. This was alot. Enjoy.
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Norense
@KingNo_

When Do Black Men Become MEN?? Feat Norense Odiase Aug 11, 2026

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Welcome Back To another episode of So Shameless!
This week we welcome motivation and wellness influencer Norense Odiase to talk the difference in how black men view life at 30 vs how they view life at 50, dealing with a friend that has thoughts of ending it all, defining what a perfect life is, how trauma changes us at our core, affecting the people around us positively and what that does for you, being a dark skin Nigerian American and the difference between how Norense was treated when he was young vs how he is treated now that he is successful and older, Norense's first experiences with women and how that shaped how he feels about interracial relationships, and how Norense feels about the backlash he may get from the black community based off of his dating choices. Very interesting episode!!!
Tune in to Patreon to hear part two!
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Norense
@KingNo_ on instagram

Marriage Is For Broke Women? Dating Up, Millionaire Mindsets & Remy Ma said what? Aug 07, 2026

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This week on So Shameless, we’re back with Emanny of The Joe Budden Podcast and friend of the show Tasia Janine for Part Two of a conversation about money, relationships, and modern dating expectations.
We discuss Mandi, of Decision, Decisions, controversial claim that marriage is for broke women, whether men and women experience dating someone with more money differently, and if dating up versus dating down changes relationship dynamics. We also react to a woman who says she’ll only date a man with the mindset of a millionaire, debate Remy Ma’s reasons for calling herself the perfect wife, and somehow… YesJulz finds herself at the center of another internet conversation.
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Tasia
@TasiaJanine on Instagram
Emanny
@EmannyMusic on Instagram
Patreon.com/alleyesone

The Side Chick Had Access To His Girls Security Camera??? Aug 04, 2026

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This week on So Shameless, we’re joined by Emanny from the Joe Budden Podcast and friend of the show Tasia Janine for a conversation about the fine line between comfort and losing the plot in relationships.
We debate whether women get too comfortable passing gas around their partners, react to Usher getting curved by a fan during his concert, discuss what it’s like loving someone whose behavior constantly embarrasses you, and ask if you can ever truly move forward with someone who’s still emotionally attached to their ex.
We also unpack the story of a man who gave his side chick access to the security cameras in the home he shares with his child’s mother, talk about becoming the kind of parent your children can come to when life gets real, and explore why some women lose interest in ambitious men who are still building and need support.
ENJOY!!!
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Tasia
@TasiaJanine on Instagram
Emanny
@EmannyMusic on Instagram
Patreon.com/alleyesone

How Did I Get A Life Sentence For Something My Son Did??? Jul 31, 2026

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Welcome Back to part two of this weeks episode!!
Melanie of the "I'm Not A Lawyer But.." page walks the team through a few cases for us to determine who we found liable in the crime presented vs what the court decided. From a mother who unalived her children, to a grandfather who is doing life for simply gave his car keys to a teenager...this episode was GOOD! ENJOY!!!
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Melanie
@ImNotALawyerBut on Instagram, Youtube and Tiktok

Im Not A Lawyer But... (Part One) Jul 27, 2026

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Welcome Back to So Shameless!!!
This week Tahoe is super excited about his guest Melanie of the popular web page "I'm Not A Lawyer But.." to talk Tahoe's beef with Vanessa and Jojo Simmons, the Memphis Bleek interview where he is grilled about the Jayz backlash and whether Jay deserves the backlash he gets from the black community about his roles in the Barneys, NFL and Target protests. ENJOY!!
Get Tickets to the "You Be The Judge" show at DadsGarage.com
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Melanie
@ImNotALawyerBut on Instagram, Youtube and Tiktok

Yes We Snuck Into The Concert SO WHAT?? Feat YP and Diamond (Part Two) Jul 21, 2026

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Welcome back to part two!
We continue talking the Jay-Z concerts, what we liked about them and the missed opportunities, being acknowledged by ppl in the public and Tahoe flirting with his fans, a lady shoots her shot at a taken man, what ppl would think if they saw us out in public with somebody, a young lady says she does not cook for men and she wont be doing it, and a woman says she does not know if a guy likes her if he does not buy her things... ENJOY!!!
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Young Prince
@YoungPrince on Twitter and Instagram
Diamond
@DiamyTV on instagram
@Diamy_TV on Twitter

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