So Good Sisterhood

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Bonus Episode: Boundaries in Relationships May 16, 2022

Boundaries in Relationships

Season 2 | Bonus Episode

How do you know when to establish a boundary in a relationship? And how do you communicate that boundary graciously? Pastors Irene & Jimmy Rollins join Pastors Todd & Julie for a rich conversation about how we can protect what’s most important by establishing guardrails in our lives and relationships.

So Good Moments:

How the “three I’s” (intentionality, investment, and inspection) can change the dynamic of any relationship.
The importance of defining your non-negotiables and communicating your needs with vulnerability.
Why boundaries get confusing for Christians—and what the Bible says about them.
What it looks like to communicate boundaries in a way that reflects the protection of your values rather than the rejection of the person.
How being boundaryless led Irene to rock bottom and how rehab helped her take ownership of her life.
How our emotions serve as an indicator that something in our life needs a guardrail.

Questions for Reflection:

How did your perspective on boundaries change after hearing this episode?
What emotions in your life might be indicators to protect what’s most important?
Pastor Jimmy said, “I can’t give until I first guard.” What is it that you need to guard before you can give?

Resources:

Book: Boundaries

Jimmy & Irene’s Ministry: Two Equals One

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Boundaries in Relationships May 09, 2022

Boundaries in Relationships

Season 2 | Episode 8

So Good Moments:

How the “three I’s” (intentionality, investment, and inspection) can change the dynamic of any relationship.
The importance of defining your non-negotiables and communicating your needs with vulnerability.
Why boundaries get confusing for Christians—and what the Bible says about them.
What it looks like to communicate boundaries in a way that reflects the protection of your values rather than the rejection of the person.
How being boundaryless led Irene to rock bottom and how rehab helped her take ownership of her life.
How our emotions serve as an indicator that something in our life needs a guardrail.

Questions for Reflection:

How did your perspective on boundaries change after hearing this episode?
What emotions in your life might be indicators to protect what’s most important?
Pastor Jimmy said, “I can’t give until I first guard.” What is it that you need to guard before you can give?

Resources:

Book: Boundaries

Jimmy & Irene’s Ministry: Two Equals One

Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood

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Relationship Q & A - Part 1 Apr 25, 2022

Relationship Q & A - Part 1

Season 2 | Episode 7

You asked, they answered! Pastors Julie Mullins and Lisa Duvall dive into your relationship questions—from friendship tensions to motherhood mishaps. In this episode, you’ll learn how to get out of a negative cycle, extend grace, and walk in humility.

So Good Moments:

How to push pause and redefine a relationship when it's been stuck in a negative cycle.
Practical advice for navigating difficult relationships and ensuring the gap of tension doesn’t grow wider.
How to choose presence over perfection in motherhood and why it’s important to “keep the door open” as a mom.
Words of wisdom from a former single mom.
How to stay confident as a teenage girl.
The art of balancing confidence and humility (and how competence helps).

Questions for Reflection:

Are there any relationships in your life that need redefining?
What would it look like for you to put on the “grace filter” in your relationships?
Pastor Julie said “Decide what matters most and focus your attention there”—what matters most in this season?

Resources:

Friendship: It’s Complicated

Necessary Endings

Boundaries

Forgiving What You Can’t Forget

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How to Discover Your Purpose and Own Your Life Apr 11, 2022

How to Discover Your Purpose and Own Your Life

Season 2 | Episode 6

Do you feel like you’re going through the motions in life? Author and leadership coach, Lance Witt, wants you to live with intention and purpose. In this episode, Lance shares questions to help you define your purpose, practical tips for simplifying your life, and how to make God’s glory your personal North Star.

So Good Moments:

The two Greek definitions for “time” (and why one of them matters most).
The question Lance asks himself every morning to keep God’s glory at the forefront of his mind.
How to get started with crafting a life purpose statement.
Lance’s best advice for how to lead yourself.
Lance’s 3-part formula for a simple life.
What the Apostle Paul says about ambition.

Questions for Reflection:

What does Scripture say about why you’re here?
What are your desires and passions?
What do you care about and feel convicted about?
What do other people say you’re good at?

Lance’s purpose statement: “To steward my one and only life, I need to love God deeply, lead myself tenaciously, shepherd my family intentionally, and coach and serve others unselfishly.”

Resources:

Lance’s Book “Your One Life.”

Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood

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Regaining Vision After You’ve Been Blindsided Mar 28, 2022

Regaining Vision After You’ve Been Blindsided

Season 2 | Episode 5

Whether you’ve experienced the hurt of a betrayal or the shock of being blindsided, Pastor Charlotte Gambill wants to show you how to recover your vision and regain your strength. In this episode, Charlotte shares how to uncover your blind spots, take a step towards healing and begin to see clearly again.

So Good Moments:

What happens when our spiritual vision gets injured.
Jesus’ response in Mark 8 to the man who was blinded by unbelief.
How to move to a mature place of “self-editing” when it comes to your blind spots.
What accountability really is (and why it gets a bad rap).
How Charlotte leans into the promptings and nudges from God.
Why the Church needs more vessels for God—and less ornaments.

Question: What is your now word?

Resources:

Dare to Be

Charlotte’s Mentorship Program

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Becoming The Friend You Wish You Had Mar 14, 2022

Becoming The Friend You Wish You Had

Season 2 | Episode 4

Whether you are in middle school or middle-aged, relationships can get complicated. Pastor Julie and her dear friends Irene Rollins and Sarah Keller discuss what they learned from friendship failures, the gift of forgiveness, and how to become the friend you want.

So Good Moments:

The common denominator in every relationship.
How to ensure relational mistakes don’t become relational regrets.
The root cause of offense and hurt—and how to choose another option!
What forgiveness really looks like.
The crucial difference between forgiveness and reconciliation.
What boundaries are and how to set them.

Question: What does forgiveness mean to you?

Resources:

Find Irene: Two Equals One

Find Sarah: Next Level Church

Pastor Julie’s Daily Declarations

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Recommended Books:

Friendship: It’s Complicated

The Bait of Satan

Necessary Endings

Boundaries

Forgiving What You Can’t Forget

Woman Up! Rising to the Call of Leadership Feb 28, 2022

Woman Up! Rising to the Call of Leadership

Season 2 | Episode 3

Do you ever feel like you don’t have what it takes to be in ministry or leadership? Pastor Lori Champion can relate. In this episode, Pastor Lori shares how she went from running away from ministry to stepping into her calling as a pastor.

So Good Moments:

The story of how Lori surrendered her dreams and gifts to God.
Lori’s vision behind her book Woman Up!
How an altar moment brought healing after a tragedy and numb season.
How to fight for unity when you’re hurt in church.
What being a ‘helper’ really means Biblically.
The benefits of women in leadership.

Question: What’s your now word?

Resources:

Pastor Lori’s Book

Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood

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Valentine’s Day Special: What Matters Most in Relationships Feb 14, 2022

Valentine’s Day Special: What Matters Most in Relationships

Season 2 | Episode 2

What is the secret sauce for building solid and lasting relationships? In this episode, Pastors Todd and Julie share their own relationship trial and errors, as well as practical tips on communication, conflict, and commitment.

So Good Moments:

You asked, they answered! Pastors Todd and Julie respond to your questions, which leads to their worst Valentine’s story and advice for singles.
Why authenticity is critical no matter what stage of life you’re in.
How to gain a vision for your relationship or marriage.
The key difference between being a peace-faker and a peace-maker.
The ABCs of conflict resolution (including the right and wrong way to apologize).
The long-term fruit of being committed to what matters most.

Question: What relationships do you need God to give you a vision for?

Resources:

Pastor Julie’s 2022 Reading List

Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood

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The Key to Miraculous Breakthrough In Every Relationship Jan 31, 2022

The Key to Miraculous Breakthrough In Every Relationship

Season 2 | Episode 1

Season two is here—and it’s all about relationships! Relationships can be our greatest source of joy but also our greatest source of pain. To kick off the new season, Pastor Julie shares the key to seeing miraculous breakthrough in every relationship.

So Good Moments:

You asked, she answered! Pastor Julie spills the tea on everything from her reading list for 2022, to her most embarrassing moment on stage.
Why it’s a good thing that you don’t have all the answers, and what’s more important.
What Jesus visiting His hometown can teach us about our relationships today.
The epidemic of dishonor in our culture and what God wants to release instead.
The best way to be competitive in your own home (hint, it’s not optional).
How dishonor can become a huge disruption to supernatural work.

Question: What will you do to cultivate an atmosphere of honor to release the supernatural in your relationships this week?

Resources:

Pastor Julie’s 2022 Reading List

Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood

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A Fresh Start: Trauma Is Real, but Resilience Is So Good Dec 27, 2021

Episode 6: A Fresh Start: Trauma Is Real, but Resilience Is So Good

In the last podcast episode of the season, Pastor Irene Rollins shares about celebrating six years of sobriety and how facing her past allowed her to embrace her new beginning. Pastor Irene is a certified emotional health coach, co-founder of Two Equals One marriage ministry, and is a part of the teaching team at Christ Fellowship. This episode will inspire you to enter the new year with healing for your past and expectancy for your future.

So Good Moments:

How Irene developed a dependency on alcohol, almost lost her family, and started her journey of recovery in rehab.
Why our past doesn’t stay in our past and how to recognize the reality of both trauma and resilience.
The top two things Irene learned in rehab that work for everyone.
The healing power of connection, sharing emotions, and making amends.
Why New Year’s resolutions don’t work and what to focus on instead.

Question for Reflection: What’s your now word?

Resources:

Article: Top Reads for the New Year

Find Support: Celebrate Recovery

Join a Group: Reengage or Married Group

Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood

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A Season Full of Hope and a Christmas So Good Dec 13, 2021

Episode 5: A Season Full of Hope and a Christmas So Good

In this special holiday episode of the So Good Sisterhood podcast, Pastor Julie invites a group of ladies from different walks of life to join her in discussing traditions, hope, and how to have the best Christmas ever.

So Good Moments:

Ideas for Christmas traditions from different walks of life.
How to define and deliver hope during the holiday season.
Practical ways to slow down, resist the hustle and bustle, and offer the gift of being fully present.
The difference between hope and wishful thinking or optimism.
What goals, willpower, and way power have to do with experiencing your best Christmas ever.
Proper expectations and helpful tips for a frustration-free Christmas with family.

Question for Reflection: What’s your now word?

Resources:

Gifts that Give Back

25 Days of Hope

Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood

The So Good Friendship, moving from comparison to a celebratory relationship. Nov 29, 2021

In this new episode of So Good Sisterhood, Pastor Lisa Duvall joins Pastor Julie for a candid conversation about friendship. Tune in to their discussion on cultivating long-term friendships, eliminating comparisons, and becoming the friend we wish we had.

So Good Moments:

How Pastor Julie and Pastor Lisa have cultivated a long-term friendship and pushed through awkward moments along the way.
Advice for becoming inspired by your friends rather than intimidated.
Why the greatest friendships are built in trenches, not benches.
Practical ways to stay anchored in the truest thing about you when you’re lacking confidence.
The extra work that is required to go the distance in your friendships.

Question for Reflection: What’s your now word?

Resources:

VIDEO:Relationships Are Essential for Mental Health

ARTICLE: Relationships

Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood

So Good Perseverance Nov 15, 2021

Episode 3: So Good Perseverance

In episode 3 of the So Good Sisterhood podcast, the one and only Christine Caine joins Pastor Julie to discuss the temptation to quit during challenging seasons. Christine shares candidly about the series of events that made her want to tap out and how she found the strength to persevere in her calling.

So Good Moments:

The season when Christine Caine felt tempted to drift in her calling and faith.
The most important thing you can do to stay firmly planted when you want to quit.
What Christine Caine does to renew her mind daily.
How believers are rediscovering lamenting and why that’s a good thing.
The internal narratives about God that can lead to shame, depression, and condemnation.

Question for Reflection: What’s your now word?

Resources:

Christine Caine - “How Did I Get Here?”

Looking For A Christian Counselor?

Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood

So Good Leadership Oct 31, 2021

Episode Two: So Good Leadership

Pastor Todd joins Pastor Julie for the So Good Sisterhood podcast! Tune in to their discussion on women in leadership, challenges they’ve faced while leading together, and the importance of recognizing the Holy Spirit in our lives. Pastors Todd and Julie don’t shy away from sharing the real-life leadership lessons they’ve learned—sometimes the hard way.

“So Good” Moments:

How Pastors Todd and Julie met, fell in love, and jumped into ministry together.
Practical advice for couples who work together and want to maintain balance in their personal and professional lives.
How Pastor Todd studied the theology of women in ministry and arrived at a solid conclusion.
The most challenging season of leading Christ Fellowship to date and what they learned from it.
The importance of leading with convictions, not opinions.
What it means to host the Holy Spirit inside of us.

Question for Reflection: What’s your now word?

Resources:

The Extreme Life Series

Being Filled With The Holy Spirit

Book Recommendations on The Holy Spirit

Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood

What's so good? Oct 18, 2021

Episode One: What’s So Good?

In the first episode of the So Good Sisterhood podcast, Pastor Julie shares practical ways girls from every generation can live intentionally, lead confidently, and love generously. Psalms 34:8 says, “Taste and see that the Lord is good.” Pastor Julie reminds us to call out God’s goodness so that we can experience His greatness.

So Good Moments:

The history of Sisterhood and why it’s more of a movement than a ministry.
Why Pastor Julie named the podcast “So Good!”
How one young trafficking victim became a valedictorian graduate from The Hope House.
Pastor Julie’s two ways of determining your destiny.
God’s intention for meditation and three ways to put it into practice.
Pastor Julie’s daily declarations.
Question for Reflection: What’s your now word?

Resources:

Pastor Julie Mullins Declarations | https://rock.gocf.org/Content/website/Sisterhood/Declarations.pdf
Work for the Whisper - Mind Games Series | https://youtu.be/NTzAQwKV6hk

How to Identify and Overcome Unhealthy Thoughts | https://youtu.be/sWMVLDsJDJE

Learn more about Sisterhood | https://christfellowship.church/groups/sisterhood

Trailer So Good Sisterhood Oct 07, 2021

The So Good Sisterhood podcast is all about investing in every girl from every generation. It's an opportunity to have relevant conversations every month around living intentionally, leading confidently, and loving generously—leaving you saying "That's so good!"

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