Sluts and Scholars

284 Should Women Get Free Tickets? with Misha Bonaventura from Bonobo Network May 09, 2024

This week features Misha Bonaventura. We talk about sex positive communities, sexy parties, being objectified, consent culture, and also- what is being slut secure?! Misha co-produces Bonobo Network with William Winters. Alongside William, she is passionate about supporting sex positive community and helping people create more pleasure for themselves. She teaches and consults individuals and communities to develop their consent culture with a harm reduction and transformative justice lens. Her private practice, Clearing Conversations, focuses on conflict resolution and communication coaching and she loves supporting the sex positive community of the Bay Area and beyond in creating sustainable, long-term relationship building.

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Misha: http://www.clearingconversations.com/

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

283 Eat Healthy and F*ck Like a Porn Star with Robby Apples Apr 25, 2024

This week I am joined by porn performer, filmmaker, and artist Robby Apples. He shares how doing porn and psychedelic medicine helped him to heal his social anxiety. We also talk about what it is really like on set for male performers, overcoming insecurities, empowerment through self love, and why humans struggle with always wanting more, more, more! Also- can an apple a day really make you a porn star? Ads: All discounts: https://linktr.ee/slutsandscholars Dipsea: Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands Factor: Head to FACTORMEALS.com/sluts50 and use code sluts50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next box Robby: https://robbyapples.com/ Ask a Question here FOLLOW US

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

282 The Magic Wand with Sarah Tomchesson Apr 08, 2024

Sarah Tomchesson, C.S.E. (she/her) advocates for sexual liberation through her work as a sex educator, sex toy evangelist and podcast host. Sarah has spent much of her career shaping legendary sex toy brands, including Pleasure Chest, Babeland, and Lovehoney. Currently she holds the position of Director of Marketing for the iconic Magic Wand brand. Sarah firmly believes in the power of pleasure as a healing tool. She is a certified sexuality educator and has been developing, programming, and presenting pleasure-based sex education nationwide since 2007. Sarah co-hosts the F*ck Yeah Podcast, which aims to disrupt harmful ideas about sexuality, intimate relationships, identity, parenthood, and more. She is also a mom and on the Board of Directors of SIECUS – Sex Ed for Social Change (siecus.org), the nation’s leading sex education policy non-profit. We answer some listener questions, talk about the famous Magic Wand, as well as: can you get addicted to your vibrator? Research Discussed Article about "Dead Vagina Syndrome" Episodes talked about:

Asexuality

Erotic Blueprint

Books mentioned:

- Come Together (Nagoski)

- Sex When You Don't Feel Like It (Darnell)

Sarah's Podcast: https://fuckyeahpod.com/

Magic Wand: https://hitachimagic.com

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

281 Victims’ Rights: Fighting for Justice with Lisa Bloom Mar 28, 2024

Lisa Bloom Esquire is an attorney specializing in LGBTQ rights, Civil Rights, sexual harassment and assault cases. Daughter of famous civil rights attorney Gloria Allred, Lisa was raised to help everyday people in their fight for justice. Her firm, The Bloom Firm, continues to focus on fighting for victims of discrimination, harassment and abuse with compassion, as she is a survivor herself. She is also an author and media personality and has successfully represented many high profile celebrity cases, such as many of the brave Trump, Cosby, and Epstein survivors. TW: We will touch on topics related to consent, sexual assault, rape, and the civil court system. As always, please take care however you need to.

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

280 The Sex You Want with Rena Martine Mar 22, 2024

Rena Martine is a women's intimacy coach, former Sex Crimes Deputy District Attorney for the Los Angeles County D.A.'s Office, and author of The Sex You Want: A Shameless Journey to Deep Intimacy, Honest Pleasure, and a Life You Love. Today we answer some listener Q and A’s about non-monogamy. Then, we have a discussion about force and submission fantasies and how to reconcile these desires with survivorship and empowerment.

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

279 Come When You Want with Caitlin V Mar 14, 2024

Caitlin V is a sexologist and researcher who helps people gain confidence and improve sexual performance. For the past decade, Caitlin has empowered thousands of couples from more than 150 countries with her expert knowledge and scientific approach, which no doubt had some role in her YouTube channel reaching more than 450,000 subscribers and 65 million views in just 3 years of production. Caitlin is the creator of the Come When You Want Method for gaining ejaculatory control (without any pills or creams), “Legendary Lover”, a master course in unlocking the female orgasm, and the Female Ejaculation Blueprint. Today we talk about ejaculatory timing and control, erectile flow issues, body tension, “coregasms,” orgasms, and more!

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

278 Afterglow: Ethical Porn by Women for Everybody with Lilly Sparks Mar 07, 2024

Lilly Sparks is the Founder & CEO of afterglow, an ethical porn site designed to help women step into their sexual power. She creates porn you can learn from through sexy videos that are educational but still hot enough to masturbate to. Lilly is an entrepreneur addicted to creating positive change in the world, a believer in the power of shame-free pleasure. We talk about porn "addiction," how porn can be good for you, research on porn, what signifies ethical porn, eduporn, and some commonly searched spicy topics! Ads: afterglow: Get a free 7 day membership to afterglow with code xoscholars at bit.ly/xoscholars Dipsea: Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands FOLLOW US

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

Introducing The Sex Ed with DB Podcast: The Ultimate Period Episode with Dr. Jen Gunter Mar 01, 2024

Hey slutty scholars. I’m switching things up a bit today and bringing you a preview of a podcast that I think you’ll love. The podcast is called Sex Ed with DB and you may remember DB from a recent episode! So listen up for a little teaser from DB's podcast featuring a clip from one of her shows: The Ultimate Period Episode with Dr. Jen Gunter. In this episode, DB sits down with Dr. Jen Gunter, an OB-GYN and bestselling author, for the ULTIMATE period episode! Dr. Jen shares insights from her trilogy of books, including her latest release, Blood: The Science, Medicine, and Mythology of Menstruation, emphasizing the importance of addressing misinformation and debunking myths surrounding reproductive health. She also highlights the need to challenge stigma and shame associated with menstruation and advocates for gender equality in healthcare.

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

277 Passport 2 Pleasure: "Healthy" Relationships, Serial Monogamy, and Sex Parties with Ally Iseman Feb 29, 2024

Ally Iseman is the Founder of Passport2Pleasure.com and has been a speaker, community organizer, and non-monogamy educator and practitioner since 2016. As a certified consent and communication specialist, she uses her proprietary framework The Non-Monogamy Blueprint™ to help curious couples and individuals build the most mutually fulfilling, sustainable relationships with the highest probability of longevity.

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Ally: https://www.passport2pleasure.com/

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

276 Psychedelic Assisted Therapies with Elowyn J. Samadhi, PhD Feb 25, 2024

Tune in for a deep chat about psychedelic research, psychedelic assisted therapies, trauma healing, and more! Our guest Elowyn Samadhi, PhD (she/they) is a licensed clinical psychologist who specializes in the treatment of PTSD and other trauma-related disorders. She works in private practice and at Sage Integrative Health, a holistic psychedelic clinic in the Bay Area. Elowyn served as an independent rater for the Phase II and III MAPS MDMA trials for 4 years and began providing post-IV ketamine integration in 2015 at Mass General Hospital. She completed ketamine-assisted psychotherapy training with Polaris Insight Center and the MAPS MDMA-Assisted Therapy training. She also completed the UC-Berkeley Psilocybin Advanced Facilitator Training under the mentorship of Dr. Susana Bustos and is qualified to provide legal psilocybin services in Oregon. Dr. Samadhi serves as lead psilocybin therapist for the UCSD phantom limb pain clinical trial and has trained several of the co-therapists. She has guest lectured for Alchemy Community Therapy Center in Oakland and Beckley Academy, and supervises and mentors several psychedelic therapists-in-training. Elowyn is in her final year of the 3-year Somatic Experiencing training. Dr. Samadhi has a passion for teaching somatic therapy, safe and reparative touch work, as well as the ritual and spiritual praxis of guiding. Elowyn is biracial and bisexual and the bedrock of her spiritual path is non-dual, tantric, animistic, and pagan. We talk about psychedelic assisted healing modalities, the current research on psychedelics, MAPs, neuroplasticity, trauma healing,

Elowyn:

https://www.elowynsamadhiphd.com/ https://tetheredhealing.com/

Past episode mentioned: https://slutsscholars.libsyn.com/198-the-war-on-drugs-with-ifetayo-harvey-of-thepoc-psychedelic-collective

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

275 Shades of Non-Monogamy with Melissa and Wayne LeSane Feb 15, 2024

Melissa and Wayne have been non-monogamous since day one of their 20 year relationship. They are married and doing life in Los Angeles with their five children & together they are the Creator & Co-Creator of Shades of Non-Monogamy- a supportive resource for folks who are curious about, exploring or actively navigating non-monogamy. Shades is also a curator of non-monogamous & BIPOC-centered community spaces and events. Their vision is for everyone to experience and keep pleasurable, joyful and fulfilling relationships of ALL types, including with self, with others and in community; encouraging emotional, relational and sexual freedom. Ads Dipsea: For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands Factor Meals: Head to FACTORMEALS.com/sluts50 and use code sluts50 to get 50% off Shades: https://www.shadesofnonmonogamy.com/ FOLLOW US

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

274 The Laughing Couple with Brittany and Ryan Ostofe Feb 08, 2024

Brittany and Ryan Ostofe are a married couple who have been together for over a decade and they host the podcast The Laughing Couple. With their #1-ranked podcast, they have become trusted voices in discussing the challenges and joys of marriage, parenthood, and relationships. They also recently founded TEME, a modern sexual wellness and education company dedicated to transforming the way individuals and couples approach intimacy. We have an honest chat about the decision to have children, how having kids affects your relationship, intimacy and parenting, connection, and more!

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

273 Lorals: Oral Sex Undies with Melanie Cristol Feb 02, 2024

This week I am welcoming Melanie Cristol. Named as one of Entrepreneur Magazine’s 100 Most Influential Women of 2022, Melanie is the inventor of Lorals, the world’s first oral sex undies. Designed to look and feel like silk lingerie, Lorals combine fashion with material science, utilizing 700% multi-directional stretch at just six hundredths of a millimeter of thickness. As Founder & CEO of Lorals, Melanie holds multiple United States & international patents and has been featured in the New York Times, Fast Company, The Cut, Cosmopolitan, and countless other top-tier media outlets. Prior to creating and patenting Lorals, Melanie studied Sociology at Columbia University and received her JD from Columbia Law School. She worked as a healthcare and consumer products attorney and was part of the legal team that secured gay marriage rights for the western United States.

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

272 Sex Ed with DB: Masturbation Research and The State of Sex Ed in the US Jan 25, 2024

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In this episode, I interview Danielle Bezalel, MPH, aka DB. She is the Creator, Executive Producer, and Host of the Sex Ed with DB podcast, a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. Danielle earned a Master of Public Health with expertise in sexuality, sexual, and reproductive health from Columbia University. We talk about the current state of sex education in the US, some staggering statistics, and DB's mastubration research. Tune in to hear about what a Magic Wand a day can do for you!

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

271 Spicy Audio with Dipsea's Gina Gutierrez Jan 18, 2024

Gina Gutierrez is an empathy-driven entrepreneur with her sights set on reimagining and prioritizing female pleasure. As the co-founder at Dipsea, a people-powered story studio that produces a wide range of erotic, female-focused audio content, she’s passionate about demonstrating why sexual wellness

s is essential, and how storytelling and imagination are powerful tools that can help women unlock liberating connections with their bodies. Armed with a psychology degree from Duke and a desire to break the stigma that fantasy should be stifled, she’s ready to help women everywhere tap into their sexual powers. Tune in for a chat about audio erotica, porn for women, and research about the importance of the brain, fantasy, and imagination when it comes to pleasure and sex.

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

270 XBIZ: The World Leader in Adult Industry News with Sara Ramirez Jan 10, 2024

Hope you had a lovely hoe-liday! Our first episode of 2024 features Sara Ramirez of Adnet Media (aka XBIZ). Sara Ramirez has been a cornerstone of the adult industry since 2001, bringing over twenty years of passion, expertise, and leadership to the field. As Associate Publisher at Adnet Media (XBIZ), Sara has steered two of the industry's key publications, XBIZ Premiere and Sexual Health, for 15 years with a visionary's eye and an unwavering commitment to the community she serves. We talk about what XBIZ is/ does, who it serves, and all of the awesome events that they host.

We also discuss current trends in pleasure product retail, AI, and the upcoming Vibe Show.

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

269 Clitoriscious and Awe with Sydney Harris Dec 14, 2023

Sydney Harris is a sexuality educator, artist, and writer. In early 2020, she founded the sex education website/social media page, Clitoriscious, where she has amassed an audience of almost 70K. Sydney also created the podcast, Clit Talking, where she connects with guests/experts to chat about sexuality, mental health, bodies, and lots more. Recently, she has started a new social media page/podcast named "Awe", where she creates informative posts and discussions involving the broader topics of mental health, spirituality, sexuality, and art. Sydney hopes to continue to educate the masses and explore topics that expand minds and hearts through the works of Clitoriscious and Awe. In this episode we talk about the clitoris (and why we love her!), spirituality and sex, Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy, and Bipolar Disorder. Tune in for a vulnerable chat!

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

268 Conscious Play with Thomas Daily aka Major Tom Dec 07, 2023

Thomas Daily II is a passionate advocate for sexual positivity and personal growth. He has hosted more than 100 events, workshops, and retreats and has witnessed the incredible impact of intentional human connection on personal growth, relationships, and overall well-being. His ability to create a safe and supportive environment empowers participants to explore their vulnerabilities, shatter barriers, and forge deep connections. We talk about his journey into pleasure liberation, play/ sex parties, and how to own your desires.

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

267 Make Time for the Talk with Dr. Evelin Molina Dacker, MD Nov 30, 2023

Dr. Evelin Molina Dacker, MD is a Latinx-American, sex-positive Family Medicine physician. She applies her integrative and holistic approach to sexuality medicine, women’s health, preventative care, consent education and teaching. She is active in creating a safe space for LGBTQIA youth and adults and helping people through illness, trauma, and life transitions towards finding balance and joy. She incorporates a multidisciplinary approach with principles of gratitude and pleasure to support her patients in creating their own wellness. Evelin has a special interest in reframing and re-educating people on Sexually Transmitted Infections. She sees our relationship with STIs as a metaphor for the fear and shame we have around our sexuality. As a practicing physician, this is encountered in her everyday healing. Her clinical and scientific knowledge, along with her lived experience as a Latinx, queer person, have given her a unique perspective that is beyond the Academic. Dr. Molina Dacker was awarded as the 2023 recipient of the Robert L. Haynie Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Award from her medical school, Case Western Reserve University. In addition to practicing medicine, Dr. Molina Dacker created the safer sex communication model STARS to help facilitate open and honest safer sex conversations. She is a community leader, a consent and sex educator, sexual health activist and TEDx speaker. Today we talk about Dr. Dacker's work, Functional Medicine, and the STARS framework. Ads/ Discounts: Dipsea: Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands Flure App: https://flure.onelink.me/TEKB/j1reb4sc NOCD: Get a free 15 min consultation today at https://www.treatmyocd.com/ Dr. Dacker:

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

266 The Anatomy of Desire with Dr. Emily Jamea Nov 23, 2023

Dr. Emily Jamea is a sex and relationship therapist and she has helped thousands of people create connection and cultivate passion. When she's not seeing clients, Emily researches the relationship between flow and sexual satisfaction. Her expertise has been featured in Oprah Magazine, CNN, USA Today, The BBC, NBC, and more. Emily hosts the popular Love & Libido podcast, writes columns for Healthy Women and Psychology Today, and posts across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. Her book, Anatomy of Desire (Flatiron), will be released in 2024. Today we talk about flow state- what is it, how to get into it, and how it impacts sexual and relational satisfaction. We also discuss neurotransmitters in sex and relationships, control and its relationship to surrender, and so much more!

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

Introducing Double Teamed with Cami & Niki: House Boys & Blood Play ft. Colette Pervette Nov 20, 2023

Check out this other awesome show from the Pleasure Podcast Network-DoubleTeamed Podcast! Here is a snippet of Double Teamed Podcast's recent episode "House Boys & Blood Play ft. Colette Pervette" where the twins sit down with a professional Dominatrix and dive into her world of service submissives, blood play, and educational courses for anyone interested in becoming a Domme. Tune into Double Teamed anywhere you listen to podcasts every Thursday, and be sure to check them out on Instagram and TikTok!

For more, check out doubleteamedpodcast.com

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

265 Shameless Sex with Amy Baldwin Nov 16, 2023

Amy Baldwin was voted 2022’s Sexpert of the Year within the pleasure products industry. She is a Sex and Relationship Coach and co-host of the Shameless Sex Podcast. How to figure out what you want and like during sex, things that can get in the way of experiencing pleasure, nourishment barriers, and Shameless Sex's NEW BOOK!

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

264 Undressed: An Invitation to Claim Your Erotic Nature with Deborah Kagan Nov 09, 2023

Deborah Kagan is a Speaker, Author, Mentor and Mojo Recovery Specialist with years of practice being a turned-on woman. She supports entrepreneurs, small business owners, consultants, creatives and the career oriented to tap into their innate power and connect with their mojo, which is a source of true self-esteem. We talk about what MOJO is, how to elevate it, power and pleasure centers of the body, and what to do if you are having difficulties orgasming. Discounts and ads: https://linktr.ee/slutsandscholars Deborah: https://www.deborah-kagan.com/ FOLLOW US

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

263 Sex Tips, Group Sex, DP, and The Air Force with Alexis Fawx Nov 02, 2023

This episode features Alexis Fawx. Alexis is an award-winning Adult actress, model, Coffee Bean dealer, Cannabis ambassador, podcaster, writer, and producer. Today we talk about what she has learned from her decade plus in the adult industry. We talk about her start in The Air Force and becoming an award winning adult performer. We also cover some of her top sex tips about group sex, DP, communication, testing, and more!

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262 Necrophilia, Death Fetishes, and Serial Killers with Dr. Victoria Hartmann Oct 26, 2023

Dr. Hartmann holds two doctorate degrees, including a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality with an emphasis on Clinical Sexology, as well as a Master in Public Health. Her primary focus is forensic sexology, and the preservation of erotic artifacts, including the archiving of sexually explicit films. Her Doctoral work centered on the effects of dark web violent and explicit films. She authored the book “I Love Dead People – Inside the Mind of Death Fetishists” based on her doctoral thesis, and has proposed a new theoretical framework for classifying paraphilias. She is an expert explicit material valuator; she is the current Director of the Erotic Heritage Museum in Las Vegas. Today we are talking about the research around necrophilia, death fetishes, and serial killers… and also zombies. Happy Halloween (Samhain), slutty scholars.

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

261 Body Neutral: A Revolutionary Guide to Overcoming Body Image Issues with Jessi Kneeland Oct 19, 2023

This episode features Jessi Kneeland. Jessi Kneeland (they/them) is a body image coach, writer, and speaker dedicated to helping people find personal and collective liberation through body neutrality— a philosophy predicated on the idea that how we look is the least interesting and important thing about us. We talk about body neutrality, how to practice it, and how it can improve your life, including your sex life! https://www.jessikneeland.com/ FOLLOW US

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260 Sexual Core Values, When to Stay and When to Go, and Monogamy Hangovers with Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey Oct 12, 2023

This week I am joined by Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey. Dr. Bisbey is a psychologist, accredited advanced GSRD therapist, writer, podcast host, sex & intimacy coach, speaker, TV personality who has spent the past 35+ years helping people to create and maintain incredible relationships with sizzling sex and without shame. She is currently touring the UK with a talk called The Psychology of Fetish and Kink and starring in Open House: The Great Sex Experiment on Ch4 in the UK. We talk about: how to tell a partner what you're into (both new and long term partners); core relationship values and how to date with these in mind; desire and relationship style discrepancies; when to leave and when to stay when you and your partner want different things. Dr. Bisbey: https://drloribethbisbey.com/ FOLLOW US

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Introducing: Erotic Stories ‘The High-Class Escort’ Oct 09, 2023

We’re excited to introduce you to another show on the Pleasure Podcasts network called, Erotic Stories. If you’re a fan of erotica and looking for a place to indulge in your wildest fantasies, then you need to listen to Erotic Stories. Each week, Mia will tell you a sensual story in a silky-smooth voice that will surely get you in the mood. Check out more Erotic Stories wherever you get your podcasts. FOLLOW US

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

259 Tight Lipped: Pelvic Pain and the Medical System with Noa Fleischacker Oct 04, 2023

This week I am joined By Noa Fleischacker. Noa is the Executive Director of Tight Lipped, a storytelling and advocacy organization by and for people with chronic vulvovaginal and pelvic pain conditions. Tight Lipped was born out of Noa’s personal experience navigating the healthcare system with pelvic floor dysfunction.

We talk about types of pelvic pain, what it is like to live with pelvic pain, medical gaslighting, and the struggles with receiving care in our medical system.

Remember, sex should only hurt if you want it to!

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Past episodes on pelvic pain:

- 99 Endometriosis: The Invisible Disease with Dr. Shannon Chavez

- 101 Is a "Tight" Vagina a Thing? Pelvic Pain with Kayna Cassard

- 148 The Pelvic Whisperer with Dr. Sherine Aubert, PT, DPT, PRPC

- 212 Sexual Functioning with Dr. Lisa Valle

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

258 Pet Play and Getting Primal with Wiley Wolfe Sep 28, 2023

In this episode I am joined by Wiley Wolfe. Wiley Wolfe is a Professional Dominant, Human Animal Handler, Fetish Performer, Kink Educator, and Primal Daddy based in Los Angeles. She is the Co-Founder of SoCal Creatures, an inclusive pet play group; Instinct LA, a virtual primal support group; and Observation Room, an extreme kink immersive theatre production.We talk about what pet play is/ isn't and how to get in touch with our primal, animalistic selves. Woof! Wiley: https://www.worshipwileywolfe.com/ FOLLOW US

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

257 The War on Porn and Age Verification Laws with Free Speech Coalition’s Mike Stabile Sep 21, 2023

This episode features Mike Stabile. Mike Stabile is an activist, journalist and documentary filmmaker who has written about and advocated for the rights of sex workers and sexual speech for over a decade. His firm, Polari Media, has developed press and media strategies for some of the adult industry's most well-known brands. Mike currently serves as the Director of Public Affairs at Free Speech Coalition, the trade and advocacy group for the adult industry. Today we talk about age verification laws for adult content, the war on porn and adult content, banking discrimination, laws against sex work, and the Free Speech Coalition.

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

256 Sacred Sexuality and Finding your Orgasm with Sam Sharman Sep 14, 2023

Sam Sharman is a NeoDigital artist, musician, and event producer operating from a perspective of conscious embodiment. In this episode, we talk about sacred sexuality and how pleasure can be a spiritual, religious, or transcendent experience. We also chat about finding your orgasm, sensitizing your body, energetic sex, expanding your pleasure, and different types of orgasms.

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255 From The Pleasure Connection Retreat Sep 11, 2023

This episode is a little different! Tune in to hear about the third Pleasure Connection Retreat, which is happening on October 14th and 15th in Malibu, California. I am co-hosting alongside internationally renowned yoga, meditation, and breathwork teacher, integrative behavioral therapist, and multi-modality healer Lisa Reider (Genius Loci). Are you ready to make pleasure and connection a priority? Do you want to transform and elevate your sex life? This retreat is an intimate opportunity for individuals and couples to enhance, explore, and build a deeper connection with pleasure through educational teachings, somatic experiences, and interactive workshops. Go check out https://thepleasureconnection.eventbrite.com/ for more info and tickets! We are even offering free 30 min discovery calls!

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

254 Rope for Every Body with Toni submissivetiger Sep 08, 2023

Welcome back to a new season of S & S! We ended with rope, so let's start with more rope! I am joined today by Toni, aka submissivetiger. Submissivetiger is a rope artist, performer, educator, community event organizer, and founder of The Rope Collective. Her focus is on modifications in rope for every body, creating liberating experiences and connection with rope, informed consent, negotiation, and aftercare. We talk about her journey into rope play, why folks are into rope bondage and suspension, how rope can be healing, as well as how rope can be for everybody and every body. Toni: https://www.instagram.com/submissivetiger666/ The Rope Collective: https://www.theropecollective.com/ https://www.instagram.com/theropecollective

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

From The Private Parts Unknown Podcast Jul 02, 2023

Today, we’re sharing a preview of one of our favorite podcasts: Private Parts Unknown. Private Parts Unknown is a Bourdain-style podcast exploring sex, love, relationships, gender, and seductive subcultures around the world. Join host Courtney Kocak and expert guests for hilarious, sex-positive conversations — destigmatizing everything from abortion to Ashley Madison, polyamory to PMDD, sex work to Shibari, and more. Travel series include Helsinki, Finland; Mexico City, Mexico; and Tokyo, Japan. In this preview, Courtney shares all the titillating and mind-opening details of her first happy-ending massage. This is a radical and refreshing take on being a consumer of sex work from a feminist perspective. Listen to more Private Parts Unknown on your favorite podcast player at https://pod.link/1154304419, and learn more at https://privatepartsunknown.com/. FOLLOW US

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

253 Planet Midori Jun 22, 2023

In this episode, I interview the world renowned Midori. Midori is a trailblazing educator, artist, teacher, coach and consultant on alternative sexuality, BDSM, Shibari cultural competency, and joyful empowerment through D/s and thoughtful kink. We talk about how to create amazing, engaging, and pleasurable BDSM scenes. Midori has ONE more spot at her upcoming Forte Femme!!! Find out how to join here: https://www.fortefemme.com/ Midori: https://planetmidori.com/ Ads: Dipsea: Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to Dipsea Stories.com/sands. Green Chef: Go to GreenChef.com/scholars60 and use code scholars60 to get 60% off plus free shipping. Events: Faire: https://www.instagram.com/sundayfairela The Great Fox (*human) Hunt https://www.blackfoxprod.com/ Play Date: Pleasureismedicine.eventbrite.com FOLLOW US

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252 Sex, Health, and Consciousness: How to Reclaim Your Pleasure Potential with Liz Goldwyn Jun 16, 2023

In this episode, I welcome back Liz Goldwyn who is an author, filmmaker, and founder of The Sex Ed, an educational platform and podcast dedicated to sex, health, and consciousness in the digital age. We talk about how consciousness, spirituality, and energetics can enhance your sex life. We also discuss Liz's new book called Sex, Health, and Consciousness: How to Reclaim Your Pleasure Potential as well as transcendent sex, sacred sexuality, menstrual blood, and how to use your eroticism for creative pursuits. Ad: https://pleasureismedicine.eventbrite.com/ Liz: https://www.thesexed.com/ FOLLOW US

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

251 The Return of Riley Nixon Jun 08, 2023

In this episode I interview adult industry performer Riley Nixon. We talk about her return to mainstream porn, solo content, online work versus set life, death fetishism, body image, and more!

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Riley: www.Riley-Nixon.com

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

250 NeuroProvocateurs with Pam Shaffer Jun 01, 2023

This episode features Pam Shaffer. Pam is a Licensed Marriage and Family psychotherapist and the founder of Best Self Psych. She also hosts the Why Not Both Podcast and the newly launched NeuroProvocateurs podcast. We talk about how ADHD and neurodiversity can show up in sex and relationships as well as offer tools, tips, and education on things like Dopamine’s role in the body, sensory differences, what actually is neurotypical? Is anyone actually neurotypical? This is a super honest conversation from two sex therapists who have ADHD.

FREE EVENT: Join me at Thriving in Purpose LIVE virtual Masterclass on Friday, June 2nd! You can sign up at rebrand.ly/sluts_scholars

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Past episode on ADHD

https://slutsscholars.libsyn.com/2019/09

If you are interested in Pam's neurospicy coaching practice, join her Neuroprovocateurs substack where you will find her brand new podcast and neurospicy resources or head over to her group therapy practice, Best Self Psych, to find the right neurodiverse therapist for you. You can also binge her classic podcast Why Not Both, where she interviews guests like David Duchovny and Tori Amos about what it means to lead a multi-passionate life.

Links for Pam:

https://www.bestselfpsych.com

https://neuroprovocateurs.substack.com/

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/why-not-both/id1462717484

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

249 Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships May 25, 2023

In this episode, I talk with Dedeker, Emily, and Jase of the Multiamory Podcast! We talk about some top tools and tips for relationship communication, relationship check-ins, going from non-monogamy back to monogamy, triads, and how to repair ruptures in partnerships. We also tease their new amazing book- Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships.

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

BONUS: Boyslut Part 2 with Zachary Zane May 21, 2023

You slutty scholars deserve more stuttiness! This episode welcomes back columnist, sex expert, and activist Zachary Zane. We talk about how to handle rejection from both sides, face sitting, and Zachary teases us with an excerpt from his newly released book Boyslut! Don’t miss his book tour and order your copy today! https://www.zacharyzane.com/

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

248 The Neuroscience of Pleasure with Eva Clay May 18, 2023

Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist, and founder of The Institute for Intimacy Arts. We talk about the brain’s capacity for change (neuroplasticity), the brain-body connection for pleasure, the benefits of pleasure, as well as hormones, menopause, and sexuality across the lifespan.

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Eva: https://www.evaclay.com/

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

BONUS Episode: Pregnancy Fantasies & Ghost S*x with Double Teamed Podcast May 13, 2023

I wanted to give y'all a special treat this week- a bonus episode! This chat was recorded for the Double Teamed Podcast with Cami and Niki! This episode is all about fantasies and exploring why we fantasize about a variety of things and experiences that we wouldn't perhaps normally want in the real world. We each share our own fantasies and they range from blood and vampires, to pregnancies and harems, and even sex with ghosts!

Check out more of Double teamed Podcast at https://www.doubleteamedpodcast.com/

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

247 The Science of Swallowing with Ianessa Humbert, Ph.D. May 12, 2023

Have you heard of Swallowology? Ianessa Humbert, Ph.D. is an accomplished scientist, professor, and highly sought-after speaker with expertise in swallowing and swallowing disorders. We talk about the field of swallowology, the gag reflex, deep throating, throat pleasure, sexuality in medicine, and misogynoir in science and academia.

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Ianessa:

https://www.ianessahumbert.com/

https://www.instagram.com/ianessahumbert/

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

From The American Sex Podcast: #170 Taboo BDSM Play May 08, 2023

Today, we’re sharing a preview of one of our favorite podcasts: American Sex. On a mission to change our dysfunctional relationship with shame & pleasure, hosts Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg tackle taboo topics with lighthearted humor & down-to-earth relatability. This clip is from episode 170 Taboo BDSM Play. In it, guest Mollena Williams-Haas discusses making sense of our darkest, deepest, most unspeakable kinky fantasies.

Check out American Sex at americansexpodcast.com FOLLOW US

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

246 Safe Slut with Tricia Wise May 04, 2023

Tricia Wise aka Safe Slut is a NYC based writer, reiki master, herbalist, esthetician, content creator, sexual health advocate, witch, and meme lord. Tricia was diagnosed with genital herpes in November 2019. After noticing the stigma and shame surrounding being herpes positive, she created her Instagram account @safe.slut to help people take their power back while promoting sex positivity, helping to destigmatize STIs and slut shaming, and promoting safer sex practices. In this episode we talk about anorgasmia, feeling confident and being slutty with Herpes, Reiki for sexual healing, sex magic, and more!

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

245 Eco-Sex with Stefanie Iris Weiss Apr 27, 2023

In this episode, I am joined by certified clinical sexologist, pleasure activist, and author Stefanie Iris Weiss. In celebration of Earth Day (April 22) we talk about eco-sexuality and how nature and sensuality intersect. We also cover some astrology (and how it can help your sex life). Stefanie: https://stefanieirisweiss.com/ FOLLOW US

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

244 Surrogate Partner Therapy with Arianna Fernandez Apr 20, 2023

What is Surrogate Partner Therapy? Join me as I interview Arianna Fernandez- an IPSA Certified Surrogate Partner, a professional cuddler, sex educator, and intimacy coach. We talk about what Surrogate Partner Therapy is, who it can help, and how to access it. We also discuss demisexuality, sensate focus, cuddling, body confidence, circumcision, and the importance of touch. Ads: - Dipsea: 30 days of full access for free when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

243 The Evolved Masculine with Destin Gerek Apr 13, 2023

Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International,he is thefounder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves.” We talk about“spiritual f*ckboys,” masculine and feminine energies, teaching men to do better and to get into alignment, performative masculinity, “nice” guys, sensitive boys, and Tantric mythology and philosophy.

Destin: https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/

Good Moms, Bad Choices: https://www.goodmomsbadchoices.com/

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

242 Sexy Parties with Keeley Rankin Apr 06, 2023

Keeley is a sex and relationship coach. She works with individuals and partners who want to embrace their innate desires, build sexual confidence, and fully realize their sexual potential. In this episode, we talk about how to prepare for sex clubs, sex parties, and sexy events. We cover how to find the right event as well as emotional, physical, and relational considerations for before, during, and after your adventure.

Keeley: https://www.keeleyrankin.com/

Double Teamed:

https://www.doubleteamedpodcast.com/

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Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

241 Poly Role Models with Kevin Patterson Mar 30, 2023

In this episode, I interview Kevin Patterson, author of Love’s Not Color Blind and Educator with Unf*ck Your Polyamory. We talk about compassion, freedom, and control in non-monogamy, polyamorous weddings, race and non-monogamous spaces, pitfalls in long-term polyamory, communication skills, and more!

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Kevin:

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If you want a more on polyamory and ethical non monogamy, check out these past episodes:

-08 with Dirty Lola

- 177 Open Smarter with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova

- 199 and 200 with Jessica Esfandiary and Lauren Urbiztondo

- 137 and 214 with Kate Loree

- 227 with Irene Morning

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Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

240 Therapy in Bed with Tallulah Sulis Mar 23, 2023

In this episode, I talk with Somatic Sex Therapist Tallulah Sulis about sexological bodywork and somatic sex therapy/ education. We discuss what it is, who it is for, and how it helps. We also discuss Tantra, female ejaculation, and provide some ways to prepare the whole body for more pleasure. Ads: Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping with our code SCHOLARS at Manscaped.com Featured trailer: https://www.hollyrandallunfiltered.com/ Loving disclaimer:

Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.

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From The Slutrepreneur Podcast: Weird Things I Sell on The Internet Mar 21, 2023

Today, we’re sharing a preview of one of my favorite podcasts: The Slutrepreneur Podcast. Join Ana Dee on her journey to financial freedom being a professional goddess in the adult industry, sharing the success and struggle of unconventional ways to make money from home. Today’s clip features her tips and tricks into the field of selling your dirty underwear. Listen and learn how to start a side hustle selling your worn items, safely and discreetly, with the help of The Slutrepreneur’s rulebook. You can also hear Ana's interview on last week's full episode!

Listen Everywhere Podcasts are Played:

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-slutrepreneur-podcast/id1455421425?i=1000450138548

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7LJ2s8U0kjicqMMXidMGnP?si=AYPWnildQfWaI_rjZEmk9Q

Find the show and more of her resources at ProfessionalGoddess.com

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239 Slutrepreneur with Ana Dee Mar 16, 2023

From the champagne room to the board room, meet Ana Dee, the stripper turned CEO. Also known as her viral alter ego, Rebekka Blue, she displays the uncensored story of being a self-made Professional Goddess. She is a serial entrepreneur, author, podcast host, YouTuber, and a social media icon. Now 29, living on a farm with her dogs in North Carolina, she continues to run her adult toy store and provides beginner Slutrepreneurs with the resources and confidence they need to build their own empires. We talk about capitalizing on sluttiness, the business of sex, and "weird" things you can sell on the internet.

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Ana Dee: https://www.professionalgoddess.com/

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238 Mistress Class with Colette Pervette, PhD Mar 09, 2023

This episode features professional Dominatrix Colette Pervette. We talk about her spiritual approach to the art of kink, what kink and psychedelics have in common, how to find your inner Dom, electroplay, heartache, pain, power, and of course- pleasure!

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Colette:

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237 Sissy with Jacob Tobia Mar 02, 2023

Is everyone a little bit trans? Can gender change over time? Guest Jacob Tobia (they/them) is an actor, writer, producer, and author of the national bestselling memoir Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story. In this episode, we talk all about the nuances of gender from sissy play to Harry Styles.

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236 What is “Normal?” with Ginger Banks Feb 24, 2023

Guest Ginger Banks has been involved in the adult entertainment industry for the past 14 years. This episode covers a lot of ground… and space! We talk about how to challenge systemic issues in the adult industry while destigmatizing sex work, sex worker rights, empathy, Ron Jeremy, redefining “normal,” and even some fun with psychedelics and aliens!

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235 CockTales: Dirty Discussions with Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe Feb 16, 2023

This week I am joined by the hosts of the podcast CockTales: Dirty Discussions. We talk about airport sex, Valentine's Day, self love, cheating, and more!

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234 Horizontal with Lila Feb 09, 2023

Welcome back to a new season of the podcast! This first episode features Lila; she is an intimacy specialist, writer, actress, public speaker, curator, and host of the hit podcasts Horizontal with Lila and Positively Sex! We talk about intimacy, loneliness, keeping desire alive, and what to do if you get distracted during sex.

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Lila: https://horizontalwithlila.com/

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233 Sex and Parenting Part 3: Hot and Unbothered with Yana Tallon-Hicks Dec 22, 2022

This is the final episode of the season! I chat with sex therapist, educator, and author Yana Tallon-Hicks. We talk about keeping things sexy while being a parent, co-parenting, ENM and Kink while parenting, postpartum depression, good enough sex, and more! Ads: - $10 off of my retreat on 2/4-5 using code Pleasure at https://thepleasureconnection.eventbrite.com/ - The Desire Summit on 2/11 https://summit.residence11.com/ - Sex Talk with My Mom Podcast: http://www.sextalkwithmymom.com/ Yana: https://yanatallonhicks.com/ FOLLOW US

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232 Sex and Parenting Part 2: Pleasure and Pregnancy with Kelli Moore Dec 15, 2022

This week I am joined by the co-founder and CEO of Soulfire Productions podcast network, Kelli Moore. We talk all about pregnancy and sexuality including: infertility, IVF, sex and desire while pregnant, non-monogamy and pregnancy, hormones, and more. Tune in to find out what happens when Kelli tries to have a four-way for the first time while pregnant. Kelli: https://kellimoore.co/ FOLLOW US

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231 Sex and Parenting Part 1: Womb Wisdom with Samantha Zipporah Dec 08, 2022

This episode features Samantha Zipporah, a fertility, sex, and cycle educator, author, & activist. We cover the womb continuum from fertilitily awareness methods, to the history of abortion, contraception, hormones, births, and more. Ads: Check out and/ or advertise with the Pleasure Podcast Network: https://www.pleasurepodcasts.com/ Samantha: https://www.samanthazipporah.com/ FOLLOW US

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230 Sex and Culture Part 5: Lotus Lain Dec 01, 2022

In this episode, I chat with performer, producer, intimacy coordinator, and sex work consultant and activist Lotus Lain. We talk about pleasure, consent, voyeurism, types of porn, how sex work is portrayed in media, and sex work and parenting. Ads: - Dipsea: For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/SANDS - Rocket Money: Get rid of useless subscriptions with Rocket Money now. Go to ROCKETMONEY.com/SANDS - Back to the Body: https://backtothebody.org/events/permission Lotus: https://myslink.app/itslotuslain FOLLOW US

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229 Sex and Culture Part 4: Post Traumatic Growth with Krista St-Germain Nov 24, 2022

This episode is about sex and relationships during grief. I talk with Life Coach, grief expert, and podcaster Krista St-Germain about losing her partner, different theories on grief, sexuality and relationships after loss, "wid-hoes," post traumatic growth, and more. Ad: Back to the Body Portal Event: https://backtothebody.org/events/permission/ https://backtothebody.org/ Krista: https://www.coachingwithkrista.com/ FOLLOW US

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228 Sex and Culture Part 3: Plant Medicine with Dr. Tara Nov 17, 2022

This week's guest is Dr. Tara of Luvbites. She is a sex and relationship expert, tenured professor, TED speaker, award-winning researcher, and published author. We talk about her personal experiences with Psilocybin and Ayahuasca and how plant medicine has been healing and life changing for her (sex) life.

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227 Sex and Culture Part 2: The Polyamory Paradox with Irene Morning Nov 10, 2022

Remember this season we are doing new themes each month, and November's theme is sex and culture. This month will highlight Some of the many ways that sex fits into our broader experiences, relationships, and life. We will be covering topics around social values, spirituality, music, psychedelics, and more. This week features somatic pleasure coach and sex and intimacy educator Irene Morning. We talk about neurodiversity and complex trauma, as well as how these facets affect relationships, kink, and non-monogamy. We also discuss emotional flashbacks, toxic shame, and healing relationally through kink, and non-monogamy. We also celebrate Irene's new book called The Polyamory Paradox- Finding Your Confidence in Consensual Non-Monogamy, which is now available for purchase. If you’re in LA and want to come meet me and Irene, I'll be helping her host her book launch party on November 17th at 7 pm. The event is free, but you must RSVP as spaces are limited. We hope to see you there!

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226 Sex and Culture Part 1: Back to the Body with Pamela Madsen Nov 03, 2022

Welcome to another month of the pod! Remember this season we are doing new themes each month and November's theme is sex and culture. This month will highlight some of the many ways that sex fits into our broader experiences, relationships, and life. This first episode features author and Somatic Wellness Coach Pamela Madsen, founder of Back to the Body Inc. We talk about sacred intimacy, sexological bodywork, permission for pleasure, wanting more pleasure, affairs, sex worker experiences, pleasure during grief, eating disorers, and more.

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225 Sl*tty Season Part 4: Boysl*t with Zachary Zane Oct 27, 2022

This episode features columnist, sex expert, and activist Zachary Zane. We talk about his new book Boysl*t, the frequency of anal douching, bisexuality and pansexuality, what it means to be a sl*t, "casual" sex, and more. Zachary even reads a really steamy erotic story...

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224 Sl*tty Season Part 3: The Cowgirl Workout with Tyomi Morgan Oct 20, 2022

This episode features International Pleasure Coach and Sexpert Tyomi Morgan, better known as Glamazon Tyomi. We talk about shower sex, best positions for oral, how to ride and stroke better, sex furniture, and more. GiddyUp!

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223 Sl*tty Season Part 2: ASMR Daddy Oct 13, 2022

ASMR Daddy returns to chat about all of the things: breeding kinks (especially with the curent state of abortion rights), vasectomies, bodily fluids, semen art, public sex, praise kinks, what makes great sex, and more!

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222 Sl*tty Season Part 1: Kink Health with TASHRA Oct 06, 2022

This week I am joined by Dr. Anna Randall and Kaylie Engel of TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance). As champions of Kink competent healthcare, TASHRA supports empirical research on this misunderstood and often pathologized sexual-minority. We talk about research on Kink and BDSM, talking to your healthcare providers about alternative sexualities, Kink in the media, and more.

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Ep. 221 - Back to the Basics 5: Twisted Intimacy with Monika Sep 29, 2022

This episode features Monika, the owner and founder of Twisted Intimacy, which is a combo of sexual health and body movement techniques. Monika is a certified Sexual Health Professional from Indiana University, a certified Twerk Technician, and a certified 1.0 Liquid Motion Instructor. We talk about intimacy and how sensual movement can change your (sex) life. Spoiler: even if you think you aren't a smooth dancer, Monika believes that "everyone can find their sexy."

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220 Back to the Basics 4: You Deserve Pleasure with Reba C. Thomas Sep 22, 2022

This week continues our Back to the Basics theme of September with Reba C. Thomas, aka Reba the Diva. She is a sex and pleasure educator and cannabis advocate. We talk about the importance of a pleasure practice, pleasure as an act of resistance, “good girl” conditioning, cannabis and parenthood, and how to feel more deserving of pleasure as a human right.

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219 Back to the Basics 3: Dating Advice with Erin Tillman Sep 15, 2022

On this third week of our back to the basics month, I chat with Erin Tillman. She is a Certified Intimacy Coordinator, Certified Sex Educator, inclusive Dating & Consent Empowerment Coach, Author, Speaker, and Media Personality based in LA. She is also the current Executive Director of sexuality nonprofit Sex-Positive Los Angeles. We talk about intimacy coordination (what it is and how it works) as well as dating and connection tips and how to approach folks that you are interested in (hint: not with unsolicited D picks).

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218 Back to the Basics 2: Sexology with Dr. Nazanin Moali Sep 08, 2022

I am joined this week by Dr. Nazanin Moali, sex therapist and host of the Sexology Podcast. We talk about what it means to be "good" at sex, mixed orientation couples, shame induced pelvic pain, sexual boredom, and what exactly sex therapists do and how being a sex therapist impacts our love lives. For Part 1 where Dr. Nazanin interviews me, check out her show this week!

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BONUS EP: The Pleasure Connection with Ashley Manta and Lisa Reider Sep 08, 2022

This bonus episode features my co-hosts for an upcoming partnered retreat: The Pleasure Connection (happening Sept 24-25th at a private ranch in Malibu). We talk about how to create and maintain connection, what gets in the way of connecting, and some delicious teasers for the event. The event: https://thepleasureconnection.eventbrite.com/ FOLLOW US

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217 Back to the Basics 1: Navigating Desire with Cosmo Meens and Melissa D. Sep 01, 2022

Welcome back to another season! This time around we are doing things a little differently. I am going to be doing monthly themes; sort of like mini seasons. This episode kicks off our Back to the Basics month of September. In this episode, I have two guests: Somatic Sex Educator Cosmo Meens and Sexological Bodyworker Melissa D. of BodyJoy Intimacy School. We talk about navigating desire, sensual retreats, shame, and why the patriarchy is bad for everyone. Ads: Partner Retreat: https://thepleasureconnection.eventbrite.com/ Guests: Cosmo with Apollo Retreats: https://www.the-apollo-project.com/the-retreat Melissa D.: https://bodyjoy.org/ FOLLOW US

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216 Peg the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas Jun 30, 2022

Strap in for some strap on information with Sex and Pleasure Educator Luna Matatas. In this season finale episode, we talk about pegging, anal play, cunnilingus, eating ass, and why it is so hard to just recieve pleasure. Nicoletta also goes on for too long (or not long enough?) about the intersection of Taco Bell and sex. Events: - Sexpert event with Nicoletta: https://sexpertconsultants.com/tickets - The Great Fox Hunt https://www.blackfoxprod.com/ Ads: - Extended 30 day free trial with DipseaStories.com/sands - 20% percent off an at-home lab test at everlywell.com/sands Luna: https://lunamatatas.com/ FOLLOW US

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215 EmotionAL Support with Alessandra Torresani Jun 23, 2022

This episode welcomes actress, mental health advocate, and podcast host of EmotionAl Support. We talk about living with and navigating Bipolar Disorder as well as equine assisted therapy, acting, medication, and more.

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214 Open Deeply with Kate Loree Jun 16, 2022

Therapist and newly published author Kate Loree returns for a part two on opening up relationships. She gives us a deeper peak into her new book Open Deeply; we talk about how to create more compassion in relationships, non-monogamy with mood or personality disorders, individuality versus intimacy, and some common pitfalls of opening up relationships, as well as successes and opportunities for growth, joy, and healing.

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213 Perfectionism with Alyssa "Lia" Marie Wellness Jun 09, 2022

This episode features therapist and wellness speaker and educator Alyssa "Lia" Mancao of Alyssa Marie Wellness. We talk about EMDR, decolonizing beauty, perfectionism, and more. Ads: 15% off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS Lia: https://www.alyssamariewellness.com/ FOLLOW US

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212 Sexual Functioning with Dr. Lisa Valle Jun 02, 2022

In this episode we talk about the specialization of sexual medicine with Dr. Lisa Valle, founder of Oasis Women’s Sexual Function Center. We discuss when and why to go to a sexual medicine specialist, some common diagnoses and treatments, the potential limitations of general OBGYN care, and what you can do to improve your sexual functioning and health. Ads : - Everlywell is offering a special discount of 20% off an at-home lab test at everlywell.com/sands Dr. Valle: https://www.oasiswomenssexualfunctioncenter.org/ ISSWSH: https://www.isswsh.org/ FOLLOW US

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211 Double Teamed: Part 1 May 26, 2022

This episode is a two-parter with Cami and Niki of the Double Teamed podcast. We talk about twinship (and why people love twins), nature versus nurture, reverse harem erotica, and knives (sexy or not?). Want more? Tune in for Part two on the Double Teamed podcast.

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210 Sex with Dr. Jess May 19, 2022

Dr. Jess O'Reilly is an acclaimed international sex educator, author, and podcaster. This episode we talk about core erotic feelings, sexual values, "laziness" in relationships, and even why you shouldn't JIC (just in case) pee!

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209 America's Mom with Rachel Steele May 12, 2022

Rachel Steele pioneered the MILF niche as America’s Mom. In this episode we talk about the popularity and taboo of incest porn, being a good Mommy (and a Mom), relational age disparities, grief, fantasies, ageism, and more. Happy Mother's Day!

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208 Pillow Talks with Vanessa & Xander Marin May 05, 2022

This episode welcomes back Vanessa Marin, who has now teamed up with her awesome partner Xander to become the dream duo for partnered sex and relationship advice. The three of us talk about farting and pooping in front of partners (are you for or against?), mental loads, trying new things in the bedroom, how to come back to the moment when you get distracted during sex, and more. Check them out:https://vmtherapy.com/ FOLLOW US

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207 Lovewick with Ali Maggioncalda Apr 28, 2022

Come learn about love tech with Lovewick app founder Ali Maggioncalda. We talk about how to work on your relationship by staying committed to curiosity. We even answer some of the questions on the Lovewick cards about our own sexual and relational preferences. Also included: sologamy, aftercare, and Zelda! Ads: 15 % off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS Lovewick: https://www.lovewick.com/ FOLLOW US

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206 Sex When You Don't Feel Like It with Cyndi Darnell Apr 21, 2022

This episode feautures clinical sexologist, sex coach, and author Cyndi Darnell. We talk all about how to have more pleasure through erotic embodiment.

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205 Freek-A-Leek with Decoding Couples Apr 14, 2022

This week I am joined by Rachel Facio & Stacey Sherrell, the duo behind Decoding Couples. We talk about the silliest fights we’ve had with our partners (and what they were actually about), fighting fairly, best and worst things to do during a disagreement, initiating and declining sex, and some fun facts with Dino Nuggets and Petey Pablo (you’ll understand when you listen).

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204 Love After War with Dr. Mitchell Tepper Apr 07, 2022

This episode features Dr. Mitchell Tepper- sexuality researcher, educator, filmmaker, and coach. We talk about his documentary Love After War: Saving Love, Saving Lives, which tells the stories of intimate partners who have won the battle for love. We also cover spinal cord injuries and pleasure as well PTSD, different kinds of disabilities and how they affect sex and relationships. The Doc: https://www.loveafterwar.org/ Dr. Tepper: https://www.drmitchelltepper.com/ FOLLOW US

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203 The Wild Woman's Way with Michaela Boehm Mar 31, 2022

This week I am joined by internationally renowned author, counselor, and speaker Michaela Boehm. We talk about erotic archetypes, listening to our bodies, and her Non-Linear Movement Method®, a somatic release modality which utilizes principles of trauma therapy, polyvagal theory and movement for nervous system regulation (with a demo!). Ads: 15% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/sands Michaela: https://www.michaelaboehm.com/ FOLLOW US

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202 InToPleasure: A bonus episode with Amy Baldwin of Shameless Sex Mar 25, 2022

In this episode, I co-host with burlesque icon and past guest Michelle L'amour! This episode is actually PART TWO of a bonus feature about pleasure in honor of our upcoming event InToPleasure (on April 2) and features 2022 Sexpert of the Year Amy Baldwin from the podcast Shameless Sex. You can catch part 1 on Shameless Sex wherever you get your podcasts. event: https://intopleasure.com/ FOLLOW US

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201 The Funny Dom Returns: Q and A Episode Mar 24, 2022

This week The Funny Dom returns to answer listener questions. These questions range from tips for the beginner kinkster to ideas for the seasoned player. We cover how to meet kinky people, how to vet potential partners, how to get started into kink/ bdsm play, DDLG fun in public and private, getting in touch with your inner child, handling jealousy, and why jelly beans are hot. If somehow none of this sounds appealing, tune in for his Australian accent. InToPleasure: https://intopleasure.com/ Funny Dom: https://www.patreon.com/thefunnydom FOLLOW US

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200 Accidental Threesomes with Jessica Esfandiary and Lauren Urbiztondo Mar 17, 2022

Did you want to hear more about Jessica‘s relationship from last weeks episode? I certainly did! This week features Jessica and her partner Lauren. They talk about how an accidental threesome turned into a beautiful polyamorous love story and shared business. We discuss how to negotiate threesomes in and out of the bedroom, how to manage multiple partners, jealousy, goddess retreats, loving women, and lots of other sexy goodness. Also, happy bday to Lauren!

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199 Open Late with Jessica Esfandiary Mar 10, 2022

This week I am joined by Jessica Esfandiary, retreat leader and host of the Open Late podcast. We talk about how an accidental threesome turned into polyamory. We also discuss how to work through opening up your relationship, falling in love again (with yourself and others), hysterectomies, vaginal health, and more.

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198 The War On Drugs with Ifetayo Harvey of the POC Psychedelic Collective Mar 03, 2022

Ifetayo Harvey of the POC Psychedelic Collective joins in for a conversation about psychedelic assisted therapies as well as her own experience with the war on drugs and plant medicine. We cover drug policy reform, cultural roots of psychedelic medicine, harm reduction, and Ifetayo's own healing experiences. Ads: - Join me at my upcoming event IntoPleasure: https://intopleasure.com/ - Like A Kitten 20% off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS - 65% off Beducated's yearly pass with our code "sands" at http://beducate.me/sands Ifetayo: https://www.ifetayo.me/ https://www.pocpc.org/ FOLLOW US

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197 Bex Talks Sex with Dildorks' Bex Caputo Feb 24, 2022

Bex Caputo is a sex educator, blogger, speaker, podcaster, and professional pervert. We talk about how to get more comfortable and confident with sexting, “dirty” talk, and erotica.

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196 I Want to "Make" You Gay with Goddexx Daphne Feb 17, 2022

Goddexx Daphne (They/She/Daddy) is a Pro Dominatrix and FemDom clip creator in Portland, Oregon. As a queer Domme, Daphne enjoys embodying the role of a Femme Daddy and playing with submissives, or subs, of all genders. We talk about Daddy culture, different types of consensual non-consent (including something called coerced bisexual), using BDSM to work through sexual shame, and more. Ads: - Like a Kitten, 20% off and free shipping: www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS - Buy a Lioness at lioness.io and enter to win one @slutsandscholars on Instagram. Check out the Lioness Giveaway post for info. Winner announced week of 2/28 My guest: Goddexx Daphne: https://goddexxdaphne.com/ FOLLOW US

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195 Something Positive for Positive People with Courtney Brame Feb 11, 2022

Challenging the status quo of the media, medical field, and internal belief systems about the identities of those living with a sexually transmitted infection, Courtney and his organization Something Positive for Positive People are bringing awareness to the interconnectedness of mental health and sexual health. We talk about herpes and other STI’s, how to negotiate sexual play, and how to deal with shame and stigma.

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194 Sacred Intimacy with Court Vox of The Body Vox Feb 03, 2022

Welcome back to a new season! This episode focuses on surrogate partner therapy, sexological body work, and somatic sex coaching.

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193 Erotic Blueprints with Jaiya Inc’s Ian Ferguson Dec 10, 2021

Ian Ferguson is a Master Trainer of the Erotic Blueprint™ Methodology and co-founder of Jaiya, Inc., a company dedicated to radically transforming how society discusses and experiences sex. You may have seen them on Sex, Love, and Goop. Tune in to learn more about your blueprint and bust the myth of sexual compatibility.

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192 Sex Down South with Marla Renee Stewart Dec 02, 2021

This week I am joined by sex educator, speaker, and coach Marla Renee Stewart. We talk about her new book An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy: Centering the Lives of Indigenous, Racialized, and People of Color. We also talk about her amazing events including Sex Down South and Dick Fest, as well as ways to heal through acts of self love. Ads: - Go to GETQUIP.com/SANDS RIGHT NOW and on top of their holiday savings, you’ll get your first refill FREE. - Check out YourParade.com/sands and use code sands to get 20 % off your first order - 10% off and free shipping when you use my code sands at UberLube.com

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191 B4U-Act with Richard Kramer Nov 24, 2021

This episode talks about a recent controversy in the news regarding Dr. Allyn Walker's research on minor attraction and childhood sexual abuse. I first share the importance of this topic and its nuanced complexities, then I interview a non-offending minor attracted person named Richard Kramer, who discusses what it is like to live with these highly stigmatized desires. Other topics covered: abuse prevention, academic freedom, and stigma related stress. Ads: - 10% off and free shipping at uberlube.com with code sands - 30% off any Satisfyer https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H - 30 day free extended trial dipseastories.com/sands

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190 Sexological Bodywork with the Pleasure Mechanics Nov 18, 2021

If you watched the recent Goop series Sex, Love, & Goop, you may know a bit about Sexological Bodywork; tune in to learn even more. Educators Chris Maxwell Rose and Charlotte Mia Rose, aka the Pleasure Mechanics, join in for a conversation about body work, the importance of touch, how to savor more and increase your pleasure in life and sex, erotic massage, and more!

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189 The Funny Dom Oct 28, 2021

This week I am joined by The Funny Dom. He is a kink content creator spreading BDSM positivity from his home in Melbourne, Australia. We talk about Gomez and Morticia Addams (aka the dream couple), humor in BDSM, 24/7 kinky arrangements, and how to differentiate a toxic misogynist from a Dom or Daddy. Ads: - Everlywell.com/sands for 20% off your at-home lab test - 30% off any Satisfyer at https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H

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188 Nutrition and PCOS with Tamar Samuels Oct 21, 2021

This week I am joined by Tamar Samuels of Culina Health. Tamar is a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist and we talk about PCOS (Polycystic ovary syndrome), how gut health affects our whole body (sexuality included), and nutrition in relation to sexual health.

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187 Kinky Spa Time with Goddess KoCo Meow Oct 15, 2021

Goddess KoCo Meow is a Professional Dominatrix at Atlanta Dungeon and a Fetish Esthetician/Lead Instructor at Atlanta Sissy Feminization Academy. Her signature is infusing spa treatments with BDSM & Kink. We talk about how this works, why people do it, and ways to love your body more.

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186 Sexual Medicine with Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, M.D. Oct 07, 2021

This episode features urologist Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, M.D., who is fellowship-trained in Sexual Medicine and specializes in the management of sexual dysfunctions. We talk about everything from hormone management, to low libido, "blue balls," and even how to ejaculate more (and why people want to!).

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185 Look Down There with Nicoletta Sep 30, 2021

This special episode turns the tables and I get interviewed by Michelle L’amour on her podcast Look Down There. We talk about how to decrease sexual and body shame as well as offer some hands on tools and steps to explore yourself more. Discounts/ Ads: 30% off Satisfyer at https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=SANDS&utm_campaign=2H

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184 Make Love Longer with Jeff Abraham of Promescent Sep 23, 2021

This episode tackles premature ejaculation, or as I prefer to say “finishing before you want to.” I chat with Jeff Abraham of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, makers of sexual wellness supplies including Promescent- a delay spray that helps people with penises “make love longer.” I challenge Jeff about this complex product and talk about why, how, and when folks can use it.

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183 Psychiatry and Medication with Dr. Josephine McNary, M.D. Sep 16, 2021

This episode features M.D. Dr. Josephine McNary of CalPsychiatry. We talk about when to visit a psychiatrist, how the process works, some misnomers about medication, as well as what to do if your meds cause sexual side effects. Discounts/ ads: - Get 20% off + free shipping with the code sands at manscaped.com. - 30% off of Satisfyer using code sands30 at this link https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.google.com/url?q%3Dhttps://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source%253DPodcast%2526utm_medium%253DSANDS%2526utm_campaign%253D2H%26amp;sa%3DD%26amp;source%3Deditors%26amp;ust%3D1631745828543000%26amp;usg%3DAOvVaw2PhKPDCcgK6IqX6TTm9P37&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1631745828565000&usg=AOvVaw0_rpyx4PzUZ77aGbnUtrpM CalPsychiatry: https://calpsychiatry.com/

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182 Pleasure Science with Nadège Sep 09, 2021

This week's episode features sex scholar and writer Nadège, founder of Pleasure Science. We talk about sexual empowerment, self esteem, how to communicate boundaries and needs before, during, and after sex, as well as the intersection of science and pleasure.

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181 Welcome to Kinkyville with Javay da BAE and Emily Blake Sep 02, 2021

Welcome back to another season of Sluts and Scholars! This first episode talks about a new animated, educational show called Welcome to Kinkyville- which aims to help folks engage in Kink and BDSM in a safer, more informed way. We talk about how to find a Dom, how to explore BDSM for the first time, unicorn "hunting", and more.

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180 Trans Sex with Lucie Fielding Jul 03, 2021

Nicoletta welcomes back newly minted author Lucie Fielding to talk about her new book- Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments. Ads: UberLube- 10% and free shipping when you use code sands at uberlube.com Dipsea- Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/SANDS Manscaped: Get 20% off + free shipping with the code sands at manscaped.com. Lucie Fielding: https://luciefielding.com/

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179 ASMR Daddy Jun 24, 2021

Join in a conversation with “Rick,” the founder and creator of ASMR Daddy, an audio porn outlet and community for appreciators of all things Daddy. Ads: Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping! Just use code SandS Feeld: https://feeld.app.link/sands50 Pour Moi: https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ ASMR DADDY https://www.pornhub.com/model/asmr-daddy

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178 Befriending Your Nervous System: Trauma Resiliency with Jennifer Burton Flier Jun 17, 2021

This episode helps to break down the nervous system and explains how it affects our relationships and sex lives. Jennifer provides tools for stabilizing the nervous system and finding our inherent resiliency when we are under stress or triggered by traumatic events. This is a must listen for anyone with a body! Ads: - UberLube 10% off and free shipping when you use my code SandS at UberLube.com. - Feeld https://feeld.app.link/sands50 Jennifer: www.jenniferburtonmft.com Trauma Resource Institute: https://www.traumaresourceinstitute.com/

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177 Open Smarter with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova Jun 10, 2021

Dr. Zhana is a relationship scientist, writer, and consultant. This episode talks about ways to be more prepared when opening up your relationship- the do's, don'ts, and things to think about! Check out Zhana's course on opening smarter: https://www.drzhana.com/open-smarter Ads/ sponsors Manscaped: 20% off and free shipping with the code: [sands] at manscaped.com. Dipsea: Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to

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176 Musical Orgasms with Von May 27, 2021

Von uses her own orgasm to make music. Remember the Lioness vibrator from episode 126? Von hacked her Lioness to change the way we talk about sex- and to create songs. Tune in to hear how this works, tips for working through sexual shame, and how to deal with rejection.

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175 Pineapple Support: Adult Industry Mental Health with Leya Tanit May 23, 2021

This episode discusses mental health needs and progress in the adult industry. It includes: how to be a sex worker informed therapist, barriers to care, stigma, and more.

In honor of the late Dr. Amie Harwick’s birthday. You are missed and your contribution to Pineapple and so many other lives will never be forgotten.

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174 Asexuality with Ellie Next Door May 13, 2021

Ellie is an asexual sex worker who joins me for a conversation around sexual spectrums, types of desires, aphantasia, and fetishes. She helps correct misconceptions about the asexuality spectrum and shares some personal ways that she helps clients combat sexual shame. Ads/ discounts: Satisfyer: 40% off and free shipping for all app-enabled devices with discount code SandS40 Feeld: https://feeld.app.link/sands50 Download the Feeld app for free AND support our show by using the link. Even better...when you use our link in the description, you’ll get 50% off the first three months of Feeld’s Majestic membership Ellie: https://allmylinks.com/ellienextdoor1

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173 Healing Addiction and Trauma with Rafael J. Cortina May 06, 2021

Spanish-English bilingual therapist Rafael Cortina joins me for a conversation about trauma and addiction. We talk about the nervous system and how trauma affects the road to recovery. Ads/ discounts: Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code “SandS” at UberLube.com. OhMyG: 30% off at https://www.iobatoys.com/discount/SandS Rafael: https://www.in-sighttherapygroup.com/

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172 The Queen of Sexy with AM Davies Apr 29, 2021

AM Davies is a veteran stripper, a sex worker activist, a new amputee, and the creator and host of Yes A Stripper Podcast. We talk about life as an amputee- both physically and emotionally, how to be kinder to ourselves, devotees, strip club safety, and healing.

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171 Horse Therapy with Dr. Natasha Filippides Apr 22, 2021

This episode features clinical psychologist and equine (horse and donkey) assisted psychotherapist Dr. Natasha Filippides. We talk about what equine therapy is, how it works, and how it can help you take your therapy and mental health work to the next level! Ads: Feeld: https://feeld.app.link/sands50 Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code sands Stand InBalance: https://standinbalance.com/

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170 Practical Spirituality and Reiki with Maria Dominique Lopez Apr 17, 2021

This episode features Maria Dominique Lopez of Ascending Arts. We talk about boundaries and how to make and keep them, shadow work, Reiki, decolonization, mindfulness, and spirituality. Ad/ discounts: 30% off of OhMyG https://www.iobatoys.com/discount/SandS Maria: https://www.instagram.com/ascendingarts/

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169 Do Opposites Attract? Hypnosis Part Two with Gila Zak Apr 12, 2021

This week features Gila Zak, certified hypnotherapist and biofeedback specialist. We talk about everything from handwriting analysis (spoiler: I get my handwriting analyzed), to sexual freedom hypnosis, as well as why we choose incompatible partners and what to do about it!

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168 Hypnosis Part One with Jordan Wolan, CHT Apr 01, 2021

This week features Jordan Wolan, a Certified Hypnotherapist and Reiki Master. Jordan helps clients break through unconscious blocks to remove unwanted thoughts and behaviors and create positive changes. We talk about why people use hypnosis and what it can address, how Jordan helped me eat less Taco Bell, Neuro-linguistic programming, erotic and BDSM hypnosis, pet play, and having an orgasm through suggestion!

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167 Respark Your Sex Life with Heather McPherson Mar 25, 2021

This episode features therapist, educator, and founder of The Sexual Health Alliance Heather McPherson. We talk about common issues that partners face, how to get into the field of sexuality, and how to find a sex-informed therapist. Discounts! Uberlube: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code “SandS” at UberLube.com Pour Moi: Pour Moi is offering our listeners an additional $25 off of Intensity when you go to https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ Heather: Respark https://respark.co/ Sexual Health Alliance https://sexualhealthalliance.com/

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166 Mirrors for Reflection with Danny Santos Mar 18, 2021

Today I am talking with Danny Santos. Danny specializes in Astrological Birth Chart Readings, Tarot Readings, and Couples Sex/Love/Relationship/Intimacy Astrology. We discuss how to use astrology to spice up your sex life, how astrology and tarot can highlight aspects of yourself and your relationship, sexual liberation, tantric practice, plant medicine, and more. In my practice, I often help folks incorporate their spiritual practices if it is something that is important to them, even if I don’t always align with their beliefs. I invite you to stay open and see what resonates with you. Danny: https://www.instagram.com/santoscrystalvisions Ads and Discounts: Special sponsor segment by Satisfyer:

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165 Into Pleasure with Five Sexperts Mar 11, 2021

This episode is like five coaching and education sessions in one hour on pleasure, lingerie, kink and BDSM, sex ed, and sex toys. It features Burlesque performer and educator Michelle L’amour, sexologist and sex therapist Dr. Shannon Chavez, professional dominatrix Isabella Sinclaire, sex educator Dirty Lola, and the "Lingerie Addict" Cora Harrington. We talk about how to pick underwear and lingerie for whatever body you have, how to pick a sex toy for you, how to maximize your pleasure, how to navigate a shy partner in BDSM, arousal versus desire, and so much more. They are going to be doing an all star event coming up on March 20th and you can get involved at intopleasure.com.

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164 Awakening Your Libido with Lola Jean Feb 25, 2021

I hope you love this episode as much as I do featuring the fantastic Lola Jean- sex educator, instructor, coach, and Pro Domme. We talk about building confidence, awakening desire and libido, squirting, wrestling fetishes, and what to do if you like things that your partner does not. Discount and Ads: - Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands - Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order when they go to

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163 Sex on the Spectrum with Gloria Jackson-Nefertiti Feb 18, 2021

This week's guest is Gloria Jackson-Nefertiti. She is a poet, public speaker, panelist, singer, photographer, and performance artist. She is also a breast cancer survivor who has Autism. She talks about what it is like to live in the intersection of being Black, autistic, polyamorous, and kinky, and how to navigate complex relationships in a neurotypical world. Episode sponsored by UberLube: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code SandS at UberLube.com. Support Gloria: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GloriaJacksonNefertiti Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gloriajacksonnefertiti/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/gloriajn Website: notgloriajean.net Gloria's "Thriving Life Fund" (GoFundMe Campaign): https://gf.me/u/ynqfuf

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162 Choose Your Own Erotic Fantasies with Joanna Angel Feb 11, 2021

This episode welcomes back author, director, and porn performer extraordinaire Joanna Angel as we celebrate her new book Club 42- a choose your own erotic fantasy where you get to decide what newfound stripper Naomi does next. We also talk about Joanna's creative process, her relationship and literary inspirations, some sexy tidbits from the book, and her idea of a dirty good time.

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161 Desire Discrepancies with Jennifer Litner Feb 04, 2021

Welcome back to a new season! Jennifer Litner, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexuality Educator, kicks us off with an episode about differing desires in a relationship (desire discrepancy), dealing with sexual disappointment, how to talk to children about sex in an age "appropriate" way, and how to keep things spicy in a long-term partnership. Also- why is sex like ice cream? Discounts and ads: Building Ease online course with Jennifer Litner: Listeners can save 20% off at buildingease.embracesexualwellness.com using the promo code SLUTSANDSCHOLARS at checkout, valid thru 2/28/2021 Sakara plant-based meal delivery: Sakara is offering listeners 20% off their first order at sakara.com/sands Dipsea sexy story audios: Dipsea is offering a 30-day free trial dipseastories.com/sands Like a Kitten Couple's Box: 20 % off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS

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160 The Crygasm with Javay da BAE Nov 20, 2020

This episode features millennial sexpert and sex eductaor Javay da BAE. Javay and Nicoletta cover a lot from racism in sex work to how to keep your long term relationship sexually connected. But also- the crygasm! Sponsors/ discounts: Pour Moi:

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159 Burnout with Moushumi Ghose Nov 05, 2020

With the election on top of all the other 2020 madness, burnout this year feels more real than ever. Using their own experiences as therapists, Moushumi Ghose joins Nicoletta for a very real conversation about feeling burnt out. Some topics: what to look for during burnout, what to do about burnout, and how to avoid it in the first place. Moushumi: https://www.losangelessextherapy.com/ Other Resources: - Book by the Nagoski sisters https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/592377/burnout-by-emily-nagoski-phd-and-amelia-nagoski-dma/ - Talk with Brene Brown https://brenebrown.com/podcast/brene-with-emily-and-amelia-nagoski-on-burnout-and-how-to-complete-the-stress-cycle/

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158 This is Halloween Oct 30, 2020

This special episode features some past guests' submissions featuring real sexual health horror stories. Join Nicoletta as she welcomes back Dirty Lola, Mistress Justine Cross, Isabella Frappier, and Dr. Laurie Mintz. From debunking condom myths, to butt plugs gone wrong, health care horror, and systemic -isms, this episode is not for the faint of heart and is sure to leave you reeling.

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157 The Most Naked Woman with Michelle L'Amour Oct 22, 2020

Burlesque icon Michelle L'Amour joins Nicoletta for a conversation about genital confidence. They also delve into beauty standards, Alopecia, and vulnerability- as well as Butthoven. Sponsors:

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156 - All About Herpes with Emily L. Depasse Oct 15, 2020

This episode features sexologist and soon-to-be therapist Emily L. Depasse. Emily and Nicoletta talk about all things Herpes from stigma, to sex education, policy, and personal stories. Have you ever wondered how to tell a new or ongoing partner that you have Herpes? Tune in to find out how to navigate this very common virus. Sponsors/ discounts:

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155 The Single Sex Therapist with Nicole Belmonte Oct 08, 2020

This week Nicoletta is joined by classmate and colleague Nicole Belmonte- who is also a therapist and sexologist. They talk about what it is like dating when you are a sex therapist, how to deal with being single, and what exactly a sex therapist can help you with.

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154 The Stay-at-Home Dom with Andre Shakti Oct 01, 2020

This week's episode features stripper, FemDom, sex educator, columnist, and slut Andre Shakti. Nicoletta and Andre go deep into wrestling as a fetish, navigating non-monogamy, racism in sex work, and even loving problematic shows like Law and Order SVU (sigh, Benson and Stabler). This episode is sponsored by Pour Moi- use this link AND take advantage of their sale (make sure to use both) to get up to $65 off https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ Andre: https://twitter.com/andreshakti Andre's non-monogamy blog: https://www.iampoly.net/ Sanctuary virtual strip club: https://sanctuarytheclub.com/

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153 Urology and Finding the Right Fit with Dr. Gabal Sep 24, 2020

Urologist Dr. Gabal joins Nicoletta for a conversation about all things sexual medicine. From erectile and ejaculation struggles, to vaginal pain and dryness, and even some debates on vaginal tightness and tone, genital reconstructive surgery (for medical and aesthetic purposes), and cell regeneration. This episode is sponsored by Pour Moi's Intensity. Get $25 of your order at https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ Resources: - Dr. Gabal: https://www.drgabal.com/ - Gainswave: https://gainswave.com/ - Femiwave: https://femiwave.com/

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152 Carnal Knowledge with Zoë Ligon Sep 17, 2020

Welcome back to a new season of Sluts and Scholars! This first episode welcomes back Zoë Ligon, the Dildo Duchess of Spectrum Boutique. We talk about her new sex ed book Carnal Knowledge (coming out next week!), using sex toys (aka tools) with partners, sex education, and WAPs. Sponsor Discount: Dipseastories.com/sands Zoë's book: https://spectrumboutique.com/collections/sex-sexuality-books Article about vibrators: https://journal.spectrumboutique.com/article/what-is-your-vibrator-really-doing-to-your-body/ Crashpad: https://crashpadseries.com/

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151 Come Curious with Florence Barkway and Reed Amber Jul 30, 2020

In this season's finale, Nicoletta welcomes UK's Florence and Reed of the YouTube hit channel Come Curious. They talk about penis size (does size matter?!), oral sex tips, body image, and foreskin. Thanks for another great season slutty scholars! Come Curious: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIRoo9Lsz1DOXRIvEo-UARQ Erika Lust collab: https://xconfessions.com/collaborators/directors/florence-barkway-reed-amber

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150 Sexual Stories with Dr. Juliana Jul 23, 2020

Join sexpert, therapist, educator, and academic Dr. Juliana to learn about how we create our own sexual stories and narratives and how to use these to reclaim and empower ourselves. Also included: struggling to have orgasms, masturbation retreats, and Betty Dodson. - Sponsor/ discount!! For 50% off your first Care/of order, go to TakeCareOf.com and enter code sands50 - Dr. Juliana www.dr-juliana.com Insta: drjulianahauser - Bodysex https://dodsonandross.com/bodysex

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149 Happy Endings with Sofiya and Courtney of Private Parts Unknown Jul 16, 2020

Erotic massages are not just for penises! Sofiya and Courtney of the comedy sex travel podcast Private Parts Unknown tell the tale of their multi-orgasmic massages in Tokyo. Also included: sex tourism- exploitation or consesnual and fabulous? Tune in for a hilarious chat about why it's OK to pay for sex...AKA health. https://privatepartsunknown.com/

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148 The Pelvic Whisperer with Dr. Sherine Aubert, PT, DPT, PRPC Jul 11, 2020

Dr. Sherine Aubert talks all about pelvic health and how the pelvis influences many aspects of life on a deeply rooted level- mentally, physically and emotionally. Tune in for a chat about pelvic floor therapy for all bodies.

Old episode with Kayna Cassard on Pelvic Pain: https://slutsscholars.libsyn.com/101-is-a-tight-vagina-a-thing-pelvic-pain-with-kayna-cassard

Dr. Sherine: https://www.pelvichealing.com/team/sherine

Restored Physique: https://www.restoredphysique.com/meet-the-team

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147 SexLoveYoga with Dr. Cat Meyer Jul 02, 2020

What is embodiment? How does being in our body lead to better sex? How does trauma impact pleasure? All of this and more on this week’s episode with therapist, sexologist, educator, and podcaster Dr. Cat Meyer.

Dr. Cat

http://catmeyer.com/

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146 Demisexuality and the blexApp with Tatyannah King Jun 25, 2020

This week's episode features sex eductaor, blogger, and blexApp rep Tatyannah King. Tatyannah talks about what it means to be demisexual, the importantce of Black community resources, racial stereotypes and sexuality, as well as the new blexApp, which is dedicated to strengthening melanated sex, intimacy and relationships. Resources mentioned: Tatyannah https://www.instagram.com/taty_k_king/ blexApp https://blexapp.com/ OMGYes https://www.omgyes.com/

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145 Daddy Issues with Nicky Paris Jun 18, 2020

Comedian Nicky Paris joins Nicoletta to talk about all things gay and comedy such his dreams of being an Amish jam seller, no reason boners (NRBs), blue balls, intimacy struggles, and heterosexism.

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144 Come as You Are with Emily Nagoski Jun 11, 2020

This week Nicoletta welcomes one of her favorite authors and sex scholars Emily Nagoski, PhD. Emily is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life. They talk about how to create sex worth having.

Resources:

Emily:

https://www.emilynagoski.com

Peggy Kleinplatz: https://med.uottawa.ca/epidemiology/people/kleinplatz-peggy-j

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143 Beyond the Gender Binary with ALOK Jun 04, 2020

This episode is a crucial resource. A resource about beauty standards and creativity, about gender non-conformity, and about survival and gender-based violence. This episode is about human rights.

Want to help? Donate to ALOK’s book drive for LGBTQ youth by June 9th: https://www.alokvmenon.com/store/ally

If you would like to make a major gift or donation for this campaign contact info@alokvmenon.com

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142 The Virtual Strip Club with Hippea K May 28, 2020

What are strip clubs and dancers doing during this time?! Creating an online platform of course. Join Nicoletta and Hippea for a conversation about the first sex worker owned and operated Strip Club Co-Op - The Virtual Strip Club (TVSC). Learn about how you can help support and join in on the fun!

TVSC: Hippea: https://www.instagram.com/hippeahustle/

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141 Kinky Quarantine with Mistress Justine Cross May 21, 2020

This week Nicoletta welcomes back the fabulous Mistress Justine Cross. They talk about how to be kinky in quarantine, ProDom work during COVID, and how to use creativity in your partnership. Also, do you need help cleaning your bathroom? Mistress Justine is here to hold you accountable…

Mistress Justine Cross: https://www.losangelesdominatrix.com/

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140 Seduce Yourself with Erica Steiner May 14, 2020

Nicoletta is joined by her best friend of 20 years (be prepared-Nicoletta will say "like" a lot due to her valley girl roots) to talk about how a real long term couple is turning this quarantine into a time to get weird with themselves and each other. While she is not an accredited sex expert, Erica talks about how not to be sexually "boring" after five years with the same person, solo sex, talking dirty to herself, and masturbating in relationships.

Erica's socials:

https://twitter.com/sendaravenplz

https://www.instagram.com/ziggyzaggyoioi/?hl=en

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139 Girl Instarupted with Syd Wilder May 07, 2020

This week comedian, model, and actor Syd Wilder joins Nicoletta for a roller coaster of a conversation. Somehow Syd manages to include important suicide awareness information along with humor as she leads listeners on a journey from dominating Daniel Tosh to surviving a suicide attempt. Also included: are many comedians dealing with trauma? Syd: https://www.girlinstarupted.com/ Crisis hotlines: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ https://didihirsch.org/chat/

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138 Afrosexology with Dalychia and Rafaella Apr 30, 2020

Afrosexology's mission is to educate, explore, and reclaim Black sexuality and to promote Black self empowerment through sexual liberation. Rafaella and Dalychia share their insights on embodiment, our capacities for pleasure, solo-sexuality, and respectability politics. Tune in for ways to claim and use your pleasure as liberation. Afrosexology:http://www.afrosexology.com/ Remember to use those discount codes from: Uberlube: SandS Dipsea: Dipseastories.com/sands and MyGirlFund: mygirlfund.com/sands

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137 Non-Monogamy and Attachment with Kate Loree Apr 23, 2020

Kate Loree, LMFT is a sex positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ and sex worker communities. Kate and Nicoletta talk about attachment styles and how to navigate different types of non-monogamy. Also included: relationship hierarchies, grounding and resiliency tools, and how to ask for a break during heated arguments.

Kate Loree http://kateloree.com/ Remember to use those discount codes from: Uberlube SandS Dipsea Dipseastories.com/sands and MyGirlFund mygirlfund.com/sands

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137 Pornea and Disease Intervention with the Southern Sexologist Tanya Bass Apr 16, 2020

This episode features Tanya Bass- speaker, trainer, facilitator, teacher, sexologist, and former president for the North Carolina Society for Public Health Education (NCSOPHE). Nicoletta and Tanya talk disease intervention strategies (mostly for STIs, but this is applicable to COVID too!), dimensions of health and wellness, and what is pornea?!

Tanya: https://www.tanyambass.com/

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131 If God Created My Clitoris with Brittany Broaddus-Smith of the Intimacy Firm Mar 05, 2020

Can religion and sex positivity coexist? Nicoletta is joined by Christian Sexologist Brittany Broaddus-Smith LSW, MEd to debunk sex myths from the Bible. They cover everything from what it means to be "saved," to scriptures about sexuality, masturbation, shame, abstinence, and the experience of being a Deacon's wife teaching sex ed in a predominantly Black church. Contact Brittany and the Intimacy Firm: https://www.theintimacyfirm.com/ Sponsor Uberlube! Remember the more you support sponsors the more it supports the podcast. So get get a special 10% off and free shipping when you use my code “sands” at UberLube.com.

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130 Sexuality and Cancer with Dr. Sabitha Pillai-Friedman Feb 27, 2020

Sex therapist and researcher Dr. Sabitha Pillai-Friedman joins Nicoletta to talk about sexual losses, namely sexuality and cancer. Sexuality and sexual side effects are often overlooked for folks with chronic illnesses. This episode busts misconceptions and goes over everything from self compassion to sexual functioning during chemo.

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Resources:

Dr. Pillai: https://rittenhouserelationshiptherapy.com/

Ohnut https://ohnut.co/

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129 Victims' Rights Law with Norma Buster Feb 20, 2020

Big thanks to our guest this week Norma Buster, the client relations manager at the C.A. Goldberg Victims' Rights Law Firm. This is a serious conversation about stalking, legal reform, non-consensual and revenge porn, victimhood, and survivorship. This episode is for my friend and colleague Dr. Amie Harwick; we all miss and love you and will continue to fight for change.

Norma:

https://www.cagoldberglaw.com/about/norma-buster/

https://twitter.com/normabuster

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128 Adult Time with Bree Mills Feb 13, 2020

This week's episode features award winning adult filmmaker Bree Mills. Bree shares her opinions on the next era of socially conscious porn and the shifting state and gaze of porn today. Bree also gives insight into her creative process and how to balance sex and story as a female filmmaker.

This episode is sponsored in part by We-Vibe and UberLube We-Vibe: This Valentine’s Day, WeVibe is offering our listeners a special 5% discount on any product at we-vibe.com. Just use promo code SandS https://we-vibe.com/?utm_source=Pleasure%20Podcasts&utm_medium=Podcast&utm_campaign=Sluts%20and%20Scholars%20Valentine's%20Day&utm_content=Sluts%20and%20Scholars%20Valentine's%20Day Uberlube: Right now, they’re offering Sluts & Scholars listeners a special offer – 10% off and free shipping when you use the code SandS at UberLube.com. To check out Bree's work: - Adult Time: Adulttime.com - Bree Mills: https://twitter.com/thebreemills

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127 Busting Balls with Mistress Snow, PhD Feb 06, 2020

Welcome back slutty scholars to another season! For all newcomers, this episode reflects a real example of the whole reason this podcast was started. It features Mistress Snow, PhD- a professor and scholar who also happens to be a dominatrix. Tune in to hear a tale of slut shaming. Don’t worry, it also ends with a fun little twist about ball busting.

The original article, which may require a subscription: I Told My Mentor I Was a Dominatrix - The Chronicle of Higher Education https://www.chronicle.com/interactives/20191205-Snow-SexAdjunct

Mistres snow on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MistressSnowPhD

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Becoming Cliterate with Dr. Laurie Mintz Re-release Dec 26, 2019

This month we’re going to be sharing some of our favorite and most meaningful episodes with you! Please enjoy and share liberally.

Dr. Laurie Mintz, a scholar of sex, joins the women to expose the major reasons for the orgasm gap between men and women. They DESTROY the myth of penetration, address the orgasm “hierarchy” and talk about how there are a MILLION ways to masturbate and come -- and they’ll give you tips for how to figure out what yours are. Don’t worry, men, cliteracy is good for you too!

Note: In this episode, Simone says that labiaplasty was the most common cosmetic surgery, but she misspoke. It’s the fastest-growing cosmetic surgery.

FOLLOW DR. MINTZ

WEBSITE - http://drlauriemintz.com/ FACEBOOK - https://www.facebook.com/DrLaurieMintz/
TWITTER - https://twitter.com/drlauriemintz
INSTAGRAM - https://www.instagram.com/drlauriemintz/

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Show-offy Sex Stuff with Dita von Teese Re-release Dec 19, 2019

This month we’re going to be sharing some of our favorite and most meaningful episodes with you! Please enjoy and share liberally.

The scholars interview the glamour and beauty burlesque queen, Dita Von Teese. Tune in for a rare opportunity to hear from Dita about how she got into Burlesque, her glamour evangelism, and her views on fetishism, ageism, and feminism. Also, cervical orgasms.

It’s the Renaissance woman behind the martini glass!

FOLLOW DITA

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Merciless Feminist Savages with Stephanie Lumsden and Dr. Cutcha Risling Baldy Re-release Dec 12, 2019

Stephanie Lumsden and Cutcha Risling Baldy joined us last year to talk to us about Hoopa Valley tribe coming of age menarche ceremonies and flower dances, what menstrual huts really are, settler colonialism, period taboos, gender, and more. We are so grateful to be able to share this with you again.

This month we’re going to be sharing some of our favorite and most meaningful episodes with you! Please enjoy and share liberally.

To contact our guests:

https://www.stephanielumsden.com/

https://www.cutcharislingbaldy.com/

Shirts discussed in the episode:

https://www.instagram.com/mercilessfeministsavages/

Book reccomendations:

https://www.amazon.com/Are-Dancing-Revitalization-Coming-Age/dp/0295743441/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1531181942&sr=8-1&keywords=we+are+dancing+for+you

https://www.amazon.com/Me-Sexy-Drew-Hayden-Taylor/dp/1553652762

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HIV Princess with Kelly Gluckman Dec 01, 2019

Dec. 1st is World AIDS Day, so learn your serostatus! Today is an opportunity to raise awareness about what it means to live with HIV, destigmatize folks who are seropositive and increase testing. We’re highlighting our conversation with Kelly Gluckman, an HIV-AIDS activist and recent UCLA grad (with a degree in arts-activism), who sat down with us in 2018 to chat about living and dating with HIV. This month we’re going to be sharing our favorite and most meaningful episodes with you! Please enjoy and share liberally.

ABOUT KELLY

Twitter @kellygluckman
Some of Kelly’s work:
- http://www.hivequal.org/featured-stories/a-poz-girl-s-guide-to-dating-hello-i-m-kelly
- UCLA sex squad: http://artglobalhealth.org/amp/uclasexsquad/

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126 Lioness: Like a Fitbit for Vaginas with Liz Klinger Nov 21, 2019

You may have heard Simone beaming in a few episodes about her amazing experience with the Lioness at an event called Mothership (where she proudly won “Vag of Steel”). Now, Sluts and Scholars proudly welcomes creator of the Lioness: Liz Klinger. They talk about women in sex tech, measuring orgasms and pleasure, and different types of pelvic contractions. Random fact: neon bending is just what it sounds like.

Lioness: https://lioness.io This episode is sponsored by Dipsea. Tune in for a discount code! https://www.dipseastories.com

Patreon Episode Teaser with Robin Wilson Beattie Nov 14, 2019

This is a teaser for part two with Robin Wilson Beattie. The full episode will be available to our patrons only on patreon.com/slutsandscholars. We will be back next week with a regular episode for all! If you can't financially join us on Patreon, a free rate and review wherever you listen to your podcasts is always helpful!

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125 Sexabled with Robin Wilson-Beattie Nov 07, 2019

This week Nicoletta and Simone welcome disability and sexuality health educator Robin Wilson-Beattie. Do you know what a devotee is? Neither did we. Tune in to hear about fetishes (including amputees), spinal cord injuries, sex as a quadriplegic, and reproductive rights at intersection of fatness, blackness, and disability. To find Robin https://www.sexabledwithrobinwb.com/v1/ This episode is sponsored by Native Deodorant; tune in for 20% off! nativedeodorant.com

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124 Sex Working Moms with Juniper Fitzgerald Oct 31, 2019

This week Simone chats with former sex worker, mother, activist, and professor Juniper Fitzgerald. Get ready for a conversation that is scarier than Halloween about real life sex work stigma. Also included: balancing identities and how to talk to your kids about sex work and gender expansion.

Juniper’s TED talk: https://youtu.be/-Lk4G1dna7s

Juniper’s Book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Mamas-Love-Their-Babies/dp/1936932008

SWOP: Sex Workers Outreach Project | Sex Workers Outreach Project

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123 Spooky Sex with Dr. Amie Harwick Oct 24, 2019

This week we are joined by sex therapist Dr. Amie Harwick to talk all things spooky just in time for Halloween. While October is not the only time to experiment, why not start now with a conversation about blood play, the fear response, haunted houses, burying someone alive, and clowns in black lipstick. Also covered: Pineapple Support - the mental health resource for the adult industry. Amie; https://instagram.com/dramieharwick?igshid=1olxcwq9d5b70 Pineapple Support: https://pineapplesupport.org Sponsor: https://www.dipseastories.com/sands

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122 Sloppy Seconds Teaser with Dirty Lola Oct 17, 2019

This is a 15 minute teaser of our episode with Dirty Lola. Simone and Lola talk about nerdy smut, erotica, power play, free labor, and divorce. The full episode can be found for Patrons only at patreon.com/slutsandscholars. Remember that this podcast is a labor of love and we want to sustain this show! Please consider supporting us today; if you can’t afford it, leaving a review, especially on iTunes, is helpful and free! We'll be back with a regular episode for everyone next week.

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121 Sex Ed in Color with Cameron Glover Oct 10, 2019

This is a crucial episode about whiteness in sex education and how to "pass the mic." Cameron helps Nicoletta and Simone break down tokenization versus racial justice and sexual liberation. Also discussed: desirability politics and tribbing! Resources discussed: - Cameron https://www.cameronglover.com

- Wildflower medium article: https://medium.com/@evyan.whitney/dildont-disrespect-black-femmes-our-personal-experiences-with-wild-flower-sex-shop-c8d06ce7695f

- Consent and cookies: http://yanatallonhicks.com/workshops/for-adults/consent-in-practice/

- Pleasure activism book https://www.amazon.com/Pleasure-Activism-Politics-Emergent-Strategy/dp/1849353263

- SX Noir https://sxnoir.com/

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120 Shameless Sex Oct 03, 2019

This week Sluts and Scholars gets even more shame-free with the ladies of Shameless Sex. They talk a lot about how to have sex play with a soft penis, toys, erotic massages, censorship, lubrication, and the clock method (the what?!). Also included: random rants and tangents about pimple popping. Shameless: https://www.shamelesssex.com Resources discussed: Barbara and the erotic massage / clock method https://barbaracarrellas.com/links-and-resources/ The Hot Octopus toy: https://www.hotoctopuss.com/product/pulse-iii-duo-couples-sex-toy/ Spare Parts harness: https://www.myspare.com/product/deuce

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119 ADHD After Dark with Ari Tuckman Sep 26, 2019

Do you get mad at your partner's forgetfulness; do you take it personally and think that they just don't keep you in mind?! According to psychologist Ari Tuckman, PsyD these behaviors could be indicators of adult ADHD. Tune in to hear about how ADHD impacts sex and relationships- a topic that most clinicians and researchers don't talk about. Ari: https://tuckmanpsych.com/ Ari's Book:http://adultadhdbook.com/ CHADD: https://chadd.org/

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118 Urban Tantra with Barbara Carrellas Sep 19, 2019

Breath: how powerful can it be for your sex life?! Pretty darn intense according to author and educator Barbara Carrellas. Tune in to an episode all about Tantra, breathwork, and ecstatic sex. Also included: relationships with nature, sword swallowing, chakras, and why Nicoletta talks to trees. Barbara: https://barbaracarrellas.com/ Other stuff we talked about Wilhelm Reich: http://www.orgonomy.org/reich.html The Clitoral Truth: https://www.amazon.com/Clitoral-Truth-Secret-World-Fingertips/dp/1583224734 Coney Island Sideshow School: https://www.coneyisland.com/programs/sideshowschool

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117 Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino Sep 12, 2019

Nicoletta interviews author, educator, and activist Tristan Taormino while on the road in Orlando Florida for the Podcast Movement conference. This episode is jam packed with everything from cancel and call-out culture to imposter syndrome, age of consent, and more about minor attraction. Also, hear about what Nicoletta and Tristan have in common while they geek out in their robes and matching clitoris necklaces. Tristan: http://tristantaormino.com/

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116 Going to the Gyno as a Trans Man with Buck Angel Sep 05, 2019

This week Sluts and Scholars hosts speaker, filmmaker, activist, performer, and Renaissance Man Buck Angel. Buck helps the slutty scholars navigate everything from hormone replacement therapy to how to self pleasure your clit like a penis. Thought experiment: is it OK to say “tranny” and when?

All things Buck:

https://buckangel.com This week is sponsored by Native Deodorant! Tune in for discount info https://www.nativecos.com

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115 Banging Beyond the Binary: Sex for Every Body with Lucie Fielding Aug 29, 2019

This week features Lucie Fielding, a queer, kinky, nonbinary, trans-identified femme and Resident in Counseling. We talk about her work around trans sexualities and erotic embodiments (tune in to find out what that means!). Also covered: passion vs. intimacy, the Pina Colada song as a reminder of healthy-ish relationships, and how ALL bodies can be magic.

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114 Senior Sex with Joan Price Aug 22, 2019

This week the slutty scholars are joined by author, speaker, and ageless sexuality advocate Joan Price (AKA a conversation about all things sexy for seniors). Obviously, this episode is helpful for older adults, but it is invaluable and wise because we ALL get old! Also included: sex after grief and losing your beloved, what makes an ergonomic sex toy, the problems with desexualizing older folks, and how to have an orgasm without an erection! Joan's new book! https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/164250033X/ref=nosim/joanprice-20 Joan and Jessica’s video teaser: https://joanprice.com/wicked-sex Other books mentioned: Peggy Kleinplatz: https://www.amazon.ca/Experiential-Approach-Sexuality-Peggy-Kleinplatz/dp/1138821799 David Schnarch https://www.amazon.com/Passionate-Marriage-Intimacy-Committed-Relationships/dp/0393334279

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113 Sexual Intuition with Susanna Brisk Aug 15, 2019

This week Nicoletta and Simone are joined by the Sexual Intuitive Susanna Brisk. Tune in to learn what that even means, and to hear about everything from submissive versus dominant oral sex, to mismatched desire levels in relationships, and the difference between fear and intuition. You’ll also be able to witness an example of Susanna’s work where Nicoletta lays at Simone’s feet and they explore their own power dynamics and cry. Also included: spanking with the help of the late Philip Roth.

To find Susanna: http://sexualintuitive.com/

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112 Whores of Yore with Kate Lister Aug 08, 2019

Did cave folks wear condoms? What is vulva bread? Have you ever found hedge porn?! This week we are joined by Kate Lister, sexual historian and creator of the wonderful archive and research project Whores of Yore. She helps us take a peek up the skirt of history.

Kate’s blog:

https://www.thewhoresofyore.com/

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111 Blood, Sweat, Tears and Lube with Kink Craft Aug 01, 2019

Did we tell you we were back or WHAT?! During the hiatus, Kink Craft interviewed US about the Apple Podcast saga. We go into the sheer amount of labor that went in to getting it back (and the privilege we have to be able to extend it). We are not the only people dealing with the sexuality censorship; sex workers and sex educators across platforms are having their voices suppressed. We also come up with another podcast idea: just audio of people banging - a LITERAL sex podcast. Would you listen?

Also: the state of sex ed in the United States, how the need for podcasts to fill a sexual education gap is emblematic of American free market capitalism, sex positive parenting AND how we sometimes question what the heck we’re doing.

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Sloppy Seconds with Andrew Gurza Jul 04, 2019

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110 Amber Heard Part 2: Hearts Not Parts Jun 27, 2019

Welcome back to part two with Amber Heard! This week we continue the conversation with the actor and activist who recently started in Aquaman. As someone who had their nude photos stolen and published, Amber tells us about the Cyber Rights Initiative and her struggles with privacy and being a commodity now that she has a place in the spotlight. Also discussed: not being straight or lesbian "enough" and the pressure of always having to apologize based on gender. Sorry not sorry.

Amber: https://www.instagram.com/amberheard

Cortney: https://www.instagram.com/omgcort/ Cyber Civil Rights Initiative: https://www.cybercivilrights.org/ How to find your local reps: https://whoismyrepresentative.com/

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109 Amber Heard: The Disruptor Jun 20, 2019

A few weeks ago, we had Cortney (#105, Long-Haired Butch) with a smidge of Amber Heard. This week, we have Amber Heard with a smattering of Cortney. Do you know about the time adolescent Amber gave out PB&Js to an abortion clinic? Or what it's like to have your body be considered a public space? From non-consensual porn to the audacity of photographers telling women to smile, growing up poor, and even Aquaman, Amber dives into the importance and power of having a microphone as loud as hers. Amber: https://www.instagram.com/amberheard Cortney: https://www.instagram.com/omgcort/ Cyber Civil Rights Initiative: https://www.cybercivilrights.org/ How to find your local reps: https://whoismyrepresentative.com/

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108 The Worst Party Guests Ever Jun 06, 2019

We've had quite a year! Law school, MFT licensing, imposter syndrome, abortion bans, pegging, compersion and In N Out! This week, we ask each other the same thoughtful (and nosy!) questions we ask our guests. We are also the worst party guests you could imagine. Join us for the bi-annual check-in!

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107 Abortion and Contraception 101 with Dr. Jasmine Patel May 30, 2019

There's a lot of news swirling around abortion and contraception these days, so we brought in Dr. Jasmine Patel, an EXPERT on abortion and contraception. She schools us on the history of contraception (it was basically ILLEGAL UNTIL THE 1960s), intestines as condoms; dispels a bunch of abortion myths and discusses the importance of having partners present when making reproductive health decisions. Oh, and also - does pulling out work? Let Dr. Jasmine count your sperm!

Twitter: @JPatel_MD

Contact: Jasmine.patel@med.usc.edu

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106 Freaking Law with Victoria Brooks May 23, 2019

Have you ever wanted to do academic research at a public sex beach? Well Victoria Brooks did! She joins Nicoletta for a conversation about the laws and ethics of banging. If the idea of a public sex beach wasn’t intriguing enough, we also cover consent at sex parties, sex in academia, and how to take part in your own sexuality research.

The movie Perfume https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0396171/

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Purple Panties Teaser May 22, 2019

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105 Long-Haired Butch with Cortney Wilson May 16, 2019

This week we are joined by Cortney Wilson: writer, director, and Emmy-nominated producer (Transparent, I Love Dick). Yes, she gave us spoilers; no we can't share them. But we CAN talk about lesbian sexuality, the queer hierarchy, toxic masculinity in queer spaces, and a few special nuggets from Cortney's "Entourage" (aka Amber Heard). Also- Simone opens a window, Gold Star Gays, and should there be rules in polyamory?

Cortney: https://www.allartisstolen.com/

Cortney Insta: https://www.instagram.com/omgcort/

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104 Not Just Dildos and Rainbows with Zoë “Thongria” Ligon May 09, 2019

This week we welcome the Duchess of Dildos: Zoë Ligon. Aside from being huge fans of her sex shop and education, we also cannot get enough of her dance videos. This podcast vacillates between the ridiculousness of wine glass butt plugs and the seriousness of sex and capitalism. Also included: herpes, Kim Kardashian, conflict vs. abuse, cancel culture, OK Cupid, and what does being a scholar really mean?

The book Zoë mentions: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1551526433/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0

Zoë's Insta: https://www.instagram.com/thongria/?hl=en

Zoë's Spectrum Boutique: https://spectrumboutique.com/

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103 How Cum? With Remy and Charlotte Kassimir May 02, 2019

This week, we are joined by the hilarious Remy Kassimir of the hit How Cum Podcast, and her sister and producer, Charlotte! Remy had her first ever orgasm just this past year, so we talk about not being able to cum, the diversity of orgasm types (yes, they can vary GREATLY!), first orgasm stories, cannabis and orgasms...basically all things orgasm and then some. We know we emphasize not being goal-oriented in sex, but this episode is all about HOW to CUM?! How Cum: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-cum/id1329297366 Remy: @remykassimir Charlotte: @charkasstic Pod: @howcumpodcast

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102 Trans-spreading with Sam Apr 25, 2019

This week we welcome Sam: a Queer, Arab, polyamorous, non-binary law student. Talk about intersectionality! This episode takes our past conversations about being trans and the gender binary to another level as we talk hormone therapy, male privilege as a male presenting person, sex and the clitoris after testosterone (hint- it gets bigger, and some can even penetrate with it!), and being gender non-conforming in a conservative career. Sam has chosen to remain anonymous, but here's a link to one of our friends and a pioneer in this space: https://www.alokvmenon.com/

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101 Is a "Tight" Vagina a Thing? Pelvic Pain with Kayna Cassard Apr 18, 2019

Have you ever had the Q-tip test? Do you know that Kegel exercises are NOT for everyone? Can you really have a "loose" vagina? This episode is sooo important. We have heard from many listeners about their struggles with pelvic pain, so this week we are so excited to be joined by Kayna Cassard, Sex and Trauma Therapist and pelvic pain expert, to talk about chronic genito-pelvic pain. Get in touch with Kayna: https://kaynacassard.com/

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100 Tell Me What You Want...What You Really Really Want with Dr. Justin Lehmiller Apr 11, 2019

OMG it is our 100th episode!!!! This celebratory ep. features author and psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. We talk all things fantasy from MILFs, to adult baby diaper lovers, force fantasies, and human cows. Also- can ex sex be a good thing and when should you not act on your fantasies? Dr. Justin: https://www.lehmiller.com/ Sexual Health Alliance Event: https://sexualhealthalliance.com/gc-lecture-series/2019/5/31/sexceptional-weekend-the-science-of-fantasy-tell-me-what-you-want-w-dr-justin-lehmiller ALSO! We now have a PATREON! If you want more from us, please become a Patron so we can keep bringing you content! https://www.patreon.com/slutsandscholars

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099 Endometriosis: The Invisible Disease with Dr. Shannon Chavez Apr 04, 2019

March was Endometriosis Awareness Month, so the slutty scholars asked sex therapist, psychologist and endo crusader, Dr. Shannon Chavez, to discuss everything endo: what might cause it, what the symptoms are, how it affects people's lives and relationships, ways to support a partner with endo and much more. This episode is soooo important in helping to name and identify chronic illnesses and chronic pain (esp. ones that we can't see). Help us spread the word about Endo! Want more like this conversation? Sick Day Podcast: https://www.sickdaypod.com/ To get in touch with Dr. Chavez: https://drshannonchavez.com/ Talked about in the show: Sick Day Podcast https://www.sickdaypod.com/ Endometriosis resources: https://www.speakendo.com/ https://www.endofound.org/

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098 Unfiltered with Holly Randall Mar 28, 2019

This week the slutty scholars are joined by Holly Randall, porn producer, photographer, fellow Pleasure Podcast Collective member, and all around boss lady! Did you ever think this show would cover cotillion and etiquette classes? Find out how to interact with snacks and what NOT to wear to cotillion. But mostly this episode is about the way the adult industry has changed, paying for porn, female directors, being behind the camera, and a touch of race in the industry. Pinky out!

Holly: https://www.hollyrandall.com/

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097 Sex Every Day with Caitlin Cogan-Doemner Mar 21, 2019

This week Nicoletta and Simone are joined by Christian author Caitlin Cogan-Doemner. She wrote a series with her husband called Sex Every Day, where they emphasize- you guessed it- having sex everrrryyy day. They talk about how to do this, how to challenge the definition of sex, and how to make a sex menu. Caitlin's perspective comes from an Evangelical Christian background, so this episode also explores the possibilities of being sex positive and Christian. Also thought exercise: do you think you should poop in front of your partner?

P.S. Sorry some of the audio is not ideal, but we didn't want you to miss this episode!!

To get the book: https://www.sexeverydaybook.com/

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096 Untrue: the Science of Sluttery with Wednesday Martin Mar 14, 2019

This episode is ESSENTIAL for anyone with a vulva, or anyone who loves a person with a vulva. Wednesday Martin joins for a debunking of the myths surrounding female sexuality. From different types of desires, to sexual boredom, and monogamy as a spectrum, we talk about the real intersection of culture and the clitoris. Also- what the heck is heterozygosity and why are we attracted to certain partner's natural scents?!

To find Wednesday: http://wednesdaymartin.com/

To check out Wednesday's newest book: http://wednesdaymartin.com/books/untrue/

Other researchers mentioned that are worth checking out: Rosemary Basson and Marta Meana

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095 Sex Work, Defined: Pro Heaux Womanism with suprihmbé Mar 07, 2019

This week Sluts and Scholars welcomes suprihmbé, who you might know as @thotscholar. On the docket: womanism, definitions of sex work, rejecting inclusivity, bisexuality, OMNIsexuality and the racialization of sexual slurs. It’s a good one! This episode is sponsored by KamaSutra. For 20% OFF go to www.KamaSutra.com and use discount code: SANDS To find suprihmbé: https://twitter.com/thotscholar?lang=en Defined Definers article: https://www.patreon.com/posts/defined-definers-24904015?utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter&utm_campaign=postshare

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094 Filling Holes with Shira Myrow Feb 28, 2019

This week Nicoletta and Simone are joined by therapist Shira Myrow. Part therapy session for Nicoletta and Simone and part interview, Shira is there to educate and support the slutty scholars on issues relating to attachment, emotional literacy, relational intelligence, mindfulness, coping skills, and more! Tune in to hear Nicoletta and Simone get REAL about their own attachment and self worth struggles. To contact Shira: http://shiramyrowtherapy.com/ Shira's TED talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PddZhImBknI Our sponsor this week is #LubeLife! Make sure you listen in for a 20% OFF discount code and check them out at https://lubelife.com/

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093 Nipplegate and Satan with Dr. Eric Sprankle Feb 21, 2019

This week Nicoletta and Simone dive into a conversation with sexuality professor, researcher, and psychologist Dr. Eric Sprankle. Just when you thought we had talked about everything, here's an episode on Satanism! Ok, so theres other stuff in the episode too including sex research and how to study sex, the role of social justice in mental health, religious freedom, and MeToo moments from the Bible.

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092 Not A Pillow Princess with Janine Feb 14, 2019

Nicoletta and Simone welcome Janine! She's the CEO and creator of WARM - a luxury sexual experience company. (Basically a way to have HOTTER sex!) On the table: aging and sex, what is periomenopause like, creating sexuality products and how fully allowing yourself to receive pleasure can revolutionize your experience

Check out experience warm today and get a Valentine’s discount!!

https://experiencewarm.com

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091 "No" Does NOT Mean "Convince Me" with Nadia Bokody Feb 07, 2019

This week Nicoletta and Simone go down under with Australian Sexfluencer Nadia Bokody. They chat about what it means to be sex positive, MeToo in relationships, painful sex, and the importance of teaching masturbation during early sex education. To check out Nadia's work:

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089 Sex Positive Families with Melissa Carnagey Jan 24, 2019

Do you talk to your kids about sex? Did your caregivers tell you that a stork made you? This episod- featuring Melissa Carnagey of Sex Positive Families- covers sex positive parenting: what to do and what not to do in raising sexually “healthy” humans. Also included: what to teach children at certain ages, making mistakes and having compassion for your imperfect parenting, and body autonomy from an early age. Melissa’s site: http://sexpositivefamilies.com/sex-positive-parenting/ Other resources: Amaze: https://amaze.org Scarleteen: http://www.scarleteen.com

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088 Body Kindness with Rebecca Scritchfield Jan 17, 2019

How are YOU doing with your New Year’s goals and resolutions? If you have been getting down on yourself because of diets, weight, and body image, we hope you will tune in to this amazing conversation with author, nutritionist, and coach Rebecca Scritchfield. We talk diet culture, body acceptance, health and well-being, and how to battle your inner self critic. Also included: Nicoletta admits her hot sauce “problem;” sociocultural messages about body expectations.

Find Rebecca: https://www.bodykindnessbook.com/

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087 New Year, Same Us Jan 10, 2019

Nicoletta and Simone take some time to reflect on their podcast journey. They discuss if they feel an obligation to have a vibrant sex life because they host a sex podcast, work on their own communication issues, delve into childhood tales of girls being mean to them and their increased appetite for response to catcalls. It’s been a while since it was just us, so we hope you enjoy!

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086 Can We Talk About Queefing for a Hot Sec? Dec 20, 2018

We're feeling the holiday spirit, so we want to re-gift y'all with a good one. Talk about a throwback Thursday! This episode features Pan, who was the first dude on the show, so the sluts decided they had to unpack all the weird stuff our bodies do when we want them to be at their sexiest. Squirting, farting, smells and menstrual blood are ALL on this menu. It's an oldie - straight Simone even makes an appearance.

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085 A Vagina Friendly Company with Meika Hollender Dec 13, 2018

This week Nicoletta and Simone are joined by Meika Hollender, the founder of Sustain Natural. They discuss vagina-friendly ingredients, things to put (and not put) in your vagina, the power of periods, tampon taxes, and more! Sustain: https://www.sustainnatural.com/ Meika: https://twitter.com/missmeiks

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084 Minor Attraction: A Chat with a Non-offending Pedophile and his Wife Dec 06, 2018

This week we are joined by James and Anna, a happily married couple. James happens to be a non-offending minor attracted person (NO-MAP), meaning that he has a desire for young girls that he has chosen to NEVER act on. We know this subject can be triggering for many, and that some of our listeners have experienced some type of sexual trauma, but we hope that you will tune in with an open mind as we talk definitions, stigma, sexual orientations, how to manage relationships with these desires, role play, and the difference between fantasies and behaviors. For more information: http://www.b4uact.org/ https://www.virped.org/

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083 HIVperbole with Benjamin Di’Costa Nov 29, 2018

This week Nicoletta and Simone are joined by a fan and queer activist- Benjamin Di’Costa. In preparation for World AIDS Day, they discuss everything from conversion therapy, to HIV, and queerness and religion. Also included: go-go dancing and a pinch of sex work. Warning: we also discuss some aftermath of mass shootings as Benji used to work at Pulse Nightclub. We hope you will tune in for this crucial discussion. To find Benji: https://twitter.com/BenjaminDiCosta

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082 Merciless Feminist Savages with Stephanie Lumsden and Dr. Cutcha Risling Baldy Nov 22, 2018

In order to discuss and call out the erasure of Native Americans during a holiday founded on genocide and oppression, Nicoletta and Simone gratefully welcome two amazing scholars of the Hoopa Valley Tribe in Northern California. They discuss land, settler colonialism, menstrual huts, flower dances, menstrual taboos, gender, and more! We could not think of a better "Thanksgiving" correcting learning opportunity!

To contact our guests:

https://www.stephanielumsden.com/

https://www.cutcharislingbaldy.com/

Shirts discussed in the episode:

https://www.instagram.com/mercilessfeministsavages/

Book reccomendations:

https://www.amazon.com/Are-Dancing-Revitalization-Coming-Age/dp/0295743441/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1531181942&sr=8-1&keywords=we+are+dancing+for+you

https://www.amazon.com/Me-Sexy-Drew-Hayden-Taylor/dp/1553652762

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081 Real American with Julie Lythcott-Haims Nov 15, 2018

This week Nicoletta is on location back at her Alma mater Stanford University, where she has the privilege to interview Julie Lythcott-Haims, a former Stanford Dean turned bestselling author of How to Raise an Adult and Real American: A Memoir. Join in for a heartfelt conversation about the over parenting trap, being Black in America, and sex-positive parenting. About Julie: https://www.julielythcotthaims.com/ Ted Talk: https://www.julielythcotthaims.com/videos Twitter: https://twitter.com/DeanJulie?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor

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080 A Lover's Pinch: A History of Sadomasochism with Peter Tupper Nov 08, 2018

This week Nicoletta and Simone get scholarly with Peter Tupper around the history and origins of Kink and BDSM. From etymology to the Marquis de Sade, and early examples of D/s relationships, this is an episode for anybody interested in Kink and/or history. Also included: how Kink expressions differ from culture to culture and the fetishization of violence. How would YOU feel if you went to a BDSM event and someone was dressed as a Nazi?

Peter's Book and more: https://www.amazon.com/Lovers-Pinch-Cultural-History-Sadomasochism/dp/1538111179 http://historyofbdsm.com/

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079 The Tiniest but Mightiest Sex Worker with Alice Little Nov 01, 2018

This week the slutty scholars are joined by sex entrepreneur and relationship expert Alice Little, who is currently the most successful legal sex

worker in the United States. At only 4’ 8”, she is also the tiniest licensed prostitute at Dennis Hof’s world famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch. Tune in for a convo about sex work legislation, the renowned Moonlite Bunny Ranch, negotiating payment, dick checks, miniature pigs, and more! Don't forget to review us on iTunes!

Contact Alice:

Email: alicelittle@bunnyranch.com Website: www.thealicelittle.com Instagram @thealicelittle Documentary: https://www.facebook.com/whatwedodocs/videos/2143927152594965/

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078 I Will Never Be Loved Again - AA for Heartbreak with Naz Perez Oct 25, 2018

Naz Perez joins the sluts to discuss heartbreak and reality romance. She used to be a producer on the bachelor and now hosts monthly heartbreak support group. The womxn discuss some of their most painful heartbreaks (including friendship ones!), how having a sex podcast changes how you think about the world, what love is and why America loves the Bachelor franchise.

Follow Naz

@nazperez

@heartbreak_anonymous

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077 Men Wearing Panties with slaveboy julia Oct 18, 2018

Nicoletta and Simone are joined by gender-fluid kinkster and fetish photographer slaveboy julia- yes it's lowercase. They talk cross dressing, gender fluidity, sexual shame and Simone’s pseudonym. Have you ever wondered why men like to wear panties? Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about the endless possibilities of gender slaveboy julia instagram: https://www.instagram.com/slaveboyjulia/

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076 What is Your Therapist Thinking? with Dr. Hernando Chaves Oct 11, 2018

In this episode the slutty scholars welcome sex therapist and educator Dr. Hernando Chaves. He educates us about early and delayed ejaculation, what your therapist really thinks about you, mindful sex, and more! Nicoletta and Hernando also discuss what therapy and internship training is like- which is timely since Nicoletta just passed her licensing exam! Also featured: sex toy reccomendations; sex surrogates; Simone’s “vag of steel.” Hernando: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/hernando-chaves-beverly-hills-ca/129341 Aneros prostate massager: https://www.aneros.com The Lioness: https://lioness.io

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075 The Unicorniest Unicorn in New York City Oct 04, 2018

Jeena Bloom, transgender comedian and engineer, found her sluttiness once she transitioned 3 years ago. She schools Nicoletta and Simone about what sex was like for her pre-transition and how glorious it is for her now, reaffirms that there are many different ways to be trans and is unabashed about being a "motherslut" and the inability to bone to the sweet, sweet tunes of the Eagles. We talk about passing privilege, avoiding misgendering and the surprise at being way more a Phoebe than a Monica. PS: If you're an MM couple, make sure to slide into her DMs.

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074 Phone Boning with Amberly Rothfield Sep 27, 2018

In this episode, Nicoletta and Simone interview successful phone sex operator Amberly Rothfield. And yes- phone sex operators still exist and can make a lot of money! In this episode we cover: how to create your phone sex persona; what phone sex operators are really doing when they are on the phone with you; do phone sex workers enjoy their work?; who calls in?; what is rule 34?; getting doxxed; sex work and the military. Amberly's book: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0798H4S5X/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0 https://amberlyrothfield.com/

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073 Sex and Death with Elise Geithner Sep 20, 2018

The ladies are joined by Nicoletta’s college friend Elise Geithner, who is now a sex educator and soon to be Pediatric Critical Care Nurse Practitioner. In this episode you’ll hear about Adolescent sexuality; How to answer questions from teenagers about sex… even the seemingly out there ones like “Why can’t a girl get pregnant if she swallow nut?”; being a nurse; critical care, and death and bereavement. Find out why healthcare providers avoid sex as a topic and how we can improve health and wellness in our hospitals and care facilities.

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072 The MomCast Sep 13, 2018

The moms are here! Simone and Nicoletta come clean to their moms about the innocuous items they used to masturbate as children, the first time they got fingered and if they maintained their “virginity”. Also, the moms try to suss out how their girls became confident and comfortable enough to host a sex podcast.

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071 Can I Get a Witness? Sex and Religion with Brandon Montero Sep 06, 2018

This week the slutty scholars are joined by Jehovah's Witness turned sex coach Brandon Montero to talk religion and its effect on sex and sexuality. Covered: what it's like growing up as a Jehovah's Witness, life after a religious upbringing, how to masturbate with a sheet, infidelity, transcendent oral, the rapture, sexual exploration, and purity retreats. This episode is sponsored by Maude! Get your modern, body-safe sex essentials at GetMaude.com and enter promo code "SandS" for 15% off! Find Brandon: https://www.instagram.com/everlasting_jerkface/ https://www.sexologyinstitute.com/montero

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070 Head B In Charge with Mistress Justine Cross Aug 30, 2018

Head B In Charge with Mistress Justine Cross

Mistress Justine Cross joins the sluts to discuss pro-domming and running not one, but two dungeons. Covered: all the stuff she can, can’t and won’t do, how to navigate clients attempting to cross boundaries and the ins and outs of the small-business owning that is sex work. Allowing her to subs worship her feet, lube her up in a latex catsuit or letting her sadism shine through are just few of the things on the menu at this dungeon.

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069 Pubes and Camming with Delilah Cass Aug 23, 2018

Nicoletta and Simone are joined by super successful cam girl Delilah Cass. Delilah helps the slutty scholars understand how to be successful and stand out as a cam girl. They also chat about body hair and how it fits into culture and sex work. Also in this episode: What's it like dating a married couple? How much can you make as a cammer? What are some requests you get? When do you fake orgasms? Tune in to fine out!

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068 The Sexy Academic with Liz Goldwyn Aug 16, 2018

In this episode, writer, filmmaker, and artist Liz Goldwyn joins Nicoletta and Simone to chat about different waves of feminism, the history and research of prostitution and burlesque, and Goldwyn's new company The Sex Ed. Also featured: growing up with film moguls like David Lynch, how to include diverse voices in the sex education conversation- even Pentecostal Ministers- and how to practice orgasmic breathing.

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The Sex Ed https://www.thesexed.com/
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067 Is the Future Female? Free Bleeding with Kiran "Madame" Gandhi Aug 09, 2018

The scholarly sluts are joined by electronic music producer, drummer, artist and activist Kiran/Madame Gandhi.

We get real and talk about re-appropriating words, relationship needs, the "female" archetype, menstruation and free bleeding.

This episode also features questions including: Is "the future is female" movement inclusive? Is the word "slut" a negative re-appropriation? Is there a way to be too feminist?

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066 Girl Boners with August McLaughlin Aug 02, 2018

The slutty scholars are joined by "good girl," former model, and author August McLaughlin. They talk about sex ed for folks who may not feel overtly sexual or readily identify with the word slut. Also in this episode: body image and eating disorders, what empowerment really means, making informed beauty decisions (how do you wear your leg hair), and to wear or not to wear heels. Pre order August's Book and get swag! - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07D8TT72B/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 Contact August: http://augustmclaughlin.com/

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065 Pleasure Slander and Sex Magick with Isabella Frappier Jul 26, 2018

Pleasure Slander and Sex Magick with Isabella Frappier

Body literacy. Sexual sovereignty. Mindful masturbation. Sex magick. It’s all in this convo with Isabella Frappier, doula-alchemist-womnxn’s coach. She guides Nicoletta and Simone into more mindful sexual practices and delves into the sheer power of our sexual potential. Oh, and there’s witchy stuff. And masturbation.

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064 Erotic Art with Zak Smith Jul 19, 2018

Zak Smith, aka Zak Sabbath, is another scholarly slut whose main gig is art with a side of porno. We talk with Zak about becoming an artist, artistic porn, and what it’s like to straddle (literally) these two worlds.

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063 Free the Birth with Emilee Saldaya Jul 12, 2018

The sluts are joined this week by free birther, Emilee Saldaya, who schools them on how our industrial patriarchal medical model sucks for birth. From a brief history of abusive obstetrics, to exploring what “birth in captivity” means and does, to Emilee’s own free birth story, you’ll learn that birthing out of the system isn’t only for crunchy hippies. (Though there is definitely some crunch hippie stuff in here.)

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062 Zolita’s Cult of Girls Jul 05, 2018

Would you rather be hated because you are gay or because you’re a witch? Explore this conundrum and more with the slutty scholars and their guest- queer artist Zolita. In this episode, you’ll also hear about what femme lesbian sex looks like, how Zolita deals with haters, queer art, and how to have sex with long nails.

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061 Bear in a Chair: Queerness and Disability with Andrew Gurza Jun 28, 2018

The Slutty Scholars get enlightened about disability and sexuality. From how to interact and date with a disability (while disabled) to how to suck dick in a wheelchair, Andrew Gurza helps us understand the intersectionality of Cerebral Palsy and Queerness. Just because you can't walk doesn't mean you can't eat ass!

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60 My Gynecologist Isn’t Going to Help Me Find My G-Spot with Pamela Samuelson Jun 21, 2018

Pamela Samuelson, a sexological bodyworker, talks the scholarly sluts through her multilayered work with vulvas. From resolving pain disorders, like vaginismus, to exploring physical arousal, Pamela knows basically everything about what's in between your legs. Did you know that women can get boners, your jaw is linked to your vulva and the vagina will invite you in when it’s ready? PS: Get out your cartography tools, because Pam teaches us about genital mapping!

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Episodes we reference:

Ava’s “But Her Fingernails” EPISODE #5
Seven’s “The World’s Ballsiest Woman” EPISODE #10

Books we talk about:

Wild Feminine by Tami Lynn Kent
The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel van der Kolk MD
Girls & Sex by Peggy Orenstein

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059: Radical Sex with Dr. Chris Donaghue Jun 14, 2018

Dr. Chris Donaghue of Loveline joins the podcast with a delicious box of goodies from Tenga. The slutty scholars talk about masturbation trends, Whore's Day, objectification, and radical activism.

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058 Jupiter’s Slut, or The Accidental Porn Star Jun 07, 2018

Jupiter’s Slut let go of her life as a math teacher and hippie homemaker to embark on a personal masturbation journey. She joins Nicoletta and Simone to talk about wholesome sluttery, how she let go of her sexual repression through fingerpainting and kink poetry and how her sexuality was used against her in her divorce. As a bonus, Simone explains just how to use a faucet or showerhead for masturbation, because apparently a lot of people don’t get it!

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057 The Scarlet “V” with Bachelor Nation’s Ashley I. May 31, 2018

You know her as “the crying girl” or “the virgin” from Bachelor Nation. We want you to get to know her as the sexy, business savvy gal who is confident and in touch with her emotions. Join us in a candid convo with Ashley I as we talk about the concept of “virginity,” what really happens in the fantasy suite, Bachelor statistics, and what it’s like to be broken up with under a microscope.

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056 Daddy and Babygirl’s Pain is For Pleasure with Sid and Levi May 24, 2018

Sid and Levi are in a 24/7 Daddy Dom/Little BDSM dynamic. They’re a match made in hell: a sadist and a masochist, exhibitionist to the max, and equally into anal. They answer all of Nicoletta and Simone’s prying questions about how, who and why they bang, hit, and love blood.

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055 The Feelmore Experience with Nenna Joiner May 17, 2018

Nenna Joiner, founder of Feelmore Adult Gallery in Oakland, CA, joins Nicoletta and Simone to talk about POC and diversity in sexual spaces. Nenna helps the slutty scholars understand how to create a community around sexual pleasure and how to follow your dreams and make them come to fruition.

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FEELMORE FACEBOOK
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054 Sparkles, Titties and Consent with Bitsy La Bourbon of MoreThanNo May 09, 2018

Bitsy La Bourbon makes consent sexy. Literally. The performance activist talks to the sluts about her creation: Cabaret Con-sensual, a burlesque and variety show for and by survivors of sexual assault (and their allies). Bitsy talks frankly about her journey of survivorhood and the healing power of sexy dancing and glitter. Catch Cabaret Con-sensual’s 3rd Birthday this Saturday May 12th in Los Angeles!

Tickets available here! https://cabconmay18.brownpapertickets.com/

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Twitter: @LilBitsyB @morethanno

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053 From Hearts to Assholes with Dr. Evan Goldstein of Bespoke Surgical May 03, 2018

We have had quite a few messages from people requesting more anal. Much like good anal, patience is key. So alas- we are finally ready to open up more. You’ll get to hear about all things anal from Dr. Evan Goldstein, creator of Bespoke Surgical. Nicoletta and Dr. Evan also talk about how to have LGBTQ affirming medical care, and what it takes to get the most out of anal play from one finger to fisting.

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052 Should There Be Dick? With London Steele Apr 26, 2018

London Steele, the “reigning den mother of male strippers” joins Nicoletta and Simon to unveil the world of men taking their clothes off. London breaks down how accurate “Magic Mike” is, his path towards male stripdom and the big dos and don’ts of watching hot guys get next-to-naked.

Note: Simone would NOT grab a dick a lil’ bit without consent.

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051 Sex After Trauma with Jimanekia Eborn Apr 19, 2018

Fight, flight, or freeze. These are some ways that we respond to triggers and trauma. Being that April is Sexual Assault Awareness month, we wanted to bring you an important and vulnerable conversation about trauma, consent, and how to thrive and find pleasure after sexual assault. Tune in to hear more about how to make consent sexy, how trauma affects the body, and learn some self-care, coping, and healing skills. Spoiler alert- we cry and urge you to feel your feelings!! Links: https://www.rainn.org/about-national-sexual-assault-telephone-hotline https://www.sewjim.comhttp://www.morethanno.orghttp://www.pandys.org/index.html Cute little girl affirmations

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050 Buttholes and Watersports: A Candid Conversation With TS Performer Morgan Bailey Apr 12, 2018

Morgan Bailey joins Nicoletta and Simone to discuss her long and illustrious career as TS performer. She delves into how she got started in the industry, how TS and mainstream porn intersect and what direction the industry is going in. The three women also discuss what “woman” even means and who gets to decide who gets to be one. Oh - and watersports.

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049 How to Ruin Already Horrible Songs with Jackie Beat Apr 05, 2018

This week, Nicoletta is joined by Drag superstar Jackie Beat. While she is self admittedly "paid to be a B," Jackie also provides some real, honest advice on how humor is healing, how to own yourself and cope with bullying, and how to love and own your body. Tune in to find out what is too sacred to joke about (if anything) and why Jackie loves the movie Carrie.

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048 Pleasure Is More Than What You Can Do With Your Penis with Dr. Paul Johannides Mar 29, 2018

Dr. Paul Joannides, author of the famed Guide to Getting It On, walks the scholars through the evolution of sex ed through the nine editions of his semen-al text. The ubiquity of porn coupled with the fact that we’ve spent 2 BILLION DOLLARS on abstinence-only sex ed has created “the most ill-informed generation” in the sexual health space. Also on the docket: “premature” ejaculation: why it happens, what causes it and if it really matters.

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047 Clitter with Veronica Moonhill Mar 22, 2018

Join the clitterati and get on board with the newest glitter sensation: Clitter. This pussy powered confetti, created by Veronica Moonhill, will soon be taking over the Senate floor, literally. Are you tired of penis only games and decorations at your big events? Tune in to hear about the creation of this amazing product, the gendering in our culture, and get inspired to start drawing vulvas on people’s dirty cars.

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046 51 First Dates with Kimmy and Liza Mar 15, 2018

Kimmy and Liza of Chix Productions join Nicoletta and Simone to talk about their podcast “51 First Dates.” We talk about first date do’s, don’ts, and hell no’s. We also get a look into what it’s like to go on a new date every week! Do you split the bill? Where’s the ideal location? Also, what’s your sign?!

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045 Jilling Off with Sasha Grey Mar 08, 2018

Yes, Sasha FREAKING Grey joins the podcast this week! The scholars get in the mood with some pterodactyl porn, then talk about whether or not Sasha asked Rocco to punch her in the stomach, the #metoo movement and how porn is a healthy way to explore your sexuality. Also touched on: Sasha’s new novel, Sasha’s favorite standup comedians, her pornographic mission statement, and what she discovered about sex once she stopped doing porn.

Sasha’s books (new book out next week):

The Juliette Society, Book III: The Mismade Girl

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044 What Happens in Vegas Goes on Sluts and Scholars Mar 01, 2018

Ever wonder what a porn expo is like? Nicoletta and Simone take you on the ride of your life as they explore the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo. Hear from some eager fans (including a guy who brings lightsabers for the porn performers) and some of your favorite past Sluts and Scholars’ guests including Nina Hartley, Blair Williams, and Siouxsie Q. Ever wonder what a flogger sounds like on our butts while we talk about Tolstoy? Tune in to find out…

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043 Cannasexual with Ashley Manta Feb 22, 2018

Amazing Ashley joins the slutty scholars to talk about the orgasmic and healing potential of the combination of cannabis and sex. She teaches them about the crappy racist history of “marijuana”, gives major pro-tips on how to not be TOO high and explains alllll about getting your private parts nice and stoned.

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042 Sex Talk with My Mom Feb 15, 2018

Would you want to know how your parents make whoopie? Self-proclaimed cougar Karen-Lee Poter and her pro-clown son Cam of Sex Talk with My Mom podcast join Nicoletta and Simone to surprise set Cam up with Simone. Will they or won’t they? But actually, we talk dating, cougars, dick pics and how you can buy Cam’s underwear. Also, if you want to get paid for pooping in a bag and leaving it in a hotel room, tune in to find out how…

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041 #ImARealStripper with Caroline Blaike Feb 08, 2018

Caroline Blaike sexy-danced into Nicoletta and Simone’s life when they were out for Ava’s (“But Her Fingernails!”) birthday at Jumbo’s Clown Room, a Los Angeles institution. She fully embodies both being a slut and a scholar as she paid for both her undergraduate and master’s degree by stripping. She gives the deets on how to audition for Jumbo’s, the perks of working for a women-owned club and teaches how to sign some dirty talk. Oh, yeah, did we mention she’s fluent in ASL and works as a social worker for deaf kids?

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040 Night Shift with Joanna Angel Feb 01, 2018

Do you ever wonder what happens to a curious Floridian girl who works the sex shop overnight? Who and what does she do?! Nicoletta and Simone get an insider’s peak into award-winning porn performer and producer Joanna Angel’s new book Night Shift: A choose-your-own erotic fantasy. To choose this slutty and scholarly adventure, click play now.

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039 Swinger Sex Fest with Amanda K. Jan 25, 2018

We talked with Amanda K., CEO and founder of SwingerSexFest and active member of the swinger community. What is swinging? What are these secret campgrounds where people get together and bang? What’s a hotel takeover? What’s the negotiation like for swinging? Simone has an epiphany about why there are two queen beds in a hotel room.

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038 HIV Princess with Kelly Gluckman Jan 18, 2018

Did you know that just one pill a day can mean living a normal life for someone with HIV? Are you aware that you can have a fulfilling and amazing love and sex life with HIV? In one of their most raw episodes yet, Nicoletta and Simone interview UCLA student and all around bad ass Kelly Gluckman about living and dating with HIV. Help us end the stigma, eliminate fear, and further sexual health by tuning in and sharing this important episode about HIV.

ABOUT KELLY

Twitter @kellygluckman
Some of Kelly’s work:
- http://www.hivequal.org/featured-stories/a-poz-girl-s-guide-to-dating-hello-i-m-kelly
- UCLA sex squad: http://artglobalhealth.org/amp/uclasexsquad/

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036 Pop Dildo with Spermin Berman Jan 04, 2018

Did you know that fresh sperm can be viable for hours? Did you know that you don’t have to go to the doctor to conceive, even if you aren’t using your own sperm? Join Nicoletta, Simone, and Stephanie “Spermin” Berman for a conversation about the revolutionary Pop Dildo, created to help queer couples conceive on their terms! It is also a fun toy that can be filled with everything from chocolate to vodka. If you ever wondered how to create a unicorn sex scene complete with glitter lube, this is an episode for you.

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035 Jessica Drake is Wicked (encore) Dec 28, 2017

An encore podcast!

Jessica Drake, the sex educator, award-winning adult entertainer, and producer, joins Nicoletta and Simone to talk about the porn industry, trans porn, sexuality, sex ed, and ethics in porn. This hilarious and educational episode will have you begging for more. Make sure you listen to the whole episode for a special offer from Jessica and get to know our word of the day: cumdumpster.

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034 Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Orgasm with Adam & Eve Dec 21, 2017

Adam and Eve’s director of Public Relations joins the slutty scholars to discuss the laws that govern obscenity, porn and sex toys this country. On the docket: the pursuit of orgasms, revenge porn and why Adam and Eve won’t ship to Alabama. Upcoming sex toy trend of Winter 2018? The warming toy.

Remember to use the SAS discount code for 50% off and free shipping at adamandeve.com!

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033 Sustainable Sex with Izabella Miko Dec 14, 2017

Actress, dancer, artist, and eco-warrior Izabella Miko joins Nicoletta and Simone for a conversation about energy, health and wellness, and how to get more in touch with yourself- and literally touch yourself. This episode is fun for the whole family… if your family likes to talk about Kombucha, menstrual cups, and kicking dogs (inside joke, we love animals).

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Other stuff Referenced:

Moon Cup https://www.mooncup.co.uk/
Diva Cup http://divacup.com/

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032 Becoming Cliterate with Dr. Laurie Mintz Dec 07, 2017

Dr. Laurie Mintz, a scholar of sex, joins the women to expose the major reasons for the orgasm gap between men and women. They DESTROY the myth of penetration, address the orgasm “hierarchy” and talk about how there are a MILLION ways to masturbate and come -- and they’ll give you tips for how to figure out what yours are. Don’t worry, men, cliteracy is good for you too!

Note: In this episode, Simone says that labiaplasty was the most common cosmetic surgery, but she misspoke. It’s the fastest-growing cosmetic surgery.

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031 Surviving Modern Dating with Francesca Hogi Nov 30, 2017

Ohhhhh, modern dating. Francesca (matchmaker/dating coach extraordinaire and 2-time Survivor alum) joins the Sluts and Scholars to discuss the trials, tribulations, and pitfalls of modern dating. Major complaints, worst dates from apps, first date ideas, and redefining rejection are all on the docket! Do you have to be on apps to date today?

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030 God Dame It with Alexandra Fine Nov 23, 2017

Sex toy entrepreneur Alexandra Fine joins Nicoletta and Simone this week to discuss how she managed to penetrate the vibrator market.They discuss what it means to be a female CEO, how to get people to invest in a sex toy and how to talk to your partner about bringing toys into the bedroom. They also get into the wack way companies in the business of pleasure are treated because of obscenity laws. Since we recorded this episode, Alexandra was featured in Forbes Magazine’s 30 Under 30 list! Use discount code 20SLUTS for 20% off your Eva or Fin at www.dameproducts.com!

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029 Sex Ed for Grown Ups with Professor Sex aka Angel Kalafatis Nov 16, 2017

Angel Kalafatis, aka Professor sex, joins Nicoletta (we miss you Simone!) for a sex-positive conversation about what it means to be queer, bisexual, and kinky and how to educate all kinds of people about sex including pleasure based education for young adults and kids! Tune in to hear why Justin Timberlake and the Statue of David are important to Nicoletta’s sexual self...

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCS-cL-yt9yZj2O_2OF795hQ

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028 The Myth of Sex Addiction with Dr. David Ley Nov 09, 2017

Join Nicoletta and Simone as they interview Dr. David Ley, a clinical psychologist and author of the Myth of Sex addiction, Ethical Porn for Dicks, and Insatiable Wives. This scintillating episode comes at a perfect time and discusses the craze around sex addiction, cuckolding, and sexual shame. If you’ve ever wondered what cornflakes and graham crackers have to do with sex and how to get the right to masturbate at work during your lunch break, then press the play button!

https://www.psychologytoday.com/experts/david-j-ley-phd

Dr. Ley’s books: https://www.amazon.com/David-J.-Ley/e/B00348D2JQ

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027 Show-offy Sex Stuff with Dita von Teese Nov 02, 2017

The scholars interview the glamour and beauty burlesque queen, Dita Von Teese. Tune in for a rare opportunity to hear from Dita about how she got into Burlesque, her glamour evangelism, and her views on fetishism, ageism, and feminism. Also, cervical orgasms.

It’s the Renaissance woman behind the martini glass!

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026 Butt Stuff with B-Vibe and Alicia Sinclair Oct 26, 2017

Are you curious about anal? Alicia Sinclair, sex educator and founder of B-Vibe, joins Nicoletta and Simone to discuss all things anal. Listen for some tips about how to prep for anal pleasures, why people like doing it, and why it scares us. Hint: it does not have to be painful!

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https://www.bvibe.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/bvibesocial?lang=en
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bvibesocial
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bvibe_social
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4v64JnKzGALymUO3R7ZUuA

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025 I Don’t Think We Can Be Friends If I Can’t Have Sex With You with Rebecca Zahler Oct 19, 2017

The scholarly sluts hang out with Rebecca Zahler of the Don’t Waste Your Pretty podcast. The women tackle the Harvey Weinstein debacle and delve into their own experiences with sexual harassment. Feminist pro tips: how to talk to white men about why white men suck! (NB: this episode was recorded Thursday 10/12/17)

Things we talked about:

Harvey Weinstein on tape (full) http://video.newyorker.com/watch/harvey-weinstein-caught-on-tape
Hunger by Roxane Gay

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024 Euphoric Dark Art with Olivia Bellafontaine Oct 12, 2017

This week, Nicoletta and Simone are joined by Olivia Bellafontaine, one of the most sought after burlesque artists and creators in Los Angeles. Tune in for a conversation about burlesque, the erotic, and even get some tips on how to make your own pasties. Let Olivia take you on a journey into the sexy, fantasy world of neo-burlesque…

You can find Olivia and get tickets for her upcoming show (next week) at the links below! Nicoletta and Simone hope to see you there!

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023 Such A Slut with Miriam Isa Oct 05, 2017

Nicoletta and Simone are joined by Miriam Isa - activist, YouTube personality, social justice warrior and shameless sex-haver. They tackle the word “slut”: their misgivings, appreciation, frustration, and all the times they’ve been called it. What is slutshaming, exactly, and why do women do it to each other? Want to find out how many kisses Nicoletta got as the Stanford mascot? Tune in to find out!

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022 We Make Reality Porn with Anna Cherry Sep 28, 2017

The scholars welcome Anna Cherry, an independent porn producer who exclusively creates content with her partner and is a total gamer and neuroscience nerd. She discusses why she walked away from mainstream porn, pet play, the ups and downs of camming and naked gaming.

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021 PhD XXX Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals Sep 21, 2017

This week, we are lucky to be joined by sociologist and author Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals. Join us for a scholarly conversation about how to study sex as a profession, some of the trends in sexuality research today, and why it is challenging to study adult entertainers and porn. Also, get some tips on how to find and watch ethical porn.

FOLLOW DR. TIBBALS

Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01CMJ3G7U/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1
Twitter: https://twitter.com/drchauntelle?lang=en
Website: http://www.chauntelletibbals.com/
Sssh: http://sssh.com

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020 The Tony Robbins of Squirting with Marcus London Sep 14, 2017

One of the world’s greatest experts in squirting, Marcus London, joins Nicoletta and Simone gush (haha) about female ejaculation, the pressures of being a male performer in porn and what he’s learned from his 4000 sexual partners.

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TWITTER

www.ultimateloverseminar.com

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019 I've Sworn Off Modesty with Rachel Mullins Sep 07, 2017

Rachel joins the slutty scholars to discuss stripping, poisonous fish, acid attacks in India and throwing away your modesty. Simone comes clean about never having been to Dairy Queen and Nicoletta addresses. Tips: the best songs to strip to and that you should totes do it in Canada. Rachel also dishes on what food is served at the Playboy Mansion.

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018 The Future of Sex with Ela Darling Aug 31, 2017

Nicoletta and Simone are enamored with their guest - nerdy goddess dream girl, Ela Darling. Ela is a porn star and the co-founder of a pioneering virtual reality (VR) porn company called VRtube.xxx and the secretary of APAC, the adult performers’ advocacy group. In this episode, the slutty scholars tackle VR porn, performers’ rights, and how to find and create humanity in sex work and virtual reality.

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017 Jessica Drake is Wicked Aug 24, 2017

Jessica Drake, the sex educator, award-winning adult entertainer, and producer, joins Nicoletta and Simone to talk about the porn industry, trans porn, sexuality, sex ed, and ethics in porn. This hilarious and educational episode will have you begging for more. Make sure you listen to the whole episode for a special offer from Jessica, and get to know our word of the day: cumdumpster.

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Twitter:

https://twitter.com/thejessicadrake

https://twitter.com/WickedPictures

Wicked Pictures:

http://www.wicked.com

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016 Toys R Us with Sunny Megatron Aug 17, 2017

How to talk to your kids about sex, what it means to be a pleasure advocate

Sunny Megatron - sex educator and pleasure advocate- joins Nicoletta and Simone to discuss what it means to be “the sex lady”, how best to introduce the idea of using sex toys with your partner and give you a full walkthrough of the ENTIRE vulva, with special attention to the marvelous glory that is the internal and external clitoris. Super awesome insanely amazing pro-tip: the MEGATRON sex move - TELL YOUR PARTNER.

Clitoris walkthrough at 24:30: https://lioness.io/find-the-clitoris/

WHERE TO FIND SUNNY:

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015 Banging Stars with Rachel Kramer Bussel Aug 10, 2017

This week, the slutty scholars duo is joined by Rachel Kramer Bussel, an author, editor, and blogger, who writes and teaches about sex, dating, body image, and erotica. Her stories have been featured in countless sexy books and she has also been in the NY Times and Oprah Magazine. Have a listen as these ladies discuss erotica and how to get into writing and expressing your fantasies. Tune in for some tantalizing talk from Monica Lewinsky to bisexuality, and even hear a sneak peek of some erotic stories.

FOLLOW RACHEL

https://twitter.com/raquelita

http://www.rachelkramerbussel.com/

Best Women’s Erotica:

https://www.amazon.com/Best-Womens-Erotica-Year-1-ebook/dp/B017QL9REA

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014 What Hot Girls REALLY Want with Siouxsie Q Aug 03, 2017

Outspoken sex workers’ rights activist, Siouxsie Q joins Nicoletta and Simone this week! They discuss what makes porn feminist, ballerina domination and whether Rent or Cats is a better musical. (Hint: it’s the one with the sex worker in it.) Although appreciative of mainstream media humanizing sex workers, they also discuss the problematic nature of Hot Girls Wanted.

Tell people what hot girls really want, which is respect, privacy and an answer: @iamRashidaJones, @netflix #HotGirlsWanted

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IG: @therealwhorenextdoor

Twitter: @SiouxsieQJames

Dec 17th: Day to End Violence against Sex Workers - http://www.december17.org/

SWOP: Sex Worker Outreach Project - coalition of sex worker organization

Annie Sprinkle: Public Cervix Announcement

GirlBullies.com

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013 Curvy Sex with Elle Chase Jul 27, 2017

This week, these sluts are joined by Curvy Girl Sex author, speaker, and body acceptance and pleasure advocate Elle Chase. We cover fat and curvy sexuality, pleasure, and body positivity. Have you ever wondered how to radically accept your body, even if you don’t like all of it all of the time? Tune in to hear more about how you can start loving yourself and accepting what you have to work with!

Books/ resources referenced in the show:

How to find Elle:

ELLE CHASE TWITTER

https://www.amazon.com/Curvy-Girl-Sex-Body-Positive-Positions/dp/1592337406

CURVY GIRL SEX TWITTER

BUY ELLE'S BOOK: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life

Lady Cheeky:

http://www.ladycheeky.com

http://smutforsmarties.com

Orgasmic Meditation - https://onetaste.us/

https://www.amazon.com/Slow-Sex-Craft-Female-Orgasm/dp/0446567183

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012 The Pleasure Project with Ava Bogle Jul 20, 2017

Nicoletta and Simone saw a play where 5 aliens attempt to convince the audience that the clitoris can save humanity. 10 minutes in, Simone grabbed Nicoletta’s hand and whispered, “we need to get her on the podcast”. And here she is! Ava Bogle is the creator and performer in “The Pleasure Project” and she, Nicoletta and Simone talk about the best way to look at your genitals (hint: pocket mirror!), the first things they stuck in their vaginas and how to approach dating when you write a blog about your sexploits. Simone admits that even as a co-host on Sluts and Scholars she’s still uncomfortable with the word “slut”.

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011 God Bless Blair with Blair Williams Jul 13, 2017

In this episode, Simone and Nicoletta go bananas with Blair Williams, Sunday school teacher turned porn star, who has newly rocked the adult entertainment industry. The ladies discuss slut shaming, stigma toward porn performers, bj tips, vulva molds and what juices are best for anal scenes.

Bonus: get a sneak peak of Blair's new documentary (spoiler: Nicoletta is in it!), Some Porn Stars Go to Heaven.

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Twitter: ‪@blairsbananas‬
instagram: GodBlessBlair

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010 Does This Mean I'll Get Kicked Out of the Lesbian Game? with Seven Graham Jul 06, 2017

Sarah Graham (intersex activist and addiction therapist) joins Nicoletta and Simone to talk about intersex means. You might not have heard the term before, but being intersex is as common as being a redhead! Sarah discusses the problematic nature of infant gender assignment surgery, how it feels to be lied to for years by your doctors and being a part of the coolest lesbian gang in London. Note: At the time of recording, Sarah’s preferred pronouns were she/her/hers. They now use they/them/theirs.

Find her on Instagram @angelsareintersex and on Twitter at @addictionexpert

Your homework assignment from Sarah:

http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/only-two-sexes-the-barefaced-lie-that-makes-intersex-people-like-me-invisible-a6698236.html

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/the-secret-of-my-sex-411032.html

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/from-groucho-club-to-rehab-one-womans-battle-to-beat-cocaine-addiction-468765.html

http://www.bbc.com/news/av/world-europe-24776168/intersex-woman-this-pink-and-blue-thing-is-nonsense

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009 Big in Japan with Kelly Shibari Jun 29, 2017

This week, Nicoletta and Simone are joined by Kelly Shibari: award winning porn performer, plus size model, and body positive female empowerment activist who also happens to have a Mensa-level IQ. Join in for a discussion on big beautiful people, fat girls in porn, sex in Japanese culture, and paving your way through the porn industry. If you’re a good student, you will also learn how to do a body confidence exercise.

Contact Kelly TWITTER INSTAGRAM

Resources: Hire a Man

Guide to Wicked Sex

Mensa

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008 Poly Want a Cracker? With Dirty Lola Jun 22, 2017

Dirty Lola joins Nicoletta and Simone

Dirty Lola is a self-defined queer, poly, and proud slutty woman of color. She rules New York City and beyond as a sex educator, storyteller, and sex toy aficionado. She joins Nicoletta and Simone to discuss the ins and outs of polyamory and what being a slut means to her. Gloriously and simply put: being in love with your own sex life!

Dirty Lola’s blog: dirtylola69.tumblr.com

Sex Ed Agogo at Otto’s Shrunken Head, last Saturday every month: sexedagogo.com

Twitter: @DirtyLola

Instagram: Dirty Lola

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007 The Breast Episode Ever with Dr. Heather Richardson Jun 15, 2017

Hooray for boobies! This week we are joined by Dr. Heather Richardson, breast expert and the head of the Bedford Breast Center in Los Angeles. Hold onto your tits as we talk about how our boobs change over time, how and when to check your breasts, and how diverse our tatas can be ! It is guaranteed to be a titillating time.

resources : https://www.bedfordbreastcenter.com

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006 Mistress Hawn will see you now with Hudsy Hawn Jun 01, 2017

This week, Nicoletta and Simone are joined by Hudsy Hawn, a professional and lifestyle switch and queen of the Los Angeles BDSM community. She has been featured on a variety of media platforms from Buzzfeed to Playboy Radio and even Storage Wars! Hudsy is currently the Headmistress in charge of education with Stockroom University. Before we begin, be a good student and check out the article below, then get ready for some real life 50 Shades as we explore BDSM, kink, and how to journey from vanilla disney princess to dominatrix. From play parties to dungeons, this is a fun filled episode that will leave your brains and your bottoms rosy with delight.

How to contact Hudsy:

https://twitter.com/hudsyhawn?lang=en

http://www.fromvanillatokink.com/

Links:

The Stockroom: https://www.stockroom.com/

Bar Sinister: http://barsinister.net/

Homework article: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3382736/

Sanctuary LAX: http://www.sanctuarylax.com/home/splash

Secretary the movie: https://www.amazon.com/Secretary-James-Spader/dp/B00BW6SOIQ

Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/

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005 But Her Fingernails! with Ava May 25, 2017

Nicoletta and Simone talk about all things queerness with their friend Ava. Included: a fisting how-to!

‘I came out as bi at Thanksgiving. I screamed it out during dinner.”

this has great definitions of trans*/cissexism, and a non binary - and some other stuff we spoke about on the podcast

http://queerdictionary.blogspot.fr/

For folks interested in what it means to identify as femme when in the queer community, this is an amazing article about Femme identity.

great article about fisting/international fisting day

Ava finds when providing definitions on queer/transgender/non binary identities is good to provide two or more, that way someone who is learning for the first time as two resources, and if one definition falls short another can pick back up. So enjoy!

http://www.transstudent.org/definitions

Do your homework! https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3382736/

the Genderbread Person: http://tinypic.com/r/fxurtz/9

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003 Our First Time with Nina Hartley May 11, 2017

The famed adult film star Nina Hartley joins Nicoletta and Simone to discuss her first sexual experiences, Renaissance Fairs and navigating the porn industry over time. Bonus tip: a handjob kit that fits in your evening bag!

www.Thevipconnect.com

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https://twitter.com/ninaland on Twitter

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002 Online Sexual Things May 01, 2017

To whet their appetite for next week's special guest, Nina Hartley - Porn Star Extraordinaire - Nicoletta and Simone delve into their pornographic beginnings Cybersex, accidental porn and Justin Timberlake are all on the menu, in addition to a live exploration of feminist porn. Strap on!

EXTRAS

feminist porn http://jizlee.com/

Laura Mulvey, Visual Pleasure and Narrative Cinema https://document.li/5Ur9 http://amzn.to/2oWoXO9

http://www.gurl.com/

Daphne Du Maurier’s Rebecca http://amzn.to/2oTeFxt

Scopophilo -http://bit.ly/2qjhfi4

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001 The Great Masturdebators May 01, 2017

Nicoletta invites Simone onto her podcast so they can be both sluts and scholars about masturbation, or what Nicoletta called “exercising”. (Though there’s nothing slutty about a little self-loving.)

Nicoletta asks Simone to answer the question that they will have for every guest on S&S: have you ever felt discriminated against or treated differently because of your comfort with talking about sex?

Special guest appearance: Simone’s mother returns her call on air!

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000 Sluts & Scholars Introduction Apr 07, 2017

Sluts and Scholars features two smart women who also like (gasp) sex! Join us as we discuss how to navigate sexuality in this culture by having conversations that will make your sex smarter and your smarts sexier.

Please enjoy the introduction to our podcast & subscribe to our podcast so you don't miss an episode our first episode is about masturbation.

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