Sibling Rivalry

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The One About Influencers II Aug 18, 2025

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This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét get into the world of influencers, social media, and how they'd fit in if the game had started earlier. Bob reflects on his stint in children's theater and recalls documenting everything with his camcorder. Monét talks about her pre-social media days as a singer and how shifting workday hours might change productivity. They compare LA and New York influencers, debate whether Bob is one, and ask why he isn't making more money from TikTok. They examine the difference between Black and African American identity and debate who treats fans better at meet and greets. Plus: pop fandoms, Survivor, alliteration in geography, jewelry eras, and whether singers or dancers are cringier online.

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The One About Our Bucket Lists Aug 13, 2025

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Trigger warning: This episode contains discussion of disordered eating around the 45 - 55 minute mark. Viewer discretion advised.

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét share their bucket list dreams, from travel destinations to career goals. Bob raves about seeing Death Becomes Her on stage, spills on being invited to a Lady Gaga show in San Francisco, and names the most annoying pop fans. They talk Broadway ambitions, thrill seekers, and the juicing era, while debating if Madonna was born in New York City. Bob reveals his love for hotels over travel, breaks down his "three types of cities" theory, and asks for Monét's take on his Phantom of the Opera performance. Plus, they swap stories about celebrities from their neighborhoods and wonder—does Monét have a Prince Albert fetish?

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The One About Labubus Aug 11, 2025

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This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét break down fake compliments and the things people say when you do something outside the norm. Bob shares the compliments he will and will not accept, they reveal what they did to get their mothers to slap them when they were younger, and they discuss the age gap limits for sibling fights. They talk about collecting fads, why people are going wild for Labubus, where Bob got his first one, and role-play to see what Monét would do if a fan brought one for her. Plus, is Monét a hater, who is better at meet and greets, and who has had more public beef?

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The One About Icons Aug 06, 2025

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This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét ask the big question—what makes an icon? They debate whether they themselves are icons, which Drag Race queens qualify, and what makes a pop star truly iconic. Is it awards? Longevity? Star power? They explore the origins of the term EGOT, which Nobel Prize Bob is most likely to win, and whether awards are essential for icon status. They build their own metric for becoming an icon and test their knowledge of international Drag Race queens. Plus, did we meet Cynthia Erivo as a singer or an actor first and should the Grammys have a Queer or Nonbinary category?

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The One About Geography Aug 04, 2025

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This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét dive into geography, pronunciation quirks, and what exactly counts as the earlobe. They debate whether Wendy Williams is a true New Yorker and whether it is possible to forget working with someone before they became famous. Bob and Monét talk about their longest flights, do a geography challenge, and question how maps work. How big is Greenland really? Plus, St. Lucian swamps, high school math flashbacks, the quadratic equation, and whether Bob is really wearing Jacob's grandmother's earring.

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The One About Desert Animals Jul 30, 2025

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This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét get into it over a dream that left Bob mad, and only Violet Chachki could talk him down. They argue about whether Bob hosted a party at Monét's house, unpack heavy feelings about the state of the world, and discuss Bob's choice to keep his relationships offline. They also debate Andy's game night "cheating," whether it's weird to count your Black friends if you're Black, and if a less-polished queen can spot a flawless one. Plus: kangaroo habitats, Georgia beaches, fanbase drama, and whether Monét knows the difference between fiction and nonfiction.

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The One About Lyrics Jul 28, 2025

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This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét get lyrical as they dive into the songs, singers, and moments they can't stop thinking about. They discuss whether great singing is fact or subjective, which queens are always doing a bit, and if AI content is getting harder to clock. Bob brings a new music game to the table, and they battle to sing songs with specific words in them. They talk jazz legends, their favorite Whitney songs, and what qualifies as a Great American Songbook entry (is WAP in there?). Plus, they debate Beyoncé's best awards show moment, revisit the Gaga album that caused drama among the Monsters, and try to prove who really knows every lyric—and who's the ultimate Little Monster.

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Sibling Watchery: Drag Race All Stars S10 E12 "Smackdown for the Crown" Jul 23, 2025

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This week on Sibling Watchery, Bob and Naomi break down the All Stars 10 finale, where a new queen is inducted into the Drag Race Hall of Fame. They debate whether winning Drag Race holds more weight than winning All Stars, and if lipsync success depends on the song or your opponent. They question if Lydia is taking her drag mother too seriously, whether "Let's wake it up" is truly Mistress's catchphrase, and if Bosco is the only queen who can really challenge her. From Ru's dress color mystery to a surprising "Rate a Queen" ranking, they unpack every moment—including Kerri Colby's return, lip sync highlights, the Mollywoop of the season, and Bob's three golden rules for a reveal.

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The One Where We Have to Be Nice III Jul 21, 2025

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This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét review the definition of "nice" and aim to be nice for the entire episode. Bob shares his recent good deeds, while Monét might have feelings about Bob's high school. Bob says that lions are lip-syncing in movies, and they ask if it is okay to change the key of a song or someone else's art without permission. Plus: a visit to the Universal Studios bathrooms, Nara Smith's unused baby names, the limits of fame, and whether Patrice Roberts should be a guest. Oh, and did Bob curse out Monét's aunt in French?

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Sibling Watchery: Drag Race All Stars S10 E11 "Tournament of All Stars Talent Invitational" Jul 16, 2025

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This week on Sibling Watchery, Bob and Naomi Smalls wake it up for All Stars Season 10, Episode 11. The queens hit the reading challenge, and Bob and Naomi name the best—and most evil—reads of the episode. Mistress is back to stirring chaos, and the girls are over it. They break down the rehearsal process, talent show performances, and the three words that might be the worst thing to say to Ru in the workroom. Bob and Naomi talk about the importance of shoe and wig quality, Drag Race's self-referential habits, and a surprising performance from Daya Betty. Plus: did Bosco just deliver the best look of the season? Is Mistress in her flop era? And who would they vote to bring back into the competition?

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