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128. What To Do When You Stink At Delegation May 20, 2024

This episode delves into the challenges and benefits of effective delegation, particularly for those who struggle with letting go of control and the fear of entrusting tasks to others. Somer and Michelle share their personal experiences and discuss what changed their perspectives on "sharing the load." They also have a big announcement for our podcast community and an invitation to the Summer Challenge—something they never had on their radar for SWHW... but God. This is an episode that will leave you encouraged and excited. 00:00 Welcome and BIG Announcement 03:15 Last Episode Before the Break: Join Us on Patreon! 06:22 Delegation: The Key to Leadership and Capacity 18:06 The Power of Delegation and Trust in God 19:37 The Importance of Responsibility and Growth 21:03 Personal Delegation: A Strategy for Success 22:15 Personal Insights from Learning WHY To Delegate 25:18 Investing in Others Through Delegation 26:55 The Challenge of Delegation and Personal Growth

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127. What To Do When You Feel Like Too Much May 13, 2024

In this episode Somer welcomes SWHW teammate and friend, Callie Holland, as they talk about what it feels like to wonder if you're "too much." They both share personal experiences and lessons learned, eventually getting to the root of the issue with scripture. 02:28 Navigating the Complexities of Ambition and Identity 05:43 The Challenge of Leadership 07:58 Embracing Our True Identity in Christ 11:05 Exploring the Power and Presence of the Holy Spirit 19:11 The Role of the Holy Spirit in Overcoming Insecurity 22:08 Battling Spiritual Warfare and Embracing Your 'Too Muchness' 22:42 The Power of Prayer and Vulnerability in Leadership 27:43 Peter's Journey: From Insecurity to the Rock of the Church 31:11 Inviting the Holy Spirit into Every Aspect of Life 32:10 Closing Thoughts and Invitation to the Community Join The Patreon Here! (We have a summer challenge coming you'll want to jump in on!)

126. Parenting with Hope in a Secular Age with Melissa Kruger May 06, 2024

Melissa Kruger has journeyed with me [Michelle] through motherhood, and right on time -- just two weeks after my oldest became a teenager -- she released a new book on raising teens for Christ. In this episode, we dive deep into God's heart for parenting our teens, including:

the risks of defaulting to parent out of motivations other than hope
laying the foundation for the teen years in childhood years
biggest challenges + opportunities in raising teens today
the reminder that it's never too late to parent (or grandparent!) out of hope

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125. How To Know When It's Time To Quit: Part 2 Apr 29, 2024

This episode, inspired by one of our Patreon Besties, delves into the often times confusing emotions we encounter when we want to know if it's time to walk away from something. In part 2 of How To Know If It's Time To Quit, Somer and Michelle talk through the signs and symptoms that they've often felt when it was the Lord leading them to quit, rather than their own wants or desires. This episode puts the 'explanation point' on the entire conversation and we hope leaves you with clear indicators that help you to identify or at least intentionally listen for the voice of God. 00:00 Recognizing the Signs 03:50 A Sign of Divine Stirring 11:54 The Power of Prayer + Community 15:06 Emotional Signals 19:09 The Fruit of the Spirit 21:36 The Gift of Restlessness 28:06 Seeking Clarity and Direction Join The SWHW Patreon

124. How To Know When It's Time To Quit: Part 1 Apr 22, 2024

124. This episode, inspired by one of our Patreon Besties, delves into the often times confusing emotions we encounter when we want to know if we need to quit something. Somer and Michelle give you part 1 this week which talks through the signs and symptoms that they've often felt when it was their flesh that was pushing them towards quitting. This conversation serves as a bit of a guide in helping you recognize when your impulse to quit is a selfish reflex versus a God-led command. 01:25 Exploring Personal Responses to Quitting 04:24 The Signs of When to Quit: Boredom and Discontentment 12:47 Quitting When It's Hard 16:33 Confronting Rebellion and Avoidance 23:38 Evaluating the Urge to Quit 24:12 When Quitting is the Right Choice

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123. Our Best Lessons Learned In The Marketplace and Corporate America Apr 15, 2024

In this episode, Somer and Michelle share some of their most valuable lessons learned from experiences working in corporate America and the marketplace before transitioning to ministry work. Coming from a variety of industries, including banking, retail, scientific research, fitness, network marketing, and pharmaceutical sales, they are sharing how each of their assignments have shaped them and prepared them for their current roles and reminding you how your current assignment is probably doing the same thing. 00:48 Diving Into Our Diverse Career Histories 05:05 Embracing Being Set Apart in the Workplace 10:58 Mentorship Doesn't Require a Formal Invitation 14:42 The Power of Little Things in Making a Big Impact 18:53 Embracing the Small Things in Life 19:07 Learning from the Fashion Industry: Counting the Cost 22:49 The Leap to Gym Ownership 26:04 The Power of Contentment: Beyond Financial Success 31:05 Leadership Insights: The Value of Collective Wisdom 35:37 Reflecting on Lessons Learned and the Impact of Leadership Join The SWHW Patreon For More!

122. Social Media And Your Spiritual Health: Should I Stay, Should I Go, Or Should I Adjust Apr 08, 2024

Yep, we're talking about the good ole' social media... again. But don't worry, Somer and Michelle are keeping it fresh with a nuanced approach to a spiritually healthy relationship with your internet friends and follows. Whether you're a content consumer, a content creator, or somewhere in between, we promise you'll be inspired, not beat up, by this conversation. 00:41 Diving Into the Social Media Dilemma 02:27 The Impact of Social Media on Spiritual Life 05:43 Evaluating Time Spent on Social Media 17:17 Navigating Personal and Professional Boundaries on Social Media 25:32 Practical Tips and Final Thoughts Join The Patreon!

121. I Need A Break Apr 01, 2024

In this episode, Somer talks to her friend, Linda Lotich from Seedtime. Linda shares a little of her own story which has led her to a deep desire to see women not only feel permission to rest, but to understand that stepping away with the Lord, even from their own families, is vital to their soul and ministry. 00:00 Welcome and Introduction of Linda 01:46 The Importance of Taking Breaks for Moms 03:14 Linda's Personal Journey and Insights on Rest 08:31 Implementing Rest and Its Impact 16:31 Exploring Jesus' Example of Rest and Its Application 18:52 Practical Steps Towards Prioritizing Rest and God 21:58 Recognizing the Need for Rest and Turning to God 24:55 The Transformative Power of Rest and Prioritizing God 26:17 The Power of Prayer and Fasting in Jesus' Life 28:46 Embracing the Prodigal Son's Lesson: Everything God Has is Already Ours 33:33 Practical Tips for Deepening Your Prayer Life 40:12 Finding Rest in God Amidst Life's Challenges

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120. How To Avoid Drama At The Water Cooler Mar 25, 2024

In this episode Somer and Michelle address the issues of gossip and drama, particularly at the workplace, emphasizing why it can be a huge concern for everyone, but especially Christian women. They are breaking it all down and giving you some practical and realistic tools to help you avoid it. 00:48 Navigating Workplace Drama 02:08 The Spiritual and Moral Effects Of Gossip 12:37 Cultivating a No Gossip Zone 18:44 A Real Life Story 20:11 The Ripple Effect 20:12 Challenging Gossip: Strategies and Mindsets 21:35 Leadership's Role in Eliminating Gossip 25:52 Assuming the Best Is A Path to Freedom 26:54 Practical Tips for Gossip-Free Conversations 30:49 Looking For The Truth 32:32 Encouragement to Stand Against Gossip Join The Patreon for more on Gossip in our April Q&A!

119. How To Navigate Being The Strict Mom Mar 18, 2024

In this episode, Somer welcomes her and Michelle's good friend, Lauren Diggs to discuss what it's like and what it takes to be confident when your parenting style and boundaries look different than the rest of the worlds. Lauren is a mother of 5 ranging in ages 9 to 32 and even a new grandma so she is speaking from a place of both experience and being in the trenches with you. Lean in! This is a good one. 00:35 Discussing the Challenges of Being a 'Strict' Mom 01:27 Meet Lauren 04:19 Reflecting on Childhood and Parenting Styles 07:25 Adapting Parenting Approach for Different Children 10:31 Navigating The Hard Parts 20:08 The Role of Confidence in Parenting 25:31 Maintaining Open Conversations with Children 29:37 Understanding Your Child's Perspective 29:58 Teaching Kids to Make Beneficial Choices 30:23 Trusting God with Your Child's Journey 34:05 Q&A 52:26 Conclusion: Embracing Your Role as a Parent

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118. Why You Need Hobbies And How To Find Them Mar 11, 2024

This is a FUN one. Michelle and Somer do their best to encourage you to find and build in hobbies... and they do a pretty convincing job. Need your affections stirred for the Lord? This conversation might be just the one you need!

02:40 A Case For Hobbies 02:52 Our Favorites 06:13 The Intersection of Hobbies and Work 07:35 The Spiritual Significance of Hobbies 09:33 Hobbies as a Means of Connection 13:37 The Role of Hobbies in Evangelism 17:41 Building Hobbies into Daily Life 23:24 Letting the Gospel Shape Your Imagination 25:06 The Intersection of Hobbies and Spirituality 29:57 Defining Fun for Yourself 35:54 Your Kids' Hobbies 38:29 Praying for Hobbies

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117. I Need You. You Need Me. We Need Boundaries! Mar 04, 2024

This week Somer and Michelle talk through a conversation they were able to have when they spoke together at a conference a few weeks back. They were addressing a group of female ministry leaders and reminding them that they are needed, they need others, and all of us need boundaries. Find out which one is harder for you, needing others or being needed, and listen in as we remind you what the gospel definition of boundaries is! 02:55 The Importance of Community 03:41 I Need You You Need Me We Need Boundaries Introduced 04:42 Exploring the Concept of Boundaries 15:53 The Danger of Self-Deprecation and Pride 21:03 The Role of Faith in Relationships 22:45 The Danger of Misplaced Dependence 23:50 The Importance of Processing with God First 25:09 The Role of Prayer in Processing 26:53 Understanding Mutual Submission vs Codependency 32:23 The Importance of Unity in the Body of Believers 34:05 The New John 17 Challenge 38:52 The Power of Prayer in Setting Boundaries Join The Patreon to get your downloadable resource and join our John 17 Challenge starting NOW!

116. Praying Like Monks. What's That About? Feb 26, 2024

Somer and Michelle have a little book club meet-up to chat through a book that they both, YES WE SAID BOTH, really enjoyed. Tyler Staton's book, 'Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools' is one of the most powerful books on prayer that they have ever read! And good news for you... on this episode they're going to give you a synopsis + a few of their big takeaways with the hopes that you will go pick it up and let it change your prayer life too. 00:51 Overview of the Book 03:07 The Impact of the Book and Their Personal Reflections 05:48 The Power of Prayer 06:06 The Importance of Practice in Prayer 08:36 Sharing Top Takeaways from the Book 17:36 Finding Comfort in Prayer 18:23 The Power of Silence and Solitude 19:39 Conversations with God 20:19 Overcoming Distractions for a Richer Prayer Life 22:47 Dealing with Internal Noise and Clutter 26:01 Breaking Attachments to the World for True Love 33:21 The Vital Role of Prayer in Our Lives Join The Patreon Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools

115. A Note To Gen Z + Millennials With Special Guest Callie Holland Feb 19, 2024

In this episode, Somer has an honest conversation directed towards the 20 and 30 somethings but really, for all of us, with one of her good friends, Callie Holland. They cover the pressure you feel to have life figured out, the issue of loneliness, the need for connection, what the real hold up is on pursuing discipleship, and how those of us no longer in our 20's and 30's can step up and begin investing in these younger women. They also recap the Super Bowl Half Time show and why Usher > Rihanna sooo yeah, it's a pretty good one. 01:04 Welcome + If You Had A Doctorate What Would It Be In 07:40 The Impact of the Younger Generation 09:56 The Power of Failure and Learning 11:57 The Importance of Pursuing God's Will 21:29 The Role of Mentorship and Discipleship 23:22 The Power of God's Word 24:54 The Importance of Community 25:11 The Dangers of Fake Connection 25:38 The Loneliness Epidemic 26:37 The Role of the Local Church 30:24 The Importance of Serving 33:07 The Power of Prayer 35:16 The Super Bowl Recap

114. Home Vibe Check Part 2 Feb 12, 2024

Michelle and Somer follow up last week's conversation with Dara LaPorta by talking through their own experiences creating sweet atmospheres at home. If you've ever wanted a little extra motivation to make your home a hub of laughter and peace, today's episode is for you! Pura Smart Home Plug In Join The Patreon (Marriage Episode Coming Soon!) 2nd Timothy Study

113. Home Vibe Check: Creating a Sweet Atmosphere at Home Part 1 Feb 05, 2024

In this episode, Somer chats with one of our favorites, Dara LaPorta, a She Works His Way OG from way back. Dive into Dara's world as she joyfully navigates the chaos as a mom of four with one foot in the health and fitness world and another leading in women's ministry. Dara gives us her take on creating a cozy family vibe, and why she swears by intentional peace and chill family rhythms. Tune in for these nuggets of wisdom on slowing down, being intentional, and finding a relaxed rhythm in our crazy fast world. 00:33 Getting to Know Dara 01:04 Dara's Family and Career 05:06 The Importance of A Sweet Home Atmosphere 06:00 The Role of Mothers in Setting Home Atmosphere 13:34 Juggling Attention With Multiple Children 17:49 Answering the Call 23:03 Cultivating a Rhythm of Rest 27:26 The Power of Apology 33:10 Conclusion: The Journey of Motherhood

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112. Dealing With Unfulfilled Hopes and Dreams Jan 29, 2024

Michelle and Somer talk about what it feels like for things not to go the way you hoped they would, and how to see the beauty in God's plan even when it's hard.

03:00 The Struggle with Unfulfilled Dreams and Hopes 05:00 The Book of Ecclesiastes and its Lessons 07:21 The Inspiring Story of Ruth 10:22 Our Experiences with Unfulfilled Hopes and Dreams 14:54 It's Okay To Ask God Why 15:50 Dealing with Disappointment and Finding Purpose 17:20 Finding Joy in the Presence of God 18:54 Drawing Closer to God through Trials 21:31 Finding Fullness in Christ 22:01 Embracing Unfulfilled Hopes and Dreams 23:00 Developing Patience in Waiting for God's Promises 25:47 Living a Fulfilled Life through the Holy Spirit 32:27 Finding Goodness in God's Surprises

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111. The Sacredness of Secular Work with Jordan Raynor Jan 22, 2024

In this episode, Michelle chats with one of her favorite authors, Jordan Raynor, and together they discuss the upcoming release of his newest book, 'The Sacredness of Secular Work'. 01:24 Joy and Excitement in Faith and Work 03:00 The Intersection of Ministry and Marketplace 04:03 The Sacredness of Secular Work 05:17 The Concept of Anti-Bucket List 05:46 The Eternal Perspective of Work 18:21 Scratching Off Glimpses of the Kingdom 23:01 Practical Ways to Make Disciples

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110. The Joy Factor: Our Philippians Conversational Commentary Is Here! Jan 15, 2024

With millions of Americans struggling with their mental health, it's safe to say that JOY could be a game changer for a lot of us. In this conversation Somer and Michelle, mostly Michelle because SHE WROTE A NEW COMMENTARY, discuss the value in practicing and pursuing joy using the book of Philippians and the example of Paul as their anchoring truth on the matter. Whether you are struggling with joy or you are close to someone who is, this is a convo you'll want in on! 04:50 The Importance of Joy and Endurance 05:09 Unveiling the New Commentary on Philippians 05:39 The Joy Factor: A Deep Dive 12:51 The Struggle for Joy and the Power of Practice 15:37 Joy in Salvation and Sharing the Gospel 17:27 The Challenge of Being Joyful and Critical 23:39 The Role of Faith in Cultivating Joy 26:40 The Power of Decision in Cultivating Joy 27:47 The Joy in Sacrifice and Hard Work 31:45 The Importance of Community in Achieving Joy 34:13 The Role of Joy in Christian Witness The SWHW Patreon Get your 2024 3 Step Planner Philippians Commentary

109. Health, Wellness, & Body Image: But Make It About God Jan 08, 2024

In this episode Somer's husband, Kent, joins her for a talk we usually leave the men out of. Today we're kicking off Season 2 of The SWHW Podcast talking about the same thing EVERYBODY is talking about... our bodies. With insights from a Pastor and 'girl dad', they explore how cultural pressures can distort our perceptions of our bodies and undermine our self-esteem, hindering us from being able to live fully on mission for God. 00:01 Introduction and Welcome to Season Two 01:13 Introducing the Topic 01:44 Trigger Warning for those with Eating Disorders 02:29 The New Year and Fitness Resolutions 04:14 The Impact of Kent and Somer's Sabbatical on their Physical Health 17:31 The Connection Between Physical and Spiritual Health 18:58 Dealing with Body Image Issues in a Family Setting 21:18 The Role of Scripture in Shaping Perspective 22:07 Navigating Body Image and Insecurity 25:19 The Role of Spiritual Health in Addressing Body Image Issues 32:55 The Importance of Taking Care of the Body as a Form of Worship 36:20 The Importance of Prioritizing Spiritual Health Over Physical Appearance 42:03 The Importance of Glorifying God with How We Treat and See Our Body

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108. Unwrapping Our Top 10 Favorite Christmas Movies Dec 04, 2023

Holiday Movie Showdown: Celebrating Christmas Classics & Hidden Gems

In one of your favorite episodes each year, Somer and Michelle countdown their all time favorite Christmas movies (and a few of their not so favorites). Let them put together your Christmas movie playlist for this holiday season while you focus on the other 11 billion Christmas tasks on your list! Grab your peppermint mocha and let's goooo.

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00:52 Christmas Movie Time: The Excitement Begins 01:10 The Christmas Movie Showdown: The Preparation 03:48 Is Die Hard a Christmas movie? 07:03 The Christmas Movie Dishonorable Mentions 13:05 The Christmas Movie Countdown Begins 26:39 Discussing Favorite Movie Soundtracks 27:41 The Grinch vs. The Grinch 27:52 Feel-Good Christmas Movies 28:35 Introducing Lesser-Known Christmas Movies 31:11 Nostalgic Christmas Movies 34:58 Unconventional Christmas Movies 41:14 Classic Christmas Movies 47:53 Wrapping Up the Discussion and Wishing Merry Christmas

107. A Conversation About Prepping To Take Time Off Nov 27, 2023

Somer and Michelle are pumped to have this conversation with you about taking time off and put everything they discuss into practice as we slow waaaaaaayy down at the end of the year. Taking time off isn't easy, but God both created us to rest and He commands us to rest. Bottom line: taking time off matters. This conversation is jam-packed with practicality as we discuss:

best practices to plan for rest
how to prioritize rest when you and your spouse rest differently and/or you have young kids
defining rest for yourself (because rest is personal!)

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01:11 The Importance of Taking Time Off 02:22 Theological Foundation of Rest 04:31 The Practice of Sabbath 06:16 The Significance of Rest in Creation 07:22 The Struggle of Taking Time Off 09:16 Planning for Time Off 17:15 The Importance of Rest for Productivity 20:51 Patience and Slowing Down 21:43 Preparing for a Sabbatical 22:33 Communicating Rest to Your Kids 24:19 Rest is Personal 27:12 The Delight in Rest 27:18 Resting Differently in Marriage 29:25 The Rhythm of Rest 30:08 Communicating Your Rest 33:08 Planning for Rest 37:48 Gratitude and Closing Remarks

106. A Conversation About Our Favorite New Assessment Nov 20, 2023

In this episode Somer and Michelle share a game-changing assessment they have been using for a year now! Using red, yellow, and green as your answer, they'll ask you to check in on four crucial areas of your life. They are the areas we all tend to brush off, but it can be a dangerous game to keep ignoring the signs. The SWHW Patreon Get your 2024 3 Step Planner SHOP THE BLACK FRIDAY SALE ON FRIDAY! 00:50 The Importance of Self-Assessment 01:05 The Role of Questions in Self-Reflection 02:06 The Struggle of Remembering and Forgetting 04:00 The Origin of the Assessment 05:57 The Impact of the Assessment 08:09 The Magic of The Three Step Planner 17:19 Understanding Personal Assessment: The Green Goal 17:45 Vulnerability is Necessary 18:03 The Importance of Writing Down Your Thoughts 18:42 The Best Time for Effective Self-Assessment 19:56 The Impact of Emotional and Mental Health 21:08 The Role of Physical Health in Overall Well-being 26:33 Spiritual Health 31:05 Relationships 37:25 Conclusion: The Importance of Regular Self-Assessment

105. A Conversation About Big Spending & Black Friday Nov 13, 2023

In this week's conversation, Somer + Michelle do a deep dive into big spending (if you're listening in real time, just in time for the Black Friday + Cyber Monday crazy!) Listen in if you need reminders on:

the difference between genuine generosity and pressure-driven obligation
guilt-free missing out
practical tips for protecting your joy

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Become a Donor Take what you need... 00:59 Discussion on Big Spending 01:39 Reminiscing About Podcast Beginnings 02:24 Black Friday Experiences 07:26 The Pressure of Holiday Spending 07:36 Generosity vs Obligation in Gift Giving 16:49 The Pressure of Gift Giving for Kids 18:06 Setting Boundaries with Family 19:31 The Joy of Christmas and Family Traditions 20:58 The Role of Parents and Grandparents in Gift Giving 22:19 The Obligation of Gifts and Time 24:19 Creating Healthy Rhythms for the Holiday Season 24:37 The Pressure of Participating in All Events 31:48 The Importance of Advent

104. A Conversation About Thanksgiving: The Good The Bad and The Ugly Nov 06, 2023

Ready to laugh and cringe? In honor of kicking off the holiday season, Somer + Michelle are re-living their best + worst Thanksgiving memories, plus doing a little this or that Thanksgiving style. Whether you love Thanksgiving or you're a bit a turkey Scrooge (like a certain co-host to be revealed in the episode), we've got something for you. Join our Patreon.Become a donor.

103. A Conversation About Confidence: Part 2 Oct 30, 2023

In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer talk about what they felt last week's confidence quiz (go listen to the previous episode if you missed it!) revealed to them personally + what is missing from the way the world measures confidence, including:

releasing yourself from the pressure of trying to build confidence the world's way
helpful ways (and not-so helpful ways!) to talk about confidence to the next generation
where your confidence belongs

Scriptures referenced: - Philippians 1:6 - 2 Corinthians 3:4-5 - Ephesians 3:12 - Hebrews 4:16 - 1 John 5:14 The SWHW Patreon Order The She Works His Way Book (To get the full picture of who we are and who you are in Christ!) Become a Donor

102. A Conversation About Confidence: Part 1 Oct 23, 2023

In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer take a confidence quiz in real time. (You'll have to listen to learn where we got it!) Listen + take this quiz with us to determine:

what elicits your confidence + what exposes your insecurity
the root of your confidence
how other people's perceptions affect your confidence

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101. A Conversation About Scarcity Mindset vs. Abundance Mindset Oct 16, 2023

In this conversation requested by our Patreon community, Somer and Michelle dig into:

TWO very special birthdays we're celebrating
what our perspective on human limits ultimately reveals about our trust in God
how an abundance mindset without Christ is still scarcity
the throw back MTV show Rich Kids Of Beverly Hills
lack, comparison + fear vs. peace, joy + contentment (and a whole lot more!)

Scripture referenced: - Philippians 4 - Matthew 14:13-21 The SWHW Patreon Come to Knoxville for a SWHW Live Event Get Our 2nd Timothy Study Order The She Works His Way Book (To get the full picture of who we are and who you are in Christ!) Become a Donor

100. A Conversation About THE Weddings (And Parenting) Oct 09, 2023

In this conversation, Michelle asks Somer all the questions about what God showed her over the last year as both of her daughters got engaged and married. If you saw the wedding pics from a few weeks ago, and and wanted more - it's all here, including:

why parents should ultimately be the biggest encouragers for our kids to "leave and cleave" to their spouse + how to do it
the beauty of God's faithfulness to grow your marriage while watching your kids fall in love
how she felt when she met their husbands, THE DRESS, a wedding day haircut, Rockefeller Center proposals, and other moments that make her internal highlight reel...

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99. A Conversation About Soul Care Oct 02, 2023

In this live recording from a conference Somer spoke at earlier this year on the topic of Soul Care, she uses the example of Jesus withdrawing from the crowds to help us understand how we need to sometimes eliminate the external noise so that we can give attention to our souls. If you feel tired, burnt out, or on the verge of either of those, you might want to listen in! The SWHW Patreon Come to Knoxville for a SWHW Live Event Get Our 2nd Timothy Study Order The She Works His Way Book (To get the full picture of who we are and who you are in Christ!)

98. A Conversation About Following Jesus When Life Is Hard Sep 25, 2023

This week is another LIVE podcast recording alongside our incredible SWHW fam. This time, Michelle is here for a conversation about following Jesus when life is hard. She covers:

responding to the gospel in your circumstances instead of simply responding to your circumstances
why "you deserve this" language is so spiritually unhealthy
how to know if you're fighting the right battles
Scriptures referenced:
- 2 Timothy 2:1-7
- Dig more into 2 Timothy with us in our newest commentary.

The SWHW podcast is a free resource to equip and encourage women, made available to you by the generosity of God's people. If these conversations serve you to live empowered by the gospel, please support our ministry and help other women find our podcast by becoming a donor. From the bottom of our hearts, we are grateful to God for you!

97. A Conversation About Pursuing Small Things + Big Things: Part 2 Sep 18, 2023

This week's episode continues the conversation Michelle + Somer started last week, this time focusing on: - redefining big things - how obedience produces endurance and disobedience results in exhaustion - why burden is a better motivator than ambition The SWHW podcast is fueled by the generosity of amazing women like you! Thank you for allowing us to extend this crucial dialogue on how to prioritize what truly matters in today's fast-paced world to women who are desperate for hope only found in Jesus. We're deeply grateful for your role in making this transformative mission possible. If you're ready to join hands with us on this incredible journey, you can make a donation here. Thank you for helping make this ministry possible!

96. A Conversation About Pursuing Small Things + Big Things: Part 1 Sep 11, 2023

In this week's episode, join Somer + Michelle for a conversation about: - redefining small things - how to know if you're comfortable or content - real life examples of "small things" that in hind sight were big things Our podcast thrives on the unwavering support of amazing women like you. Your generous contributions fuel this vital conversation about navigating the complexities of doing what matters in a world that values simply getting things done. Thank you for making this ministry a reality for the women already gathered here + providing hope for those yet to come. If you're moved to unite with us in this mission, you can make a donation here. Thank you for supporting what God is doing here!

95. A Conversation About Mom Guilt Sep 04, 2023

Join us in this week's convo! Somer and Michelle delve deep into the common yet often unspoken struggle of mom guilt. In this candid conversation, they dig into:

distinguishing between guilt and conviction (this is key!)
truths to combat persistent doubts + guilt that creeps in
practical tips to confront mom guilt when it hits

Remember, the SWHW podcast thrives thanks to your support. Your contributions play a vital role in fostering this essential dialogue about prioritizing doing what matters most in a world that emphasizes getting things done. By donating, you help us provide resources to local churches, extend support to individual women in need, and help sustain this impactful ministry. If you're moved to link arms with us and drive this mission forward, you can make a donation here. (No amount is too small!)

94. A Conversation About Co-Vocational Work, Part 2 Aug 28, 2023

This week picks up where last week's episode left off, continuing Somer + Michelle's conversation on co-vocational work. This week's discussion points include:

how Jesus turned curiosity of others into gospel opportunities (and how to do the same!)
loving people without desiring their approval
how to have the tough gospel-conversations with co-workers
staying focused on what people believe more than how people behave

We also brought back one of your favorite segments: Keep It/Toss It!

Michelle's Keep It: ReShoeVn8er
Somer's Keep It: Lip Mask

Michelle's book recommendation: A Meal with Jesus

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93. A Conversation About Co-Vocational Work, Part 1 Aug 21, 2023

This week's conversation is extra special to us because:

1) It's our first ever LIVE podcast recording with our amazing network present! (To be there for next month's LIVE podcast recording, join the network here!)
2) Michelle + Somer start a conversation that's super close to the heart of this ministry, on co-vocational work, including:
- what to do when you feel the tension between what God's calling you to do and what the world expects from you
- being called to multiple places with one mission simplifies more than it complicates
- how we often compartmentalize the spiritual from the secular but God does not
As a reminder, the SWHW podcast is completely you-funded. Your generous donations help other women join this important conversation about how to do what matters in a get-things-done world. From helping us supply resources and support to local churches to ministering to individual women with needs we can meet, thank you for making this ministry possible. You can donate to link arms with us in this mission here. (Every amount helps!)

92. A Conversation About Not Liking Where God Has You Aug 14, 2023

This week, Somer + Michelle jump into a conversation about how to move forward when you're frustrated where God has you, including:

using God's past faithfulness to increase your confidence
relying on the Holy Spirit to make the same tasks (or people!) less draining
avoiding jumping straight into "fixer" mode
how exhausted you'll be if you keep shifting your hope

Scriptures referenced: - Psalm 13 - Colossians 1:23 - James 1:2-5 The SWHW podcast is a free resource to equip and encourage women, made available to you by the generosity of God's people. If these conversations serve you to live empowered by the gospel, please support our ministry and help other women find our podcast by becoming a donor. From the bottom of our hearts, we are grateful to God for you!

91. A Conversation About What Doing Life Together Is Really Like Aug 07, 2023

This week, Michelle + Somer jump into a conversation about:

how to read the Bible as a conversation God starts with us that we continue with one another
discerning the tone we should use in tough topics
the importance of basing our relationship with one another on God's authority in our lives
remembering the lost and fulfulling your ministry

Conversational Commentary on 2 Timothy releases August 8, 2023! Grab your copy here.

90. A Live Q&A From Our Summer Book Club Jul 31, 2023

This week we are letting you in on our most recent Q&A that Michelle + Somer hosted live for their She Works His Way Summer Book Club girls. The questions submitted were SO good and so honest, you don't want to miss this one. Here are a few things they chatted through:

it all boils down to practice
the way Jesus modeled making disciples
simple ways we can teach our kids to depend on God
flying by the seat of your pants vs flying by the seat of the Holy Spirit

Would you like to submit your own questions for the next time Somer and Michelle do a Q&A episode? Just email hello@sheworkshisway.com or DM us on Instagram! Love these conversations and want to make sure they keep coming? We love making this podcast available to all women at no cost, and we need you to help other women find us! The two main ways you can help:

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89. A Conversation About Keeping The Peace Jul 24, 2023

In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer discuss:

the difference between peacekeeping and peacemaking
how to pursue peace when you desire justice
practical ways to bring peace into our broken world

Scriptures referenced:

Romans 5:1
Matthew 5
Colossians 1:19-20
James 3:17

We'd love to connect with you more!

88. A Conversation About Gossip (With A Special Guest!) Jul 17, 2023

In this week's episode, Somer and a surprise guest go all in on the topic of gossip, including:

a spot on definition for gossip you may have never heard
gossip in the church and what it really does to the Bride of Christ
gossip masked as "seeking counsel"
raising kids who won't gossip
gossip in marriage

Love these conversations and want to make sure they keep coming? We love making this podcast available to all women at no cost, and we need you to help other women find us! The two main ways you can help:

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Become a donor. (If every listener gave $1/month, we'd meet our annual ministry budget!)

87. A Conversation About Performing Jul 10, 2023

In this week's episode, Michelle and Somer do a deep dive into performing, including:

links between performing, pretending and people pleasing
how to avoid reinforcing performing to our kids
why loving Jesus most and knowing God more is the only way to end performance tendencies
Accountability is key when it comes to checking your motives, and that's one of the main reasons why we love bringing new women into our 5-month High Level Mastermind we mentioned in this episode. If you're interested in one of the remaining spots for the fall semester, view the details and sign up here. We can't wait to meet you!

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86. A Conversation About Rest Jul 03, 2023

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle discuss rest in all of it's forms, including:

why you shouldn't feel guilty for resting
busting the myth that not resting is noble
differences between rest to engage and numbing to escape
the unexpected interruption of identity issues for rest

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85. A Conversation About Our Favorite Things: Summer Edition Jun 26, 2023

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle take one of their most-listened to episodes from December + give us a summer edition of their favorite things. A few highlights we think you'll be especially excited about:

Somer's fashion picks for her mother of the bride era + Michelle's comfort picks -- including athletic shorts that are actually the right length without awkward pockets
permission to eat carbs...with your protein
a brief tangent to relive the summer Olympics of 1994, Limited Too + sparkly blue eyeshadow from Claire's

We're also SUPER excited to announce the launch of our Amazon storefront! We used to be able to receive donations through Amazon Smile, but with that platform dissolving, we have a new way you can shop and support SWHW! Every time you shop one of the links from our storefront, you also make a small donation to SWHW. So grab a few of their favorites (that will also become your favorites!) and support the SWHW mission too.

SHOP SWHW AMAZON STOREFRONT HERE.

The only item from the episode you won't find in our Amazon storefront: Colleen Rothschild Illuminating Tinted Eye Cream

84. A Conversation About Doing The Right Things For The Wrong Reasons Jun 19, 2023

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle talk about:

Refusing to be sad when what God calls us to is small + refusing to be scared when what God calls us to is big
Public ministry vs. ministry to be seen
The critical role of accountability

Scriptures referenced:

1 Corinthians 3:10-15
Matthew 6

Verbal High Fives to:

Camp Ridgecrest for Boys
Camp Crestridge for Girls
Biltmore Church Adventure Week (Asheville, NC)
South Shore Church VBS (Annapolis, MD)

83. A Conversation About One Of The Biggest Threats To Marriage Jun 12, 2023

In this week's episode, Kent (Somer's husband) joins Somer on the show to discuss what he sees as one of the current biggest threats to marriage. (So if you're married, grab your husband + listen together!) Some of our favorite takeaways of the convo are:

How we can't let weariness lead to neglect
The tragic impact our cell phone can have on our relationship
Proper self checkout etiquette (So Kent kind of goes off at the end in a special "I Disagree With" segment)

82. A Conversation About Designer Hand Bags Jun 05, 2023

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle have an honest dialogue about materialism, including: - how materialism reveals more about your heart than your possessions - when the desire for more competes with your desire for God - the link between materialism and anxiety Scriptures referenced: - Matthew 6:25-34 - Matthew 19:16-22

81. A Conversation About Summer Bucket Lists May 29, 2023

In this week's conversation, Somer and Michelle discuss what's on their summer bucket lists including:

water Fridays + city Saturdays
a new learning rhythm that focuses on retention
exercising for FUN

Here are Michelle's 3 fiction book recommendations:

The Lion, the Witch + the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis
The Last Thing He Told Me by Laura Dave
The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah

Ready to join the SWHW Summer Book Club? Make a tax-deductible donation here (we suggest a minimum of $15 but please give as you feel led!) We'll follow up with next steps via email! [If you don't have the book yet, get yours here.]
Want a mentor through She Works His Way this summer? Join the network here.

80. A Conversation About Fighting Nice May 22, 2023

In this week's episode, Michelle welcomes her husband, James, into the conversation for a discussion on fighting nice. (So if you're married, grab your husband + listen together!) Some highlights of their convo are:

how conflict is one of God's tools to make you more like Jesus
the reality that avoiding conflict only delays conflict
considering both facts + feelings matters for conflict resolution

79. A Conversation About Lasts May 15, 2023

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle pick up where they left off last week, discussing the lasts we encounter in motherhood. Some highlights of the convo include: loving being a mom without idolizing motherhood/your kids prioritizing the Lord + others as we walk through lasts how lasts are another reminder that earth is just our temporary home

Scripture to study: - Psalm 16 - James 4:13-15

78. A Conversation About Firsts May 08, 2023

In this week's episode, Michelle and Somer get an early start on celebrating Mother's Day as they talk through navigating the firsts we encounter as moms, such as: • the semi hot-take that over-preparation steals more joy from the moment than it actually prepares you • how the unknown gives us the opportunity for deeper dependence on the Lord • the connection between firsts and God's faithfulness • Bonus: Introducing a new segment - I Disagree With...

- If you're not a mom and debating listening or not, here's our heart that we shared in our book:

"If you're a woman and a believer, changes are that whether you have biological children or not, you will someday take on (if you haven't already) a maternal role in someone else's life. Maybe a teenager from your church you're discipling, a niece or nephew, or a young woman at work who has a strained relationship with her own family. So when we talk about motherhood here, it is not to exclude women without children, but to acknowledge, first of all, one of the grearest areas of contention in a working woman's life -- being a mom who works -- and second, to speak to our womanhood in a way much of culture is afraid to, as if it is offensive or degrading that a woman is seen as a nurturing or mothering individual. We will not participate in that narrative here because much of what the world sees as a weakness, we see as a God-given strength, as do the people in your life who depend on you for love and nurturing. But the bottom line is: when you read our stories of parenting, I pray that whether you are a mother in the traditional sense or in the spiritual sense, these stories will encourage and connect with you."

- Want to keep reading? Get your copy of the SWHW book here. (https://amzn.to/3noeoad)

77. A Conversation About The Different Ways We Worship May 01, 2023

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle talk about the different ways we worship, including:

how to prevent going simply through the motions of worship
the practice of making God bigger than brokenness
the benefits of both corporate and personal worship

Keep It/Toss It Links: Electric Water Kettle (Michelle's) Electric Water Kettle (Somer's) In the Lord, I Take Refuge by Dane Ortland

76. A Conversation About Distraction Apr 24, 2023

This week, Michelle + Somer tackle distraction:

why distraction can be dangerous (both practically + spiritually)
how to identify what is distracting you
when good things become distractions
what Matthew 6:33, Hebrews 12:1-2, Colossians 3:2 and Revelation 2:4-5 remind us about living distracted

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75. A Conversation About Asking For Help Apr 17, 2023

In this week's conversation, Somer and Michelle discuss:

why it's hard to ask for help (and why that's no excuse)
practical tips on asking for help from your husband + kids
when to ask for help (hint: before you need it)
the only time it's NOT okay to ask for help

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74. A Conversation About Understanding The Bible Apr 10, 2023

In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer discuss understanding the Bible,

how the Holy Spirit is the best Bible teacher
the dynamics of studying God's Word alongside other believers
incorporating resources in studying God's Word without relying on them completely

One additional note: Michelle shares the story of how she ended up having "the talk" with her oldest son as he was reading through Genesis. In case you listen with small kids around, wanted to give you a heads up! Recommended Resources: ESV Study Bible Christian Beliefs: 20 Basics Every Christian Should KnowVisual Theology: Seeing and Understanding the Truth about GodA Visual Theology Guide to the Bible: Seeing and Knowing God's WordConversational Commentary on ActsConversational Commentary on Ecclesiastes Keep It/Toss It Links: EcoKind dog chews that actually last $12 Target Lamp

73. A Conversation About The Different Categories Of Capacities Apr 03, 2023

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle have a candid conversation about capacity, including:

how our capacities in different categories are unique (and that's a good thing!)
asking the Lord to increase your capacity
breaking down the differences between mental capacity, physical capacity + emotional capacity

Keep It/Toss It Links: Michelle's New Favorite Pants (Use code FRIEND-WP3KKL7 to save $15 on your order!)Elta MD Tinted Moisturizer with Sunscreen

72. A Conversation about A Few Women in the Bible Mar 27, 2023

This week (as Women's History month wraps up), Michelle & Somer have a conversation about:

seeing others through the lens of compassion instead of judgment
how one mother's faith + courage impacted an entire nation
inviting someone into your friend circle before you attempt to correct their theology
doing good quietly

Read these women's stories:

woman at the well - John 4
Moses' mom + sister - Exodus 2
Priscilla - Acts 18
generous widow - Luke 21:1-4/Mark 12:41-44

Keep It/Toss It Links:

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71. A Conversation about Today Mar 20, 2023

This week, Somer and Michelle have a conversation about:

warning signs you're living stuck in the past
the difference between remembering what God has done vs. what you have done
when worry gets dressed up like productivity and control gets masked as planning 😳
the freedom that comes when you own today + are confident God owns tomorrow
hope for the future = hope for heaven

P.S. This week’s episode was recorded while Michelle was experiencing some internet issues (that’s what you get for living on a mountain) so please excuse the unusually abrupt ending. Sometimes technology isn’t in our corner, but we hope you still love the conversation!

70. A Conversation About Closed Doors Mar 13, 2023

In this week's conversation, Michelle and Somer discuss:

when God closes doors we don't understand
God's goodness in closed doors
moving past overwhelm when too many doors are open
when God closes the door for you so you can hold the door for someone else

Want to dig deep into Bible study and be equipped to be doers of the Word? As we shared in this episode, we are studying Philippians right now, and it's not too late for you to join us! Join here: http://sheworkshisway.com/network.

69. A Conversation about our Unpopular Opinions Mar 06, 2023

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle have a conversation about their unpopular opinions (on a range of silly to serious) including:

food pairings and seltzer water
earning the right to speak truth into someone
the negative effect of trying to increase your influence/audience
high-pressure female friendships
the tension between willingness to do anything while unable to do everything
books vs. movies
....and a few more!

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68. A Conversation about Failure Feb 27, 2023

In this episode, Michelle and Somer have a conversation about:

their husbands testimonies that are shockingly similar)
the difference between how the world defines failure and how God defines failure
what gets revealed when we're devastated by worldly failures
the pitfall of people pleasing

Scripture mentioned:

Luke 10:5
John 14:1-21

Links mentioned:

Early bird rate ends February 28 - get your Narrow 2023 ticket!
Partner with us as a SWHW donor
Join the SWHW Network
A Year of Slowing Down by Alan Fadling

67. A Conversation about Resentment Feb 20, 2023

In this episode, Somer and Michelle have a conversation about:

- how resentment is the cheapest form of anger (yikes but true) - the difference between righteous anger and resentment - what God's Word says about resentment - the reality of bitterness - truth we can cling to in the midst of injustice

Scripture mentioned:

- Matthew 5:38-48 - Ruth 1

Links mentioned:

Join the SWHW Network Join us for Annapolis Narrow on April 21-22

Donate to the SWHW ministry (to make conversations like this one possible!)

66. A Conversation about Husband and Wife Stuff Feb 13, 2023

In this episode, Somer and Michelle have a conversation about: - how growing in the Lord is the best way to grow in your marriage - how the issue of expectations evolve the longer you're married - prioritizing making adulthood/marriage look appealing to our kids - the importance of having fun with your spouse - the most importance marriage reminder they've received Scripture mentioned: - Ecclesiastes 9:9 - Genesis 2:18 Links mentioned: Adopt a Square to donate to She Works His Way. Get your early bird ticket to Narrow. Your Marriage Needs Work - an article Michelle wrote for The Gospel Coalition The blanket Michelle bought Somer with foot pockets

65: A Conversation About Leadership Feb 06, 2023

In this episode, Michelle and Somer have a conversation about: - two titles that help us lead well (and two that do not) - what leadership is not - how being led > leading others - how to actually know if you're a leader - how to grow as a leader Scripture mentioned: - Matthew 23:1-12 Links mentioned: Join the SWHW Network. Narrow 2023 She Works His Way: A Practical Guide for Doing What Matters Most in a Get Things Done World Conversational Commentary on Acts: Gospel Mission Then and Now Conversational Commentary on Ecclesiastes: Wisdom to Live for Heaven While on Earth

64. A Conversation About Finding the Right Church Jan 30, 2023

In this episode, we're talking about finding the right church for you to call home. We believe the local church is God's Plan A for believers living in community. So when you're looking for a church home, what matters most? Listen as Somer and Michelle discuss what to look for and what you can do while you look.

Have you ever been reading the Bible and thought, "I wish I could have a conversation right now about what I'm thinking as I read, or what God is teaching me", then let us introduce you to the Conversational Commentary. Check out the collection here!

Looking to have more conversations like these with a community of women who instantly get you? Join the SWHW Network here!

63. A Conversation About Using Your Gifts In the Church Jan 23, 2023

In this episode, Michelle and Somer discuss how spiritual gifts are different than skills. They also also dig into how God calls us to use the gifts He has given us. God has given each of us a gift. -- let's talk about it so we can make sure we're using what He offers us.

Grab your SWHW Bible Journal here!

Join the SWHW Network for just $3 in January!

62. A Conversation About Traditions in the Church Jan 16, 2023

In this episode we’re chatting about tradition in the church. Listen in as Michelle and Somer discuss both the good… and a bit of the not so good on the matter. The goal of this episode? That we begin to consider what honors God most when we’re doing what we’ve always done.

Looking for a church? Here are some of our favirote places to look:

9 Marks Church Search

The Gospel Coalition Church Search

Looking for the deep community Michelle spoke about? Join the Network here to become a part of a community of women coming alongside each other to intentionally grow toward the "more that matters" through trainings, Bible studies, brainstorming, connections with professionals in your field and other women in your same season. We can't wait to see you there!

61. A Conversation About the Middle Jan 09, 2023

In this episode, Michelle and Somer discuss the complicated issue of nuance as a devoted follower of Christ. In a culture that prefers to constantly swing to the extremes, how does a believer avoid them? And more importantly, is the best place to honor God in the middle? Get ready folks, we're getting into all that messiness. ALSO! New year new segment! Listen in as Michelle and Somer share what they love and what they definitely don't love in their first ever, Keep It/Toss It!

Happy New Year! Don't forget to grab your SWHW Bible Journal HERE!

Interested in finding out more about the Network? Click HERE!

60. A Conversation About Letting Go of The Dream Jan 02, 2023

We are so excited to share this very special episode with you. It was one that has only been released inside of our SWHW Network until now! Michelle gets really REAL and opens the door for you to be able to do the same. She and Somer can't wait to be back with you next week! In the meantime, we pray this one encourages you as much as it did us.

After you listen you may just want to join the Network so you never miss a session like this again. We wouldn't blame you. If that's the case, you can join here now!

Have questions? Our inboxes are always open! Michelle@SheWorksHisWay.com or Somer@SheWorksHisWay.com

59. A Conversation About Unplugging Dec 19, 2022

Ever tried to regulate your breathing walking up a hill so no one around would know that internally you're having a cardiac episode trying to get to the top of the hill? End of the year = top of the hill A few years ago, we noticed in this dead sprint to show up everywhere, engage everyone and do everything meant we couldn't take a deep breath. So, we gave ourselves permission to stop. Permission to breathe. And this episode is about how we do that, why we do that, and what we've learned in the quiet of taking the last two weeks of the year of.

58. A Conversation About Our Favorite Things Dec 12, 2022

In this episode Michelle and Somer share their favorite things of 2022. They cover everything from skin care, to running shoes, to the best financial resources. If you haven't finished your Christmas shopping, we've got you covered. And if someone is asking for your list, feel free to just forward ours. For the entire list of direct links + a few discount codes for you to use when you shop, head here! SWHW Network members, no need to click above, you'll get the full list emailed directly to you so keep an eye on your inbox! Get of copy of our newly released Acts Conversational Commentary!

57. A Conversation About Humility (Part 2) Dec 05, 2022

In this special episode Somer's husband, Kent, joins her to continue last week's conversation on humility. But this week they're talking specifically about raising humble kids. And while we have you... if you listen and love the SWHW podcast will you take a quick sec to rate us and maybe even write a review? We'd be so grateful. Enjoy the show! Less than 4 weeks until the New Year! Let us help you go into 2023 feeling on top of things. Grab your 3 Step Planner HERE!

56. A Conversation About Humility Nov 28, 2022

In todays episode, we talk about humility — more specifically, why humility can be a hard concept to grasp for humans. But don’t worry, there’s plenty of encouragement too. Turns out, humility happens when we are *actual* image bearers of our Creator… not when we necessarily strive for it. Does that make the topic feel a little less daunting? It did to us too. Listen in! Find us on social! Interested in finding out more about the Network? Click here! We just launched our 2023 3 Step Planner! We’re a month away from 2023, let us help you get ready for your New Year!

55. A Conversation about Our Holiday Do's and Don'ts (Part 2) Nov 21, 2022

It's here! Part 2 of Somer and Michelle's Holiday DO's and DONT'S! We hope this episode encourages you as you head into this Holiday season! Grab your comfy blanket and a hot tea/coffee and join us for today's conversation. Looking for a Holiday gift? Grab a copy or two of the SWHW Book here! Interested in having more conversations just like the ones we have on the podcast? Join the SWHW Network today.

54. A Conversation about Our Holiday Do's and Don'ts Nov 14, 2022

This is a fun one! Join us for part 1 of Somer and Michelle's Holiday DO's and DONT'S! They laugh a lot, get really honest, and most importantly try to take the unnecessary pressure that the holidays can bring off of your shoulders. Grab a hot chocolate or a peppermint mocha and hangout for a bit. Interested in having more conversations like the ones we have on the podcast? Join the SWHW Network today. Looking for a weekly Bible Study or Discipleship Training? The SWHW Discipleship team meets virtually once a week to study God's Word together. Find out more here.

53. A Conversation About What We Care About Nov 07, 2022

Join us for today's episode where we engage in a conversation about what it means to "Spiral Up". This week's episode is from Somer's session at Annapolis Narrow in April of 2022.

Want to connect with us in person? Learn more about Narrow here!

Interested in becoming a part of our Network? Check out all the perks here!

52. Workshop Q&A Invite! Oct 31, 2022

Join us this Wednesday, November 2nd, at 1pm for our Q&A workshop!

Not a Network member but interested in the perks that come with it? Find out more here!

51. A Conversation about the Good Kind of Filters Oct 24, 2022

This week’s episode is a very special episode that was recorded at the Narrow conference in Annapolis, Maryland last April.

Michelle and Somer breakdown what we call the She Works His Way filter both biblically and practically! And we promise THIS filter is going to do a lot more than just cover up your wrinkles or whiten your teeth. (Although, to be clear, we’re not anti white-teeth filters.) Listen in and you’ll see!

What's Narrow?

Interested in finding out more about our Network? Click here!

50. A Conversation for Pastor's Wives Oct 17, 2022

Join us as Somer and Michelle talk about the role of pastor's wives. Growing up as pastor's daughters and eventually marrying pastors, Somer and Michelle have learned a lot about this role and are here to encourage the women in it and also encourage you to pray for your pastor's wives!

Want to reach out?

Email Somer: somer@sheworkshisway.com

Email Michelle: michelle@sheworkshisway.com

Join us in Asheville for Narrow 2022! Learn more here!

49. A Conversation About What Gospel Collaboration Looks Like Oct 10, 2022

Join Somer and Michelle as they talk about the importance of Gospel collaboration and why we need it!

Want to become part of our Network?

Interested in joining us for Narrow this month?

48. A Conversation About Personality Oct 03, 2022

In this special Q&A conversation, Michelle and Somer answer: How much should I factor in my personality vs when does catering to my personality become a problem? In a world that sends so many mixed signals regarding how much we should either study + embrace or ignore + disregard who we are, this conversation is both nuanced and eye opening. Links mentioned: Join the network or become a $7 supporter so you can join us for the hour long live Q&A this month!

47. A Conversation About Jealousy Sep 26, 2022

In today’s episode Michelle and Somer have a conversation about jealousy, which ended up being a great follow up to last weeks conversation about wanting more. (You’ll want to go listen to it if you haven’t yet!) Jealousy is an ugly word and an even uglier feeling to feel. Listen in as they get really honest, and challenge you to do the same.

46. A Conversation About Wanting More... In A Good Way Sep 19, 2022

The more that you're craving... what if we told you God put it there to draw you back to Him? Listen to Michelle and Somer's conversation about the difference the gospel makes in how we define ambition and be reminded that God is always the more we crave. Resources Mentioned: Conversational Commentary on Ecclesiastes by Michelle Myers How to Ruin Your Life by Eric Geiger

45. A Conversation about Doing Laundry Sep 12, 2022

Okay, so this conversation is really about a lot more -- but is there a better analogy for the monotonous and mundane parts of our lives than laundry?! We didn't think so either. Listen in as Somer and Michelle share some reminders we need so we won't subscribe to the "this too shall pass" mindset in certain tasks or seasons.

44. Workshop Q+A Invite + Explaining the New Changes! Sep 05, 2022

Listen in for a preview of Wednesday's LIVE Q+A [September 6th at 1pm EST] with Somer + Michelle. We SO look forward to our monthly opportunity to talk with you face-to-face in the Zoom room - hope to see you there! No question or topic is off limits.

For an invite to the Q+A, join here.

You can also submit your questions to hello@sheworkshisway.com.

43. A Conversation About Burnout Aug 29, 2022

Burnout. Whether you've been there before or you're there now, this one is for you. Somer and Michelle get to the root of burnout, chat about some warning signs that lead to burnout, get practical in how to heal after burnout -- and our personal favorite -- bust the myth that burnout is noble. You're invited to this week's AfterParty! Join Somer, Michelle and other SWHW women on Zoom to keep the conversation going in small group discussions. Join here! Resource Mentioned: Zeal Without Burnout by Christopher Ash

42. A Conversation About Discipleship, Part 2 Aug 22, 2022

As promised last week, this episode wraps up our two-part conversation on discipleship. (Go back and listen to Part 1 if you missed it!) In this convo, Somer and Michelle dive more into the how of discipleship, sticking with a Biblical foundation but also giving you as much freedom in your obedience as possible. Here are a few of the resources we mentioned: Follow @phyliciamasonheimer on Instagram - we love ya, Phy! Following Jesus in Threes by Soo-Inn Tan BIG changes coming to the podcast beginning next week with new ways for you to join in the conversation - can't wait to tell you more! If you aren't already getting our emails and want to know about the changes first, add yourself to our mailing list here.

41. A Conversation About Discipleship, Part 1 Aug 15, 2022

Last week, we took a took a poll on Instagram, asking if you were in a discipleship group. 59% of you responded, "No -- but I need one!" So in this two-part mini-series, Somer + Michelle are talking all things discipleship. In this episode, we focus on why discipleship matters and what you actually need to get started. Next week, we'll cover the how of discipleship -- without creating an unnecessary checklist. If you're looking for a resource for discipleship, that's exactly why we're creating the Conversational Commentary series. Get our first volume on the book of Ecclesiastes here.

40. Encouragement I Didn't Expect in Ecclesiastes Aug 08, 2022

Ecclesiastes typically gets a bad rap for being pessimistic, gloomy and cynical -- but it really isn't! In these 12 chapters, Solomon basically takes the filter off the world, exposing it and all it offers compared to God and what He freely gives us. It's refreshingly honest -- like the three pieces of encouragement (straight from Ecclesiastes!) Michelle + Somer chat through in this episode. Want to study Ecclesiastes with us? Grab your copy of Conversational Commentary on Ecclesiastes: Wisdom to Live for Heaven While on Earth on Amazon - available now!

39. A Life Designed for Ministry Aug 01, 2022

It's workshop week at SWHW!! Want to hear what we'll be talking about in our live workshop? (And also some really exciting news about what's coming to the SWHW Podcast + Network next month?!) Listen in!

Join the Network here!

Join our email list here!

38. Obedience When It Doesn't Make Sense, Part 2 Jul 25, 2022

In part 2 of Obedience When It Doesn't Make Sense, Somer talks to Aimee Pasquariello, one of her dear friends with a pretty inspiring story about finding God and diving head first in to the calling He has for us. Even when it doesn't make sense.

37. Obedience When It Doesn't Make Sense, Part 1 Jul 18, 2022

In this episode, Michelle shares how she went from pharmaceutical rep to seminary to network marketing to She Works His Way. Unconventional? Yes. Ordained by God? Also yes. Links mentioned in this episode: The Look that Kills: An Anorexic's Addiction to Control by Michelle Myers Join the SWHW Network

36. Chapter 1 Audio Book Preview! Jul 11, 2022

In October 2021, we had the opportunity to put the mission of She Works His Way in book form -- and now, it's available as an audio book! This episode gives you a sneak peek by letting you listen to all of Chapter 1. Buy She Works His Way on Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/She-Works-His-Way-Audiobook/B09PSNCYTZ - (or purchase anywhere you usually listen to books!) For a hard copy, head to sheworkshisway.com/book.

35. Learning to Be Content Jul 04, 2022

In Philippians 4:11, Paul writes, "I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances." Contentment is not natural; it is learned. So how do we learn to be content? What lies hold us back from lasting contentment? Is it possible to silence circumstantial contentment once and for all? That's what Michelle will be covering in the network's July workshop, so listen in as she shares a little bit about what God has been stirring in her heart. Joining the SWHW network gets you access to additional practical discipleship tools -- like this workshop -- to grow in your love for Jesus. Your support helps us get this important message into the hands of as many women as possible. You can also donate to support our ministry at http://sheworksHisway.com/donate.

34. Did God Actually Say...? with Veronica Hoddenbagh Jun 27, 2022

Genesis 1-2 describe the beautiful world God created. Everything didn't just seem perfect; it was perfect. But in Genesis 3, everything changed when the serpent deceived Adam and Eve, and sin entered the world. Even though this may be a familiar story to you, we promise as she walks through this text, Veronica will speak truth over your heart that will usher in the kind of freedom only God can bring. Joining the SWHW network gets you access to additional practical discipleship tools to grow in your love for Jesus. Your support helps us get this important message into the hands of as many women as possible. You can also donate to support our ministry at http://sheworksHisway.com/donate. You can connect with Veronica further on Instagram at @veronicahoddenbagh or at https://veronicahoddenbagh.com. Want to join us for our next Narrow conference? Head here to get your ticket for Narrow Asheville on October 21-22, 2022.

33. Marriage: A Gift and Work with James + Michelle Jun 20, 2022

Michelle's study in Ecclesiastes led to a great conversation with her husband, James, so we wanted to invite you + your spouse in! Open your Bible to Ecclesiastes 9 and listen for some encouragement and a little marriage Q+A time too. Joining the SWHW network gets you access to additional practical discipleship tools to grow in your love for Jesus. Your support helps us get this important message into the hands of as many women as possible. You can also donate to support our ministry at http://sheworksHisway.com/donate.

32. Starving the Fairytale with Emily Copeland Jun 13, 2022

Emily Copeland, one of the original four friends that unknowingly started the SWHW ministry during weekly meetings at 5am on Google Hangout, gets real about the dead-end journey of self-discovery that our world makes it all too easy to get caught up in. In this episode, Michelle and Emily talk all about the message for women in her new book, Starving the Fairytale: A New Model for Self-Discovery. After you listen, don't forget to head to the network group and share your top takeaway from the episode to enter to win a copy for yourself! Joining the SWHW network gets you access to additional practical discipleship tools to grow in your love for Jesus. Your support helps us get this important message into the hands of as many women as possible. You can also donate to support our ministry at http://sheworksHisway.com/donate. Get your copy of Starving the Fairytale here. You can also connect with her further on Instagram at @em.copeland.

BONUS EPISODE: Productivity Tips for a peaceful summer! Jun 10, 2022

In this very special BONUS episode, Somer talks about one of her favorite things... how to have a full calendar and not get stressed by it. She also gets extremely transparent about why there's no reason she should be considered a productivity expert, but also why that makes her the gal for this job. You'll hear super practical tips in this episode that we think will make this summer your best yet. Whether you're a hot mess with your to-do list or the schedule stickler in your household, we think you'll be happy you listened.

31. Rest, Reset, Run with Caren Fehr Jun 07, 2022

Get excited! If you couldn't make it to Annapolis Narrow back in April, we're bringing a piece of Narrow to you -- right here on the podcast. This episode contains the live audio from a session with Caren Fehr - doctor's wife, mom of a precious little boy, former licensed social worker and current wellness coach. With beautiful transparency, Caren shared about her unexpected, but super sweet season God has had in recently. We know her story of Rest, Reset, Run will encourage you! Want a prayer partner to pray with like Caren's session ended? We've got one waiting for you inside the SWHW network. Join here to get access to practical discipleship tools to grow in your love for Jesus. Your support of joining the network helps us get tools like this podcast into the hands of as many women as possible. You're invited! Get your ticket to the next Narrow conference in Asheville, NC on October 21-22, 2022. You can connect with Caren further on Instagram at @carenscorner.

30. Time for an Information Fast? May 30, 2022

On this episode Somer’s sharing the title of our Network June workshop and a little bit about why this topic needs our attention! Here’s what we’ll tell you, if you feel like you have all the answers but none of the peace, you need to listen in.

Joining the SWHW network gets you access to additional practical discipleship tools to grow in your love for Jesus. Your support helps us get this important message into the hands of as many women as possible - thank you!

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