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#100 How to Find Your Kink Apr 02, 2019

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What is kink and how do I know if I'm kinky? How do I start to explore my kink, and how do I talk about it with my partner?

We also answer a sex question: I'm a healthy 42 year old man, married to my beautiful queen, and I have a hard time getting/keeping an erection. Please help.

About our guest: Mike Rozycki has been active in his local kink communities since 2005. In 2018, he and his business partner started JoyMill, a company dedicated to customized kink gear. You can sign up for their mailing list and try their beta experience at www.joymill.com. Be sure to sign up for the mailing list to get first access to discounts, new products, etc.

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#99 The Buried Pleasure of the Female Body - with Sheri Winston Mar 26, 2019

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In this episode we dive deep into female sexual arousal with award-winning author, Wholistic Sexuality teacher and medical professional, Sheri Winston. Why have women’s body parts gone missing in history? How does female ejaculation happen on a cellular level? What are some tips for female-bodied folks who want to experience more orgasmic abundance? What about partners who want to up their pleasure skills?

We also answer part 2 to last week's sex question about a cis-man with no/very low libido.

About Sheri: Sheri Winston is a celebrated sexuality teacher, award-winning author and medical professional. Sheri’s 2010 book, Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure (also available on audible) won the 2010 Book of the Year award from AASECT. Sheri’s 2014 book, the visionary yet practical Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice, offers a detailed road map to supercharging your erotic life and becoming sexually whole and empowered. With its wealth of ideas, practices and games, readers are able to access extraordinary pleasure, overcome challenges and learn to play masterfully with their inner ‘sexcraft’ toolkit. Sheri’s Wholistic Sexuality™ curriculum has over 50 classes covering subjects such as orgasmic abundance for men and women, integral genital anatomy, expanded arousal, sex and relationship skills, and holistic sexual and women’s reproductive health. Learn more at intimateartscenter.com

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#98 The Science of Sexual Fantasy - with Dr. Justin Lehmiller Mar 19, 2019

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What are the most common fantasies people have? Where do they come from? Why do we have them? And how do I talk to my partner about my fantasies? How can we bring fantasy into real life?

Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher and scholar who has published more than 40 pieces of academic writing to date, including a textbook entitled The Psychology of Human Sexuality that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller has run the popular blog Sex and Psychology since 2011 and he has published articles in numerous media outlets, including Playboy, USA Today, VICE, Politico, and New York Magazine. To learn more visit sexandpsychology.com

We also answer a sex question: I’m a straight man engaged to a beautiful woman, but I never crave sex.

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#97 Role-Play and How to be Dominant in the Bedroom - with Midori Mar 12, 2019

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What do I do if my partner asks me to do role-play and I'm uncomfortable with being in the spotlight? How does one learn how to do authentic yet sexy role-play? And what about dominance? Can I learn how to tap into my most confident, dominant self (even when I don't feel it in everyday life)?

Join us for this playful yet informative episode with world renown sex educator, Midori. We talk about role-play, dominance, outing the awkward, confidence, making negotiation sexy, and more!

We also answer a sex question: I feel like I'm the one who is always initiating sex. How do I get my partner to initiate more often?

About Midori: Dan Savage calls Midori “The Supernova of Kink!” She is an artistic visionary who has touched lives across the globe with her expertise in sexuality, personal fulfillment, and kinky adventures. Using her “head-heart-hands” methodology she facilitates tackling challenging topics and creating space where people are allowed individual self-exploration. Her passion is fully on display in her transformative small group intensives, including Rope Dojo ®, ForteFemme: Women’s Dominance Weekend Intensive, and The Wanted Man intensive with Marcia Baczynski. For more information on her upcoming classes and events, please visit: http://www.FHP-Inc.com/classes

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#96 Sex, Relationships and Chronic Illness (and Pain) - with Dr. Lee Phillips Mar 05, 2019

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In this episode we chat with Dr. Lee Phillips about chronic illness and chronic pain and how they affect sex and relationships. Dr. Phillips shares tools such as sensate focus, as well as ways partners can support their loved ones with chronic illness.

We also answer a sex question: Great sex during an affair...should I leave my husband?

About our guest: Dr. Melvin L. Phillips, Jr., is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with a private practice in Washington, DC where he treats chronic illness and sexual dysfunction, as well as the author of the upcoming book Sex and Love When You Are Sick, due to release in late 2019. He is a speaker and has lectured on topics including preventative services, anxiety and stress management, caregiving stress, depression in the elderly, mindfulness and cognitive strategies for chronic pain, ethical decision making, and the assessment of mental disorders. To learn more visit www.drleephillips.com

#95 Come As You Are Because YES You Are Normal Feb 26, 2019

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We are SO excited about this episode. Emily Nagoski AKA one of our idols and author of the groundbreaking book Come As You Are joins us to talk all about female sexuality. We talk vulvas, clits, g-spots, orgasm, and all about how WE ARE ALL "normal”!

We also answer a sex question from a female-identified listener: Are the homosexual thoughts just in my head or should I leave my heterosexual relationship?

About Emily: Emily Nagoski, Ph.D is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life and The Come As You Are Workbook, and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout: the secret to unlocking the stress cycle. She began her work as a sex educator at the University of Delaware, where volunteered as a peer sex educator while studying psychology with minors in cognitive science and philosophy. She went on to earn a M.S. in Counseling and a Ph.D. in Health Behavior, both from Indiana University, with clinical and research training at the Kinsey Institute. Now she combines sex education and stress education to teach women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies.

#94 The Invisible Orientation - A Brief Chat on Asexuality Feb 19, 2019

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We have received a number of emails about asexuality, so we wanted to take a moment to speak on what is often considered “the invisible orientation”. In this episode we talk about the asexual spectrum, including aromatic and demisexuality. We answer a few questions including whether or not asexuality is real (it MOST CERTAINLY is), the difference between asexuality and low sexual desire, and more. Please note that we are not experts in this department, and we would LOVE to host someone who is, so please send them our way!

#93 Great Sex, Worthiness & Quality vs. Quantity - with Amy's Partner Feb 12, 2019

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Amy's partner joins us on this week's episode as we discuss everything from how to have great sex after 5+ years, our opinion on quality vs. quantity (sex), working with worthiness issues, and communication how-to's. Enjoy!

Special Announcement: Join the Shameless Sex Revolution! Feb 09, 2019

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Special announcement about our myth and shame busting campaign on Instagram!

We are running a V-day contest + female sexuality myth and shame busting campaign - inspired by Wednesday Martin 's groundbreaking book UNTRUE: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Adultery is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free. Are you ready to join the Shameless Sex Revolution? Prizes include complete access to our online Wild Woman Sex workshop, a copy of Untrue by Wednesday Martin, and a GRAND PRIZE of all of the above + a Rabbit Vibrator + full access to OMGyes + bottle of Uberlube + a Solo by Hot Octopus + a 12 Sexy Days kit by Bijoux Indiscrets - a total value of over $1000! How to enter: 1. Take a selfie like the one above, 2. Either post it on your own Instagram profile with a caption similar to April's vulnerable share at the end of this post (describing this part of you, what it teaches/inspires in you, etc) + tag @shamelesssex in the post, OR send it to us and we will post it on our Instagram while keeping your name/info completely anonymous (we promise!), 3. You will be entered into the raffle! Note: To keep it uniform, please write in black sharpie on white letterhead paper. Ideas for what to post should it truly speak to you (but feel free to create your own): I’d rather be in the workplace than at home with the baby I love (and am attracted to) my (husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/partner) but I don’t (crave/desire) sex with them I had an affair I'm married/in a committed relationship and I fantasize about other men/women I have a high libido I'm in a relationship (with a man/woman/insert other here) and I also love (desire/crave) sex with women (other men/people) I choose non-monogamy...and I love it (or Monogamy is not for me) I like having sex outside of my marriage/partnership Feeling desired by other (men/women/people) > The same arousing touch from my (husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/partner) I am a woman and I'm not interested in marriage and/or having children Join us as we break down the myths and out the diversity of female sexuality!

#92 Sex and Disabilities Jan 20, 2019

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It's myth-busting time! Most folks with disabilities are also sexual beings with arousal and desire, and yet are often treated as asexual and/or invisible in society. Join us as we chat with Lindsey, a body-worker who shares her personal journey with sex and disabilities with lovers, as well as in a professional setting. Plus plenty of info on erectile issues, playing with soft cocks, and more!

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