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#141 Healing Sexual Trauma Through Pleasure - with Melissa Fritchle, LMFT Jan 14, 2020

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How does the body internalize sexual trauma and how can we heal it through pleasure? How does this apply sexual pain? And what about kink as a means for working with trauma?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.

About our guest: Melissa Fritchle, LMFT is a Holistic Sex Therapist & award-winning Sex Educator with a private practice in Santa Cruz, CA. She is also a Certified Mindfulness Meditation teacher and is working on a second book, The Body as Guru. She is the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook and writes the pleasure activism blog, Transformational Pleasure. Founder & Director of Trauma-Informed Sex Positive Therapy Training, she promotes inclusive sexual health around the world. To learn more visit www.mf-therapy.com

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#140 The Soft Cock Debate with Sluts and Scholars Jan 07, 2020

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In this episode we talk all about soft cocks, dry pussies, and our stance on hardness and wetness.

We also answer a sex question about erotic text messaging and dirty talk.

Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 22.

About our guests: Nicoletta is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexologist and Simone is an actor-turned-law-student who really likes to talk about sex stuff. Together, they chat with folks from across sexuality, kink, and professional spectrums about desire, pleasure, shame, stigma and (of course) bodily functions on the Sluts and Scholars Podcast. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. Available on just about all of the podcast apps

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#139 Knot Love: Rope Play For Hot Sex and Deep Connection Dec 31, 2019

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Tune in as we learn all about Knot Love with Edward Willey. Knot Love isn’t just about rope tying techniques. It’s about learning how to stay deeply connected to your partner, read their desires and needs, and build a scene together that cultivates trust, passion, and connection. It’s also about learning how to cultivate and embody relaxation, confidence, and awareness inside yourself.

We also answer a sex question about sex and penis size after bladder surgery.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 27.

About our guest: Edward Willey has been teaching erotic rope play since 2014 and has loved knots since he was a Boy Scout. He combines his passion for rope with his long-time practice of Aikido and Sheng Zhen. His experience with these two arts of unconditional love provides a foundation for teaching how to develop open-hearted connection and awareness along with technical rope tying skills. He believes that in addition to the commonly used Japanese terms shibari (“to tie”) & kinbaku (“to bind tightly”), the word musubi is important in rope play. Musubi means to unite or bind together. Learning to connect with rope in this way can bring a new level of joy, intimacy, and understanding to your relationship by tying your hearts together with love.

He is available for private coaching sessions to cultivate love and intimacy using rope at knot-love.com. Sign up for his mailing list for a free 18-minute video showcasing his unique approach: https://mailchi.mp/fd2b6b5f018d/whyknotlove.

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#138 Give Me Your Money: Financial Domination - with Mistress Marley Dec 24, 2019

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What is like being a Professional Dominatrix? What is Financial Domination, and why might someone enjoy it? How does this compare to being a Lifestyle Dom?

We also answer a sex question: How do I suggest we start start using condoms when we've already had unprotected sex?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 30.

About our guest: MISTRESS MARLEY is a Pro Domme, a Sex Educator and an Adult Event Organizer. Hailing from the South, she made her way to New York City where she began to dabble in the BDSM industry. With an undergraduate and graduate degree in Human Sciences, she naturally loves to dive into the mind, so why not mix that with kink? When she’s not dominating loyal servants, she spends her time educating women on how to be the domme they've always wanted to be through her organization "Black Domme Sorority". To learn more visit thechocolatedomme.com

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#137 Dating, Flirting and How to Talk to Girls (AKA Women) - with Tripp Kramer Dec 17, 2019

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The meat of this episode is about how shy men can learn to flirt, attract and date women. It's a bit different for us as we aren't fans of big generalizations or hetero-normative language, but we decided to switch it up as our guest truly does have some great tips to offer.

The intro of this episode is a long one as we talk about relationships as well as the exciting (and sometimes terrifying) process of falling in love. We also answer a sex question: Is deleting cheating?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 33.

About our guest: Tripp Kramer is an international dating coach for men. He created his "TED system" to help shy men confidently attract the women they desire. In his earlier years he was a shy guy who figured out through trial and error how to get better and meeting, dating and finding the right type of woman for you. He currently has a popular podcast on iTunes called "How To Talk To Girls" and has a book called Magnetic which teaches all his secrets on dating and attraction. To learn more visit https://trippadvice.com

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#136 Cougars and Why You Should Date a Mama's Boy - with Sex Talk with My Mom Podcast Dec 10, 2019

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In this episode we sit down with fellow podcasters and Pleasure Podcast Network friends Cam and Karen Lee of the Sex talk With My Mom podcast. We chat all about what it means to be a cougar, how to talk to your kids AND parents about sex, and why you should date a mama’s boy,

We also answer a sex question: I get turned on knowing my wife thinks I’m small down there. Is this normal?

About our guests: Sex Talk With My Mom offers sex and relationship advice while exploring the dynamic between a sexually-liberated, cougar mom and her comedian son. They feature guests ranging from legendary porn star Nina Hartley to their previous sexual partners. They have "the talk" every Monday and Thursday to make you laugh and open the conversation around sex. Esquire ranked them at the top of their list of "Best Sex Podcasts" and they have been featured on Megyn Kelly TODAY and Comedy Central's Tosh.O. To learn more visit sextalkwithmymom.com

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#135 Our Favorite Sex Toys Dec 02, 2019

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In this episode we share our top 10 favorite sex toys for this holiday season.

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Bonus Episode: Drag and Escorting With Fiona St. James Nov 29, 2019

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Born and raised in New York City, this Spanish and Italian Bronx born native entered the world of Female Impersonating and Escorting in the late 80’s.

His Drag persona Fiona St. James has experienced success in night clubs worldwide as well as being the 15th elected and still the only Latina Empress of The Imperial Court of New York. He has appeared in film on “To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything Julie Newmar”, “Stonewall”, “Ugly Betty”, and “Orange is the New Black”. His most memorable role was playing the resident prison tranny bitch on the hit HBO series “OZ” for five of the six seasons. His adventures in drag and escorting inspired him to write his memoirs where he shares stories about pushing boundaries and raising eyebrows sexually, professionally and personally with no shame for over 30 years!

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#134 Alice Little - The Most Successful Licensed Sex Worker in the US Nov 26, 2019

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Alice Little is the most successful licensed sex worker in the United States.

Alice has been voted the #1 Companion of the Year at the world famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch legal brothel in Carson City, Nevada. She is also a go-to intimacy and sexuality coach, an outspoken advocate for sex worker rights and vocal champion for an all-inclusive sex-positive society.

Alice has managed to use her notoriety as one of the highest-earning sex workers in the world to push forward causes that she believes in. She founded the political action group “Hookers for Healthcare” to fight for healthcare policies that benefit sex workers and other stigmatized groups. She also co-founded the Nevada Brothel Association, a committee that advocates for the rights of women working in Nevada’s bordellos. Alice has been featured in the Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, The Daily Beast, Refinery 29, BBC News, CNN, ABC Nightline, and on the Tim Ferris Show and Shane & Friends podcasts. To learn more visit thealicelittle.com

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.

We also answer a sex question about Tantra and sexual trauma.

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#133 How Core Desires Leads to Hot Sex - with Celeste and Danielle Nov 19, 2019

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What are our Core Desires, and how can they lead to hotter, more fulfilling sex? Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA, creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching teach us all about how to dive deeper into our erotic selves.

We also answer a sex question: How can I regain broken trust in my relationship?

Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip ahead to minute 14.

About our guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and the co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Somatica is a cutting-edge, experiential coaching approach that helps clients shift their neuropatterning so that they can find new, more fulfilling and expressed forms of relating emotionally and sexually. In their Somatica courses, Celeste & Danielle train professional Sex and Relationship Coaches and help individuals and couples transform their lives through personal growth in the arena of sex and relationships. They have co-authored three books - Making Love Real, Cockfidence, and Coming Together. To learn more visit somaticainstitute.com

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