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#168 The 7 Guidelines for Great Relationships - with Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb May 22, 2020

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Why is communication in relationships challenging for so many folks? And what are the 7 guidelines for great relationships?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12.

About our guest: Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb is a Sexuality Coach, Certified Sex Therapist and Clinical Sexologist with a PhD in clinical sexology. She is an author, teacher, public speaker and has been working with individuals and couples in the area of human sexuality for over 28 years. She has been the guest expert on numerous podcasts, teaches in a sex therapy certification program and speaks on areas of alternative sexuality.

She specializes in the alternative sexuality communities, such as open relationships (polyamory, swinging, designer relationships), GLBTQ, BDSM, ABDL, kink and fetishes. Her approach to therapy is helping people to understand, accept and appreciate their sexuality with all its unique flavors.

In 2017 she published her first book, No More Hiding: Permission to love your sexual self. It is an innovative guide to help people navigate the world of BDSM, kinks, fetishes and open relationships such as swinging and polyamory.

In 2019 she launched an online educational/coaching program to teach people how to be successful when transitioning to open relationships called: Monogamy to Open.

To find more information, contact her at her website: www.drrhoda.com, email at rhoda@drrhoda.com

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#167 She Comes First - with Ian Kerner, PhD May 19, 2020

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In this episode we interview author, therapist and overall amazing human Ian Kerner, PhD, all about the power of pleasing the pussy first. He tells us why he thinks this is important plus gives us some tips and tricks along the way.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 11.

About our guest: Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist), is a nationally-recognized sex counselor and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books, including, She Comes First, which has been translated into more than a dozen languages and is considered a classic in the genre. Ian is regularly quoted as an expert in various media, with recent features in The Atlantic, the Economist and NPR amongst others and he contributes regularly to CNN. He is the co-Director of the sex therapy program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy. Ian was born and raised in NYC, where he lives with his wife and two sons and their dogs, Oscar and Jitterbug. Esther Perel has said of him, “Dr. Ian Kerner is one of the most recognizable voices in clinical sex therapy.” To learn more visit iankerner.com

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#166 How to Give Head While Keeping Your Own - with Erotic Poet Rae Monet May 15, 2020

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Poet and educator Rae Monet tells us her top tips on how to give head while staying in your power, plus she shares some of her erotic poetry.

About our guest: PoetRaeMonet, a DC native, uses erotic poetry to combat the serious lack of sexual education in America. She began writing in childhood and has gone on to publish 5 books and 2 journals; including 'The Birds, the Bees, and the Boudoir,' which she'll be reading from later tonight. She is a hard-worker, who has developed hand-made candles, accessories, and paintings to complement her books, creating a full-sensory experience for those looking to immerse themselves in sensuality. Her next book, Expose your Inner DIVA, a sexual self-help workbook, will be released later this year. To learn more or to buy Rae's awesome erotic poetry visit https://whichrae.wordpress.com/

#165 Circumcision and Pelvic Healing - with Pyasa Neko Siff May 12, 2020

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In this episode we chat with somatic sexologist and sexological bodyworker Pyasa Neko Siff about circumcision, pelvic release and ways to heal from pelvic trauma.

We also answer a sex question: Why are some women against foreskin? Is it it different than giving oral on an uncut cock?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.

About our guest:

Pyasa Neko Siff, certified somatic sexologist, sexological bodyworker and speaker is the author of the Intimacy Adventure Playbook. She has recently begun directing her first full-length documentary film: Healing the Hidden Wound, Sex, Spirit, and Circumcision. Pyasa’s journey of healing her own early childhood trauma has inspired her passion to share the profound benefits of somatic sex education around the world.

She offers private sessions, group and individualized retreats where she creates a platform for participants to discover a tangible sense of safety in the body; her unique approach addresses, releases, and supports the healing of the sexual conditioning and trauma which has touched so many of us in the world today. To learn more visit intimacyadventure.com

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#164 Phone Sex and Dirty Talk - with Amberly Rothfield May 08, 2020

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What makes a really good phone sex operator? What are the tricks to the trade and how can we up our dirty talk game?

We also answer a sex question: I want more sexting, sexy talk and words of affirmation from my partner.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.

About our guest: Best-selling author, sexpert/educator, phone sex operator, dominatrix, and marketing extraordinaire Amberly Rothfield is a 13-year veteran who’s been featured in Vice, Hustler, Input, Reason, AVN, XBIZ, and YNOT, written for Slutty Girl Problems, and appeared on Holly Randall’s Unfiltered podcast. She struck gold as a phone sex operator on Niteflirt. Her breakout book How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator has been an inspirational manual for entrepreneurs and helped thousands of cam girls, phone sex operators, and clip store producers find success in the XXX world. She recently launched Master Classes are geared at indie models and companies with proven marketing techniques to take their brands to the next level.

Amberly is well respected in the adult community and has garnered many accolades. She won Best Phone Sex Provider from the BBW Awards in 2018, and she’s also scored noms for Social Media Star from AVN Awards, Humanitarian of the Year and Femdom Queen of the Year from BBW Awards, Community Figure of the Year from XBIZ Cam Awards, and Most Helpful from YNOT Cam Awards.

Keep up with Amberly’s upcoming events and more by following her on Twitter @AmberlyPSO and Instagram @Amberlyownsyou. Join her official website amberlyrothfield.com to get weekly videos, learn to market yourself better, one-on-one coaching, and more. Buy her books How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator and Financial Domination: Tales of an Online Mistress on Amazon at amazon.com/dp/B0798H4S5X. Get dominated and send her tributes on Nightflirt niteflirt.com/Amberly.

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#163 Healing Through Pain and Pleasure - with Kat Nantz May 05, 2020

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Tune in as we chat with Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach Kat Nantz about her journey as she learned how to heal chronic pain through pleasure.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12.

We also answer a sex question about working with back pain during sex.

About our guest: Kat Nantz is a trauma informed Somatic Sex & Relationship Coach who believes you are your own greatest healer, and her job is to bring you home to the wisdom that lives in your body. After having 17 surgeries as a young child, spending years being led out of her body and being objectified in medical settings, she had a powerful realization that her greatest healing would occur when she landed in her body and listened. As a disabled mama, facilitator and coach, Kat has a unique approach that empowers folks through building somatic embodied awareness, and honouring the body's capacity to heal through pleasure and play. Bringing people home to pleasure and home to their core power is her life purpose. To learn more visit katnantz.com

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#162 What Do I Want and How Do I Ask For It - with Monica Jayne May 01, 2020

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How can we discover our own sexual needs and desires and then lovingly speak up for them with lovers/partners?

We also answer a sex question: I feel like a sex goddess inside but my partner views me as delicate and puts me on a pedestal.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.

About our guest: Monica Jayne is a leader of unabashed self-expression, a mentor of true internal freedom, a coach of authentic communication and speaking up, and an educator of erotic liberation. She has been a 6-figure exec in a male-dominated industry, earned over 5000 hours of continuing ed and teaching yoga theory and philosophy for accredited collegiate institutions, and is an expert in communication, authenticity, vulnerability, relationship, sex, and intimacy. She’s a Certified Erotic Blueprint Coach™ with certifications in Queer Competency and Sexological bodywork forthcoming. Monica Jayne catalyzes evolution in all facets of your being, evoking your permission to speak up and be unabashedly you! To learn more visit monicajayne.com/more

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#161 Your Sex Questions Answered - with Dr. Nan Wise Apr 28, 2020

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Dr. Nan Wise returns to answer your sex questions about orgasm difficulties and blocks, cheating and non-ethical non-monogamy, and what sexuality might look like after COVID-19.

About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com.

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#160 Everyone's Favorite Big Tittied Goth Mama Pornstar - with Larkin Love Apr 24, 2020

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In this episode we interview adult performer and badass entrepreneur Larkin Love AKA everyone's favorite big tittied goth mama all about the ins and outs of her life in the porn industry.

We also answer a sex question: Does excessive masturbation cause any harm?

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20.

About our guest: Known for her 32J breasts and fierce black hair, Larkin Love has gone from adult star to self-made entrepreneur running her own website and becoming the queen of the clips universe. Her clips and site larkinlove.com feature her as the master of role play. She’s always a chameleon going from kinky mom to librarian to cosplay characters like superheroine Power Girl and League of Legends Ahri, and more. Larkin captivates her members and clip buyers with the kinkiest hardcore, taboo, and fetish scenes on the planet, as well as her specialty blowjobs, incredibly long tongue, and jaw-dropping dirty talk.

Larkin was a librarian and earned a Bachelor’s in Psychology. She started in adult as a stripper and nude model, and in 2011 she leaped into hardcore and worked with all the top-shelf studios. In 2018, she won the triple crown for Best Clip Artist from the Altporn Awards, XBIZ Cam Awards, and Inked Awards. 2019 started off with a bang—she had two Grossy Awards wins for Favorite Guest and Most Interesting Guest, as well as scoring Best Clip Artist from the Alt Porn Awards for the 2nd year in a row. Larkin has also received multiple nominations from AVN, XBIZ Cam, Fleshbot, Pornhub, Inked, ALT Porn, Urban X, and AVN Fan Awards.

She’s graced the covers of Hustler Taboo and Altstar magazines, was spotlighted as the centerfold and feature in Leg Sex Magazine and Hustler’s Taboo, profiled by AVN Magazine, and scored mainstream coverage with Complex and Cosmo UK. Larkin also works as a professional dominatrix.

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#159 Kink and BDSM in Relationships - with Eve Minax Apr 21, 2020

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What is the “Minax Method” and how does it apply to kink and BDSM in relationships?

We also answer a sex question: My partner is into S/M and my I'm not interested because of my sexual trauma.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.

About our guest: Professional Domina, Kink Educator and Pleasure Artist, Eve Minax delights in proliferating carnal knowledge. Learning and practicing BDSM from Chicago, to Paris, to Melbourne, and now local to San Francisco Minax has exercised her pedagogical skills at a plethora of conferences. She is the former coordinator for CineKink:Chicago, the West Coast Coordinator for the LA&M Road show, on the board of CARAS and TASHRA. Minax is also certified Urban Tantrika, and a Bondassage Practitioner and trainer. She has self produced over 100 videos and shoots for many great bondage sites like bondageland.com and seriousbondage.com. She currently trains up and coming Dominatrices and those who wish to deepen their work. To learn more visit mistressminax.com

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