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#394 Butt Jam Worthy - with Dixie De La Tour Aug 13, 2024

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Sexual Folklorist, podcaster and coach Dixie De La Tour joins Shameless Sex to teach us all about the magic behind erotic storytelling -just in time for Anal August! Learn about how developing your personal narrative can help you talk about difficult/intimate things (SEX!) + hear us share some of our own butt jam stories and witness the magic that is Bawdy Storytelling!

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About our guest: Bawdy Storytelling (‘The Moth for Pervs” - LA Weekly) features tales of Carnal Wins & Epic Fails with No Scripts, No Nets, and No Holds Barred. These folks aren't reading from cue cards: this is honest-to-badness story time with true sexcapades and poignant, transformational tales at each and every show. Join Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour & hand-picked Rockstars as they share their own stories of Love, Lust, and making you feel funny in your bathing suit area. Hey, you may even go home with a few new tricks for your boudoir arsenal!

Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour brings the Nation’s Perverrati together on the Bawdy Storytelling stage to tell their own infamously true tales of lust, love, kinky collisions, gender redefinition, sexual identity, life-changing hook-ups, educational one-night stands & everything in between. Bawdy is part storytelling show, part community event; where else can you watch your friends and neighbors get onstage to share their most intimate moments?! Play our Bang-O game to inspire your own stories, and Win Prizes for being brave and talking to strangers.Stories help you Find Your People! #BawdyGotMeLaid. To learn more go to www.BawdyStorytelling.com

Also, Dixie De La Tour and the Bawdy Storytelling Podcast are going On Tour! From Chicago to Portland to Seattle and more, she'll be hosting her award-winning Live Show in your city.

Dixie's even teaching her simple story system, 'How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling' as a Full Day Storytelling Intensive/Workshop in each city.

Join her Live in these cities:

Bawdy at The Den (Chicago) - Sept 6th, 2024 https://bit.ly/BawdyChicago2024

How to Be Bawdy Workshop (Chicago) Sept 8th, 2024 https://bit.ly/HTBBawdyChicagoWorkshop

First Person Arts (Virtual Workshop) Sept 7th, 2024

FPA Sex Files (Philadelphia Live Event) Sept 10th, 2024 https://bit.ly/FPASexFilesDixie

Bawdy Portland (Portland) October 18th, 2024 https://bit.ly/BawdyPDXOct2024

How to Be Bawdy Workshop (Portland) October 20th, 2024 https://bit.ly/HTBBawdyPortlandOR

Bawdy Seattle (Seattle, WA) November 1st, 2024 https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2024

How to Be Bawdy Workshop (Seattle) November 3rd, 2024 https://bit.ly/HTBBawdySeattle

More about Dixie:

Listen to the Bawdy Storytelling podcast at http://bit.ly/bawdypodcast

On Twitter: @Bawdy

On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/

On Facebook at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling

Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy

Subscribe to our YouTube Channel at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV

Dixie De La Tour (@bawdy)

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#393 An Inside Look into Stripping, Camming, and Being a Proud Sex Worker - with Marcela Alonso Aug 06, 2024

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This episode is an inside look into the wonderful world of sex work! From everything from favorite client stories to myth busting to the variations of sex work (stripping, camming, etc) - the fabulous Marcela Alonso shamelessly shares all about a day in the life of being a loud and proud sex worker.

About our guest: Marcela Alonso is a woman of many hats and talents—she’s a content creator, social media influencer, podcast host, comedienne, and SAG card-carrying mainstream actress. With over two decades in adult entertainment, she knows adult entertainment and shares her knowledge with the hottest and most fascinating guests in all facets of the industry on her uber-popular podcast, Get Schooled. Marcela also hosts Sunday Funday featuring comedians. Join her private fan club at IloveMarcela.com. Tune into Get Schooled on Apple Podcasts and other podcast platforms and join Check out Sunday Funday on all the major podcast platforms, including YouTube youtube.com/c/MarcelaAlonsoYoutube/videos. Keep up with everything in Marcela’s world by following her on Twitter/X @Marcela_luv, IG @Marcelasobella, TikTok @Marcelaalonsoluv, and Facebook facebook.com/marcelasobella. Get her links in one place beacons.ai/marcelasobella

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#392 What You Could Learn From Sex Parties (even if they aren't your jam) - with Michael Hollice of The Play Jul 30, 2024

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What are "sex parties" and why is The Play different from other play parties? What can anyone and everyone - regardless of their interest in sex parties or non-monogamy - learn from the way The Play beautifully orchestrates and curates their parties? Why is STI testing so important + unique to the way The Play operates? Also, can monogamous people go to sex parties?

We known ENM isn't for everyone yet so many of you (yes you) are curious about threesomes and more-somes...and even sex parties! Tune in to learn about all of the above, as well as non ENM (ethical non-monogamy) ways to add newness to your relationships.

About our guest: As the Founder and Creative Director of The Play, Michael Hollice has led the play party community for over 6 years, offering a wealth of firsthand experience and knowledge. Guided by the principles of Health, Consent, Intimacy, and Artistry, Michael creates safe and inclusive spaces fostering genuine connections and cultural evolution. His experiences in television and film production, coupled with Operation Management roles at LinkedIn and Google, showcase his ability to combine creativity with efficiency. Notably, as one of the few black play party owners, Michael brings a distinct perspective, enriching diversity within the community he passionately shapes. His dedication to authenticity and inclusivity, coupled with his role as a cultural architect, continues to make The Play a beacon of transformative experiences. To learn more go to https://theplay.la

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#391 Sex Toys, Praise Kinks, and AHA Moments - with Finn Jul 24, 2024

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How can people find the right sex toy for them? What makes a sex toy a great toy or product? What are some of the top sex toys on the market? And what about lubes? Also, what the F is a praise kink? And why is having a sexual AHA moment so important?

About our guest: Lisa Finn ("Finn" - she/her/they) is a Brooklyn-based Sex Educator. Since starting with Babeland in 2016, Finn has hosted countless interviews and workshops - both virtual to audiences of hundreds of attendees, and in-person from lectures at Ivy League Universities to kink demonstrations at dive bars. She's been featured in podcasts and print + digital publications on topics like beginner’s tips, BDSM how-tos, spicing up date night, self-care and sexual wellness, and - of course - the latest sex toys and trends. (She was even given the kinda absurd yet accurate title of “sex toy fairy godmother” in an article for Women’s Health Magazine). Always lacing humor into her lessons, Finn makes it a goal to "make sex-positive information accessible, and remind [everyone] that pleasure should be fun." To learn more go to https://www.babeland.com/

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#390 How to Find (or Become) a Great Sex and Relationship Coach or Therapist - with Heather McPherson, LMFT-S Jul 16, 2024

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When it comes to sex or relationships and wanting to find a therapist or coach, what should people know before they shop around? Are all sex therapists “created equal”? Why is it so important for therapists to be educated on how to support their client’s sexuality while not creating more shame? As a client, what are some of the signs my therapist or coach might not be a good fit for me? And how can I go about that? For people who want to become a sex educator or therapist, how can they start to venture down this path? And what makes SHA different from other sexuality training programs?

About our guest: Heather McPherson is the CEO and Founder of the Sexual Health Alliance, a premier education and certification provider for sexuality professionals. Heather also founded Respark, a national brand that encompasses a group therapy practice, Respark Foundation Nonprofit, and ReSpark Retreats. Respark Therapy & Associates (respark.co) is a group practice that serves Colorado, Washington and Texas specializing in sexuality and relationships. She is published in Playboy Magazine as well as Playboy Online, and has been featured on CNN, HuffPost, Rolling Stone, SheKnows, Quartz, Bravo, the Body, the Sun, Sex and Psychology with Dr. Justin Lehmiller, Psychology Today with Dr. David Ley, Parent Harald, and more.

Heather McPherson has lectured at prestigious universities including University of Texas at Austin, Texas State University, University of Utah, University of Colorado Denver and Governors State University in Chicago. She is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Supervisor, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist Supervisor (LMFT-S) and a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (LPC-S). She also is the Texas Section Leader for AASECT (American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors & Therapists). She has appeared on several podcasts including Loveline with Dr. Chris Donaghue as well as Sex with Dr. Jess. Heather helps clients gain confidence, rebuild trust, increase playfulness, and find passion and meaning in their erotic lives. Heather graduated with honors from Texas State University with a MA in Marriage, Couple and Family Therapy; a CACREP Accredited Program. To learn more go to https://sexualhealthalliance.com/

https://www.instagram.com/sexualhealthalliance

https://www.tiktok.com/@sexualhealthalliance

https://www.facebook.com/SHAteams

https://www.instagram.com/resparkgroup

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#389 Opening Up Without Blowing Up - with Ally Iseman Jul 09, 2024

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In this episode we meet with ENM and relational expert Ally Iseman. We discuss everything from cheating and affairs to the how to's of non-monogamy, the many variations of non-monogamy, as well as how to become an expert communicator in your relationships. This episode is for monogamous and non-monogamous people who want to up their relational skills for more sexy success in and out of the bedroom.

Bio: Ally Iseman is the Founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, through which she offers concierge guidance and online courses and resources for couples and individuals exploring healthy non-monogamy and alternative relationship dynamics. She has been a speaker, community organizer, and non-monogamy educator and practitioner since 2016, committed to promoting consensual, empowered, and respectful interactions as a leader within the sex-positive space. As a certified consent and communication specialist and respected non-monogamy ‘sexpert’, Ally sits on the executive leadership board of one of LA’s most distinguished sex-positive nightlife events. She regularly shares her insights on podcasts and at live events, and has been quoted in numerous consumer and industry-facing publications, further solidifying her reputation as a knowledgeable and influential voice on the subject of non-monogamy and alternative relationship dynamics.

Contact: hello@passport2pleasure.com

Website: www.passport2pleasure.com

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#388 Vaginas, Vulvas and Vibrators (and Period Sex!) - with Jordan D’Nelle Jul 02, 2024

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What are some of the many reasons why people might not be interested in having sex with their partners? When it comes to mismatched libidos, what are are top tips for couples in working together to find ways to meet each other’s sexual wants or desires as best as they can? What about period sex? We know not everyone is into it and aren’t trying to convince people to change their minds about it, but what are the main hangups are about period sex? Are there any benefits? And how can people have more pleasurable period sex?

About our guest: Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators with Jordan D’Nelle is designed to give women a place to learn about women’s health and sexual wellness. Tune in every Thursday for topics that are relevant to learning how women’s bodies work and how to improve your intimate life. To learn more go to http://jordandnelle.com

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Bonus Episode: A Porn Star's Best Friend - with Making Magic Jun 28, 2024

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This mini episode features a 10 minute clip for a new mini series that we absolutely love called Making Magic, featuring some of the world's most renown sex educators and all about how the Magic Wand became the world's most famous vibrator.

Porn is one of the most common ways people find out about the Magic Wand and get excited to try it themselves. In this episode, we hear from porn performers and directors about why the Magic Wand works so well in on-screen sex – and why filming with it can sometimes be challenging.

Guests this episode:

Writer, sex educator, & retired adult filmmaker Tristan Taormino (she/her)
BDSM educator, former Kink University director, & Two Knotty Boys co-founder Danarama (he/him)
Crash Pad Series director Ava La Prima (she/her)
Spectrum Boutique CEO/founder, author, & adult content creator Zoë Ligon (she/her)
Writer & former pornographer Stoya (she/her)
Writer, educatrix, pornographer & podcaster Tina Horn (she/her)

Listen to the full episode here: http://https://makingmagicseries.com

More about the Making Magic mini series:

Making Magic: How the Magic Wand Became the World's Most Famous Vibrator

Magic Wand has improved the sex lives of millions of people and has shaped how we think about, talk about, and depict sex more broadly in society.
Making Magic, a limited audio series, is told by sex writer and podcaster Kate Sloan and connects listeners to the stories of people whose lives have been changed by this vibrator.
Featuring over 30 sex and relationship experts such as Dr. Carol Queen, Stoya, Zoe Ligon, Hallie Lieberman, Dr. Laurie Mintz, Alice Lovegood, Tristan Taormino, Elle Chase, Tina Horn, Lorrae Bradbury, and more, Making Magic is streaming now anywhere you get your podcasts.
Episode 5 explores Magic Wand's influence on porn and why so many performers and filmmakers turn to Magic Wand to shoot authentic, orgasmic scenes.

Listen on your favorite podcast app or checkout their website at http://makingmagicseries.com

#387 All About Pleasing That D from the Fellatio Expert - with Jody ProHOEvocative Jun 25, 2024

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In this episode we talk about how to pleasure all the dicks, cocks and penises in your life with fellatio expert and Sexologist Jody ProHOEvocative. And PS: Jody is going to perform in our live show in Chicago this Sunday, June 24th. Listen to this episode to understand why you don't want to miss it :) More details below.

About our guest: Jody is a certified sexologist and fellatio instructor, unapologetically exploring the realms of sexuality, blending candid discussions on sexual health, personal stories, and kinks. She is also the resident Sexpert at Tease University, helping women explore their sexuality in an unfiltered, raunchy, and provocative way.

After more than a decade of repressed sexual desires and sexual shame, she realized that to have a more pleasurable sex life, she had to unlearn how she viewed sex. Along her journey, she discovered that many others shared similar stories and made it her mission to help women reclaim and reimagine their sexuality.

Jody also offers the following services for couples, singles, and groups: kink exploration sessions, pleasure and sex goal mapping, her signature Throat choreography class (fellatio class), and sensual massage and stretching. In addition to being on The Never Ever Mets, Jody has been featured on Yahoo! Lifestyle, Vocal.org, and WBEZ discussing sexual freedom and healthy sex conversations. Jody has also appeared on Whoreible Decisions, the Hard or Soft Show, So Shameless, We Talk Back, Tequila Tlk, Esh your Heart out, Cocktales Dirty Discussions Live Tour, Exxxotica, and more. You may have also recently seen her on OWN's new reality TV series "The Never Ever Mets."

You can connect with Jody here:

Instagram: @jodyprhoe

Website: PrHOEvocative.com

Classes/services: beacons.ai/prhoevocative

Podcast: prhoevocative.podbean.com

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#386 MUNCH: Everything You Need to Know About Eating Pussy - with Tyomi Morgan Jun 18, 2024

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In this episode repeat guest and world renown Sexpert Tyomi Morgan teaches us all about how to become the master of pussy pleasure. From techniques for hands and mouths to toys and beyond, Tyomi will blow your mind (and maybe your lover's bits) with all of the gold she shares.

About our guest: Certified Sexologist Tyomi Morgan is an international pleasure coach with 12+ years experience as a thought leader, writer and influencer in the field of Sexuality. Her talent for delivering relatable, digestible sex education has garnered her success throughout the world and her love for coaching women has impacted millions. Tyomi is the founder of The Cowgirl Workout™ and is a member of the National Coalition for Sexual Health. She also serves as the seminar coordinator for The Exxxotica Expo, the Largest Event Dedicated to Love and Sex in the USA. To learn more go to linktr.ee/realglamazontyomi

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