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Everything Isn’t Terrible #479 Aug 05, 2020

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Dr Kathleen Smith and I discuss her book, Everything Isn't Terrible, and how appropriate it is for our lives here in 2020.

Learn more about Kathleen on her site https://kathleensmith.net/

On the Xtended version ...

Kathleen and I dive into the world of Bowen Systems Theory. Yes we geek out a little but it's a great way to understand what's going on in families.

Enjoy the show!

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Power Plays #478 Jul 29, 2020

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A voicemail from a wife looking to keep the connection and intimacy with her husband, who had a stroke 17 years ago.

A follow up email from a listener struggling with power plays around his sexuality and sex life with his wife.

On the Xtended version ...

A clarification from last week's XTD content. And a conversation about the main concepts taught by Schnarch and our understanding of them.

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Sex Is Only On My Spouse’s Terms #477 Jul 22, 2020

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An email from a wife whose husband regularly views porn and when confronted replies with "I have needs."

A husband emails in asking our thoughts about how if his sexual desire has waned over the past couple years is it because he's stopped viewing porn over that timeframe or is it because sex is only on his wife's terms.

On the Xtended version ...

We share a blog post from an author where he gives 8 steps to confront your wife's sexual refusal - and our reaction.

Enjoy the show!

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31 Days To Great Sex #476 Jul 15, 2020

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Sheila Wray Gregoire joins me to discuss her new book 31 Ways To Great Sex, available now.
Check out more of Sheila's work here - https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/

On the Xtended version ...
Sheila and I continue a conversation about how Christianity and the church have addressed sex - especially the message towards women.

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Intention or Action #475 Jul 08, 2020

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A conversation based on two emails from listeners who are each struggling to understand and navigate a big gap in desire between themselves and their spouse.

On the Xtended version ...

What is the difference between intention vs. action?

Enjoy the show!

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Fantasies, Tell Me What You Want #474 Jul 01, 2020

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Dr Justin Lehmiller joins me to talk about his research surround fantasies and sex.

On the Xtended version ...

Justin and I continue the conversation about fantasies and discuss more about where they come from and what to do with them.

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Mutual Masturbation #473 Jun 24, 2020

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On the Regular version of today's show ...
An email from a wife who has discovered the eroticism and freedom that can happen when masturbating together with her husband.

What's the difference between sexual thoughts and lust?

A husband wanting to know what to do when he's tried to live in a way that ignites his wife's passion (according to an old post I wrote - https://smr.fm/heads-up-husbands-5-ways-to-ignite-your-wifes-passions/) and yet his wife had an affair.

On the Xtended version ...
How do you confront gridlock in your marriage and what are the forced choice dilemmas that come along with them?

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Your Marriage Story #472 Jun 17, 2020

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An email from a husband who loses his erection when the direct stimulation stops.

A wife wanting to know if there are dangers to porn use in their marriage.

On the Xtended version ...

What's your marriage story? It's important to be living something larger than yourself and your marriage if you want to live fully alive.

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Simultaneous Orgasms #471 Jun 10, 2020

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On the regular version ... An email from a husband whose wife believes if they can't orgasm together at the same time then there must be something wrong.

A husband seeks our thoughts on how he can reestablish connection with his wife sexually and emotionally when she doesn't really like him currently.

On the Xtended version ...

Pam and I talk through the concepts of desire and how it's part of our process of growth in life and marriage.

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