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We’re All A Little Kinky Jul 05, 2024

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What does it mean exactly, when someone says they’re a voyeur? A sub? A cuckhold or an exhibitionist? Well folks, we are getting a kinky education today!

On today’s episode, I’m walking you through your sexual fantasies to see where you land on the kink spectrum. I’m talking submission and domination, exhibitionism and voyeurism, even a little humiliation, if that’s your preferred kink flavor. But because kink is play, I’m also giving you some specific ideas for how to explore these fantasies IRL – and, bonus, I’m taking all of your kinky questions.

In this episode you’ll learn:

Various sexual fantasies, including submission, domination, exhibitionism, voyeurism, and consensual non-consent
The importance of excellent communication, trust, and consent when exploring fantasies
How to explore fantasies practically and safely, emphasizing that kink is a form of play meant to enhance relationships and understanding

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Hotline Calls: Are You Bicurious? Jul 02, 2024

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In today’s throwback episode, I’m taking your Sex With Emily hotline calls and answering your questions. Remember, you can always call and leave a voicemail with your question at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).

In this episode you’ll learn:

What to do if you can’t stop fantasizing about women (but you’re in a healthy relationship with a man)
How to determine if birth control is tanking your sex drive
How to communicate with a partner who won’t share their desires

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Love, Sex, and Success with Gabby Reece Pt. 2 Jun 28, 2024

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Have you found yourself fascinated with what's masculine or feminine, especially in the bedroom? On today's episode, volleyball star, Gabby Reece, redefines the modern day versions of these roles and explains why it matters in her marriage.

In this episode you’ll learn:

Gabby's definition of masculine & feminine in her marriage
Why younger generations may not be having as much sex
Which sex toys Gabby is into

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Get What You Want (In Bed) Jun 25, 2024

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Ever dated a mind reader who just gets you? …Chances are, probably not. Unfortunately for us, deep connections need deep communication skills. I mean, how can your partner know your needs if you don’t tell them? I know it’s not easy, though, and that’s why today’s throwback is all about articulating what you need, sexually and otherwise. The result? Way healthier relationship dynamics and hotter sex. You’re welcome!

In this episode you’ll learn:

What to do if you want your child to grow up with more positive sex messaging than you had
How to deal with an emotionally detached partner
Why you have to communicate to get the kind of touch you need in bed

Show Notes:

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Love, Sex, and Success with Gabby Reece Pt. 1 Jun 21, 2024

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Volleyball legend and podcast host Gabby Reece takes the hot seat and reveals all her secrets to being a successful athlete, wife, parent and business owner with her famous surfer husband, Laird Hamilton.

In this episode you’ll learn:

Sex rules to keep your man happy
How to play farmer and flower to have a long lasting relationship
Gabby Reece's biggest turn on, it's not what you think it might be
Why being kind is better than being nice

Show Notes:

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Sex in the Summer Sun Jun 18, 2024

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Summer is heating up and I’m here to make sure that your sex life follows suit. In this throwback episode, I’m sharing my steamiest ideas on how to experiment with hot (and cold) sensation play, the perks of hotel sex, and my personal sex toy picks for travel. Can’t get away this year? No worries, I’ve got sex tips for bringing the vacation into your bedroom. If you’re ready for a Hot Girl Summer, this ep’s for you.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to set boundaries for your bachelor/bachelorette parties
Where to (safely) have sex in public
How to navigate a friends with benefits situation

Show Notes:

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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Best Of: The Lies of Monogamy w/ Dr. Shefali Jun 14, 2024

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Ever wondered how culture has molded your sexuality? My guest, Dr. Shefali Tsabury, dives deep into this topic on today’s throwback ep, revealing how societal norms have conditioned us to suppress our true desires, cheat ourselves, and live inauthentically. But here's the twist: radically authentic love and desire are within reach! All it takes is confronting the myths we've been fed and making a conscious choice to live freely. Ready to break free and embrace your true self? Tune in.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to rethink marriage as a model for growth
All about monogamy and why it’s the societal norm (and if it’s even natural…)
How to replace societal conditioning with worthiness

Show Notes:

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Dr. Shefali: Instagram | Website Podcast: Parenting & You with Dr. Shefali
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Best Of: How to Talk to Teens About Sex Jun 11, 2024

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QUESTION: If you’re a parent or caregiver, should you talk to your child about masturbation? I say absolutely! Even if it feels like you’re navigating a minefield, and even if your own parents left you in the dark (because let’s face it, they probably did), I get it – finding the right words can be trickier than solving a Rubik’s Cube. That’s why today’s episode is your ultimate guide, packed with tools, scripts, and resources to help you tackle this touchy topic with confidence and maybe even a little humor. In a couple years, your kid will thank you!

In this episode you’ll learn:

Why should you talk to your children, and teens specifically, about masturbation
The truth behind masturbation myths
Specific verbiage to make these uncomfortable sex talks a little easier

Show Notes:

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The Communication Guide (And Other Guides)
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Love Without Losing Your Mind w/ Todd Baratz Jun 07, 2024

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Have you ever been so in love that you lost your mind? I totally get it, and so does today's guest, sex therapist, author, and host of the podcast Diagnonsense, Todd Baratz, who joined me to chat about all things relationship and why dating can be such a struggle today.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How oral sex can make or break your relationship
What to do when you date men who don't know how to connect emotionally
Why we need to stop diagnosing everyone

Show Notes:

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How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind
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Are You Touch-Starved? Jun 04, 2024

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Did you know that the lack of physical touch can exacerbate anxiety and depression? How have you been feeding your skin hunger? Ever since the pandemic, many of us have been touch-starved, but now it’s time to feast. On today’s throwback show I’ll share how to satisfy your skin hunger and bring more touch and intimacy back into your life.

In this episode you’ll learn:

What questions to ask yourself to figure out if your relationship is where you want it to be
How to introduce new techniques (and toys) into the bedroom
How to get back into the dating scene

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