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Chapters:

0:00 - Where Your Words Go, Your Energy Goes
2:34 - Meet Dr. Jennifer Freed: Psychological Astrologer and 30-Year Therapist
4:03 - Men’s Biggest Sexual Challenge (And It’s Not What You Think)
5:08 - Sex as an Expectation vs. an Invitation: Why the Framing Changes Everything
5:28 - The Victim Behaviors Secretly Killing Your Power in the Bedroom
7:36 - “I Have To” vs. “I Get To”: The Language Shift That Rewires Your Brain Around Sex
9:34 - The 30-Minute Body Mapping Exercise That Can Transform Your Sex Life Tonight
10:21 - Your Feelings and Sensations Are the Only Irrefutable Truth
11:22 - Men and Performance Anxiety: What Would Happen If They Were Just Allowed to Receive?
13:22 - The Serial Sex Guy Who Was Depressed (And What It Reveals About Frequency)
16:05 - The Forbidden Conversations in Your Relationship Are Exactly Where the Juice Is
16:36 - The Three Reasons We Hide Things From Our Partners: Security, Control, Approval
18:45 - The Gaps in Relationships Are Where the Damage Lives
19:48 - Q: How Do You Keep the Fire Going While Still Being Vulnerable?
20:35 - Your Partner Is Not Your Therapist: What to Share and What Not To
22:11 - Revelation Is Not a Dump: Trust Is Built Through Accretion
23:37 - Erotic Tension and Otherness: Why Mystery Is Essential to Attraction
24:04 - Things You Should Never Say — and How to Say the Hard Things Instead
26:09 - The Conversation Is an Invitation, Not a Confrontation
27:06 - Q: How Do You Reconcile With Men After a Painful History With Them?
28:55 - Q: Hookup Buddy Wants a Relationship and You Don’t — What Do You Do?
30:01 - Mixed Messages, Time Limits and Why You Need Friends Who Tell You the Truth
32:03 - “Emo Porn”: The Concept That Explains Your Most Dramatic Friendships
33:47 - Q: How to Spot a Sensual Lover Without Sleeping With a Lot of People
36:14 - Astrology and Compatibility: What Your Sun Sign Actually Cannot Tell You
37:48 - Every Relationship Is a Teacher — the Most Courageous Spiritual Path
38:12 - Q: How to Ease Into an Open Relationship or Fulfill a Threesome Fantasy
41:08 - Q: Does EMDR Therapy Actually Work? 43:03 - Q: Low Libido at 25 After Five Years Together — What’s Happening?
44:21 - It’s Not Low Libido, It’s High Boredom (And the Real Fix)
45:10 - The Secret to Reigniting Desire: Go Back to Courtship

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Women’s Vaginas at 20 vs. 40 Nov 03, 2026

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Here's something I wish someone had told me years ago. Young doesn't mean sexually confident, 40s doesn't mean sexually over, and the biggest mistake most couples make has nothing to do with technique. It's assuming they already know what their partner wants. In this episode I'm walking through what actually happens to a woman's body and desire across her 20s, 30s, 40s, and beyond: what changes, what stays the same, and what you can do to be a better partner at every stage.

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Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Timestamps:
0:00 - Cold open: does sex get worse as a woman gets older?
1:44 - Her 20s: young doesn’t mean great sex
4:12 - Why most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone
5:33 - Her 30s: more confidence, new challenges
6:06 - After a baby: why her desire changes
9:11 - Her 40s: what perimenopause does to desire and arousal
11:58 - Spontaneous vs. responsive desire
13:51 - Menopause and beyond: sex has no expiration date
15:02 - Treatments for painful sex after menopause
15:39 - Why sex shouldn’t be defined by penetration
17:31 - The biggest mistake: assuming you know what she likes

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Why You Don’t Want to Have Sex Anymore with Dr. Jenni Skyler Oct 30, 2026

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Ever wonder what really happens inside a sex therapist's office? Dr. Jenni Skyler, certified sex therapist, founder of the Intimacy Institute, and co-host of Sex and the Psyche, pulls back the curtain on what couples are really struggling with, why low desire is more normal than you think, and the two metaphors that change everything: the erotic piggy bank and the car on the highway.

We also get personal about Vyleesi. Our own experiences, the side effects, and what it actually feels like when desire comes back online. Spoiler: it gets good.

And yes, we go there. The myths, the duty sex, the midnight shoulder tap, the pressure to have simultaneous orgasms like it's a Hollywood movie. All of it on the table.

In this episode:- The erotic piggy bank: rebuilding desire through non-sexual deposits- Why spontaneous sex is a myth and what to do instead- The ten-minute invitation technique that changes everything- Vyleesi vs. Addyi: our honest, personal take

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Why You Love Your Partner but Don’t Want Sex Oct 28, 2026

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Have a question for me? Just ask: https://shop.sexwithemily.com/pages/ask?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=yt-B_NJuDUJF5I&utm_content=description Real people. Real questions. No filters. In this hotline episode I take live calls from listeners navigating some of the most common and least talked about sexual dilemmas — from a woman in a good relationship who can’t stop fantasizing about women, to a 19-year-old whose birth control has wiped out her desire entirely, to a man trying to reconnect with his wife after a miscarriage, and more. These are the conversations people carry around for years without ever knowing who to ask. Let’s talk about them. ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. CONNECT:

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Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go t⁠o http://sexwithemily.com/coachin⁠g to apply! Chapters: 0:00 Live Hotline: Real Questions About Sex, Desire, and Connection 1:19 Call 1: I’m Fantasizing About Women But I’m in a Relationship With a Man 3:30 Why Moving In Together Can Kill the Spark 5:45 Does He Get to Decide Which Fantasies You Can Have? 8:00 How to Tell Your Partner Exactly What You Want in Bed 10:30 The Yes No Maybe List and Why Every Couple Needs It 12:55 Call 2: Birth Control Took My Sex Drive to Zero 14:45 How the Pill Quietly Affects Desire and Mood 16:30 Learning Your Own Body for the First Time 19:00 Call 3: I’m Bisexual and Leaning More Toward Men 21:00 The Double Standard Around Male vs. Female Bisexuality 23:30 Call 4: My Wife Only Wants Sex When She’s Ovulating 26:00 Sex After a Miscarriage: What Couples Get Wrong 30:00 How to Keep Your Sex Life Alive While Trying to Conceive 32:30 Call 5: My Partner Says She’s Lazy in Bed 35:00 Mutual Masturbation as a Learning Tool 37:00 Call 6: 25 Years Married and Suddenly Insecure About My Body 38:15 What to Do When Insecurity Is Getting in the Way of Intimacy

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How to Start Having Sex Again After a Long Break Oct 23, 2026

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Whether it's a body pattern you've never been able to break, a sex life that went quiet during a hard season, or a relationship where desire just doesn't match up — these are the questions people carry around for years without knowing where to take them. Let's talk about real listener questions on orgasm habits, how to restart intimacy after illness, navigating power dynamics in a relationship, and what to actually do when your partner seems completely uninterested in sex.

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Chapters:

0:00 Real Sex Questions You Were Too Embarrassed to Ask

2:00 Q: I Can Only Orgasm One Way. Can I Change That?

3:47 How to Retrain Your Body for Full-Body Orgasms

6:23 The Breathwork Practice That Changes Everything

8:30 Q: How Do We Restart Our Sex Life After Six Months Off?

10:19 How to Ease Back In Without Pressure or Awkwardness

12:43 Q: I Want to Switch Roles But My Partner Won't

14:27 Top and Bottom Dynamics and Masculine Feminine Energy

17:05 How Age and Experience Shape Power in Relationships

19:17 Q: My Wife Just Wants It Over Quickly. What Do I Do?

21:00 When Culture and Shame Shut Down Desire

23:25 Sexual Health Is Overall Health. Here Is Why That Matters

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4 Effects a Sexless Marriage Has on a Man Oct 22, 2026

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If you’re in a relationship where sex has quietly disappeared, you already know it’s not just about the lack of sex. It’s the questions that start creeping in—is she still attracted to me? Did I do something wrong? Why does every touch now feel loaded?

Let’s talk about what actually happens to men emotionally and relationally when a marriage goes sexless, and what you can do to start changing things without making it worse.

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Chapters:

0:00 – Intro
0:40 – What a mismatched-desire marriage feels like
1:15 – Listener question: no sex in almost a year
2:35 – Effect 1: You start taking it personally
3:35 – Why this hits men especially hard
5:00 – Effect 2: You pull away, even from affection
6:35 – Taking sex off the table to rebuild touch
7:35 – Effect 3: You feel disconnected and lonely
8:10 – Seeking outside validation
9:15 – What do you actually know vs. what are you assuming
10:20 – Mismatched desire is common: building a growth mindset around sex

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Why Better Sex Starts Outside the Bedroom Oct 16, 2026

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What if the secret to getting turned on has nothing to do with what happens in the bedroom?

Sometimes the best foreplay starts hours earlier, with the right kind of adventure, connection, or touch that works with your brain chemistry instead of against it. Let’s talk about the trust, titillate, and touch framework for bonding activities that actually prime your nervous system for desire — plus I’m answering your questions on sexual incompatibility, rebuilding your sex drive after having a baby, reigniting a stalled marriage, and reclaiming your sexuality after a relationship that made you feel unseen.

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