Sex Chat for Christian Wives

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Peace First, Pleasure Follows Aug 07, 2026

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This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with ways to help your body feel peace in order to create space for pleasure. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

**Note: This episode was previously released but with audio problems. Those issues have been corrected.**

The Messiness of Sex Jul 30, 2026

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We address the messiness of sex—what contributes to it, what's normal (and what's not), and how to deal with the mess.

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From the Bible

Husband I have come to my garden—my sister, my bride. I gather my myrrh with my spices. I eat my honeycomb with my honey. I drink my wine with my milk.

Narrator Eat, friends! Drink, be intoxicated with love! Song of Songs 5:1 (HCSB)

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Is Lingerie for You? (Quickie) Jul 23, 2026

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This week's quickie is from J. Parker on how to make wearing lingerie work for you (whether or not your husband cares). Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Sex After Miscarriage, Grieving Lack of Intimacy, Self-Pleasure After Betrayal, and Making Love with Adult Kids in the House (Listener Questions) Jul 17, 2026

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We answer listener questions about the struggle of having sexual intimacy after miscarriage, grieving the long lack of intimacy, whether a wife should self-pleasure after her husband's betrayal shut down sex, and how to maintain sexual intimacy with adult kids living at home.

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From the Bible

The Message Paraphrase of 1 Corinthians 7:3–6: Certainly—but only within a certain context. It's good for a man to have a wife, and for a woman to have a husband. Sexual drives are strong, but marriage is strong enough to contain them and provide for a balanced and fulfilling sexual life in a world of sexual disorder. The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. Abstaining from sex is permissible for a period of time if you both agree to it, and if it's for the purposes of prayer and fasting—but only for such times. Then come back together again. Satan has an ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it. I'm not, understand, commanding these periods of abstinence—only providing my best counsel if you should choose them.

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Quality Trumps Frequency (Quickie) Jul 10, 2026

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This week's quickie is from J Parker about quality vs. frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Can We Trust Sex Research?, with Dr. Jessica McCleese Jul 02, 2026

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Which sex research conclusions can we trust, especially as believers? In this second of a two-part series, we discuss sex research with licensed psychologist, college professor, and certified Christian sex therapist, Dr. Jessica McCleese.

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From the Bible

Now the Berean Jews were of more noble character than those in Thessalonica, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true. Acts 17:11

But they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony, and they did not love their lives so much that they were afraid to die. Revelation 12:11 (NET)

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Surprise Him Sexually (Quickie) Jun 25, 2026

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This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor with three ways to sexually surprise your husband. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

A Deep Dive into Sex Research, with Dr. Jessica McCleese Jun 18, 2026

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How did we come to research sex, and how reliable are the studies out there? In this first of a two-part series, we discuss sex research with licensed psychologist, college professor, and certified Christian sex therapist, Dr. Jessica McCleese.

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From the Bible

The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge, for the ears of the wise seek it out. Proverbs 18:15

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction. Proverbs 1:7

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System Overload/All Touched Out (Quickie) Jun 12, 2026

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This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns is for mothers of young children who feel all touched out.. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Talking About Sex Jun 04, 2026

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Should you talk to others about your sex life? When? Who? How? We have all hands on deck—Bonny, Chris & J—to tackle that subject.

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From the Bible

The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray. Proverbs 12:26

One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24

Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of a friend springs from their heartfelt advice. Proverbs 27:9

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