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Is Screen Time Terrible? Jan 06, 2025

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Jess and Scott break down the nuanced reality of giving your kids screen time through personal experiences and research-backed insights about gaming, social media, and device use, offering practical guidance for parents.

Key takeaways include the importance of being present during screen time, understanding age-appropriate limits, and protecting children through clear boundaries rather than expecting them to self-regulate.

Whether you're struggling with screen time battles or trying to make informed decisions about devices and social media for your kids, this episode provides valuable perspective on finding balance in our digital world.

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How To Set Realistic Parenting Goals For 2025 Dec 30, 2024

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Scott and Jess have a candid discussion about New Year's resolutions and goal-setting, particularly through the lens of parenting and personal growth.

They share their plans to prioritize family dinners, create more one-on-one time with each of their three children, and discuss how to teach their kids about resilience and nuanced thinking in an increasingly polarized world.

Jess opens up about her journey with people-pleasing and burnout, while Scott reflects on finding balance between his drive for constant learning and the need to slow down.

Listeners will gain valuable insights about setting meaningful goals, the importance of self-reflection, and how to approach resolutions with both ambition and self-compassion.

If you want to share your goals with the Robot Unicorn community, send us a DM with an audio message on @robotunicornpodcast and let us know your name, where you are from and what your goal is for the new year!

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Grieving Over The Holidays With Libby Ward Dec 23, 2024

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CW: Death, suicide, miscarriage

Grieving over the holidays can feel all-consuming and complex. Today, Jess and Scott are joined by returning guest Libby for a raw and honest conversation about navigating grief during the holiday season. They discuss various forms of grief, from the loss of loved ones to mourning relationships with living family members who are estranged or there is a complex relationship.

Libby shares her experience losing her father three years ago around Christmas, while Scott opens up about childhood trauma and his grandfather's death. Listeners will gain valuable insights on coping strategies like allowing yourself to feel emotions fully, maintaining connections with trusted friends, and finding meaningful ways to honour memories.

The episode also explores how to support grieving loved ones with practical advice on what to say (and what not to say) to someone who is hurting.

If you want to hear more from Libby, check out the first episode she recorded with Jess and Scott here.

You can also follow Libby at @diaryofanhonestmom on Instagram or visit her website.

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Are You Raising An Entitled Kid? Dec 16, 2024

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In this episode, Scott and Jess discuss raising resilient children who are not entitled, a common concern they hear from people who are skeptical about the style of parenting Jess teaches.

They explore how allowing children to experience natural disappointments and frustrations - while providing emotional support - actually helps develop crucial coping skills. Through practical examples like saying no to extra juice boxes and managing screen time boundaries, they demonstrate how parents can validate feelings while still maintaining limits.

Key takeaways from this episode include:

The importance of letting kids engage in appropriate risky play
Avoiding the trap of constantly trying to make children happy
Understanding that building frustration tolerance is a vital life skill

Jess and Scott also challenge the narrative of "entitled generations," highlighting how modern kids face unique challenges that require parental understanding rather than judgment.

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Should We Tell Kids Santa Is Real? Dec 09, 2024

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In this episode, Jess and Scott tackle the polarizing topic of Santa Claus and holiday traditions as they answer the question: "Should we tell kids Santa is real?” They explore different approaches to discussing Santa with children - from treating him as a real person to presenting him as an imaginative character - all while emphasizing the importance of maintaining trust and connection with our kids.

Jess and Scott share valuable insights on fostering genuine gratitude during gift-giving, managing children's expectations and behaviours during holiday celebrations, and navigating family dynamics when different belief systems clash.

They also discuss why using Santa as a behaviour management tool can backfire

and provide practical tips for making the holiday season magical regardless of your approach.

This must-listen episode provides thoughtful guidance for parents seeking to create meaningful holiday traditions while staying true to their values.

Jess mentions an episode where she introduces her hand puppet, “Grumpy Sean.” You can listen to the full episode about playfulness and teasing here.

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If you want to hear more from Jess and Scott about how you can encourage playfulness with your kids, check out “Is It Ok To Tease Your Kids?”

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The Hidden Cost Of Keeping Kids Busy Dec 02, 2024

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In this episode, Scott and Jess explore the importance of creativity and play - both for children and adults.

From strategies for protecting children’s creative spirits to understanding how play helps kids process their experiences to how they are beginning to rekindle their own sense of playfulness as busy parents, this episode is full of practical strategies and insights into the importance of play and creativity both for kids and adults.

Jess finishes off the episode with a guided mindfulness exercise, offering a moment of calm reflection on finding a balance between productivity and creative expression in today's fast-paced world.

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If you want to hear more from Jess and Scott about food and eating, listen to “Is It Healthy Eating, Or Is It Trauma? Unpacking Scott’s Relationship With Food”.

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How To Talk To Kids About Food And Body Image Nov 25, 2024

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In this heartfelt and thought-provoking episode, hosts Scott and Jess explore the complex relationship between food, parenting, and childhood development. Inspired by a viral social media post about body image and food messaging, they explore how parents can foster healthy relationships with food by focusing on family rituals, mindful eating, and meaningful connection rather than restriction.

Jess and Scott share personal experiences, including their own family dinner traditions and weekend donut rituals. They reveal how food struggles often point to unmet relational needs and offer practical ways to approach these challenges with empathy and understanding.

Some important topics discussed in the episode include:

Food as Connection: Discover how food issues often reflect underlying relationship dynamics.
Positive Memories: Learn how to create meaningful rituals that build healthy associations with food.
Mindful Eating: Equip your children with tools to develop a balanced and intuitive approach to eating.

This episode offers valuable insights for parents looking to nurture a happy, healthy attitude toward food in their families.

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Is Teaching Your Partner About Parenting Exhausting You? Nov 18, 2024

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In this episode, Jess and Scott answer a listener's question about sharing the mental load of parenting. Jess talks about times when she felt like she carried most of the mental load and how Scott and her now split the work of parenting. They discuss the challenges of balancing roles, especially when one parent feels like the default decision-maker, educator, and emotional support.

Key takeaways for listeners include:

How to approach conversations about mental load in a way that strengthens your partnership.
Strategies to encourage reluctant partners to engage more fully in the parenting journey.
Ideas for setting boundaries and creating shared responsibilities so neither parent feels solely responsible.

Whether you feel overwhelmed as the default parent or want to be a more engaged partner, this episode offers practical wisdom for creating a united parenting team. Don't miss Jess and Scott's candid discussion of their own parenting journey and struggles!

During the episode, Jess mentions an episode with Josh, a skeptical dad. You can listen to his episode here.

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Is It Ok To Tease Your Kids? Nov 11, 2024

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In this laughter-filled episode, Scott and Jess dive into the delicate balance of teasing and playfulness with kids. They discuss how to be playful without going too far, share hilarious stories about their family's creative characters like "Sean" the hand puppet, and provide practical tips for connecting with children through humour.

Some important topics discussed in the episode include:

Recognizing how a child's understanding of humour develops with age
Respecting boundaries around teasing
Using playfulness as a tool to connect with kids and diffuse tense situations

Listeners will gain valuable strategies for bringing more fun and laughter into their parenting while avoiding potentially hurtful teasing.

Do you want to be a more playful parent but aren’t sure where to start? The Playful Parent Toolkit is full of easy games and playful tools to do with your kids. Learn more about The Playful Parent Toolkit here.

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