Religion on the Mind

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The Israel-Palestine Conflict Is Not End Times Evidence (#216) Oct 10, 2023

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In this brief solo episode, Dan shares some quick anxiety-relieving thoughts about the way that the unfolding Israel-Palestine conflict will inevitably, but falsely, be linked to predictions about the “End Times.”

End Times Anxiety: Part 1:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000462348895

End Times Anxiety: Part 2:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000463143577

End Times Anxiety: Part 3:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000463784092

End Times Anxiety: Part 4:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000464463258

End Times Popularity Part 1:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000487665623

End Times Popularity Part 2:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000488367624

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Is it Deconstruction, or Running Away? (#215) Oct 09, 2023

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Matthias Roberts joins me again! Previously we talked about healing from sexual shame; this week, he builds a bridge from that conversation to his new book Holy Runaways. After coming to terms (more or less) with sexuality issues, Matthias found that he and many of his friends were still unsure what to do with the whole “faith” thing. What was salvageable, and what were the stakes of ignoring this question? How can we avoid swapping one tribal manifesto for another?

Matthias’s Book “Holy Runaways”:

https://matthiasroberts.com/holyrunaways/

Matthias’s Book “Beyond Shame”:

https://matthiasroberts.com/beyondshame/

Sexual Shame (#67) with Matthias:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000476415323

To Critique Purity Culture (#22):

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000438857512

Denying & Embracing Emotions (#144) with Becky Castle Miller:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000550307589

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The Psychology of Christian Nationalism (#214) (Excerpt) Oct 05, 2023

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*Full episode on the Patreon feed*

Psychotherapist Pamela Cooper-White shares about her book “The Psychology of Christian Nationalism." We talk about white supremacy, conscious and unconscious needs, motivating via fear, “crisis merchants,” and when to ask yourself questions like, "Am I the right person to have this convo?" or "Is this the right setting for this convo"?

Pamela’s Book “The Psychology of Christian Nationalism”: https://www.amazon.com/Psychology-Christian-Nationalism-People-Across/dp/1506482112\

Pamela’s Book “Exploring Practices of Ministry”: https://www.amazon.com/Exploring-Practices-Ministry-Foundations-Learning/dp/1451488939/ref=sr_1_1?crid=25OH51087TRPE&keywords=exploring+practices+of+ministry&qid=1696466135&s=books&sprefix=exploring+practices+of+ministry%2Cstripbooks%2C114&sr=1-1

“The Psychology of Religious Fundamentalism” Episode with Pete Hill: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-psychology-of-religious-fundamentalism-34/id1448000113?i=1000448442686

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An Existential Road Trip with Tripp Fuller (#213) Oct 03, 2023

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Dan and Tripp Fuller get themselves psyched for their upcoming online pop-up learning community on existentialism by sharing songs that remind them of death, isolation, freedom, meaning/meaninglessness, and courage.

Learn more or sign up for their class, “Live Before You Die: Existentialism in Theology & Psychology”: exploringexistentialism.com

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I Don't Believe in That God - Satanist Stephen Long (#212) Sep 26, 2023

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On the most recent "I Don't Believe in That God," Dan talks with former Christian missionary and current minister in The Satanic Temple Stephen Bradford Long. Stephen defines Satanism as he and Dan discuss three or four options for what people imagine when they hear the term "Satanist." Stephen shares his story from Charismatic Presbyterianism, through mainline Protestantism, to atheism, and eventually to The Satanic Temple, which was formed in 2013 as a reformation of the more widely-popular Leveyan Satanism of the 20th century. What will Dan and Stephen ultimately agree and disagree about? Listen to find out!

Stephen's Website: https://stephenbradfordlong.com/

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After Universalism, Why Does Religion Matter? (#211) Sep 21, 2023

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Kristen’s back with Dan to ask some of your burning Q’s and get some A’s! After talking about the need or value of religion after believing no one goes to Hell, Kristen also asks:

If you could have a beer with one character from a Sci-Fi or Superhero or Fantasy genre who would it be and why?

What are you going to teach your kid about sex?

What are some meta-narratives in pop-culture that you enjoy that help us wrestle with some of life's important big questions?

What are boundaries and how can people actually set them?

How does an ex-pastor find a calling after deconstruction?

Greg Cootsona's Episode"The Church is Good for You" #119: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000522907595

Hell & Universalism in a Global Context (#84): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hell-universalism-in-a-global-context-84/id1448000113?i=1000492798796

My Therapist Aid - Strength Finders Test: https://www.therapistaid.com/worksheets/strengths-exploration

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Is Christianity Inherently Toxic? (#210) Sep 18, 2023

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Earlier this summer, some mild controversy around a video released by Pete Enns (Bible/Faith for Normal People) brought up some interesting questions. First, if someone has experienced a particularly “toxic” version of Christianity, how equipped are they to speak about the larger Christian tradition? Second, is all Christianity inherently “toxic” (and how do we define “toxic”)? In a dual-feed episode with Tim Whitaker of The New Evangelicals, Dan and Tim explore these questions.

https://www.thenewevangelicals.com/

https://www.instagram.com/thenewevangelicals/

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What Does a Healthy Spiritual Leader Even Look Like? (#209) Sep 11, 2023

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Dr. Steven Sandage (Boston University) joins Sarey Concepcion and myself for a fairly wide-ranging conversation about his own story and some of the topics he has focused on during his research career, including:

-Healthy Spiritual Leadership

-Spirituality as a way to maintain healthy relationships

-Attachment & differentiation

-How gender plays a role in healthy leadership

-Humility

-Unconscious loyalties

Steve’s Faculty Page: https://www.bu.edu/sth/profile/steven-j-sandage/

Daryl Van Tongeren’s YHP Ep “The Good of Religion Without the Bad”: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000598265196

Daryl Van Tongeren YHP Episode “You Are Not Your Beliefs”: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-have-permission/id1448000113?i=1000618349369

Robert Moore’s Book “Facing the Dragon: Confronting Personal and Spiritual Grandiosity”: https://www.amazon.com/Facing-Dragon-Confronting-Spiritual-Grandiosity/dp/1630515086/ref=asc_df_1630515086/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=343187902048&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=7252849562841728375&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9019667&hvtargid=pla-569044490866&psc=1&tag=&ref=&adgrpid=66484626902&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvadid=343187902048&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=7252849562841728375&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9019667&hvtargid=pla-569044490866

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Why Are People Leaving The Church? (Patreon Preview) Sep 07, 2023

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Ex-pastor Brandon Flanery joins Dan to talk through his own research as to why people are currently leaving Christianity for non-Christian or non-religious waters. His sample skews young and LGBTQ-heavy, which is helpful for understanding the experience of sexual and gender minorities around this topic. Check out BrandonFlanery.com for more of his work.

Brandon’s Book “Stumbling: A Sassy Memoir about Coming Out of Evangelicalism”: https://www.lakedrivebooks.com/books/stumbling/

Brandon’s Article on why people are leaving Christianity (Baptist News Global): https://baptistnews.com/article/i-asked-people-why-theyre-leaving-christianity-and-heres-what-i-heard/

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Theology and the Trans Experience (#208) Sep 05, 2023

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From a postmodern perspective, there is no entirely objective “view from nowhere.” The Evangelical tradition, however, presents itself as ahistorical and objective. Trans ordained priest Shannon Kearns reminds us that actively working to understand the history that has shaped current theological perspectives can help us see in what ways it has influenced how we live, vote, and interact with those unlike us. He does so in part by telling his own story and arguing that contextual theologies (trans, liberation, black, feminist, etc.) offer a way to nuance and develop our faith today. Engaging with new theologies may surprise us (we might not agree with Peter and Paul after all!) but may also lead us through a beautiful and worthy struggle.

In the Margins: A Transgender Man's Journey with Scripture book: https://www.amazon.ca/Margins-Transgender-Mans-Journey-Scripture/dp/0802879489

Shannon's Website: https://www.shannontlkearns.com/

Shannon’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/shannontlkearns

Shannon on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannontlkearns

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