Reality Gays with Mattie and Poodle

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**Reality Gays with Mattie and Poodle**

Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including: TLC’s 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Love After Lockup, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you’ve been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show, you’re home Queen!Matt is a clinical psychologist, while Jake is a life coach and teacher. And they both are shady queens who are boggled at the insane ways some of these people search for love in this world. The only thing more certain than a K-1 Visa or a venereal disease is the fact that Jake and Matt will keep you laughing at these lovebirds while also judging their choices. But none of it is mean, because Jake and Matt get it. At the end of the day, aren’t we all just looking for our little piece of love?Follow us Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook.Find all things Mattie & Poodle at www.realitygays.com. An Audacy Podcast.

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The Gayly Dose #92 “Homo for the Holidays” Oct 23, 2026

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The boys discuss two recent TV series, Disney+’s “VisionQuest, and Prime’s “Carrie.”

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Life in Parallel Podcast SNEAK PEEK: "Boys Aren't Nurses" (in 1980s Nebraska) with Dr. James Q. Simmons Oct 22, 2026

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At 28, Dr. James Q Simmons walked away from a six-figure job at PepsiCo to become a nurse. His dad's first question was about the pension.

Matt's longtime friend grew up in Omaha, survived a hate campaign in college and went viral in 2014 answering the health questions everyone Googles at 2 a.m. Now he's a nurse practitioner. We get into the one free thing that will improve your health tonight.

This episode includes discussion of homophobic harassment, suicidal thoughts in childhood, and HIV.

If you or someone you love is struggling, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (US). LGBTQ+ young people can reach The Trevor Project 24/7.

Know a do-lover? Someone building an extraordinary life just outside your social media zip code? Nominating yourself counts. Email us at hello@lifeinparallelpod.com.

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Mentioned:

• Artemis II

• CDC diabetes resources

• The Onion

• Sugarland and The Chicks

• For the record: The Sound of Music and Oklahoma!

Walkout songs (he couldn't pick one):

• "Million Dollar Bill" by Whitney Houston

• "Take Your Time (Do It Right)"

• Pickleball: "Big Bad Wolf"

Breaking the algorithm:

• Dr. Jonathan P. Higgins, author of Black. Fat. Femme. ·&nb ...

90 Day: Hunt For Love 0203 “The Boy Who Called His Mom” Oct 20, 2026

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Chloe turns on Emma, and Brian scrambles to win her back. Jamal's pursuit of Ericka takes a turn as he struggles to let go of Emma. Michael sets his sights on someone new, Kara tests her chemistry with JT, and Razvan moves in on Steven's connection.

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90 Day Fiancé The Other Way 0803 “No Shoes, No Trust, Big Problems” -Our Part 2 Oct 19, 2026

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Part 2!

Jessy gets a rude awakening in the Italian countryside. Andi worries about meeting Nigel's other lovers. Jon goes head-to-head with Ally's best friend. Matilda's surprise for Niles backfires. Ben welcomes Zuri back to France with a language lesson.

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90 Day Fiancé The Other Way 0803 “No Shoes, No Trust, Big Problems” Our Part 1 Oct 19, 2026

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The Gayly Dose Oct 16, 2026

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The boys discuss this week’s Kelly Clarkson bird toy fiasco, as well as the new Netflix series “East of Eden.”

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90 Day: Hunt For Love 0202 “The Boy Who Got Caught Kissing” Oct 13, 2026

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Jamal pursues Ericka but can't shake his feelings for Emma. Steven and Iris grow closer, leaving Michael worried. Brittany learns a secret about Malik, Chloe fears losing Brian to Emma, and Kara finds herself torn between two men.

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90 Day Fiancé The Other Way 0802 “Kiasu, Kancheong, And Carry On” Our Part 2 Oct 12, 2026

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*This is part 2

Jessy arrives in Italy, only to be blindsided by news from Vittorio. Zuri gives Ben and France a second chance, as his friends voice concerns. Andi heads to Australia despite doubts. Matilda's family fumes over Niles' broken promise, while Ally questions her future with Jon.
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90 Day Fiancé The Other Way 0802 “Kiasu, Kancheong, and Carry On” Our Part 1 Oct 12, 2026

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Reality Gays Exposé: Kara Leona of Hunt for Love Oct 10, 2026

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Boy, did she spill some tea y'all!
The boys sat down with Kara in person spilling the tea on Hunt for Love, the scoop on her Last Resort Season with ex Guillermo and so much more!
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