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538: Big Book Study: We Agnostics: Part 2 Jun 18, 2025

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In this episode, we dive deeper into We Agnostics, continuing the conversation around developing a relationship with a Power greater than ourselves. This section of the chapter challenges us to look at our past beliefs—or lack thereof—and how those ideas may have blocked us from getting sober. We break down the spiritual logic laid out in the Big Book, discuss how fear and ego can keep us stuck, and explore what it really means to be open-minded when it comes to spirituality in recovery.

Whether you're new to the steps or revisiting them, this part of the study will help you connect the dots between willingness, faith, and the foundation for lasting sobriety.

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537: From Heroin in the Hospital to 8 Years Sober – Josh's Story of Redemption Jun 15, 2025

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In this episode of Real Recovery Talk, Tom Conrad, Benjamin B, and their guest, Josh, discuss Josh's eight-year sobriety journey. They dive into topics such as geographical change sparked by divine intervention, how life continues to challenge sobriety, and the significant impact of a spiritual journey.

00:00 Introduction of the Episode and Guests

00:21 Josh's Sobriety Journey and Key Moments

00:58 Sponsor Segment - Soberlink

02:29 Introductions Continued

03:42 Discussion on the Reality of Sobriety

14:31 Josh's Experience in Sober Living

17:42 The Importance of Community in Recovery

30:28 Impact of Helping Others in Recovery

35:23 Insights on Treatment and 12-Step Programs

41:10 Personal Reflections and Hobbies

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536: He Recovered from a TERRIBLE OPIOID ADDICTION! Jun 13, 2025

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In this episode, we're joined by Kevin Lanning, host of The Rise Above Podcast, who shares his powerful story of recovery after nearly a decade of battling opiate addiction. Now with 7½ years clean, Kevin opens up about what it truly took for him to achieve long-term sobriety — from hitting bottom to finding purpose through service and connection.

Kevin talks in detail about how working with others has been the driving force behind his recovery and how The Rise Above Podcast has helped him build meaningful relationships, spark honest conversations, and stay grounded in the principles of recovery.

This is a conversation about healing, purpose, and showing up for the next person in line. If you're looking for hope and real insight into what long-term recovery looks like, don't miss this one.

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535: Big Book Study Week 9: We Agnostics: Part 1 Jun 11, 2025

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In Week 9 of our Big Book Study, we dive into the first half of We Agnostics — one of the most pivotal and misunderstood chapters in Alcoholics Anonymous. This section speaks directly to those who struggle with the idea of a Higher Power, offering both challenge and invitation.

We break down how the Big Book addresses resistance, doubt, and past experiences with religion, and why belief doesn't have to come all at once — or look any certain way. If you've ever thought, "I want recovery, but I'm not sure about all this God stuff," this is the episode for you.

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534: To the Addict Who's Still Struggling… Jun 08, 2025

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This one's for the person who's stuck—tired of using, tired of lying, tired of being miserable, but terrified of what sobriety actually looks like. I'm not here to sugarcoat it. Getting clean isn't easy. It takes grit, honesty, and a willingness to do things differently. But it's possible. In this episode, I'm talking directly to you—the addict who knows they need to change but doesn't know where to start. If you've been waiting for a sign, this is it.

You're not broken. You're not hopeless. But you are going to have to fight for the life you want. Let's talk about what that fight looks like… and why it's worth it.

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533: The Dark Side of Sobriety: What They Don't Tell You Jun 06, 2025

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In this episode, we sit down with Kat, who opens up about what it finally took for her to get sober after years of fighting recovery. She shares how she never saw herself as someone who would walk into an AA meeting — and definitely didn't think it would work.

But when nothing else worked, Kat made the decision to surrender. That decision changed everything. Kat talks in detail about how Alcoholics Anonymous helped her rebuild her life from the inside out. Today, she's not just sober — she's thriving, and she's passionate about giving back and helping others find the same freedom she did. If you're on the fence about recovery — or love someone who is — this one's for you.

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532: Big Book Study: Part 2 More About Alcoholism Jun 04, 2025

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In this episode, we continue our deep dive into the Big Book with Part Two of "More About Alcoholism." This section pulls no punches — it lays out what makes us different from the "average drinker," and why self-knowledge, willpower, and good intentions just aren't enough to stay sober.

We break down the powerful stories in this chapter that show just how cunning, baffling, and powerful alcoholism really is — especially when we start thinking we have it all under control. We also talk about the emotional and mental obsession that keeps alcoholics trapped in the cycle, even when they know the consequences.

Whether you're working the steps, revisiting the Big Book, or supporting someone in recovery, this episode is packed with truth, perspective, and reminders of why surrender is the beginning — not the end.

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531: Sick of Being Controlled by Their Addiction? How to measure your own success... Jun 01, 2025

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In today's episode, we open by talking about the latest news surrounding Britney Spears — not to add to the media frenzy, but to reflect on the heartbreaking reality that unfolds when someone you love is in emotional or mental crisis. Her public struggles mirror what so many families quietly go through when a loved one is battling addiction or mental health issues behind closed doors.

That sparks a deeper question we explore in this episode: How do family members measure progress in their own lives, even when their addicted loved one is still in chaos? We shift the focus away from trying to "fix" the addict, and instead talk directly to the family member who's exhausted, confused, and wondering if anything they're doing is actually helping. We offer real tools — boundary-setting, emotional detachment, accountability, and mindset shifts — to help you start regaining your peace, your power, and your sanity. Whether your loved one is still using, in treatment, or you're just trying to hold it together — this episode will give you a new lens and a plan you can start using today.

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530: She Didn't Think AA Was for Her… Until It Saved Her Life May 30, 2025

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529: Big Book Study: More About Alcoholism: Part 1 May 28, 2025

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In this episode, we dive into Part One of "More About Alcoholism" from the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous. This chapter hits hard — it forces us to confront the delusion that so many of us hold onto: that somehow, someday, we'll be able to control and enjoy our drinking.

We break down the stories and examples laid out in this section, and we talk honestly about how dangerous that kind of thinking can be. If you've ever thought, "Maybe this time it'll be different…" — this one's for you. Whether you're in recovery, just starting your journey, or supporting someone who's struggling, this chapter brings powerful clarity.

Part two is coming soon — but for now, we dig into what makes this section so real, so relatable, and so necessary.

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