Raised To Stay

Navigating relationships with women in the church-Body and Soul with Lisa Whittle Aug 26, 2025

In this episode of the I Don't Even Like Women series of the Raised to Stay podcast, Natalie and Lisa Whittle discuss the importance of self-love, body positivity, and understanding our identity as women created in the image of God. They explore the concept of whole body theology, the impact of cultural narratives on body image, and the church's role in fostering healthy conversations about our bodies. The discussion emphasizes the need for women to take control of their thoughts, understand their worth, and embrace a holistic view of health that includes spiritual, emotional, and physical well-being.

Follow Lisa at @lisawhittle
Ger her newest book, Body and Soul now wherever books are sold!

Navigating relationships with women in the church- Embracing Your Sparkle with Sparkle Netto Aug 19, 2025

In this episode, Natalie and Sparkle engage in a heartfelt conversation about the multifaceted roles women play in life and how they can embrace their identities without being confined to societal expectations. Sparkle shares her journey from aspiring to be the first female president to finding her purpose in serving others through her experiences as a mother and a professional. They discuss the importance of rewriting negative scripts, the power of community, and how to navigate failure with resilience. The conversation emphasizes that women can pursue their dreams and support one another in a competitive world, ultimately encouraging listeners to live abundantly and authentically.

Navigating relationships with women in the church- Girls in Ministry with guest Jonetta Prendergast Jul 22, 2025

In this enlightening conversation, Natalie and Jonetta Prendergast explore the complexities of sisterhood among women in ministry. They discuss the importance of healing, the impact of identity issues, and the challenges posed by competition and gossip. Jonetta shares her insights on the mean girl mentality, the significance of the Titus II woman, and the power of prophetic words. They also address the Jezebel spirit and how to navigate toxic environments while encouraging women to seek community and support. The conversation emphasizes the need for transparency, vulnerability, and collaboration in building a strong sisterhood rooted in faith.

Takeaways

Women really do want God.
You need women to help you walk through that space.
It's hard for women to come into intimacy due to identity issues.
You can be anointed, but out of order.
Don't confuse clique culture with kingdom culture.
Your confidence in me is gonna highlight it.
You have to ask, Lord, what are their intentions towards me?
The enemy has been trying to silence us.
You don't have to accept anything that somebody's saying to you.
You are not responsible for making someone else look good.

Get to know Jonetta at @jonettaprendergast on IG and be part of her online community!

Preorder Natalie's newest book, "I Don't Even Like Women" on Amazon now, coming September 2nd!

Navigating relationships with women in the church- Technicolor Women with Guest Courtney Smallbone Jul 15, 2025

In this conversation, Natalie and Courtney Smallbone explore the theme of women's identity, empowerment, and the importance of community. They discuss the misconceptions surrounding women's expression, the journey of writing 'Technicolor Woman', and the significance of understanding biblical truths about women. The dialogue emphasizes the need for authentic relationships, the challenges of social media, and the responsibility of raising confident children. Ultimately, they encourage women to embrace their uniqueness and seek supportive friendships.
You can order Courtney's book, Technicolor Woman on Amazon at https://a.co/d/49Q9lZx.

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Navigating relationships with women in the church- Women Belong in the...with Guest Becky Johnson, Lead Pastor of Jesus Culture Sacramento Jul 08, 2025

In this episode of the 'Raised to Stay' podcast, Natalie and Becky Johnson, Lead Pastor of Jesus Culture Sacramento explore the complexities of women's roles in ministry, the challenges of vulnerability in the age of social media, and the importance of supportive relationships. They discuss the need for women to champion each other, navigate their callings, and the sacrifices that come with leadership. The conversation emphasizes the significance of understanding one's calling, the dynamics of supportive partnerships, and the necessity of having open discussions about women's roles in the church.

Women are capable of wearing many hats and fulfilling various roles.
Vulnerability on social media can lead to both support and criticism.
Opposition often indicates that one is on the right path.
It's important to manage the tension of social media rather than trying to solve it.
Women need to advocate for their roles and titles in ministry.
Supportive partnerships are crucial for women in leadership.
Not all women have the luxury to choose their roles; many work out of necessity.
Conversations about women's roles in ministry should be initiated by both men and women.
Women should not feel guilty for pursuing their callings, regardless of societal expectations.
Sacrifices are often necessary to pursue leadership roles in ministry.

Follow Becky at @beckyfoxjohnson

Navigating relationships with women in the church- Women are so Emotional with Guest Kristen Boss Jun 30, 2025

In this conversation, Natalie and Kristin Boss explore the complexities of women's experiences in entrepreneurship, emotional health, and personal growth. They discuss the challenges of navigating success, the emotional toll of change, and the importance of community and support among women. Kristin shares her journey from a successful businesswoman to a place of introspection and healing, emphasizing the need for emotional literacy and understanding one's stress responses. The conversation culminates in the introduction of Kristin's new venture, Sondera, aimed at helping individuals understand and manage their emotional health.

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PREORDER THE BOOK "I DON'T EVEN LIKE WOMEN" on Amazon today- available wherever books are sold September 2nd.

How church hurt and spiritual abuse impacts mental health in the church Mar 23, 2025

Join Natalie as she talks with Jeff and Terra Mattson (LMFT, LPC), founders of Living Wholehearted as they discuss the impact of church hurt and spiritual abuse in the church and how counseling can partner with pastors in helping their congregations heal.

Palm Trees and Tent Pegs Mar 23, 2025

Join Natalie as she ministers at Life Church Sisterhood Conference in Wilmington, NC.

SUMMER SERIES- UNPACKING THE BLACK BOXES Jun 02, 2024

Join Natalie for this special summer series of unpacking the black boxes. This week we are unpacking a popular box, "Many don't want their foundations rebuilt on Jesus because they have grown comfortable with the one they've built on the world..." Natalie shares the first four chapters of her new book, The House That Jesus Built and the challenges with inspecting our personal foundations in Christ as well as inspecting our foundations in the local church.

SUMMER SERIES-UNPACKING THE BLACK BOXES May 29, 2024

This summer Natalie unpacks some of the most popular black (and blue) boxes from her Raised to Stay online community.
This week she dives into her latest black box- "Stop trying to get into rooms where God has closed the door- it is very important to know the difference between a Holy Spirit invitation and breaking and entering."

Women In Ministry Apr 03, 2024

Join Natalie and Pastor Christina Hoagland and Jordan Lewis from New Life Church in Colorado Springs, CO as they discuss the role of women in ministry as pastors and carriers of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. This raw conversation is hosted by Natalie and recorded in a special cohort of eighty women who came together weekly to discuss hard and holy topics in ministry- listen in and learn along with us!

The Women Included Dec 14, 2023

Join Natalie at the Free Chapel Divine Conference as she reminds women they were included in the early Church of Acts.

Going Back After Getting Hurt Nov 02, 2023

Natalie joins Pastor David Ruybalid, Faith Renewal and Religious Trauma Informed Recovery Pastor at Life Church Peoria to discuss the challenges of going back into a faith community after being hurt by a trusted leader or organization. David shares his story of sexual and spiritual abuse in the church and how God has used his story to help bring others hope in a healing Father and finding a safe home to rest your weary soul.

If We're Going to Deconstruct the Church, Let's Start with Green Rooms Oct 28, 2023

Natalie Runion, founder of Raised to Stay, addresses her Stayers on their response to her post regarding use of green rooms in the Church. Join her for an Instagram Live recorded a day following her viral post that sent some leaders into self-reflection and others into anger.

Raised to Stay Featuring The Pastor Wives Tell All- What Your Pastor's Wives Want You to Know Oct 17, 2023

Join Natalie as she sits down with her friends, the Pastor Wives Tell All in a discussion on staying, what your pastor's wife is really like, and the beauty of Biblical community.

Raised to Stay Through...Losing Control Apr 12, 2023

Natalie is joined by Pastor Sharon Hodde Miller in this episode addressing our need for control. Sharon leads Bright City Church in Durham, NC with her husband, Ike. She is a best-selling author of multiple books, and holds a PhD on women and calling. She is also a mom of 3! Be ready to be challenged and encouraged as Sharon shares her heart behind her latest book, The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises.

Raised to Stay Through...Identity Crisis Apr 03, 2023

In this episode Natalie shares some of her own story of disappointment when she went through an identity crisis from worship pastor to women's pastor. If you've ever felt like God has bait and switched you, if you've ever been disappointed in an assignment, this episode is for you.

Raised to Stay Through...Marriage and Ministry Mar 28, 2023

Join Natalie and Pastor Gabe Jenkins, a professional liscensed Christian counselor as they talk ministry, marriage and debunk the myths of counseling in the Church.

Raised to Stay Through...Fear of God Mar 07, 2023

Natalie sits down with Amber Jones, Founder of GraceStory Ministries to talk about how her relationship with her earthly father impacted her view of her Heavenly Father. Join us as we go deep into how our relationship with God and the Church can be changed for the good through the power of the Holy Spirit, counseling, and forgiveness.

Raised to Stay Through...Church Hurt Feb 14, 2023

Natalie flies solo on this podcast to talk specifically to church leaders, volunteers and staff about the differences between Church Abuse, Church Hurt and Church Offense. In this episode Natalie challenges Church leadership to take all accusations seriously, to investigate every scenario where a congregant or staff member has experienced abuse or hurt and asks every Christ follower to examine their own hearts when it comes to carrying offense.

Raised to Stay Through...Betrayal Feb 05, 2023

Join Natalie and Pastor Nikki Williams from Bloom Church in Canada as they discuss church hurt, betrayal and now we can stay connected to the Church and Jesus even when we face our own Judas.

Raised to Stay Through...The Unknown Jan 30, 2023

Join Natalie as she talks with Lauren Caldwell about staying in ministry and in the church through seasons of uncertainty and change. Listen in as they discuss the challenges of saying yes to Jesus without a GPS or idea of where we are going and how we can lean into Him, His Word and His people.

Raised to Stay Through...Transitions Jan 22, 2023

Join Natalie and Pastors John and Josy Brockman as they get very personal and candid about staying connected to Jesus and His Church even in seasons of transition. They ask the hard questions such as, "how do you know when it's time to go?" and, "how do we teach our kids obedience in trusting the Lord when He says go?"
You will be challenged and encouraged as well as reminded that you aren't alone in your wondering in this honest conversation of heartbreak, humility and honor when we are most afraid, uncertain and confused. May you know, Jesus is near and you are not alone.

WELCOME TO THE RAISED TO STAY PODCAST Jan 02, 2023

Our first official Raised to Stay Podcast season has begun-welcome to the family! This year we will be interviewing Stayers who have wanted to quit ministry and the Church but have held on through it all and to Jesus. If you're new to the R2S family we are glad you're here.

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