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Season 4: Episode 3: A Dad's story of alienation, family court and fighting for his son with guest, Alan Nov 17, 2021

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In this episode, Christina chats with Alan, a dad who shares his story of high-conflict, alienation, family court, self-representation and out of state custody. Like many dads, Alan wasn't seen as an equal parent by his son's mom and had to overcome numerous obstacles to remain in his son's life. Alan has now become an advocate for dads around the world, amplifying their voice and their rights as parents. To the stepmoms who support their partners through the worst of it - this one is for you. Grab your partner and listen in. About My Guest: Alan is the creator and founder of Fathers Lives Matter and the host of the Fathers Truth Podcast. Find him in Instagram @fatherslivesmatter **This episode is sponsored by StepMom Magazine. Use discount code: Radical20 to save 20% **

Season 4: Episode 2: Words of Wisdom from a Recovering HCBM with Guest, Katie Nov 10, 2021

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We know and understand our side of the story, but what about the ex/bio-mom perspective? In this episode Christina chats with Katie, a single-mom who unpacks the feelings behind her previous high-conflict tendencies. Katie shares the hard work she's done to find peace within herself and her co-parenting relationship. Why does the ex react like that? Does she really hate you? Listen in! About My Guest: Katie is a Coparenting Coach and Mom of two young children, who has been co-parenting for almost five years. She’s been the “crazy bio-mom” a time or two, but has now reformed and peacefully collaborates with her co-parent and his partner. Proof that it can be done! You can find her on Instagram @coparentingpeacefully and www.coparentingpeacefully.com **This episode is sponsored by StepMom Magazine. Use discount code: Radical20 to save 20% **

Season 4: Episode 1: Boundaries in your blended family - how to define and maintain them with guest, Deana Nov 03, 2021

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Welcome to Season FOUR! Christina kicks off the season with psychotherapist Deana Panza to discuss the important topic of boundaries. Boundaries is a big word that gets thrown around a lot, but what does it mean? What doesn't it mean? How do we enforce boundaries with those we love without disrupting all the "blending"? Deana and Christina discuss hot issues like no kids in the bedroom, resentment and the relationship with the ex. Listen In!! About My Guest: Deana is a psychotherapist, speaker, coach, and wellness educator who helps people reconnect with their most authentic selves. For nearly a decade, she has been collaborating with people to empower them to take back control of their lives by helping them get to know their true selves and encouraging them with the power of choice. Website: http://deanapanza.com and Follow her on INSTAGRAM **This episode is sponsored by StepMom Magazine. Use discount code: Radical20 to save 20% **

S3: Episode 33: A couple's blended story of lots of kids, exes and LOVE, with guests Sam & Jenny (Season 3 Finale) Sep 29, 2021

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Welcome to the Season Three Finale!! Christina chats with Sam and Jenny, the husband and wife who are the definition of blended! They are both bio-parents, stepparents, she adopted and they foster! There is never a dull moment with a house full of kids, co-parenting with multiple exes and yup - a high conflict one to boot. Listen in as this inspiring couple shares their love story and how even through the tough stuff, they never doubt the life they've built together and the dreams they have to fulfill. Thank you for making Season 3 amazing - and I look forward to a RAD Season 4 (Coming November 2021) About my Guests: Sam and Jenny reside on 7 acres of land in NW Arkansas surrounded by each of their own bio kids, step kids, with adoption and foster care all mixed in. To add to the circus throw in some goats, chickens, and other various farm animals. Sam is a project manager for a well know paint company and Jenny stays at home managing the family after hairdressing for 20 years and owning a salon. Both are family centered and have a love for tools and motorcycles and being in the garage together when they have time. So much more than a podcast!!! @radicalstepmomspodcast Want to schedule a 1:1 session or become a Radical Member? Head to my website! www.radicalstepmomspodcast.com **This episode is sponsored by StepMom Magazine. Use discount code: Radical20 to save 20% **

S3: Episode 32: Do's & Don'ts when communicating with a high conflict "co-parent", with guest Michelle Sep 22, 2021

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Christina chats with Michelle, a high-conflict resolution coach and attorney who helps parents disengage from high conflict relationships, getting them out of court, and stepping back into their lives. When you're attempting to parent with a high conflict person, you feel like you're walking on eggshells. How do you protect your peace? What are the best ways to communicate? What shouldn't you do? How do you define your boundaries and disengage? Listen in! About My Guest: Michelle uses her unique combination as a certified Martha Beck life coach, a lawyer for almost 20 years, her field of study in Psychology, and her own personal family law experience, to help parents learn how to disengage from a challenging and protracted co-parenting relationship. Visit her here: https://www.coachmichelle.club or on INSTAGRAM So much more than a podcast!!! Instagram: @radicalstepmomspodcast Want to schedule a 1:1 session or become a Radical Member? Head to my website! www.radicalstepmomspodcast.com **This episode is sponsored by StepMom Magazine. Use discount code: Radical20 to save 20% **

S3: Episode 31: What to know & how to work with a Guardian ad Litem, with guest Stacy Sep 15, 2021

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As part of the Court Series, Christina chats with Stacy the supervisor of Pacific Northwest Guardian ad Litem in Washington State. She answers what exactly a GAL does, what to know and how to prepare if you happen to work with one. Stacey not only shares her professional wisdom, but also shares her personal blended family story. Listen in to hear her insights as a bio mom, an ex-stepmom and how she now supports her partner as a step-parent. Enjoy! About My Guest: Stacy is the owner and supervisor of Pacific Northwest Guardian ad Litem. Stacy started as a volunteer GAL, then known as a CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) in Whatcom county in 2012 for title 13 cases (Dependency). She has her BS in Social Sciences and a minor in Law and Justice. Stacy took over as the owner of PNWGAL in 2014, serving children in Skagit and Whatcom County. PNWGAL has been contracted to provide GAL services since 2015 in Skagit County. Though certified as a Title 26 (Family Law) GAL in 2016, her devotion is to abused and neglected children. In 2017, she started the first volunteer advocate program (VGAL) for Skagit County and now focuses her time on supporting, supervising, and training her dedicated group of Guardian ad Litems. So much more than a podcast!!! Come Join the community on Instagram @radicalstepmomspodcast Want to schedule a 1:1 session or become a Radical Member? Head to my website! www.radicalstepmomspodcast.com **This episode is sponsored by StepMom Magazine. Use discount code: Radical20 to save 20% **

S3: Episode 30: Navigating Family Court and Parenting Plans with guest attorney, Diane Sep 08, 2021

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One of the many stressors of blended family life can be navigating the court system. In this episode, Christina chats with Diane Broderson a Family Law Attorney in Washington State. Diane shares her expertise on navigating Family Court and things you can do to be prepared. What are her "must haves" for Parenting Plans? What should you avoid? What's a good holiday schedule? When should you modify the Parenting Plan or Custody Order? Diane also shares her experience as a stepmom and bio mom. What has she learned given the multiple hats she wears? Listen in! Disclaimer: This episode is for informational purposes only. None of the information provided is intended to constitute, nor does it constitute legal advice. About My Guest: Born and raised in the Spokane area, Diane graduated from Whitworth University with a degree in Social Services in 2012 and graduated from Gonzaga Law School in 2017. From the day she applied for law school, family law has been her passion. As the mother of four and stepmother of two kids, she has first-hand experience with many family law issues. You find her at www.farnsworthbroderson.com Or on Instagram @farnsworthbroderson So much more than a podcast!!! Instagram: @radicalstepmomspodcast Want to schedule a 1:1 session or become a Radical Member? Head to my website! www.radicalstepmomspodcast.com **This episode is sponsored by StepMom Magazine. Use discount code: Radical20 to save 20% **

S3: Episode 29: Having the hard conversations & improving communication with your partner AND even the ex, w/ guest Gabby Sep 01, 2021

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Communication is key, right? How do we talk about different parenting styles? Or if our partner has zero boundaries with the ex?? In this episode Christina chats with Gabby, a bio-mom to 2 and a stepmom to 1. Gabby shares her personal journey of divorcing her toxic ex-husband and later meeting her new love. Using her wisdom as a Relationship Coach Gabby shares how to have the hard conversations with our partners, and provides insights into how she improved her own co-parenting relationship with her ex-husband and her stepson's mom. How can we lean into the discomfort and find hope in what feels hopeless? Listen in! About my guest: Gabby Gast is a Relationship Coach focused on improving communication and confidence in Co-Parenting and Blending Families. She shares her personal journey through her successful double-lung transplant while co-parenting, blending her family, and living an authentic life with vulnerability, as she navigates the many challenges and excitements of all things, co-blending. She loves to help parents find their voice again by sharing relatable ways to co-parent with confidence and blend families with compassion. Gabby has a co-blended family with her husband, Paul and their three kids; a boy and girl of her own, and her stepson. They live on a beautiful acre of property in the suburbs of Milwaukee, WI with their dog; Quill, and two cats; Rocket & Groot. Yes, they are a Marvel fan family! You can find Gabby at: www.gabbygast.com or on INSTAGRAM

S3: Episode 28: The decision to have an Ours Baby (OR NOT) with radical soul sister, Maarit Aug 25, 2021

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Christina chats with Maarit from Blended Family Frappè who shares her story of how she decided not to have an ours baby with her beloved husband. What did she consider? What were her fears? How does she feel now, years later? Christina also opens up about the decision to have her daughter and the crossroads her and her husband are now at in deciding if they'll close the door to having more children. Deciding to bring a baby into the world can be complicated, and for stepmoms we have unique considerations. Listen in. About My Guest: Maarit is a writer, artist, and former single mama turned stepmama who literally wrote the book on disengaging. Today, she helps blended families in high conflict find some kinda zen as they navigate their way through dating, marriage, raising stepkids, and dealing with the ex. You can find her online at blendedfamilyfrappe.com or on Instagram @blendedfamilyfrappe. ******************* So much more than a podcast!!! Instagram: @radicalstepmomspodcast Want to schedule a 1:1 session or become a Radical Member? Head to my website! www.radicalstepmomspodcast.com

S3: Episode 27: Christina & Genet answer your questions and play Truth or Dare! Aug 11, 2021

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Genet joins to give an update on what's she's been up to and really, just to say hi and have some fun! Christina and G answer listeners' questions and discuss the decisions they wouldn't make again, how to handle a "Sour Patch" ex ... to name a few. Then they dive into a little truth or dare. Listen in for some real and raw honesty and lots of laughs! Cheers! Find Genet on Instagram: @g_heaven11 So much more than a podcast!!! Instagram: @radicalstepmomspodcast Want to schedule a 1:1 session or become a Radical Member? Head to my website! www.radicalstepmomspodcast.com

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