Queer Sex Ed Podcast

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Sharing Your Desires - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 11 Feb 06, 2018

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Sara and Jay discuss how you can share your sexual and intimate desires, including strategies for starting the conversation, tools you can use to find where your desires overlap, and ways you can build communicative relationships in every aspect of your life.

Also discussed: fetish, fetishization, and a question about being in polyamorous and kink communities as a therapist.

Bex Talks Sex Yes/No/Maybe list: http://www.bextalkssex.com/yes-no-maybe/

Scarleteen's Yes, No, Maybe sexuality checklist: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/yes_no_maybe_so_a_sexual_inventory_stocklist

Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire by Jamie Grant (leader of the Desire Mapping session discussed in this episode) http://www.mappingyourdesire.com/book/

Please send your questions to queersexed@gmail.com for us to answer them on future shows. More information about our mission available at www.queersexed.org. This show is made possible by our generous Patreon supporters! If you find the show helpful and you are financially able to support us, consider joining our Patreon community at www.patreon.com/QueerSexEd. Any amount you can give makes a huge difference for us.

Long Term Relationships and Long Distance Relationships - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 10 Jan 30, 2018

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Sara and Jay discuss different types of LTRs and LDRs, including thoughts on how you can keep connecting over distance and time with the same person or people, how to ask for what you need, and ways you can work together to build your relationships collaboratively.

Also discussed: Consent, #metoo, the impact of sexual violence, and sex toys for fat bodies.

Identifying Desire, Asexuality, and Aromanticism - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 9 Jan 19, 2018

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Hey friends! Sara and Jay discuss desire, exploration, and how you can identify what you want, learn more about sexual activities you may want to try, and how you could pursue those desires alone or with other folks. Also discussed: Asexual/aromantic identities and a discussion of poly friendships and asexual relationships.

Bex Talks Sex Yes/No/Maybe list: http://www.bextalkssex.com/yes-no-maybe/

Scarleteen's Yes, No, Maybe sexuality checklist: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/yes_no_maybe_so_a_sexual_inventory_stocklist

Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire by Jamie Grant (leader of the Desire Mapping session discussed in this episode) http://www.mappingyourdesire.com/book/

Ending Relationships, Allyship, and Sex Work - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 8 Jan 13, 2018

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This week on Queer Sex Ed, we talk about ending relationships in an ethical and direct way. Topics discussed include why relationships end, strategies for ending relationships, and thoughts on how to talk about challenges in a relationship. Also discussed: allyship as an action, dealing with toxic family, and the different types of sex work. Please send your questions to queersexed@gmail.com for us to answer them on future shows. More information about out mission available at www.queersexed.org.

Queerness, Performing Arts, and Trans Dating with Woodzick from the Theatrical Mustang Podcast - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 7 Dec 08, 2017

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Sara sits down with her friend Woodzick, creator of the Non-Binary Monologues Project and host of the Theatrical Mustang Podcast to discuss many different topics including trans allyship, queerness, trans dating, and being in the performing arts as a non-binary person.

You can listen to episodes of Woodzick's podcast at www.theatricalmustang.podbean.com/ or on any podcast app.

You can find out more about the Non-Binary Monologues Project here: www.nonbinarymonologues.wordpress.com/

You can find out more about Woodzick's stage show featuring Sara here: www.facebook.com/events/131741140865479/

Please support Queer Sex Ed on Patreon at www.patreon.com/queersexed or directly through one-time gifts on Venmo at @SConnell (if you've decided not to use Patreon due to their recent changes)

Jealousy, Compersion, and Building Inclusive Spaces - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 6 Nov 27, 2017

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Episode 6 is finally here! We talk about what jealousy actually is, how jealousy is a second-order emotion, and how you can reverse engineer your jealousy to discover more about your own needs, insecurities, and unmet desires. This discussion draws deeply from this article on More Than Two: https://www.morethantwo.com/jealousypractice.html This show also includes a conversation about how you can help make all spaces more intersectionally inclusive. There is also a short segment about compersion, a word that describes the joy poly people feel when they see their partners have pleasure and joy with another person. Finally, we have an amazing announcement! Thanks to our supporters on Patreon at www.patreon.com/queersexed, QSE will now be a weekly podcast! We're so excited to bring you more content, interviews, live shows, and collaboration with other shows. We still need your financial support, so if you believe in this work and you're in a position where you can help, any amount is meaningful for making this show sustainable for a long-term future. When we reach $1,000 a month, we will launch a queer-focused media discussion podcast! Theme Music by: The Platypussies Additional music provided by: Secession Studios . . . This episode of Queer Sex Ed was brought to you by: Emily, Sophie, and 20 other generous Patreon Subscribers. You can check out more from our supporters below You can submit your work to Tooth N Nail Vol. 2 here: submit@bytoothnnail.com You can support Sophie Labelle here: https://www.etsy.com/shop/AssignedMale

Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 5 Oct 25, 2017

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Sara and Jay are BACK from a two month hiatus and we're talking about one of our favorite topics, group sex! What is a unicorn? How can you find more group sex in your life? What does aftercare look like when you've had group sex? Answers to these questions and more, including your voicemail questions, on QSE this month! We also discuss helping a partner work through past trauma, kink on a budget, hooking up 101, and a ton of other things.

You can follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/QueerS3xEd and on Twitter @QSEpodcast

If you have learned something from this show and you want to support Sara's work with QSE and out in the world, please consider giving a monthly gift to us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/QueerSexEd. Thank you!

What is Queer Sex Ed? Oct 02, 2017

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Queer Sex Ed is an imperative statement. When we call to "Queer" Sex Ed, it is a call-to-arms for sexual health educators, schools, parents, and people in all types of relationships to intentionally "queer" the institutions of sexual communication, sexual health, interpersonal relationships, and relationship structure. We believe that we must turn sex ed on its head. Even when sex ed is at its best, it is often (intentionally or unintentionally) exclusionary of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, gender queer, gender fluid and, agender people, polyamorous people, asexual people, people with disabilities, and so many more social groups who engage in just as many relationships as straight, cisgender, and monogamous people, but who are forced to do so through uncharted waters, lack of media representation, and massive social stigma. Listen to episodes of our podcast in Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or any other podcast app on iPhone, Android, and Windows Phone. capbr7ns Click here to listen online. Please send your feedback, guest ideas, and booking inquiries for workshops to: queersexed@gmail.com

Sara at Bedpost Confessions and Slutwalk - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 4 Sep 02, 2017

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Hey friends, it's Sara! Even though the show is technically still on hiatus until October, I thought it might be fun to share two performances I recently had at sex positive events. I grabbed the audio track from when I performed my monologue about my first threesome at Bedpost Confessions and also the poetry I read as a speaker at Slutwalk 2017. I hope you enjoy these quickies, and we will be back in the middle of October with another full-size episode hosted by myself and Jay. vwpagifu

Solo Polyamory, Transition, and Kink with Lisa from the Elephant Talk Podcast - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 3 Aug 12, 2017

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This week we are cross-posting an interview Sara did on the Elephant Talk Podcast! She will be on an upcoming episode in Elephant Talk Season 2, but Lisa and Kim wanted us to post the full, unedited Director's Cut version of the interview here, since we recorded way more content then they will be able to use in their shorter format. Sara dives deep in this episode into her own experience of her trans body, her current relationship style of Solo Polyamory, and her thoughts on kink, communication, and consent. You can subscribe to Elephant Talk on Apple Podcasts or any podcasting app of your choice (and I'd highly recommend it). You can also follow them on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ElephantTalkPodcast and online at www.elephanttalk.org

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