Pure Desire Podcast

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383 - How Data Leads To Change w/ Daniel Copeland (Part 2/8) Nov 05, 2024

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Daniel Copeland, Senior Lead Researcher of Barna Group, joins the podcast today for the second episode in our 8-part deep dive into the new data on pornography use, its impact on relationships, mental health, and the Church. Together, they explore how this research can guide the Church in addressing sexual brokenness and provide real hope for healing. This eight episode deep dive into Beyond the Porn Phenomenon features the voices of people prominently featured in the report.

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382 - Beyond The Porn Phenomenon w/ David Kinnaman (Part 1/8) Oct 29, 2024

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David Kinnaman, CEO of Barna Group, joins the podcast today to help kick off an 8-part deep dive into the new data on pornography use, its impact on relationships, mental health, and the Church. Together, with Nick Stumbo and Ashley Jameson, they explore how this research can guide the Church in addressing sexual brokenness and provide real hope for healing.

This eight episode deep dive into Beyond the Porn Phenomenon features the voices of people prominently featured in the report.

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381 - Moving Beyond Sobriety W/ Jenna Riemersma Oct 22, 2024

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Jenna Riemersma is back again to explore why true healing goes beyond sobriety. This is a deep dive into the role of trauma and how Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy addresses underlying issues that drive compulsive behaviors. Whether you’re new to recovery or looking to deepen your healing journey, Jenna’s insights will offer fresh perspectives on understanding and embracing the parts of ourselves that carry pain and shame. Don't miss this powerful conversation on moving beyond mere behavior change to experiencing true transformation.

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380 - Caring For Partners Well Oct 15, 2024

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Jeanne Vittoni is the president of APSATS (Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists) and joins the podcast to discuss the vital role of partner care in sex addiction recovery.

With over 25 years of experience working with trauma survivors, Jeanne unpacks how understanding trauma symptomatology, setting up safe support systems, and getting proper training can accelerate the healing process.

Jeanne shares her insights on trauma recovery for betrayed partners, why it’s important to address both the addict’s and the partner’s healing, and how proper trauma care can transform a relationship.

Whether you're a struggling addict, a betrayed partner, or a professional wanting to offer better support, this episode will provide valuable strategies for navigating the road to recovery together.

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APSATS Website

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Your Sexually Addicted Spouse Book

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379 - The Role of Intensives in Recovery Oct 08, 2024

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Nick is joined by Robert Vander Meer and Matt Wenger to discuss the transformative impact of two-week intensives on sexual addiction recovery. This episode is a deep dive into the TINSA model (Trauma-Induced Sexual Addiction) exploring how intensives help uncover the "why" behind addiction and the importance of addressing both personal trauma and relational healing.

Matt Wenger is the Clinical Director of Boulder Recovery in Boulder, Colorado.

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378 - Intimate Deception w/ Dr. Sheri Denham-Keffer Oct 01, 2024

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Today’s guest, Dr. Sheri Denham-Keffer, is the author of Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal, a therapist, and betrayed partner herself.

Dr. Denham-Keffer shares insights on betrayal trauma, healing, and recovery. This episode offers hope and guidance for those facing betrayal or compulsive sexual behaviors. The discussion covers the impact of sexual deception, the importance of truth-telling, and practical steps for partners to rebuild their lives.

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Intimate Deception: Healing The Wounds Of Sexual Betrayal

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Betrayal Recovery Roadmap

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377 - Launching Pure Desire Group: A Church Success Story Sep 24, 2024

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Nick and Rodney sit down with Pastor Ryan Oletzke of True Hope Church in Spokane, Washington, to discuss how to start Pure Desire groups in your church, break shame, and build a culture of honesty.

Ryan shares how his church addressed sexual brokenness by launching Pure Desire groups, starting with over 200 people participating in Sexual Integrity 101. He offers practical insights on building a culture of vulnerability, lowering shame, and leading a church to find healing and freedom.

This episode is a must-listen for pastors and church leaders looking to make a real impact in their communities by addressing sexual health and recovery.

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TrueHope Website

Barna Report Link

How to Start Pure Desire Groups brochure.

Parent Training Course

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376 - Reaching the Next Gen Sep 17, 2024

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This episode explores the challenges young people face today, including mental health issues, pornography, and the impact of growing up in the digital age.

Ben Bennett, leader of the Resolution Movement, shares his experience connecting with Gen Z through social media and offering hope, freedom, and healing through the message of Christ. Join Nick Stumbo, John Begeman, and Ben as they discuss how curiosity, compassion, and authentic relationships can help guide this generation toward healthy sexuality and mental well-being.

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375 - Facing Our Trauma Story Sep 10, 2024

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Today, we’re welcoming Louie Kazemier to the podcast. Louie is a longtime friend of Pure Desire and opens up about confronting childhood trauma, overcoming resistance to group therapy, and finding freedom from compulsive sexual behavior. His story is a testament to the power of vulnerability, community, and God’s grace in the healing process.

Whether you’re on your own recovery journey or supporting someone else, this episode offers hope and encouragement. Tune in to hear Louie’s inspiring story of transformation.

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Seven Pillars of Freedom

The Compassionate Warrior

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374 - 10 Mistakes When Launching Recovery Groups Sep 03, 2024

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Today, Nick Stumbo and Rich Moore explore 10 common mistakes churches make when launching recovery groups. They share practical advice on avoiding pitfalls like isolating or shaming language and the dangers of a quick-fix approach.

This episode is essential for pastors and leaders looking to create and sustain effective, long-lasting recovery groups within their church community.