Positively Sex! with Lila

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Kiss & Tell: SEXUAL DEBUTS! Nov 04, 2022

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To quote the Sex Educator Marcia B.: "There are so many cherries to be popped!"

What if we stopped calling it "losing my virginity"? What, actually, did we lose? And where, in fact, would it have gone?

Virginity is a thing of made-up importance instituted in an attempt to sell daughters into marriage for more land, or more cows. The only time someone actually loses their virginity is when it is taken from them against their will.

Let's start calling it our sexual debut. Better yet, let's start telling tales of our sexual debuts, plural! There are so many debuts to be had! Your solo sex debut. Your threesome debut. Your voyeur debut. Your kinky role play debut!

A client of mine reports having more debuts in his 60s than he did in his 20s – we can have so much to look forward to!

In this episode, we will hear the tales of three juicy (some of them, literally) sexual debuts that don't require a penis entering an orifice!

PS! Meow meow meow!

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Sex, but make it self-worth! Oct 28, 2022

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My dear listener… Welcome to my heart. I am more unvarnished than I have possibly ever been in this conversation, unexpectedly, with a beautiful stranger, who is now a beautiful friend. Chris Thompson also known as @supdaily is an Influencer worthy of the name.

Our unexpectedly deep conversation was recorded, of all places, at Podcast Movement 2022, at the iHeart Radio booth, fueled by the finest cold brew and the excitement of meeting a new kindred. He is full of empathy and emotional intelligence, warmth and care. I love him. So do millions of other people. I am very lucky to know him.

We began by talking about sex and gender and dating, and gendered dating, & bondage… and we wound up talking about core wounds, therapy, sexual assault, healing, EMDR, and trauma. Join us for this deep sea dive, darling.

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HOW TO HACK SEX! Oct 21, 2022

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So, you want to be better at sex, eh? GRAND! You have come to the right place, darling.

In this episode, I sit down for a one-on-one with Kenneth Play, the World's Greatest Sex Hacker (according to GQ & Men's Health). Author of the book "Beyond Satisfied" and creator of the single greatest sex ed resource I have ever encountered (for learning how to please a pussy), the "Pleasure Hacker Pro" course, Kenneth is a force for female pleasure across the planet.

He has personally changed my sex life with his guidance, many times over, and now, perhaps, he just might change yours.

In our first PS! episode together (though, certainly not the last), Kenneth offers us 13 takeaways: tips, tricks, tools, and hacks we can apply immediately! tonight! in service of a more pleasurable life.

And who doesn't want a more pleasurable life? Come on now. VIVA LA PLEASURE! VIVA!

PS! You too, can be a Sex Hacker. It just takes a little bit of practice. Mwah!

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What is sex, anyway? Oct 13, 2022

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Welcome to Positively Sex! Sex Ed, with Pleasure, a sex-positive talk show on timely, titillating, tender, and sometimes taboo themes.

Most of us were taught — if we were taught anything about sex at all — that sex is about procreation. And so, most of us grew up believing the only real sex is the kind you can make a baby with.

If babymaking sex is not the definition you want to go by anymore — and it's certainly not the one I want to go by anymore — then I have a question: What is sex, anyway?

So I took to the parks and the streets of my city: New York City — a place where you can find every kind of person and every sort of opinion on any given corner.

People seem to be thinking more deliberately about sex than ever before. And that, darling, is Positively Sex!

P.S. Mwah!

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Introducing: Positively Sex! with Lila Sep 29, 2022

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Come here... Let me tease(r) you.. Positively Sex! is Sex Ed, with Pleasure...

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