Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments

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Case Study: Is Perfectionism Killing Your Parenting Joy? Oct 29, 2024

What if the journey to better parenting starts with accepting our imperfections? In this week's episode, I have a heartfelt conversation with one of my listeners as we explore the emotional process of reparenting ourselves while we raise our children.

Pavlina, a dedicated mother striving to balance her own healing process wants to be more present for her two-and-a-half-year-old daughter. She faces the challenge of overcoming avoidance parenting, a tendency rooted in her upbringing, and aims to create a nurturing, playful environment for her child. We explore the delicate balance of empathy, self-acceptance, and the joy of connection in parenting.

In This Episode:

Combating avoidance parenting tendencies
Navigating emotional triggers from your own childhood
Incorporating empathy into daily interactions
The impact of striving for perfection
Cultivating joy and playfulness in parenting

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Encouraging Our Kids to Stand Up for Themselves Oct 24, 2024

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Are you torn between teaching your child to stand up for themselves and maintaining respect? It’s a struggle many of us face, but what if we allowed our kids the space to practice—even if they don’t get it right the first time?

Today on Peace and Parenting I dive head first into a topic many parents wrestle with: Can we truly let our children stand up for themselves if we always require them to be respectful? Parenting is messy, and kids need space to make mistakes as they learn important life skills. By giving them a safe place to practice expressing themselves, especially when it’s uncomfortable for us, our children can grow into empowered, confident adults.

In This Episode:

Kids learning to stand up for themselves
The balance between free will and respect
Why it’s okay for kids to “get it wrong”
Allowing space for self-expression and mistakes
Parenting from a place of empathy, not control
How to be a safe space for your child’s growth

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Case Study: How to Handle Co-parenting After Divorce Oct 22, 2024

What happens when the family you imagined doesn’t turn out the way you planned? How do you navigate single parenting while ensuring your children thrive in both homes? Today is a heartfelt episode where I sit down with Beth, a fellow single mom, to discuss the challenges and triumphs of raising kids post-divorce, co-parenting, and creating a nurturing environment without letting conflict define the journey.

As a mother of two teens and someone who’s experienced the highs and lows of divorce, I share with Beth some personal insights on how empathy has been the cornerstone of my parenting approach. Together, we talk about the pain of missing out on moments in our children's lives and how to handle those difficult emotions while staying connected to our kids.

No matter where you are in your parenting journey—whether newly separated or a seasoned single parent—this episode offers a compassionate perspective on creating a supportive, loving environment for your children, even when the family structure changes.

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Navigating single parenting post-divorce
Importance of empathy in co-parenting
Managing emotions when kids are with your ex
How to handle missing out on special moments
Using play as a tool for emotional release

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Is Your Strong-Willed Child Struggling with Aggressive Behavior? Oct 17, 2024

Is your child acting out, biting, or hitting their sibling despite your best efforts? What if the problem isn’t defiance but disconnection? Today I talk about a family I worked with recently who struggled to raise a strong-willed child. They had tried everything: timeouts, punishments, and rewards, but nothing worked to stop the aggression.

As I dive into this family's journey, I explain why punitive measures often backfire and how shifting focus toward connection can create the change we’re all looking for. I share with you how I guided this family to stop using threats and start using special time and empathy. You'll hear the small but powerful steps that led to a transformation, both for the child and the family dynamic.

In This Episode:

Punishments worsen aggression, not solve it
Connection as the foundation of behavior change
The power of empathy and special time
How to stop sibling rivalry from escalating
Shifting from punitive measures to understanding
The importance of removing shame from discipline

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Case Study: How Unschooling Helps Create Independent Kids Oct 15, 2024

Are you tired of the traditional school system stifling your child’s natural curiosity? Have you ever wondered what it would be like to trust your child to lead their own learning journey?

Today, I am joined by Leah McDermott, a homeschooling expert and advocate for unschooling. Leah shares her personal journey, starting as a rigid, homeschooled child and how she transitioned into a more flexible, child-led approach to education. We discuss the emotional and practical challenges of unschooling, including how societal fears and conditioning can make it difficult to trust our children to learn at their own pace.

If you’re curious about how unschooling works in real life or how to foster a deeper relationship with your kids, this episode is a must-listen.

In This Episode:

Shifting from homeschooling to unschooling
How schools disconnect kids from curiosity
Trusting children’s natural ability to learn
Overcoming societal fears around unschooling
Why connected parenting and unschooling overlap
Creating a safe space for independent learning

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Why Restricting Social Media Could Be More Dangerous Than You Think Oct 10, 2024

Are you worried about your child’s safety on social media? It's easy to jump to the idea of banning electronics, parties, or risky behaviors altogether, but do restrictions really protect them? Today i open up a can of worms as I tackle the tough topic of social media and explore a different approach to keeping our kids safe.

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Should you restrict social media completely?
Why strong connections reduce risky behavior
Handling tricky situations like parties and curfews
Balancing autonomy with guidance for teens
Creating open dialogue around social media usage

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Case Study: How to Respond When Your Child Withdraws Oct 08, 2024

How do you handle it when your child withdraws in tough moments? We've all been there, right? We want our kids to open up about their feelings, but we’re faced with silence or resistance. This can leave us feeling helpless and unsure of how to connect with them when they seem to shut down emotionally.

Today, I talk with a listener named Stevie, who shares her struggles with her 9-year-old daughter’s reluctance to express her emotions, especially after witnessing conflict at home. I share with her how our urgency to “fix” things can often create even more distance, and explore how empathy, patience, and a shift in mindset can bring us closer to our children without pushing them to talk before they’re ready.

In This Episode:

How to respond when kids shut down
Why space and empathy matter more than words
The power of repair in front of your kids
Breaking the cycle of parenting from guilt
How to honor your child's emotional boundaries

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What My Daughter Really Thinks About My Parenting Oct 03, 2024

Have you ever worried that being "too soft" might set your kids up for failure in the harsh realities of life? Or maybe you’ve heard that using connection instead of consequences will spoil your children. Today is a special episode for me because I sit down with my oldest daughter Esme, who’s just about to leave for college, to reflect on our 18-year parenting journey. Together, we debunk the myths surrounding connective parenting and explore how it has shaped her into a self-assured, empathetic young adult.

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Misconceptions about “soft” parenting and discipline
How empathy fosters resilience and self-esteem
Benefits of letting kids learn responsibility
The impact of no punishments on long-term behavior
Encouraging independence through connection

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Case Study: Struggling with Boundaries? This Should Help Oct 01, 2024

Ever feel like you’re stuck between what you know is best and what your instincts tell you to do in the heat of the moment? You’re not alone! Today I am tackling a battle many parents face, choosing connection over consequences when setting limits for our kids.

Today, I talk with podcast listener Cecilia, a mom of three, as we discuss the struggles many of us face when balancing connective parenting with the pressures to revert to punishments. We talk about everything from the challenges of setting boundaries with empathy to how we can reframe our kids’ misbehavior as a moment of dysregulation, not defiance.

In This Episode:

Reframing behavior as a moment of dysregulation
Why punishment doesn’t foster lasting change
Strategies for setting limits with empathy and play
How to build connection in tough moments
Shifting your mindset to create lasting change

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The #1 Factor for Raising Successful Children Sep 26, 2024

Are You Taking Care of Yourself as a Parent? We all want our kids to thrive, but what if the key to their success lies in our own happiness? In this episode, I dive into the research from the University of Ohio that explores the profound impact a mother’s happiness has on her child’s success. This study found that a mother’s well-being is the most crucial factor for a child’s development, more important than anything else. But what does that really mean for us as parents?

In This Episode:

The importance of parental happiness for child success
Balancing self-care with parenting demands
How children are attuned to their parents’ emotions
The connection between self-care and parenting
Real-life examples of managing happiness as a parent

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Case Study: How to Stop Fixing Your Child's Feelings Sep 24, 2024

What if we didn't need to fix our children's feelings? Imagine if the key to a peaceful household lies not in solving every problem but in simply being present. Today, we explore the transformative power of witnessing our children's emotions.

In today's case study, I chat with Shweta, a mother to two children, about the struggle of managing her nine-year-old daughter’s anxiety. Shweta shares the weight of feeling responsible for her child's emotional well-being and the pressure she places on herself to "fix" everything. We unpack the importance of validating our children's feelings without rushing to solutions and how this practice can lead to deeper connections and fewer anxiety-driven outbursts.

In This Episode:

Why the need to fix our children’s feelings is a myth
The importance of witnessing and validating emotions
Letting go of guilt and control
Embracing tantrums for emotional release
Building deeper connections through empathy

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Punishments Won’t Help Your Kid Prepare for the “Real World” Sep 19, 2024

Today, I tackle one of the most common concerns I hear from parents: Am I doing my kids a disservice by not using punishments and consequences? Many argue that without experiencing the "real world" of control and manipulation, children won’t be able to cope when they face it as adults. But is that really true?

I believe raising children with connection, empathy, and unconditional love doesn’t leave them unprepared for the real world, it actually makes them more resilient. Instead of learning to accept harsh treatment, my kids know how to walk away from it. They understand the value of boundaries, and they seek out relationships that nurture rather than control. Let’s redefine what it means to truly prepare our children for the world ahead. It’s not about toughening them up; it’s about teaching them to thrive.

In This Episode:

Why connection builds true resilience in kids
How gentle parenting prepares kids for the real world
The harmful myth of “necessary” consequences
Teaching children to walk away from toxic situations
Encouraging kids to expect kindness in relationships

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Case Study: Why Rewards Aren't Working in Your Potty Training Journey Sep 17, 2024

Is your child resisting potty training? What if the secret to smoother potty training is all about connection? Join me today as I tackle a common parenting dilemma: potty training with one of my Instagram followers, Jamie. We'll discuss her experiences with potty training her spirited three-year-old daughter.

Jamie shares her challenges, from her daughter’s resistance to potty training to the battles around diaper changes. I'll share strategies prioritizing connection, empathy, and letting go of control and guide Jamie on adopting a more connective approach, highlighting the effectiveness of special time and play in resolving conflicts.

In This Episode:

Connecting through special time
Setting limits with empathy
Avoiding control battles in potty training
Understanding the impact of new siblings
Reframing diaper changes with play

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Why Don’t My Kids Listen? Sep 12, 2024

Ever feel like every request turns into a battle with your kids? You ask them to put their shoes on, help with chores, or even just sit down for dinner, and instead of cooperation, you get resistance or silence. It’s frustrating, right? But here’s the big question: What if their refusal has less to do with defiance and more about how they FEEL about the relationship?

Today, I tackle why our kids may not cooperate and how it relates to our connection. I explore how common parenting techniques, like punishments and rewards, often backfire, creating distance instead of understanding. If we shift our approach, it can transform daily interactions with our kids, bringing more peace and cooperation into our homes without resorting to punitive measures.

In This Episode:

Why do kids refuse to listen or cooperate
Defiance or disconnection, what’s really happening?
The negative effects of punishments and rewards
How to use empathy and play to encourage cooperation
Adjusting expectations for more harmony at home

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Case Study: How to Stop Fighting Over Screen Time Sep 10, 2024

Is your child constantly glued to their screen? Do you feel torn between setting strict boundaries and fostering trust? In today’s world, technology is everywhere, and balancing it with real-life connection can feel overwhelming. How do we guide our kids through it without falling into the trap of punishments and control?

In this episode, I talk with Melissa, a fellow mom, about the daily challenges of managing her daughters' screen time and maintaining a healthy relationship with them. I share with her the tricky balance between allowing technology in our kids’ lives and ensuring they are still grounded in the real world. We also tackle the challenges of not letting electronics become the villain in every sibling dispute and why letting our kids learn from their own screen habits can be more powerful than strict rules.

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Managing screen time without creating conflict
How to set limits without control
Sibling fights: When the phone isn’t the issue
The importance of open conversations about online safety
Why connection is the best defense against tech risks

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Are You Giving Your Kids Real Choices or Empty Options? Sep 05, 2024

What if offering your child choices isn't really giving them autonomy? Have you ever considered that the choices you present might feel manipulative? Let’s delve into the nuanced world of offering choices and explore how to empower our children genuinely and constructively.

In this episode, I unpack giving children choices, spotlighting its potential benefits and pitfalls. I illustrate how choices can sometimes come off as controlling rather than empowering. I also discuss the vital role of true autonomy in developing a child's independence and problem-solving skills.

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The importance of real choices in parenting
Examples of fake choices and their pitfalls
Autonomy's role in childhood development
Parental control vs. child independence
Real-life anecdotes on flexible parenting
Connection strategies for more meaningful choices

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Case Study: Is Social Media Creating a Rift Between You and Your Child? Sep 03, 2024

What are the modern challenges of raising teens in a Snapchat and TikTok world, and how should parents adapt? Does taking away their smartphone do more damage than good? Today, I sit down with Danielle, a dedicated mother of four navigating the challenging terrain of parenting a 13-year-old daughter in the digital age. Over the past year, a widening gap has formed between them, fueled by social media and smartphone usage complexities.

Danielle opens up about her struggles setting boundaries around smartphone use while attempting to build trust and connection. We discuss why traditional punitive measures often backfire and explore alternative strategies prioritizing empathy and understanding. Together, I share the nuances of allowing social media access, addressing the temptations and pitfalls teens face online, and finding ways to remain a supportive and present parent.

In This Episode:

Rebuilding bonds with rule-resistant teens
Understanding modern social pressures on adolescents
Shifting from punishment to building trust
Navigating social media challenges with empathy
Embracing the role of connection in discipline

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How to Navigate Parental Guilt Aug 29, 2024

What if the key to being a better parent isn't being perfect but embracing our imperfections? It's time to get real about the rollercoaster journey of parenting, which is filled with mistakes, learning, and growth.

Today, I will talk candidly about the misconceptions around "parenting experts" and our own expectations as parents. I’ll share my experiences, exploring how moments of stress, like a recent family vacation, can shed light on our triggers and mistakes and how we can transform these mistakes into valuable lessons for ourselves and our children.

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The myth of the "perfect parent" debunked
Understanding the impact of high expectations
Embracing mistakes as learning opportunities
Navigating the emotional challenges of parenting transitions
The importance of continuous growth and self-compassion

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Case Study: What to Do When Your Child Says "No" to Everything Aug 27, 2024

What do you do when a nine-year-old flat-out refuses to take a shower? How might giving your child more autonomy reduce daily power struggles? In today's episode, we dive into these nuanced dynamics of connected parenting.

Joining me today is Jade, a dedicated mother juggling a blended family and her journey into connected parenting. Jade shares her struggle with her strong-willed nine-year-old daughter who challenges the status quo by simply saying, "No." Together, we explore the beauty of natural consequences, the search for autonomy in adolescence, and the importance of connection over control.

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Embracing natural consequences over artificial punishments
Supporting your child's search for autonomy
Prioritizing connection to improve cooperation
Guiding with questions instead of dictating
Empowering children through their own decision-making

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How to Define a Successful Parent Aug 24, 2024

Ever find yourself questioning your parenting because your child’s behavior doesn’t match up with society’s expectations? Today, I discuss a topic that hits close to home: the idea that successful parenting is not about having perfectly behaved children but about how we respond to their imperfections.

We often get caught up in societal expectations, believing that good parenting is reflected in having compliant, well-mannered kids. But real success lies in how we handle the challenging moments, the times when our kids act out, and how we use those moments to foster a deeper connection. I reflect on how important it is to ground ourselves in the truth that parenting is a journey filled with highs and lows and that every moment, good or bad, is an opportunity for growth.

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Redefining parenting success beyond behavior
The pressure of societal expectations on parents
Why your child’s behavior doesn’t define your worth
Using difficult moments to deepen connection
My story of handling an outburst with grace

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Case Study: How Confronting Your Childhood Trauma Can Improve Your Parenting Skills Aug 20, 2024

What if the hardest moments in parenting are actually the best opportunities for connection? Can the struggles we face with our kids actually help us heal our own past? Today, I'm joined by the wonderful Cammie, who shares her heartfelt journey into connected parenting. We delve into the challenges and triumphs of raising young children while navigating the lingering effects of our own childhood experiences. From sleepless nights with a newborn to embracing the big emotions of a toddler, Cammie's story is a testament to the power of empathy and connection.

We explore how facing our children's most challenging moments can become a pathway to our own healing. As Cammie recounts her experiences, we discuss strategies for staying connected with our kids even in the midst of tantrums and upsets, and how these very moments can become the foundation of a deep, enduring bond.

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Unexpected benefits of challenging parenting moments
Healing past wounds through connected parenting
Practical applications of empathy and connection
Visualizing our inner child during parenting
Group support and its transformative impact
It’s never too late to strengthen connections

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Is Holding Your Child Accountable Truly Necessary? Aug 15, 2024

Imagine this: Your child has just knocked over their sibling's Lego creation, and you’re torn between wanting to gently correct their behavior and wondering if there’s a better way. Is it really about making them say, "I'm sorry," or is there a deeper lesson to be learned?

In this episode, I share a more nuanced concept of accountability in parenting. We explore the common desire to hold our children accountable for their actions—whether it's making them apologize or ensuring they understand the consequences of their behavior. But what does "accountability" really mean in a connected parenting approach? I challenge the traditional views and offer insight into how we can foster true responsibility in our children without resorting to shame or force.

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Redefining accountability in parenting
Encouraging children to internalize lessons
Balancing empathy with discipline
Avoiding shame while teaching responsibility
The impact of connected parenting on long-term behavior

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Case Study: A Simple Phrase to Use When Siblings Won't Share Aug 13, 2024

Is there a way to navigate sharing disputes that affirm both children's feelings and boundaries? Are sibling meltdowns causing tension in your home? Today, I sit down with Katrina, a mother of two daughters, navigating the tricky terrain of tantrums and toy sharing. Together, we delve into practical strategies for setting boundaries while respecting each child’s feelings, fostering a sense of fairness and validation for both siblings.

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Handling sibling meltdowns empathetically
Importance of listening to children’s feelings
Teaching boundaries using connective principles
Strategies to self-regulate as a parent
Repairing and validating sibling relationships

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Why Our Schools Are Failing and How to Fix It Aug 08, 2024

Does your child connect with some teachers but not others? Have you wondered why? Imagine a classroom where connection, not just curriculum, is the priority. Could this change everything?

Teaching has always been challenging, particularly due to crowded classrooms and lack of support for educators. However, I have personally witnessed how building real connections with students can significantly decrease behavioral problems and improve engagement. With 13 years of experience in public schools, I’ll share my thoughts on why our education system is letting down both teachers and students and explain how shifting our emphasis from academic rigor to nurturing relationships can establish a more productive and empathetic learning environment.

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Teaching through connection, not curriculum
Systemic issues in education
The power of relationships in learning
Practical tips for teachers
Parallels between parenting and teaching
Importance of play in education

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Case Study: How to Break the Cycle of Chaotic Parenting Aug 06, 2024

From a troubled teen to a mindful mom: Today, you’ll hear one mom’s journey of breaking the cycle of chaotic parenting. Have you ever felt like you're falling short as a parent despite your best efforts? In this powerful episode, I have an intimate conversation with Taylor, a mom who openly shares her struggles with regulating her emotions and the impact of her challenging upbringing on her parenting journey. Together, we explore practical strategies for overcoming self-doubt, managing sibling rivalries, and fostering a deeper connection with our children.

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Strategies for managing anger and frustration
The impact of childhood experiences on parenting
Fostering connection through daily special time
Empathetic approaches to resolving sibling conflicts
Focusing on progress over perfection in parenting
Recognizing and celebrating personal parenting strengths

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How to Turn "I'm Bored" into a Learning Moment Aug 01, 2024

Ever feel the panic rise when your child declares, "I'm bored!" How is your summer going? Is your little one at a loss for what to do? Do you rush to fix it or let them find their own way?

Today, I want to discuss the phrase "I'm bored!" As parents, we often feel the need to constantly entertain and engage our kids, especially during long summer days. But what if embracing boredom could actually benefit our children? I'll share my thoughts on why it's okay for our kids to be bored and how it can help foster their creativity and resilience. Our role as parents isn't to solve every problem for our children but to guide them with love and understanding. So, the next time your child says they're bored, consider it an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.

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Embracing your child's boredom
Leaning into empathy and connection
Avoiding the urge to fix everything
Encouraging creativity through boredom
Building resilience in our children

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Case Study: How to Balance Breastfeeding and Toddler Meltdowns Jul 30, 2024

How can we balance the emotional needs of two children in different and challenging stages? Today, I help one mother with her busy world of juggling parenting techniques while maintaining calm and connection.

Corynne is a mother to a three-year-old and a five-month-old, and today, she shares the difficulties of staying calm and connected during intense emotional moments, such as when she is breastfeeding and her older daughter wants to play. We discuss the importance of creating preliminary bonding moments before tending to the baby and explore some of her challenges regarding her husband's contrasting parenting style, particularly when past traumas influence present reactions.

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Balancing the needs of a toddler and a baby
How proactive connection eases the transition
Managing different parenting styles
Strategies for staying calm under pressure
The importance of post-incident discussions

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Maintaining Connection During the Teenage Years Jul 25, 2024

Have you ever felt like you're losing your little one as they grow into a teen? Imagine the mix of pride and heartbreak as your child starts to pull away, seeking independence while you long for those cozy, close moments. How do we navigate this bittersweet transition?

Today, I explore the emotional rollercoaster of transitioning from parenting young children to guiding adolescents. It's a journey filled with unexpected challenges and poignant moments of letting go. As our children grow and seek more independence, we often feel a deep sense of loss, coupled with the fear of not being needed anymore. But this phase, while challenging, is also a crucial period of growth for both parents and children.

I’ll share with you my own struggles and realizations during my daughter Esme's transition into adolescence. From feeling like the center of her world to navigating the painful moments of rejection and the need for autonomy, I want you to understand how important it is to reframe these experiences. By leaning into connection, understanding our children's need for independence, and finding new ways to bond, we can maintain a strong, supportive relationship.

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The emotional impact of children growing up
Coping with feelings of loss
Understanding your child's need for autonomy
Navigating the push-pull dynamics of adolescence
Balancing safety and independence
Maintaining connection through the teenage years

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Case Study: How to Handle Sibling Conflict without Taking Sides Jul 23, 2024

Are you struggling with sibling rivalry or managing multiple kids' needs? Imagine a morning when you’re pulled in every direction, resolving online meeting issues for one child while another is desperate for your attention. How do you manage these conflicting demands without losing your cool or compromising the peace in your home? Today I’m joined by Stephanie, a dedicated stay-at-home mom from Virginia. With four children aged between 6 and 14, Stephanie faces the daily challenges of balancing her kids' needs while maintaining boundaries with empathy. Through our discussion, we uncover some practical solutions for managing sibling rivalry and ensuring each child feels connected and valued.

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Tackling sibling rivalry with neutrality
The power of empathy in conflict resolution
Importance of daily special time with each child
Strategies for handling simultaneous demands
Reducing the need for punishments and bribes

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Challenging Conventional Parenting Wisdom Jul 18, 2024

Ever wondered if punishing your child for bad behavior might actually be counterproductive? Picture this: your child hits their sibling. Instead of a timeout, what if you offered a hug and some empathy? How might that change the dynamic?

I want to challenge some deeply rooted beliefs in traditional parenting that may benefit from a new perspective, such as the notion that punishment is essential for teaching right from wrong. I believe our children naturally desire to do well and that their behaviors often indicate a need for connection rather than defiance. By understanding the underlying needs that drive your child’s actions, you can foster a stronger bond and guide them with empathy and respect.

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Challenging the necessity of punishment
Understanding behaviors as cries for connection
Recognizing the inherent goodness in children
Responding to misbehavior with empathy
The impact of traditional wisdom on parenting
Empowering parents to connect with their kids

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Case Study: Can Letting Kids Choose Their Bedtime Improve Your Relationship? Jul 16, 2024

Are you unknowingly falling into controlling patterns with your kids? Can relinquishing bedtime control to your kids transform your evenings and lead to a more harmonious family life? Today, we explore the delicate balance between control and connection in parenting.

I am joined by Carolyn, a mother of three adorable girls, as we explore her journey of shedding control and embracing relational parenting. I dig deep into Carolyn's realization of mirroring her father's authoritarian style and discuss how to pivot towards more empathy-driven interactions.

We discuss Carolyn's specific struggles with sibling rivalry, and I offer practical advice on handling these using natural consequences instead of punitive measures. I hope our conversation provides you with valuable insights and tools to reconsider your approach to parenting. Whether you're dealing with sibling rivalry, bedtime routines, or simply want to improve your family dynamics, this episode has something for you.

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Exploring control and its impact on relationships
Fostering cooperation naturally, not forcefully
Allowing children bedtime autonomy
Addressing sibling rivalry with empathy
Implementing special time for connection
Encouraging choices in kids' daily activities

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Tips for Enjoying Summer with Your Kids (Without Spending $$$) Jul 11, 2024

Are you dreading the summer chaos with kids at home all day? Imagine a summer where connection replaces stress and laughter fills your home. How can you create magical moments without the pressure of extravagant plans?

Today, I want to offer some help to parents struggling with their kids at home during the summer. I want to help you make it enjoyable for both you and your kids. Summers can be challenging with the lack of routine and constant presence of children, but it’s also a perfect opportunity to lean into connections. In this episode, I'll share some practical tips and gentle reminders to help you stay calm and connected during the summer months.

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How to lean into connection to ease summer stress
Daily special time with each child
Embracing boredom and its benefits
Sibling special time to strengthen bonds
Easy and fun activities at home

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Case Study: A Practical Guide for Removing Punishments Jul 09, 2024

Have you ever restricted your kids' screen time because they talked back? Or perhaps taken away their favorite toy after they fought with their sibling? Today, I am speaking with Noelle, a stay-at-home mom of two young daughters. She has been facing challenges with her 2-year-old's refusal to follow her three-strikes policy.

We delve into the common struggles of many parents: the feeling that their child isn't listening. Noelle shares situations where her daughter resists instructions, leading to tantrums and meltdowns. I provide Noelle with some practical advice on how she can transform her daughter's defiance into cooperation.

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Connection over punishments and rewards
Cooperation and setting boundaries with empathy
Dealing with toddler tantrums positively
Shifting mindset and expectations for parenting success

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How to Show Empathy When Your Kids Are Whining Jul 04, 2024

Ever felt like your child's whining is driving you up the wall? What if there’s a way to turn this frustrating behavior into a moment of connection and understanding?

Today, I want to help you with a common parenting challenge… whining. It can feel like nails on a chalkboard, but what if we reframed it as a cry for help rather than an annoyance? In this episode, I share my personal experiences and strategies to help you transform your response to whining from correction to connection. Understanding the root causes and responding empathetically can foster a closer bond with our kids and reduce those dreaded whiny moments. Let's explore how to shift our mindset and approach to create a more peaceful and connected parenting experience.

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Understanding Whining
Empathy Over Explanation
Holding Firm Limits
Public Tantrums
Building Daily Connection

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Case Study: Rethinking Discipline and Natural Consequences Jul 02, 2024

Are you finding it difficult to stay calm in tense situations? Just picture navigating through parenthood without using punishments or rewards, focusing solely on establishing a strong connection. I'm Michelle Kenney, and today, I'm excited to be joined by the insightful and authentic Destini Ann, who is a certified parenting coach, author, and TEDx Speaker.

Destini and I explore the importance and challenges of self-regulation. We discuss how this approach may not yield immediate results and address misconceptions about natural versus logical consequences. We also highlight the significance of proactive parenting. Destini's insights emphasize that the aim is to build an authentic, collaborative relationship with our children rather than striving for perfection. Additionally, we’ll also leave you with some practical strategies for incorporating connective parenting into your busy lives, empowering you to make a positive change.

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Self-regulation challenges in parenting
Difference between natural and logical consequences
Impact of proactive parenting
Overcoming the myth of the perfect parent
Integrating connection into busy schedules
Long-term benefits of connective parenting

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Why The Parenting Advice You're Getting Isn’t Working (And How to Fix It) Jun 27, 2024

Have you ever felt like the parenting advice you get (from me and any other parenting experts) doesn’t fit your family? Imagine a world where parenting tips are tailored just for you and your child. How can we bridge the gap between general advice and our unique parenting challenges?

In today’s episode, we tackle the giant world of parenting advice. We'll discuss what strategies work, what doesn't, and why. I'll provide insights on how to take general parenting frameworks and tailor them to suit your unique family dynamics. We'll explore why certain methods may require adjustments and how understanding your child’s temperament can make a significant difference. Whether you’re dealing with a defiant teenager or a toddler who uses a pacifier, remember that, above all, it’s about prioritizing connection over correction; every family is unique.

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Understanding general parenting advice
Adapting tips to fit your child
Building a strong parent-child relationship
Handling parenting challenges with empathy
Embracing imperfection in parenting

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Case Study: I Hated Being Around My Kids Jun 25, 2024

Have you ever felt at your wit's end, not wanting to spend another minute in the presence of your kids? Today, I have a heartwarming conversation with Rachel, a mother who once felt overwhelmed and disconnected from her two young daughters. Rachel bravely shares her initial struggles with her eldest child, who exhibited extreme emotions and behaviors that left Rachel feeling helpless and frustrated.

Rachel’s journey of growth and understanding demonstrates that with the right tools and support, every parent can move from mere survival to thriving with their children.

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Rachel's initial challenges with emotional shut-down
Validating your children’s feelings over dismissing them
The impact of parenting support on family life
The softer, more connected child after change
How the sibling relationship transformed with a new approach
Challenges and successes in ongoing cooperative parenting

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Why Your Kids Are Lying to You and How You Should Respond Jun 20, 2024

Have you ever wondered why your child may tell lies even when they know they will likely get caught? Just imagine a world where lying isn't seen as a child's desperate escape from trouble but as a way to seek deeper understanding. Let's take some time to explore how we can turn those little lies into opportunities for building strong connections. Today, I want to share with you the emotional and psychological reasons that lead children to bend the truth and emphasize the importance of understanding and empathy. It's important to remember that behind every lie is a child seeking connection and acceptance.

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Why do kids lie to avoid trouble
The impact of disappointment and shame
Differentiating between harmless and harmful lies
Strategies to reduce lying without punishments
Encouraging honesty through curiosity and empathy

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Case Study: Can Empathy Really Transform a Defiant Teen? Jun 18, 2024

How did abandoning punishments and consequences transform a father-daughter relationship on the brink? Today, I sit down with Erik, a single father who experienced a profound change in his relationship with his daughter. Erik shares how he moved from seeing her behavior as manipulative to understanding it as a cry for help. His journey started during a crisis when his daughter was battling significant anxiety, stress, depression, and self-harm. Traditional methods of rules and consequences weren’t working, so Erik took a leap of faith with a radical, connective approach that changed everything.

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Shifting from rules to empathy
Recognizing cries for help in behavior
Building trust and deepening connection
The transformative power of words of affirmation
The importance of self-reflection in parenting

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What to Do When Natural Consequences Don’t Exist Jun 13, 2024

What happens when natural consequences fail to teach your child a lesson? Today, I tackle challenging situations where natural consequences simply don’t apply. I’ll help you navigate these tricky scenarios with empathy and creativity, offering alternative approaches that still foster growth and learning in your children. Understanding the underlying emotions and motivations behind your child's actions is as important as finding constructive ways to address them without relying on punishments.

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When natural consequences don’t fit the situation
Understanding your child’s underlying motivations
Alternative strategies to natural consequences
Maintaining connection without relying on punishment
Practical examples of empathetic parenting
Building resilience and understanding in your child

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Case Study: From Solo to Sibling, Adjusting to Life with Two Kids Jun 11, 2024

What happens when parenting dynamics take a sudden turn? Can connection truly transform challenging behaviors? Today, I sit with Taryn, one of our inspiring Peace and Parenting coaches, to recount her journey from traditional parenting to embracing connective parenting. After facing unexpected challenges with her second child, Taryn discovered the transformative power of hand-in-hand parenting. Her story beautifully illustrates how deeper connection and empathy not only reshape parent-child relationships but also rejuvenate the entire family dynamic.

Taryn shares the complexities she faced when her seemingly 'easy-going' firstborn started showing regressive behaviors and aggression towards her younger sibling. Her light bulb moment led her to embrace new parenting tools, which turned around her family's struggles and cultivated deep bonds. From enduring sibling rivalry to teenagers who feel completely safe in their authentic selves, Taryn's story encapsulates the highs and lows of parental connection.

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Navigating challenges with a second child
Recognizing and fixing disconnection in parenting
Transforming through connective parenting tools
Balancing sibling rivalry with empathy and play
Sustaining parenting connection through different stages

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How Your Emotional Baggage Is Hurting Your Kids Jun 06, 2024

What hidden stories from your past are impacting your parenting today? What if the secret to better parenting lies within us? Today, I explore the profound idea of self-regulation and the underlying narratives that influence how we engage with our children.

I open up about a personal session I had recently with a client who is grappling with the complexities of raising a child with ADHD and ODD. Throughout this experience, we uncover how past grievances and unresolved pain can subtly hinder our parenting endeavors. Join me as we explore practical approaches to clearing these mental and emotional obstacles and find empowerment to evolve into a more attentive, compassionate, and connected parent.

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Uncovering hidden stories affecting parenting behaviors
The importance of self-regulation in parenting
The impact of unresolved emotions on parent-child connection
Strategies for recognizing and addressing resentments
Practical tools for clearing mental blockages

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Case Study: How Dads Can Make a Difference in Parenting with Billy Vsco Jun 04, 2024

What if open communication and respect could revolutionize your relationship with your teenager? Today, we're thrilled to bring you a captivating conversation with the one and only Billy Vsco. Billy, who found his way into the world of parenting through his viral TikTok videos and football coaching, has garnered a substantial following. He's now a guiding light for parents, advocating for stronger relationships and better communication with their children.

In this episode, we discuss essential topics like maintaining a strong parent-child relationship even beyond the age of 18, the importance of apologizing and taking responsibility, and the transformative power of open communication and respect. Billy shares insights from his journey, the challenges, and the joys of parenting.

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The impact of apologizing to our children
Transitioning from a teen to an adult audience
The role of empathy in parenting multiple children
Challenges of dealing with criticism in parenting

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What You Need to Do When Your Kids Make a Mistake May 30, 2024

Ever wonder if letting your kids fail could actually be the best thing for them? Today, we're diving into the counterintuitive but transformative idea that failure is not only okay but necessary. Join me as I explore why allowing our children to stumble, make mistakes, and experience the natural consequences of their actions in a safe and supportive environment is a cornerstone of connected parenting.

I’ll share practical ways to shift from overprotective habits to fostering independence and learn how to hold space for your children's emotions without rushing in to fix everything. This episode is a must-listen for parents ready to embrace a new approach that empowers their kids to grow into capable, confident individuals.

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Why letting children fail helps them grow
Creating a safe space for failure
How to avoid overprotection and emotional shielding
Embracing failure for deeper learning
Understanding failures in interpersonal relationships
The balance between intervention and natural consequences

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Encouraging Healthy Child Development with Dr. Joel Warsh May 28, 2024

Why is understanding a child’s developmental stage crucial for effective parenting? Today, I am thrilled to welcome Dr. Joel Warsh, an integrative pediatrician passionate about children's health and well-being. Dr. Warsh shares his frustration with children's over-medication and his journey towards integrative medicine, blending the best of Western and alternative practices. We delve into his new book, "Parenting at Your Child’s Pace," which focuses on de-stressing parents and promoting health from the earliest stages of childhood.

Together, we’ll explore the societal pressures to create 'superhuman' children and the resulting parental stress. Dr. Warsh emphasizes the importance of balance, connection, and trusting our instincts as parents. He shares insights on managing common parenting worries, from growth charts to developmental milestones, reminding us that each child is unique and that most concerns are normal.

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An integrative pediatrician's approach to balanced parenting
Stress and its impact on parenting
The importance of developmental milestone understanding
Navigating societal pressures on perfect parenting
Balancing discipline: boundaries vs. permissiveness
Rethinking medication as a last resort

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Is Connection the Missing Link in Parenting Neurodivergent Kids? May 23, 2024

Is compliance really the goal in parenting neurodivergent kids? Have you ever wondered if there's a better way to connect with your neurodivergent child beyond the conventional methods of rewards and punishments? Today, I reflect on the profound impact of connection in parenting, especially for children with ADHD, autism, and other neurodivergent conditions.

Many believe these kids need strict compliance through rewards and punishments due to their executive functioning challenges. But I challenge that notion. What if the secret to truly supporting our children lies in the strength of our connection with them? I've worked with wonderful families with neurodivergent kids, and I believe that traditional methods might not be the best approach and that connection can foster genuine growth and understanding.

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Connection over compliance for neurodivergent kids
Traditional methods vs. connection-based parenting
The challenges with rewards and punishment systems
Success stories of connection-focused parenting

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Case Study: Turning Mom Rage into Connection Magic May 21, 2024

Today I sit down with Shelly Robinson, the inspiring founder of Raising Yourself. Shelly shares her transformative experience with reparenting herself and offers powerful insights into inner child work, conscious parenting, and breaking the cycle of punitive approaches.

We delve into the concept of “mom rage” and explore the underlying fears and insecurities that often ignite our outbursts. Shelly’s candid storytelling, including a poignant moment with her young son, will strike a chord with many parents who grapple with similar challenges. This episode isn't just about enhancing your child’s behavior, but also about our own healing and creating a nurturing environment where both parent and child can flourish.

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The importance of connection over punishment
Using play as a parenting tool
Addressing “mom rage” with empathy and understanding
How to handle parental dysregulation effectively
How to collaborate with children to solve conflicts
Self-compassion in overcoming parenting challenges

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What To Do When Our Child Says “I Hate You” May 16, 2024

Have you ever been stung by your child's words? Have you felt the sting of "I hate you" or "shut up" from those you love most? It's a moment that cuts deep, triggering a whirlwind of emotions and questions about our parenting. But what if I told you it's not about us?

Today, I explore the reasons behind hurtful moments, how children react, and how we can respond with grace and empathy. I’ll share some practical tips on supporting our children's emotions without disregarding our own and why punishment is not the solution. It's all about understanding, connection, and allowing our children to express their feelings without judgment. Ultimately, it's not just about how they communicate with us but how we choose to respond that truly makes a difference.

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Understanding children's emotional outbursts
How to shift focus from personal to empathetic responses
The importance of holding space for children's feelings
Exploring the impact of punishment on communication
Recognizing the role of your environment in behavior
Embracing grace and compassion in parenting

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Case Study: How Being Playful Helped with My Strong-Willed Son May 14, 2024

Today, I’m joined by guest Mariah, one of our vibrant Peace of Parenting community members. Mariah shares her journey of discovering a new approach to parenting that prioritizes understanding over obedience. From navigating challenges with her strong-willed son to embracing playful corrections, Mariah offers insights that resonate with every parent striving for deeper connections with their children.

We delve into the layers of traditional disciplinary methods, shedding light on the pitfalls of shame and the power of empathy. This episode is packed with practical insights and actionable strategies that you can immediately apply to nurture stronger bonds with your children.

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How playfulness fosters deeper parent-child connections
Shifting from correction to empathy-based discipline
Challenges with strong-willed children and playful solutions
The importance of avoiding shame in parenting
Prioritizing understanding over blind obedience
Cultivating trust, respect, and resilience in children

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This Is Connective Parenting Not Gentle Parenting May 09, 2024

Many people often compare connective parenting to gentle parenting, but in reality, they are very different. Today, I want to clarify the misconceptions surrounding gentle parenting and explain how connective parenting encourages children to learn and grow on their own terms. Through empathy, understanding, and a lot of support, connective parenting empowers both parents and kids to navigate life's challenges with resilience and grace. It allows children to fail, stumble, and learn from their experiences.

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Connective parenting vs. gentle parenting
Embracing failure as a pathway to growth
A grounded approach fosters resilience in children
Empathy and support are foundational parenting tools
Navigating boundaries with empathy and understanding
Allowing children autonomy while providing guidance

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Case Study: The Science Behind Attachment Parenting with Eli Harwood May 07, 2024

How can parents cultivate a healthy balance between responsiveness and setting boundaries? Today, I’m joined by Eli Harwood from Attachment Nerd. Eli's expertise in attachment theory sheds light on the complexities of parenting in today's world. Eli and I delve into the essence of secure attachment, exploring its profound impact on children and parents alike.

Today, we’ll explore the various attachment styles, from avoidant to resistant and even disorganized, and dissect how our childhood experiences influence our parenting styles. Eli will share her four strategies for transforming your parenting journey: show up, listen up, light up, and make up.

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Attachment parenting styles and their impact
What is secure attachment: trust, regulation, and support
Parenting challenges: emotions, boundaries, and repair
Recognizing and addressing inherited attachment patterns
Strategies: Show up, listen, light up, make up
Aim for 30% synchronicity in interactions
Importance of ongoing research and learning

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How I Nearly Lost My Relationship with My Oldest - Don’t Make the Same Mistake May 02, 2024

Have you ever felt like you were losing the bond with your child? Or struggle to navigate their strong will without resorting to traditional methods of discipline. Today, I want to share my personal experiences with my daughter Esme, whose unwavering spirit challenged me to rethink my approach to parenting.

Parenting my daughter has been a challenging journey. Her strong will and refusal to conform led to moments of frustration and doubt. However, I have witnessed a remarkable transformation in my relationship with Esme by adopting connection-based parenting. By shifting my focus to nurturing our bond, I have created an environment of understanding and empathy in which she has thrived.

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The challenges of parenting a strong-willed child
Transitioning from traditional to connection-based parenting
The impact of connection on parent-child relationships
How to navigate defiance and maintain empathy
The importance of nurturing individuality and autonomy

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Case Study: Navigating Your Tweens Social Dilemmas Apr 30, 2024

Are you worried about the kind of friends your child spends their time with? Do you fear that these bad influences might lead them astray? Join me as I sit down with Anna, a fellow parent who shares her concerns about her children's friendships during their tween years. We discuss practical strategies for empowering our children to trust their instincts, navigate peer pressure, and set healthy boundaries. Let's explore how we can help our children stand up for themselves and make better choices in their friendships.

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Parenting from fear vs. connection
Embracing empathy in guiding children's choices
Fostering open communication and understanding
Navigating peer pressure with resilience
Cultivating deeper family connections through support

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What Our Kids Need to End Sibling Rivalry Apr 25, 2024

Ever felt caught in the crossfire of sibling battles, unsure how to step in without taking sides? As parents, we yearn for peaceful homes where our children thrive together. But when it comes to resolving conflicts between siblings, finding the balance between intervention and neutrality can feel like navigating a minefield.

Today, I delve into the transformative power of neutral intervention in sibling conflicts. I’ll explore practical strategies for defusing tension and fostering understanding between siblings without inadvertently fueling the fire.

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How neutral intervention fosters understanding and harmony
Empathy empowers children in conflict resolution
Reframe your approach to conflict resolution
Create a harmonious sibling dynamic rooted in empathy
How to guide children to express themselves authentically

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Case Study: Parenting a Strong-Willed Child Apr 23, 2024

How do you navigate traditional parenting methods when they don't align with your child's temperament? Today, I sit with some of my longtime clients, Danielle and Neal, who discuss their parenting journey with their highly sensitive and strong-willed son, Jack. They tried traditional discipline methods such as timeouts and taking toys away, but these did not work for Jack. As a result, Danielle and Neal sought alternative approaches and eventually discovered Peace and Parenting.

Danielle and Neal share the significant role that working on their childhood issues played in their journey. They also discuss which techniques worked for them, the impact of setting limits without punishments, and the importance of understanding your child and parenting style.

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Challenges and Traditional Parenting Fails
Discovering a New Approach to Parenting
The Impact of Coaching on Parenting and Personal Growth
The Evolution of Parenting: From Struggles to Success
Reflections on Parenting Techniques and Setting Limits

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The Time-Tested Strategy for a More Peaceful Home Apr 18, 2024

Are you spending your time parenting, or is parenting spending your time? Today on Peace and Parenting, I delve into Pam Leo's profound wisdom, exploring the intricate balance between meeting our children's emotional needs and managing their behaviors.

Drawing from my own personal experiences, I share the transformative power of filling our children's cups with love. From navigating sibling rivalry to taming the spirited soul, we explore how investing in connection yields dividends of resilience and harmony in the years to come.

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Pam Leo's wisdom on parenting priorities
Connective parenting vs. traditional methods
Investing time in connection reaps long-term benefits
Navigating challenges with empathy and play
Tools and resources for embracing connective parenting

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Case Study: My Toddler Won’t Stop Screaming in Public Apr 16, 2024

Are you ever mortified in public when your child’s voice rockets through the mall? Today, we unpack the nuances of communication, tantrums, and the genuine distress many parents face.

It's a scene familiar to many—a peaceful outing shattered by a sudden outburst from a toddler. Cherry, a mom from my Instagram followers, joins me in sharing her dilemma of dealing with her son's screams in public. This opens a world of parenting concerns centered around societal norms and effective communication. Together, we explore the delicate art of understanding your child's unique signals. I guide her through the thorny paths of public judgment, childhood expression, and the profound power of connection over correction.

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Responding to a toddler's screams with play
The stigma around public outbursts in children
Reflecting on parental reactions to yelling
Using affection to address behavioral issues
How to use playful interaction as a parenting tool

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Obedience vs. Genuine Respect: You Can’t Have Both Apr 11, 2024

When we punish and discipline our children, are we truly teaching them respect, or are we inadvertently instilling fear? We have been conditioned to believe that respect is synonymous with obedience. But is that really what respect is all about? Today, I want to challenge this conventional thinking and urge you to reconsider your parenting approach.

From my own experience as a parent, I have realized that respect cannot be forced upon our children. It is something that is earned through genuine connection, kindness, and empathy. While punishments and rewards may seem effective in the short term, they do not necessarily foster respect. Join me as we explore the complexities of respect in parenting and discover how nurturing genuine connections can lead to organic respect from our children.

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• Rethinking respect beyond obedience and fear

• Earning respect through genuine connection and empathy

• How punishments and rewards hinder organic respect

• How mutual respect fosters healthier parent-child relationships

• Nurturing respect: The keys to peaceful parenting

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Case Study: Can You Really Discipline With Love Instead of Fear Apr 09, 2024

Could your pursuit of a "perfectly" behaved child be disrupting the peace in your home? This episode will unravel the intricate dance between setting boundaries and forging bonds of connection.

As parents, we tend to focus on controlling our children's behavior and enforcing consequences when they make mistakes. However, what really matters is creating an environment where our children feel safe to make mistakes without fear. By showing empathy toward our children's behavior, we can establish a foundation of trust that is unbreakable.

Today, I have invited Shauna, one of my Instagram followers, to share how loosening the reins of strict parenting has allowed her to build more authentic relationships with her children. We will discuss how to set boundaries without resorting to punishment, but rather through the warmth of connection. You will learn how to turn homework time into a fun activity and how to handle difficult school transitions with compassion. These methods have the potential to transform challenges into opportunities for growth.

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Are We Ruining Our Kids? The Truth About Parenting Imperfections Apr 04, 2024

Are we unwittingly damaging our children by repeating the mistakes of our own upbringing? Today, I'm diving into a question that plagues many of us: Are we ruining our kids? This thought can grip us in moments of frustration and self-doubt. But let me tell you something: You're not alone, and you're definitely not ruining your kids.

As parents, we're often held to impossible standards, haunted by our own childhood traumas, and bombarded with societal pressure to be flawless. But here's the truth: It's okay to make mistakes. In fact, it's human. I've been there—I've yelled, lost my cool, and felt like I'm failing. But here's the thing: It's not about being perfect. It's about being willing to grow and change.

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Embracing imperfection is essential for growth
Breaking the cycle of generational trauma
Cultivating self-compassion in parenting
Recognizing the impact of unresolved issues
Seeking help is a courageous step

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Case Study: How to Break Free from the “Perfectionist” Mindset Apr 02, 2024

Parenting can be challenging, especially in a world that often values achievement and busyness over connection. Have you ever found yourself caught up in the trap of prioritizing tasks over building stronger bonds with your children? It's a common struggle. Today, I have a heartfelt conversation with Erica, a mother who shared her deeply personal experience of transitioning into motherhood through adoption. Her journey highlights the pressures of perfectionism and the impact of her own dysregulation, which many of us can relate to.

We talk about the transformative power of prioritizing connection over control and how it has positively impacted Erica's relationship with her daughter. From embracing vulnerability to dealing with guilt and shame, Erica shares her story with honesty and openness and shares the steps she took to create a nurturing and loving environment for her family. I hope her story resonates with you and helps you on your own parenting journey.

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The challenges of transitioning into motherhood
Pressure to be a "perfect" parent
The impact of personal struggles on parenting
Overcoming guilt and self-judgment in parenting

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Does Your Child Have a Love-Hate Relationship with School Mar 28, 2024

Imagine cutting your kids' chaotic bedtime routine in half and witnessing your relationship thrive in the process. That's exactly what unfolded for Karla and her husband. Struggling to manage the nightly wind-down of their three lively children, they discovered that the secret wasn't in a more rigid schedule but in fostering a deeper bond. Today, I am touched to share Karla's story of transformation.

We unravel how switching up bedtime duties and dedicating special time led to stunning improvements in cooperation and the soul of their family life. This episode isn't just about the strategies that work; it's a testament to the power of empathy, patience, and the ongoing commitment to learning that parenting requires.

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The struggles of traditional schooling
Importance of validating children's feelings
Impact of generational trauma on parenting
Navigating the balance between empathy and worry
Exploring alternatives to conventional education

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Case Study: How to Cut Bedtime Chaos in Half Mar 26, 2024

Imagine cutting your kids' chaotic bedtime routine in half and witnessing your relationship thrive in the process. That's exactly what unfolded for Karla and her husband. Struggling to manage the nightly wind-down of their three lively children, they discovered that the secret wasn't in a more rigid schedule but in fostering a deeper bond. Today, I am touched to share Karla's story of transformation.

We unravel how switching up bedtime duties and dedicating special time led to stunning improvements in cooperation and the soul of their family life. This episode isn't just about the strategies that work; it's a testament to the power of empathy, patience, and the ongoing commitment to learning that parenting requires.

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Strengthening family bonds through bedtime routines
Switching off parental duties builds connections
Integrating "special time" enhances child cooperation
Avoiding punishment fosters emotional health
Continuous parenting education promotes improvement

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Are We Unknowingly Pushing Our Teens into Lying Mar 21, 2024

Today I'm diving into a recent eye-opening experience with my teenage daughter, Pia. Picture this: it's a typical evening until I receive a text that sends my heart racing. Pia and her friend have taken an Uber to the ice cream shop, leaving me puzzled and anxious. What unfolds next reveals a deeper layer of trust, peer pressure, and the delicate balance of parenting teens.

Join me as I navigate the complexities of teenage autonomy, parental trust, and the blurred lines between protection and freedom. We'll uncover the significance of dialogue, understanding, and reevaluating our parenting strategies. How do we balance trust and safety? How can we empower our teens while keeping them grounded? Tune in as we unravel these questions and more because in the world of parenting, every moment is teachable.

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Navigating trust and peer pressure
Importance of open communication with teens
Balancing autonomy and parental guidance
Understanding the teenage developmental stage
Reevaluating parenting strategies for teen safety

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Case Study: Navigating Neurodiversity with Connective Parenting Mar 19, 2024

Navigating the emotional ebbs and flows of neurodivergent children can feel like sailing uncharted seas. But what if I told you there's a way to foster connection and understanding even in the midst of these turbulences? Today we delve deep into the unique world of parenting neurodivergent children and how prioritizing connection can make all the difference.

My guest, Eloise, shares her heartfelt journey of discovering that empathy and genuine connection were the game-changers she needed to guide her neurodivergent son with love and understanding. She talks about embracing play, creating safe spaces, and understanding each child's diverse needs.

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Eloise's parenting journey in a challenging year
Overwhelming transitions and traumatic events
Discovering the transformative power of connective parenting
Using playfulness and connection to manage challenging behaviors
Embracing connection and building strong relationships

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Are Rules Ruining Your Relationship with Your Kids Mar 13, 2024

As parents, we often struggle to balance enforcing rules and maintaining a deep, meaningful connection with our children. It's natural to believe that strict guidelines are necessary for shaping our kids' behavior. However, we may unintentionally undermine the very trust and bond we seek to build with them.

I understand how challenging it can be to navigate the complexities of rule-based parenting. Let's explore the underlying motivations driving our rule obsession and how we can cultivate genuine connections with our children. Doing so can foster organic cooperation and instill moral values more effectively than rule enforcement ever could.

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Rule obsession versus genuine connection.
Organic cooperation fosters moral values.
Impact of empathy and mutual respect.
Breaking free from rule enforcement cycles.
Prioritizing relationships over rigid guidelines.

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Case Study: How to Go from Controlling to Empathy-Based Discipline Mar 12, 2024

Are you caught in the cycle of correction and control in your parenting journey? Today, I am joined by Nadia, a parent who bravely shares her journey from a place of control to discovering the impact of connective parenting.

Nadia candidly shares her experiences of shedding the instinct to correct and control and embracing empathy and connection instead. Through her journey, she unveils her challenges in stepping away from conventional parenting methods and the profound shifts she witnessed in her family dynamics. Tune in to discover the profound impact of prioritizing connection over control in creating a more peaceful and harmonious family dynamic.

In this Episode:

• The Awakening: From Correction to Connection

• Embracing Change: Letting Go of Control & Shame

• The Impact of Connection: Transforming Family Dynamics

• A New Way of Parenting: Grace and Empathy

• The Journey Ahead: The Road to Peaceful Parenting

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I Want My Kids to Thank Me Mar 07, 2024

As parents, we put a lot of effort and care into raising our children. However, have you ever felt like you crave recognition for your hard work? As I look back on my own journey as a parent, I've realized that the validation we seek doesn't necessarily have to come from our children. Instead, it should come from within ourselves. Today, I encourage you to think about your own search for validation in parenting. Let's explore together how we can re-parent ourselves, break free from outdated norms, and acknowledge our own personal growth.

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The Productivity Trap: Prioritizing Connection Over Productivity Mar 05, 2024

Is your relentless focus on productivity sending the message to your child that self-care is secondary to achievement? Today, we delve deep into the subtle dynamics of threats, bribes, and the elusive quest for productivity.

In a society that glorifies busyness and achievement, it's easy to fall into the trap of believing that success lies in crossing off tasks from our to-do lists. But what if I told you there's a more authentic way to foster cooperation and harmony within our families? For me, it all happened when I started prioritizing connection over control. From starting the day with play and offering choices to modeling self-care, each step we take towards building genuine relationships with our children can lead to a more fulfilling parenting journey.

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How Purposeful Play Can Help Gross Motor Development with Dr. Emily Heisey & Dr. Matt Otteman Feb 29, 2024

Today, I have a special treat for you as I welcome Dr. Emily Heisey (PT, DPT) and Dr. Matt Otteman (DC), experts in pediatric development. They are the co-owners of KinActive Kids and are well-known for their innovative tips related to child development. In this episode, we explore the world of physical development in children and discuss the significance of purposeful play and ways to support children with developmental delays. We will also discuss parents' emotional journey while dealing with these challenges and highlight the misconceptions and anxieties surrounding developmental milestones. The Doctors will share their heartwarming success stories and give parents practical tips and resources. Join us to learn how to empower and support children on their developmental journey and help parents find more peace in their parenting experience.

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Coming to the End of Your Parenting Journey Feb 27, 2024

Have you ever stopped to wonder how your parenting choices today might shape your relationship with your children as they venture into adulthood? I've been contemplating this a lot lately, especially as I anticipate my daughters' transition to independence. Today I open up about my reflections on traditional parenting methods and the profound impact they could have had on my relationship with my strong-willed daughter.

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System Restraint Collapse: It’s Why Your Child Comes Home a Different Person Feb 22, 2024

Does your child come home from school and seem like a completely different person? From the moment they step into the classroom to the final bell, our children navigate a complex world of expectations, relationships, and emotions. But what happens when the pressure becomes too much to bear? How do they cope when their systems are stretched to the limit?

Today I want to explore the signs of system restraint collapse and share practical strategies to support your child during these vulnerable moments. Whether it's offering quiet space, engaging in playful activities, or simply providing a listening ear, I want to give you some practical ways to meet your child’s unique needs with empathy and understanding.

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Trust the Process: It Gets Worse Before It Gets Better Feb 20, 2024

Have you ever felt that no matter how much you try to connect with your child, it seems to get more challenging? As a parent, I understand how frustrating it can be to invest time and effort into connective parenting only to face unexpected hurdles. But don't worry, I'm here to tell you you're not alone.

Based on my extensive experience coaching parents and witnessing countless family dynamics, I understand why transitions to connective parenting can stir up resistance and intensify behavioral struggles. But setbacks and challenges are okay. Embrace the process, support your child and yourself, and stay committed to building authentic relationships to transform your family dynamic.

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Do You Have a Listening Partner Yet? Feb 15, 2024

Do you ever feel like you're on an emotional rollercoaster as a parent? It's normal to feel this way, but finding ways to keep your emotional balance is important. Today on Peace and Parenting, I discuss the importance of a listening partner. This means having someone you can talk to and share your feelings with when you're feeling overwhelmed.

But listening partnerships are not just about venting. They're about finding ways to improve our emotional well-being and build a healthier relationship with our children. Whether we're dealing with life's challenges or simply trying to find inner peace amidst chaos, these partnerships can make a huge difference for every parent out there.

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8 Phrases You Shouldn’t Say to an Upset Child Feb 13, 2024

Have you ever considered how your words might affect your child's emotional well-being during moments of distress? Today, we delve into eight phrases that might unintentionally escalate rather than alleviate their upset. From the seemingly innocent "use your words" to the dreaded "calm down," we'll uncover why these phrases can hinder rather than help our children in times of need.

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7 Things Connected Parents DON’T Do Feb 08, 2024

Many parents often ask me for advice on how to help their children become more resilient and self-reliant. However, today, I am going to share a few things that parents should avoid doing to help their children thrive in the face of adversity. These include not rushing to their children's rescue when facing frustration and not dismissing their children's emotions. By adopting a nurturing approach that balances support and autonomy, connected parents can encourage their children's self-reliance and responsibility. In this way, we can help our children develop resilience from within.

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Preparing Our Children for the Real World Feb 06, 2024

Have you ever wondered if our loving and nurturing parenting style prepares our kids for the harsh realities of the real world? Well, let's dive into this important discussion today as I explore a fascinating question from a concerned dad: How does our parenting method equip our children to face a world that might not be as gentle as our homes?

From the very first moments of life, our children start understanding the real world – from a hospital delivery room to preschool dramas and adolescent struggles. Our goal isn't to mirror the harshness of the outside world in our relationships with our children but rather to create a loving and sacred space where they feel safe to share their ups and downs. Join me as I unravel a key strategy for building resilience: empathy. Discover how providing a safe haven at home, where feelings are validated and understood, helps our children navigate life's challenges.

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Break Free from Rewards and Punishments Feb 01, 2024

Hello, parents! Have you ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of rewards and consequences, searching for a way out? Let's talk about it. Today, I'll answer a question from my Instagram community: How can we break free from the constraints of rewards and consequences in parenting?

But before we dive into specific strategies, let's take a moment to consider what you want from your parenting journey. Do you want a quick fix to get your kids to do chores, or do you want to build a lifelong, harmonious connection with them? Join me as we explore the power of building relationships over control, setting long-term parenting goals, and unleashing the magic of genuine connection.

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How to Raise Resilient Kids Jan 30, 2024

What if the key to raising resilient children lies in our ability to navigate the delicate balance between mistakes and growth? Today we explore the profound impact of internal shame and guilt, which can guide us toward moral integrity. However, what about the external shame that is often unknowingly incorporated into traditional parenting practices? I will share personal insights challenging the norm by examining how corrections, lectures, and judgments may unintentionally erode our children's resilience.

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You Can Trust Your Kids, Here’s Why Jan 25, 2024

Hey there, amazing parents! Ever wondered if you could truly trust your child's moral compass, especially when they seem to make those tiny, questionable decisions? Today we're diving into a profound exploration of why trusting our little ones is the key to unlocking a beautiful parent-child relationship.

Many believe that children are too young to understand the difference between right and wrong. However, did you know that by the age of two, they have already learned a significant amount about morality from observing us? And here's the catch - what if the key to nurturing good behavior in our children isn't constant correction, but rather unwavering trust? If you've ever doubted your child's inherent goodness, this episode is an invitation to see them in the best possible light. Trust your child, and they will trust you in return.

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The Power of Being the Safe Parent Jan 23, 2024

Ever felt the pressure to have kids who always toe the line, never stepping out of bounds? Let's challenge that notion today as we unravel the beauty of raising children who make mistakes, who try on different behaviors, and who are authentically themselves.

But here's the catch: creating a secure connection with your child doesn't always mean smooth sailing. Discover why moments of off-track behaviors are actually signs that your child feels safe expressing their true feelings. We'll navigate the delicate balance between connection and consequences, uncovering the magic that happens when children feel secure enough to call us out on our mistakes.

Join me on this heartfelt journey of parenting that goes beyond perfection, embracing the messy, beautiful reality of raising resilient, authentic souls. Because, my friends, it's in those imperfect moments that the true essence of connection and growth unfolds.

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Navigating Your Child's Unkindness with Grace Jan 18, 2024

Are you a parent who struggles with how to respond when your child says hurtful things? Do you feel caught between wanting to discipline them and wanting to maintain a strong bond? What if I told you there's another approach to help you build a closer connection with your child while teaching them important life lessons?

In a world where punishment and consequences are the norm, it can be hard to imagine a different way of parenting. But by using affection and play, you can turn your child's unkindness into an opportunity for growth. Today I’ll share a personal experience I had with my daughter and how I handled the situation that didn't involve apologies or reprimands. By giving your child the space to navigate their feelings of remorse on their own, you can help them learn to take responsibility for their actions and foster a deeper sense of unconditional love.

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The Power of Limits and Boundaries Instead of Punishments and Rewards Jan 16, 2024

Imagine that you have just asked your child to clean their room, but instead of cooperating, you are met with resistance. Frustration builds up, and you think, "How can I make them listen?" Today, we will explore the essence of discipline and understand the significant difference between limits and consequences.

In a world where traditional approaches often rely on punishments and rewards, I want to introduce you to a more empathetic path. The aim is to unravel the misconception that limits and boundaries require consequences and understand how curiosity can be a powerful tool in understanding your child's actions.

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Breaking the 'Punching Bag' Parenting Myth Jan 11, 2024

Have you ever experienced your child's unkind comments that made you feel like their emotional punching bag? In today's episode, we will delve into this common belief that we, as parents, often feel victimized by our children's behavior. Let's explore why we tend to assume this role and challenge this perception. We will examine the power dynamics between us and our little ones and see if there is a more empowering way to handle such situations.

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What Is Connection and How Do I Use It in My Parenting Jan 09, 2024

Let me share a secret with you about connection, it's not about more time; it's about making every moment count. Today on the Peace and Parenting podcast I delve into the magic of connection. What is it, really? It's not about sacrificing every second or dodging boundaries. It's about building a holistic relationship with room for mess-ups and repair. It's about creating a safe space where mistakes are part of the journey, not the end of it.

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The College Conundrum: Unveiling the Myths Around College and Success Jan 04, 2024

Do you feel society’s pressure pushing our kids to go to college? Well, today on the Peace and Parenting Podcast I want to break free from the college-or-bust narrative! In this episode, I dive deep into the pressures our children face to go to college, not just in the U.S., but across the globe. My daughter, Esme, recently faced the daunting decision of leaving for college, sparking a candid conversation at our dinner table. From alternative paths like community college to challenging the link between grades and success, we explore the liberating notion that success isn't one-size-fits-all. So, are we overloading our children with expectations, or are we nurturing their individuality?

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Replacing “Good Mom” Syndrome for Good Enough Jan 02, 2024

Imagine this: you're at the grocery store, your child throws an unexpected tantrum, and suddenly, you feel the judgmental eyes of society on you. I get it; I've been there. In this episode I unravel the myth of the "good mom" and the relentless pressure we put on ourselves. Together, we'll explore the historical roots of this pressure, the need for control, and the generational traumas we unknowingly carry. Let's break free from the cycle of judgment and embrace the imperfect, beautiful journey of parenthood. It's time to be the "good enough" parent for our kids and ourselves.

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The D-Word: When and How to Navigate a Divorce (With Kate Anthony) Dec 28, 2023

Are you currently in a toxic relationship, but you're staying in it for the sake of your children? Today, I am joined by Kate Anthony, the author of "The D-Word," as we explore the topic of divorce, co-parenting, and the difficult decision-making process that many women have to go through when considering divorce. Kate shares her insights on toxic marriages, societal roles, and how they can affect children. As a divorced parent myself, we both share our personal experiences, discussing our challenges and victories. Kate shares the biggest mistake she made when going through her divorce. If you are considering the D-Word, our conversation might help you understand the complexities of divorce and offer you some guidance and a deeper understanding of this life-changing decision.

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My 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge for You Dec 26, 2023

Many parents often come to me and say "I don't have enough time to be more connected with my kids." They feel that connecting with their children requires a lot of time and effort. However, my answer to that is that the more connected you are to your children, the more time you will eventually have. You can find small moments in your everyday routine to connect with your kids and you will notice a significant difference in your relationship with them.

Today, I am thrilled to announce the launch of my 30-Day Challenge that will help you revolutionize your parenting style. This challenge includes daily reminders and weekly group coaching sessions that are tailored to your parenting needs. It's like a personalized journey to better parenting! And that's not all - you will also have access to my treasure trove of resources that will help you on your parenting journey.

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How to Play With Your Tweens and Teens (with Mary Van Geffen) Dec 21, 2023

Are you struggling to bridge the gap with your older kids through play? Today I am joined by parenting coach Mary Van Geffen in a beautiful conversation that explores the magic of play, especially with the often misunderstood tweens and teens. Mary unveils the secrets of connecting with "spicy" children through play, emphasizing its role as their love language. From penguin wrestling to dance parties, Mary and I share practical tips, creative play ideas, and some unconventional approaches that can turn everyday moments into opportunities for connection.

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Why I Don’t Use Rewards-Based Systems When Parenting Dec 19, 2023

Are you using star charts or food rewards to motivate your kids? Do you think it's making a difference in how they respond? Today I want to take you on a reflective journey into the world of parenting strategies. Drawing from my teaching experience, I question the effectiveness of these methods and explore the individual responses our children have to them. I’ll share the long-term effects of relying on external motivators and uncover the transformative power of connected parenting. It’s time to rethink praise language and engage in conversations that go beyond the surface, delving into the heart of our children's feelings, processes, and learning experiences. Get ready for a thought-provoking exploration that could redefine your parenting approach!

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Case Study: A Playful Approach to Discipline Dec 14, 2023

Today, I talk with a parent who is going through a common issue that most of us have faced at some point in our parenting journey - a child who refuses to communicate during tough moments. Kimberly, a follower of my podcast, is experiencing the highs and lows of raising her 3.5-year-old. Despite practicing connective parenting for over a year, she is struggling as it is difficult to connect with her child when they are not willing to communicate. I share her with some insights on shifting focus from consequences to connection, catering to a strong-willed child's sensitivities, and reducing the weight of shame. If you are struggling to communicate with your child during outbursts of emotions then today’s episode is for you!

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Why I Talk to the Aggressive Child First Dec 12, 2023

When your children are playing, sometimes aggression can surface, and one of your kids might start hitting, causing screaming and crying. Your first instinct might be to console the hurt child, but what if I told you that this approach may not be the best way to resolve the situation? Instead, intervening with connection, empathy, and love can create a turning point and help the aggressive child to calm down. Today, I share some real-life strategies and a counterintuitive approach that emphasizes the importance of being an immediate source of support for the child displaying aggressive behavior.

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Case Study: The Sibling Argument Dilemma Dec 07, 2023

Do your kids often fight with each other and you're looking for a better way to handle such situations? Today, I have Shannon, one of my podcast listeners, on the show to help her tackle the sibling rivalry between her two daughters.

Join us as I provide a unique perspective on why addressing the aggressor before the child who was hurt can help resolve the issue faster. We'll also take a deep dive into the complex web of family dynamics and explore how understanding the roots of sibling rivalry can lead to stronger bonds.

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The Transformative Power of Special Time Dec 05, 2023

What if just 20 minutes a day could revolutionize your connection with your child? In this insightful episode, we explore the transformative power of "special time" in connective parenting. Join me as we unravel the magic of setting aside dedicated moments, navigating distractions, and witnessing the incredible impact on cooperation and family dynamics. Plus, special time isn't just for little ones – discover how this practice transcends age boundaries. Don't miss this chance to enhance your parent-child bond and enjoy more cooperative children.

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The Balance between Free Will and Control Nov 30, 2023

In relationships, especially with your kids, it can be difficult to balance control and free will. Today, we'll explore the complex dynamics of autonomy and connection, and how they apply to parenting. We'll question the different standards we set for children, and consider the parallels between adult relationships and conventional parenting. Have you ever had a partner who tried to control you? Imagine living in a relationship where your free will is constantly suppressed. Now, think about how that translates to parenting. I'll share my personal experiences, the challenges of allowing my child free will, and the transformative power of connective parenting. Tune in to discover why fostering unconditional love and acceptance, without resorting to control, leads to genuine, reciprocal relationships.

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Case Study: Managing Emotions Nov 28, 2023

Have you ever found yourself struggling to manage the needs of your children, especially when they are of different ages and require different levels of attention? Parenting can sometimes feel like a never-ending challenge, and it's not always easy to stay calm and connected with your kids, especially when you're feeling overwhelmed. Recently, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Christina, one of my Instagram followers, to discuss this very topic. Christina had a great question that I'm sure many of us can relate to: How can we regulate our emotions and stay connected with our children, even when we're feeling triggered? In this conversation, we delve into the challenges of self-regulation, dealing with sibling rivalry, and navigating bedtime battles. We share personal stories, insights, and practical tips to help you navigate the ups and downs of parenthood.

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Navigating Tricky Holiday Moments Nov 23, 2023

As we kick off the holiday season, I've got a special episode for all of you who are navigating family gatherings with kids. From questionable hugs to forced thank-yous, we explore why children shouldn't be burdened with these expectations. Today I discuss cultivating genuine connections, respecting a child's boundaries, and the power of play in diffusing tense moments. Learn how setting limits with a playful twist can transform family dynamics.

And for those challenging sibling squabbles or unexpected meltdowns, discover the art of discreetly handling them without an audience. Before you embark on your family festivities, tune in to this episode for a fresh perspective on parenting during the holidays. And happy holidays from the Peace and Parenting podcast!

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Case Study: Preparing for and Recovering from Stimulating Events Nov 21, 2023

Picture this scenario: you have spent several hours at Chuck E. Cheese with your child, surrounded by flashing lights, loud noises, and annoying animatronics. It's time to leave but your three-year-old is throwing a tantrum because they want to stay. Today, my guest Shanon and I tackle the challenge of maintaining a strong connection with your child in stimulating environments. I share my secrets for fostering cooperation when traditional discipline methods just won't work.

Join us as we take you on a journey through the highs and lows of parenting, from leaving a beloved place to handling attention-seeking behavior during adult dinners. This thought-provoking discussion explores the transformative power of connection.

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Ditching Distraction for Genuine Connection Nov 16, 2023

Ever tried distracting your kids when they’re in the middle of a meltdown, you know like “Hey, look at that cute puppy over there” or “Wow, a fire engine”. Today we delve into the world of parenting strategies, specifically the age-old methods of distraction and redirection. We'll explore the potential long-term impacts of steering our little ones away from their feelings. Could it inadvertently shape their coping mechanisms down the road? Spoiler alert: Connection is the key! Discover the magic of turning everyday moments, like a child's whining, into powerful opportunities for empathy, affection, and meaningful connection.

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Parenting Your Quiet, Self-Deprecating Kids Nov 14, 2023

Are you a parent struggling to connect with a child who seems quiet, self-deprecating, and introverted in the face of challenges? You're not alone! I have been struggling with the unique dynamics of parenting children like this with my daughter, Pia.

Today I’ll share my personal journey through the ups and downs of supporting Pia, who is transitioning to high school and grappling with schoolwork, low self-esteem, and a different temperament compared to her outspoken sister. The big question here is: How do we effectively communicate and connect with children who internalize their struggles and emotions?

Discover the power of empathy and the art of being a safe space for your quiet, people-pleasing child. I'll share my own experiences, successes, and setbacks, and offer practical advice on how to resist the urge to fix everything and let them take responsibility for their challenges.

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How to Stop Your Kids from Cursing without Using Punishments Nov 09, 2023

We've all been there – that cringe-worthy moment when your child drops the F-Bomb and you wonder where they picked it up. It can be frustrating and embarrassing, right? Well, today we're diving into the world of kids and profanity. I'll share my own experiences and some powerful insights to help you navigate this challenging phase with empathy and understanding. We'll explore why children might start using these words, the impact of our reactions as parents, and most importantly, how to handle it without resorting to punishments or consequences.

If you're looking for a more effective approach to address profanity and want to create a connected home, this episode is a must-listen. So, let's bring some peace and understanding to those "colorful" moments in parenting. I promise you, you're not alone in this journey!

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Tantrums Are Necessary, Don’t Try to Stop Them Nov 07, 2023

Are you having a hard time dealing with your child's tantrums or meltdowns? Do you feel like you're all alone and helpless, especially when these emotional outbursts occur in public? I understand how difficult it can be because I've been there too. But I want to tell you something important: tantrums are not an indication of a "bad" child, and you shouldn't feel embarrassed about them.

Today, I will discuss the significance of creating space for your child's emotions and utilizing these experiences as opportunities for connection and personal development. By changing our perspective on tantrums and meltdowns, we can cultivate a more compassionate society.

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You Don’t Need Skills You Need Determination Nov 02, 2023

Many people think that the reason I am the parent I am today is because I was a calm and controlled person to begin with. Well, today I invite you to step into my shoes and explore my tumultuous upbringing, shaped by my parents' alcoholism, partying, and a heart-wrenching divorce. It wasn't an easy path. I embarked on a decade-long journey of personal growth, yet I felt ill-prepared to face my parenting challenges. What I realized is that, no matter where you come from, it's your determination that can lead to transformation.

Join me as I delve into the power of curiosity, the importance of confronting our past wounds and triggers, and the incredible strength that comes from believing in yourself. I'm proof that you don't need special skills – just unwavering determination.

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Stop Punishing Yourself Oct 31, 2023

I recently had a heart-to-heart conversation with a parent who was struggling with some very normal parenting challenges. However, she was too harsh on herself and kept blaming herself for the mistakes she made. It's common to feel guilty and ashamed when we make mistakes as parents, but today I want to help you break free from this cycle of self-shaming and focus on growth and self-compassion.

We need to challenge the notion that perfection is the only way to be a good parent. In this episode, we'll discuss how normalizing mistakes, avoiding punishments, and embracing a gentler approach to parenting can create a more nurturing environment for our children. If you're struggling with self-blame, I believe this episode will encourage and empower you.

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Relax, It’s Fine: Underparenting with Caitlin Murray from Big Time Adulting Oct 26, 2023

Join me in this episode for a refreshingly candid conversation with Caitlin Murray, the creative mind behind Big Time Adulting. Caitlin shares her parenting journey, which started as a way to cope with her son's leukemia diagnosis and turned into a humorous and realistic look at parenthood. We discuss the societal pressures parents face today, the struggle to be the "perfect parent," and the importance of embracing the ups and downs of motherhood without pretense.

We explore how to handle negative feedback, the humor in everyday parenting, and why it's essential to keep it real, all while staying true to your unique parenting style. Tune in for a dose of humor, practical parenting wisdom, and an inside look at Caitlin's incredible journey in the world of realistic parenting. So, grab your favorite snack, and let's dive in.

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Unlocking Cooperation with the Key of Connection Oct 24, 2023

Being a parent can be tough, especially when your children don't seem to be listening to you and following your guidance. It's a feeling that many parents can relate to and it can be frustrating at times. But did you know that there is a strong link between cooperation and the quality of your relationship with your child? Today I explore some practical strategies that you can use to encourage your kids to cooperate, from playful interactions to the power of asking just once. By implementing these tips, you can improve the harmony of your family and build a deeper, more meaningful connection with your children.

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Why Reasoning Fails and What to Do Instead Oct 19, 2023

As parents, we often find ourselves in situations where we need to explain our decisions to our children. But what happens when our kids throw tantrums and refuse to listen to reason? In this episode, I will discuss some effective strategies that can help you deal with these challenging moments.

I will explain why trying to reason with your child during a meltdown can often make things worse. Instead, I will offer tips on how to establish a strong connection with your child, even when they are being unreasonable. By making a few simple adjustments, you can turn tantrums into opportunities for growth and create a deeper bond with your kids.

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It’s Okay to Feel Parenting Burnout Oct 17, 2023

Today we'll be exploring the topic of burnout - a feeling that is common among many of us, yet often kept to ourselves. As someone who has been a parent for 18 years, I understand the never-ending responsibilities that come with parenthood, as well as the unique challenges of raising children. Many parents can feel isolated and struggle to balance their personal identity with the demands of parenting, which can take a toll on their mental and emotional health. That's why it's essential to make time for self-care, as it can help us rediscover our inner strength and self-worth.

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Strategies for Long-Lasting Relationships with Your Children Oct 12, 2023

We all fear repeating the mistakes of the past, especially when it comes to our relationships with our children. In this episode, I open up about my own fears and experiences, reflecting on my connection with my mom and my longing for a different kind of bond with my daughters.

We'll explore the power of punishments and why they might not be the best approach for every child. Instead, I'll share practical strategies to nurture connection, like play, empathy, and setting limits with understanding. Plus, we'll discuss the crucial role of unconditional love and how it can truly transform your relationship with your kids. Join me and discover how small steps can lead to a profound and lasting connection with your children.

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Co-parenting after Divorce Oct 10, 2023

Let's explore the challenging world of co-parenting today. Having been a co-parent with my former spouse for quite some time now, I fully comprehend the complexities involved and the significance of maintaining a positive relationship with your co-parent.

Come along with me as we delve into the key factors that contribute to successful co-parenting. We'll also examine the crucial role of avoiding conflicts for the sake of your children and how to protect their emotional well-being. I will share personal experiences, insights, and practical advice that can help make your co-parenting journey more manageable. Remember, there's life and happiness after a divorce, and I'm here to assist you in finding it.

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3 Things You Can Do to Stop Yelling Oct 05, 2023

Today I'm thrilled to share with you three powerful ways you can break free from the cycle of control, yelling, and punishments, and evolve into a more connected and loving parent. I'll share a powerful technique that allows you to gain clarity in those challenging parenting moments, helping you respond in a more positive and effective way.

But perhaps the most essential ingredient in this transformation recipe is the focus on connection. Discover how building a strong bond with your child can lead to better behavior and a lifetime of deep, meaningful relationships.

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The Tools I Give You Won’t Work If You Don’t Change Your Belief System Oct 03, 2023

Have you ever wondered why certain parenting advice doesn't seem to work for you? It's because the magic lies not in the words we use or the techniques we apply but in our underlying belief systems.

Today I explore the beliefs we carry about parenting, where they come from, and how they impact our interactions with our children. We'll uncover the powerful influence of cultural conditioning and discuss the urgent need for a paradigm shift from traditional to connective parenting. I'll share personal insights about how changing my beliefs transformed not only my parenting but also my self-perception.

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How to Change Sep 28, 2023

Today, I'm diving deep into my personal journey from being a control-freak perfectionist mom to becoming a connected, patient parent. Many of you have asked, "How did you do it?" Well, in this episode, I share with you how I transformed my parenting style. From seeking help and undergoing a mindset shift to embracing connective tools and building a supportive community, my journey was a process that I'm eager to share.

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Reducing Screen Time Battles Sep 26, 2023

In today's episode, we're diving headfirst into the ever-present challenge of electronics in our children's lives. As parents, we often find ourselves in a balancing act - how much screen time is too much? How do we create a healthy relationship between our kids and their devices, all while keeping the peace at home?

Today I share with you some practical strategies for navigating this digital landscape, from setting boundaries to fostering a deeper connection with your child. We'll discuss the art of transitioning them away from screens without meltdowns and how building strong connections can naturally reduce their screen time.

Plus, I'll share some secrets to strategically sneak into their digital world to bond over shared interests! Let's tackle this tech dilemma together and find the sweet spot between screens and quality family time.

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A Mother-Daughter Heart-to-Heart Sep 21, 2023

Get ready for a heartwarming first on the Peace in Parenting podcast! joining me today is my amazing daughter, Esme, in a candid conversation about our parenting journey.

Esme, now 18 and entering her senior year, shares her unique perspective on growing up with connected parenting. We discuss our evolution as a family, sibling dynamics, and how trust and open communication have shaped her teenage years.

This episode is filled with love, laughter, and life lessons. Join us for a very special glimpse into the power of a close parent-child relationship.

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How to Handle Bedtime Meltdowns Sep 19, 2023

In today's busy world, we often find it difficult to maintain a strong and loving relationship with our children after a long day at work. However, there is hope. Let me share with you a story of a couple who faced this challenge, but refused to give up. They chose a different approach, one focused on building connection rather than discipline. Learn how they dealt with sibling rivalry through affection rather than punishment, and why consistency played a vital role in their success. Their inspiring journey is a testament to the effectiveness of connection-based parenting.

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Manifesting the Relationship You Want Sep 14, 2023

As a parent, I have come to understand the significance of positivity and self-belief. In today's world of parenting, it is crucial to reshape our relationships with our children. Instead of labeling them as "difficult," we should view their behaviors as a sign of struggle and support them accordingly. By fostering strong connection with our kids, we can bring a positive change in family dynamics and have a profound impact on our children's lives.

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Why I Don’t Correct My Kids Sep 12, 2023

Today I want to challenge some long-standing parenting beliefs, specifically the idea of correction and why the conventional methods of correcting our kids might not be as effective as we think. Children already know when they've made a mistake and our role as parents should be to connect and empathize rather than correct. I encourage you to try a ten-day challenge where you put aside correction and focus on nurturing your parent-child relationships through empathy, play, and affection. I truly believe it’s a journey worth exploring.

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Unpunished: Understanding Your Parenting Instincts Sep 07, 2023

As parents, we often encounter difficulties when our children bring up unresolved emotions and behaviors from our own upbringing. It is essential to be aware of these emotions and reprogram our natural parenting instincts so that we can respond with love, kindness, and understanding instead of anger and punishment. Today, I would like to share an excerpt from my book, "Unpunished," along with some useful journaling prompts that can help us explore our own history and emotions as parents. By doing so, we can gain a deeper understanding of our reactions to our children's behavior and improve our parenting skills.

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Understanding Your Child's Temperament Sep 05, 2023

As parents, we often encounter kids with two distinct temperaments. The first type values their authenticity and won't betray themselves, even if it means risking their relationship with their guardian. The second type of child remains loyal to their caretaker and will do anything to comply with their wishes, often leading to a lack of personal growth. Rather than resorting to control to bring these kids to a middle ground, we can help them find balance by using connection and unconditional love.

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The Mother Wounds Aug 31, 2023

I was deeply hurt by two mothers when I was young, my biological mother who left when I was twelve, and my stepmother who came into the picture shortly after. Both of these mother wounds shaped the way I began my parenting journey and set me on a path that would have been similar for my children.

But it was this that led me to find connected parenting and I was able to change the way I parent and in turn, limit the mother wounds for my kids. If we want to prevent these mother wounds then we have to do the deep transformative work in our parenting.

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Sibling Rivalry: Why What You’re Doing Is Making It Worse Aug 29, 2023

Today, I'm digging into sibling dynamics. From my own struggles with my sister growing up to parenting my two daughters, it's been a journey. When I became a parent of two girls I immediately started overcorrecting their fights, because I didn't want their relationship to be like mine was growing up. But that only fueled the fire. It took me a while to realize my actions were rooted in my past triggers.

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Case Study: I Didn’t Want to Spank Aug 24, 2023

As a parent, Casey faced immense pressure to resort to spanking her children. However, upon discovering my podcast, she felt a strong connection to my approach towards parenting. By joining the Connected Parent Mastermind, she was able to eliminate the use of threats and punishments altogether. Through this, she was able to foster a deeper connection with her children.

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Case Study: The Most Helpful Tools Aug 22, 2023

Today, I have Sharon, one of my Connected Parent Mastermind students who joined the program after having significant clashes with her autistic son. Sharon shares some helpful tools from the mastermind that allowed her to parent both of her kids with more connection and reduce the clashes.

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Case Study: How We React to Tantrums Aug 17, 2023

Today, I have a conversation with Danielle, who is one of my students in the connected parent mastermind group. We discussed the significance of connection and how providing our children with emotional support during intense moments can have a positive impact on future interactions.

During our conversation, Danielle shared a story about an incident that occurred while camping with her son. Her son had a tantrum and even went as far as pointing a fake gun at her. However, what surprised her was how both of them handled the situation.

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Case Study: Minimizing the Yelling Aug 15, 2023

Today, we are joined by Cass and Kathryn from Morrow Marriage, a couple dedicated to helping other couples save their marriages. The Morrows recently became private clients of mine after a heated argument with her daughter resulted in a moment Kathryn was not proud of.

During our collaboration, Cass and Kathryn noticed a significant improvement in their children's behavior. Yelling became less frequent, tantrums were shorter, and they observed more displays of affection and kindness. It's evident that the techniques we implemented had a positive impact on their family.

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How Can We Be More Empathetic with Our Kids Aug 10, 2023

I understand that learning empathy can be a challenging journey, especially if it's not something that was modeled for us in our own upbringing. However, I've learned that empathy is a crucial component of creating a strong connection with our children. That means being present with them, especially during times of big emotions, listening with an open heart, and truly hearing what they have to say. If we can do that, we have the power to turn those moments into opportunities for connection, and that can make all the difference.

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Punishing Aggressive Behavior Doesn’t Work Aug 08, 2023

When a child starts hitting, kicking, or becoming aggressive, our initial reaction is often to punish them. However, punishing a child by sending them to time out, taking away their favorite activity, or grounding them for a weekend, does not effectively teach them right from wrong. I believe that no punishment can teach them because they already know what they did was wrong.

What’s going on in these circumstances is that their prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for reasoning, is not fully developed yet, making it difficult for them to make sound decisions, which happens as adults too. Today I’ll share with you what you can do when aggressive behavior shows up in your kids.

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Are You Battling with a Strong-Willed Child Aug 03, 2023

Raising strong-willed kids can be hard. They can be stubborn and difficult to handle. They are often very sensitive and take criticism personally, which can make them fearful and angry. To help them, we need to connect with them. By building a strong relationship, we can help them feel safer, more secure, and more supported. Listen in today for some techniques that may help them to become more cooperative, resilient, and confident.

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Things Are Good Now Aug 01, 2023

Today, I am feeling particularly grateful for the relationship I have with my children and wanted to share my experience with you in the hopes that it may offer some hope and inspiration. At one point in my journey as a connected parent, I felt so overwhelmed that I considered giving up and resorting to punishments. However, I am so glad that I persevered because it has made all the difference in the world. It hasn't always been an easy road, but the benefits of connected parenting have been well worth the effort.

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Case Study: My Son Has Behavioral Issues Jul 27, 2023

Araminta was struggling with her child's behavioral issues when she discovered Peace and Parenting, which proved to be a lifesaver for her. After signing up for personal coaching the most important lesson she gained was that her son understood the difference between right and wrong, but lacked the ability to regulate his emotions. With this knowledge, Araminta is now better prepared to deal with her son's tantrums and intense feelings without becoming upset herself. She has discovered a method for remaining calm and collected in difficult circumstances.

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Parenting Is Relationship Building Not Behavior Control Jul 25, 2023

As parents, it's natural for us to want our child's bad behavior to stop. But we must remember that kids will act in childish ways because that's just what they are – kids. We need to let go of the idea that we need to find a parenting technique that will miraculously stop bad behavior and instead, shift our mindset to cultivating a long-lasting relationship with our kids.

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Are You Quick to Anger with Your Kids? Jul 20, 2023

Early on in my parenting journey, I snapped at my daughter and yelled so loudly that I scared her. I needed her to listen to me and respect me, but I was actually trying to fulfill an unmet need I had experienced when I was a child. I wanted to be a parent so badly, and I wanted to do it better than my parents. I was trying to be Super Mom, and when my daughter didn't recognize my efforts, I got pissed.

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My Child Prefers the Other Parent Jul 18, 2023

It's completely normal for young children to exhibit a preference for one parent over the other. This doesn't necessarily reflect on your parenting skills. It's simply a common phase that many kids go through. If your child is going through this phase, it's important not to take it personally. However, it's crucial to bear a few things in mind during this phase.

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It’s Not Too Late Jul 13, 2023

In this episode, I share a personal experience that made me rethink my parenting approach and discover the power of connected parenting. I truly believe that it's never too late to mend relationships with your children, regardless of their age. It's also never too late for parents to make positive changes, and I want you to know that you're not alone in your journey. I used to struggle with being a threatening, yelling, and controlling parent, but I was able to make changes and I have faith that you can too.

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Meet Martha One of Our New Connected Parent Mastermind Teachers Jul 11, 2023

Martha faced challenges in deciding how to parent her children, struggling to choose between using punishment and rewards or being permissive. However, after discovering this podcast and going through my coaching she discovered the benefits of connective parenting, which allowed her to empathize with her kids and drastically improve their relationship. And now, Martha is leading one of my Connected Parent Mastermind groups.

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Schools Need to Prioritize Connection Not Curriculum Jul 06, 2023

The impact of standardized testing on the learning experience is quite significant. Teachers are under an immense amount of pressure to produce results since funding is often linked to test scores. This puts them in a difficult spot, as they strive to educate their students while also trying to achieve good grades on tests. Unfortunately, this emphasis on test scores and the curriculum has led to a disconnect between educators and their students. Our education system is mainly focused on performance, but this approach may not be the most effective way to promote learning. If we prioritize building relationships and fostering connections, we may be able to give our students a better chance at academic success.

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Fighting in Front of Your Kids Is Healthy as Long as You Do It Right Jul 04, 2023

It's important to be mindful of how we handle disagreements in front of our kids. Engaging in arguments that involve belittlement, shaming, yelling, or even throwing things can cause anxiety and even aggression in our children. Moreover, they may mimic these behaviors in future arguments because that’s what they were modeled.

On the other hand, by demonstrating how to remain calm and composed during an argument, we can teach our kids valuable life skills. Fighting in a healthy way can teach them valuable life skills and positive conflict resolution.

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How Connection Can Stop Kids Hitting, Kicking, and Biting Jun 29, 2023

In our society, there is a common belief that children who exhibit strong emotions, reactions, and aggressive behaviors are the ones who need to be punished and corrected. However, it's important to recognize that the child who is hitting, kicking, or biting is likely the one who is in pain and struggling, and until we can help them feel better and more connected, everyone around them is at risk of getting hurt.

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What to Do if Your Child Has a Friend or Significant Other That You Don’t Like Jun 27, 2023

Are you worried about your child's choice of friends or that new boy they’re spending so much time with? Today I want to provide you with some guidance on how to handle these situations. It's important to give your child space and support so they can come to their own realizations on how to handle this kind of worrying relationship.

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Society’s Need to Diagnose Jun 22, 2023

Today I tackle a big question from one of my Instagram followers about the bent that society has to label or diagnose young kids with bad behavior, they tend to want to put these kids in a box but the problem here is that this box has been created using artificial parameters around rewards, punishments and threats. Today I share my thoughts on what needs to change because we want our children to be more than just obedient soldiers, which is what society seems to be trying to shape them into.

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The Morning Meltdown Jun 20, 2023

As parents, we all know how tough it can be to deal with tantrums when we're trying to leave the house. It's important to connect with our children in the morning and set a positive tone for the day. In this episode, I will offer you some helpful suggestions for avoiding these challenges and handling difficult situations with understanding and compassion.

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The Difference Between Cooperation and Compliance Jun 15, 2023

When we ask our kids to do something, like a household chore or lend a hand, it's important to approach it in a way that fosters cooperation rather than just demanding compliance. Nobody likes being forced to do something for someone else. Tune in today for some helpful tips on how to encourage cooperation from your kids.

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How to Get My Child to Sleep on Their Own Jun 13, 2023

In today's episode, I'll be answering a question from an Instagram follower who is seeking advice on how to help their 11-year-old child sleep without their presence. This is a common issue, so today I’ll share some helpful tips to assist in getting children of any age to sleep on their own. However, be prepared you may need to experience some big icky feelings.

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Navigating Big Feelings In Public Jun 08, 2023

I often discuss the importance of allowing children to experience and express their emotions, however, what should we do when our children have these emotional outbursts in public places, like a tantrum at the mall, in line at the supermarket, or even worse, in the middle of a flight? Today, I would like to share how I handle these situations, and spoiler alert… much of it involves releasing any concern about the opinions of others.

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What to Do if My Child Doesn’t Do Well in School Jun 06, 2023

It can be challenging to decide on the best way to approach your child's grades because each child and situation is unique. However, I would like to share some ideas today on how to manage this situation in a way that prioritizes your relationship with your child and lessens the societal expectations that often come with “good grades”.

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Parenting Hacks to Make Life Easier Jun 01, 2023

As a fellow parent, I've gathered some quick and useful parenting tips over the years that can help you take a break or handle challenging situations more easily. These hacks are aimed at making your life as a parent a bit smoother. I hope you find them beneficial!

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Connection With Teenagers (with Kirsten Cobabe) May 30, 2023

Many people have contacted me requesting more episodes on teenagers, so I have invited teen whisperer Kirsten Cobabe to join me today. We will be discussing the significant change that occurs when our children transition from wanting to do things with us to desiring independence. Our conversation will include curfews and how, despite appearing more like adults, teenagers still get dysregulated and still have big feelings.

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How I Use Connection With Chores May 25, 2023

Let's face it, chores can be a real drag for everyone, even you! So don’t expect your kids to jump at the chance to do them whenever you ask. What we’re hoping for really, is just less protesting. In this episode, I’ll give you some tips about dealing with chores and share with you my story of how I used connection consistently, and sure enough over time got the results I was after.

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What Do You Do When the Principal Calls May 23, 2023

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Have you received a call from the principal asking you to come into the school because your child has been involved in some sort of incident? If so it may have brought up feelings of concern and shame because we think it's a reflection on us. Today I want to give you some helpful tips on how to handle this situation with calmness and connection both with your child and with the teachers.

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How Do You Know if Connected Parenting Is Working May 18, 2023

If you're worried that connected parenting will never work, or that you might be stuck in these intense emotions forever, don't lose hope. Today, I would like to share with you a few small things to take notice of that can provide you with encouragement that your efforts are paying off. Just keep at it, and things will improve!

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Unpunished: Redefining Parenting Through Connection May 16, 2023

Today I want to read to you another excerpt from my new book Unpunished, it’s from the chapter entitled Redefining Parenting Through Connection and I share with you what happened when I shifted away from a desire to control to a desire for relationship with my kids.

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A Little Pep Talk May 11, 2023

Today I want to give those who have started on this journey of connected parenting some much-needed encouragement. We can often get stuck in the muck what with all the refusals, fighting, poor choices, and big feelings. But bad moments don’t mean you are not progressing, and every day you need to look for those beautiful moments too. Listen in as I give you some indicators that you’re on the right track.

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Parenting With a Partner May 09, 2023

Today I want to help parents trying to implement connected parenting with their partners. I’ll talk about the challenges of using different parenting styles and how to avoid shaming your partner. I also have some great tips for getting your partner on board if they haven’t already started the connected parenting journey yet. Because what kids need the most is a consistent and supportive parenting approach.

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Showing Unconditional Love May 04, 2023

If I asked any parent if they love their kid unconditionally they are more than likely going to say yes, but how do we show our kids this? Because it's a very different feeling coming from the child's side of things. We can tell them this over and over with our words but kids make this assessment based on how we act and more importantly react to them. Today I want to help you with some thoughts about showing our kids unconditional love.

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How to Use Play in Parenting May 02, 2023

Today I want to explore how play can be a powerful tool to shift the mood of your family, salvage challenging interactions, and ultimately build connection with your kids. I’ll share with you the importance of timing and give you some practical tips for incorporating play into your parenting toolkit.

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Are You the Default Parent Apr 27, 2023

Have you at any time thought to yourself what is wrong with my parenting? Why are my kids so good with other people but with me, they throw tantrums, yell, scream, and disobey? It’s not because you’re doing something wrong it’s because you’re doing something right. You are likely their default parent which means you’re their only safe place to go when they need to unload their big feelings, but of course, this can become overwhelming. Today I give you some great advice to help you if you find yourself as the default parent.

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I Don’t Discipline My Kids, Here’s What I Do Instead Apr 25, 2023

When I say discipline, most of us immediately go to a vision of punishing our kids when they do something wrong, like confiscating something or time outs. For some, it can even mean physical punishments like spanking. That’s because we have a very traditional sense of the word discipline.

I don’t use any of these traditional forms of discipline on my kids, that's because they are watching every move I make and will inevitably do the same when I’m not around. We have to give our kids credit for knowing what’s right and wrong and instead, try to model the behavior which we want them to embody.

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Peace and Parenting Trailer Apr 20, 2023

Hey fellow parents, I’m Michelle Kenney, a former yeller, recovering perfectionist, and a reformed control freak. For the last 20 years, I have been helping parents find more calm and peace at home. I do this by helping them move away from yelling, threats, and bribes and into more connection with their kids.

Every Tuesday & Thursday I release a new episode with practical tools, and evidence-based research to help parents navigate conflict, set boundaries and foster positive family dynamics. Find an episode topic that speaks to you and check it out, I would love to help you find more peace at home.

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Breaking Free From Fear-Based Parenting Apr 20, 2023

Today I want to talk about parenting from fear. As parents, we all want to protect our children from experiencing the hardships and pain we went through as children. However, in doing so, are we unintentionally hindering their growth and development? By examining where we are fearful in our parenting, we can recognize areas where we may need to let go and trust our children to make their own mistakes and learn from them.

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Harsh Parenting Affects All Relationships Apr 18, 2023

Society has set us up that a harsh word or a harsh tone is how we fix bad behavior. But if one child is receiving harshness because their behavior is difficult and hard to manage, we have to be mindful that everyone is watching and it is going to affect all of the relationships in the house.

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I Don’t Care About Grades… Here’s Why Apr 13, 2023

From a young age, the education system teaches us (and our kids) that grades are the metrics for assessing if they are doing well but this can put a lot of pressure on them. I have decided instead to give my kids responsibility for their own grades instead of constantly harping on them to get good grades. I want to help them focus on learning the material and understanding why they're struggling if they're having a hard time.

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Unpunished: The Pressure to Be the Perfect Parent Apr 11, 2023

On the 200th episode, I reflect on a significant lesson I've learned: being my child's best friend doesn't eliminate conflict. I used to put immense pressure on myself to be perfect, but I've since realized that connected parenting is built on unconditional acceptance, not back-and-forth games. It's okay to make mistakes as a parent, and building a strong connection with our children is what truly matters. Thanks for joining me on this journey!

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Using Probing Questions to Help Your Child’s Decision-Making Skills Apr 06, 2023

I believe every child needs to be a good decision-maker, but they can't become good decision-makers if they don’t have decisions to make. While giving advice may seem like good parenting, I think it actually hinders children's ability to learn from their mistakes. Instead, I suggest we listen to our little ones first and use some probing questions to help them make their own decisions. With the right approach, children can learn to help themselves and bounce back from their failures with ease.

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How to Know if Your Parenting Is Working Apr 04, 2023

If you’ve recently started on this connected parenting journey sometimes it's hard to know if you’re getting any results. Many of my clients are concerned that their kids are still misbehaving, and still fighting with each other, and still throwing tantrums. But that’s not how we measure your parenting, we measure by way of how YOU are feeling, whether you are calmer and more in control. Just because we change doesn’t mean our kids will change, it takes them a while.

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I Was the Most Disconnected Stay-At-Home Mom Mar 30, 2023

In the early days of my parenting journey, I was all about activities and productivity, I wanted to get things done! I tried to fix my own childhood through my motherhood. I was providing everything for these kids, home-cooked meals, extracurricular activities, play dates, and structure but I was missing one big thing. And when I discovered it, everything changed.

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My Kids Won’t Listen to Me Mar 28, 2023

Are you tired of asking your kids to do something and being met with resistance, complaining, and pushback? Today I want to share with you why this is happening and how cooperation comes when we first work on creating a strong bond with our kids.

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Unpunished: Road to Empathy Mar 23, 2023

Today I want to read to you an excerpt from my new book Unpunished, it’s from the chapter entitled Road to Empathy and I share a story about how the shame around wanting to be the “good mom” was my biggest motivator to get my kids to school on time.

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I’ve Tried Connected Parenting but It’s Getting Worse Mar 21, 2023

If you’ve recently started trying connected parenting you may have the same question many of my clients have and that is “why is it getting worse?”. When you start doing away with punishments, rewards, and time-outs we often see a rise in quote-unquote “bad behavior” but listen in today as I share with you what’s really going in here and how it’s actually a necessary step forward in the journey to a more connected relationship with your child.

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A New Parenting Mindset Mar 16, 2023

One of the first things we need to do in order to implement a connected parenting style is to change our mindset. But making this shift is extremely difficult because society has told us that children are inherently bad and that they need us to make them good. I don’t believe this is true and if we can get past the judgment and allow our kids to make mistakes and sit with them during the hard times it will create a much more connected and empathetic kid as they grow up.

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Why Does Our Childs Behavior Anger Us Mar 14, 2023

Have you ever yelled at your child for leaving their clothes on the floor or not hanging their school bag up when they walk in the door? Today I want to unpack why it is that our children’s behavior can trigger us into wild outbursts of anger and how although we will never be able to control our kid's actions, we can control our reactions.

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Connection Is About the Quality of Time Not the Quantity Mar 09, 2023

If you were born in the ’80s or ‘90’s you were more than likely raised using shame and threats and punishments. This is no fault of our parents they were doing what they thought was right but this model doesn’t foster a great parent-child relationship. Coming in with empathy and understanding when our kids make mistakes infuses more connection into the relationship. And guess what, it’s not about the amount of time we spend with our child that builds a deep, meaningful, rich relationship it’s about the quality of time.

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How I Use Tantrums to Connect Mar 07, 2023

Today I want to give you some ways to use those moments when your child is having a tantrum or big feelings as a way to connect with them. If we can use these moments well by giving them space and showing them self-regulation. It will teach them so much and do wonders for your relationship in the years to come.

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Connection Is Better Than Correction Mar 02, 2023

Many of us grew up with our parents teaching us lessons through correction, we would make a mistake or do something wrong and our parents would come in with phrases like ”You shouldn’t have done that” or “That was wrong”. In this episode, I'll show you how you come in with connection instead and why this goes further towards building relationship with our kids.

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Why We Shouldn’t Say “You Hurt My Feelings” to Our Kids Feb 28, 2023

I recently made a post on Instagram where I told parents they should not say to their kids “You hurt my feelings” whenever they say something mean or unkind. This post garnered a lot of comments so I thought I would unpack it further in today’s episode. The parent-child relationship differs from our other relationships, we have to give our kids space to have big feelings and say things without shaming them and making it about us and how we feel.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Can Connective Parenting Be Manipulative Feb 23, 2023

I have had parents suggest that connective parenting can be construed as distracting or manipulative, I think there are times when this could be true, so today I want to share with you how you can avoid this and make coming in with connection and play a way to better the relationship before trying to better the behavior.

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How to Reduce Sibling Rivalry Feb 21, 2023

As parents, we often think that we need to step in between sibling arguments and rescue the child who is the victim of this aggressive behavior from their sibling, Today on the show I want to talk about using connection and empathy instead of shame and how this shift in how I handled these situations with my kids eventually helped them to think more clearly and even work things out without me.

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Parenting Is an Endeavor in Changing Our Behavior Not Our Kids Feb 16, 2023

We might think that it’s our role as parents to modify and correct the behavior of our kids, and we often do that by using rewards and punishments. But this is an archaic principle developed from lab tests with rats. Today Michelle talks about how being a parent is more about relationship management, and changing our own behavior and self-regulation is the key to influencing our kid's behavior.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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How Special Time Builds Connection With Your Child Feb 14, 2023

If you’ve been listening to Peace and Parenting for a while you’ll have heard Michelle talk about “Special Time”. Today she unpacks the benefit it has for both your kids and you, and some of the rules and pitfalls around creating these special moments of connection with your kids. And if you have teens there are some great tips in here for how to do this with those more reluctant ages.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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When Our Kids Make Mistakes Feb 09, 2023

As parents, we naturally resort to correction, yelling, punishments, and even shame when our kids make mistakes. But these actions often convey that our love for them depends on their behavior. Listen in today as Michelle helps you understand how to show your kids unconditional love when moments get tough.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space and prices increase on Feb 10, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Michelle’s Story and the Birth of Peace and Parenting Feb 07, 2023

Michelle shares the story behind Peace And Parenting and how a moment in the family pool lead to her discovering connected parenting. She threw away the star charts, rewards, and punishments and began connecting with her kids and it changed her life and the relationship she has with her kids.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space and prices increase on Feb 10, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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Using Special Time and Roughhousing to Prevent Sibling Rivalry Feb 02, 2023

Having trouble with your kids fighting during playtime? In today’s episode, Michelle answers questions from one of her followers and gives us all tips for dealing with that one child who has gone offline and how she uses special time and roughhousing to get them back online again.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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Underparenting is Essential Jan 31, 2023

Being a parent is hard. There are so many responsibilities, errands, extracurricular activities, pick-ups, drop-offs, and bills to pay, not to mention your other relationships to maintain. Today Michelle gives you a reason to underparent, to sit on the couch and watch a movie or have that second bowl of dessert. It's actually a necessary part of becoming a connected parent.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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Agreeable Kids Have Feelings Too Jan 26, 2023

Sometimes it seems as if one or more of our kids doesn't have feelings, or is okay with anything. As if they are so easy in nature that nothing bothers them. Maybe that is true to some degree. Perhaps they are more easygoing personalities, but what if those feelings are there and just need a place to come out and space to be seen and heard?

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Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive Kids Jan 24, 2023

Strong-willed kids are often sensitive, like my sweet Esme. These kids will make parenting using conventional ideas very challenging. Good for them to push back against the ideas of control and manipulation. Their internal workings tell them these tactics are attacks on their psyche. The problem is they come out fighting and then the circle of behavior begins with little hope of getting it to stop except through connection. Let's dive in and see just exactly how we can help these lovely beings.

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Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

Are you a coach, or an online course creator? Have an email list you communicate with often? Do you have a website? Kajabi can be your home for all of these and so much more click here and explore all Kajabi has to offer while supporting the Peace and Parenting Podcast at no extra cost to you.

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Being the Safe Container for Your Child Jan 19, 2023

The feelings our children display can be difficult for us to endure. However, when we do with calm, we show them we are safe and able to be their container. As life moves on we are cementing this idea. When things are hard where will they come? But only if we can illustrate we are actually safe.

Having trouble sleeping? I have been using both the Sleep Ez Natural Support capsules and the Aromatherapy Lavender Spray from Botanic Choice to help me relax and let go of the day. Botanic Choice is a trusted brand supplying a wide range of vitamins and supplements. Head over to https://www.botanicchoice.com/ and use code MICHELLE15 to get an exclusive 15% off anything sitewide.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

Are you a coach, or an online course creator? Have an email list you communicate with often? Do you have a website? Kajabi can be your home for all of these and so much more click here and explore all Kajabi has to offer while supporting the Peace and Parenting Podcast at no extra cost to you.

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How to Respond to Disappointments Jan 17, 2023

Often we say our child is upset when they “don’t get their own way” but is it that simple and are they “allowed to have feelings around disappointment? Aren’t we upset when things don’t go our own way? Isn’t it true we feel disappointed or defeated? Just because they are little doesn’t mean they aren’t “allowed” to have those feelings too.

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Why Is Connective Parenting for All Kids Jan 12, 2023

Connective parenting is for all kids because it draws from the ideas of unconditional love and relationship instead of rewards and punishments. All children and all people thrive with connection and do not do well with punishment, belittlement, or harshness. Who wants to be treated in these ways and what does this type of treatment do to a child's brain? Find out all the answers in this week's podcast.

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Do We Believe We Aren’t Good Enough Parents Jan 10, 2023

Do we actually believe we aren’t good enough parents because we weren’t good enough kids? Were our mistakes punished and pointed out in order to make us feel bad and do we feel bad now when we mess up, chastise ourselves and hold ourselves to unattainable standards like the ones our parents held us to? I believe this could be a big part of the parent shaming cycle that never ends but continues outside of our childhood. Let’s reframe this idea.

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Connection Is Vital in Parenting Jan 05, 2023

The brain functions well with connection and is at ease when they feel good about the people that are around. Especially children and babies. The limbic system looks to connect with other limbic systems in order to feel safe. Our children are constantly looking to make connections in order to establish a deep connection with a caretaker to ensure they are taken care of. They are provided shelter, sustenance, and protection. Maintaining connections for children is vital to their existence. Listen to this week's episode as Michelle more deeply explains.

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I Was My Daughter’s First Bully Jan 03, 2023

This realization of being a bully didn’t come to Michelle early on in parenting, but as she reflects she now sees her behavior as a young mom resembled that of bullying. The yelling, threats, bribes, and shame aren’t something any child should have to live with, and really no person. Do we want to show up in our loving relationships in this way or would we rather come to them with love and understanding? It can be hard when society and often our own families are telling us otherwise.

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7 Things to Help You Be a More Connected Parent Dec 22, 2022

There are some things that we can keep top of mind when we are thinking about being a connected parent. Michelle gives you a short list to help outline just what it means to be a connected parent and how we can reframe our thoughts and minds to stay on our path of coming with unconditional love and guidance as opposed to being the judge and jury.

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Anxiety Around Parenthood with Guest Sheryl Paul Dec 20, 2022

There is much anxiety around being a parent. So much so that it can be paralyzing or have us believing we are “messing” up our kids or otherwise ruining them. There’s a place to give ourselves grace and to also recognize where some of those anxieties stem from Join Michelle and the Lovely Sheryl Paul from @wisdomofanxiety as she shares her deep wisdom around parenting and anxiety.

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Fixing Things With Our Partners and Our Kids With Guest Dr. Tracy D Dec 15, 2022

Are we wired to fix things with our kids and perhaps with our partners as well? Does this place us in a position to miss the feelings which might be mulling around and go straight to this idea that we cannot allow our loved ones to suffer, as it might be too difficult for us? Dr. Tracy D collaborates on a joint podcast where she and Michelle discuss how these ideas show up both in our partnerships and our parenting.

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A Daily Reset Dec 13, 2022

I had a client ask for a daily reset and so here it is. Ten things to think about that can help you reframe your day as you begin to parent, or perhaps before you pick them up or as you are embarking on a long vacation, or just whenever.

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Let’s Be Honest… Parenting Is Hard Dec 08, 2022

Let’s be honest parenting is really hard and sometimes impossible. This week I keep it real with you and tell you all the things that have me stumped. It doesn’t mean I love my kids less, but it does mean that I struggle just like you, and to be honest there are days I want to run away. There are days I wish they were grown and there are days when it is more challenging than I ever imagined.

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Co-Regulation vs Self-Regulation Dec 06, 2022

There's much discussion about regulation. How do I get my child to self-regulate? How do I get them to learn about their emotions and learn emotional regulation? Can I teach it to them and what is the best way? Many folks want to explain and teach breathing techniques and ways to name their feelings. But co-regulation is where it's really at. Co-regulation is where kids really internalize the idea of maintaining their cool.

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Respect…How Do We Get It Dec 01, 2022

Respect is something society tells us our children "need" to have for us. Kids are expected to respect their elders and "be" respectful. Much of the respect I see is respect that is forced and not the kind that is earned. My children need to earn my respect and me theirs. We live in a reciprocal relationship that is based on mutual respect. Isn't that what we want in our other loving relationships? Why would this one be any different?

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Is Punishment Revenge Nov 29, 2022

Yep, I said it, and I believe it. Punishment is revenge in a very real way. We don’t punish children for any other reason except we want them to “pay” for what they did. It’s not our fault, as our parents did the same thing. If we look at our own childhood we can remember what it felt like and how punitive and unkind it came across. Is this what we want for our kids?

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Instilling Gratitude Nov 24, 2022

How do we teach our children gratitude? Is it through direct instruction or lessons on being grateful? Do we point out all the things in their lives that they should be grateful for, or make them regurgitate things they are grateful for at the Thanksgiving Table? What is being grateful anyway and how do we show our children we are grateful for them? Have a listen and maybe gain a different perspective.

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The New Apology: Making Amends Nov 22, 2022

I’m sorry might not be enough! It may not convey the real message that we both want to express when we feel remorse and we want our children to also express when they feel true remorse. Let me help you cultivate a more dynamic and heartfelt apology that feels better and is undoubtedly more helpful.

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It’s Not Too Late for Any Relationship Nov 17, 2022

Many sweet parents ask me if it’s too late for them and their children. If they have damaged the relationship so much that it is irreparable. Let me reassure you today that it is not! Life is messy and full of mistakes and that is what makes it all a human experience.

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What Does Fight, Flight or Freeze Do to the Mind and Body Nov 15, 2022

The fight, flight, or freeze response is to keep us safe. Our bodies and mind go into overdrive. But what if that overdrive is activated time and again? Are there physical and emotional implications? What can we do to keep ourselves and our children calm instead of igniting a fear response both in them and in us?

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Giving Responsibilities to Our Children Nov 10, 2022

Bedtime, bathtime, and homework become very sticky places at times between us and our children. We often struggle here where maybe we don’t need to. Isn’t the goal to have self-sufficient kids who know how to take care of themselves? But how will they learn when they feel hungry, tired, or dirty if we are constantly micromanaging these chores?

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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Is It Too Late to Change The Way I Parent Nov 08, 2022

Is it too late? This is a question parents ask often about changing the way in which they parent. Am I too late? Can I make a difference with an older child and what can I do to cultivate a relationship with an adult kid? I answer these questions and touch on the idea of manners as I talk with my lovely guest Jennifer, a mother of three kids.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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Co-parenting Plan With Lesa Koski Nov 03, 2022

Divorce can be quite difficult for us and our children. Coming up with a plan is essential to keeping the divorce focused on the kids and not our conflict. Lesa Koski joins me as a mediator and attorney who gives us some ways to help ease tensions between us and our soon-to-be exes.

I was recently a guest on Lesa's podcast Doing Divorce Different, check out the episode here.

You can also check out her website here https://www.lesakoski.com/

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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Is Focusing on School and Sports Success Important Nov 01, 2022

When we place emphasis on succeeding in sports or activities are we doing our child a disservice? Isn’t the point of sports and extracurricular activities to have fun and enjoy? What about school? Aren’t we there really to learn, to socialize? When the pressures become too great they can have a negative impact on our children.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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What to Do When Our Child Says No Oct 27, 2022

Cooperation is the number one complaint I hear from parents. What do we do if they do not do as I ask? How do I get the to say yes and what do I do when they say no? We use connection, but how. Listen in as I give you some pointers and if you want to you can take my course Guide to Cooperation to learn all the tools of connection along with the ins and outs of cooperation and hearing they ever coveted yes!

Here's another episode I did about transitioning out of the house with kids...

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

Are you a coach, or online course creator? Have an email list you communicate with often? Do you have a website? Kajabi can be your home for all of these and so much more click here and explore all Kajabi has to offer while supporting the Peace and Parenting Podcast with no extra cost to you.

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When Our Children Struggle Do We Internalize It Oct 25, 2022

Sometimes when our kids struggle we blame ourselves and hold ourselves accountable. We believe it’s our fault especially when there are big ugly feelings. Can we instead be present and grounded in those feelings and bear witness to help them come through and help them know those big ugly feelings are totally normal? This builds grit and emotional regulation.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

Are you a coach, or online course creator? Have an email list you communicate with often? Do you have a website? Kajabi can be your home for all of these and so much more click here and explore all Kajabi has to offer while supporting the Peace and Parenting Podcast with no extra cost to you.

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Gentle Parenting Doesn’t Create Snowflakes Oct 20, 2022

Gentle parenting or conscious parenting if done right does not create children who are “snowflakes”. What is a snowflake anyway and how can we both come to our kids with kindness and avoid creating adults who cannot withstand upsetting and hard moments in life? Could our overparenting be hindering us, and what about underparenting? Goodness, there’s too much to discuss.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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How to Respond to Misbehavior With Connection Oct 18, 2022

When our child misbehaves the first thing to do is to make it stop and our next thought is to correct, scold or punish. Why? Because this is precisely what our parents would do and what society tells us will “work” to get the behavior to cease. Let me offer you a reframe and a different thought which could totally transform your home. No more punishments necessary.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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Misconceptions of Connective Parenting Oct 13, 2022

Connective/conscious and gentle parenting is often perceived as permissive. Many people believe children will grow up unruly and unable to identify right from wrong and lack the skills to overcome upsetting moments. Listen in as I discuss why none do this is true.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

Are you a coach, or online course creator? Have an email list you communicate with often? Do you have a website? Kajabi can be your home for all of these and so much more click here and explore all Kajabi has to offer while supporting the Peace and Parenting Podcast with no extra cost to you.

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What About the Compliant Child Oct 11, 2022

Is our more amiable child really easy going or could there be reasons that they are easygoing? Are they affected by the interactions they witness, is their temperament different than those kids who are fighting to be heard and understood and how can we insure they have a voice later in life and aren’t people pleasers? Listen in and get a new perspective.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

Are you a coach, or online course creator? Have an email list you communicate with often? Do you have a website? Kajabi can be your home for all of these and so much more click here and explore all Kajabi has to offer while supporting the Peace and Parenting Podcast with no extra cost to you.

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What Do We Do When Our Kids Are Unsafe and Won’t Listen Oct 06, 2022

They ran across the street and didn’t even look, they almost did it on purpose. Now what? I want to come to them with connection but how? The 16-year-old goes to the party and drinks, they don't listen to me now what? Listen in and find out the answer to this important question. We can both come to them with connection and keep them safe.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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What to Do When We Yell With Parent Guest Katie Oct 04, 2022

What are the first signs of yelling or becoming dysregulated and what can we do to help keep ourselves calm in those hard moments? What is behind the urge to yell, and what techniques can we use as the first defense against yelling? Is our own well-being directly linked to how well we parent and is COVID still lurking in our psyche? Listen in as I discuss these issues with my lovely guest Katie a mom of three girls.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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We Are Not Our Parents Sep 29, 2022

We overly stress about the trauma we might be causing our children. We often believe every misstep and slip up will “ruin” our kids. I hear this often from my clients and on Social Media. But the trauma we went through as children is not the same as what our kids are experiencing with us. Let me put your mind at ease in this podcast episode.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

Are you a coach, or online course creator? Have an email list you communicate with often? Do you have a website? Kajabi can be your home for all of these and so much more click here and explore all Kajabi has to offer while supporting the Peace and Parenting Podcast with no extra cost to you.

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Natural and Logical Consequences Sep 27, 2022

Even I have a difficult time figuring out what the heck everyone is talking about. It’s not just punishments anymore. Now we have logical consequences and natural consequences and regular consequences? Do I have that right, they are all different? I am finding it more and more confusing. I attempt to make a distinction in this episode. Let me know what you think. Leave us a rating and tell us your thoughts on this episode.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

Are you a coach, or online course creator? Have an email list you communicate with often? Do you have a website? Kajabi can be your home for all of these and so much more click here and explore all Kajabi has to offer while supporting the Peace and Parenting Podcast with no extra cost to you.

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Our Child’s Inner Voice Can Be Derived From How We Speak and Act Sep 22, 2022

Even if we are doing away with punishments we can still have a critical attitude when it comes to our children. Those criticisms and judgments might stick deeper than all of the positive things we are experiencing with our kids each day. Our mind processes positive and negative things differently. Unfortunately, the negative things become our focus. When they do, can they get stuck in our inner speak? How can we help our kids gain positive inner speak?

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

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Scarcity and How It Plays Out in Parenting Sep 20, 2022

What does scarcity have to do with parenting? Are there moments in our parenting where we are creating more desire where we don’t necessarily need to be? Do things that feel scarce end up being more sought after just because they are scarce? How can we make things a bit easier for ourselves in order to unwind this tight string?

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Rushing and Being Late Sep 15, 2022

Rushing and being late can stress our parenting and our kids, not to mention us. What works when we are late and how can we mitigate the stress and angst we are experiencing and also place on our kids in moments which are difficult? Have a listen and see what you think.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through some icky places in my own past. If you want to try, download my FREE guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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Understanding Big Emotions Sep 13, 2022

Coming alongside my own children when they were having huge feelings was never easy, but it got so over time. I learned to be supportive during the upheaval and it ultimately helped everyone including myself. In my course: Understanding Big Emotions, I teach you how to do the same. Click here to take this online, on-demand, hour-long course.

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Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

Working on our own inner hurts and childhood triggers can unravel many of our parenting issues. I do this with journaling and it has helped me work through so icky places in my own past. If you want to try download my Free guide: Healing Ourselves Through Journaling.

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Connected parenting can move behaviors and help keep homes calm and manageable. But how do we do it? What is the method and how can we apply “connection” to our everyday experiences with our children? Click here to download my FREE guide and get the key components of connective parenting.

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How Do We Teach Our Children Empathy Jul 25, 2022

We all want our children to be empathic, but how do we teach it, and is it teachable or do we leave it up to nature? I am solo this week answering a question from my podcast editor and his wife. I think we all have this question…how do we make sure our children care about other people? Listen in as I give some ideas that might be helpful to you too.

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Connected parenting can move behaviors and help keep homes calm and manageable. But how do we do it? What is the method and how can we apply “connection” to our everyday experiences with our children? Click here to download my FREE guide and get the key components of connective parenting.

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Peace and Parenting with Mr. Chazz Jul 18, 2022

If you don’t know Mr. Chazz you should! He is a preschool teacher turned parenting expert with some helpful and incredible insights into raising kids consciously. Have a listen and get his unique perspective and thoughtful responses around helping kids with tough behaviors.

Connect with Mr. Chazz on Instagram @mrchazz

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Connected parenting can move behaviors and help keep homes calm and manageable. But how do we do it? What is the method and how can we apply “connection” to our everyday experiences with our children? Click here to download my FREE guide and get the key components of connective parenting.

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Julian Sarafian Tells Us His Journey of His Educational and Professional “Success” Jul 11, 2022

Julian Sarafian is a young attorney who has the pedigree we all wish for our children or should we? Julian succumbed to many of the pressures society places on children to do more and be better. To the detriment of his mental health and happiness. Michelle and he discuss his journey and help us reframe what success really is in 2022.

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Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

Connected parenting can move behaviors and help keep homes calm and manageable. But how do we do it? What is the method and how can we apply “connection” to our everyday experiences with our children? Click here to download my FREE guide and get the key components of connective parenting.

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Long Time IG Follower Gabrielle and I Keep it Real About Parenting Jun 27, 2022

We are expected to parent perfectly, have well-behaved kids, take care of the house and everything else. This is so unrealistic and unattainable. Gabrielle and I keep it real, say it like it is, and are honest about the fact that we mess up, parenting is hard and some days it’s fine to say you don’t want to do it or Special Time! Let’s be honest, 20 minutes of Lego can be excruciating.

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Michelle Answers Parenting Questions with IG Follower Sarah Jun 20, 2022

Sarah, a mom of two girls, wants to help her oldest with control and needs to direct her baby sister. We also discuss issues around getting dressed and ways to implement the “good” kinds of choice and control. Join me with mama Sarah and dive into the principles of connection and the effectiveness of Special Time.

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Parenting Questions with Comedian Alyce Chan Jun 13, 2022

Comedy is connective and can bring together communities. Alyce brings us comic relief shamelessly in her incredible IG (@momcomnyc) and onstage. And now I get to dive in with her about her parenting struggles, particularly around what to do when your child hits you? Are you promoting hitting by allowing it? Should we punish? Listen in as funny lady Alyce and I discuss.

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Punishments Vs Limits Jun 06, 2022

It can get confusing when it comes to trying to set limits without the use of punishments or rewards. How do we get our kids to do “x’ and what happens if they don’t? What can we “do” instead of using a punishment or a reward? Do we just let them do whatever they want and stand by and watch? No. Have a listen and get some helpful ideas.

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How to Raise Self Sufficient Kids May 30, 2022

All of us want the same thing. Well adjusted kids who can take care of themselves on every level, and hopefully take care of themselves better than we do! But how? How do we make sure they learn all the lessons, make meaning of all the experiences and know right from wrong while still embodying who they are and how to “be” in this world. It’s no easy feat and it certainly doesn’t come without its challenges. This week I will discuss just that!

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What to do When Your Child Says Something Unkind May 23, 2022

It can be unhinging for us to hear our child say something mean. We can go down a rabbit hole of thinking our child is disrespectful and will end up in jail because of the things they say. Re-framing this idea and coming to our kids with more connection might be the only way we can unravel this hard parenting moment. This week's podcast will help you find more perspective when it comes to the unkind things our child says.

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How to Navigate Homework and Grades May 16, 2022

Homework and grades can become such a struggle in our homes. How can we help our kids be successful and also take responsibility for their grades and homework? Is it possible to take a step back and still have kids who want to succeed at school? How can we instill self-motivation and pride without being the warden of grades and homework? Join me on the podcast as I give you real-life examples and ways to come to homework and grades with more connection and less coercion.

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Michelle Answers More Parenting Questions May 09, 2022

Katie, a mother of 2 gets advice from Michelle about using special time with her girls, when is the best time of day for this to get the most out of it, and how to navigate the uniqueness of each child. Join me and Katie as I answer all of her parenting questions through the lens of positive parenting.

Want to make yelling a thing of the past! Are you tired of apologizing for becoming upset and losing your cool? You can come to parenting with more love and connection by learning my 3 pronged approach to yelling in this online workshop course which is only $19.99. This on-demand course (formerly known as How to Stop Yelling) is yours to keep in perpetuity. Click here and begin your journey to a home free from yelling.

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Are you ready to change your family dynamic through connective parenting? Work with me one on one and together we’ll hone in on the sources of discontent and chaos, and find solutions that are specific to your family’s needs. It doesn’t matter if you are married or single if you parent alone or you want to do this with your parenting partner. Click here to check out all my courses and resources on offer.

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Familial Roles Play a Part in Parenting May 02, 2022

The role we take on in our nuclear family may easily transfer into our parenting, and often informs the ways in which we treat our children. Subconsciously we may perpetuate these roles without fully recognizing what they are or where they come from. Largely because children in our society are viewed as immediately “being” wrong and therefore we may jump to these conclusions without even recognizing it’s happening. Join me this week as I talk about my own roles and how those have plagued my parenting as well.

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Want to get more connection and lead a more connected life with your kids? With less struggle and more calm? Download my FREE guide and learn how to get started on your connected journey.

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Are you ready to change your family dynamic through connective parenting? Work with me one on one and together we’ll hone in on the sources of discontent and chaos, and find solutions that are specific to your family’s needs. It doesn’t matter if you are married or single if you parent alone or you want to do this with your parenting partner. Click here to check out all my courses and resources on offer.

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The Case Against Advice Apr 25, 2022

Advice may seem like a good idea when our children are struggling, but maybe it isn’t. Unsolicited advice can often fall on deaf ears or worse cause conflict with our children. I play out some scenarios that might help you understand the pitfalls of advice-giving this week on the podcast.

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Michelle Answers Parenting Questions (Part 2) Apr 18, 2022

Continuing on from last week's episode Tara, a mother of 3 brings her questions about her 12-year-old daughter. How do we begin to parent without control and punishments when our child is older? What can we do to unravel conventional parenting and come with more connection? Join me and Tara as we discuss ways to cultivate connection with our preteens and older kids. I answer all of her parenting questions through the lens of positive parenting.

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Michelle Answers Parenting Questions (Part 1) Apr 11, 2022

Tara, a mother of 3 brings her questions about her 12-year-old daughter. How do we begin to parent without control and punishments when our child is older? What can we do to unravel conventional parenting and come with more connection? Join me and Tara as we discuss ways to cultivate connection with our preteens and older kids. I answer all of her parenting questions through the lens of positive parenting.

Working with individuals and couples is my most favorite work. We dive deeply into the ideas of connection and unravel the struggles of each individual family I work with. It’s a transformational paradigm shift each and every time. I have seen families undergo huge changes that forever impact their relationships. My One on One programs have limited space, so if you're interested click here to find out more. I look forward to working with you.

Want to get more connection and lead a more connected life with your kids? With less struggle and more calm? Click here to download my FREE guide and learn how to get started on your connected journey.

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6 Phrases Which Should be Eliminated From Parenting Apr 04, 2022

“Use your words” and other phrases have me thinking deeply. Where do they come from and what do they mean? Can we reframe and rethink those ideas and perhaps leave them for the generations past. This week I discuss some of the big offenders, giving some alternatives and finding ways to be more supportive with our children.

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What’s Brain Science Got to do With it? Mar 28, 2022

Brain Science is at the heart of all things Parenting with Connection. The inner workings of the brain help us better understand behavior. When we use it as our guide it helps us understand why Connective Parenting works so well and what the benefits are all around as compared to Conventional Parenting. Brain Science gives us the underpinning of tangible facts which help guide our everyday interactions.

TODAYS THE LAST DAY! Understanding your child's big emotions and learning how to be there for them during those upsets is a learned skill. Learning to set limits, and parent without punishments. Things we likely didn't learn growing up. I know I didn’t and learning this skill has helped me be a connected, strong, and confident leader of my family. The peace it has brought my daughters and our home is immeasurable. I created a course: Understanding Big Emotions which was created to teach this exact skill. The skill of empathy and listening in all scenarios. From setting limits to supporting disappointment. Something we likely did not experience in our own childhoods but craved. Click here and find out all the details before it’s gone at midnight.

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Conscious Parenting Has Limits… They Are Just Different Mar 21, 2022

It has been said that parenting with connection lacks limits because it fails to use punishments or rewards, but limits do not need to be set using these methods and can in fact use empathy and understanding instead. Limits can also be used to create a place for a child to offload feelings and process emotions. This can only happen with empathy as opposed to punishments.

How do we dole out punishments and when we do, do they actually work, or are we chasing our tail in hopes of finding ways to “get” our kids to “behave” follow directions and listen? Is there a better way and why? Why are punishments so ineffective and what can we do instead? Join me for one of my FREE Webinars: How to Parenting Without Punishments. I will be live talking all about it and helping you do away with this unnecessary parenting tactic. Join me on March 21st, 23rd, or 28th and cultivate more control and fewer struggles in your parenting. Click here to find out more.

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How to Parent Without Punishments Mar 20, 2022

How do we dole out punishments and when we do, do they actually work, or are we chasing our tail in hopes of finding ways to “get” our kids to “behave” follow directions and listen? Is there a better way and why? Why are punishments so ineffective and what can we do instead? Join me for one of my FREE Webinars: How to Parenting Without Punishments. I will be live talking all about it and helping you do away with this unnecessary parenting tactic. Join me on March 21st, 23rd, or 28th and cultivate more control and fewer struggles in your parenting. Click here to find out more.

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The Difference Between Connective and Conventional Parenting Mar 14, 2022

Connective parenting can be confusing. What is it? What are the values and how can I get my children to be good people by just being nice? Well, there’s a bit more to it and maintaining and promoting the child-parent relationship is the most important aspect of Connective Parenting. Whereas conventional methods rely on control and punishments. How does it feel to be in a relationship where you feel controlled?

Understanding your child's big emotions and learning how to be there for them during those upsets is a learned skill. One we likely didn't learn growing up. I know I didn’t, and learning this skill has helped me be a connected, strong, and confident leader of my family. The peace it has brought my daughters and our home is immeasurable. I created a course: Understanding Big Emotions which was created to teach this exact skill. The skill of empathy and listening in all scenarios. From setting limits to supporting disappointment. Something we likely did not experience in our own childhoods but craved. The course is out at a special price of $67 until the end of the week. Click here to find out all the details.

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Connective Parenting is Hard Mar 07, 2022

Connective parenting isn’t all roses! No parenting is, let’s just keep it authentic shall we? There are extra pressures with parenting against the grain. We are learning and relearning so many new things, we are fighting against what society says we should and we are exhausted from listening to big ugly feelings. I know how it feels I am right there with you and let me reassure you just because it’s hard doesn’t mean it isn’t working or you are not on the right track. You are there, you are getting there and it is worth it. Stay with it, stay with me on this journey, and know the end is not far away, it won’t always be this hard and you are not alone!

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Understanding your child's big emotions and learning how to be there for them during those upsets is a learned skill. One we likely didn't learn growing up. I know I didn’t and learning this skill has helped me be a connected, strong, and confident leader of my family. The peace it has brought my daughters and our home is immeasurable. I created a course: Understanding Big Emotions which was created to teach this exact skill. The skill of empathy and listening in all scenarios. From setting limits to supporting disappointment. Something we likely did not experience in our own childhoods but craved. This course is out to the podcast community at a discounted price for the week. Head over to the link and find out more: https://www.peaceandparentingla.com/join

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Is Saying I am Proud of You Hazardous? Feb 28, 2022

I am proud of you, was something I always wanted to hear from my parents, but why? Why did I crave it so much? Was it because I felt the unconditionality of their love and is this what we want for our kids? Or would we rather them know we love them just the same when they mess up or when they do well. How can we promote internal pride and acceptance as opposed to setting them up to look for external acceptance? Listen in and get the lowdown.

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10 Ways to Connect With Your Teen Feb 21, 2022

Having a teen is as hard as having a newborn! All the firsts and all the angst, let’s face it the stakes are really high and we parents worry tremendously about our children and the teen years can really exacerbate our worry and stress. What I know works is connection, but many times parents pull away from their teens because the teens are trying to find their own way too. When I lean into being with and understand my teens they respond with more kindness and the ability to self-regulate more readily. Listen in as I give you 10 ways to do this. You can also sign up for my guide for connecting with teens here, it'll help you connect and bond with your growing young adults.

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Welcome ’Life is but a Dish’ Creator Laney Schwartz Feb 14, 2022

Being the nurse, counselor and chauffeur are enough! Adding on cooking and life as a parent can seem overwhelming. Instead of thinking of cooking as an elaborate endeavor that takes hours of planning and endless amounts of time, think of it as a place to connect. Laney Schwartz from Life is but a Dish joins us and gives us some mealtime hacks that will keep the focus on connection instead of food prep.

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How I Learned to Forgive Myself When I Misstep Feb 07, 2022

I began parenting with the idea of being the perfectly attached mom. But what none of the books told me was how to respond to my children when things were hard, when strong wills were introduced and kids said no. I resorted to yelling and that yelling led me to self-loathing which created a cycle I could not stop until I found connective parenting. Come along on my journey today of self-love and forgiveness and find out how this ultimately benefited my sweet girls.

Have you ever felt alone in your parenting, as if you were the only one struggling? I know I have been there and finding like-minded individuals has helped me navigate the murky waters of parenting with intention and peace. For this reason, I have created the Peace and Parenting community, and right now you can be part of our new membership. Each week I will be providing you with parenting strategies. I will host three live Q&A’s every month and supply you with lessons, PDFs and support materials and you'll be part of my exclusive online community. To find out more head to peaceandparentingla.com/membership and get all the details. I look forward to seeing you live!

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Are you ready to change your family dynamic through connective parenting? Work with me one on one and together we’ll hone in on the sources of discontent and chaos, and find solutions that are specific to your family’s needs. It doesn’t matter if you are married or single if you parent alone or you want to do this with your parenting partner. Click here to check out all my courses and resources on offer.

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How to Respond to a Child When They Believe Something is Unfair Jan 31, 2022

Life, as we know, is not fair, but are we trying to shield our children from fairness or are we diving deeply into acknowledgment and acceptance instead? Isn’t the ideal of everything being equal and unrealistic thought and trying to even every instance into fairness doing our children a disservice? How do we help them accept unfairness and still support them in their feelings when they feel wronged? Listen in as I go into more depth around helping our kids cope with unfairness.

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How to Respond to Our Children When We Misstep Jan 24, 2022

This week on the podcast I describe how I have tried to make repairs when I have behaved in ways that I know are not acceptable. We are all human and making mistakes is inevitable and also part of how we learn to do better. Modeling effective apologies and making amends is the best way we can teach our children how to take responsibility for their actions. If we can take responsibility for ours they will learn this is the way to interact in the world and this is how we gain and give forgiveness. There are many good lessons in these interactions.

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6 Reasons Not to Take Your Child’s Words or Behavior Personally Jan 17, 2022

Not taking our child’s behavior personally can be extremely challenging. Not only does it restimulate our own unmet needs but on some level, we might believe what they are saying is true or that they really believe we are “mean” or understand that the off-track behavior is meaningful rather than just a behavior. In this episode, I reframe those ideas and give some alternative thoughts around taking our child's unwanted behaviors and words personally. I’ll give you 6 reasons why you shouldn’t and the outcomes if you don’t.

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Ways to Make 2022 Better For You and Your Family Jan 10, 2022

This year, I want to prioritize myself. I want to make my care at the top of my list. These are simple things we overlook which can really improve our overall mood. I know when I do this I feel better, do better in all aspects and am all around happier. But it’s not easy! It’s one of the most difficult things in parenting I believe. This happiness breeds happiness in my household and in turn trickles down to my children. The “doer” in me fights against this notion and largely throws me off my game! I have to make goals and write things down to make this my reality. I will chat about it here to hold myself accountable and perhaps that this is helpful for you too.

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2021 Inventory: What I Have Learned and What I am Still Working On Jan 06, 2022

I have had many revelations around my parenting this year. Like every year there are also many places I still need to work. For me parenting really is an inside-out endeavor. The more committed I am to working on my inner growth and maturity the more progress I see. Paradigm shifts and mindset changes give me the biggest growth. This week I give you mine, hoping that you can glean some support around my growth and where I need to improve.

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Why I Don’t Use Discipline Dec 20, 2021

Discipline can be a confusing word in the world of conscious parenting. Is it guidance and coaching or do most of the world view it as harsh punishments? In my world with my daughters, I do not subscribe to any type of punishment or discipline. In this podcast, I tell you why and give you a compelling argument as to why you should consider doing away with harsh parenting altogether. In reality, it does us no favors and can actually cause more of the behaviors we find ourselves punishing our children for.

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Parent Question: How Do I Help My Child with Her Social Life with IG Follower Regine Dec 13, 2021

Regine is an Instagram follower who came to me with a real question about her daughter’s social life. I think we have all been there...when we want to just have a little chat with the 8-year-old kid who is being unkind to our child. You know, just let them know you are watching! Somehow it’s likely not the right move, but what is? What can we do for kids and support them through the social ups and downs? What is too much intervention and what is just enough?

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Why is Parenting so Hard with Guest Claudia Dolin Dec 06, 2021

My best friend joins me in a real conversation about just how hard parenting actually is, and why some days we just want to run away never to return! She and I often lament about the struggles in motherhood, where we find our own personal hurdles and how we can help ourselves to help our children find more peace for everyone. It is not easy and we are the first to admit that we certainly don’t have it all figured out, but we try to do better and help each other along the way! Join Claudia and I this week for a real glimpse inside the not-so-glamorous world of motherhood.

The holidays are an incredible time of the year, and at the same time, very stressful and tricky. Our kids can get lost in the "business" shuffle, and connection can be thin. Michelle wants to help you remedy some of the common issues during the holidays and aid you in achieving more calm and peace so everyone can have a more enjoyable season. If you want to be more connected this holiday season, download her guide on: How to Navigate the 7 Trickiest Holiday Moments.

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Examining the Toxins in our Environment with Dr. Organic Mommy Nov 29, 2021

Our environment can highly impact our children. Do you know what’s in your laundry soap, water, or even the air in your home? I certainly didn’t and Dr. Natasha Beck sheds light on how we can make changes to more positively impact the environment we share with our children. Dr. Organic Mommy is a wealth of information and she shares the top 5 things we should be aware of.

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Thanksgiving Hello Nov 25, 2021

Happy Thanksgiving and happy Thursday! We are moving to Mondays, so be on the lookout for a new episode with Dr. Natasha Beck otherwise known as Dr. Organic Mommy this Monday. Listen to a sneak peek and take advantage of our Black Friday Sale! All of my on-demand courses are 25% off now through Cyber Monday. This will be the lowest price all year. Click here to find out more: Peace and Parenting are offering some amazing Black Friday deals this holiday season! As a gift to you, we are offering 25% off all programs - How to Stop Yelling On-Demand Workshop, Siblings, Not Rivals On-Demand Workshop, Understanding Big Emotions Online Course, A Guide to Cooperation Online Course. To learn more about the programs, click here. Make sure to use the code PEACE25 from Friday, November 26 - Monday, November 29 to receive 25% off any of the four core programs. -- Are you ready to change your family dynamic through connective parenting? Work with me one on one and together we’ll hone in on the sources of discontent and chaos, and find solutions that are specific to your family’s needs. It doesn’t matter if you are married or single if you parent alone or you want to do this with your parenting partner. To sign up for my One-on-One Private Parenting Sessions, click here to start now and change your parenting reality! Enjoy today’s episode? Please share this episode with a friend and subscribe to the show to get notified of the latest episodes. Support this podcast through my partnership with Hand in Hand Parenting. Find useful parenting material and the Booklets I discuss in the show? Click Here. Are you a coach, or online course creator? Have an email list you communicate with often? Do you have a website? Kajabi can be your home for all of these and so much more Click here and explore all Kajabi has to offer while supporting the Peace and Parenting Podcast with no extra cost to you. Follow Peace and Parenting Instagram @peaceandparenting Facebook @peaceandparentingla LinkedIn @Michelle Kenney M.Ed Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Apple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts

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What is The Parent Compass with guests: Cynthia Muchnick and Jenn Curtis Nov 18, 2021

The highly competitive world of academics can become consuming when our children reach adolescence. The pressure children feel and endure highly impacts their wellbeing and the relationship we share with them. Finding ways to be supportive without usurping the critical learning moments in this delicate time can be difficult for us parents. Listen in as the authors of The Parent Compass recount their experiences while helping students prepare for and engage in life after High school. Helpful Links: The Parent Compass Book Futurewise Consulting --

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Connected Grandparenting with Michelle’s Dad Nov 11, 2021

Join me in a very special episode where my dad Chuck (AKA Papa) describes what he’s changed about his parenting/grandparenting techniques, and how he has embraced the ideas of Peace and Parenting. We talk about how he feels it's working for him as a grandparent and the most challenging aspects of interacting with more peace.

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Parenting through Divorce with Children with Kate Anthony from The Divorce Survival Guide Nov 05, 2021

In this episode, Michelle is joined by Kate Anthony, a certified divorce coach who helps women deal with the difficulties of divorce with children. In this candid conversation, the duo uncovers myths about relationship separation and lends advice for parenting through divorce. When we can keep our children at the "center" instead of the middle of divorce we help our kids process the messiness of separation, custody and visitation. It isn't easy to make a decision around ending your marriage especially with children, but we can emerge on the other side with love, connectedness and a family that still feels like a family. It might look different and be arranged in a new way but connection can remain regardless. Kate brings her experience with helping women navigate this trying time to help others find peace around this process and trying experience. To learn more from Kate Anthony, you can view her website and listen to her podcast, The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast or find her on Instagram at @thedivorcesurvivalguide

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My Desire to Be a Good Mom Led Me to Forsake My Children Oct 28, 2021

Growing up, I was taught that to be a good kid-- you needed to behave and follow instructions, or else society would label you a bad kid. So naturally, when I began my journey in motherhood, I stepped into it with that same kind of mindset. I fell into the hole of believing that society’s opinion was my benchmark for being a good mother-- because I had well-behaved kids controlled by star charts and shame.

It wasn't until I made peace with my own childhood that I realized I needed to break the cycle with my own daughters and really build that connection to fix my relationship with them. Though these old habits lurk around the corners sometimes and rear their head, I am so much more conscious now of when I need to take a step back.

So if you’re a recovering yeller just like me, then I’d highly recommend you listen in on how I managed to unlearn controlling my kids, to working in harmony and cooperation with them!

Episode Highlights:

My misguided goals as a parent
Society’s praise for control
Why we need to prioritize how our kids see us, not society
Kids’ behavior is not a byproduct of control, it's a reflection of your relationship

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Teens and Punishments with DJ Inspire Oct 22, 2021

“It takes a village to raise a child.” is an old saying I’m sure many of you have heard. We’re so worried about the judgment of other parents that when our kids misbehave, we spend more energy fighting them when that same energy should be spent on connecting with our kids and raising them.

So in this episode, I’m excited to be joined by DJ Johnson, a fellow parenting coach and my first guest dad on the podcast. With a specialty in working with teens, he’ll share with us his personal parenting philosophies and how he’s been working with parents to inspire and motivate them to build healthy and genuine connections with their kids.

A true village doesn’t try tearing down its members. We can work towards listening and supporting one another so we are the best versions of ourselves, and in turn, position our kids to be their own best selves too. So don’t miss out on this amazing episode!

Episode Highlights:

How DJ Johnson got into the parenting work and his experiences working with parents
How working with teens gave him a unique perspective on interacting with kids
As a parent, you need to learn to put your ego and pride aside
His six modules on how to parent without punishment
It’s okay to feel frustrated or mad, but consider how you model them

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What Changes a Child’s Behavior Oct 14, 2021

We parents have been taught that our children’s behavior must be corrected through punishments and manipulations, and sadly, this has been accepted as the default mode of parenting. And when compounding other stressors in lives, it becomes so easy to unconsciously fall back on that out of desperation to change their behavior.

So I want to talk about where we should focus when it comes to our children’s behavior. Looking inward and self-reflecting on our own behavior is a critical factor in transforming our relationship with our children into a healthier one.

You’d be surprised at how willingly children will open up to us when we make an active effort to change, so please make sure to listen in on this episode!

Episode Highlights:

We resort to punishments as a desperate attempt to change our child’s behavior
Nobody likes being manipulated or be forced to comply, especially children
The ultimate way to change our family’s dynamics is to change ourselves

Resources mentioned in this episode:

"Parenting from the Inside Out” by Daniel J. Siegel

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How We Can Help Cultivate Our Kids’ Interests and Identities with Guest Navia Oct 07, 2021

With schools slowly opening back up too, it might be a period of uncertainty and anxiety for our kids-- especially for the little ones who are coming into kindergarten or middle school for the first time. It’s a time where they’re trying to figure out their own interests, hobbies, and identities, alongside their own peers while simultaneously dealing with academics and social interactions.

These are some of the concerns fellow mother and this week’s guest, Navia, shared with me. I’ll be sitting down with her to answer her questions on how she can help her daughters’ transition into a new stage of their lives while also finding ways she can take an active and encouraging role in cultivating their dreams and interests.

There are ways to help our children grow into confident and self-assured people without being controlling so please tune into this episode!

Episode Highlights:

How Navia can make her kid’s whining go away
How to help her daughter transition going back to school
Don’t worry too much about whether or not your kids are making friends
Give your kids the freedom on what they want to wear
Being open to your kids’ interests and ways you can cultivate it

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Taking Steps Towards Connective Parenting: Questions from Guest Carolina Sep 30, 2021

Even when you have the best of intentions as parents and try to do everything right, it’s completely normal to mess up every now and then. What matters is the continuous and conscious process of becoming a better parent for our kids.

This week, I’m joined by Carolina. She has recently begun moving towards a positive parenting approach for her daughter alongside her girlfriend whose been co-parenting alongside her, but there have been some bumps along the way. I’ve dedicated this episode to help smooth out those bumps and do my best to answer her parenting questions.

I hope this episode will help anyone listening in just as much as it helped Carolina and her partner! So don’t forget to tune in!

Episode Highlights:

Carolina’s household dynamic with her daughter and girlfriend
Breaking away from the cycle of traditional parenting she’s experienced as a Mexican-American
Using special time to re-establish the connection with her daughter
Punishments erode the connection piece with your kids
Integrating play into her daily routine when her daughter is saying “no”
Sarcasm doesn’t have a place in parenting

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How to Be Empathetic When Our Kids Are Being Defiant with Guest Liz Sep 23, 2021

Defiant and strong-willed children are something I’m sure we’ve all experienced. Whether it’s as toddlers or teenagers, it’s a tale as old as time in the book of parenting. Sometimes when this defiance is targeted towards you or their siblings, it can lead to further conflict so you want to find a way to properly nip that in the bud.

As a mother of two young girls, my guest, Liz, is no stranger to these frustrations so she and I will discuss her dynamics with her daughters, how to manage conflict and negative emotions in their family, and the importance of taking care of herself because even mommies need a little self-care too.

The path of connective parenting is a lot of hard work, but the loving relationship we’ll create with our kids will make all of it worth it, so make sure to tune into this episode!

Episode Highlights:

Leaning into play when our kids are frustrated or defiant
Setting consequences without punishment
How to deal with the sibling rivalry between Liz’ daughters
Responding to our kids’ resentment with empathy and self-care
How to handle tantrums and turn them into an opportunity to form a connection

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Harsh Parenting Creates Children Who Make More Mistakes Sep 16, 2021

When your child makes a mistake, you want to help them process and understand their mistake without the use of shame, punishments, or making them feel like you’re disappointed in them.

Harsh parenting does absolutely no favors for us or our kids, and as a parent who used to subscribe to that kind of parenting, I want to take the time to talk about this, and share how shifting my mindset towards a more conscious and connective one has done more good for my family than any punishment has.

There are no shortcuts to connective parenting but I hope this episode can help you get started!

Episode Highlights:

Why it’s problematic for kids to worry over their parent’s reaction more than the actual mistake
Punishments impede our kids’ ability to think properly
How conscious parenting can change you and your family’s life for the better

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Why Is Play So Hard Sometimes with Guest Emily Murray from Hand in Hand Parenting Sep 10, 2021

Many of us have had experiences with bottling up emotions, and kids are no exceptions to this. Kids aren’t as capable of properly communicating their emotions so when there’s a backlog of feelings like frustration and sadness, this can make them act out so they can vent. This can be equally frustrating for parents too but it is possible to connect with your kids in a way they can easily understand.

For this episode, I’m joined by Emily, a member from the Hand in Hand Parenting group and she will share with us one of their five listening tools for parents-- playlistening! Play is an important aspect of kids’ lives and it can be used as a better response to unsavory behavior over shame and encourages you to meet aggression with affection.

Hand in Hand Parenting has been instrumental in my journey to become a better parent for my daughters, and I hope this will help any of you having similar struggles so don’t forget to listen in!

Episode Highlights:

Playlisten as a form of connection through play
There is a time to be silly and there is a time to seriously connect
Why playlistening wasn’t appealing to Emily at first
Children are good and they want to be good
Why play can be hard for parents
The benefits of playlistening

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Behavior Analysis and Parenting: Questions from Guest Shelly Sep 02, 2021

Our kids have the right to say “no” and have choices. But it’s a delicate balancing act between that and making sure not to give in to everything they say either. Since kids also have underdeveloped brains, it can be difficult for them to properly communicate their negative emotions which can put them into conflict with their parents and other kids. This challenge is a natural frustration for parents and is something my guest is familiar with.

Shelly Belk, behavior change coach and mother, joins me for this episode to ask me questions on parenting, and how she can better reconcile her background in behavior analysis while raising her daughter with empathy. We’ll always discuss the importance of allowing our children to experience and fail; to be the counselor and confidant rather than the fixer of their problems.

Don’t miss out on this week’s episode so we can help our kids navigate their feelings and create healthier connections with them!

Episode Highlights:

How can we navigate with kids who are good at negotiating
Empathizing with our kids and allowing them to feel and process their negative emotions
Teaching our kids to respect other kids’ boundaries without making them submissive
Lean into inconsistency and expect the feelings

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Parenting with Respect for Our Kids’ Autonomy with Dr. Siggie Cohen Aug 26, 2021

Humans are built to work and depend on each other for survival and when you’re a parent, that desire to protect and help is increased tenfold. It’s a natural feeling to want to protect our kids from the harms and struggles of the world but it doesn’t mean we should micromanage them either. Sometimes the best course of action is to take a step back and watch.

Our guest for this episode is Dr. Siggie Cohen, a child and family therapist who aids parents establish a better connection with their kids through her online parenting courses. She’ll be joining me to discuss the importance of being respectful of our kids’ autonomy and ways we can help them exercise it while still providing guidance in their lives.

Listen in on this episode to help your kids find their own voice in the world!

Episode Highlights:

Autonomy and dependency is ingrained in us
Allow your kids to feel their own emotions
Encourage your kids rather than force them
Ways to help your kids realize their innate autonomy

Connect with Dr. Siggie

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How to Help Build Your Kid’s Self-Esteem Aug 19, 2021

Life’s full of challenges, and as parents, we want to send our children out into the world ready and self-assured so they can get through everything society throws at them. Self-esteem plays a huge role in that, and their time as kids and teens is a crucial time in building it.

For this solo episode, I’ll be talking about my personal struggles with self-esteem and how I turned them into lessons towards how I approach my kids, as well as give ways on how we can help build our kids’ self-esteem at home.

Don’t forget to tune into this episode so we can guide our kids down the path of self-confidence!

Episode Highlights:

How my childhood shaped my self-esteem
Do punishments help our kids learn from their mistakes?
2 ways to instill self-esteem in our kids

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The Case Against The Cry It Out Method with Guest Rachel from Hey Sleepy Baby Aug 12, 2021

For many parents, the first six to twelve months of their baby’s life are probably one of the most stressful thanks to sleep deprivation. The emotional and physical toll of listening to your baby cry isn’t easy, but it’s important to realize that it’s just as stressful for them as their body and brain try to adjust to life outside of the womb.

For this week’s episode, I’ve invited Rachel, a pediatric sleep specialist, to share with us her experience and realizations with sleep training her baby, and how it isn’t as easy as tucking them into bed and calling it a night.

So listen in on this episode as Rachel shares her experience, and I offer ways to help ease this adjustment period!

Episode Highlights:

The Cry It Out Method and the psyche behind it
Rachel’s experience with sleep training her baby
The effects of The Cry it Out Method on a baby’s cognitive development
Applying Connective Parenting Methods and empathy to sleep training

Connect with Rachel:

Are you ready to change your family dynamic through connective parenting? Work with me one on one and together we’ll hone in on the sources of discontent and chaos, and find solutions that are specific to your family’s needs. It doesn’t matter if you are married or single, if you parent alone or you want to do this with your parenting partner. To sign up for my One-on-One Private Parenting Sessions, click here to start now and change your parenting reality!

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Presence vs. Fixing with Guest Rivkie Aug 05, 2021

Change is a choice. Sometimes it may be a difficult one and requires a lot of effort. It’s also not something that can always happen in a snap, but rather takes the form of a continuous series of choices we consciously make. These choices become the path my guest takes to be better and do better as a parent.

Joining me for this week’s episode is Rivkie, a mother of seven. It’s not easy to raise that many kids but as an ex-yeller, she made the choice to become a more empathetic and connected parent to her kids. She’ll share with us her personal journey, the solid steps she’s made to improve, and her words of encouragement and advice for fellow parents.

Don’t forget to tune into this episode! A part of parenthood is we’re not always going to get it right, but with enough love, we can strive to make things better.

Episode Highlights:

Rivkie’s journey reforming and healing as a parent
The positive changes which were seen in herself and in her kids
Sibling rivalry as a personal challenge and how she tackles it
Her advice for parents getting started on connective parenting

Are you ready to change your family dynamic through connective parenting? Work with me one on one and together we’ll hone in on the sources of discontent and chaos, and find solutions that are specific to your family’s needs. It doesn’t matter if you are married or single, if you parent alone or you want to do this with your parenting partner. To sign up for my One-on-One Private Parenting Sessions, click here to start now and change your parenting reality!

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How to Stop Yelling Jul 29, 2021

When we believe our children are being difficult, we tend to use yelling to make them listen to us. But yelling can only go so far before it starts to form cracks in the relationship with our kids and leave them with emotional scars that might never go away. At some point, we need to ask ourselves: Is my child’s obedience worth losing their love and respect?

In this solo episode, I share my experience of being a parent who used to yell and how I continue to overcome that urge with hopes that I can encourage other parents to do the same.

Remember, the road of parenthood is not paved with fear, but with love.

Episode Highlights:

How yelling played a role in my life
How yelling can jeopardize our relationship with our children
Using connection and empathy as a replacement for yelling
My advice on how to calm down and process your emotions
The long-term effects yelling has on our children

Looking for ways to parent without yelling or threatening? Do you want to start using connection to better handle and guide your kids? I know I’ve definitely been there. Through my years of learning and experience, I’ve started to reach out and help other parents overcome their parenting challenges with a much calmer and empathetic approach. You can check out my mini-course called How to Stop Yelling right here!

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Chitra’s Journey into Connective Parenting Jul 22, 2021

Traditionally, children are meant to obey their parents without question and any sign of defiance is met with punishment. We believe that our child’s behavior is a reflection of us as parents and that opens us up to judgment from others. No one wants to be labeled as a “bad parent” but just because something is accepted as the norm doesn’t always mean it’s automatically right either.

Chitra Peña, a member of the Peace and Parenting community, sits down with me to share her story and experiences in moving towards a more conscious parenting method and its results-- including her relationship with her children and her confidence in herself as a parent. Additionally, we’ll also dive into the effects of conventional parenting on the emotional well-being of both the parents and children.

Don’t forget to tune into this episode so we can help you forge a healthier relationship with your family!

Episode Highlights:

Chitra’s journey towards conscious parenting
How she processed her thoughts and feelings when her child experienced hurt
Deviating from conventional parenting and how she dealt with the judgment
Parenthood is not meant to be a hierarchy
The emotional cost of conventional parenting on your child and yourself

Connect with Chitra

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The Power of Listening Partners with Cassie and Lindsay Jul 15, 2021

Parents try to prop themselves up as these invincible figures who aren’t affected by sadness or fear, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. They have their own fair share of anxieties and trauma; and when all of that just builds up, it starts to leak into other aspects of their lives. When that happens, it’s good to have someone who's willing to empathize and listen.

For this episode, I’ve invited two members of the Peace and Parenting community, Cassie and Lindsay. They have been listening partners for over a year and they will share with us how opening up to another person and learning to listen has aided them in becoming better parents and partners.

Join us for this episode as we discuss the importance of connection and how we can lend each other a listening ear.

Episode Highlights:

What are listening partnerships
Cassie and Lindsay’s experience being each other’s listening partner
How listening partnerships can improve our relationships
Deeper introspection allows us to heal
Advice for listening partnerships

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Step-parenting with Connection and Guest Nikki Jul 08, 2021

Parenthood is a challenge enough in itself, but when you throw in becoming a stepparent; it can become a whole new ballpark. The desire to form a genuine bond with their stepchild while also trying not to overstep their boundaries is a balancing act that our guest is familiar with.

Joining me for this episode is Nikki, a stepmom of 10 years, to share with us her experiences and how she managed to navigate what she considered as uncharted territory.

For any struggling or upcoming stepparents, be sure to tune into this episode!

Episode Highlights:

Nikki’s marriage and becoming a stepmom
Her relationship with her stepson
Balancing between two sets of parents
How she made her stepson feel loved and cared for at home
Advice for current and upcoming stepparents

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Untigering with Iris Chen Jul 01, 2021

Parenting shouldn’t be synonymous with control, but for my guest, Iris Chen, this was her reality while growing up in an Asian-American household. Our childhood experiences can shape what kind of parents we’ll become to our kids; but as their parents, it is our role to guide and care for them while also respecting their own autonomy. This is the realization that Iris came to when she saw her tiger parenting was driving her son away from her.

Iris is the author of the book, Untigering, where she shares her experience of being a tiger parent and her journey of pulling away from cultural norms for a more empathetic and respectful approach to parenting while also redefining what it means to be a successful parent.

Don’t forget to listen to this episode to help develop a more peaceful and healthier relationship with your kids!

Episode Highlights:

Iris’ childhood growing up in an Asian-American household
How her tiger parenting affected her relationship with her eldest
Accountability and learning to let go of controlling habits
It’s never too late to change
How projection warps how we perceive our child’s behavior

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Success Story with Emilie, Mother of Two Jun 24, 2021

The initial transition to connective parenting isn’t exactly a straight line, and it can take years for us as parents to unlearn everything that was imposed on us when we were younger. But, it doesn’t mean it’s impossible.

For this episode, I’ve invited long time member, Emilie, to share with us her success story with connective parenting. Being a mother of two, she knew she needed to do her homework to prepare her elder son for a new baby sibling. Thanks to connective parenting, she’s definitely on the road to building a strong relationship with her two kids.

Episode Highlights:

Her initial problems with her older son
The sudden shift in her relationship with her son
Emilie’s experience with my connective parenting programs
Working on our relationship with our kids now, so we save ourselves when they turn into teenagers

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How to Help our Kids Make Decisions Without Giving Advice with Blimie from Unconditional Parenting Jun 17, 2021

There are going to be many times while raising our kids that they come to us with their problems, and we as parents might feel the need to immediately jump in as Mama Bear and tell them exactly what they need to do.

But what if that isn’t what they really need?

In this episode, I’m joined by Blimie from Unconditional Parenting to open up a conversation about why and how we can be reflective listeners for our kids-- allowing them to come to their own realizations and courses of action.

Be sure to listen in on this conversation that can definitely help you all out!

Episode Highlights:

Controlling ourselves from giving our advice
Why being empathetic and listening is important
Sometimes we need to take the brunt of their feelings
How they eventually learn to solve their own problems

Looking for ways to parent without yelling or threatening? Do you want to start using connection to better handle and guide your kids? I know I’ve definitely been there. Through my years of learning and experience, I’ve started to reach out and help other parents overcome their parenting challenges with a much calmer and empathetic approach.

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How to Handle Sibling Rivalry: A Parenting Question from April Jun 10, 2021

When dealing with sibling rivalry, it’s important we validate all sibling feelings. If we choose sides it can jeopardize our connection.

In this episode, I’ve invited April, a long-time listener to the podcast who has worked hard and long on her parenting. She’ll be walking us through the sharing issues between her two girls, while Michelle helps her unravel this common sibling struggle.

If you’re feeling the same way, be sure to listen to this episode and let it serve as your guide to building a loving relationship between your kids!

Episode Highlights:

The root cause of jealousy and sharing issues between siblings
It’s more than just about winning
Instilling empathy in our kids
Modeling
Advice for raising toddlers

Click here to check out my episode with Dr. Laura Markham where we talk about raising siblings without rivalry!

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Peaceful Eating with Gitte for Real Food Hero Jun 03, 2021

So many parents and families struggle with pickiness in children’s eating habits. Our guest today, Gitte, has figured out what exactly might be the problem. With years in child psychology, she believes that the problem doesn’t lie in the food-- but rather their experience during mealtime.

Gitte has developed a 4-week course called Real Food Hero, where she teaches us how to take back our mealtimes and allow our kids to grow a healthy relationship with food.

Be sure to tune in on this episode so we can help our kids develop good eating habits!

Episode Highlights:

Why pickiness is not about the food, but the environment during mealtimes
Gitte’s experience during mealtime with her kids
Letting go of controlling what they eat at the table
Why bribing or threatening our kids isn’t the answer
Late night bites before bed are not necessarily a bad thing
Changing how we see sweets and treats, using them in moderation

Connect with Gitte:

You can check out her Real Food Hero in 4-Weeks course here. Don’t forget to use the coupon code “PEACE” for 30% off!

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How to Teach Kids to Take Responsibility for their Own Actions May 27, 2021

When kids are disrespectful, it can feel like a very personal attack leaving us wondering if our child will grow up to be an unkind and immoral adult disrespecting everyone they know.

In this episode, I’ll be walking you through all the ways we can alleviate their behaviour without correcting them immediately, allowing for self-reflection and time to be their teacher. By effectively teaching them to self-regular through our calm presence.

Be sure to listen in so we can guide our kids better!

Episode Highlights:

Why our kids can lash out disrespectfully
What we can do for them
The effects of teaching them this new way
Why teaching them responsibility young is so important

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Between with Sarah Ockwell-Smith Talking Kids 8 and Up May 20, 2021

Raising a kid is a journey. It's our job as parents to love and support our children through it, making sure we guide without controlling and establish a deep emotional trust and connection.

This week Sarah Ockwell-Smith joins us to discuss her book BETWEEN. and her own personal experiences with her 4 children. Be sure to listen in as she tells all we need to know about those “BETWEEN” years.

Episode Highlights:

Sarah’s book and what guided and inspired her through the process
Why it's so important to be open to talking about sexuality
Making sure we support our teens/tweens during important transition years and milestones
Why compromise and the middle ground helps promote connection.

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Success Story with Amy! UBE Graduate May 13, 2021

Today I’m joined by Amy! She’s a follower of mine, and part of our online community. In this episode, she’ll share with us her transition from conventional parenting, to connective parenting.

She’s also a graduate of the UBE Course! She’ll share with us her experience, and some advice she has for parents tuning in-- and why it’s so important to thrive with a community that shares the same ideals and ways of thinking.

Be sure to listen in for this episode!

Episode Highlights:

Amy’s practices before she found this podcast
The importance of our Facebook support groups
Amy’s experience with UBE
Amy’s advice

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How to Support our Infants/Babies with Crying and Special Time with Guest Patty Wipfler May 06, 2021

When we’ve exhausted all efforts like diaper changing, feeding, and checking out babies for harm-- sometimes it looks like they’re crying for absolutely no reason. So what else can we do to support our infants and babies while crying?

Today I’ve invited Patty Wipfler, founder of Hand in Hand Parenting where I was first inspired then trained to make the changes in how I parent my daughters. In this episode, Patty shares with us the ways we can support our infants, providing them with special time and ultimately allowing them to emotionally process through supported crying.

Episode Highlights:

Supporting our babies
what can affect our infants
Why connection and presence is important with our babies
How we can to build confidence as young as infanthood

Connect with Patty Wipfler:

Hand in Hand Parenting | Website

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Natural Consequences Apr 29, 2021

What exactly is a natural consequence and why are they useful? Can we allow some things to unfold naturally without interfering in order to give our children space to learn on their own?

This week I walk you through some very familiar situations and explain the natural and not so natural ways in which we can handle them in order to give more onus to our children.

Episode Highlights:

Outlining natural consequences
How we can help our children navigate decisions without manipulation
Allowing our kids to experience the consequences
How to be supportive without being controlling.

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How to Get More Cooperation with Michelle Kenney Carlson M. Ed Apr 26, 2021

If you are an exhausted parent looking to find more cooperation and peace in your household while avoiding becoming tangled in the game of asking your kids the same thing over and over then you have come to the right place!

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Siblings Without Rivalry with Guest Dr. Laura Markham Apr 22, 2021

As parents we often spend much of our time intervening in sibling upsets. There’s nothing more upsetting than seeing one of your children be unkind to the other. But what can we do to help them foster their relationship without shame and blame? How can we ensure they are learning how to effectively communicate with one another if we don’t use punishments or threats?

Today I’ve brought in Dr. Laura Markham, to talk about how we can best navigate sticky situations between siblings, how we can talk them through their struggles and most importantly how we can connect in order to move them into a more loving relationship.

If you have been struggling with sibling rivalry, this episode might really shed some light on ways to navigate these tough situations.

Episode Highlights:

Our kids are afraid of their needs not being met.
How to be the coach and not the judge.
How to use neutrality and empathy to defuse upsets.

Connect with Dr. Laura Markham:

Check out my Siblings Rivalry Episode here.

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How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex, Drugs and Reproduction with Dr. Dolly Apr 15, 2021

Beginning to speak to your children about all things adolescence begins much younger than you might imagine. Many children enter puberty as early as 8. There doesn't necessarily need to be a formal "talk" but rather many conversations which build over time.

My guest for this episode is Dr. Dolly, a family medicine physician, who now helps parents and children broach all the uncomfortable discussions that might leave us wondering just what to say and when.

Episode Highlights:

Initial reactions and stigmas around The Talk
Top tips for puberty
The importance of teaching consent
The topics of sexuality
The impact of pornography, what we can do to protect them

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Listening to Big Feelings Creates More Safety with Guest Cara Apr 08, 2021

Aggression is the product of a child who isn’t doing so well. Be it from frustration they can’t communicate well, or other factors that we as parents cannot always understand. I always recommend daily time with our kids-- but for our guest Cara, daily time has turned into frustrating and oftentimes painful rough play.

In this episode, I explain how else we can curb aggression by listening to feelings and allowing them to download while protecting ourselves as well. This definitely isn’t going to be an easy or instant fix-- but the payoff is worth it and if you listen to the end you will hear an amazing update.

Episode Highlights:

Cara’s issue with her sons aggression against her and their home
How to stay safe during tantrums
Setting limits during rough play turning aggressive
Other methods to play in order to allow for off loading feelings
How to handle aggressive tantrums and stay present

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Using Connection with Neurodiverse Children with Guest Bea Moise Apr 01, 2021

Often people ask me if Parenting without Punishments and using connection is for all children. In this episode, Bea Moise and I reassure you that parenting this way is effective for kids who are neurodiverse and children who are neurotypical.

Bea Moise is a parent of a neurodiverse son and parenting expert who brings her experience and insight to put things into perspective around all different types of children.

Episode Highlights:

Bea’s story
Her experience with parents of neurodiverse children
The importance of connection

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Connecting with Our Teenagers with Guest Kirsten Cobabe Mar 25, 2021

I love all things teenager and so does my guest Kristen Cobabe the “teen whisperer”. When I first became a teen I found myself at a loss as to what to do and how to interact with my daughter. It was murky water and I struggled to say the least. But I have found my way and now I am enjoying the teenage years more than I thought I would.

Today I’m joined by Kirsten Cobabe, who has worked with teenagers since she herself was a teenager as a mentor. In our discussion today, we talk about how to communicate best with both teens and tweens. This is one of the most significant developmental stages for them-- it's only right that we try our best to guide them without forcing their hands.

Be sure to listen in! The best way to reach our teenagers is through connection, not control.

Episode Highlights:

Kirsten’s background and experience
How dealing with teens and tweens is different from a kid
What you need to know about raising a teenager
The changes that come with the teenager stage
Why saying no is not our job as parents
We need to choose our relationship with our kids over small issues

Connect with Kirsten:

How can we “shame-proof” our parenting?

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How Can We Help Our Kids Through Difficult Moments Without Fixing with Guest Jenna Mar 18, 2021

Sometimes when our child is having a hard time of course we want to fix things, help

them see the bright side. But things might look arduous and difficult for our children and leaning into those upsets with empathy can help them feel seen, heard and understood. This way they are able to let go with more ease.

In this episode a lovely mom Jenna asks how to navigate negativity. We discuss leaning into the icky feelings, validate them and come with empathy to honor discomfort. It’s not easy seeing our children upset but with our love they can make it through.

Episode Highlights:

How to respond to our kids when they are negative
Using empathy to heal discomfort
Letting them win
Allowing them to make mistakes

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How can we “shame proof” our parenting?

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Do Our Children Have the Right to Say “No” with Guest Sterna Mar 12, 2021

When our child says “no” it can send us into emotional turmoil both because of how we were raised and how society views a child who stands up for themselves. But no doesn’t need to be a dirty word, and our children need to have the space to explore standing up for themselves. If they aren’t allowed to do it at home how can they ever set boundaries as they grow up. What of yes too, if we are insisting on “yes” is that yes we receive authentic or is it coerced somehow and only used as a way to please us?

Sterna is my guest today, she helps us unravel this sticky parenting moment, and gives us her incredible insights into why no is more than just a child being defiant on purpose and ways we can work through the moments when our children use no.

Episode Highlights:

Why “No” isn’t always bad
Collaboration works better than blind obedience
Letting go of complete control
Respecting our kids, so they respect us

How can we “shame proof” our parenting?

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Using Connection to Help with Aggression with Guest Ashley Mar 05, 2021

Aggression is a common occurrence in children and we see it often when there’s a new sibling. It is a fear response and one that can be tricky to unravel.

If we take a global look at our child and work on ways to build in connective practices while also allowing the tantrum to fully occur we can get movement with aggression.

Long time listener Ashley fully understands the modes of Peace and Parenting it’s just a pep talk she needs to reassure her she’s on the right path.

Episode Highlights:

Aggression is fear, fear of needs not being met
The connective nature of tantrums are therapeutic
Empathy for feelings of jealousy can help offload feelings

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Resilience Feb 26, 2021

How do we promote resilience in our child and use the tenets of Peace and Parenting? Does being a kind loving parent mean our children will not be able to handle the cruel world? Perhaps empathy and kindness is exactly what allows our children to build in self esteem and the ability to recover from hard things.

Episode Highlights:

Why you should let your child win
Listening to your child with empathy
How to promote resilience
The ways in which peaceful parenting protects our kids from shame.

Check out the Shame and Winning episodes and learn why our kids need us most when they appear to be at their worst.

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No More Yelling! How Courtney Transformed her Parenting. Feb 19, 2021

Today I’m joined by Courtney, a lovely mother of three young boys who recently completed my One on One Six Week Course. In this episode, she tells us how she has begun to transform her family, let go of yelling, and found more calm for her and her boys.

If you think you can’t change the dynamics of your family and find peace and less yelling, you CAN, just like Courtney did. Listen in as we discuss what she learned in my One on One Six Week Course.

You can find Courtney on Instagram @mostlyplantbasedmama

Courtney Learned:

How to let go of punishments
Finding ways to be and cultivate more calm
How connection can strengthen the relationship she has with her sons.
How taking things personally isn’t always helpful

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How to Use Connection to Help Move Through Thumb Sucking Feb 12, 2021

Kids have different ways to cope with stressful situations. Some resort to more vocal ways-- while others tend to go inward as a way to cope with what’s hard in life. It’s hard for us to know exactly how to approach them with love and kindness while still helping them move through tough behavior.

Joining me this episode is a follower and active participant on the Facebook group, Jillian.

Jillian, like so many of us, struggles with a behavior that she can’t quite figure out how to navigate. We take a look at the whole child, the underlying and the more obvious and try to find ways to meet her daughter where she is using connection.

I know others struggle with thumb sucking and pacifiers and hope this episode is helpful.

Episode Highlights:

Familial background
The root cause of thumb sucking
What we can do to curb it without the use of shame

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Kelly Tells us How Listening Partnerships are the Cornerstone to Connective Parenting Feb 05, 2021

Trying to parent without being resourced is impossible. We all need and deserve a place to have our feelings. Someone to listen can help us move through difficult moments and unravel childhood unmet needs and just come to our parenting more centered because we have a place to be heard too!

A Listening Partner is this person! Someone who supports you weekly in your parenting challenges. This Parenting Tool from Hand in Hand Parenting is life changing. If you want to know more about this tool. Use this link to get the Listening Partnerships Booklet and a clear explanation on how to get one started. https://www.handinhandparenting.org/partner/Peaceandparenting/

Since I am a partner of Hand in Hand a portion of the sale of the LP Booklet goes to support this little podcast.

You can also join our Private Facebook Group to search for a partner.

Kelly lives in South Africa with her twin boys. Her background is in Montessori Teaching and now has become a HIH Instructor. She will share with us the significance of listening partnerships and how this transformative tool can bring healing to our relationships and parenting journey!

Episode Highlights:

Kelly’s pregnancy experience with her twin boys
The reality of giving birth
What it feels like to have and raise twin babies
What is a Listening Partnership?
The powerful impact of Listening Partnerships.
Unpacking your emotional backpacks
How do we re-parent ourselves?

Have you ever thought that tantrums are actually connective? Did you know big messy feelings are healing and the idea of being an empathic listener is what makes this all happen for our children?

My online video course Understanding Big Emotions...without using punishments or otherwise losing your mind teaches us how to be the emotional coach for our children, helping them learn authentic and lasting self regulation while also instilling self regulation.

For the next 24 hours you can purchase this course for an introductory price of $47. When it launches, it will be $67. I will be holding a live Q+A and forming a Private Facebook group just for the members of this class. I hope you will take advantage of this offer and look forward to seeing you in the live Q+A!

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About Our Guest:

Kelly van Rooyen is a certified Hand in Hand Parenting instructor, passionate about bringing the listening tools to families looking to build a deep connection and parent from the heart.

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Parenting Beyond Perfection with Guest Kiersten Jan 29, 2021

“When we bring kids into this world, our hope is that in the future, there will be a more peaceful world for them.”

Good behaviour from our children begins with us, their parents.

In this episode, Kiersten, a dear member of our community joins me to talk about how her journey’s been like as a mom, the joyful and the hard parts, as well as how she is growing as a mother and how peaceful parenting helped her nurture her relationship with her kids!

When we are met with defiance, we can’t help but lose our cool sometimes especially when there are many things going around at the same time.

Keep listening to today’s episode to find out how you can connect with your kids on a deeper level and learn how to move away from punishing and controlling and lean into calm and peace.

Episode Highlights:

How Kiersten’s journey with peaceful parenting began
Peace begins with us, parents
Stop trying to control your kids
Let your kids grow and experience life
The hardest part of peaceful parenting for Kiersten
Mistakes are inevitable, remember to be gentle with yourself too

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The Case Against Mindfulness Jars and Cool-Down Corners Jan 22, 2021

At some point in your child’s life, they will experience things which may cause overwhelm, and we won't be able to prevent them from feeling these tough emotions. However, we can be the safe place for them to be when things are tough.

Having deep empathy for our children and allowing them to fully emote helps those feelings pass, be processed so our child can move forward and be the cooperative kind kid they are meant to be.

Mindfulness Jars, Cool Down Corners and Breathing Techniques may "get" kids to calm down, but at what expense? Where have the feelings gone and what will then glean from our expectation of calm? Listen in as Michelle explains just this.

Episode Highlights:

What are the pitfalls of mindfulness jars and cool-down corners and breathing techniques?
What can you do when things are difficult for your child?
Being empathic shows unconditional love.
What is co-regulation and how can we model it?
Telling our child they need to calm down might be giving them the wrong message.
Having empathy and holding space for your kids to release their feelings is the key to expelling upsets they may be stuck

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How do you come alongside your child when they are upset? What do you say and how can you be supportive when emotions are running high?

Find out what to say and the best ways to come with empathy in this free downloadable guide HOW TO HAVE EMPATHY: What to say and do when your child is really upset (https://bit.ly/2KAqglQ)

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