Stay ConnectedIt’s Monday morning, and your Pastor wakes up needing a coffee. They wish they shared more in their message and want to keep digging deeper into their topic without the time constraints of Sunday mornings.
So we started The Pastor’s Hangover Podcast.
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Joy sounds great in theory… until life gets loud, distracting, disappointing, or numb. In this week’s episode of The Pastors’ Hangover, the team talks about how to find real joy — not the temporary kind tied to circumstances, but the deep, steady joy that Jesus gives.
We chat through:
• What’s the difference between joy and happiness?
• Is joy a feeling we wait for or a discipline we practice?
• How do you navigate Christmas when it feels busy, commercial, or overwhelming?
• If God offers joy to everyone, why do some of us feel disconnected from it?
• What can you do when joy feels out of reach, and faith feels distant?
We also are reminded of Luke 2, the shepherds, and why God chose to announce the birth of Jesus to ordinary, overlooked people showing us that His joy isn’t exclusive. It’s for the exhausted, the hurting, the doubting, the hopeful, and the searching.
Whether you feel spiritually alive or spiritually numb, this conversation will encourage you to slow down, reflect, and rediscover a joy that isn’t based on the season but on the Savior.
What exactly has God promised us… and what expectations have we created on our own?
This week on The Pastors’ Hangover, the team unpacks one of the most misunderstood areas of Christian faith: the promises of God. Scripture tells us God promises His goodness, His presence, heaven, peace, and strength — but what about the specifics we pray for? The job. The house. The spouse. The breakthrough. The timeline. Are those promises… or hopes we’ve attached God’s name to?
In this episode, we dive into the questions so many believers wrestle with:
• How do I know if God actually promised me something, or if it’s just what I want?
• What do I do when nothing is happening and it feels like God is silent?
• Are we promised marriage, or are we promised something deeper?
• What’s the difference between waiting on God and waiting on the blessing I’m chasing?
• If things get hard in marriage — even to the point of physical conflict — how do you know whether to keep waiting or walk toward safety?
We talk about disappointment, delayed expectations, and the moments where life feels like it contradicts everything you believed God said. And we ask the big question:
What if you’re waiting on something God never actually promised?
Whether you're questioning your timeline, clinging to hope, or trying to discern God’s voice in the middle of uncertainty, this conversation will help you anchor your faith in what’s true, not just what’s desired.
Anxiety. Grief. Depression. When life falls apart, even Christians wonder where God is in the chaos. In this episode, we dive deep into what Scripture actually shows us about mental and emotional struggle — and how God steps into our most anxious moments with presence, clarity, and peace.
We explore:
• The difference between anxiety vs. overwhelm vs. depression
• Why feeling emotional tension doesn’t mean you’re failing spiritually
• How Jesus experienced—and redeemed—the full human emotional spectrum
• What to do when your thoughts spiral or you can’t feel God
• Why surrendering your mind is just as spiritual as raising your hands in worship
If your life feels heavy or your mind feels loud, this conversation will give you language, hope, and practical ways to walk with God through the mess you didn’t choose.
We have a special guest in the studio, which means you already know this episode is going to be a wild mix of wisdom, honesty, and chaos. Pastor Craig, Pastor Hal, Pastor Daryl, and Melissa dive deep into one of the most challenging parts of following Jesus: serving — not just in church, but in our everyday relationships. This week, the pastors unpack your biggest questions from Pastor Daryl’s message in At the Table:
What if I love Jesus but don’t feel called to serve in a ministry?
What about burnout?
Is it possible to serve too much?
How do you serve with joy instead of exhaustion?
How do I know if I’m serving humbly or just people-pleasing?
Why is it so hard to let people help me?
Why can I serve strangers easily… but struggle to serve my own family?
Foot-washing in church — should we bring it back??
If you’ve ever wrestled with serving, struggled with burnout, or wondered why Jesus cared so much about towels and basins, this episode will challenge, encourage, and maybe even convict you (lovingly).
Pull up a chair. The table is ready. 🧼🦶✨
This week on The Pastors’ Hangover, we’re getting real about gratitude, not the Instagram version, not the “just be thankful!” clichés, but the kind of gratitude that collides with real-life stress, messy family dynamics, and the pressure to keep it all together over the holidays.
We’re answering your toughest questions, including:
How do you keep the peace when family, faith, politics, and old wounds all show up at the same table?
For a lot of us, the holidays feel less like a Hallmark movie and more like a spiritual endurance test. The conversations get tense, the emotions get heavy, and the people you love the most sometimes bring out the worst in you. In this episode of The Pastors’ Hangover, we dive straight into the messy, complicated reality of navigating conflict during the holiday season.
The altar changes your heart. The table changes your habits.
Most of us love the altar moments — the prayers, the worship, the goosebumps. But what happens when the music stops and it’s just you, your dinner table, and the people God gave you?
In this week’s Pastors’ Hangover, the pastors unpack why real transformation doesn’t happen under stage lights, but under the glow of your kitchen light.
The desert is where God builds you - The wilderness isn’t wasted. In this episode, the pastors talk about how to worship when life feels dry, how to trust when God feels silent, and what surrender really looks like in the middle of uncertainty.
Think you’re being obedient… but maybe not fully? How do you know if it’s a good thing or a God thing?
In Episode 100 of The Pastor’s Hangover, the guys unpack the sneakiest sin — partial obedience. From 1 Samuel 15, they dive into how almost obeying God is still disobedience, how to tell if the Holy Spirit is really nudging you (or if it’s just your own voice), and what it looks like to lay everything on the altar.
We’re celebrating this episode with a Fall Basket Giveaway that includes an exclusive copy of Pastor Daryl’s new book, You’re Not Crazy.
💬 To enter, just comment “book” on the YouTube version of this episode. One random winner will be chosen on Thursday, November 30, 2025 at 9AM!
Only one comment will count per person… but feel free to drop the 100 things you’ve learned from this podcast.
In this week’s episode of The Pastors’ Hangover, the pastors dive deep into the power behind what you praise and how the enemy uses counterfeit worship to distract us from the real thing. From fog machines to Halloween costumes they cover it all!
Before you close your eyes tonight, ask yourself one question—What did I worship today?
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