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Ep 171: Are You Unflappable? Adapting to Parent Stress, Grief, Change and More Jul 17, 2024

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Parenting With Impact with Elaine Taylor-Klaus Episode 171 Are You Unflappable? Adapting to Parent Stress, Grief, Change and More with Renee ZavislakRenee Zavislak, the host of Psycho Therapist: The Podcast, is a licensed psychotherapist, coach, and nutritionist in private practice; she specializes in treating complex trauma, high conflict families, and anxiety. Renée's homebase is Sonoma County, California, where she lives with her husband and son, and she travels to see clients in Los Angeles, New York City, and San Diego. In addition to weekly therapy sessions, Renée works via multi-day intensives for individuals, couples, and groups that focus on holistic healing. When she isn't working or cooking, she can be found fawning over her Canine-American soulmate, Chili.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Renee Zavislak about parental stress and grief.Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/calm-confident-tipsheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=calmHere is what to expect on this week’s show:Renee emphasizes the significance of being comfortable with making mistakes and apologizing to children. Renee highlights the importance of catching kids being good and shifting the focus towards desired behaviors rather than solely addressing negative ones.Renee advocates for parents to approach parenting with wonderment rather than expectation. Connect with Renee:Website: https://www.reneezavislaktherapy.com/Podcast: https://www.psychotherapistthepodcast.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psycho_therapist_renee/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/giftConnect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/@impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 170: Early Childhood & Beyond: Parents Are a Child's First (and Forever) Teacher Jul 10, 2024

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Dr. Marquita Davis, Ph.D., is KinderCare’s Chief Academic Officer, overseeing the development of KinderCare’s high-quality educational programs, educator professional development, quality and accreditation initiatives, research and evaluation, inclusion services, and public policy. Marquita has more than 20 years of experience in early childhood education, non-profit leadership, government and philanthropy, including nearly six years as deputy director of Early Learning at the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, where she led the foundation’s multi-state early learning strategy which aims to ensure all young children have access to high-quality, effective and affordable preschool. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Marquita Davis about your child’s first and forever teacher.Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/adhd-recommended-treatment-freebie?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=recommended-treatmentHere is what to expect on this week’s show:Marquita explains Kinder Care provides comprehensive care and education for children from six weeks to twelve years old, including traditional center care, before and aftercare, and a thriving aftercare program.Parents are recognized as their child's first teachers and are supported in early learning settings through mental health and educational assistance, empowerment, and tools for transitioning into traditional settingsMarquita discusses the emphasis on the partnership between parents and providers in early learning settings, with shared responsibility for supporting the child's development and creating a supportive environment.Community support plays a crucial role in empowering parents to advocate for their children's well-being, access necessary resources for their development, and develop relationships with providers to effectively address concerns.Related Links:10 Self Care Tips: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/self-care-tip-sheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=selfParenting Young Boys with Difficult Behaviors: https://youtu.be/FAyRk-Ta_z8Undefinable Brilliance: Brain Development Essentials: https://youtu.be/AqZ_LAqNWDwWhen the School Says No -- How to Get to the Yes: https://youtu.be/LZAJ5bhSJgkThe What and Why of Parent Behavior Training: https://youtu.be/8VTKfgpPVdEAccommodations vs. Remediation - What's the Parent's Role?: https://youtu.be/2tfQ4nZDs2E?si=Ysl6UyqmxyZyIIUdWhen Parenting Feels Like a Burning Building: https://youtu.be/VsW674HfSMIConnect with Marquita:Website: https://www.kindercare.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marquita-davis-ph-d-bb623171/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 169: Beyond Mean Girls: Parenting and Dignity Jul 03, 2024

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Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Rosalind Wiseman about parenting and dignity.Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex KidsGot complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/top-twelve-tips-bonus?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=12-tipsHere is what to expect on this week’s show:Rosalind and Elaine discuss how technology and the Internet have changed parent-child communication, highlighting the struggle to find a balance between control and creating a safe environment. Elaine and Rosalind talk about the difficulties parents encounter when communicating with their children, particularly when discussing topics like social dynamics and adolescent development. Elaine and Rosalind emphasize the importance of supporting children and families during tough situations; they discuss treating children with dignity, highlighting the importance of valuing a person's inherent worth.Elaine and Rosalind emphasize the importance of meeting complex kids where they are, understanding their underlying motivations, and respecting their agency in parent-child relationships. Related Links:The Anxious Generation (book): https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0593655036/?tag=im0ea3-20Improve Relationships with Complex Kids and Teens: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/improve-relationships-with-complex-kids-and-teensrosalindwiseman.com Redirecting Your Child with ADHD Without Judgment: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/redirecting-adhd-without-judgment/Six Things to STOP Saying to your ADHD Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/six-things-stop-saying-to-your-adhd-kids/How to Pick Your Battles to Achieve Family Peace: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/how-to-pick-your-battles-to-achieve-family-peace/ADHD & Depression, ADHD & Anxiety, and All of the Above: https://youtu.be/EsVPRm9RVD4?si=lj3YuBucpK3A6cmNParenting Anxious Childhood Emotions: https://youtu.be/ff5hXtdem5YWhat Story Are You Telling Yourself?: https://youtu.be/a3Pu8irWDR4Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775sUnderstanding Learning Styles: A Curiosity-Driven Approach: https://youtu.be/za5bG6DuN7MTrusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_UConnect with Rosalind:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosalindwiseman/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rosalind.wiseman.9LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rosalind-wiseman-0a369873TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rosalindwiseman2?_t=8ejF9rJAgtc&_r=1Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 168: Surgeon General Warning on Social Media: How Should Parents Respond? Jun 26, 2024

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Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss social media and mental health.Parenting is Leadership Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane encourage parents to reflect on their own technology habits and how they model healthy tech usage for their children.Elaine and Diane explain it's crucial for parents to have open and honest conversations with their children about their online activities. Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of mindfulness in technology usage. They advocated for conscious engagement with digital tools and encouraged individuals to view technology as a supportive tool rather than a controlling force.LinksSocial Media and Youth Mental Health: https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/sg-youth-mental-health-social-media-advisory.pdfSurgeon General: Why I’m Calling for A Warning Label on Social Media: https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cbSurgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms: https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cbIPPF Report: https://www.ippf.org/sites/default/files/2016-05/ippf_cse_report_eng_web.pdfSupporting Youth Experiencing Technology-Facilitated Sexual Violence: https://gbvlearningnetwork.ca/our-work/issuebased_newsletters/issue-39/Learning-Network-Issue-39.pdfYuval Noah Harari: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5nwNQzNmE-/?igsh=MWtudGVkZ2dwZGx3OA==Sanity School link: https://impactparents.securechkout.com/DSS-Kit-$197?utm_campaign=imp-purchase&utm_source=episode-169&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=dss-kitPodcast Episodes:Teaching Kids to be Responsible with Technology: https://youtu.be/9_NbAkoaZjkIntern'l Conf on ADHD 2022 Takeaway Part 2: Technology & Gaming Research: https://youtu.be/3OmacXsemNc?si=Avmr_v_c9YIBBVWnTech Overwhelm and the Metaverse: https://youtu.be/HXN4ShSNbvwEffective Agreements: https://youtu.be/1Sf6G37JW80Rules, Boundaries, & Agreements: Balancing Freedom with Responsibility: https://youtu.be/gUQdne8YliMArticles:Let Go Control Freak Parent: https://impactparents.com/let-go-control-freak-parentConfident Parenting – Why Bother? https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/confident-parenting/5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/5-tips-for-having-embarrassing-conversations-with-your-kids/A Parent’s Guide to Sexing, Texting and Teens: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/a-parents-guide-to-sexting-texting-and-teens/Handling Conflict with Complex Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/handling-conflict-with-complex-kidsGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 167: But I Don't Want To! The Emotions Behind Procrastination Jun 19, 2024

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Dani Donovan is a purpose-driven creator and the founder/CEO of The Anti-Boring Project. Her unorthodox self-help book “The Anti-Planner: How to Get Sh*t Done When You Don’t Feel Like It” offers procrastinators innovative strategies, activities, and games to understand their emotions and overcome productivity roadblocks. Dani’s work empowers individuals with ADHD understand themselves, feel a sense of belonging, and better explain their struggles to loved ones. Her relatable webcomics, viral TikToks, and closing keynote at the 2021 International ADHD Conference have established her as a prominent voice in the mental health community. Dani has been featured in publications like The New York Times, The Washington Post, BBC News, and The Guardian. Her efforts have encouraged thousands to seek diagnosis and treatment. Check out her work at ADHDDD.com and anti-planner.com!Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Dani Donovan about procrastination and emotion.Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex KidsGot complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREEinsider's guide from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/top-twelve-tips-bonus?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=12-tipsHere is what to expect on this week’s show:•Dani emphasizes the effectiveness of personalized learning strategies, such as using art to help her son study. This highlights the significance of tailoring educational approaches to individual interests and needs.•The Feelings-Based Productivity Approach advocated by Dani organizes productivity tools based on emotional states. This approach addresses how individuals feel, ultimately boosting productivity by acknowledging and working with their emotions.•Elaine and Dani stress the importance of collaborative communication and incorporating humor to navigate the challenges of ADHD. Effective communication and a light-hearted approach can make dealing with ADHD-related difficulties more manageable.Related Links:•How to Respond When Your Kid Says Everything is Boring: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/kid-says-everything-is-boring/•Empathy: A Magic Wand to Connect with Complex Kids and Teens: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/empathy-a-magic-wand-to-connect-with-complex-kids-teens/•The Anti Boring Project: https://www.antiboringproject.com•ADHD Conference: https://chadd.org/conference/•The Anti-Planner: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1944627073/?tag=im0ea3-20Connect with Dani:Website: anti-planner.comWebsite: https://adhddd.com/Twitter: https://x.com/danidonovanTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@danidonovanInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/danidonovanPatreon: patreon.com/danidonovanGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 166: Summer Stressors: Realistic Expectations with ADHD & Anxiety Jun 12, 2024

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Parenting during the summer presents unique challenges, as parents strive to create a balance between structured activities and unstructured downtime for their children. Elaine and Diane, both experienced in navigating these summertime hurdles, offer insightful perspectives on the matter. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss summer stressors.Ten Self Care Tips for ParentsDo you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane advocate for a flexible structure that allows for goal-setting across different types of activitiesElaine and Diane stress the importance of parents prioritizing self-care during the summer months. Involving children in the summer planning process not only encourages autonomy but also fosters essential life skills like executive function and self-sufficiency.Related Links:Flexibility + Structure = Moderation: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/flexibility-structure-moderation-2/Managing Summer Stressors: A Message to Moms withADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/managing-summer-stressors-a-message-to-moms-with-adhd/Planning Summer Days Rhythm and Routine with Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/planning-summer-days-rhythm-and-routine-with-kidsSummer Planning with Complex Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/summer-planning-with-complex-kidsSetting Boundaries for Summer: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/setting-boundaries-for-summer/Dinner with an ADHD Family: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/dinner-adhd-family/Anxiety 101: Let Go of Expectations (success story): https://youtu.be/BmUOXqqL8tYParenting Is Improv!: https://youtu.be/xjt1rT_TiooTravel Planning with Anxious, Inflexible, Neurodiverse Kids: https://youtu.be/JWhIFPvmTNUYes, You Can Teach Life Skills Through GAMING: https://youtu.be/RQL8PUcbGvMMotivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.: https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU Get your FREE copy of 12 Key CoachingTools https://impactparents.com/gift Connectwith Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/@impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 165: Co-Parenting with Elaine & David: Real Strategies to Improve Family Dynamics Jun 05, 2024

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David Taylor-Klaus reintroduces Successful Entrepreneurs and Senior Executives to their families. A serial entrepreneur, David is recognized for combining candor, intelligence, and humor with masterful coaching. He challenges leaders and their teams to reach their highest levels of performance in their professional and personal lives.David has lived with depression and ADHD for most of his life giving him a deep understanding of, and compassion for, the neurodivergence that is so common among entrepreneurs and maverick leaders.When David’s life work is done, no entrepreneur nor maverick leader will need to experience what he did: standing on the proverbial bridge wondering how they ever got so lost …David and his wife Elaine (also a best-selling author and professional coach), are "up-until-COVID empty-nesters" now living in the heart of Atlanta with their two dogs and an ever-changing array of their three children. Their life is rich and full!His best-selling book “Mindset Mondays with DTK: 52 Ways to REWIRE Your Thinking and Transform Your Life" is available on Amazon.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with David Taylor-Klaus about ADHD, co-parenting, and coaching.Parenting is Leadership Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:David emphasizes the importance of talking to your children about everything and allowing them to share their thoughts and feelings openly.David and Elaine stress practicing active listening instead of constantly directing or correcting. Stay curious about their thoughts and experiences without imposing your own agenda. This helps build trust and strengthens the parent-child relationship.David and Elaine understand parenting, especially in a collaborative manner, requires significant time, effort, energy, and attention. It's essential to prioritize self-care and recharge your own resources to effectively support your children in their growth and development.Related Links:David Taylor-Klaus Mindset Mondays: dtkcoaching.com/rewireDavid Taylor-Klaus Website: dtkcoaching.comArticles on Depression for Parents: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/depression-and-adhd/Parenting Together: Getting on the Same Page: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/parenting-together-getting-on-the-same-page/Distraction and Depression: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/distraction-depression-2/What If My CoParent's Not On The Same Page: https://youtu.be/ODGghyPOR8ETrusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_USuccess! Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Home: https://youtu.be/CcHgigVXwFkParenting is Leadership Guide: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/leadership-bonus?utm_campaign=imp-freebie&utm_source=podcast-episode-165&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=leadershipConnect with David:Website: dtkcoaching.comMindset Mondays: dtkcoaching.com/rewireFacebook: https://facebook.com/DTKcoachingLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/davidtaylorklaus/Twitter: https://twitter.com/dtkInstagram: https://instagram.com/dtkcoachingGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 164: Shame Resilience: A Key Component in ADHD Wellness May 29, 2024

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Jamie Blume is the Founder and CEO of Alone Their Way, an organization dedicated to empowering people with ADHD and helping them reach their potential. Jamie is a certified ADHD and Life Coach an IFS and IFIO Coach, an educator at the ADD Coach Academy, a mentor of aspiring coaches, and the Chair of the Education Committee for ADDA.As a life-long learner, Jamie believes in educating and creating awareness about ADHD to support overall healing, growth, and transformation. In her practice, Jamie supports individuals and families by integrating health, wellness, and nutrition into her coaching and by incorporating the healing properties of nature, mindfulness, and self-compassion into her work.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Jamie Blume about shame and ADHDParenting is Leadership Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Jamie discusses the importance of understanding how shame contributes to emotional dysregulation in individuals with ADHD.Jamie emphasizes focusing on the wins, positives, strengths, and talents of younger kids with ADSHD to help build confidence and a better sense of self.Jamie also explains the importance of staying calm during tough conversations to build self-confidence and resilience.Elaine stresses the importance of setting intentions before taking action – something that is often overlooked in a community where the focus tends to be on quick fixes. Slowing down and understanding the situation and setting clear intentions can help reduce fear and anxiety.Related Links:Along Their Way Website: alongtheirway.comThree Steps to Learn from Mistakes Without Shame: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/learn-from-mistakes/Take the Shame Out of Making A Mess: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/keep-their-mistakes-to-yourself/Why and How to Teach Kids to Fail Forward: https://impactparents.com/books/why-and-how-to-teach-kids-to-fail-forward/Failing Forward: Make Every Mistake a New One: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/failing-forward/Trusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_UParenting with Presence: Celebrating Neurodiversity in Kids and Adults: https://youtu.be/6SApHN_JswgTreatment vs. Support: What Do Complex Families Need?: https://youtu.be/F46WANGkmqUShame Resilience: A Key Component in ADHD Wellness: https://youtu.be/jIKZtEKBBKkConnect with Jamie:Website: https://alongtheirway.com/FB: https://www.facebook.com/alongtheirway/IG: https://www.instagram.com/alongtheirway/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-blume-78782653/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 163: How to Stop Fixing So You Can Start Helping May 22, 2024

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Parenting is a journey filled with challenges, triumphs, and everything in between. One of the most important skills parents can learn is the art of fixing vs. helping. It's a delicate balance that can have a profound impact on a child's development and well-being.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about fixing vs helping.Motivation GuideIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Diane and Elaine stress the importance of letting children know that it's okay to seek assistance, fostering collaboration and problem-solving skills.Elaine and Diane agree; by staying composed, both parents and children can navigate difficulties effectively, validate emotions, and engage in collaborative problem-solving.Elaine and Diane stress the importance of understanding and fostering resilience in children, especially in the context of neurodiversity.Links Mentioned:Parenting Style Quiz: https://impactparents.com/help-for-parents/free-parenting-style-quiz?utm_campaign=imp-freebie&utm_source=podcast-episode-163&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=parenting-style-quiz-newRecognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775sHow Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication Tools: https://youtu.be/z_sfOuGaEC0Asking For Help: Why Is It So Difficult?: https://youtu.be/tK52aEi_VgM?si=eqikl2AjSQX_dIGSAsk Your Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/ask-kids/Failing Forward: Make Every Mistake A New One: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/failing-forward/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ep 162: The Alycat Series: Helping Younger Kids Manage Daily Life Challenges May 15, 2024

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Award-winning author Alysson graduated from the University of Louisiana at Lafayette with a degree in elementary education. She is a certified elementary education teacher and earned a law degree from the Southern University Law Center. After practicing law for six years, she traded in writing trial briefs for writing children’s books. Her books featuring Alycat have been recipients of the NYC Big Book Award, the Mom’s Choice Awards, have been featured in Kirkus Reviews, Publishers Weekly, and People Magazine; and have appeared in the Oscars celebrity swag bag and the Grammy Awards gift bag. Bourque enjoys speaking with children and teachers at schools and libraries and she hopes to inspire others to believe in themselves and their work and to keep pursuing their dreams.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Alysson Foti Bourque about the Alycat book series.Top 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their TracksIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm.UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/bonus-minimize-meltdowns-tipsheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=mmHere is what to expect on this week’s show:Alysson highlights the importance of instilling bravery in children. By celebrating small victories and encouraging problem-solving, kids can develop important tools to navigate life's challenges.The Alycat series serves as a great example of using storytelling to help children navigate complex emotions and friendships.Alysson’s books showcase the value of relying on friends during challenging times. By working together and offering support, children can learn to conquer their fears and navigate difficult situations.Links Mentioned:Lessons From Celebration: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/lessons-from-celebration/Learn From Mistakes: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/learn-from-mistakes/Combat Your Anxiety and ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/combat-your-anxiety-and-adhd/ADHD Kids Believe What Parents Tell Them to Believe: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/kids-believe-what-parents-tell-them-to-believe/Connection & Compassion: Parenting Children & Teens in Difficult Times with Susan Stiffleman: https://youtu.be/0pZJhzfTeVUBlack Woman Psychotherapist & Coach on ADHD, Resilience & Community with Ingershaye Colzie : https://youtu.be/ky6tjmfoUZcAlycat Series Website: www.alycatseries.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealycatseries/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thealycatseriesConnect with Alysson:Website: www.alycatseries.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealycatseries/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thealycatseriesGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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