Parenting Paused

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Ep. 140 Coming to Conclusions Aug 29, 2022

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Last week on Parenting Paused we talked about how the way you were parented has a profound impact on how you now parent, and it may not be obvious the ways.

So this week Leslie shares more about why that is- how you came to conclusions when you were young and those conclusions may be at work below the surface of your parenting. Part of becoming the parent you wish to be is to check out those early conclusions and in this episode, you will get support on how to do just that! www.purejoyparenting.com

Ep. 139 How You Were Parented Aug 22, 2022

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In your parenting journey have you ever said something like...

I never want to be like my mom...

Or I'm going to be just like my dad...

One is about doing things differently, the other trying to be the same. And yet both are focused on how YOU were parented, rather than being in a relationship with your child. This happens because how you were parented has a profound impact on how you parent. Tune into this week's podcast with Leslie Potter to hear more about how and why this happens, how to take steps toward focusing on your own personal brilliance, and creating a parenting presence that shares that with your child.

Ep. 138 The Point of No Return Aug 15, 2022

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Have you reached a point of no return in your parenting? You're working so hard, you've tried everything, you can't seem to make any changes and be the parent you want to be and STILL, you find yourself blowing up, acting out, and doing exactly the opposite of what you intend to be. Tune into this week's episode and listen to Leslie break the point of no return for you. www.purejoyparenting.com/safeseat

Ep. 137 I HATE this feeling! Aug 08, 2022

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In the Purejoy view, all feelings are welcome! But what about the ones that you HATE? How you organize feelings, ones you like or don't like, is learned. Tune into this week's episode to hear more about this and how feelings drive behavior. www.purejoyparenting.com

Ep. 136 Feeling Stuck, YUCK! Aug 01, 2022

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Hey Mama! Do you ever feel stuck in your parenting? Does your child have behavior that drives you crazy- you want to get rid of it! You've probably tried so many things to get it to stop! Of course, Mama- it can be so intense to stay with the feelings that come up in you- you might find yourself throwing that hot potato right back as we talked about last week. But in this week's episode, Leslie breaks down how to work with that sense of being stuck inside you- so you can bring awareness to your patterns and get out!

Ep. 135 Catching The Hot Potato Feeling Jul 25, 2022

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Attunement- a word often used in attachment parenting, or conscious parenting, about tuning into your child's feelings. What is not often talked about is how attuning can often bring up uncomfortable or unresolved feelings inside of you, feelings you have organized your life not to feel. Tune into this week's podcast to hear more about the energy of those feelings and what happens when you catch the emotional hot potato from your child. Get your free five-day SafeSeat Course delivered to your inbox at www.purejoyparenting.com/safeseat

Ep. 134 Governing Guilt Jul 18, 2022

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This week's podcast wraps up a 4 part series we've been working through over the last few weeks- about The Origins of Mom-guilt! We talked about true cooperation versus demanding compliance, how to be with the heat of rage, and the heaviness of disappointment, and this week we are turning to another feeling that you most likely don't like! But any time you don't want to feel a feeling- you have to leave yourself or self-aggress. In the Purejoy view- we see guilt as a refusal to truly intimate with whatever is coming up in the moment. Tune into this week's episode to hear more about how that works, and what might be more true of you and your desire to be in open-hearted relationship with your child.

Ep. 133 Dealing With Disappointment Jul 11, 2022

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We've been working through some of the energetic dynamics that show up in your parenting. Cooperations vs Compliance, the Energetics of Rage, and this week we are going to take a closer look at what happens when you get disappointed in your parenting. You know this, yeah? How you promise you will do better, be better- not yell, or force, that you will get the kids to listen. And then it doesn't happen. Over and over again. Tune into this episode to hear more about how you may be setting yourself up for disappointment, and how to be with it.

Ep. 132 The Energetics of Rage Jul 04, 2022

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Red hot rage! Do you know about this? When you ask your child to do something and they say 'NO'! Whew! It can be so intense to feel anger and rage in the face of your child. And yet that fire is there. You might yell, scream, raise your voice or lash out. Tune into this week's episode to hear more about how to work with the energetics of rage in your parenting. www.purejoyparenting.com

Ep. 131 Cooperation or Compliance Jun 27, 2022

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More than likely you want your child to cooperate, yeah? And what happens when they don't? If they say no? Do you get frustrated? Demand? Seek for their compliance? It can be a lot! In this week's episode, Leslie talks about what supports a cooperative spirit in children, and what doesn't. Hear about ways to recognize where you might be holding a hidden agenda, and how to work with what arises in you so that you can find connection and cooperation in the present moment with your kiddo.

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