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Meet Challenges Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Oct 03, 2025

In this Friday Field Notes, Ryan dives into the inevitable challenges every man faces—and how you can rise above them. Being a male is a matter of birth, but being a man is earned through responsibility, capability, and leadership. Ryan outlines practical ways to prepare yourself mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually so that you can protect, provide, and preside when it matters most.

Whether it’s solving problems under pressure, anticipating threats, regulating emotions, or empowering others, this episode will challenge you to step up and live as the man you were meant to be.

SHOWNOTES

00:00 – Intro

00:10 – Not every male is a man: challenge defines manhood

02:34 – True leadership reveals itself when things go wrong

04:50 – The power of anticipation and situational awareness

09:23 – Building capability in every area of life

11:45 – Manhood as a profession: constantly improving yourself

14:08 – Emotional regulation and creating safety

16:20 – Helping others solve their own problems

18:47 – Sovereignty: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual strength

20:37 – Becoming the man people look to in crisis

22:30 – Promotion: Join the Iron Council

23:45 – Next week’s episode preview with Jack Carr

24:30 – Closing and grassroots call to share the podcast

What You’ll Learn in this Episode:

Why challenge is the defining feature of manhood
How to adopt the mindset of a problem-solver
The importance of anticipation and situational awareness
Building capability: financial, physical, and skill-based
Regulating your emotions and creating safety for others
Helping others solve their own problems
Why manhood is a profession that requires constant improvement

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Multi-Dimensionality, People-Pleasing, and Stepping Into Masculinity | ASK ME ANYTHING Oct 01, 2025

Ryan and Kipp dig into building and protecting the relationships that matter: how to communicate needs, spot relationships that no longer serve you, rebuild trust with children after long absences, and strike the balance between work, service, and family.

Along the way Ryan shares a harrowing (and hilarious) zipline rescue that reinforces why we should hold our loved ones close. Practical advice, real-world boundaries, and quick tactical habits (like rotating one-on-one lunches with kids) make this episode a toolkit for men working to show up better at home and in community.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 — Intro & topic setup 04:26 — Topic: building relationships (Iron Council prompt) 10:20 — Q: William Pennell — communicating needs 15:47 — Q: Jeremy Kofi — when relationships stop serving 20:45 — Q: Travis Gare — reentering your son's life after absence 31:10 — Q: Matthew Jenkins — prioritizing time with family 40:16 — Q: Christopher Jackson — reclaiming masculine energy 45:19 — Q: Eric Tyler — inner work before showing up in relationships 53:15 — Q: James Grayson — politics, faith and difficult conversations 59:39 — Ryan’s zipline story & closing thoughts 01:05:55 — Final sign-off / Iron Council promo

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VANESSA BENNETT | The Myths of Masculinity and Motherhood Sep 30, 2025

In 1992, John Gray released, “Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus.” It was important work then. It is just as (if not, more so) important today. Why do we as men struggle to understand what women are thinking and saying? And, why do women struggle just as much in understanding us? My guest today, Vanessa Bennet, author of “The Motherhood Myth,” and psychotherapist sheds some light on the reasons, including an inside look at what women are thinking and why. Today, we talk about the misunderstandings between men and women, why women aren’t interested in being with you as one of their children, why women are looking for leadership and respect from men, what is healthy womanhood and manhood, why safety is a key factor in attractiveness for women, and what it really means when a woman says, “I want a man who is vulnerable.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 — Intro & Costa Rica setup 02:02 — Miscommunication Between Men & Women 09:17 — Shadow Work & Shame 13:06 — Myths of Motherhood 18:07 — Finding the Middle (Pendulum Theory) 21:36 — Rupture & Repair in Relationships 30:10 — Choosing vs Needing: Desire & Partnership 33:06 — Leadership vs Dominance (What Women Want) 42:48 — Don’t Fix — Build Competence & Autonomy 50:26 — Safety & Parenting (why reliability matters) 59:43 — Preemptive Communication & Vulnerability 1:00:39 — Integrity & Follow-Through (why actions matter)

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A Man’s Guide to Taking Risk | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 26, 2025

In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler explores what it truly means for men to take risks and why it’s essential for growth, leadership, and purpose. He outlines the importance of knowing your “why,” weighing risk versus reward, hedging your bets, and preparing every area of your life before making bold moves. Ryan also emphasizes the need for courage, resilience, and guidance from mentors. This conversation is a practical and powerful guide for men who want to step into greater responsibility, push past fear, and live with meaning while taking calculated, righteous risks.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:14 Big goals and the role of risk 02:24 The importance of knowing your why 07:03 Measuring risk versus reward 09:27 Hedging your bets 11:50 Getting your house in order 14:16 SWOT analysis for decision-making 16:37 The mandate to take righteous risk 18:55 Coaching opportunities and Iron Council

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The Power of Intention, High-Income Skills, and Overcoming Financial Hurdles | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 24, 2025

In Part 2 of this Ask Me Anything Ryan and Kipp tackle real listener money questions - from Roth vs. traditional 401(k)s and how to start saving at 48, to scaling rental portfolios, buying land, and running a meat processing business. They also discuss high-income skills, the psychology of debt and “usury,” and whether cashing out investments to pay a low-rate mortgage makes sense. Packed with actionable prudence, blunt honesty, and practical frameworks for financial decisions. Tune in, take notes, and move to action.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Intro 01:33 - Roth vs. Traditional 401(k) (Mike Cole) 04:22 - Biggest moves at 48 with nothing saved (Lonnie McIntyre) 10:57 - Scaling rentals: use equity or let it pay off (Jeremy Fulmer) 14:07 - Considering closing 401(k) to buy land (Mike) 16:57 - Starting a meat processing business (Jeff Kessler) 23:18 - Experience vs. price: creating convenience & premium services 26:21 - High-income skills & why connection matters (Jonathan Webster) 34:05 - Usury, debt culture & values (Jason Cole) 41:51 - Paying off mortgage vs. investing (Chris Edmondson) 47:35 - Iron Council / Order of Man promo & outro

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SHAWN STEVENSON | Using Bio Feedback to Fuel Your Body Sep 23, 2025

If all it took was a basic understanding of food to get lean and healthy, all men would have visible abs and never need the scale. The reality, however, is that most men don’t have the abs and, although they may have the scale, they’re not really willing to get on it. It turns out that the science of food and how it reacts with our body goes so much deeper, including the mental and emotional realm. My guest today, author of Eat Smarter, Shawn Stevenson, has spent decades of his life understanding the basics and nuances of the fuel we call food and our relationship with it. We cover why not all calories are the same, how culture impacts our eating decision making process, how placebos are more effective than you’d think in curing illness and disease, why the diversity of what you eat is just as important as how much you eat, and why you are what you eat.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Catching Up & Setting the Stage 01:24 – Changing Family Food Culture 03:25 – Redefining Health & Culture in America 24:31 – Biological Age vs. Chronological Age 37:52 – The Truth About Dairy & Processed Foods 40:31 – Calories, Metabolism & Food Quality 46:20 – Context Matters: Fueling for Your Goals 01:11:36 – Training, Nutrition & Recovery Insights 01:13:34 – TRT, GLP-1 & Lifestyle Foundations 01:18:05 – Vitamin D, Deficiencies & Aging 01:21:14 – Nutrition & Movement After 40 01:24:43 – Rapid Fire: Protein, Food Choices & More 01:30:13 – Supplement Risks & Safe Practices 01:31:43 – Closing Thoughts & Where to Connect

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Nice Guys Never Win | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 19, 2025

In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down the truth behind the phrase “Nice Guys Never Win.” He explains how the tendency to avoid conflict, suppress needs, and chase approval leads to weak boundaries, indecision, and frustration in relationships and careers.

Ryan outlines the real costs of “nice guy syndrome” and challenges men to reclaim respect through clarity, honesty, and decisive action. He closes with five daily practices to help men stop self-betrayal and start leading with conviction. This episode is a direct, no-fluff call for men to stop playing the victim and step into responsibility.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Defining the Nice Guy 02:13 – Consequences of Nice Guy Syndrome 04:32 – Indecisiveness and People Pleasing 06:53 – Suppressing Needs and Passive Aggression 09:18 – Inauthenticity and Fear of Judgment 11:43 – Playing the Victim 13:51 – Confusion, Distrust, and Frustration 18:43 – The Cycle of Anger and Resentment 20:46 – Five Daily Practices to Overcome 27:58 – Closing Thoughts and Challenge

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What the Successful Know About Wealth, When to Invest, Why Own Rentals | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 17, 2025

In this week’s Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp tackle pressing questions from the Iron Council, all centered on money. From understanding the habits of wealthy men, to real vs. nominal gains, to the psychology of budgeting and investing, they cover practical insights that cut through financial confusion.

The guys also dive into real estate, Roth strategies, and why prudence matters more than market timing. Tune in for a candid, actionable conversation on building and stewarding wealth with wisdom.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:05 – Opening and headlines 11:41 – Wealthy habits vs. average habits 21:44 – Real vs. nominal gains 24:49 – Selling a house and liquidity decisions 35:07 – Budgeting and psychology of money 43:23 – Wealth and dishonesty mindset 46:24 – Borrowing against equity 49:14 – Rentals vs. 401k 50:57 – When to sell real estate investments 53:16 – Backdoor Roth explained 59:47 – Iron Council promotion 1:02:57 – Social and community links

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JAY JAIRDULLO | Why Self-Image is Everything Sep 16, 2025

What you think of yourself is directly correlated with the kind of man you are or will become. If you believe yourself to be a victim of circumstances beyond your control, you will be. If, alternatively, you believe the world is conspiring for your benefit, it will be. It is quite literally self-fulfilling prophesy.

My guest today, Jay Jairdullo, knows exactly what this is like after spending 25 years in law enforcement and now a college wrestling coach, he has had to redefine himself over and over again. Today, Jay and I talk about what he calls “false masculinity,” avoiding slipping back into old patterns, the importance of core values, overcoming the victimhood mentality, and keeping yourself and others off pedestals you don’t belong.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Building Brotherhood and Friendship 04:00 – Self-Image and Overcoming Excuses 10:00 – Shifting Identity and Mindset 14:00 – Lessons from a Career in Law Enforcement 18:00 – Loyalty, Support, and Marriage Dynamics 22:00 – Rebuilding Trust and Reputation 26:00 – Focusing on Positives vs Negatives 30:00 – Emotional Intelligence and Fatherhood 33:00 – Leadership: Autocratic vs Democratic 36:00 – Masculinity, False Masculinity, and Clarity 41:00 – Values, Vision, and Decision-Making 46:00 – Aligning Actions with Identity 48:00 – Retirement, Reflection, and New Purpose 52:00 – Connecting Through the Iron Council

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When Good Men Do Nothing | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 12, 2025

In this week’s Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler addresses the troubling rise of political violence and cultural hostility, urging men to step up as protectors, providers, and leaders.

He lays out a clear roadmap of four key actions—protecting your family, speaking out against destructive ideologies, stepping into positions of influence, and building strong brotherhoods. Ryan also shares upcoming plans for local Order of Man chapters and emphasizes why good men must refuse to stay silent any longer.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 02:15 – The power of prayer and courage 05:00 – Protecting your family and building skills 07:00 – Financial security as protection 08:30 – Speaking out against dangerous ideologies 14:15 – Stepping into positions of power 16:40 – Building influence through business and community 18:30 – The importance of brotherhoods 21:30 – Call to action and next steps

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CHARLIE KIRK | Are Men the Enemy? Sep 11, 2025

I revisit my 2020 conversation with Charlie Kirk, recorded during a time when we discussed pressing issues around masculinity, responsibility, and the future of our culture. In light of the tragic news of Charlie’s passing after the horrific shooting at Utah Valley University on September 10th, 2025, I share this episode in his honor.

We cover topics such as the hyper-feminization of boys, the need for strong male role models, and the responsibility men carry to lead with courage and conviction. Let’s honor Charlie’s legacy by carrying forward the work he dedicated his life to.

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Work/Life Balance is a Myth, Re-Focusing Your Energy, and When Plans Go Wrong | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 10, 2025

In this week’s Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp tackle questions from the Order of Man community around productivity, energy management, and living with greater intention. From balancing family responsibilities with work, to eliminating distractions and staying aligned with long-term goals, they dive deep into practical strategies men can apply right now.

They also cover tools for planning, handling setbacks with resilience, and the value of family meetings. Plus, updates on the Iron Council and the importance of choosing growth over mere compliance.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 News headlines – Phillies “crazy Karen” 08:32 Shifting AMA format & topics 09:18 Work-life balance & energy 19:07 Refocusing after interruptions 22:36 Full alignment in planning 31:22 Income and spending trackers 32:15 Writing vs. digital planning 34:39 Recommended tools 42:48 Weekly family meetings 47:03 Best time to plan 51:19 Mindset when plans go off track 01:00:29 Iron Council promotion & Facebook group

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DAVID PISARRA | When Your Marriage Ends, Do This… Sep 09, 2025

If you’ve ever heard the dreaded words, “I love you but I am not in love with you,” or, more bluntly, “I want a divorce,” you know what follows is a mental and emotional rollercoaster of epic proportion. But what you probably don’t know is what to do if that day comes and what your rights might be when it comes to protecting yourself, your money, and your relationship with your children. My guest today, Attorney David Pissara, has made it his life’s work to help men navigate what is likely the most difficult part of his life – post-divorce. Today, we talk about how to avoid conflict during these times while simultaneously protecting your rights, the emotional manipulation many men face and how to confront it, whether or not the family court system is biased and what to expect when dealing with the courts, what indicators to be on the lookout for you to recognize if a divorce is pending, and even how AI may change family law.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:17 – Introduction and Context 01:05 – Why Men Struggle in Divorce 02:58 – Men, Vulnerability, and Leadership 08:33 – Marriage as a Contract 12:37 – The Question of Fairness in Divorce Settlements 17:01 – What Men Should Look for in Women 20:18 – Predictors of Divorce and Commitment 21:27 – The Danger of Social Isolation 25:51 – Balancing Happiness and Sacrifice 28:15 – Feminism, Disney, and Unrealistic Expectations 31:12 – Dating Standards and Preferences 36:12 – The Dreaded “I Want a Divorce” Moment 37:00 – How Women Strategize Divorce 39:23 – Abuse vs. Violence in Relationships 43:40 – How Courts Handle Restraining Orders 46:06 – Why Men Rarely File Restraining Orders 49:40 – Civil vs. High-Conflict Divorces 52:02 – Should Men Stay or Leave the House? 54:38 – Resources for Fathers in Custody Battles 57:46 – Strategies for High-Conflict Personalities 59:39 – No-Fault Divorce and Its Impact 01:04:00 – Handling Loans and Slander in Divorce 01:06:52 – Bias in Family Courts and AI Judges 01:09:59 – Parental Alienation and Legal Strategy 01:11:00 – Wrap-Up and Post-Show Instructions

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How to Be Vulnerable Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 05, 2025

In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler breaks down what it really means to be vulnerable “like a man.” He challenges the popular narrative that vulnerability is strength in itself and instead explains how it should be used as a tool for growth. Ryan outlines why discernment matters, how goals must shape openness, and why solutions must accompany weakness.

Listeners will walk away with a sharper, more practical understanding of vulnerability—stripped of fluff and grounded in responsibility. This episode is a call for men to embrace honesty without falling into the trap of empty exposure.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Rethinking vulnerability 02:30 – Vulnerability as weakness 04:40 – Exercising discernment 09:00 – Setting goals for openness 11:20 – Pairing vulnerability with solutions 18:00 – Vulnerability plus solutions equals results 20:20 – Iron Council promotion 22:45 – Closing thoughts

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Daily Efficiencies, Practices, Planning, and Systems | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 03, 2025

In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler dives into daily efficiencies, planning systems, and the power of structure in building a productive life. He answers listener questions on balancing flexibility with discipline, handling unexpected events, creating rituals around planning, and becoming an early riser.

Ryan also shares practical tactics like using buffers, after-action reviews, and categorizing different types of days to stay consistent and effective. Whether you’re aiming for better routines or long-term growth, this conversation offers actionable strategies you can apply immediately.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction and episode setup 02:14 – Balancing flexibility and structure 06:59 – Consistency with non-traditional work schedules 11:44 – Daily tactics for continual growth 16:30 – Handling the unexpected in planning 21:10 – Becoming an early riser 25:50 – Making daily planning a ritual 33:57 – Closing thoughts and resources

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LARRY HAGNER | The "Dad Drift" and How to Beat It Sep 02, 2025

Over time, it’s likely that you have drifted off course. Like a boat without a navigator, it’s easy to let the current of reality, overwhelm, and frustration take you off course. My guest today, Larry Hagner has been a father for over two decades and knows firsthand what the drift looks like as a dad and how to steer yourself back on course. Today, we talk about staying awake and vigilant when it comes to leading your wife and kids, the first “domino” to fall before things go horribly wrong, how to get your wife back on course if she starts to drift, in what ways do you become lethargic, monotonous, and bland in your life (and, what to do about it), and learning to build “conversations of curiosity.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Catching Up 00:11 - Larry’s Knee Injury Discussion 04:33 - The Forge Event Recap 04:57 - The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood Book Launch 07:47 - Understanding the Drift 09:17 - Introducing Lance: The Avatar of the Drift 15:30 - Helping Your Spouse Overcome the Drift 16:12 - Getting Out of the Drift as a Man 23:51 - Coaching Consistency in Men 29:57 - Being a Man of Your Word 31:02 - Motivating Your Wife Respectfully 36:56 - Impact of Kids on Relationships 38:02 - Motivating and Guiding Children 41:50 - Creating Psychological Safety for Kids 47:22 - Building Trust Through Questions 53:30 - Navigating Single Fatherhood 55:09 - Finding Common Ground with Your Child 59:35 - Connecting with Larry and The Forge Event

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How a Man Overcomes Betrayal | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Aug 29, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores how men can confront and overcome betrayal in both personal and professional life. Drawing from his own recent experiences, Ryan offers practical strategies and hard-earned insights to help men navigate betrayal with strength, clarity, and integrity. He emphasizes respect, self-control, and learning valuable lessons rather than succumbing to anger or despair. This episode is a call for men to rise above hardship, establish healthy boundaries, and move forward with resilience and purpose.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 02:15 – Facing betrayal in life and business 04:37 – Responding with respect and rationality 06:50 – Treating innocent bystanders gracefully 09:12 – Learning the lessons from betrayal 11:32 – Recognizing red flags early 13:54 – Building strong boundaries 18:43 – Final thoughts and encouragement

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When Vulnerability Goes Wrong, The OODA Loop, and Honoring Choice | ASK ME ANYTHING Aug 27, 2025

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen in this engaging AMA episode of the Order of Man podcast. They kick off with light-hearted banter on Labor Day plans and "fake holidays," then dive into a headline sparking debate: Cracker Barrel's logo change and why people fixate on trivial issues.

Listener questions cover helping kids handle bullies, pacing new relationships, picky eaters, prioritizing battle plan tactics, monetizing podcasts, hard-fought life lessons, and staying focused amid chaos. Packed with practical advice on masculinity, family, and self-improvement.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Opening Banter and Setup 00:58 - Weekend Plans and Labor Day Discussion 02:45 - Headline: Cracker Barrel Logo Controversy 11:50 - Helping Kids Navigate Bullies 25:11 - Pacing a New Relationship 37:23 - Dealing with Picky Eaters 40:38 - Prioritizing Battle Plan Tactics 43:23 - Monetizing Podcasts and Iron Council Origins 45:45 - Biggest Hard-Fought Lessons 01:07:22 - Maintaining Focus in Crises 01:21:49 - Episode Wrap-Up and Calls to Action

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TYE NICHOLS | From Fairway Dreams to Mainstreet Reality Aug 26, 2025

You ever seen an old house and think, “Man, I’d love to fix that up.”? Or, an old truck, and imagine the day where you and your children would drive around in that thing? Or, maybe an old project you’ve been meaning to finish but never got around to it? My guest today, Tye Nichols, feels the same way. In fact, he’s invested thousands of his own money to put into an abandoned golf course he’s had visions of reviving. Today, we talk about his dream of reviving his golf course, Fairway Fields. We talk about finally believing in yourself, casting vision so other people will believe in you, overcoming doubters on your path, what to do when times get tough, and whether or not to “sell out” when it comes to chasing a dream.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Catching Up After Years 01:00 – Family Life and Moving Back to Maine 02:50 – Why Buy an Abandoned Golf Course? 05:55 – Building Trust and Taking Advice from the Right People 07:15 – Ordinary vs. Extraordinary 09:20 – Lessons from Jocko and Realizing People Are Just People 13:10 – Humility, Work Ethic, and Earning Opportunities 16:50 – Big Dreams for Fairway Fields 19:30 – Reimagining a Rural Golf Course 24:30 – Taming Nature and Learning the Hard Way 26:45 – Local Support and Community Excitement 28:30 – Making Ends Meet While Building a Dream 32:40 – Long-Term Vision and Scaling Up 34:40 – Overcoming Doubts and Finding True Commitment 37:10 – Support from His Wife and Family 39:25 – Turning Away from a Rough Past 41:00 – Rock Bottom and Deciding to Change 42:30 – Why Strangers Believe in His Vision 45:55 – People Want to Support, Not Tear You Down 47:30 – Advice for Men with Big Dreams 49:30 – Where to Connect with Tye

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How to Initiate Boys Into Manhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Aug 22, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the crucial question of how to initiate boys into manhood. Drawing from personal experience as a father and mentor, Ryan outlines key principles such as separation, challenge, risk, and meaning that help shape rites of passage.

He emphasizes the importance of deliberate and intentional practices for raising boys into strong, capable men—especially in a society that often resists such growth. This episode offers fathers, mentors, and even single mothers clear considerations for guiding the next generation of men.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:40 – The challenge of raising boys in today’s culture 03:00 – Separation from women in rites of passage 05:27 – Building challenge and risk into the process 07:50 – Age-based milestones for boys 10:05 – Responsibility, puberty, and independence 12:21 – Honoring achievements with meaning 14:33 – Public celebration and recognition 16:58 – Marking and family mottos 19:16 – Reintroduction as young men 21:37 – Course promotion and final thoughts

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Choosing Your Battles, Finding God in Hardship, and Owning Your Addictions | ASK ME ANYTHING Aug 20, 2025

In this week’s Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle powerful questions from the Order of Man community. From knowing which battles are worth fighting, to bringing God into past trials, to addressing blind spots at work without sounding like a complainer — they cover practical wisdom every man can apply. They also dive into handling public haters, having hard conversations about addiction, and reflecting on past interviews. Honest, challenging, and inspiring — this one’s packed with lessons for intentional living.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Opening and headlines 08:07 – Choosing your battles 19:45 – Inviting God into past trials 29:50 – Approaching leadership with blind spots 41:01 – Telling your wife about addiction 48:27 – Responding to public haters 56:45 – Interviews Ryan would redo 01:02:41 – Promotions and closing

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PETE ROBERTS | Why Scrappiness Could Be Your Greatest Asset Aug 19, 2025

We all know that one guy who is tough, resilient, loves a fight, and can make things happen, even when he’s behind. I think, in a way, we all want to be that guy. I’m convinced that a man who is scrappy is a man who can achieve everything he wants in this world – even if it first seems out of reach. My guest today, Pete Roberts, agrees. And, he knows a thing or two about the resourcefulness and scrappiness it takes to revive an American tradition – manufacturing. You know him as the founder of Origin and Jocko Fuel. Today, we talk about the power of purpose, how and why a man needs to define success, regular people building irregular things, what he looks for in people to hire and promote to leadership in his organization, and making yourself capable of carrying burdens.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Catching Up After Years Apart 01:15 – Origin and the Almost Reality Show 03:20 – Building a Brand with Authenticity 05:40 – Jiu-Jitsu as Life’s Greatest Teacher 10:40 – From Passion to Purpose in Business 18:50 – Regular Guys Doing Extraordinary Things 21:45 – Breaking Free from the System 25:40 – Ty’s Story: Taking a Risk on Yourself 33:05 – Spotting Talent: Deep Selects and Leadership 40:45 – Redefining Success and Carrying the Burden 46:20 – Breaking the Cycle for Family and Legacy 52:40 – Losing $6 Million and Firing Myself 01:00:15 – Restarting with New Purpose 01:06:20 – The Truth About Success and Struggles 01:08:20 – New YouTube Channel and Final Promotions

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10 Ways to Make Yourself More Influential | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Aug 15, 2025

In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler shares ten powerful strategies to become more influential in every area of life. From building strength and dressing with purpose to mastering communication, practicing honesty, and making exceptionalism the standard, Ryan delivers actionable insights for men who want to lead with integrity and impact. He also emphasizes the importance of follow-through, consistency, and lightheartedness in building trust. Whether at home, at work, or in the community, these principles equip listeners to show up as the man they are meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 02:28 Build Strength & Muscle 04:56 Dress Your Age & Occasion 09:38 Learn to Communicate Well 14:26 Use Self-Deprecation 15:38 Get Good at Saying “I Don’t Know” 18:39 Get Good at Saying “I Don’t Agree” 23:03 Be Ruthlessly Consistent 25:13 Make Exceptionalism Your Standard 29:43 Follow Through on Commitments 31:38 Laugh, Smile & Be Lighthearted 34:00 Bonus – Never Let Them See You Sweat 36:20 Closing Remarks

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Becoming Self-Aware, Overcoming Infidelity, and Disincentivizing Bad Behavior | ASK ME ANYTHING Aug 13, 2025

In this week’s AMA, Ryan and Kipp tackle tough listener questions on becoming more self-aware, navigating the pain and decisions around infidelity, and setting boundaries to disincentivize bad behavior in relationships and parenting.

They also explore meaningful rites of passage for young men, fostering responsibility in teens, and the lessons they wish they could share with their younger selves. Honest, direct, and actionable, this episode blends inspiration with real-world strategies for men striving to lead with integrity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 03:18 First listener question – Skill, habit, or mindset shift 14:09 How much infidelity is too much to forgive 27:06 Considering separation over chemical dependency 39:55 Rite of passage for your son 46:44 Handling entitled teenagers 54:44 Advice to your teenage self 01:05:32 Promotions and closing remarks

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ADAM LANE SMITH | How Men and Women Cause Each Other Pain Aug 12, 2025

Why can’t women just understand men? Why can’t men just understand women? The short answer is, “we’re not supposed to.” If we were, we wouldn’t really have any need for each other, would we? My guest today, Adam Lane Smith, has made it his life’s work to get closer to helping men understand women and help us understand our own natural tendencies in relationships.

Today, Adam and I talk about emotional starvation, the concept of CEO/COO between men and women, the ‘red flags’ that your marriage is struggling, what men and women do to cause each other pain, and how men can lead in their relationships much more effectively.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Finding Purpose and Chasing It 00:59 – Building a 200-Year Family System 02:51 – Two Worlds: Secure vs Insecure Attachment 05:55 – Teaching People Safety vs Creating Secure Attachment 07:27 – Maslow’s Hierarchy and Emotional Safety 10:46 – Safety for Men as Peace 14:19 – Security Starts Outside the Relationship 17:38 – Rebuilding a Marriage After Decades 20:53 – Invalidation and Dismissal in Relationships 22:23 – Venting vs Bringing Concerns 27:18 – The Purpose of Female Feelings as Data 29:36 – Men and Women’s Brains Are Meant to Interlink 32:05 – The Ancient Fear of Not Being Believed 37:25 – Emotional Starvation in Relationships 40:38 – Signs She’s Thriving or Starving Emotionally 45:13 – Four Levels of Safety Women Need 48:24 – Level 1: Physical Safety 50:07 – Level 2: Resource Safety 52:00 – Choosing the Right Woman for Your Circle 55:08 – Defining Masculine and Feminine Roles 58:32 – How Men Decide and Women Refine 01:02:05 – Level 3: Emotional Safety 01:04:29 – Level 4: Bonding Safety

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Men and The Humanity of Hunting | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Aug 08, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler passionately defends hunting, addressing misconceptions and highlighting its ecological and ethical benefits. He explores the historical role of hunting in human survival, its impact on conservation, and the reverence of consuming what you kill. Michler provides data-driven arguments to counter anti-hunting sentiments, emphasizing population management, habitat preservation, and sustainable practices. He also offers practical advice for aspiring hunters.

Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that challenges assumptions and celebrates hunting’s role in human tradition and environmental stewardship.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Addressing Hunting Misconceptions 04:09 - The Cycle of Life and Homo Sapiens 08:10 - Consequences of Stopping Hunting 10:33 - The Truth About Trophy Hunting 12:56 - The Decency of an Honorable Death 15:21 - Hunting vs. Slaughterhouse 17:43 - The Reverence of Eating What You Kill 20:04 - Sustainable Hunting Practices 22:27 - Hunters’ Contributions to Conservation 27:15 - Getting Started with Hunting

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The Paradox of Choice, When to Call it Quits, and Living the Intentional Life | ASK ME ANYTHING Aug 06, 2025

In this AMA episode, Ryan and Kipp explore the tension between motivation and meaning in today’s self-help culture. They dive into headline topics like the Tim Kennedy stolen valor controversy, then tackle listener questions on marriage doubts, healing journeys, ex-partner conflicts, starting a podcast, and when to pivot in life.

Expect honest, grounded advice around boundaries, intentional living, and balancing life’s demands without burnout. A must-listen for men navigating growth, fatherhood, and purpose.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Tim Kennedy & the Stolen Valor Debate 08:29 - Should You Have Doubts Before Marriage? 16:35 - Mistakes When Starting a Podcast 22:34 - Growth & Healing: What's Top of Mind 27:01 - Parenting Disagreements with Your Ex 32:30 - When Is It Time to Quit or Pivot? 38:42 - Handling Overwhelm & the Four Quadrants 46:19 - Living an Intentional Life 55:31 - Reclaiming Your Identity from People-Pleasing 1:04:00 - Hiring Help: Building a Team for Your Mission

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ED LATIMORE | Hard Lessons Learned from the Sweet Science Aug 05, 2025

Boxing is known as the “Sweet Science,” but the name doesn’t quite do it justice. The amount of work, effort, blood, sweat, tears, and beatdowns is anything but sweet. But that doesn’t mean there aren’t so many powerful lessons to be learned from what my guest today, Ed Latimore, calls the “Hurt Business.” Today, Ed and I talk about how and why people either buy into you (or not), why the next win or loss is just a setup for the next experience of your life, the power of consciously choosing to start over in life and after setbacks, why you’re only as good as your last win, and why “old endings” are nothing more than “new beginnings.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Intro & reconnecting 02:05 – Early podcast memories 04:05 – Building influence through storytelling 06:20 – The power of brand over product 08:40 – Writing the memoir: process and lessons 10:21 – You're only as good as your last win 17:06 – Everything is an audition 23:33 – When to throw in the towel 30:10 – Why most people shouldn’t box 33:22 – Fighting serious people comes at a cost 35:01 – Who chooses a life of combat? 39:32 – The worst guy to fight 46:00 – Identity, curiosity, and starting over 48:56 – How to connect with Ed 51:20 – Nobody’s coming to save you 52:33 – Final thoughts & wrap-up

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Be The Rock For Your Family | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Aug 01, 2025

Ryan Michler, in this week's Friday Field Notes, delivers an inspiring episode on becoming a steadfast presence for family and community. He shares seven actionable strategies to navigate life's challenges while supporting others, emphasizing clear communication, firm boundaries, and emotional resilience.

Michler urges men to embody trustworthiness and capability, ensuring they’re the reliable "rock" others depend on during tough times. Packed with practical advice and motivational insights, this episode empowers listeners to lead with strength and serve those they love.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction: The Challenges of Life 02:03 - Communicate Your Desires 04:14 - Have Clear Boundaries 06:41 - Do Not Lie 09:02 - Honor Your Word 11:20 - Stay Emotionally Level-Headed 13:41 - Become More Capable 16:04 - Build Your Presence 20:46 - Conclusion: Serve Those You Love

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Mastering Feedback, Boundaries, and Family Mentoring | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 30, 2025

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen in this engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, diving into listener questions on career leaps, mentoring kids, handling feedback, and setting boundaries. From advice on applying for a higher job to being a positive role model for a niece and nephew, they share practical insights for personal growth.

The episode also explores the evolution of the Iron Council and the value of its community, offering actionable tips for men striving to thrive.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Catching Up and Weekend Recap 03:59 - Applying for a Higher Job 08:05 - Being a Role Model for Kids 15:08 - Evolution of the Iron Council 25:19 - Handling Performance Review Feedback 35:31 - Balancing Boundaries and Openness 44:37 - Battle Planner Clarifications 48:44 - Staying Connected with Order of Man

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AARON HALE | Re-Sizing Your Ego Jul 29, 2025

We’re all tempted, at times, to allow our ego to get the better of us. Many of us feel like we’re on top of the world until the precise time we find ourselves on the bottom of it. My guest today, Aaron Hale, found himself in just that scenario as an Explosive Ordnance Disposal tech on a routine assignment when he was blown up by an Improvised Explosive Device (IED) that caused him to lose sight and, later, his hearing. Today, we talk about the fear of being stuck, gratitude for our struggles and adversities, overcoming our greatest fears, how positivity and negativity are infectious, and how you can re-size your ego or have it re-sized for you.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:15 - Aaron's Military Background and Injury 01:10 - Details of the IED Incident 02:04 - Injuries Sustained from the Explosion 04:36 - Medical Evacuation and Tom Cruise Encounter 06:34 - Recovery at Walter Reed 08:31 - Realization of Permanent Blindness 09:20 - Mental State Post-Injury 11:12 - Family Support During Recovery 13:11 - Connecting with Fellow Injured Veterans 17:01 - Overcoming Suicidal Thoughts 19:46 - Adapting to Sensory Loss 21:30 - Battle with Bacterial Meningitis 25:17 - Inspiration from Eric Weihenmayer 26:58 - Transition to Running and Physical Challenges 30:49 - Learning to Run Blind 34:47 - Running Badwater 135 Ultra Marathon 40:34 - Experiencing Runs Without Sight 42:45 - Building Trust with Guides 44:45 - Loss of Balance and Adaptation 51:22 - Mastering the Art of Falling 52:13 - Future Goals and Ventures 54:02 - Launching Point of Impact Podcast 56:13 - Gratitude for Life’s Challenges 58:19 - Closing Thoughts and Appreciation

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Confronting the Stress of Masculinity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jul 25, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the overwhelming stress men face in their roles as providers and protectors. He offers five practical strategies to manage stress effectively, emphasizing personal responsibility over societal expectations. Michler encourages men to identify stress triggers, eliminate distractions, prioritize health, break monotonous routines, and adjust life's tempo without losing direction.

Through actionable advice and personal insights, he empowers listeners to reduce stress and enhance performance, ensuring they can serve their families and communities without crumbling under pressure. Join the conversation at facebook.com/groups/orderofman.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Stress and Masculinity 02:04 - Overview of Five Tips 04:18 - Tip 1: Identify the Root of Stress 06:34 - Tip 2A: Remove Stressors 09:01 - Tip 2B: Eliminate Distractions 11:28 - Tip 3: Prioritize Mental, Emotional, and Physical Health 16:05 - Tip 4: Mix Up Your Routine 18:27 - Tip 5: Change Tempo, Not Direction 20:48 - Recap and Call to Action

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Learning to Let Go, Never Offering Unsolicited Advice, and Getting Good at Saying, ‘I Don’t Know’’ | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 23, 2025

In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into listener questions, exploring themes of faith, letting go, and pursuing purpose. They discuss building male camaraderie through action, overcoming overthinking, and embracing "I don't know" to find peace. From marathon training insights to serving others and knowing when to offer empathy versus tough love, this episode offers practical wisdom for men striving to live with intention. Join the Iron Council brotherhood at orderofman.com for more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Catching Up 05:29 - Strengthening Faith and Prayer 12:39 - Marathon Training Insights 16:44 - Letting Go and Overcoming Overthinking 30:39 - Defining a Life Well-Lived 36:25 - Going All-In on Order of Man 46:07 - Empathy vs. Tough Love in Leadership 53:54 - Reincarnation Animal Discussion 57:19 - Battle Planner and Closing Thoughts

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NICK O'KELLY | Confronting the Stigma of Men’s Mental Health Jul 22, 2025

We’re all well-aware of the stigma associated with men’s mental health. Men are often told overtly or covertly to be just be quiet, do your job, and get your work done. And, while there is certainly some validity to us getting the job done when people are relying on us, it’s also valid to consider the mental and emotional battles we often fight as men.

Today, I am joined by retired Green Beret, Nick O’Kelly to talk about his time in service the mental and emotional anguish he faced, and what he’s done to overcome the challenges of anxiety, depression, and even suicidal ideation. We talk about how a man begins to confront these issues, finding the balance between bearing down and getting the help we need, how to find teams and avenues of support without feeling weak, and how to confront the stigma (even though we all deal with it) of men’s mental health

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Men's Mental Health Stigma 01:05 - Balancing Pride and Duty 03:12 - Debating Vulnerability 04:27 - Military Career Transitions 06:36 - Family Dynamics and Decisions 09:22 - Managing Career Expectations 11:36 - Spousal Support and Sacrifice 14:36 - Masculine and Feminine Dynamics 18:37 - Expectation Management Challenges 21:23 - Trust in Relationships 25:16 - Decision-Making Struggles 28:26 - Imposter Syndrome in Financial Planning 31:58 - Onset of Mental Health Struggles 37:55 - Consequences of Seeking Help 43:29 - Personal Anxiety Experience 47:32 - Spiritual and Physiological Factors 52:29 - High Achievers and Mental Health 54:16 - Connecting with Nick's Work

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What You Do Is Who You Are | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jul 18, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler shares an inspiring message about becoming the person you aspire to be through consistent action. Reflecting on his adventures, from Alaska to Africa, he emphasizes that small, daily habits shape identity and success.

Michler addresses overcoming setbacks like divorce or financial struggles, urging listeners to combat imposter syndrome and act now. He breaks down practical steps across four key areas—calibration, connection, condition, and contribution—to live with purpose and achieve goals, encouraging men to take small victories and seek guidance to expedite progress.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:03 - Introduction and Reflections on Adventures 02:23 - Overcoming Setbacks and Imposter Syndrome 04:50 - Calibration: Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Health 07:08 - Connection: Building Meaningful Relationships 09:32 - Condition: Prioritizing Physical Health 11:56 - Contribution: Adding Value and Financial Wisdom 14:22 - Celebrating Small Wins and Staying Consistent 16:39 - Closing Thoughts and Call to Action

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Ruthlessly Work Towards Goals | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 16, 2025

In this engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos tackle listener questions on emotional intelligence, co-parenting challenges, manifesting goals, and personal growth. They share practical strategies for managing emotions, setting boundaries in difficult relationships, and taking action to achieve dreams. Reflecting on Ryan’s book Sovereignty, they discuss evolving perspectives on life’s past, present, and future. With personal anecdotes and actionable advice, this episode inspires men to show up authentically and pursue excellence despite life’s challenges.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 01:57 - Emotional Intelligence Strategies 22:00 - Navigating Co-Parenting Conflicts 38:15 - The Power of Manifesting Goals 43:36 - Reflecting on Sovereignty’s Past, Present, and Future 55:15 - Aligning Personal Goals with Purpose

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DR. ERIC COLE | How Cyberthreats Endanger Men and Their Families Jul 15, 2025

Considering how often we utilize technology, we don’t spend as nearly as much time as we should protecting ourselves against the inherent vulnerabilities and bad actors who would exploit the very tools designed to improve our lives. The fact of the matter is, cybersecurity has become a huge issue (only to become more relevant as technology advances). My guest today, Dr. Eric Cole, has spent decades learning, understanding, and teaching people how to protect themselves and their loved ones from cyber-threats. Today, we talk about the apps that are more dangerous than others, how best to keep your children safe from online predators, what he calls, cyber-hygiene, why passwords are dead and what to do about it, and why social media will never fully protect children.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 00:21 - Welcoming Dr. Eric Cole 00:26 - Importance of Cybersecurity for Families 01:24 - Dangers of Sharing Personal Information Online 02:47 - Targeting Vulnerable Individuals 04:26 - Impact of Technology on Parenting 05:45 - Prevalence of Child Exploitation 08:12 - Monitoring Kids' Online Interactions 10:00 - Social Media Security Measures 12:16 - Identifying Suspicious Accounts 15:00 - Limiting Kids' Access to Smartphones 19:09 - Balancing Technology Use 22:32 - Monitoring Social Media Comments 26:00 - Risks of Location Tracking in Photos 30:06 - Moving Beyond Passwords 32:31 - Avoiding Malicious Links 35:13 - Value of Online Protection Services 37:51 - Cell Phones and Privacy Concerns 43:03 - Importance of Software Updates 45:20 - Benefits of Using VPNs 46:43 - Upgrading Technology Safely 49:20 - AI as a Tool, Not a Replacement 52:43 - Practical Cybersecurity Tips 54:24 - Closing Remarks

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A Man’s Guide to Taking More Risks | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jul 11, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores how men can embrace calculated risks to achieve success in relationships, health, wealth, and quality of life. He shares five actionable strategies—defining your vision, measuring risk versus reward, hedging bets, conducting a SWOT analysis, and seeking coaching—to ensure risks are prudent and aligned with personal goals. Michler emphasizes preparation and intentionality to minimize threats and maximize opportunities, urging men to act boldly yet wisely.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:26 - The Importance of Calculated Risks 02:10 - Know What You Want 03:52 - Measure Risk vs. Reward 06:11 - Hedge Your Bets 10:39 - Avoid Complacency 13:00 - Conduct a SWOT Analysis 15:24 - Seek Coaching 17:45 - Connect and Take Action

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Revisiting Your Vision, Reclaiming Your Sovereignty, and The Power of Disruption | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 09, 2025

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen for an engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, tackling listener questions on personal growth, leadership, and life challenges. From choosing dream podcasts to reclaiming sovereignty in marriage, they share actionable insights and heartfelt advice.

Ryan reflects on a decade of Order of Man, while both discuss overcoming mid-season slumps with mindset shifts and practical strategies. Tune in for inspiration, humor, and wisdom to become the man you're meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Intro and Banter 02:34 - Top Podcasts to Guest On 07:12 - First Cars and Nostalgia 11:20 - Crafting and Sticking to Your Vision 19:17 - Reclaiming Sovereignty in Marriage 33:18 - Order of Man: Proud Moments and Growth 37:07 - Rucking vs. Rolling in Q3 39:58 - Handling a Spouse’s Gas Tank Habits 46:32 - Beating the Mid-Season Slump 52:29 - Wrap-Up and Announcements

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TAYLOR CAVANAUGH | Crack the Whip or Pull the Reigns? Jul 08, 2025

Every man is different. Some men are intense and need to learn how to pull back on the reigns. Others are passive and need to learn how to crack the whip. My guest today, former Navy SEAL and French Foreign Legionnaire is a man who more closely resonates with the former but understands the implications of both.

Today, Taylor and I talk about how and why men self-sabotage themselves, the importance of internal vs. external validation, how a “Battle Rhythm” helps a man maximize his performance, why success doesn’t “flash,” it “glows,” and why every man is searching for inner peace and clarity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:18 - Welcoming Taylor Cavanaugh 00:55 - Taylor’s Early Struggles and Navy SEAL Aspiration 03:55 - Roots of Self-Sabotage 06:04 - Strengths as Weaknesses in Military Life 09:10 - Backsliding Despite Purpose 11:39 - Transition to Civilian Life 14:45 - Building Internal Discipline 16:25 - Addressing Different Personalities 20:40 - Importance of Battle Rhythm 23:12 - Morning Routine for Clarity 25:36 - Turning Point from Despair 29:36 - Joining the French Foreign Legion 31:05 - SEAL Experience in the Legion 34:16 - Lessons in Simplicity and Patience 37:26 - Significance of a New Identity 40:35 - Starting Coaching from the Legion 43:48 - Connecting with Taylor’s Programs 44:50 - Closing Remarks

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The 4 Ways a Man Provides for His People | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jul 04, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the multifaceted role of a man as a provider, extending beyond financial support. Drawing from Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, he outlines fou key provisions: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Michler emphasizes equipping loved ones wit skills, emotional resilience, and a sense of purpose rooted in objective truth. With actionable insights he inspires men to lead their families toward abundance and fulfillment. Tune in to learn how to ste into your role as a protector, provider, and leader.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00- Introduction to Providing for Your People 02:40 - Physical Provision: Meeting Physiological Needs 05:03 - Mental Provision: Ensuring Safety and Skills 09:47 - Emotional Provision: Building Resilience and Belonging 14:41 - Spiritual Provision: Guiding Toward Purpose 19:24 - Framework for Effective Provision 21:07 - Closing and Call to Action

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Dealing with a Crossroad | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 02, 2025

In this episode of the Ask Me Anything series, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson dive into hard-hitting questions from listeners about fatherhood, masculinity, personal growth, and navigating life’s toughest transitions. They discuss what it means to be a man in today’s culture, the power of physical discipline, balancing martial arts training, and overcoming shame and failure.

With raw honesty and practical insight, they challenge men to take ownership, build resilience, and lead with purpose—especially when life demands a reinvention from the ground up.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 News & personal updates 14:22 Devotional roles: husband, father, son 22:43 Thoughts on Liver King 28:18 Balancing jiu-jitsu with other martial arts 34:47 Leading yourself through life transitions 42:43 Fitness and its impact on mindset and leadership 52:53 Training goals into your 50s, 60s & 70s 55:34 Identity, inner dialogue, and breakthrough moments

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DOUGLAS WILSON | Bold Men. Hard Truths. No Apologies. Jul 01, 2025

Is there a clear and deliberate agenda against men and boys in culture today? Or, is it simply a byproduct of the relative ease of modern times. My guest today, Pastor Douglas Wilson, makes the case that it’s a combination of both and, more accurately, than “modern times,” a result of “wealthy times.” And, if that is the case, what should men do for ourselves and for the future of our children and this world?

Today, Doug and I talk about rebuilding strength and order in our lives and instilling it in our boys, how exactly men can step up against the lunacy and degeneracy we see in modern culture, why men make inferior women and vice versa, why reality calls for us, as men, to reckon with the dangerous times in which we live, and why masculinity cannot (and, should not) be legislated away.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Welcome 01:03 - Softness in Society and Masculinity 03:36 - Exploitation in a Soft Society 04:17 - The Need for Righteous and Hard Men 06:30 - Hard Times Create Strong Men 07:58 - Men's Role as Protectors 09:16 - Historical Context of Church Femininity 14:53 - Corporate vs. Individualized Worship 17:51 - Egalitarianism and Traditional Roles 20:27 - Reclaiming Masculinity in Culture 22:57 - Preaching for Truth vs. Consensus 24:30 - Learning Masculinity Through Imitation 28:54 - Single Mothers and Masculine Role Models 31:19 - Balancing Risk and Safety in Raising Boys 37:06 - The Impact of a Pampered Society 41:49- The Decline of Risk-Taking in Men 46:18 - Male-Female Dynamics and Patriarchy 53:29 - Masculinity as Sacrificial Responsibility 57:13 - Promoting Man Rampant and Other Works

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The BBQ Test: How to Vet Your Band of Brothers | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jun 27, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the crisis of male isolation, emphasizing the need for strong male connections. He introduces the "BBQ Test," a framework to evaluate potential brothers-in-arms based on five key questions: enjoyment, resilience, depth, principle, and capability.

Michler challenges men to reject cultural lies about lone masculinity, urging them to build networks of virtuous men. He shares personal insights and offers the Iron Council as a resource for forging these bonds. Join Ryan to discover how to cultivate meaningful, growth-oriented relationships.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Struggle of Male Connection 02:39 - Importance of Frameworks and Networks 05:06 - The BBQ Test Concept 07:32 - Question 1 & 2: Enjoyment and Resilience 10:01 - Question 3: Deep Thinker or Stooge 12:21 - Question 4: Principled Man 16:44 - Question 5: Capability 18:43 - Evaluating Your Circle 21:08 - The Iron Council Solution 23:30 - Call to Action

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Dealing with Desperation, Developing an Eternal Perspective, & Fostering Vigilance | ASK ME ANYTHING Jun 25, 2025

Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into powerful listener-submitted questions around change, brotherhood, leadership, emotional vulnerability, and navigating fear in uncertain times. They explore how desperation and inspiration spark transformation, the traits that make up a strong inner circle, and the importance of vigilance in a chaotic world.

Additionally, they explore spiritual perspectives, navigating major life transitions, and emotional expression as fathers. Real talk, real insight — this episode offers practical and heartfelt guidance for men striving to lead with strength and clarity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Opening Banter & Headlines 08:08 – Desperation vs. Inspiration: How Change Happens 15:42 – Building Your Inner Circle 32:22 – Dealing with Eternity and Purpose 41:10 – Managing Fear in Uncertain Times 49:15 – Leading Through Major Life Transitions 52:43 – Emotional Expression as Fathers 59:00 – Iron Council Invitation & Wrap-Up

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CODY JEFFERSON | Build a Life That Calls to You Jun 24, 2025

Too many men are wandering around aimlessly through life doing just enough in their existence to make it through one more day. That’s part of the reason I founded Order of Man and bring in incredible men like my guest today, Cody Jefferson. Cody is on a mission to help men find their purpose and live a life they’re called to live. Today, Cody and I talk about why so many men feel they’re always behind and never enough, the pressures a man faces daily and how to relieve them correctly, the source of joy and peace in a man’s life, how your body will tell you a lot about your attitude and efforts in life, why men should focus on who they are, not what they do, and so much more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Friendship 01:11 - Trusting God's Timing 02:59 - Learning from Challenges 05:41 - Being Known vs. Being Seen 07:07 - Overcoming Vices 09:24 - Impact of Self-Sabotage 11:24 - Fear of Success 13:35 - Transition from Ministry 14:38 - Practical Self-Care 19:35 - Lessons from Past Mistakes 23:18 - Health Crisis and Realization 27:04 - Divine Inspiration 30:24 - Importance of Wise Counsel 34:57 - Death and Resurrection 40:13 - Understanding Purpose 43:14 - Calling to Help Others 46:46 - Judging Actions vs. Souls 49:36 - Overcoming Ego 53:16 - Areas of Growth 57:21 - Building a Deeper Connection

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6 Books Every Father Should Read | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jun 20, 2025

Ryan Michler shares six essential books for fathers in this heartfelt episode of *Friday Field Notes*. Reflecting on fatherhood’s profound impact, he draws from personal experiences, including a near-death hunting trip with his son. Michler recommends reads like *The Boy Crisis* and *Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters* to help fathers navigate modern challenges, raise resilient sons, and nurture daughters’ self-worth. Emphasizing sovereignty and emotional regulation, he inspires men to lead with purpose,0making this episode a powerful guide for fathers committed to growth.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Fatherhood’s Importance 02:31 - Father’s Day Reflections 04:52 - Book 1: The Boy Crisis 06:09 - Book 2: Iron John 07:09 - Book 3: Wild at Heart 09:36 - Book 4: Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters 11:02 - Book 5: Men’s Work 12:02 - Book 6: Sovereignty 14:31 - Closing Thoughts and Resources

The 'Yes' Mentality, Becoming a Man of Honor, and When to Start a Business | ASK ME ANYTHING Jun 18, 2025

Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle listener questions in this Friday Field Notes "Ask Me Anything" episode. They explore escaping life’s ruts, timing for starting a business, simplifying battle plans, staying disciplined, interviewing high-profile figures, and sharing advice confidently. Recorded early due to a hunting trip, their practical insights and relatable analogies inspire men to take action and live purposefully. Join the Iron Council at orderman.com/ironcouncil for more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Hunting Plans 09:38 - Escaping Life’s Ruts 18:00 - Timing for Starting a Business 24:21 - Simplifying Battle Plans 34:31 - Maintaining Discipline 45:31 - Framing a High-Profile Interview 51:10 - Sharing Advice Confidently 01:03:21 - Iron Council Enrollment and Wrap-Up

ORION TARABAN | Winning in the Sexual Marketplace Jun 17, 2025

Very few men think of relationships in the frame of the “sexual marketplace,” although the rules and principles of attraction and connection can very much be understood as an economic model, of sorts, of perceived value. And, the man who offers the most perceived value, is the man who gets the girl. Whether you’re married or single, understanding the intricacies and nuance of what makes a man attractive to a woman will help him get more of what he wants from her.

My guest today, psychologist Orion Taraban joins me to discuss these dynamics between men and women so we all get more of what we’re after in relationships. We cover the importance of knowing your value and knowing what is valuable to the opposite sex, why love has little or nothing to do with attraction, what is known as the “Madonna-Whore Complex,” the concepts of Captains and Passengers as it relates to dating and mating, the difference between talking and communicating, and how best to make yourself more attractive.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Captain and Passenger Roles 00:30 - Orion Taraban’s Background and Book Success 01:30 - The Role of YouTube in Building an Audience 03:24 - Orion’s Communication Style and Credentials 07:04 - The Captain and Passenger Metaphor 11:33 - Prerogatives of the Captain 12:23 - Liabilities of Female Captaincy 15:29 - Sexual Marketplace Dynamics 18:38 - Love and Relationships 20:15 - Male Sexuality and Objectification 26:16 - Attraction and the “Bad Boy” Myth 28:12 - The Two Women Concept 32:21 - Communication vs. Talking in Relationships 37:24 - Self-Knowledge and Attraction 41:14 - Double Standards in the Sexual Marketplace 47:20 - Body Count and Sexual Novelty 51:17 - The Coolidge Effect and Male Drive 56:13 - Monogamy and Historical Context 59:54 - Relationships as Economic Transactions 1:03:36 - Marriage as a Business Partnership 1:09:48 - What Women Want in Men 1:16:01 - Standing Out in the Sexual Marketplace 1:23:12 - Where to Connect with Orion

Break Free From Imposter Syndrome | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jun 13, 2025

In this powerful episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles imposter syndrome, urging men to reject feelings of inadequacy and embrace their divine purpose. He challenges the notion of being an imposter, labeling it as selfish and rooted in insecurity.

Michler provides a candid, no-nonsense perspective, offering five actionable steps to reframe negative self-stories, unpack insecurities, and lean on others’ belief in oneself. With raw honesty, he inspires listeners to recognize their worth and take bold action to become the men they’re meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:30 - Introduction to Imposter Syndrome 02:56 - The Selfish Nature of Imposter Syndrome 04:42 - Acknowledging Strengths and Weaknesses 06:54 - Value is Subjective 08:56 - The Comparison Trap 11:07 - You’re Not an Imposter, You’re Learning 12:57 - Imposter Syndrome is Just a Story 14:58 - Unpacking Insecurities with the Five W’s 17:07 - Journaling to Confront Insecurities 19:11 - Rewriting Your Past Story 21:22 - Crafting a New Story 24:50 - Leaning on Others’ Belief in You 27:05 - Rejecting Imposter Syndrome 29:11 - Moral Imperative to Be Your Best 31:18 - Closing Thoughts and Iron Council

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Extreme Emotions, Running From Your Problems, and Fighting For Your Life | ASK ME ANYTHING Jun 11, 2025

In this AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson dive into key questions from listeners on navigating relationships, living with purpose, processing intense emotions, and making tough life decisions. They also explore personal family traditions, the importance of frameworks and accountability, and how to know when it's time to pivot. With honest, practical insights and stories from their own experiences, this episode is packed with value for any man seeking growth, clarity, and strength in all areas of life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Intro and catching up 01:38 – Navigating early relationship struggles 08:05 – Living life unabashedly 16:41 – Family summer traditions 20:17 – Processing strong emotions like anger and sadness 30:11 – Running away or moving toward opportunity 40:11 – What would you prioritize if your life was on the line? 45:06 – What to cut out to move forward 48:31 – Turning knowledge into action 54:24 – Preparing for the Forge event & final thoughts

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ANDREW SHAW | Only You Are Holding Yourself Back Jun 10, 2025

I believe that most men know they’re leaving room on the table for personal and professional growth and while their diagnosis may be correct, the prescription is wrong. Most men seem to believe that if only their circumstances were different (their boss, their wife, their financial prosperity, etc.), their lives would be better. But the reality is a new circumstances, without a change you yourself, will only produce more of the same. My guest today, Andrew Shaw, has made it his life’s work to help men break free from the patterns that are holding them back, many of them subconscious. Today, we talk about discipline, resilience, the importances of what he calls, “choice points,” the critical differences between taking fault and taking responsibility, and how many men have over-corrected against the attack on masculinity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 00:27 - Discussing Content and Masculinity 02:34 - Cultural Views on Masculinity 06:15 - Overទ - Reactions and Overcorrections 08:17 - Common Issues Men Face 15:17 - Masculine Traits and Relationships 23:24 - Starting with Self-Alignment 28:14 - Embracing Discomfort for Growth 35:42 - Physical and Emotional Integration 46:40 - Connecting with Andrew

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Your Integrity Gap is Destroying You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jun 06, 2025

Ryan Michler delves into the concept of the "integrity gap" — the disparity between what men know they should do and what they actually do. He explores how this gap hinders personal growth, results, and relationships, urging listeners to bridge it through actionable steps. Michler provides six introspective questions to help men align their actions with their aspirations, fostering purpose and impact. Tune in to discover how to close the integrity gap and become the man you’re meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introducing the Integrity Gap 02:23 - Risks of the Integrity Gap 08:17 - Impact on Your People 10:41 - Who Are You Ideally? 14:56 - Who Are You Currently? 18:22 - What Needs to Happen Daily? 20:14 - What Information Do You Need? 22:38 - What Systems Do You Need? 24:50 - What Do You Need to Do Right Now? 26:34 - Adapting to Life’s Challenges

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Regain Momentum, Be a Manly Man, and Overcome Your Heart at War | ASK ME ANYTHING Jun 04, 2025

In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle questions around forgiveness, grief, confidence, and masculine responsibility. They explore how to regain momentum after major life setbacks, navigate strained relationships with parents, and balance humility with confidence.

The hosts also discuss toxic masculinity, fatherhood, and the importance of modeling strength and integrity. This episode is a call to rise above a “heart at war” and live as a man of purpose—even in the face of fear, trauma, and adversity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Opening & News Headlines 03:50 – Forgiving Parents Without Reconnecting 17:18 – Confidence and Humility in One Hand 24:35 – Facing Mortality & Leading Your Family 35:42 – Regaining Momentum After Loss 40:59 – Prioritizing Fitness vs. Financial Goals 48:37 – Why Most Men Stay Stuck 59:05 – Toxic Masculinity, Feminism & Prevention

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ALEX GRENDI | Sex: How to Be Better at It and Get More of What You Want Jun 03, 2025

From the time we were little boys and young men, the topic of sex has always seemed to conjure up thoughts of embarrassment and shame. It’s unfortunate (to say the least) considering that most men equate sex with the woman in their lives an integral part of the relationship and connection. My guest today, Alex Grendi, has made it his life’s work to explore men’s relationships with sex and how we can not only get more of it but make it more meaningful for ourselves and the women in our lives. We talk about porn’s impact on sexual relationships, how to overcome childhood shame around the conversation of sex, how to solicit and ask for feedback in your performance in the bedroom (including how to ask for what you want), why nice guys never get what they want from intimacy, and the psychological and physiological issues men deal with when with their lady.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:25 - Misconceptions About Men and Sex 00:56 - Shame and Societal Expectations 02:05 - Defining "Good" at Sex 03:22 - Impact of Pornography 04:32 - Healthy Perspective on Sex 06:01 - Creating Safety in the Bedroom 07:44 - Balancing Quickies and Intimacy 09:18 - Pornography and Performance Issues 10:54 - Navigating Religious Shame 12:02 - Talking to Kids About Sex 14:57 - Overcoming Shame and Insecurity 18:19 - Steps to Address Performance Anxiety 22:51 - Managing Stress for Better Intimacy 25:05 - Exploring Non-Genital Pleasure 29:24 - Importance of Foreplay 32:18 - Honoring Your Own Needs 36:14 - Mastering Edging Techniques 41:30 - Removing Ejaculation as the Goal 44:42 - Communicating Desires Effectively 50:28 - Leadership in Intimacy 53:06 - Reframing Sexual Intentions 55:42 - Connecting with Alex Grendi

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What We Do Echoes in Eternity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES May 30, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the powerful concept inspired by Gladiator and Marcus Aurelius: “What we do echoes in eternity.” Michler emphasizes the importance of adopting a long-term perspective in life to avoid emotional impulsivity, short-term gains, and scarcity mindsets.

He shares three key mindsets for maintaining focus on lasting goals and three practical strategies—pausing before acting, applying the “five-five-five rule,” and prioritizing long-term results—to achieve meaningful outcomes. Michler’s insights inspire listeners to make decisions that resonate beyond the present, fostering a legacy of impact and growth.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:18 - Introduction 02:42 - Why Long-Term Perspective Matters 07:21 - Avoiding Short-Term Thinking Traps 09:38 - Strategy 1: Stop Before You Act 11:56 - Managing Emotional Responses 13:57 - Strategy 2: The Five-Five-Five Rule 16:04 - Strategy 3: Focus on Long-Term Results 18:06 - Building Lasting Relationships 20:27 - Recap and Call to Action

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Casting Vision, Revisiting the Past, and Accepting Responsibility | ASK ME ANYTHING May 28, 2025

In this week’s Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler—joined midway by Kipp Sorensen—tackles questions from listeners about discipline, balance, relationships, and personal growth. They share insights on training consistency in summer, defining identity, healing after breakups, and leading a family with intensity and joy.

Whether you're navigating divorce, redefining your vision, or trying to stay focused in a distracted world, this episode delivers powerful mindset shifts and practical takeaways to help you become the man you're meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Intro & Memorial Day Reflection 02:49 – Staying Consistent with Training in Summer 05:02 – Balancing Drive and Family Presence 09:46 – Responsibility vs. Enabling in Family 14:28 – Dating After Divorce 22:20 – Discovering Identity and Vision 32:48 – Lessons from Darkest Moments 42:49 – Financial Readiness for Marriage 46:13 – Moving On After a Breakup 50:20 – Closing Remarks & Call to Action

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CRAIG BALLANTYNE | The Dark Side of Discipline May 27, 2025

Every single man listening to this is familiar with discipline and has applied it (to varying degrees) in his life. We generally think of discipline as an overall good thing (and, I think it is) but it can often lead to bouts of frustration and unnecessary suffering if utilized incorrectly.

My guest today, Craig Ballantyne, makes the case that discipline, although, a powerful force for productivity comes with strings attached, and isn’t the end-all, save-all it’s often made out to be. Today, we talk about what true discipline is not, why chasing the wrong target is so common and what to do about it, what I call the “self-help hangover” and how to avoid it, why you should know the distinction between standards and expectations, and how to avoid what Craig calls, “The Doom Loop” in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Defining Discipline 00:42 - Level 10 Effort and Level 10 Problems 01:48 - Identifying Your Level 10 Problem 04:21 - The Importance of Focus and Self-Reflection 06:32 - Calibration and Goal Setting 07:54 - Facing Difficult Conversations 10:44 - The Hero’s Journey and Overcoming Fears 13:13 - Personal Growth Through Challenges 15:49 - Suffering vs. Sacrifice 18:54 - Reframing Sacrifice for Joy 21:21 - Choices and Personal Responsibility 23:44 - Inspiring Stories of Resilience 25:35 - Motivation and Maximizing Potential 27:54 - Breaking the Doom Loop 30:27 - Effortless Discipline Systems 33:46 - The Power of Systems Over Willpower 37:09 - Accountability as a Life Hack 40:31 - Raising Standards for Success 43:55 - Standards vs. Expectations 46:12 - Controlling Thoughts, Words, and Deeds 48:27 - Identity and Core Values 50:35 - Creating a Vision for Your Future 52:45 - Where to Connect and Learn More

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Do Not Grow Bitter | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES May 23, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler shares four strategies to avoid bitterness amid life's challenges. He urges men to take responsibility for their circumstances, emphasizing decision-making, reframing adversity, learning from experiences, and applying lessons for growth.

Michler highlights the dangers of victimhood and encourages gratitude and proactive change to transform struggles into opportunities. With personal anecdotes and practical advice, he inspires listeners to rise above frustration and embrace their potential. Visit orderofman.com/battle-ready for tools to implement these principles and become the man you're meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:10 - Introduction: The Trap of Bitterness 02:30 - Strategy 1: Make a Decision 04:55 - The Stories We Tell Ourselves 07:24 - Strategy 2: Reframe Your Circumstances 09:47 - Gratitude as a Tool for Growth 11:30 - Strategy 3: Learn from Experiences 13:50 - Strategy 4: Apply the Lessons 15:47 - Embracing Discomfort and Responsibility 17:54 - Tools for Improvement: The Battle Planner 20:05 - Closing: Take Action, Rise Above

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Self-Help Hangover, Jumpstarting Motivation, and The Crisis of Meaning | ASK ME ANYTHING May 21, 2025

In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle listener questions on toxic leadership, writing books, jumpstarting motivation, the meaning crisis, and connecting with stepkids. They explore overcoming self-help burnout, emphasizing the power of fun to recharge motivation, and discuss finding purpose in a pleasure-driven culture. With practical advice and personal insights, they inspire listeners to take action, build influence, and live meaningfully. Join the conversation at orderofman.com and themensforge.com.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Weekend Recap 02:55 - Dealing with Toxic Leadership 19:06 - Writing Books: Plans and Challenges 23:53 - Jumpstarting Motivation 34:44 - The Meaning Crisis: Causes and Solutions 43:23 - Overcoming Self-Help Burnout 54:41 - Building Influence with Stepkids 01:02:15 - Community Updates and Resources

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GARRETT UNCLEBACH | Why Men Require Purpose May 20, 2025

Purpose is a factor of life that every man knows will improve his quality of life. Unfortunately, we seem to be in an era when purpose is increasingly abysmal in the lives of too many men. Men in all walks and stages of life are floundering around aimlessly, wondering why they’re anxious, depressed, and alone. My guest today, Garrett Unclebach, former Navy SEAL, is a man who is intimately familiar with why and how purpose drives men to step up, take charge of their lives, and succeed. We unpack why a man must look beyond himself, how surrendering in certain circumstances could lead you to an incredible place you’ve never considered, the power of equanimity and how to cultivate it, why being faithful when you have nothing leads to a life of prosperity and abundance, and how to judge what you should be doing and who you should be doing it with.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:35 - Ryan’s Recent Event in St. Louis 01:00 - Garrett’s Men’s Group and Camping Trip 02:40 - Developing Leaders and Train the Trainer 05:00 - Rewarding Leadership Moments 06:27 - Hunting Memories and Mentorship 07:16 - Family and Fatherhood 09:29 - Shared Hunting Experiences in Africa 11:25 - The Impossible Life and Control 12:32 - Mentoring Navy SEAL Tadpoles 14:46 - Finding Peace Beyond Outcomes 16:39 - Balancing Heart and Consequences 19:10 - Joseph’s Dream and Purpose 22:35 - Discovering Purpose Through Heart and Hand 25:09 - God’s Plan and Personal Growth 26:51 - The Question Every Man Asks 29:31 - The Power of Perspective and Beliefs 32:43 - Faith, Works, and Serving Others 35:57 - Transformation Over Behavioral Change 39:13 - Balancing Service and Personal Fulfillment 42:09- Living and Dying for Purpose 45:01 - Equanimity and Staying Under the Weight 47:35 - Taking Responsibility for Choices 49:32 - The Mindset of Inevitability 52:30 - Resilience vs. Delusion 56:33 - Learning from Scars and Pain 58:09 - Chip on the Shoulder Mentality 01:01:28 - Purpose Over Temporary Identity 01:03:13 - Mission vs. Vision 01:05:22 - Connecting with Garrett and Closing

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Options Equal Freedom | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES May 16, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores how creating options leads to true freedom. Expanding on the concept of "discipline equals freedom," Ryan argues that personal responsibility, open-mindedness, and sovereignty are key to unlocking a life of choice. He shares four actionable strategies to cultivate options, emphasizing self-improvement, avoiding rigid thinking, aligning relationships, and prioritizing liberty.

Ryan inspires listeners to take control of their lives and pursue their desired path.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Options and Freedom 02:35 - Fix Yourself First 04:59 - Never Pedestalize Anything 09:43 - Coinciding vs. Conflicting Interests 14:05 - Sovereignty as the Path to Liberty 17:45 - Reclaiming Your Sovereignty 20:00 - Closing Thoughts and Call to Action

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Respect Earned vs. Respect Given, Getting Over Failure, & Choosing Your Influence | ASK ME ANYTHING May 14, 2025

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen for an engaging Ask Me Anything episode, tackling listener questions on sobriety, respect, body image, entrepreneurship, and relationships. From navigating a teen’s insecurities to balancing co-parenting conflicts, they share practical advice and personal insights. With humor and heart, they explore overcoming the comparison trap and building a fulfilling life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Episode Intro and Roomba Mishap 00:01:50 - Sobriety and Overcoming Past Mistakes 00:07:52 - Respect: Earned vs. Given 00:13:24 - Supporting a Teen’s Body Image Struggles 00:22:25 - Bedros Kulian Event and Personal Growth 00:24:17 - Escaping the Comparison Trap 00:32:55 - Men’s Forge Event Plans 00:35:54 - Starting a Business: Key Tips 00:44:24 - Co-Parenting and Team Commitments 00:49:00 - Fitness Goals and Gym Humor 00:51:51 - Letting Go of Relationships 00:57:53 - Call to Action and Closing

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KIPP SORENSEN | The Do’s and Don’ts of Effective Leadership May 13, 2025

Leadership is a word that has become completely bastardized in modern culture. Everywhere you turn, someone is hyping you up on why you need to become a better leader, the benefits of leading versus following, and how exactly you should do it. But what if I told you, it’s not the tactics that make you a leader but the mindsets that spell the difference. My good friend, brother, and leadership coach, Kipp Sorensen, joins me today to talk about what it really means to lead in a world where every man thinks they’re leading well. We address the two types of destructive leaders, the “BAR” acronym (behavior, actions, results) and which to focus on, how 83% of people in the workforce view their position in the company (and what you can do about it), why a “compensation” package is about more than just money, and the do’s and don’t’s of effective leadership.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Business Talk 01:48 - Exploring Leadership Challenges 04:30 - How Authority Changes People 06:18 - Persecutors vs. Rescuers in Leadership 10:26 - Stanford Prison Experiment Insights 13:07 - Balancing Motivation and Honesty 17:19 - Becoming a Leader-Coach 21:41 - The Mindset of Great Leadership 23:21 - Applying Leadership at Home 29:49 - Defining the Leader-Coach Role 36:31 - Balancing Accountability and Empathy 41:29 - Focusing on Results, Not Behaviors 49:54 - Ownership and Choice in Leadership 56:00 - Handling Limited Resources 01:02:09 - Leading Family vs. Employees 01:09:20 - Closing and Kipp’s Contact Info

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5 Signs You’re a People-Pleaser | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES May 09, 2025

In this poignant episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delves into the pitfalls of people-pleasing, drawing from personal reflection. He identifies five critical signs—saying yes when you mean no, avoiding conflict, feeling responsible for others’ emotions, tying self-worth to praise, and feeling burned out or resentful.

Michler shares candid insights, referencing No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover and Let Them by Mel Robbins, offering practical anecdotes to break the cycle. Through raw honesty, he encourages listeners to set boundaries and prioritize self-care to become their authentic selves.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:19 - Introduction to People-Pleasing 04:53 - Recommended Resources 07:21 - Sign 1: Saying Yes When You Should Say No 09:49 - Sign 2: Avoiding Conflict at All Costs 13:25 - Sign 3: Feeling Responsible for Others’ Feelings 18:53 - Sign 4: Struggling with Self-Worth Without Praise 28:04 - Sign 5: Feeling Burned Out, Resentful, and Unseen 34:50 - Actionable Steps and Closing Thoughts

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Find Your Values, Validate Yourself, and Why You Hate Yourself | ASK ME ANYTHING May 07, 2025

In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a St. Louis event recap, sharing its triumphs and challenges. They tackle listener questions on sibling conflicts, leaving work stress behind, the pressures of leadership, marriage cycles, discovering personal values, and managing credit scores.

With candid insights, Ryan and Kipp explore self-validation, intentionality, and aligning actions with values, offering practical advice for men striving to live purposefully. Join them for an inspiring discussion on growth and resilience.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00.088 - Event Recap: St. Louis Experience 06:40.662 - Handling Sibling Conflicts 13:54.412 - Leaving Work Stress at Home 24:18.870 - The Weight of Leadership 41:44.558 - Marriage Cycles: Fact or Fiction? 51:40.632 - Discovering Your Personal Values 57:09.762 - Credit Scores and Financial Responsibility 01:02:15.275 - Call to Action: Divorce Not Death

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GEOFF HOPF | Hard Times Create Strong Men May 06, 2025

We’ve all heard the quote, “Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. Weak men create hard times.” Today, I have the author of that quote, Geoff Hopf on the podcast to talk about what he meant when we penned that phrase.

Today, we talk about moral weakness and lacking skillsets, why masculinity does not need to be redefined, why accepting reality is such a crucial part of men’s growth, why all men want to be part of something great, the 4 pillars of survival, and overcoming illogical belief systems.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 01:24 – Geoff’s background and law enforcement experience 06:35 – Transitioning to writing and becoming an author 11:18 – Daily writing habits and productivity 15:47 – Finding purpose through creative work 20:26 – Violence, masculinity, and raising boys 26:55 – Personal responsibility and fatherhood 33:10 – Social media, distraction, and mental clarity 39:42 – Freedom of speech and cancel culture 44:51 – Lessons from fatherhood and legacy 50:15 – Final thoughts and where to find Geoff’s work

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When You Mess Up, Learn | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES May 02, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delivers a powerful message on embracing failure as a catalyst for growth. Drawing from personal experiences, he outlines six actionable strategies to learn from setbacks, including avoiding complacency, focusing on controllables, and forgiving oneself. Michler emphasizes resilience and personal responsibility, urging listeners to let go of past mistakes and build a better future. His candid, motivational approach inspires men to confront challenges head-on and transform adversity into opportunity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction: The Inevitability of Failure 02:53 - Six Strategies to Learn from Failure 05:13 - Complacency Kills 07:33 - Externalities Are Rarely the Problem 11:47 - Build New, Let Go of the Old 15:16 - Do Not Grow Bitter or Label 19:27 - Forgive Yourself 27:04 - Focus on the Controllables 28:52 - Closing: Transform Challenges into Growth

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Optics Vs Execution, The Brain’s Argument with Itself, & How to Learn From Divorce | ASK ME ANYTHING Apr 30, 2025

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson tackle tough, real-world questions from men facing divorce, personal setbacks, and disconnection at home. They dive into how optics impact execution, how to master emotional resilience through stress, and why ego can sabotage your growth.

From powerful mindset shifts to tactical advice for navigating separation and fatherhood, this episode is packed with hard truths and uplifting insights. Whether you’re healing, leading, or rebuilding—this one hits home.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Technical Troubles and Weekend Recap 05:45 – Viewer Questions Begin 06:02 – What to Do When Divorce Hits 10:07 – Reconnecting Without Shared Interests 15:09 – Rebuilding After a Breakup 21:45 – Divorce Logistics and Legal Readiness 27:59 – How to Apologize to Your Kids 32:23 – Blessings Hidden in Disappointment 44:58 – Would You Want Your Son to Live Your Life? 52:07 – Hierarchical Decision-Making 52:34 – Optics vs. Execution Debate 59:00 – The Brain’s Argument With Itself 01:02:24 – Optics as a Sign of Respect 01:04:50 – Final Thoughts and Hope Through Hard Times

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HAL ELROD | Unwavering Faith + Extraordinary Effort is Unstoppable Apr 29, 2025

It can be challenging to be faithful towards your goals and objectives in the seemingly endless supply of trials and adversity. Whether you’re dealing with a crippling financial situation, devastating divorce, or something like my guest today, Hal Elrod, dealt with, a life-threatening cancer diagnosis. In spite of all that, and more, you have responsibilities to take care of and duties to fulfill. So, how do you do it? Today, Hal and I talk about being realistic in your pursuits by balancing the line between probable and possible, what is a true miracle and how to create more of them in your life, the powerful connection between mind and body (and, how to use it), and using affirmations in a way that works.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 — Reconnecting After Nearly a Decade 00:45 — Hal’s Cancer Diagnosis and Immediate Challenges 03:35 — Fear of Death vs. Fear for Family 06:14 — The Miracle Equation: Unwavering Faith and Extraordinary Effort 08:17 — Preparing for Death While Fighting to Live 13:08 — The Role of Affirmations in Healing 14:20 — Beating Cancer: Mindset vs. Reality 18:35 — The Mind-Body Connection and Healing Miracles 21:28 — Dr. Bernie Siegel’s Insights on Cancer Survival 23:20 — Choosing Hope Over Despair 24:51 — Fear of Failure and Others' Opinions 27:11 — Defining and Creating "Miracles" 30:09 — Faith Without Works Is Dead 31:25 — The Origin of the Miracle Equation 36:44 — The Sales Miracle: A $20,000 Breakthrough 39:42 — When Other People Influence Your Outcomes 41:29 — Overcoming Major Setbacks with the "Until" Mindset 44:53 — Adjusting Goals Without Losing Faith 45:51 — Michael Jordan and Unwavering Faith in Action 48:13 — Is It Faith or Delusion? 51:08 — What's Next After The Miracle Morning? 55:09 — Hal’s Next Project: Mastering Action and Inner Peace 57:38 — Where to Find Hal Elrod’s Work

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Mindset of Masculine Money Management | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Apr 25, 2025

Ryan Michler shares seven essential mindsets for effective money management in this episode of Friday Field Notes. Aimed at men striving to protect, provide, and preside, Michler emphasizes money as a tool and metric of value, urging listeners to overcome emotional pitfalls and societal misconceptions. He outlines a strategic approach—fortify, neutralize, attack—and stresses the importance of professional support. With practical wisdom, Michler empowers men to master their finances and fulfill their potential. Tune in to rethink money and elevate your financial game.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:37 - Money as a Metric of Value 02:57 - The Duty to Earn 07:45 - Money as a Tool 10:09 - Eliminating Emotions 15:00 - No Room for Amateurs 19:45 - Fortify, Neutralize, Attack 27:03 - Knowing Your Role

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The Pleasure of Pursuit, Why Young Men Are Moving to the Right, and the Power and Peril of Solitude | ASK ME ANYTHING Apr 23, 2025

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen in this week's Ask Me Anything, exploring the pursuit of pleasure versus the pleasure of pursuit, the cultural shift of young men toward the right, and the power of solitude. They tackle listener questions on imposter syndrome, fatherhood, divorce, dating, financial decisions, and personal growth. With humor and insight, they debunk overhyped headlines, like the "astronaut" space crew, and share actionable advice for living purposefully.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Opening Banter and Headlines 01:25 - The Pleasure of Pursuit 06:30 - Space Crew Rant 13:06 - Imposter Syndrome in Job Interviews 20:42 - Lessons from Kids 24:06 - Patience as a Father 28:40 - Why Women Leave Relationships 37:43 - Dating After Divorce 44:36 - Making Financial Decisions 48:08 - Lessons from Hard Times 53:59 - Young Men Moving Right Politically 59:26 - Call to Action

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DAVID MEESSEN | The Work of Building Attraction Apr 22, 2025

It’s no secret that most men want to find love in life and someone they can partner with throughout life. But the reality is that far-fewer men are doing the work required than ever before. And, for those who are actively looking for love, many of them are floundering when it comes to approaching women and building interest that could potentially lead to a long-term relationship. David Meessen is a man who has made it his life’s work to help men understand why they struggle and why society, at large, seems to be continually stacking the deck against the type of relationships the men listening to this podcast are looking for. Today we talk about why men seem to be so intimidated in approaching women, the skills (and, they are learnable skills) you can develop to have a more successful dating life, why “Progressive Desensitization” is such a valuable option in love and in life, the alarming statistics around romantic relationships and young men’s increasing aversion to them, and how radical honestly (not overly-agreeableness) is what creates attraction.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Opening & Dating Stats Alarming for Men 01:34 – The Harsh Reality of Dating Apps 03:09 – How Dating Apps Work Against Most Men 04:27 – Learning to Play the Dating Game 05:26 – Sacrificing Values for Connection 06:37 – Approach Anxiety and Desensitization 08:51 – Start Small: Building Momentum Through Socializing 10:01 – Rejection is Often Kind – and Necessary 11:23 – Don’t Pedestalize Her – Have Options 12:46 – We Live in a Friendly or Hostile Universe 14:16 – Oversharing as a Powerful Connection Tool 15:21 – Men Struggle to Share Their Strengths 16:29 – Assume the Burden of the Conversation 17:51 – Bitterness Towards Women & Scarcity Mindset 19:58 – Reality is Better Than Fear-Based Fantasies 22:13 – You Crave the Experience, Not the Person 23:31 – Compatibility vs. Chemistry 25:16 – Communication is a Learnable Skill 26:29 – Influence vs. Manipulation 30:54 – Authenticity in Style & Presence 32:34 – Confidence is Just as Authentic as Humility 33:10 – Radical Honesty and Sharing Values Early 35:42 – Relationships Built on Aligned Values 37:27 – Disagreement is Attractive 39:33 – Common Mistakes in Online & Real-Life Dating 41:39 – Learn Humor to Boost Social Skills 43:03 – Don’t Skip the Ask – Get the Contact 44:59 – Women Get Approached Less Than You Think 46:11 – How to Approach in the Gym the Right Way 47:52 – Meeting Quality Men Matters Too 49:03 – Why Intelligent Men Struggle with Connection 52:15 – Expression Freedom & Compatibility 53:22 – Choose to See the Best in Each Other 54:26 – Final Thoughts & Where to Find David

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The Peril of Self-Betrayal | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Apr 18, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the concept of self-betrayal, defining it as failing to act on known responsibilities or instincts. He discusses its consequences, including anxiety, poor relationships, and unfulfilled potential, and identifies emotional signs like frustration and impatience. Ryan provides actionable steps to overcome self-betrayal, such as listing neglected tasks, taking immediate action, and journaling emotions.

Encouraging listeners to align actions with their values, he offers resources at orderofman.com. Tune in to learn how to bridge the integrity gap and live a more fulfilled life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - Introduction to Self-Betrayal

02:55 - Sources of Intuition and Emotion

05:19 - Consequences of Self-Betrayal

07:44 - Recognizing Self-Betrayal Symptoms

12:30 - External vs. Internal Factors

19:25 - Actionable Steps to Overcome Self-Betrayal

26:05 - Journaling and Reflecting

28:30 - Additional Resources and Closing

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Learning to Let Go, Choose Yourself, and Earn Your Kids’ Trust | ASK ME ANYTHING Apr 16, 2025

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen for an engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, tackling listener questions on personal growth, trust, and balance. From auditing life’s decisions to rebuilding trust with kids, they dive into coachability, journaling, and managing overwork.

Ryan shares insights from his Texas hunting trip and mentions The Men's Forge event (May 1-4). Expect raw reflections on letting go, choosing yourself, and earning trust, with practical advice for intentional living.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:20 - Morning Routine Struggles 03:41 - Auditing Life’s Decisions 15:45 - One Principle for Your Son 20:42 - Prioritizing Self vs. Promises 25:33 - Books That Shape You 37:18 - Why Start Journaling 42:06 - Signs of Overworking 47:36 - Rebuilding Trust with Kids 55:03 - Texas Hunting Trip Recap 59:14 - The Men's Forge Event Promo

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NATE LEWIS | Overcoming Injustice Apr 15, 2025

It’s hard to believe that in the year 2025, child sex trafficking is as prolific as it is today. How is that with all the laws, legislation, and awareness that we’re still dealing with the torment of sexual exploitation with our sons and daughters? My guest today, Nate Lewis, has made it his life’s work to combat and overcoming the epidemic that is plaguing every corner of society. And, not only that, he is a huge proponent of finding your own mission and pouring all in on that – whatever it may be. Today, Nate and I talk about the driving factors behind child exploitation, why YOU should address the societal injustices you see in society today, the power of coachability and gritty-ness in your pursuit of your dreams, and why and how to protect yourself, society, and children from the nastiness and perversion of modern culture.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00:00 - Introduction 00:00:20 - Welcoming Nate Lewis 00:00:36 - The Reality of Child Trafficking 00:01:46 - Protecting Boys and Girls 00:02:49 - Impact of Pornography 00:08:40 - Operation Underground Railroad 00:09:38 - Nate’s Background in Film 00:10:35 - First Deployment Experience 00:13:37 - Stories of Resilience 00:15:59 - Family and Mission Balance 00:18:31 - The Innocent Logo Origin 00:24:32 - Purpose Through Adversity 00:31:23 - Advice for Pursuing Purpose 00:37:44 - Work Ethic and Grit 00:43:14 - Community Involvement Strategies 00:50:46 - Law Enforcement Priorities 00:57:11 - Confronting Ignorance 01:04:13 - How to Support The Innocent 01:12:08 - Closing Thoughts

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Man in the Arena | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Apr 11, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler draws inspiration from Theodore Roosevelt’s iconic speech to explore resilience and masculinity. Michler challenges men to rise above criticism, embrace adversity, and take action despite life’s inevitable setbacks. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, he outlines steps to build confidence, act decisively, and critique oneself constructively without losing identity.

Ryan emphasizes that true manhood shines in moments of struggle, urging listeners to live boldly as the "man in the arena." Tune in for an inspiring call to courage and purposeful action.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:10.082 - Introduction to Man in the Arena 02:02.508 - Reading the Man in the Arena Excerpt 04:28.674 - Preparing for Life’s Battles 06:51.744 - Stop Seeking Approval 11:10.03 - The Confidence Continuum 13:30.466 - Do What You Can 17:50.552 - Action as the Antidote 20:14.158 - Critique Without Self-Destruction 22:13.102 - Take More Action 26:42.7 - Closing and Battle Ready Program

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How to Lead Teens, Invest Smart, and Silence Self-Doubt | ASK ME ANYTHING Apr 09, 2025

In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos tackle your burning questions with raw, actionable insights. From investing $10K wisely to navigating trivial work tasks, coaching U13 soccer teams, and guiding high-performing teens, they cover it all. Plus, hear candid advice on silencing self-criticism and handling toxic colleagues.

Packed with life lessons on leadership, choice, and growth, this episode delivers real talk for real challenges. Tune in for wisdom that cuts through the noise—perfect for anyone ready to level up in work, family, and beyond.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:03 - Intro Banter 03:02 - Investing $10K Smartly 10:26 - Escaping the Trivial Whirlwind 24:18 - Leading a U13 Soccer Team 36:41 - Guiding Teenage Sons 46:21 - Overcoming Self-Criticism 58:30 - Dealing with Toxic Colleagues 01:12:53 - Closing Thoughts

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KIRK CAMERON | The Duty of Men, Manliness, and Masculinity Apr 08, 2025

We are all well-aware, at this point, that there is a very clear and deliberate assault against the concepts of manliness and masculinity. In fact, men are falling behind on some of the most crucial metrics you can image for a healthy society: depression rates, suicide, higher education, income potential, incarceration, substance abuse, committed relationships, workforce participation, and the list goes on and on.

My guest today, after an incredibly successful start in Hollywood as Mike Seaver on Growing Pains, Kirk Cameron, has made it his life’s mission to reclaim masculinity, not only in his home but to become a champion of manliness for all men who are working to unpack what it means to be a man.

Today, we talk about the biggest threats to masculinity, how we can lead well within the walls of our home, how righteousness and truth are the foundation of manliness, how to reclaim our power, work with our women, and lead the next generation who will eventually lead us.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:12) Introduction (00:12) Reclaiming Masculinity (03:50) Defining True Masculinity Today (11:18) Embracing Authentic Masculinity Today (21:23) Building Emotional Security in Relationships (29:28) Redefining Masculinity for Today's World (41:57) Legacy of Courage and Parenthood (54:20) The Power of Moral Compass (01:05:12) Igniting Imagination (01:10:34) Discovering True Masculinity Today

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Head, Heart, and Hands: The Trifecta of Manliness | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Apr 04, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores what it means to be a comprehensive man, introducing a framework of head, heart, and hands—logic, empathy, and action. Reflecting on his own tendencies and biases, Ryan challenges listeners to identify their strengths and weaknesses across these dimensions.

Through personal anecdotes, including a friend’s loss and a poignant Iron Council call, he emphasizes the need for balance to lead effectively in family, business, and community. Ryan invites feedback as he refines this model, urging men to round out their approach to become who they’re meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:30 - Introducing the Comprehensive Man
02:54 - Head, Heart, and Hands Framework
05:13 - Strengths and Weaknesses of Each Type
07:22 - Adapting to the Moment
09:33 - Pros and Cons of Each Dimension
11:58 - Reflecting for Growth
14:27 - Leading with Purpose
16:28 - Call to Action

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Morning Routines that Work, How Comparison Can be an Ally, and How to Choose Your Battles Wisely | ASK ME ANYTHING Apr 02, 2025

In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a viral morning routine video before tackling listener questions. From the power of comparison and faith in men’s ministries to essentialism in daily tasks and building friendships, they offer practical insights. Ryan shares his half-marathon experience, while Kipp celebrates his son’s jujitsu win. Expect raw, actionable advice on choosing battles, seeking guidance, and property investment, all laced with humor and real talk. Tune in for inspiration and strategies to level up your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:04 - Intro and Morning Struggles
01:10 - Headline: Viral Morning Routine
01:19 - Kipp’s Son’s Jujitsu Triumph
03:17 - Ryan’s Half-Marathon Journey
09:34 - Comparison: Thief or Tool?
13:02 - Faith and Men’s Ministry
22:39 - Mastering Essentialism
32:28 - Asking for Guidance Right
46:26 - Property in Apple Valley
49:00 - Choosing Your Battles
54:29 - Forging Male Friendships
58:36 - Wrap-Up and Upcoming Guests

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SCOTT PAYNE | Deep Undercover with the World’s Toughest Nazis, Biker Gangs, and Drug Lords Apr 01, 2025

My guest today, Scott Payne, spent more than two decades working with some of the most notorious biker gangs, illegal drug operations, and neo-Nazis. And, it would be hard to even imagine some of the things he’s seen and experienced in his decades-long career as an FBI Special Agent.

Today, Scott and I talk about what it takes to be a successful undercover agent, the lines that get blurred when working with some of the most dangerous criminals in the world, how to keep your cool under pressure (including the time a notorious biker gang stripped him in a basement to search him for the wire he was wearing at the time), and how a man transitions back into his ordinary life after one of the most dangerous jobs he could do.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - Introduction
00:52 - Undercover Beginnings
02:25 - First Drug Buy
04:37 - Dark Humor Coping
06:32 - No Honor Among Thieves
15:06 - Infiltrating Neo-Nazis
26:07 - Blurring the Lines
35:31 - Illegal Activity Question
41:08 - Drug Protection Deal
47:59 - Basement Strip Search
01:00:55 - Wife’s Prayer
01:08:34 - Missing the Field
01:12:51 - Book Announcement

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Make Yourself a More Dangerous Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 28, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the provocative idea of "making yourself a more dangerous man." Far from advocating volatility, Michler redefines danger as effectiveness—knowing your goals, communicating with precision, and embodying conviction. Through personal anecdotes and actionable insights, he challenges men to reject wishy-washiness, embrace deliberate presentation, and overcome imposter syndrome by simply doing the work.

With a blend of tough love and humility, Michler inspires listeners to step boldly into their potential. Tune in for a raw, motivating call to action, and discover how to join the Iron Council at orderofman.com/ironcouncil.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:24 - Introduction: Defining a Dangerous Man
02:45 - Knowing Your Target
05:09 - Clarity Through Journaling
07:09 - Mastering Communication
11:03 - Looking the Part
15:42 - Judging by Appearance
17:47 - Being the Part
21:01 - Stepping Into the Unknown
23:27 - Building Humble Conviction
28:57 - The X Factor Equation
31:20 - Closing: Join the Iron Council

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Raising Great Kids, Humor in Fatherhood, & Rebuilding Your Social Circle | ASK ME ANYTHING Mar 26, 2025

In this AMA episode, Shawn and Kipp tackle thought-provoking questions from listeners on personal growth, leadership, and mindset. They discuss teaching kids about success without overwhelming pressure, the role of humor in strong leadership, and the power of service.

They also address workplace challenges, helping introverts engage, and balancing social life with family responsibilities. Tune in for deep insights, practical advice, and candid conversations on becoming a better leader, father, and man.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Introduction & Weekly Catch-up 02:08 – Teaching Kids About Personal Growth and Fulfillment 18:16 – The Role of Humor in Leadership and Family Life 23:51 – Voluntary Sacrifice and Service for the Greater Good 31:35 – Handling Workplace Conflict and Leadership Challenges 40:02 – Encouraging an Introvert to Engage with a Group 46:49 – Rebuilding a Social Circle While Managing Family Life 50:54 – Iron Council & Men’s Forge Event Promotion 52:22 – Closing Thoughts & How to Connect

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JEFFREY SANOW | What a CIA Officer Can Teach Us about Communication, Influence, and Deception Mar 25, 2025

We’re all somewhat familiar with our three-letter agencies but rarely, if ever, do we consider what some of the most intelligent people on the planet can teach us about communication, influence, and deception. But my guest is keenly aware of all three and how to implement powerful strategies to build trust, develop credibility, and get people to do what you want. His name is Jeffrey Sanow and he spent years as a Senior Intelligence Office with the CIA. Today, we talk about what the CIA looks for in its officers and assets, how to empower people to fail the right way, removing barriers to communication, the balance between compliance and rebelliousness, and the hard and soft skills of getting people to follow you.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – The Importance of Communication Skills 02:00 – Why We Struggle with Listening 05:20 – The “Reloader” Problem in Conversations 09:15 – How to Interrupt Effectively in a Conversation 12:30 – The Role of Ego in Active Listening 18:00 – Lessons from CIA Training on Communication 21:40 – What It’s Like to Be a CIA Operations Officer 27:45 – Leadership Lessons from Intelligence Work 32:30 – Why Writing Skills Are Critical in Any Career 39:00 – Encouraging Innovation and Thinking Outside the Box 44:20 – How Intelligence Officers Recruit Spies 50:10 – The Psychology Behind Why People Share Secrets 56:30 – Applying CIA-Level Awareness to Everyday Life 1:00:45 – Jeffrey’s Book and Global Experiences

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The Benefits of Brotherhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 21, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the vital role brotherhood plays in men’s lives. Drawing from personal struggles like divorce and alcohol abuse, he highlights five key benefits—belonging, usefulness, insight, support, and accountability—and warns of the isolation plaguing modern men.

Ryan emphasizes how authentic male connections combat loneliness and foster growth, sharing candid stories and practical wisdom. He also introduces the Iron Council, his brotherhood initiative, inviting listeners to join. This discussion inspires men to build meaningful bonds and reclaim purpose.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:07 - Introduction to Brotherhood
02:34 - The Cost of Isolation
07:27 - Benefit 1: Belonging
12:23 - Benefit 2: Usefulness
18:16 - Benefit 3: Insight
21:38 - Benefit 4: Support
27:42 - Benefit 5: Accountability
36:58 - Invitation to Iron Council
39:56 - Closing Call to Action

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Finding Balance, Setting Boundaries, and Overcoming Struggles | ASK ME ANYTHING Mar 19, 2025

In this episode of the Ask Me Anything series, Ryan and Kipp discuss the importance of consistency, overcoming personal struggles, and maintaining balance in life. They answer viewer questions on topics such as handling grief, setting boundaries with family, staying disciplined during busy seasons, and dealing with an unruly dog. They also share insights on how small, consistent actions lead to lasting change. Whether you’re looking for practical advice or motivation, this episode has something for you.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

00:00 – Introduction
02:45 – Reflecting on 10 years of Order of Man
09:25 – How to rest and enjoy without feeling guilty
19:32 – Dealing with grief and overcoming divorce
32:31 – Strategies to stay focused during busy seasons
42:24 – What books Ryan and Kipp are reading right now
55:35 – Talking to kids about drugs and addiction
60:11 – Setting boundaries with parents
01:07:54 – How to break tough news about a pet to a child

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JOHN ELDREDGE | How a Man Can Truly Experience Jesus Mar 18, 2025

Out of the millions of men I’ve worked with over the last 10 years, I’ve heard everything from a deep disdain and animosity towards God and Jesus to a rich and abiding love for His word. For me, I fall somewhere in the middle as I wrestle with my own relationship with Him and towards my faith and spirituality. And, that’s the reason I really wanted to talk with a huge influence in my life, John Eldredge. Today, John and I cover what faith and spirituality really look like, how the distraction era has hampered our ability to draw close to Christ, whether or not Church is necessary on the path of spirituality, why finding truth is challenging but worth the struggle, how the “Doctrine of Popular Culture” gets it all wrong and how, maybe for the first time ever, you can experience Jesus.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) - Exploring Spirituality and Religion Today (13:47) - Father-Son Relationships and Spirituality (20:43) - Fatherhood and Warrior Spirituality (29:15) - Seeking Purpose Beyond Self-Gratification (37:37) - The Masculine Journey (49:48) - Nurturing Individuality and Identity (01:01:42) - Connecting With Spirituality in Everyday Life (01:07:08) - Discovering the Ordinary Mystic

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Lions and Hyenas | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 14, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores a powerful metaphor for masculinity. Drawing from nature, he contrasts the virtuous, leadership-driven traits of lions with the deceptive, self-serving behaviors of hyenas. Through five key distinctions—leading vs. following, earning vs. taking, brotherhood vs. matriarchy, fearlessness vs. deceit, and protection vs. predation—Ryan challenges men to embody the lion’s strength and integrity.

With personal anecdotes and bold insights, he urges listeners to reject parasitic tendencies and pursue a legacy of righteous living. Join Ryan as he unpacks this analogy and offers a path to purposeful manhood.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Lions and Hyenas 02:29 - Lions Lead, Hyenas Follow 04:57 - Lions Earn, Hyenas Take 07:18 - Brotherhood vs. Matriarchy 09:40 - Fearless Lions, Deceptive Hyenas 12:03 - Protection vs. Predation 13:30 - Choosing Your Path 15:45 - Iron Council Promotion 17:53 - Closing Thoughts

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Together for the Kids?, Overcomplicating the Uncomplicated, and Discounting Other People’s Success | ASK ME ANYTHING Mar 12, 2025

In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle pressing listener questions on parenting, leadership, and self-improvement. They discuss whether staying together for the kids is truly the best choice, how men often overcomplicate simple solutions, and why discounting others' success is a losing mindset.

Ryan also shares insights on leading former peers, navigating the role of a stepfather, and staying accountable within the Iron Council. Packed with practical advice and tough love, this episode challenges listeners to level up.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Introduction & Weekly Headlines 04:48 – Together for the Kids? 13:02 – Overcomplicating the Uncomplicated 23:38 – The Power of Accountability & Battle Teams 26:59 – Leading Former Peers as a New Manager 33:54 – Navigating Fatherhood as a Stepfather 47:41 – Discounting Other People’s Success & Personal Growth 54:01 – Closing Thoughts & Upcoming Events

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JAMES SWANWICK | How to Break Your Alcohol Addiction For Good Mar 11, 2025

It’s been said that alcohol is the only drug that, if you don’t take it, people think something is wrong with you. And, I know firsthand what it’s like for alcohol use and abuse to take root in your life.

My guest today, James Swanwick makes the case that there is nothing good that comes from drinking alcohol – even in moderation and on occasion. Today, we talk about how quickly it can compromise your quality of life, production, and relationships, why he views alcohol as nothing more than “Attractively Packaged Poison,” how you can adopt the alcohol-free lifestyle, the importance of addressing the internal root of addiction, and how facing your own insecurities, although uncomfortable can help you crack the code.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Catching Up 00:24 - Ryan’s Alcohol Struggle and Recovery 01:24 - The Hidden Costs of Drinking 02:52 - Reclaiming Time and Energy 05:25 - Addressing Social Pressure to Drink 08:37 - Alcohol as a Cultural Myth 10:57 - Debunking Alcohol’s Health Benefits 14:09 - The Influence of Big Alcohol 15:59 - Genetic Predisposition to Alcohol 19:20 - Changing Habits, Changing Genes 22:56 - Finding Fulfillment Without Alcohol 25:55 - Starting the Hero’s Journey 28:47 - Building a Like-Minded Community 31:45 - Ryan’s Ongoing Journey 33:18 - Addiction as a Superpower? 37:06 - Balancing Life’s Pillars 40:55 - Leaning Into Personal Development 44:31 - James’s Emotional Breakthrough 48:50 - The Power of Community Support 51:06 - Where to Connect with James

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Why Every Man Must Advocate for Himself | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 07, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler discusses why every man must learn to advocate for himself. He explains how setting boundaries, communicating needs, and standing firm in convictions are essential for personal and professional success. Ryan challenges the belief that self-advocacy is selfish and presents compelling research on how men who stand up for themselves experience greater fulfillment, stronger relationships, and better health.

He also shares practical steps for asserting oneself in all areas of life. Tune in to learn how to take control of your mission, command respect, and lead with confidence.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Introduction 02:40 – No One is Coming to Save You 05:02 – Your Mission, Your Responsibility 09:51 – Your Strength Commands Respect 12:15 – Your Family and Community Need a Leader 17:09 – Weak Men Get Walked On, Strong Men Get Results 19:20 – Final Thoughts & Call to Action

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Do I Have What it Takes, Everything in Excellence, and Doing the Right Things | ASK ME ANYTHING Mar 05, 2025

In this week's Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle pressing questions from listeners on self-improvement, purpose, and resilience. They discuss the importance of discipline, finding passion, and navigating major life transitions like retirement.

They also explore the impact of mindset on success, the dangers of victim mentality, and how small decisions can lead to lasting growth. Plus, Ryan shares a personal story about saying “yes” to unexpected opportunities. Tune in for another insightful and thought-provoking conversation.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – Introduction & Monday Mindset 04:35 – Zelensky, Trump, and Diplomacy 11:10 – The Impact of Screen Time on Kids 14:23 – Viewer Question: Am I Enough? 22:52 – Viewer Question: What is My Purpose? 29:48 – Viewer Question: How Do You Get Out of Bed Every Day? 39:26 – Viewer Question: Preparing for Retirement 45:52 – Viewer Question: How to Find Your Passion? 52:29 – Viewer Question: Am I Better Than Yesterday? 58:24 – Viewer Question: How Will I Be Remembered? 1:04:24 – Viewer Question: Are You Doing What You Should Be Doing? 1:10:53 – Viewer Question: What Battle Are You Fighting That Isn’t Yours? 1:15:00 – Closing Thoughts

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JOHN ASSARAF | Unlocking Your Brain’s Hidden Powers Mar 04, 2025

The way you tap into the matter that represents the 6” between you ears matters. The fact is, all of us have the same amount of time in the day. Sure, some people are born more intelligent, wealthy, or connected than others. But can you level the playing field? That’s the only question that matters.

My guest today, John Assaraf, believes that you can. He’s made it his life’s mission to show you how. Today, we talk about finding out if you’re “interested” or “committed” and the difference, how to turn your possibility into predictability using proven systems, how much time you really need to commit each day to improving (the answer might shock you), breaking free from the expectations of others, and finding what John calls the “Neuroplasticity Switch.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 00:29 – Shifting from Outer to Inner Work 01:51 – Perspective Shift 04:11 – The Power of Thoughts & Neurochemistry 10:31 – Understanding the Cybernetic Mechanism 14:21 – Mentorship & Commitment 21:38 – Visualization & Skill Upgrading 33:14 – The Entrepreneurial Mindset 43:08 – The Agentic AI Revolution 56:31 – Breaking Limiting Beliefs 01:04:27 – Closing Thoughts

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Why Every Man Should Build ‘Command Presence' | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Feb 28, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the concept of Command Presence—the ability to lead with confidence, clarity, and composure. He breaks down the four essential pillars of command presence: Clarity, Character, Competence, and Composure. Through personal stories and real-world examples, Ryan explains why every man should cultivate this leadership trait to positively influence his family, workplace, and community.

He also shares insights from a recent leadership discussion inside the Iron Council. Tune in to learn how to build command presence and become the man you are meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

00:00 – Introduction to Command Presence 01:40 – The four pillars of Command Presence 03:47 – Importance of clarity in leadership 05:12 – Character: Leading by example 10:46 – Competence: Why skills matter 13:08 – Composure under pressure 14:15 – A real-world example of Command Presence 18:58 – Why Command Presence impacts every area of life 20:28 – Final thoughts and takeaways

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Learning to Let Go, Overcoming Grief, and Setting Expectations | ASK ME ANYTHING Feb 26, 2025

In this episode of Order of Man, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle another round of Ask Me Anything, answering pressing questions from the Iron Council. They discuss the importance of letting go of past regrets, dealing with grief, navigating difficult conversations, and taking ownership of life’s decisions.

Ryan also shares insights on leadership, personal responsibility, and the value of embracing discomfort for growth. Whether it’s coaching youth sports, handling setbacks, or preparing for a marathon, this episode is packed with practical wisdom.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction & Weekly Headlines 21:45 – Advice for Your 20-Year-Old Self 30:52 – Handling Death, Grief, and a Fixed Future 41:04 – U.S.-Canada Relations & Economic Tensions 44:58 – Marathon Training & Endurance Preparation 47:00 – Most Memorable Rite of Passage 51:42 – Coaching Challenges & Leadership in Youth Sports 1:06:01 – Greatest Failure and Life Lessons

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PATRICK RENNA | The Unwritten Rules to Baseball and Life Feb 25, 2025

It’s likely that all of you know my guest today but may not immediately recognize his name. He is Patrick Renna but you may know him his most well-known movie roll, Hamilton Porter from The Sandlot.

But Patrick is so much more than the young kid we saw on the movie screen over 30 years ago. Today, Patrick and I talk about struggles people we put on pedestals face, pivoting in life but doing it in something you’re passionate about, how Hollywood has changed and how it will continue to do so, striking the balance between giving your kids opportunities and letting them struggle, and what we can learn both on and off the baseball diamond.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - Introduction & Guest Welcome 00:43 - Patrick’s Childhood and Early Acting Career 03:14 - Dealing with Fame at a Young Age 06:12 - Moving to Hollywood & Early Success 07:57 - The Importance of a Normal Childhood 10:45 - Building Strong, Lifelong Friendships 15:07 - Writing a Children's Book & Life Lessons 18:37 - The Power of Taking Your Shot 19:47 - Sports & Life Lessons for Kids 24:04 - Stepping Away from Acting & Finding Purpose 26:44 - The Reality of Hollywood Wealth & Success 30:57 - Parenting & Lessons from Childhood 33:26 - Launching a Production Company 36:20 - Staying True to Your Passion 41:59 - The Reality of Acting Behind the Scenes 43:23 - How Hollywood Has Changed Over 30 Years 46:08 - The Future of AI in Entertainment 50:19 - Where to Find Patrick & Closing Remarks

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Be Less Insecure | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Feb 21, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler discusses the growing insecurity among men and how it affects their lives, relationships, and success. He shares five actionable strategies to build confidence, financial freedom, physical fitness, and self-discipline. Ryan challenges listeners to take control of their lives by eliminating negative influences, dressing with intention, and becoming men of conviction. This episode is a direct, no-nonsense guide to overcoming self-doubt and living with purpose.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - Introduction 01:49 - Breaking free from financial insecurity 05:44 - The importance of physical fitness 08:05 - Dressing with confidence and influence 12:33 - Removing insecurities and temptations 16:30 - Becoming a man of conviction 19:50 - Final thoughts and call to action

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The Halo Effect, Putting Your Father on a Pedestal, & Developing Empathy as a Dad | ASK ME ANYTHING Feb 19, 2025

In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle insightful questions from listeners, covering topics like overcoming the halo effect, balancing empathy with leadership, preparing for AI-driven job disruptions, and raising daughters with intention.

They also discuss how to address concerns about a spouse’s well-being, the importance of personal integrity, and why many men struggle to support friends during hospital stays. Tune in for candid conversations, practical advice, and thought-provoking perspectives on modern masculinity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction & Weekly Headlines 09:55 - The dangers of putting people on pedestals 21:18 - Developing empathy and nurturing skills as a man 29:23 - How to discuss a spouse’s mental and physical health 36:25 - The mystery behind the podcast’s intro voice 37:53 - Realizing your father isn’t superhuman 43:40 - Preparing for AI-driven job losses 54:46 - Important lessons in raising daughters 58:46 - Learning to detach from external validation 1:04:50 - The impact of a great coach in a young man’s life 1:09:26 - Why men struggle to support friends during hospital stays

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MATT BEAUDREAU | How the System is Failing Men Feb 18, 2025

Choose a metric regarding the health, wealth, and fulfillment of men and it’s easy to see that men are either falling drastically behind our female counterparts or, at a minimum, on a downward spiral. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think it’s a contest between the sexes (That would suggest that it’s a zero-sum game. It’s not). But it’s a glimpse into modern man’s gradual decline in his ability to protect, provide, and preside in his life and the lives of those he cares about.

Matt Beaudreau joins me on the podcast today to talk about why this is the case and how our steady decline starts at a young age and inside the halls of academia. We talk about Trump’s desire to shut down the Department of Education, how government and academia have distracted us from true learning, why you’ll never find your purpose – you must forge it, living a life by design – not default, and the importance of the “Hero’s Journey.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:40 - Dismantling the Department of Education: A Good Move? 03:17 - Defining Success: Beyond Standardized Tests 07:13 - Should We Lower the Bar for Everyone? 10:55 - Do People Give Enough to Charity? 14:23 - How Crisis Brings Out the Best in People 17:44 - Creating Opportunities for Young Men 23:17 - A Bold Idea: Free Mentorship for Boys from Single-Mother Homes 27:10 - The Real Purpose of Education 31:27 - Why Men Feel Isolated and Alone 37:58 - Do Men Find Their Purpose, or Do They Forge It? 47:32 - The Natural Drive to Do More 53:30 - Learning from Personal Crisis: The Hero’s Journey 54:14 - Fired Up: Turning an Idea into Action 56:17 - The Power of Intentionality in Men’s Lives

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Men, Do Less...Better | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Feb 14, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler challenges men to simplify their lives by focusing on what truly matters. He breaks down five key areas—physical possessions, technology, environment, relationships, and work—where men can cut out the unnecessary and become more effective.

By doing less but doing it better, men can increase their value, find deeper satisfaction, and lead more fulfilling lives. Ryan delivers a powerful message on eliminating distractions, setting boundaries, and making intentional choices.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 02:47 – The power of brotherhood and connection 03:59 – Decluttering your physical space 07:29 – Cutting out technological distractions 09:51 – Structuring your environment for success 11:54 – Managing relationships and toxic influences 14:39 – Eliminating unnecessary work and delegating effectively 17:00 – The importance of doing less, but better 18:34 – Closing thoughts and call to action

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ASK ME ANYTHING Feb 12, 2025

In this AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle hard-hitting questions from listeners on leadership, relationships, career growth, and personal development. They discuss overcoming fear, building strong teams, saving for the future while enjoying the present, and stepping up as a leader.

Ryan also shares insights on assertiveness and taking responsibility, while Kipp breaks down the mindset shifts needed for growth. Plus, they highlight the power of networking and making bold career moves. Don't miss this powerful conversation filled with practical advice and real talk.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and catching up 03:05 - Winter Strong event and the power of networking 06:10 - The Men's Forge event promotion 12:50 - How to build strong relationships and choose the right people 16:14 - Overcoming fear and making tough career and relationship decisions 27:56 - How to introduce friends to the Iron Council 36:10 - Creating stronger team bonds and accountability 43:14 - Common leadership weaknesses and how to fix them 53:13 - Balancing saving for the future vs. enjoying the present 1:01:21 - Feeling stuck in a job and finding a meaningful career path 1:10:29 - The power of taking initiative at work 1:14:46 - Closing thoughts and key takeaways

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LEE & ANDREW CHILD | The Making of a Masculine Icon Feb 11, 2025

You may not immediately recognize the names, Lee and Andrew Child, but I bet you know the name, Jack Reacher. Lee is the creator of Jack Reacher and Andrew is now the man who will carry on the legacy of the man who all of us want to be like.

Today, I am joined by the iconic and legendary duo and authors of the Jack Reacher series. We talk about so much including the nature of men, the power of good storytelling (whether you’re a fictional author or just want to be a good dad), the “Robin Hood Myth,” the future of good literature in modern times, and how much individual personality goes into creating a character who will last.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:40 - The Power of 'J' in Protagonist Names 01:35 - Why 'J' Names Dominate Thriller Heroes 02:51 - The Science Behind Compelling Character Names 03:28 - Sherlock Holmes vs. Jack Reacher 04:52 - How Film Adaptations Alter Characters 06:20 - The Challenge of Casting Jack Reacher 07:32 - Tom Cruise vs. Alan Ritchson as Reacher 08:42 - Creating the Physical Presence of Reacher 09:53 - Transitioning the Jack Reacher Series 11:01 - The Natural Evolution of a Character 12:52 - How Personal Experiences Shape Fictional Characters 15:22 - The Organic Transition of Writing Reacher 16:45 - How Readers Shape Character Perceptions 18:54 - Balancing Character Description and Reader Imagination 20:13 - The Power of Storytelling in Fiction 22:07 - The Evolutionary Purpose of Storytelling 23:21 - Showing Virtue Through Action in Fiction 25:09 - Fiction as a Release Valve for Frustrations 27:00 - The Role of Storytelling in Managing Emotions 29:12 - Vigilantism, Justice, and Society’s Reaction 31:45 - The Modern Robin Hood Myth 33:01 - Exploring Moral Ambiguity in Fiction 35:05 - Why Flawed Heroes Are More Compelling 36:33 - Reacher’s Moral Code and the Power of Choice 37:44 - What Sets Reacher Off? 39:12 - Why Not Let Reacher Die? 40:40 - The Author’s Duty to the Readers 42:30 - Balancing Creativity and Reader Expectations 45:03 - How Reader Trends Have Changed Over 30 Years 46:55 - Predicting Cultural Trends in Thriller Novels 49:03 - The Enduring Theme of the Underdog vs. the Bully 51:37 - Avoiding Heavy-Handed Messaging in Fiction 54:01 - Respecting the Reader’s Intelligence 56:11 - The Economic Unfairness Theme in Modern Fiction 58:19 - The Robin Hood Story Still Resonates Today 01:00:17 - Writing Convincing Villains 01:02:29 - Lee Child on Letting Go of Reacher 01:04:26 - Andrew’s Perspective on Taking Over the Series 01:06:39 - The Blue-Collar Work Ethic in Writing 01:07:08 - Final Thoughts and Farewell

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If Boys Don’t Learn, Men Won’t Know | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Feb 07, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the crucial role men play in shaping the next generation. He discusses the consequences of fatherlessness, the importance of mentorship, and the responsibility of men to lead by example. Ryan shares personal experiences and actionable steps to ensure boys grow into strong, virtuous men.

He emphasizes leading from the front, getting involved, and knowing when to step back to let others rise. This episode is a powerful reminder that the future of manhood depends on the lessons we pass down today.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 00:46 – The impact of absent fathers 02:49 – Lessons from strength training with young men 04:54 – The crisis of masculinity in modern society 06:56 – Leading from the front 11:32 – Taking action and getting involved 16:24 – Learning to lead from behind 21:25 – The power of continuous learning 22:56 – Closing thoughts and call to action

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Masculinity in the Arts, the Drift of Life, and Why It’s Good to be the Underdog | ASK ME ANYTHING Feb 05, 2025

In this week’s AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a range of thought-provoking topics, from the role of masculinity in the arts to overcoming stagnation and embracing the underdog mindset. They tackle viewer questions on leadership, personal growth, and maintaining momentum after success.

Ryan shares insights on self-improvement, discipline, and the power of artistic expression in shaping culture. Tune in for a compelling discussion that challenges conventional thinking and offers actionable advice for men striving to improve their lives.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - Introduction 02:50 - The psychology of political identity 14:16 - Masculinity in the arts and its cultural impact 20:48 - The value of serving on a board 29:51 - Overcoming stagnation in personal growth 37:15 - Three essential skills every man should develop 42:05 - Keeping momentum after success 50:20 - Coping with a divorce and rebuilding life 54:19 - Final thoughts and wrap-up

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ANSON FRERICKS | How DEI and Bud Light Died Feb 04, 2025

I recorded this podcast with Anson Frericks, former Anheuser-Busch Executive, about a month ago before Trump took office and began putting the final nails in the coffin of “Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion,” (DEI) at the federal level. But, even before that, we saw the decline and predicted the ultimate downfall of DEI initiatives with very notable cases such as the Bud Light fiasco and subsequent boycott.

Now, with Target, Amazon, Harley-Davidson, and more notable companies are dismantling these dangerous and destructive ideologies. Today, Anson and I talk about, why we’ve seen such a huge cultural shift against these policies, why companies truly started these policies in the first place (it wasn’t out of the goodness of their hearts), how consumers can take back culture through their purchasing power, and why DEI needs to die once and for all.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:41 - The Power of Authentic Branding 03:37 - Corporate America and Censorship 07:02 - When Companies Prioritize Politics Over Customers 11:34 - The Bud Light Controversy and Corporate Backlash 15:59 - The Influence of ESG and DEI on Big Business 21:39 - The Fallout of Anheuser-Busch’s Marketing Misstep 27:21 - Corporate America’s Struggle with Political Pressure 33:46 - The Shift in Advertising and Audience Connection 40:00 - How COVID and Social Movements Shaped Corporate Policy 46:02 - The Role of BlackRock, Vanguard, and State Street 51:21 - The Future of Free Speech in Business 56:39 - The Power of Courageous Leadership in Shaping Industry 57:24 - The Next Era of Defense and Innovation

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Will it Make the Boat Go Faster? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jan 31, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the powerful concept of “Will it Make the Boat Go Faster?”, a mantra for making decisions that drive real progress. Inspired by Olympic rower Ben Hunt-Davis, Ryan shares how this mindset can be applied to career growth, relationships, health, and personal goals. He discusses the importance of setting clear objectives, testing strategies, and adjusting when necessary.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - Introduction to the concept 01:42 - The Olympic rowing story 03:12 - Applying the mantra to life 07:43 - Decision-making and pivoting 09:45 - The importance of self-review 12:00 - Measuring progress objectively 14:32 - Eliminating distractions and staying focused 16:47 - Upcoming event: The Men's Forge

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Prioritizing Masculinity, Leading Your Leaders, and Boundaries vs. Walls | ASK ME ANYTHING Jan 29, 2025

In this week’s Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle a variety of topics, including building wealth, establishing healthy boundaries, and balancing hobbies with responsibilities. They explore how to lead effectively, the tiers of accountability, and the importance of fostering integrity in relationships and organizations.

With personal insights, practical strategies, and engaging humor, Ryan and Kipp deliver actionable advice for men striving to improve their personal and professional lives.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 Headlines and Updates 13:52 Expanding Wealth and Financial Planning 24:12 Boundaries vs. Walls in Relationships 29:39 Masculine Projects and Fulfillment 34:28 Leading Leaders: Navigating Operational Challenges 44:51 Accountability: Supporting Others with Integrity 1:00:37 Becoming the Best Dad Possible 1:07:35 Strengthening Spiritual Practices

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DR. ETHAN KROSS | How Men Manage Their Emotions Jan 28, 2025

“Men aren’t emotional.” “Men are more logical than their female counterparts.” “Men don’t cry.”

These are all things you’ve heard whether they’ve been directed at you or not. But the reality paints a different story. Men are emotional. But that’s not to say that we ought to let ourselves be led by our emotions alone.

Dr. Ethan Kross understands this well as a man who researches how we, as humans, both feel and react to those feelings. Today, we talk about how to deal with intrusive thoughts, how to address the dark thoughts we often experience, what it actually means to “control” your emotions, how to become more emotionally fit, and how you can regulate your emotions – even the “negative” ones – so they don’t regulate you.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Unwritten Rule About Men and Emotions 01:57 - Emotional Strength: A Navy SEAL's Perspective 03:32 - Can We Control Our Emotions? 06:57 - Dark Thoughts and Emotional Awareness 08:15 - Myths About Managing Emotions 13:43 - Emotions: Tools for Resilience and Growth 15:55 - The Link Between Love, Hate, and Emotional Investment 20:41 - The Art of Emotion Regulation 26:07 - Emotional Fitness: A Multi-Tool Approach 30:14 - The Power of Mental Time Travel 41:17 - Public Speaking and Emotional Influence 49:39 - Over-Regulation and Exhaustion 52:26 - Leveraging Environmental Regulators 55:10 - The Value of Negative Emotions 59:13 - The Power of Finding Common Ground 01:00:38 - Closing Thoughts and How to Connect with Ethan Kross

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The Stories You Tell Yourself Define You as a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jan 24, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler dives into the powerful concept of the stories men tell themselves and how these narratives shape their identity, success, and outlook on life. Ryan challenges listeners to rewrite negative scripts, adopt a victor mindset, and use their inner dialogue to build resilience and purpose. He emphasizes the importance of self-talk, taking responsibility, and reframing experiences as opportunities for growth. This inspiring episode will leave you reflecting on your own story and the impact it has on who you are and who you’re becoming.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 02:30 The impact of stories on identity 04:50 Reframing negative narratives 09:10 Self-talk and identity shaping 15:50 Victim vs. victor mindset 22:25 Lessons from the words we use 31:50 Changing old stories 36:25 Closing thoughts

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You Are Your Own Boss, What Men Value in Women, and Fighting Against Victimhood | ASK ME ANYTHING Jan 22, 2025

In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle thought-provoking topics like entrepreneurial mindset, rediscovering drive after setbacks, and the dynamics of relationships. They answer listener questions on building self-discipline, explaining love to kids, and navigating life’s challenges with resilience. Ryan and Kipp also share insights on avoiding victimhood and embracing personal responsibility, alongside their thoughts on leadership, success, and living intentionally. Packed with practical advice and inspiring conversations, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to level up in life and relationships.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 04:02 You Are Your Own Boss 17:10 Non-Commercialized Gifts for Your Wife 20:16 Go-To Songs to Get Fired Up 24:40 Explaining Love to Preteens 31:22 Rediscovering Drive After Setbacks 42:32 Career, Status, and Relationships 51:16 Talking to Kids About Their Struggles 59:30 The Best Advice from Mentors 1:04:08 New Hunting Tactics

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DONALD MILLER | Build Influence and Authority Through Telling Stories Jan 21, 2025

Stories are what make the world go ‘round. From selling a product, service, or podcast like this one, to dating, raising kids, and building friendships, the stories you tell yourself and others are going to either unlock doors and open opportunities…or close the doors before you even had to chance to see them there.

Donald Miller is an expert storyteller and an expert and helping other people articulate and share theirs. Today, we talk about why humans are so interested in storytelling, what foundational elements make a good story, the importance of a “story loop,” to get other to buy-in to what you’re sharing by making them part of the story. Whether you’re a marketing professional or just want to help your son deal with his first bully at school, this podcast is for you.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 00:22 - Hobbies and Interests 00:53 - Fly Fishing Buddies 01:15 - Nashville and Culture 02:26 - Why Move to Nashville? 03:06 - Are People Really that Kind? 03:23 - Population Growth in Nashville 04:27 - Concerns about Assimilation 05:51 - Portland Used to be a Great City 07:44 - Austin is a Great City, too 08:40 - The Power of Stories 09:34 - Why are Stories so Powerful? 10:30 - Stories as an Attention Device 11:06 - Stories in the Bible 12:12 - Truth and Stories 12:17 - Stories Equip Us for Threats 13:03 - Stories Shape Identity 14:19 - What Sort of Stories Work? 14:28 - Braveheart and the Writer 15:39 - Cultures Shaped by Stories 16:52 - Personal Stories in Church 18:10 - Opening Story Loops 18:51 - Rom-Com Story Loops 20:11 - How to Open Story Loops 20:38 - Leadership and Story 23:05 - Casting a Vision 24:55 - Catastrophic Failure 25:23 - What is Your Family Against? 26:17 - A Structure for Family Life 27:21 - What is Your Family For? 28:11 - The Vibe of Your Family 28:50 - Sound Bites and Repetition 30:02 - Shaping Identity 31:18 - Context is Key 32:15 - Truth with a Capital "T" 33:09 - Hitler and Churchill 33:59 - Hitler's Narrative 35:18 - Territorial Sovereignty 36:19 - Xi Jinping's Narrative 37:54 - Moral Responsibility 38:50 - Don's Core Belief 40:17 - Israel and Palestine 41:20 - Missing Christ in the Israeli-Palestinian Narrative 41:54 - What Makes a Compelling Story? 42:18 - Compelling Story Elements 44:23 - External and Internal Journeys 45:04 - External, Internal, and Philosophical Conflict 48:04 - The Hero is Transformed 49:23 - Affirmation from Mentors 51:15 - The Market in Men 51:55 - John Eldridge 52:32 - Answering the Internal Struggle 52:59 - Separation from God 54:57 - God's Love is Immovable 55:41 - Human Love Needs Human Meriting 56:46 - Nancy Duarte 56:51 - Story of Bullying 58:50 - Bullies and Evil 59:17 - StoryBrandAI 01:00:59 - Telling Stories About Core Values 01:02:02 - The Power of AI in Storytelling 01:02:53 - Jocko Willink and Tough Narratives 01:03:24 - Conclusion and Where to Connect

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5 Lessons Learned From the LA Fires | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jan 17, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delves into the tragic events of the LA fires to uncover critical lessons about preparedness, responsibility, and leadership. He emphasizes the importance of self-reliance, accountability in governance, and practical approaches to safeguarding our families and communities. Drawing from real-world examples and personal reflections, Ryan challenges listeners to think critically about their own preparedness and role in protecting their loved ones. Tune in to discover five powerful lessons learned from this devastating event and how they can inspire you to become a better protector, provider, and presider in your own life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 03:05 Scope of the LA fires 05:34 The importance of self-reliance 08:50 The government's ineptitude 15:09 Rejecting ineffective policies 20:06 Addressing crime and punishment 24:06 Balancing human needs with nature 27:26 Supporting disaster relief efforts

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Overcoming Complacency, Communication is Key, and Correctly Comparing Yourself to Others | ASK ME ANYTHING Jan 15, 2025

In this week’s episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler takes on an engaging solo session to address viewers’ thought-provoking questions. Covering topics like combating complacency, building confidence, improving communication, overcoming insomnia, escaping the comparison trap, and fostering a positive relationship with finances, Ryan delivers actionable advice and personal experiences. Packed with practical wisdom, this AMA is a must-listen for anyone seeking to enhance their mindset, leadership, and overall growth as a man.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 - Introduction 02:31 - Combating complacency 06:18 - Building confidence and resilience 16:46 - Communication skills and reading strategies 23:54 - Overcoming insomnia 29:46 - Breaking free from complacency 31:13 - Escaping the comparison trap 39:08 - Knowing when to pivot vs. quitting 46:42 - Coaching challenges with children 54:51 - Developing the right financial mindset

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BRANDON MANCINE | Get Strong and Do Stuff Jan 14, 2025

With the brand-new year, I figured it would be a good idea to talk with an expert on the topic of health and fitness. For almost 10 years, I’ve suggested that if a man is just getting on (or back on) the path of self-development, the gym is the best place to start. There are a lot of reason for this but I think my guest, Brandon Mancine would agree.

Today, Brandon and I talk about three types of fitness goals every man should implement (all three have merit), why a broken past does not define you, weight-lifting benchmarks all men should hit (or be working towards), the importance of intelligent lifting – especially as we get older, getting over “ego lifting,” and why now is the perfect time to get strong.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 00:53 Bodybuilding vs. Service 02:16 Defending Bodybuilders 02:57 Early perceptions of bodybuilders 04:57 Coaching 05:22 Ideal Physique 05:49 Social Media Perceptions 07:14 Personal Experience with CrossFit 07:43 Strength is Key 08:50 Speaking in Layman’s Terms 10:06 Compound Movements 10:32 Strength Bias 11:31 Helping Clients Be Better Athletes 12:08 Questioning Others in the Gym 12:46 Crossfit Champions 13:42 Benchmarks 15:27 What is Strength? 16:37 Strength Training in the Physical Realm 17:27 What is the Core? 18:04 Butt Wink 18:47 Two Types of Clients 19:32 The Importance of Technique 20:45 Missing a PR 22:36 What is a PR? 23:03 Best Mover 24:43 Moving with Intention 24:55 Getting Over Ego 25:28 Importance of the Coach 26:32 Long Term Success 26:55 Principles of Fitness and Finances 27:50 Financial Planning During Market Crash 28:56 Applying These Principles to Fitness 29:46 Injuries and Training 30:59 Injuries as a Reason to Continue 31:41 Brandon's Accident 34:08 Current Squat 35:39 TRT Misconceptions 36:18 Focus of Training 36:33 Three Types of Goals 37:09 Lifestyle and Legacy Goal 38:07 Empowering Goal 38:23 Trap Bar Deadlift 39:19 Single Leg Deadlifts 40:14 "What kind of old person do you want to be?" 41:19 Keeping up with Kids 42:12 Impact of Strength Training on Athletes 43:10 Confidence and Ego 43:59 Sitting in the Parking Lot 45:16 Gym Community 46:16 Fear of Going to the Gym 47:42 Ryan's First Experience in CrossFit 48:39 Lifestyle Evolution vs. Lifestyle Change 50:55 Brandon Mancine's Mother's Story 53:43 Doctors 54:15 Realizing Potential 54:49 Connect with Brandon Mancine 55:52 Conclusion

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Men and the Battle for Culture | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jan 10, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler dives into the pressing challenges men face in today’s cultural landscape. From the battle for personal sovereignty to equipping families and communities with the tools to thrive, Ryan delivers actionable advice for reclaiming masculinity and creating meaningful change.

He emphasizes the importance of fixing oneself first, engaging in local politics, and building networks of like-minded men to confront societal pressures. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on leadership, responsibility, and how men can shape the future for themselves and the next generation.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 02:03 - Recognizing the Cultural Battle 07:59 - Fixing Yourself First 09:59 - Building Strong Families 12:49 - Engaging in Local Politics 15:55 - Enlisting Other Men in the Fight 22:10 - Conclusion

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Internal Locus of Control, Victimhood Destroys You, and The Pitfalls of Sovereignty | ASK ME ANYTHING Jan 08, 2025

In this week’s Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle thought-provoking viewer questions about personal transformation, leadership, family dynamics, and overcoming challenges.

From handling the balance between work and family to breaking free from nice guy syndrome, the conversation dives deep into actionable strategies for growth. Ryan and Kipp also explore boundaries in relationships, the dangers of victimhood, and how sovereignty ties into service.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 12:39 - The “aha” moment and hitting rock bottom 19:38 - Leading your family like a business 27:21 - Quitting alcohol: The hardest part 32:10 - Overcoming nice guy syndrome 39:13 - Balancing self-improvement with family time 43:40 - Revisiting Sovereignty: Updates and dangers 54:40 - Setting boundaries in relationships 57:38 - Responding to gossip or backbiting 1:02:45 - Reading habits and preferences 1:07:08 - Origin and future of the group

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Recapping the Best Moments of 2024 Jan 07, 2025

2024 has officially drawn to a close and, with all the incredible conversations I’ve had over the past 12 months, I thought it would be a good idea to recap some of the best moments from a dozen of the over 52 interviews I did. All this in one simple and easy place to hit the highlights!

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 0:00 - Episode Intro 2:50 - Adversity Introduces a Man to Himself (with Bedros Keuilian) 11:00 - Control the Controllable with Kyle Thompson 15:30 - How to Build Fierce Empathy with David Waldy 22:10 - How to Communicate Like a Man with Jefferson Fisher 26:52 - Own Your Sh*t with Dave Fielding 29:35 - Redefining Masculinity and Authenticity Online with Harrison Schenck 33:52 - The Crucial Difference Between Men and Women in Relationship with GS Youngblood 38:53 - The Powerful Role of Men in Society Today with Nick Freitas 44:10 - Trump’s Assassination Attempt and Preparing for the Worst with Clint Emerson 49:13 - What’s The Deal With Men’s Mental Health? With John Delony 53:35 - How Porn Destroys Masculinity with Sathiya Sam 1:00:51 - Sexual Desire Differences Between the Sexes with Jackson Hightower

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How a Man Builds Sovereignty in 2025 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jan 03, 2025

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delves into the concept of sovereignty and provides actionable insights for men to regain control over their lives in 2025. Ryan emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility, setting goals, maintaining health, and eliminating excuses to achieve freedom in every aspect of life. From creating a compelling vision to tightening finances, Ryan outlines a blueprint for building a strong foundation of self-reliance and leadership. This episode is a powerful guide for any man striving to become the best version of himself.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 01:01 - Defining Sovereignty 02:11 - Have a Vision and Set Goals 06:56 - Importance of Quarterly Objectives 09:11 - Train Hard, Eat Clean, Sleep Well 14:48 - Eliminate Excuses 18:32 - Tap into the Spiritual Realm 21:39 - Tighten Your Finances 27:04 - Recap and Closing Thoughts

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Trying Times with Kids, No More Jiu-Jitsu, and Preparing for Red Dawn | Ask Me Anything Jan 01, 2025

In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a range of personal, thought-provoking, and entertaining questions. From discussing family relationships and overcoming challenges to exploring martial arts and leadership principles, the conversation offers a mix of heartfelt insights and lighthearted moments.

Kipp shares deeply personal reflections about his son’s journey with Usher syndrome and the life lessons he’s gained from it. The episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and inspiration for anyone looking to navigate life’s challenges with grace and resilience.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 Introduction and Opening Remarks
01:21 Neuroplasticity and Adult Learning
09:35 Fun and Provocative Questions Begin
10:29 Reflections on Past Relationships
14:03 Martial Arts Preferences and Insights
15:48 Parenting a Child with a Disability
26:23 Evolving "Order of Man"
28:21 Self-Reflection on Personal Characteristics
34:12 Lessons for Jesus Christ
37:00 Morality vs. Family Obligations
42:29 Historical Figures and Inspiration
46:05 Red Dawn Scenario and Preparedness
50:01 Career Aspirations Without Constraints
51:44 Constructive Feedback for Ryan
55:27 A Heartfelt Message to Kipp’s Late Father
59:33 Closing Remarks

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JOHN KIM | How a Man Leads in Relationships Dec 31, 2024

Around this time of year, people begin to evaluate their life choices and circumstances. Relationships are no different. It’s a great to reflect on what is working well, what isn’t, and maybe even what is no longer worth pursuing. In fact, many people find themselves in break-ups, separation, and divorce on the tail-end of the holidays.

My guest today, Licensed Therapist, John Kim, joins me to talk about the different types of break-ups and breakdowns that occur in romantic relationships. But we also talk about common themes you see in ending relationships (and, how to avoid them), the differences between healthy and unhealthy love, how ruptures in a relationship can lead to some of the biggest relational breakthroughs, how to communicate what you need without coming across needy, obnoxious, or over-bearing, and so much more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Episode Introduction 00:40 – The Reality of Breakups 01:50 – Intentionality in Relationships 03:19 – Types of Breakups: Understanding the Differences 07:09 – Healthy vs. Unhealthy Love 10:59 – Turning Breakups into Breakthroughs 15:15 – Balancing Self-Discipline and Self-Compassion 18:52 – Living in the Moment vs. Pursuing Goals 23:49 – Embracing Solitude and Self-Discovery 27:50 – Compromise vs. Self-Abandonment in Relationships 33:11 – Repairing Ruptures: Building Trust in Relationships 39:00 – Rewriting Your Narrative and Emotional Growth 43:12 – Swimming Past the Breakers: Building Resilient Love 50:09 – Reflecting on Expired Relationships 53:47 – 31 Days to Rebuild: A Practical Approach to Healing 57:19 – Therapy, Coaching, and Corrective Experiences

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The 3-Part Formula for Starting Something New | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Dec 27, 2024

What if you could unlock the secret to overcoming fear and achieving success using a simple formula? In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unpacks a powerful three-part strategy designed to conquer the fear, uncertainty, and doubt holding many back from reaching their full potential. In this episode, Ryan emphasizes the importance of mindset, exploring how authenticity and a genuine self-assessment can help combat imposter syndrome. He discusses how harnessing past achievements can pave the way for future triumphs while offering practical advice on managing expectations and timelines to avoid discouragement.

Learning from the greats like Elon Musk, Ryan delves into the art of effective mentorship and growth practices. He guides you through the world of free and paid resources that can help elevate your personal and professional journey. Hear personal stories about the pitfalls of ego and defensiveness, and discover how openness to feedback can supercharge your progress. By prioritizing guidance from those who've succeeded before you, this episode offers valuable insights into building a robust foundation for innovation and achievement.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:47) Overcoming Fear and Finding Success (08:57) Effective Mentorship and Growth Practices (14:32) The Three-Part Formula for Success (23:14) Social Media Growth and Holiday Greetings

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Mental Resilience, High Stress, and a Winning Mindset | ASK ME ANYTHING Dec 25, 2024

In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle a variety of thought-provoking topics, including mindfulness, overcoming resistance, and the impact of hustle culture on leadership. They share insights on planning for 2025, managing holiday stress, and navigating personal growth. With engaging viewer questions and practical strategies for improvement, this episode offers valuable lessons for anyone striving to lead a more intentional life. Ryan and Kipp also discuss the benefits of the Iron Council and how it supports men in their journey to success.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Episode Introduction 00:40 – Headlines 09:25 – Mindfulness and Overcoming Resistance 19:00 – Planning and Measuring Goals for 2025 28:00 – Managing Holiday Stress and Anxiety 37:29 – Reflecting on the Year with a Defining Word 45:28 – Tackling New Challenges with the Right Mindset 49:19 – Hustle Culture and Its Impact on Leadership 53:20 – Leadership Strategies in Adverse Situations 01:03:49 – Iron Council and the Power of Community

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Dan Hollaway | How to Become a Better Citizen Dec 24, 2024

It seems to me that we’re, collectively, waking up from a decades-long slumber as Americans. Maybe it’s that we can’t stand to see the direction of the country or, perhaps, it’s a pure level of disdain and animosity towards our elected officials. Either way, it’s good to see us getting more interested and involved than we have the in the past.

My guest today, host of the Citizen Podcast and The Drinkin’ Bros Podcast, Dan Hollaway joins me to talk about not only our rights as citizens but our obligations and responsibilities. We talk about what it means to be a good citizen, why we seem to get the worst of our people in politics, how to change the tide of American politics and culture through “State Nullification,” why there are no rights without associated responsibilities, and the power of and ways men can get involved.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Episode Introduction 00:30 – Scheduling Challenges 01:51 – The 24-Hour News Cycle and Media Speculation 03:49 – Principles of Debate and the Charity of Interpretation 07:09 – Hanlon’s Razor and Understanding Motives 08:06 – Resilience and Defense in Depth 12:24 – Food Industry Issues and Individual Knowledge 13:56 – Second Amendment and Government Overreach 18:37 – Politicians, Power, and Distrust 23:30 – Nullification and State Rights 29:46 – Building Community and Supporting Local Efforts 37:58 – Local Politics and the Power of School Boards 42:25 – The Good Samaritan and Finding Purpose 49:41 – Aspirational Heroes and Cultural Responsibility 58:06 – Acting as the Man You Want to Be 01:01:27 – Closing Thoughts on Masculinity and Doing the Right Thing

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Keep Calm and Be a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Dec 20, 2024

Unlock the secret to unwavering composure and master the art of staying calm even in the most challenging situations. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler offers eight actionable tips to cultivate calmness, teaching you how to manage emotional regulation effectively. Harness this skill to enhance decision-making and leadership capabilities, ensuring you navigate crises and emotional exchanges confidently and clearly.

Understanding and managing personal triggers is crucial for maintaining a stress-free life. Ryan discusses techniques for identifying triggers and minimizing their impact, allowing you to control reactions and avoid overwhelm. Simplifying your life becomes the pathway to success, as we emphasize setting boundaries and focusing on key objectives.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:28) Maintaining Calm in Difficult Situations (04:20) Living Your Life With Purpose (17:04) Identifying and Managing Triggers (20:59) Simplifying Life for Success (31:50) The Iron Council for Brotherhood

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Overcoming Regrets, Why Mission Solves Everything, and Why Young Men Need Responsibility | ASK ME ANYTHING Dec 18, 2024

In this week's "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle the headline topics of overcoming regrets, the power of mission, and why young men need responsibility. They share practical advice on finding purpose, building emotional resilience, and learning from life’s challenges.

Viewers’ questions include reflections on Christmas traditions, dating after divorce, goal-setting for young men, and personal achievements. Packed with humor, heartfelt moments, and actionable insights, this episode delivers a thought-provoking discussion on growth, responsibility, and becoming the man you’re meant to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:44 - Opening and Catching Up 06:13 - The Blackmail Systems in Politics 07:30 - Foreign Drones and Government Responses 14:50 - Best and Worst Christmas Presents 21:18 - Contribution Quadrant Goals 26:28 - Overcoming Regrets and Turning Them Into Growth 36:37 - Family Traditions for Christmas and New Year's 40:21 - Greatest Achievements of 2024 48:17 - Tactics to Overcome Self-Consciousness 57:16 - Tips for Dating in Your 30s 1:03:52 - Goal-Setting for Young Men: Responsibility and Resilience 1:09:23 - Call to Action and Closing Remarks

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NICK BRYANT | How Political Blackmail Exacerbates Sex Scandals Dec 17, 2024

We are without a shortage of sex scandals from Jeffrey Epstein to P. Diddy and, now implicated Jay-Z. But sex scandals from the highest echelons of entertainment, social elites, and political juggernauts are nothing new. In fact, Alexander Hamilton was once outed for having an affair with a married woman and Thomas Jefferson was proven to have been sleeping with his slave.

Unfortunately, the trend continues with seemingly increasing high profile cases against these villains and their sexual improprieties. Today, I’m joined by investigative journalist, Nick Bryant to talk about his decades-long work against child sex-trafficking. Today, Nick and I talk about the similarities between Epstein and Diddy, why and how these blackmailing strategies turn into political weapons and assets, why these pedophiles get caught when they do, and what a man can do to protect his loved ones and serve a greater calling to destroy these rats.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (03:45) Child Trafficking and Sexual Exploitation Investigation (15:08) Political Blackmail and Power Networks (27:19) Exposing Political Blackmail and Corruption (40:10) Media Manipulation and Government Corruption (54:06) Criminal Links and Government Corruption (01:00:35) Maintaining Integrity in Investigative Journalism

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Men: Masters of Disguise | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Dec 13, 2024

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delves into the challenges men face as they navigate mental, emotional, and spiritual struggles while often hiding behind a "Master of Disguise." Learn how to drop the bravado, build meaningful relationships, and address these challenges head-on.

From fostering accountability to setting purposeful goals, this episode offers actionable insights to help you grow into the man you’re meant to be. Discover the importance of investing in yourself and embracing vulnerability in appropriate ways, all while striving for strength and balance.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 01:41 - Addressing Mental and Emotional Struggles 06:05 - Building Supportive Friendships 10:25 - Being the Friend You Need 18:05 - Fitness as a Mental and Emotional Anchor 20:32 - Hobbies That Uplift and Challenge 24:09 - Setting Purposeful Goals 28:38 - Dropping the Armor: Final Thoughts

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An Appeal to Authority, How Men Are Respected, and Ruthless Assertiveness | ASK ME ANYTHING Dec 11, 2024

In this week's "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan and Kipp dive into thought-provoking discussions on authority, respect, and assertiveness. They unpack the dangers of blindly appealing to authority, explore how men value respect in relationships, and share practical advice on cultivating a growth mindset in hiring and dating.

Listener questions cover diverse topics, including fostering accountability in teenagers, strengthening marriages, and finding motivation for personal and professional growth. With powerful insights, humor, and actionable takeaways, this episode is a must-listen for men striving to lead with purpose and conviction.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:40 - Opening 02:43 - Headlines: COVID Report Insights 12:57 - Listener Question: Growth Mindset in Hiring and Dating 28:12 - Plans for 2025 and Daily Non-Negotiables 37:24 - Book Recommendations 42:33 - Advice: Career, Marriage, and Kids 53:11 - Addressing Teenage Accountability 01:02:48 - Marriage Challenges and Staying Together 01:08:18 - Turning Wants Into Needs and Finding Motivation 01:14:18 - Closing Remarks

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JOSH SMITH | Breaking Foreign Supply Chains Through American-Made Dec 10, 2024

It’s no secret that, during COVID, we began to see how bad the foreign supply chain crisis was. That woke a lot of people up to the reality of importing cheap products from overseas, adversarial countries. But we’ve spent the last century closing American manufacturing facilities and exporting our American jobs overseas. With new potential tariffs (which I believe are more of an economic bargaining tool to Trump), we again are starring down the barrel of high prices for everyday goods.

That’s part of the reason, I love what Josh Smith, Founder of Montana Knife Company is doing in a small town called Frenchtown in Montana. He’s putting Americans to work building American products – specifically, hunting, tactical, and culinary knives. Today we talk about the challenges with starting American-Made companies, what you’re likely to hear from competitors when you do, why growth isn’t always so linear and there are no overnight successes, why foreign markets are unfair business partnerships, and learning to build a business from the ground up – literally.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Building Relationships and Hunting Stories (11:08) Knife Making and Hunting Stories (15:37) Special Forces Knife Design Inspiration (21:43) Examining Veteran Stories and Critique (27:48) Balancing Public Image and Personal Life (35:50) Knife Making Ethics and Production (45:58) American Manufacturing, Tariffs, and Government Spending (59:17) Building American Manufacturing and Relationships

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How to Get More Respect | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Dec 06, 2024

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler dives into the essential steps to earn true respect in every area of life—personal relationships, career, and self-worth. Highlighting the importance of boundaries, effective communication, consistency, and character, he shares actionable advice for building a reputation that commands admiration.

From managing your time and commitments to making confident decisions, Ryan unpacks how respect is cultivated through intentional actions rather than empty words. Listeners will also learn the "confidence-competence continuum" and why dressing, speaking, and presenting yourself matter.

Whether for work or home, these principles empower you to become a man worthy of respect.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - Introduction
00:07 - The Love Language of Men is Respect
02:56 - Establishing Boundaries
07:37 - Effective Communication
12:12 - Following Through on Commitments
14:58 - Presenting Yourself Well
23:01 - The Power of Consistency
26:19 - Building Character Through Small Actions
30:36 - Acting with the Right Motives
34:45 - The Confidence-Competence Continuum
37:51 - The Importance of Decision-Making
44:05 - Final Thoughts and Iron Council Promotion
44:59 - Call to Action and Episode Closing

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Consumerism, Guilty Consciences, and Crippling Anxiety | ASK ME ANYTHING Dec 04, 2024

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a candid discussion about the relentless cycle of consumerism, exploring how modern holiday traditions have strayed from their meaningful roots. They share insights on battling guilt when taking personal time and the importance of setting boundaries to balance self-care and family commitments.

Tackling anxiety in relationships, they offer practical advice for fostering mutual growth and understanding. The duo also discusses the profound impact of teaching responsibility to children and how intentional goal-setting can transform personal and professional lives.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 - Intro and Thanksgiving Reflections 02:10 - The Problem with Modern Consumerism 06:15 - Knowledge vs. Application 19:07 - Teaching Kids Responsibility 27:15 - Extreme Ownership: When Is It Too Much? 42:44 - Navigating Anxiety in Relationships 52:15 - Goals That Move the Needle 58:19 - Dealing with Guilt Over Self-Care 1:04:33 - Staying Patient During Chaos 1:19:26 - Closing Thoughts

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BEAR HANDLON | Too Dumb to Fail? Dec 03, 2024

One thing I’ve noticed with the over 500 guests I’ve had on the podcast is that they’re all relentless in their chosen pursuit. I’ve also noticed that all of them think they’re too dumb (to some degree) to fail – meaning they realize how crucial it is to be stubborn and hard-headed enough to keep going when all the “smart” people would quit.

My guest today, former Navy SEAL and founder of Born Primitive, Bear Handlon, is no exception. Today, Bear and I talk about cutting against the grain, why the VA is failing our veterans, why so many men are unwilling to take risks in their lives, how he would have done things differently, and when to burn the boats.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Episode Intro (01:08) Guest Introduction (04:47) Supporting Veterans Through Debt Relief (13:53) Navigating VA Healthcare System Challenges (17:16) Taking Advantage of Veteran Benefits (24:55) The Realities of Entrepreneurship (33:34) Balancing Side Hustle and Relationships (45:13) Following Passion Despite Family Opposition (47:49) Entrepreneurial Reflections and Risk-Taking (54:12) Embracing Risk and Business Evolution (01:06:09) Supporting Veterans Through Authentic Brands

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A Heart of Gratitude | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Nov 29, 2024

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler dives into the transformative power of gratitude. Reflecting on personal struggles and triumphs, Ryan shares how gratitude has shaped his journey through life’s challenges.

From personal relationships to professional growth, gratitude serves as a lens to reframe adversity and embrace opportunities. Ryan explores how choosing gratitude can unlock growth, resilience, and connection in both personal and collective pursuits.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00: Episode Intro 00:40: Opening and reflections on Thanksgiving 02:45: Personal gratitude for family and loved ones 03:53: Gratitude in struggles and growth through adversity 06:17: Finding common ground in societal challenges 07:46: Vision for 2025 and community achievements 08:35: Closing thoughts on gratitude and perspective

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Establishing Boundaries, Father Legacy, and Networking Properly | ASK ME ANYTHING Nov 27, 2024

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle meaningful networking, managing emotional resilience, balancing parental involvement, and setting boundaries for peaceful family gatherings. They explore what it means to be a man, honoring traditions, and building trust while fostering growth in others.

From navigating life’s challenges with empathy to modeling leadership in everyday interactions, this conversation offers actionable insights and thought-provoking discussions for personal and professional growth.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Introduction (00:40) Headlines (07:42) The Importance of Transparency in Leadership (18:38) Question: Networking for Success (30:14) Question: Supporting Others Through Suffering (38:23) Question: Balancing Parental Involvement (46:46) Question: Setting Boundaries for Holiday Gatherings (01:00:16) Question: What It Means to Be a Good Man (01:09:10) Thanksgiving Traditions and Reflections (01:16:25) Closing Thoughts and Call to Action

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SATHIYA SAM | How Porn Destroys Masculinity Nov 26, 2024

Every man listening to this podcast has been exposed to pornography. I remember the first time I saw a Playboy (it was a certain Baywatch actress) when I was 12-years-old. It changed my life and, not in a good way. At the time, I thought it did but all the research suggests that the sooner a young man is introduced to pornography, the more challenges with it he’ll likely face. Your story is probably not so different.

My guest today, Sathiya Sam, has made a movement out of helping men overcome their pornography addictions. And, on today’s podcast, we talk about the crucial distinction between shame and guilt (and, which one you can use to effect change), why porn is considered a “supernormal stimulant,” why tracking abstinence streaks don’t work but tracking trends do, the role of legislation in combating the pornography industry, and the four most damaging factors to your health when consuming porn.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (03:00) Breaking the Shame Cycle (08:38) Effects of Pornography on Empathy (19:51) Unlearning Pornographic Influences in Marriage (24:04) Reversing Pornography's Effects (34:27) Roots-Based Approach to Recovery (47:34) Impact of Technology on Intimacy (52:40) Fatherhood, Empathy, and Pornography Recovery (57:04) Role of Legislation in Combating Pornography (01:05:54) Recovery Resources for Porn Addiction

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Why So Mad? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Nov 22, 2024

Anger isn’t the enemy—it’s how we respond to it that matters. In this episode, Ryan Michler dives deep into understanding and managing anger, exploring why it arises and how it can be transformed into a productive force. He shares six powerful strategies to help you regulate emotions, bridge the integrity gap, and align your actions with your values. Whether it’s dealing with family, work, or personal challenges, learn how to turn anger into a tool for growth, leadership, and lasting impact.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:48 - The Nature of Anger 02:36 - Responding Positively to Anger 04:45 - Courage to Disengage 06:57 - Bridging the Integrity Gap 12:00 - Eliminating Agitators 16:44 - Lowering Expectations, Not Standards 19:49 - Focusing on Internal Locus of Control 25:15 - Keeping Your Eye on the Prize 35:12 - Conclusion and Upcoming Episode

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Being the Mean Dad, Networking for Work, and Dealing with Difficult Conversations | ASK ME ANYTHING Nov 20, 2024

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler tackles tough but essential topics, including how to navigate difficult conversations with loved ones, balance nurturing and discipline as a parent, and build a strong network to reignite your career.

He explores strategies for boosting self-esteem through meaningful commitments, setting boundaries in relationships, and handling the emotional challenges of parenting. From tips on starting over professionally to finding common ground in contentious discussions, this Ask Me Anything session delivers actionable insights for personal growth and leadership.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:45) Accountability in Government Spending (07:52) Morning Routine and Building Confidence (11:25) Maintaining Commitments and Addressing Anti-Semitism (25:22) Navigating Difficult Conversations and Boundaries (31:29) Financial Stability and Relationship Communication (41:53) Parenting and Nurturing Adolescents (53:54) Family Dynamics and Communication Strategies (59:58) Supporting YouTube Growth and Connectivity

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What’s The Deal With Men’s Mental Health? With John Delony Nov 19, 2024

Men’s mental health is an issue that is getting a lot more attention than even when I started this podcast just 9 years ago. In fact, men are falling behind in so many metrics from graduation and college attendance rates, to declining health, incarceration, and even suicide rates. But what is causing this rising trend in the demise of men’s mental, physical, and emotion health?

My guest, John Delony, is here to explain some of the biggest culprits in the modern issues that plague so many men. Today, we talk about the paradox of empathy and toughness as we relate to each other and children, the importance of making “line-in-the-stand” commitments, the difference between complacency and satisfaction, why men need to work on projects together, and why “all in,” is the only way to live.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Episode Intro (04:15) Father-Son Hunting Adventures (07:45) Building Emotional Resilience in Parenting (18:59) Navigating Modern Relationships and Commitment (28:34) Navigating Risk and Satisfaction in Life (40:49) Finding Anchoring in a Lost Generation (44:33) Building Brotherhood Through Shared Responsibility (51:33) Navigating Male Mental Health Challenges (58:25) Knowing One's Self-Worth and Masculinity (01:05:50) The Importance of Authenticity and Courage

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Lessons Learned in Divorce | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Nov 15, 2024

Can recognizing relationship red flags early save a marriage? In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler reflects on lessons from his 18-year marriage and divorce, emphasizing how minor issues, if ignored, can snowball into major challenges.

He highlights the power of proactive communication and self-growth. Ryan shares strategies for navigating divorce with grace, focusing on personal responsibility, parenting, and self-care, while avoiding spiteful behavior.

He also explores male empowerment and collective growth, offering insights from friends like Keith Yackey to inspire hope, resilience, and a thriving future.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:38) Lessons Learned From Personal Divorce (10:39) Moving Forward After Divorce (15:41) Navigating Divorce With Grace and Purpose (21:50) Empowering Men Through Collective Growth

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External Validation, Liberals and Conservatives, and the Void in Leadership | ASK ME ANYTHING Nov 13, 2024

In this week's Ask me Anything, Ryan and Kipp discuss the meticulous preparation required for bow hunting and share a personal story of a missed opportunity that underscores the importance of vigilance and readiness. It's a broader reflection on the life lesson of embracing new opportunities, even when they come with uncertainties. They also touch on the recent political shifts in the U.S., expressing optimism about the change in leadership with Trump's election victory, while also acknowledging some concerns about his character.

Next, they tackle the intricacies of government spending and the implications of executive orders, drawing parallels to Elon Musk's acquisition of Twitter as a model for efficient operations. The discussion broadens to consider the concept of nationwide reciprocity for concealed carry permits, emphasizing the need for legislative processes to curb presidential overreach. By exploring voter motivations in the 2020 election, they highlight the importance of understanding different perspectives, fostering a more empathetic political discourse.

In the final chapters, they shift gears to explore leadership, personal growth, and community engagement. From the formation of regional teams within the Iron Council to the power of delegation and support, they emphasize the importance of creating environments where others can lead and innovate. They examine the balance between external validation and self-worth, providing insights into how personal experiences shape our motivations and resilience. Finally, they highlight the value of regional meetups and the opportunities for connection within the Order of Man community, inviting listeners to join them for future discussions and insights.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) Episode Intro - (00:45) Trump's Election Victory and Policy Impact - (08:49) Government Spending, Reciprocity, and Executive Orders - (15:30) Chain of Command in Iron Council - (25:20) Leadership Through Delegation and Support - (33:23) Balancing External Validation and Self-Worth - (44:58) Exploring New Literature and Political Alignments - (49:09) Political Alignment and Independent Thinking - (01:01:36) Balancing Fun and Exercise - (01:05:18) Regional Meetups and Community Connection

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RICKSON GRACIE | The Art and Science of Invisible Jiu-Jitsu Nov 12, 2024

You guys have heard me talk about Jiu-Jitsu ad nauseum but what you may not have heard me talk too much about is the often-overlooked invisible form of the martial art that has taken over the world of MMA and combat sports. This is not about submitting or disabling an opponent on the mats but how the lessons learned on the mats apply to your everyday life.

I can think of no better person to share his knowledge and depth of experience than one of the toughest men in the “First Family” of Jiu-Jitsu, Rickson Gracie. Today, Rickson and I talk about managing fear, how to find a mission more important than your life, how to keep your identity secure although you may lose one element of who you are, the importance of a balanced approach to being a warrior, why base on the mats and off is so crucial, and the power of respecting and honoring your intuition.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Adapting Positively to Life's Challenges (08:43) Harnessing Fear for Success (17:31) Embracing Legacy and Overcoming Challenges (25:29) The Power of Invisible Jiu-Jitsu (40:48) Intuitive Decision Making and Relationships (57:43) The Last Fight of Inspiration

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"Toxic Masculinity” Stereotypes | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Nov 08, 2024

Ryan Michler believes traditional masculinity isn’t inherently toxic; it’s simply misunderstood. In this episode, he unravels the complexities surrounding toxic masculinity, challenging the myths that paint masculinity as harmful. Drawing on a pivotal 2019 study by the American Psychological Association, Ryan highlights the critical need for a balanced understanding of masculinity’s role in society, emphasizing that traditional masculine traits—when constructively channeled—can bring comfort, security, and innovation.

Ryan’s discussion explores men and women as complementary forces, underscoring the indispensable contributions of men to societal progress. He delves into “righteous aggression,” a principle that advocates for assertive yet patient action against wrongdoing. By clarifying misconceptions around stoicism, he shows that it’s about emotional regulation rather than suppression, fostering resilience and enhancing communication.

Through personal stories, Ryan demonstrates the power of true masculinity in protection, provision, and leadership. He calls on men to be role models who redefine masculinity by embodying strength through positive actions, helping create a culture where authentic masculinity is celebrated and visible.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Addressing Toxic Masculinity Misconceptions (16:36) The Principles of Righteous Aggression (29:56) Embodying True Masculinity Through Example

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Non-Traditional Men’s Therapy, Leaders Getting Out of The Way, and Why Consequences Matter | ASK ME ANYTHING Nov 06, 2024

Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson explore Hickson Gracie's influence on MMA and how his dominance, despite not competing in early UFC events, laid the foundation for the sport. They discuss the Gracie family’s strategic choice of Royce Gracie to showcase jiu-jitsu’s power through a smaller fighter in the first UFC and examine early MMA's bare-knuckle fighting style and its impact on safety and techniques.

The conversation then shifts to men’s mental health, as they advocate for hobbies like jiu-jitsu or hiking as therapy alternatives. They also touch on leadership and parenting, focusing on resilience, autonomy, and stress’s role in growth, while promoting personal agency in belief systems and institutions.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Hickson Gracie's Impact on MMA (07:46) Men's Resistance to Traditional Therapy (18:21) Parenting and Shaping Resilience in Children (30:34) Empowering Leadership Through Trust and Respect (35:55) Leadership Through Autonomy and Ownership (41:51) Parenting With Discipline and Love (53:58) Personal Sovereignty and Agency in Belief

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ROBIN DREEKE | Forging Unbreakable Alliances Nov 05, 2024

We all know how crucial it is to build alliances in our lives and, yet, most men aren’t real deliberate and intentional about how they do it. Think about it, most of your connections are a product of default proximity, not rational design – your neighbor, your brother, the guy that works down the hall from you, etc.

So, how do you form and nurture these strategic relationships. Robin Dreeke joins me today to share his knowledge as a former FBI behavioral analysist, and spy recruiter. We discuss the power of non-judgmental curiosity, the 4 keys of effective communication, how to analyze a person’s behaviors and motives quickly, including an analysis of the positive and negative characteristics of both Kamala Harris and Donald Trump, how to strategize trust with others, and why some men can read people well while others can’t.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (03:40) The Power of Human Connection (16:06) Building Balanced Reciprocal Relationships (22:15) Navigating Controversial Conversations With Empathy (30:33) Assessing Emotional vs Pragmatic Conversations (38:09) Assessing Personalities Beyond Script and Media (43:57) Assessing People Through Ground Truth (53:26) Strategizing Trust in Intelligence Operations (01:04:45) Promoting "Unbreakable Alliances" With Robin Dreeke

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How to Influence People (And, Why You Should) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Nov 01, 2024

Is influence different from manipulation, or just a different shade? In this episode, Ryan Michler breaks down the art of building true influence, essential for leaders in any realm—family, business, or community. Through ten practical strategies grounded in integrity, Ryan explores how influence can elevate our interactions by aligning personal goals with broader values, creating outcomes that benefit everyone involved.

Influence isn’t just for the workplace; it’s woven into daily life, from guiding your kids to closing deals. With relatable examples—from Donald Trump’s connection with blue-collar voters to Kamala Harris’s attempts at relatability—Ryan uncovers the power of genuine connection, honesty, and setting clear boundaries. By leading with care and maintaining consistency, we can build trust-filled relationships that last.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Building Influence With Integrity (04:38) The Power of Honesty and Influence (14:36) Solving Problems Through Connection (19:31) Connecting Through Relatability (23:08) Firm and Fair Approach in Relationships (33:34) Be a Man of Your Word (37:45) Consistency Builds Trust

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The Difference Between Quitting and Pivoting, Application Over Knowledge, & Maintaining Priorities | ASK ME ANYTHING Oct 30, 2024

Navigating life's challenges with integrity and purpose requires a commitment to personal priorities. By allowing children to face their own obstacles, we nurture resilience and growth. Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore the importance of honest self-assessment and celebrate others' achievements as sources of inspiration rather than envy. The idea is to stay true to our paths, even amidst external pressures, ensuring that our decisions reflect what truly matters to us.

Finally, Ryan and Kipp embrace the chaos of daily life with strategies that emphasize moral integrity and personal growth. They reflect on the balance between discipline and flexibility, whether it's about maintaining workout routines on vacation or making healthier choices while dining out.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:40) Episode Intro - (00:40) Hunting Mindset and Resilience Teachings - (09:56) Prioritizing Growth and Personal Development - (17:31) The Power of Pivoting - (29:15) Balancing Discipline and Practical Application - (38:00) Navigating Overthinking and Overaction - (51:43) Maintaining Moral Integrity in Chaos - (57:38) Battle Against the Natural Man - (01:05:24) Man Camp Experience

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JEFFERSON FISHER | How to Communicate Like a Man Oct 29, 2024

I’ve made it a personal rule, when I’m offended, to chalk it up to people’s inability to communicate effectively. It’s proven to be useful and, typically, correct. But how can the activity we engage in more than anything else (with the exception of sleep) be something so many men are horribly deficient with?

That’s a question my guest, Jefferson Fisher, has spend decades understanding and, over the last several years, teaching over 10,000,000 of his social media followers how to address. Today Jefferson and I talk about avoiding miscommunication, how to be assertive in communication – but not an asshole, when diplomacy and advocacy connect and contradict, why learning not to, “take the bait” of others will serve you, learning the rules of the communication game, and why control, confidence, and connection will set you apart.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) Episode Intro - (03:40) Effective Communication and Assertive Conversations - (18:10) Direct Communication for Difficult Conversations - (22:48) Respectful and Considerate Communication Skills - (34:09) Navigating Egos in Professional Interactions - (46:16) Personal Rules and Self-Advocacy in Communication - (55:04) Parenting and Professional Likability - (01:00:09) Authentic Communication and Self-Evaluation - (01:09:38) Podcast Connection and Shared Mindset

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5 Ways to Bolster Your Confidence as a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Oct 25, 2024

Unlock the keys to unshakable confidence and self-assurance in this episode of Friday Field Notes, where Ryan Michlers tells us how to harness the power of self-validation over external approval. Discover the profound impact of honoring personal commitments and how they lay the foundation for integrity and resilience, propelling you toward genuine influence and opportunity. Ryan deep dives into the importance of understanding the motives behind your successes and the true value of building confidence through self-awareness and introspection.

Expect actionable insights that will help you reflect on your journey and steer it toward self-growth and improvement.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Building Confidence and Security as Men (15:21) Strengthening Confidence and Security (22:43) MensForge

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Rigging the Election, Owning Unnecessary Stuff, and Showing Up Powerfully | ASK ME ANYTHING Oct 23, 2024

This Ask Me Anything episode dives into critical themes of election rigging, the burden of owning unnecessary stuff, and showing up powerfully. Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore how misleading FBI crime statistics and media manipulation erode public trust, impacting political narratives and elections.

Transparency and active participation are essential in fighting this, and they challenge listeners to engage fully in the democratic process. Personal growth is also discussed, emphasizing that investing in experiences, relationships, and self-improvement leads to deeper fulfillment than material possessions.

From political engagement to simplifying life and focusing on what truly matters, Ryan and Kipp encourage everyone to take action and commit to their personal and societal roles with integrity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Trust, Transparency, and Manipulation (10:47) Importance of Political Involvement (17:38) Interview Preparation and Taking Initiative (26:04) National Sovereignty and Financial Control (38:48) Commitment and Progress in Life (45:09) Investments in Fulfillment and Happiness (54:54) Inclusivity in the Iron Council (01:04:11) Men's Forge Collaboration Event Announcement

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DR. WARREN FARRELL | Male Privilege/Power: Fact or Fiction? Oct 22, 2024

Many of us have been accused of perpetuating the concept of male privilege and male power. Heaven forbid a man uses his God-given talents and abilities to lift his people up. But too many misguided and damaged souls tend to see only the worst parts of the men in their vicinity or, on social media and in the bright light of the entertainment industry. Those men, in no way, are indicative of the general consensus of men and, yet, many still view men as the premier problem in society today.

My guest today, Dr. Warren Farrell, helps unpack why that is not the case and, if anything how genuine men are the cure to many of the ailments of modern times. We talk about why “men’s issues” are not just men’s issues, the differences in what language men and women speak, the male equivalents of the feminist movement, why men are more interested in garnering respect than love, the dreaded “V-word” (vulnerability), and 6 mindsets to form powerful connections between men and women.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (04:10) The Boy Crisis and Male Identity (14:54) Reframing Power and Responsibility in Men (29:18) Gender Dynamics in Communication and Relationships (41:47) Improving Communication in Relationships (53:10) The Art of Non-Defensive Communication (01:04:01) Deepening Love Through Relationship Practices (01:13:16) Enhancing Relationships Through Active Listening

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Anxiously Engaged in the Fight | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Oct 18, 2024

Unlock the secret to choosing battles that truly matter and become the hero of your own story. In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the powerful notion of being "anxiously engaged in the fight," inspired by Mormon doctrine, and how it can guide us in aligning our efforts with personal beliefs and societal impact.

Discover five essential strategies to ensure your fight is both meaningful and successful, as we discuss the concept of personal sovereignty and the pursuit of worthy causes.

Hear Ryan's personal anecdotes that illustrate the power of enlisting allies who believe in you, reinforcing the significance of support systems in the battles you choose to engage in. Tune in for an inspiring episode filled with insights that will empower you to tackle your chosen battles with clarity and conviction.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:42) Episode Intro (00:42) Anxiously Engaged (14:32) Battle Strategy and Allies in Victory

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Challenging Polls, Cherishing Legacies, and Embracing Personal Growth | ASK ME ANYTHING Oct 16, 2024

In an era of manipulated narratives, skepticism towards polling reliability is crucial, urging us to make informed voting decisions based on what matters. We encourage seeking information from trusted sources while avoiding mainstream distractions, inspired by figures like RFK, Tulsi Gabbard, and Elon Musk.

Shifting focus, we delve into the art of storytelling and the importance of preserving family legacies, especially narratives tied to significant historical events like World War II. By documenting these stories, we aim to inspire future generations to connect with their roots.

Additionally, we explore personal growth through evolving goals and embracing challenges, highlighting Covey's principles on productivity. We stress adaptability and the importance of viewing challenges as opportunities for growth, and overcoming obstacles.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:38) Importance of Staying Informed and Voting (10:43) Reflecting on Family Legacies and Growth (22:04) Evolving Goals and Personal Growth (27:28) Overcoming Organizational Hurdles for Success (31:18) Embracing Unreasonable Actions for Growth (34:57) Personal Growth and Embracing Transformation (41:53) Embracing Growth Through Challenges (56:05) Leadership, Success, and Personal Growth (01:04:55) Wedding Stress and Post-Workout Nutrition

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ANDREW KLAVAN | In a Degenerate Culture, Create Your Own Oct 15, 2024

Take a quick look around you and you’ll easily see the degradation of the family, the undermining of both masculinity and femininity, the perversion of virtue and even things like “man” and “woman”, and the dismantling of societal norms that have served the world for good for centuries. It’s not hard to see that in many ways, some of our most influential institutions (government, academia, entertainment, and medicine) are actively working against us.

My guest today, author and cultural commentator, Andrew Klavan joins me to talk about what is happening in society today and what, we as men, can do about it. We discuss extreme feminism and the male equivalent – Red Pill and MGTOW, the difference between happiness, fulfillment, and joy (and which to pursue), why men like Andrew Tate have come to influence millions of men – and why that’s not a good thing, how the powers that be are getting people to turn against each other, and so much more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (04:06) - Debating Gender Roles in Society (13:18) - Rejecting Toxic Gender Expectations (23:21) - Navigating Perceptions of Masculinity and Femininity (27:12) - Navigating Personal Morality and Accountability (39:04) - Spiritual Transformation and Interfaith Respect (45:24) - Exploring Gender Dynamics in Fiction (58:00) - Exploring Moral Principles and Atheism (01:07:26) - Personal Reflections on Writing and Connection

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Masculinity Vs. Manliness | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Oct 11, 2024

Join Ryan Michler as he explores the distinction between masculinity and manliness, a conversation that goes beyond mere semantics. Drawing insights from our social media followers, he discusses how masculinity often encompasses inherent traits like dominance and competitiveness, while manliness is about applying these traits through cultural, moral, and ethical lenses.

By sharing various perspectives and definitions, Ryan illustrates that masculinity is a birthright, but manliness must be earned through responsible and positive actions. This conversation encourages a broader discussion on how men can effectively cultivate these attributes to benefit themselves and others.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Introduction to Masculinity vs. Manliness Discussion (03:24) - Listener Quotes on Masculinity vs. Manliness (04:27) - Defining Masculinity and Manliness (05:28) - Masculinity as Biological Traits (06:38) - Manliness as Earned Characteristics (07:35) - Good Man vs. Good at Being a Man (08:22) - The Importance of the Distinction (09:38) - Masculinity as an Amoral Tool (10:21) - Appropriate vs. Misuse of Aggression (11:47) - Manliness: Applying Masculine Traits for Good (13:14) - Final Thoughts on Masculinity vs. Manliness

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Men Want Respect, Why Feminism Fails Men and Women, and How to Raise Boys Into Men | ASK ME ANYTHING Oct 09, 2024

This is our first-ever Order of Man Live Q and A! Let us know if you have any questions.

This episode examines how faith and personal values help navigate adversity, highlighting the role of community support and leadership during crises. It explores the importance of aligning actions with principles, drawing on stoicism and religious teachings, and emphasizes the need for honorable individuals to take the lead.

The conversation touches on how societal expectations affect our view of high-value individuals, advocating for deeper connections and critical thinking in relationships. The discussion also delves into modern relationship dynamics, addressing topics like extreme feminism, hookup culture, and the importance of strong male role models.

The episode encourages fostering supportive environments that promote respect, growth, and understanding in relationships.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: (00:00) Disaster Relief Fundraising and Q&A (12:47) Faith, Values, and Principles (21:18) Standards for High-Value Men (34:39) Teaching Boys to Control Rage (48:19) Respecting Men and Building Influence (52:47) Respecting and Supporting Male Partners (57:26) Changing Dynamics in Modern Relationships (01:07:13) Supporting Disaster Relief Efforts

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J.R. MARTINEZ | How Your Scars Shape You Oct 08, 2024

Men, we all have scars. Some are visible. Some are not. Some are physical. And, some are mental and emotional. Regardless of the scars you carry around, the stories behind them have the ability to shape you, for better or worse.

My guest today, 101st Airborne Division Combat Veteran, J.R. Martinez, has easily-seen external scars. But rather than use those scars as an excuse to self-destruct, Martinez has, instead, decided to use the stories and the lessons he’s learned on the road to recovery to make himself a better man. Today, J.R. and I talk about deliberately changing your perspective on life, what he calls, “God Winks,” and how to use them effectively in your life, how to get over perceived emasculation and make yourself into more, crafting a new identity for yourself when the old one is ripped from you, and how a man effectively deals with persecution from others.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Relationship Challenges and Parenthood Success (04:21) Journey to Parenthood and Self-Discovery (09:31) Setting Boundaries With Overprotective Mothers (14:04) Breaking Generational Patterns (26:33) Recognizing Signs and Seizing Opportunities (36:15) Navigating Life's Challenges and Opportunities (40:32) Perspective Shift Through Life's Challenges (50:58) Surviving a Traumatic Military Incident (58:02) Embracing Hope and Optimism (01:09:26) Overcoming Challenges in Public Eye (01:15:05) Finding Hope Through Unexpected Interactions (01:24:43) Embracing Vulnerability and Healing (01:29:32) Navigating Relationships and Overcoming Trauma (01:33:30) Embracing Imperfections and Growth

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Do You Have What it Takes to Lead Well? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Oct 04, 2024

Unlock the secret to powerful leadership by harnessing the strength of emotional intelligence. Society may often cast aside traditional masculine traits, but we're here to reclaim them by understanding what it truly means to embody stability and reliability. This episode highlights the critical role emotional intelligence plays in being a grounding presence for our loved ones and colleagues. We explore how mastering our emotions allows us to remain composed during life's toughest moments, transforming us into the unwavering "rock" that others can lean on.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (00:39) Restoring Masculinity Through Emotional Intelligence (08:19) Developing Emotional Intelligence Through Competence (14:23) Building Trust Through Honest Communication (25:47) Emotional Stability and Leadership in Men

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Red Flags in Women, the Power of Urgency, and the Difference Between Value and Worth | ASK ME ANYTHING Oct 02, 2024

Have you ever felt frustrated by digital communication platforms? In this episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore a structured path to personal growth that cuts through tech barriers. They emphasize self-reliance, positive messaging, and building supportive networks.

Drawing on Chris Williamson’s podcast with Dr. Laith Al-Shawaf, they explore how emotions like fear and love guide us. They also share Josh's story of resilience and highlight practical advice for navigating relationships, setting boundaries, and overcoming personal challenges like alcoholism.

Tune in for actionable insights on growth and self-improvement.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:38) Sense of Urgency and Intentionality (09:35) Emotions and Their Physiological Responses (13:52) Chemicals and Emotions in Relationships (19:53) Parenting and Protecting Children's Minds (25:47) Empowering Children With Boundaries (32:10) Overcoming Alcoholism and Self-Reflection (43:44) Navigating Relationships With Ex-Wives and Girlfriends (56:25) Valuing Relationships and Self-Worth

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KELSI SHEREN | Where Feminism and Vulnerability Go Wrong Oct 01, 2024

This one is going to be a different one for you guys today. For the third time in the history of Order of Man in nearly a decade, we have a woman joining us on the podcast. Kelsi Sheren is a good friend of mine, and she is not afraid to pull punches. We’ve had some very public disagreements about the concept of “Vulnerability,” and “Feminism.” And, I thought, if we’re going to take this movement to the next level, all of us (myself included) need to take ourselves outside our comfort zones.

Today, Kelsi and I discuss masculine energy in women, where the idea of vulnerability falls flat, the difference between feminism and “modern-day feminism,” overcoming fear, why expectations of others just set you up for failure, why honesty and humility may be a better approach relative to vulnerability, where woman and men fail each other and themselves, and so much more.

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(00:00) Episode Intro (02:38) Masculine and Feminine Energy Discussion (15:27) Navigating Vulnerability and Strength (19:50) Desire for Vulnerability and Growth (25:56) Taking Action Towards Personal Growth (29:10) Building Trust and Transparent Communication (35:48) Importance of Clear Communication Expectations (42:22) Therapeutic Coaching Through Transparent Communication (46:59) Navigating Men's Mental Health and Feminism (53:50) Modern Feminism and Victim Mentality (01:03:23) Empowering Women to Find Purpose (01:08:24) Navigating Personal Growth Through Adversity (01:15:36) Empowering Men Through Female Perspective

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7 Signs of Masculine Maturity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 27, 2024

What if mastering your emotions could make you not just a better man, but a stronger leader too? This week on Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unveils the seven signs of masculine maturity, essential for any man aiming to elevate his personal growth and leadership skills. Starting with an inspiring reading of Rudyard Kipling's timeless poem "If," Ryan sets a powerful tone for the first topic: emotional regulation. Through heartfelt personal stories, he reveals the transformative power of understanding and managing your emotions, enabling you to become a more effective protector, provider, and leader within your community and family.

He covers effective communication, emphasizing boldness, assertiveness, and taking full responsibility. It stresses self-care—physically, mentally, and emotionally—as a form of respect. Dressing well reflects pride and respect for your environment.

Ryan explores setting assertive boundaries with respect, maintaining composure in stressful situations, and improving relationships through confidence. Finally, it highlights being service-oriented as a mark of maturity, illustrated by a story about helping at a highway accident to show readiness to serve others.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:38) Signs of Masculine Maturity (14:56) Principles of Masculine Maturity (26:00) Establishing Assertive Boundaries With Respect (29:19) The Importance of Service in Maturity (35:26) Preview Call for Iron Council

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Vigilance, Presence, and Consistency | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 25, 2024

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss the serious implications of an East Coast maritime strike. They delve into the importance of vigilance in adapting to technological disruptions and the necessity of presence in fostering strong relationships.

Drawing parallels between martial arts and life, Ryan emphasizes consistency in personal growth, whether navigating economic uncertainties or emotional resilience post-divorce. Additionally, they explore the complex dilemmas of voting in today's political climate and share practical advice on active listening, setting boundaries, and maintaining emotional stability.

Join Ryan and Kipp for thought-provoking insights and actionable tips for thriving in every area of life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) East Coast Maritime Strike Threat (06:04) Technology, Adaptability, and Learning Opportunities (17:11) Trump, Policy, and the Establishment (31:10) Dating After Marriage (35:15) Learning and Growth After Divorce (39:16) Embracing Life's Hardships for Growth (50:51) Understanding and Communication in Relationships (54:42) Mastering Active Listening and Presence (01:02:22) Prioritizing Others for Self-Validation (01:10:09) Setting Boundaries and Emotional Regulation

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SIMMO | A Primer on Testosterone Sep 24, 2024

Testosterone (T) is a hormone all men are familiar with at this point. It’s become a very hot topic and, whether or not to increase testosterone naturally or with Testosterone Replace Therapy (TRT), has become an increasingly debated question. Testosterone is recognized as the hormone to improve energy, muscle mass, overall health and vitality, and personal performance. My guest today, Simmo, is a man who has become immersed in the world of improving testosterone rates in men and male optimization. Today, we talk about the key strategies of boosting testosterone naturally, at what point a man should consider TRT, what function of the body, if not improved, hinders the processing of testosterone, how your workout might be hindering the production of T, what role the nervous system plays in hormone optimization, and how a brotherhood of men is an often-overlooked factor of overall male health.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Boosting Testosterone Naturally (06:58) Navigating Masculinity After Medical Procedure (13:01) Understanding Testosterone Levels and Nuances (25:06) Holistic Health Approach for Men (33:06) Navigating Social Stigma and Training Intensity (43:03) Optimizing Training and Sleep Quality (54:46) Improving Sleep and Male Relationships (59:53) Syncing Up for Health Benefits

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How to Break Negative Habits | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 20, 2024

Transform your habits and reclaim control over your life! In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler offers a powerful roadmap to identify and overhaul negative behaviors by drawing on the wisdom of "The Power of Habit" by Charles Duhigg and "Atomic Habits" by James Clear. He dissects the three-step formula for understanding habits, focusing on cues, behaviors, and rewards. By recognizing the triggers and rewards that fuel habits like smoking, drinking, or anger, you'll learn how to replace them with healthier, more productive behaviors that align with your goals.

Ryan discusses eight pivotal questions to guide you through moments of weakness, aiding you in staying true to your values and commitments. Whether it's about maintaining fidelity to your spouse or adhering to personal beliefs, these questions are designed to fortify your resolve and help you build habits that serve your long-term well-being.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Introduction to Habit Mastery (08:00) - Identifying and Understanding Temptation (22:08) - Strategies to Combat Immediate Gratification (35:53) - Preview of Upcoming Episode: Hormone Optimization

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Overcoming Arrogance, Building Boundaries, and Getting Humbled | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 18, 2024

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp break down the $35 trillion U.S. national debt, explaining its impact and how each American owes $135,000. They hold political leaders accountable and call for sustainable spending. They also discuss the need for disruption to achieve personal growth, offering tips for early recognition and setting boundaries in relationships.

In leadership, they highlight transparency and turning arrogance into inspiration. For fathers, they suggest activities to bond with homeschooled children, and provide resources like Iron Council to help you grow. Tune in for insights on financial, personal, and relational success.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) US National Debt and Spending Crisis (16:07) Breakdowns and Breakthroughs (26:06) Navigating Boundaries in Relationships (40:49) Building Relationships Through Service (48:00) Power of Transparency in Leadership (00:06:06) Engaging Activities to Support Homeschooling (01:05:09) Discovering Your Path to Manhood

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PETE ROBERTS | Build a 100-Year Plan Sep 17, 2024

So many of us are so easily distracted and sedated by our temptation of choice and the next bright, shiny object. But my guest today makes the case for why building a personal and professional plan that will last centuries leads him to make more virtuous decisions and, not only serves him but generations to come.

His name is Pete Roberts and he is the founder of Origin USA, a 100% made in America manufacturing company built in the backwoods of Maine. Today, we talk about the power of purpose, what it means to be a “cowboy entrepreneur,” how and why we distract and sedate ourselves, why hopelessness and powerlessness are a crippling combination, and doing the right thing for the right reasons.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (03:50) CEO Challenges With Growth and Leadership (15:24) The Power of Purpose in Business (27:22) Financial Planning and Entrepreneurship (31:42) Challenges of Scaling Business Growth (39:46) Long-Term Vision for Business Success (47:00) Building a Brand With Purpose (01:00:07) Friendship and Commitment to Growth

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What Kind of Man Do You Need to Become? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 13, 2024

Unlock the secrets to becoming the man you aspire to be with actionable insights from our latest episode. Ryan Michler delves into the importance of having a clear vision and ask the critical question, "Who do I need to become?" Discover the necessity of specificity in your goals and learn that success is built on deliberate, consistent actions rather than mere luck.

Ryan discusses the concept of the "integrity gap" and shares real-life examples that illustrate how your actions, not just your desires, shape your identity. This is a call to take responsibility and actively work towards bridging the gap between where you are and where you want to be.

In the second part, Ryan explores the essence of masculinity and self-improvement through personal authenticity and deliberate decision-making.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

(00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Becoming the Man You Want (11:43) Defining Masculinity and Self-Improvement

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Exploring Tribalism, Personal Growth, and Strengthening Relationships | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 11, 2024

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen as they explore a myriad of topics ranging from cultural issues to personal growth. This Ask Me Anything episode kicks off with an intriguing look at tribalism and the polarization of social viewpoints, inspired by Matt Walsh's documentary premiere in Nashville.

They tackle controversial subjects like transgenderism and racism, emphasizing the need for diverse perspectives and critical thinking beyond political and ideological lines. Discover the importance of balancing conservative ideologies within mainstream discussions to foster a more inclusive dialogue.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Cultural Tribes and Challenging Conversations (08:33) Internal Growth and Overcoming Challenges (20:50) Navigating Relationship Conflict With Emotional Intelligence (25:14) Family Preparedness and Conflict Resolution (39:01) Personal Growth and Responsibility (44:57) Cultivating a Godly Relationship (56:01) Personal Growth and Conflict Resolution (01:09:03) Jiu-Jitsu Progression and Humility

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Exploring Tribalism, Personal Growth, and Strengthening Relationships | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 11, 2024

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen as they explore a myriad of topics ranging from cultural issues to personal growth. This Ask Me Anything episode kicks off with an intriguing look at tribalism and the polarization of social viewpoints, inspired by Matt Walsh's documentary premiere in Nashville.

They tackle controversial subjects like transgenderism and racism, emphasizing the need for diverse perspectives and critical thinking beyond political and ideological lines. Discover the importance of balancing conservative ideologies within mainstream discussions to foster a more inclusive dialogue.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Cultural Tribes and Challenging Conversations (08:33) Internal Growth and Overcoming Challenges (20:50) Navigating Relationship Conflict With Emotional Intelligence (25:14) Family Preparedness and Conflict Resolution (39:01) Personal Growth and Responsibility (44:57) Cultivating a Godly Relationship (56:01) Personal Growth and Conflict Resolution (01:09:03) Jiu-Jitsu Progression and Humility

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MICHAEL HUNTER | Finding Your Path Through Passion Sep 10, 2024

Over 10 years, one of the most common messages I get is a strong desire for men to find their calling, so to speak. Studies often suggest that upwards of 70% of men are dissatisfied in their work and general fulfillment in life. But it’s a challenge to find something you’re interested in and turn it into a profitable and lucrative career that brings both a sense of purpose and financial prosperity. My guest today, Michael Hunter, is a man who is doing exactly that. Introduced to hunting at the age of 18 and a self-proclaimed glutton for food, Michael has found a way to merge the world of hunting and culinary excellence into some that brings him both a deep sense of satisfaction and provided he and his family a way of life. Today, we talk about the painstakingly slow path to progress, the importance of asking for exactly what you want, standing for what’s right in the face of bad actors, when luck, God’s grace, and hard work collide, and how you can find your path through the passion you build.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

- (00:00) Episode Intro - (01:30) From Hunter to Chef - (10:22) The Chef's Journey Into Cooking - (18:53) Cooking Techniques for Game Meat - (25:27) Hunter-Chef's Journey in Teaching Cooking - (35:45) Restaurant Protest Leads to Viral Fame - (40:39) Ethical Hunting and Sustainability in Cooking - (48:54) Controversy Surrounding Hunting and Cooking - (56:01) Cookbook Author's Journey and Future Plans

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How the Comparison Trap Can Serve You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Sep 06, 2024

Do you ever wonder why comparing yourself to others can sometimes leave you feeling deflated and stuck? In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unravels the comparison trap and its profound impact on personal development and self-confidence. He tackles the issue head-on by exploring how negative comparisons create feelings of inadequacy and impede progress.

Listen in as Ryan shares three practical strategies to turn those comparisons into powerful sources of inspiration and motivation. By recognizing the achievements of others and understanding that success isn’t a zero-sum game, we can transform envy into admiration and propel ourselves forward.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (00:45) Overcoming the Comparison Trap (08:48) Navigating Comparison and Humility in Leadership (23:10) Embracing Growth Through Peer Learning

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Politics & Masculinity, Starting a Business, Eliminating Health Excuses | ASK ME ANYTHING Sep 04, 2024

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler addresses masculinity and its role in society and its significance from politics to personal growth. Ryan emphasizes the virtues of strength, courage, and fortitude, balanced with empathy and grace. Learn how to graciously accept compliments, reflect on personal concerns, and approach challenges with a solution-oriented mindset.

From the importance of masculine virtues to the political spectrum’s impact on these ideals, Ryan discusses what it means to embody true masculinity today.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:43) Starting a Business (08:44) Crafting Business Stories for Success (17:29) Navigating Masculinity and Pride Acceptance (24:06) Learning to Accept Compliments and Gratitude (28:42) Embracing Masculine Virtues Without Compromise (34:08) Exploring Masculinity in Politics and Society (45:07) Parenting, Relationships, and Personal Development (52:09) Navigating Offense and Saving People

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DAVID WALDY | How to Build Fierce Empathy Sep 03, 2024

Empathy. It’s likely a word that conjures up unnecessary softness or, even weakness. But there’s nothing weak about being empathetic and it certainly does mean you need to allow others to wallow in their own self-pity or walk all over you. In fact, when utilized correctly, empathy can be a powerful tool for realizing your full potential and influencing others positively along their own path.

My guest today, David Waldy, joins me to make the case for men adding a level of what he calls fierce empathy into their lives. We talk about what empathy really means, why we lie to others and ourselves, how to stop lying, learning to heal yourself strategically and tactically, borrowing from other people’s success, and how to craft and utilize a new identity for who you are.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Fierce Empathy and Recovering Nice Guys (08:36) Truth and Self-Deception (22:13) Healing and Self-Discovery Process (28:15) Defining and Uncovering True Identity (34:10) Modeling Behavior for Personal Growth (46:33) Building Trust Through Empathy and Understanding (53:31) Connecting Through Conversations

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Depression-Proof Your Life | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Aug 30, 2024

Feeling down doesn't always mean you're clinically depressed, but how do you distinguish between the two? In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan tackles the rising issue of depression among men, shedding light on the feelings of sadness, loneliness, and inadequacy many experience due to life challenges such as divorce, addiction, loss, and medical complications.

He unpacks eight practical strategies designed to help you navigate these emotional waters and improve your mental well-being, with a reminder that seeking professional help is crucial if you're dealing with chronic or clinical depression.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Understanding and Combatting Depression in Men (13:36) Strategies for Emotional Wellness (23:53) Embracing Hobbies and Avoiding Isolation (33:29) Overcoming Challenges and Choosing Productivity (42:34) Joining the Iron Council for Men

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Overcoming Insecurities and Preparing for Parenthood | ASK ME ANYTHING Aug 28, 2024

Tune in to this week's Ask Me Anything as Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle the nuances of preparing for parenthood and balancing personal health with professional success. They share practical tips on maintaining focus and building a strong family foundation, together with insights on teaching essential skills to children.

The conversation also ventures into the realm of handling sexual temptations and fostering intimacy in relationships, offering disciplined approaches and open communication strategies. Whether you're a parent, partner, or professional, this episode will resonate and inspire transformative action in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Maintaining Motivation and Avoiding Echo Chambers (13:57) Preparing for Parenthood (25:27) Exploring Personal Insecurities (31:08) Understanding and Addressing Insecurities (38:59) Starting a Family and Overcoming Challenges (42:53) Teaching Skills and Parenting Values (56:32) Navigating Sexual Temptations and Relationship Intimacy (01:09:16) Building Masculinity and Community

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JAKE HAMILTON | Every Man Must Be Initiated Aug 27, 2024

Whenever I (or one of my guests) introduces the concept of male initiation, it’s met with skepticism, at best, and a level of immense disdain and vitriol, at worst. But why is it that men struggle so much with the concept of initiation, that is to say that a man must learn from other men what it means to be a man and be held accountable to maintain his moral duty to protect, provide, and preside?

My guest today, Jake Hamilton, makes the case for male initiation drawing on ancient initiations in some of the most remote locations on the planet. We talk about how to harness a man’s sexual desire towards productive outcomes, what the lowest form of a man’s identity is, where the patriarchy falls short, integrating your “shadow” (something Jung unpacks deeply), the difference between working toward the greater good and the common good, and how a man answers his own internal desire to be respected and desired. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (04:00) The Crisis of Masculinity Today (17:21) Initiating Boys Into Manhood Through Presence (23:00) Navigating Masculinity and Sexuality in Society (34:51) Unpacking Personal Trauma and Behavior (41:11) Reclaiming Self-Worth and Value (49:05) The Power of Self-Discovery and Legacy (01:01:43) Embracing the Lover Archetype

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How a Man Avoids the "Friendzone"| FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Aug 23, 2024

Can you spot the difference between being nice and being kind? Many people mistakenly view niceness as a surefire way to a woman's heart, but in this week's Friday Field Notes latest episode Ryan Michler reveals why this approach often leads to manipulation rather than attraction.

Ryan shares practical tips on clearly stating your intentions, understanding what women truly seek in a partner, and cultivating genuine romantic connections. Whether you're single and struggling with the friend zone or feeling like a roommate in your marriage, his insights will help you create and rebuild intimacy in your relationships.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (00:43) Avoid Friend Zone, Rebuild Intimacy (15:26) Assertive Romantic Relationships and Boundaries (23:17) Mastering the Dating Game

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Ask, Act, Achieve | ASK ME ANYTHING Aug 21, 2024

In this no-holds-barred "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan and Duane dissect the controversy surrounding the Olympics, emphasizing the importance of meritocracy and performance. The conversation then shifts to the political landscape, urging men to step up and actively engage in their communities. They offer practical advice on building a strong work ethic and finding purpose, reminding listeners that discipline leads to freedom. Finally, they delve into matters of faith, encouraging listeners to trust their gut and act on righteous impulses. It's a raw, unfiltered discussion that challenges listeners to embrace their masculinity and take charge of their lives.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Controversy Over Breakdancing in Olympics (11:36) Defining Masculinity and Bold Convictions (17:58) Military Leadership and Transition Discussion (23:20) Political Engagement and Future Vision (32:57) Developing Long-Term Goals and Work Ethic (38:08) Surrounding Yourself With High Achievers (47:02) Divine Intervention and Listening to God (54:49) Honesty and Accountability in Relationships (01:02:50) Implementing Concepts in Iron Council

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JOHN DAILEY | Becoming a Tough, Rugged B*stard Aug 20, 2024

What does it take to be a tough, rugged, bastard? And, is it something a man should strive to become? My guest today is a retired marine and after spending 20 years in special operations in the Marine Corps, has gone on to lead training for all Marine Raiders (after being disbanded after WWII) and developing many of the systems and leadership protocols for some of the most elite fighting members of our modern-day military.

His name is John Dailey and, today, we talk about the future of combat, modern-day enlistment challenges for the US military, where mental toughness comes from and how to develop it, the issues with “moral injury” as it relates to PTSD, the rules of combat, standard operating procedures, and rules of engagement that hinder our efficacy, and how and why every man needs to become a tough, rugged bastard.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (04:02) Ethics and Challenges of Combat (18:47) Reflections on Combat Experience and Morality (26:26) History and Creation of Marine Raiders (33:04) Special Operations Deployment and Challenges (43:21) Role and Challenges in Marine Raiders (53:04) Recruitment Challenges in Military Forces (56:23) Challenges and Standards in Training (01:07:58) Appreciation for Military Service

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Passivity is the Antithesis to Manliness | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Aug 16, 2024

Passivity among men is destroying their potential and derailing society. It's time to redefine masculinity by embracing assertiveness and courage. In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down how true masculinity means actively addressing injustices with both strength and respect.

He explores the fine line between assertiveness and bullying, offering actionable steps men can take to be more effective and impactful in their daily lives. You'll learn how to foster a balanced approach that marries boldness with respect for others, setting the stage for meaningful change.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) - Episode Intro (00:48) - Assertive Masculinity (04:45) - Defining Your Goals and Boundaries (10:26) - Embracing Assertive Masculinity

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Self-Talk and Supporting Spouses | ASK ME ANYTHING Aug 14, 2024

In this episode of ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Duane Winkel discuss key topics like masculinity, critical thinking, and personal responsibility. They talk about the importance of clearly understanding and expressing one's beliefs, assuming positive intent, and taking responsibility. They also offer advice to parents on guiding young men in a time of conflicting ideas about manhood.

They explore how their views on masculine values, especially leadership, have evolved to include emotional and spiritual support. Additionally, they share practical strategies for overcoming negative self-talk, supporting spouses, and the challenges of transitioning from corporate careers to entrepreneurship.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:45) Defining Masculinity and Taking Ownership (10:17) Revisiting Masculine Values in Brotherhood (15:14) Addressing Self-Talk and Supporting Spouses (27:17) Supporting Partners in Self-Improvement (38:23) Fostering Brotherhood and Team Development (43:04) Transitioning to Entrepreneurship (49:38) Building a Business Together

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RICK TRIMMER | Get Out of Your Comfort Zone | Recorded in Africa Aug 13, 2024

Settled in a lodge in South Africa, the last few days have been a whirlwind of adventure. From the thrill of a unique hunting experience to photo safaris, our journey has been both meticulously planned and spontaneous. Rick and I kick off this episode by sharing our unexpected joys and the lessons we've learned about letting go of control. Plus, get a sneak peek into our new business venture that's all about inspiring others to hit the road and explore the world, starting from a seemingly simple one-way ticket to Normandy.

This week's returning guest is Rick Trimmer, both a friend and travel companion. Venturing beyond the hunt, we dive deep into the essence of stepping out of your comfort zone. Our African escapade hasn't just been about the game; it’s also about helicopter rides, cultural immersion, and visits to local orphanages. Tackling common barriers like financial constraints and fear, we share personal anecdotes that highlight the life-changing impact of taking risks. It's the adventures and experiences that carve lifelong memories, and we emphasize the importance of seizing opportunities rather than playing it safe.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:47) Travel Adventure Business Concept (08:10) Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone (16:48) Building Meaningful Relationships Through Intentions (27:17) Seeking Guidance and Taking Action (38:09) Achieving Success Through Smart Decisions (49:34) Digital Hunting Partnership and Connection

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8 Masculine Political Positions | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Aug 09, 2024

What does it mean to truly lead in today's political landscape? In this week's Friday Field Notes episode Ryan dissects the notion of masculine political positions, particularly as election season heats up. Ryan outlines eight critical stances—grounded in protection, provide, and preside. From "peace through strength" that underscores the importance of a robust defense, to the imperative of national sovereignty, he provides a comprehensive guide to understanding and advocating for these values.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Masculine Political Positions and Civil Discourse (12:55) Second Amendment and Family Values (17:49) Empowering Fathers and Free Markets (25:08) The Concept of Equality Versus Equity

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Life's Uncertainties and Financial Wisdom | ASK ME ANYTHING Aug 07, 2024

Unlock the secrets to financial resilience in turbulent times and gain a fresh perspective on stress management and productivity. This episode promises to equip you with practical strategies for navigating market volatility, and provide actionable insights inspired by Warren Buffett and "Atomic Habits." Also, powerful financial habits, such as dollar-cost averaging and diversification, that can help you maintain stability and growth even amidst uncertainty, reinforcing the value of a disciplined approach to your investments.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro (00:55) Market Volatility and Financial Habits (12:18) The Pitfalls of Victim Mentality (19:12) Navigating Complex Societal Issues (25:27) Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth (33:10) Choosing Health Over Conventional Treatment (46:02) Navigating Personal Challenges and Growth (53:03) Navigating Personal Legacy and Influence

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Re-Thinking the American Beef Supply with Greg Putnam Aug 06, 2024

If you’re like the other 95% of people on the planet, you eat too eat meat. But too little time is spent considering where one of the largest sources of meat comes from in America – Cattle. With broken food supply chains exposed during COVID, outsourced beef and processing to foreign countries, and the deceptive practices of those who label our beef products, it’s hard to know what you’re really getting.

My guest today, former Navy SEAL, Greg Putnam, is doing something about it with a company he founded along with fellow Navy SEAL, Tim Sheehy called Little Belt Cattle Company. Greg and I discuss where our beef actually comes from, the balance between quality and quantity cattle ranchers have to find, the pros and cons of large industrial beef processing compared to the smaller, local ranches, what “grass-fed” and “organic” beef actually means, the importance of being connected with our food sources, and why we need to re-think the American beef supply.

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(00:00) Episode Intro (04:09) Sourcing Quality Meats (15:08) Genetics and Quality in Meat Production (28:56) Breeding and Genetics in Cattle Operations (32:44) Regenerative Practices and Meat Quality (43:18) Local Agriculture and Quality Assurance (51:38) Independent Processing and Distribution in Agriculture (01:05:25) Supporting Local Agriculture and Food Security (01:09:37) American Dream and Hard Work (01:13:10) Entrepreneurship and American Values

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The Seven Masculine Archetypes | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Aug 02, 2024

In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unlocks the secrets to becoming a well-rounded man through an exploration of seven masculine archetypes, inspired by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette. Gain valuable insights into harnessing traits like visionary leadership, moral conviction, and keen intellect while embodying the motto: "protect, provide, preside."

Reflect on strengths and weaknesses through these archetypes with examples of real people. This self-assessment encourages recognizing areas for improvement and taking steps toward personal development. Ryan concludes with a call to action to consider additional perspectives for becoming the best version of yourself.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:42) - The Seven Masculine Archetypes (10:48) - Warrior, Jester and Scholar (24:28) - Priest, King and Statesman (36:34) - Embracing Masculine Archetypes for Growth

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Masculinity: When Men Cry | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 31, 2024

In this week's Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp discuss the controversy surrounding the 2024 Olympics' opening ceremonies, using it to highlight the importance of focusing on positive content over disruptive provocations. They examine superficial public apologies, historical ignorance, and the promotion of communism.

On a personal level, they explore emotional complexities, such as balancing grief with parenthood, expressing masculinity, and setting life standards. They offer practical advice on guiding younger siblings towards maturity, shifting from a selfish mindset to one of service, and navigating divorce challenges. The episode provides a multifaceted dialogue on these issues.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:44) - Olympic Opening Ceremonies (04:30) - Cultural Critique and Social Awareness (16:34) - Navigating Grief and Parenthood (22:16) - Emotional Expression and Masculinity (34:01) - Establishing Standards and Manly Behaviors (41:55) - Influencing Brothers to Grow Up (51:29) - Mindset Shift Towards Service (59:05) - Sharing Knowledge and Teaching Skills

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MARK MATSON | Is the American Dream Dead or Alive? Jul 30, 2024

Many men believe the American Dream is dead. Just take a look that the upcoming Presidential election and you’ll often hear how many will, in utter surrender and defeat, say, “My vote doesn’t count anyways so why do it?” Or, take a look at how many men will through up their hands and exclaim that there’s nothing they can do about their marriage, the economy, their job, or their circumstances. And, while there is much outside of our control, there is much still within it.

My guest today, Mark Matson, founder of Matson Money is here to tell us why experiencing the American dream is not out of reach for those who may previously have thought so. We talk about how to invest your time, money, and energy wisely, an academic approach to intelligent investing taking into consideration human brain science, discovering a whole new way to see the world, the forces standing between you and the American Dream (and how to overcome them), and the crucial importance of developing what he calls, “Your Future View.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (03:41) - Reviving the American Dream (13:32) - Discovering Purpose Beyond Wealth (18:08) - Uncovering Purpose Amid Obstacles (27:30) - Building the American Dream (31:53) - Fighting for Family and Values (40:48) - Navigating Entrepreneurship and Politics (46:35) - Protecting the American Dream (56:51) - Impacting Men and Families Through Mentorship

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Do Not Be a Lone Wolf | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jul 26, 2024

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, uncover why the lone wolf mentality, often romanticized in media, is a recipe for disaster when reality hits hard. Learn how engaging in activities like jujitsu can foster essential connections, promoting not just competition and improvement but genuine camaraderie among men.

Ryan emphasizes the importance of intentionally seeking out manly activities to meet like-minded individuals. From shooting at the gun range to playing basketball and participating in Spartan races, these activities are more than just hobbies—they are avenues to forge lasting friendships. Ryan breaks down the initial discomfort that comes with meeting new people and highlight the power of asking for help as a connection strategy. Personal anecdotes illustrate how these efforts have led to meaningful and supportive networks.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:45) Building a Band of Brothers

(04:20) Connecting Through Manly Activities

(16:05) Building Bonds Through Activities

(21:16) Strong Male Relationships Through Vulnerability

(30:47) Engage, Connect, and Take Action

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Lessons in Responsibility and Resilience | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 24, 2024

What happens when a chaotic Monday meets groundbreaking political news? In this week's Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp dive deep into the potential fallout of Kamala Harris stepping in, the disappointment of Biden’s 14 million voters, and the legal mess that might follow. Plus, check out Ryan's latest gear: a Sig Sauer P365X Macro pistol and Ryan's rugged hike in Capitol Reef and why he switched from Glock to Sig.

Ryan and Kipp also tackle the crucial role of community and moral responsibility, especially in California's shifting legislative landscape. They lay out a solid case for teaching personal responsibility and resilience in strong, engaged communities, particularly for kids who lack stable home environments. Their conversation delves into managing a busy household, financial pressures, and the emotional regulation needed to lead a family effectively.

Finally, discover how to build sustainable habits and forge strong relationships with actionable advice from Ryan and Kipp. From crushing fitness goals to building meaningful connections through trust and vulnerability, they've got you covered. This episode is packed with insights to help you stay balanced, overcome personal challenges, and strengthen family bonds.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) Episode Intro - (00:43) New Toys - Firearms and Knives - (12:10) Community Responsibility and Mentorship - (17:24) Emotional Regulation and Parental Responsibility - (25:47) Mindfulness and Emotional Regulation - (36:21) Sustainable Rewards and Achievements - (42:25) Effective Relationship Building Strategies - (48:55) Letting Go - (57:43) Building Trust Through Vulnerability

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TREVOR FARNES | How to Conquer Challenges, Setbacks, and Life Jul 23, 2024

With all the world has to throw at you and me, it would be easy to allow life to get the better of us. Hell, in many circles, it’s expected and tolerated, if not encouraged. That isn’t how any of us here in Order of Man choose to live our lives. Instead, we choose to step up to the challenges we face and conquer them in spite of tremendous odds.

My guest, good friend and founder of MTNOPS, Trevor Farnes, is a man who knows how to do exactly that. Today, we talk about his very humble beginnings, how he built MTNOPS into a globally recognized supplement company when his goal at the time was to serve his ailing father, why he doesn’t believe in compartmentalizing his life, how to have abundance even in scarcity, and why the most powerful place to serve is to the person you once were.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro

(04:50) Conquer More

(15:31) Morning Scripture Routine for 27 Years

(19:43) Daily Family Scripture Study and Fitness

(22:60) Prioritizing Core Values for Decision-Making

(28:40) Abundance in Sacrifice

(38:31) Faith, Consistency, and Abundance

(50:08) Building Financial Success Through Partnership

(01:01:26) Emotional Connection in Book Writing

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Security is the Skeleton Key to Her Heart, Mind, and Body | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jul 19, 2024

Reflecting on Ryan's journey from emotional turbulence to stability, this episode unpacks how making a woman feel safe and secure can transform a relationship. Ryan recounts his own battles with emotional volatility, particularly exacerbated by alcohol misuse, and the pivotal role of becoming a consistent, reliable partner. By grounding the relationship in emotional stability, the potential for deeper connections, shared joy, and adventurous experiences is unlocked.

The episode also touches on the interplay between emotional and financial stability, showing how these two elements are essential for a secure relationship. Emotional steadiness allows for open, honest communication, while financial security reduces stress and opens doors for future planning. Ryan dives into practical tips, like managing finances with disciplined strategies and cultivating marketable skills, to minimize financial strains and focus on what truly matters—your connection with your partner.

Finally, the episode explores actionable steps to build strength in a relationship from both a financial and personal standpoint. Using methods like Dave Ramsey's debt snowball, investing in personal development, and ensuring physical and emotional protection are key. Ryan discusses the importance of fitness, situational awareness, and even self-defense training to become your partner's rock. Join him as he maps out a path to becoming the partner you aspire to be, offering insights and strategies that are both practical and transformative.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) - Episode Intro (00:50) - Building Emotional Stability in Relationships (04:27) - Emotional Stability and Financial Security (10:55) - Building Strength in Relationships (18:36) - Creating Safety and Security in Relationships

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Political Turmoil to Personal Resilience | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 17, 2024

The attempted assassination of former President Trump ignites a firestorm of reactions and exposes the deeply entrenched polarization within American politics. Join Ryan and Kipp as they dissect this dark weekend and its aftermath, questioning the fragile notion of unity in a nation increasingly divided. Can they foster civil discourse amidst a culture of demonizing opposing viewpoints, or are we too far gone? Their discussion underscores the urgent need for awareness and preparation for potentially dangerous times ahead.

High-stress situations call for precise decision-making, especially when influenced by the inflammatory language of powerful figures. Drawing from personal military experiences, Ryan and Kipp scrutinize the complexities surrounding such events and the importance of articulating disagreements to fuel personal growth. They weigh the tough decisions between action and hesitation when assessing threats, emphasizing the role of structured planning and replicable systems in achieving consistent results—whether in personal goals or community contributions.

Personal connections and learning together without ego are crucial, especially in an age of digital distractions. Ryan and Kipp explore the significance of maintaining in-person relationships, setting boundaries for focus, and inviting friends into more social, real-world activities. Through shared experiences, like hands-on learning between fathers and their children, they emphasize the value of bonding and imparting practical skills. Additionally, they address how to navigate grief and loss, embracing difficult emotions to honor loved ones and foster deeper, more meaningful connections. Join them for an episode packed with critical insights and practical advice for navigating these challenging times.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Political Polarization and Civil Discourse (15:46) - Security Detail and Response Evaluation (27:01) - Creating Replicatable Results Through Planning (40:46) - Setting Boundaries for Focus and Relationships (53:20) - Learning Together Without Ego (58:17) - Navigating Grief and Loss Together

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CLINT EMERSON | Trump’s Assassination Attempt and Preparing for the Worst Jul 16, 2024

With the recent assassination attempt of former President, Donald Trump, it’s easy to see how political tensions continue to racket up. And, it’s becoming increasingly obvious that we, as men, must be prepared to protect ourselves and others at a moment’s notice.

My guest today, former Navy SEAL, Clint Emerson, has made a career of developing personal readiness in himself and others. Today, we talk about the missteps and conspiracy theories around Trump’s recent assassination attempt, how DEI initiatives endanger us all, when discrimination can be useful, why time equals opportunity and why opportunity equals survivability in these situations, the “run, hide, fight,” mentality, and how the Chinese could potentially start an American civil war without getting their hands dirty.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (04:54) - Security Protocols and Armchair Quarterbacking (15:43) - Security Measures and Gender Roles (24:43) - Security Protocol and Crisis Response (38:41) - Tactical Decision Making and Civil Unrest (49:22) - Foreign Invasion and Border Security (59:26) - Personal Preparedness and Responsibility

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Be Strong in a Weak World | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jul 12, 2024

It's time to reclaim your strength and resilience. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the urgent need for men to prepare for life's inevitable challenges—whether it's a divorce, job loss, or medical emergency. He discusses the pitfalls of taking the easy way out and the crucial role of mental, physical, and emotional resilience in safeguarding loved ones and thriving amid adversity.

Enough with the complaints! This episode is a wake-up call to adopt a solution-oriented mindset. Ryan explores how constant whining only reinforces weaknesses and stalls progress. He argues for the necessity of surrounding yourself with strong, positive individuals and receiving balanced advice that includes assertive male role models. It’s not about dismissing feminized perspectives but about creating a healthier, more robust masculine identity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Building Mental, Physical, & Emotional Resilience (09:06) - Overcoming Weakness and Seeking Masculinity (14:30) - Developing Masculine Strength Through Discomfort (25:59) - Building Masculine Resilience and Fortitude

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Secrets to Thriving Relationships | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 10, 2024

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp explore emotions and communication through thought-provoking discussions. They kick off with a recent weekend of tubing and chores, highlighting their energetic nature. They discuss vulnerability in male relationships, emphasizing solutions over problems and urging men to reflect before reacting to emotional topics. They then tackle men's mental health and communication empowerment, discussing male depression and suicide. They underscore the importance of purpose, meaning, and camaraderie, advocating for action plans to combat a victim mindset and reframe challenges for growth.

Ryan and Kipp also explore embracing differences in relationships, overcoming victimhood, and the importance of consistent communication. They discuss rebuilding oneself through better habits and navigating tribal mentality, ultimately emphasizing the balance of personal interests with family responsibilities.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Exploring Emotions and Communication (14:51) - Men's Mental Health and Communication Empowerment (26:26) - Embracing Differences in Relationships (32:33) - Accepting Ownership and Overcoming Victimhood (41:16) - Navigating Tribal Mentality and Individuality (45:08) - Labeling and Empowerment in Personal Development (54:32) - Finding Fulfillment and Truth (01:00:43) - Letting Go of Past Baggage

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KYLE THOMPSON | Control the Controllable Jul 09, 2024

With so much going on in culture and society, it’s easy to drown yourself in the sea of relevant issues that need to be addressed. Unfortunately, so much of what we see and hear is largely outside of our control. But you can control yourself. And, that’s the good news. Today, I’m joined by Kyle Thompson with Undaunted Life to talk about how to do just that. We discuss ignorance and initiative, why diversity alone doesn’t really mean much, what Kyle has dubbed, “the 11th Commandment,” why compromise isn’t all it’s cracked up to be, and how to be the man your people need you to be.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (03:48) - Credit Card Controversy and Free Speech (12:54) - Stand for Beliefs, Don't Compromise (21:45) - Navigating Love and Judgment in Relationships (27:15) - Individual Preparedness and Societal Standards (36:19) - Call to Political Involvement and Awareness (41:08) - Local Involvement and Taking Initiative (52:56) - Setting Standards Over Goals (56:46) - Podcasting Persistence and Passion (60:45) - Supporting Content Creators in Need

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You are Meant to Live Free | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jul 05, 2024

Discover how to truly safeguard your freedoms and honor the legacy of our founding fathers. In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler promises to transform your understanding of Independence Day from mere celebration to a profound contemplation of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Ryan sheds light on the often overlooked responsibilities that accompany these cherished rights, emphasizing that they are not entitlements but opportunities demanding vigilance and effort. By focusing on the pivotal role of men as protectors, providers, and leaders, Ryan underscores the essential virtues of personal responsibility, self-improvement, and community service. He reflects on historical vulnerabilities and acknowledges deficiencies to ensure continuous progress and protection of our freedoms.

Is the American dream alive and well, or is it under threat? Ryan delves into the current state of social security, Medicare, and Medicaid, outlining the urgent need for self-reliance over dependency on government aid. From getting in shape to getting out of debt and acquiring marketable skills, he discusses practical steps to reclaim control of your future. Ryan highlights the importance of community involvement, whether it’s helping a neighbor or running for local office. By taking these actions, you help safeguard the rights and responsibilities that our forebears fought so hard to secure. As you enjoy your freedoms this weekend, remember to remain vigilant and proactive in preserving them. Join Ryan next week as he continues this essential conversation on restoring and maintaining the American dream.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:55) - The Responsibilities of Freedom (11:19) - Taking Responsibility for Freedom (16:58) - Restoring the American Dream

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Daring Drops, Debates & Discipline | ASK ME ANYTHING Jul 03, 2024

Can balancing debt repayment with a social life actually lead to personal growth? Discover the nuances of juggling financial responsibilities and social engagements as Ryan and Kipp share practical tips and personal anecdotes. The episode includes a story about Ryan's recent skydiving adventure in Southern Utah, complete with the exhilaration of free-falling at 120 miles per hour and the twist that Ryan's girlfriend couldn’t join due to unpredictable winds. This segment is filled with humor and poignant reflections on facing fears and embracing unexpected twists.

Switching gears, Ryan and Kipp dissect the political landscape with a focus on Joe Biden's latest debate performance and the strategies that might shape the future of the Democratic Party. From discussing potential new candidates like Michelle Obama and Gavin Newsom to analyzing Donald Trump's surprising composure, they offer a blend of humor and serious analysis. This chapter provides an engaging reflection on the key players in the current political scene, keeping listeners informed and entertained.

They also explore the delicate balance of maintaining consistency in podcasting, tackling debt while preserving a social life, and the growth that comes from courageously facing life's challenges. Listeners will gain insights into managing fitness routines alongside personal development, handling stress-induced illnesses, and achieving closure in past relationships. Plus, listener questions bring thoughtful advice on becoming one's best self. Join Ryan and Kipp for an episode packed with valuable content, practical tips, and heartfelt personal stories.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:41) Skydiving Mishap and Presidential Debate (07:14) Political Debate and Church Activities (21:16) Consistency in Podcasting (27:36) Balancing Debt Repayment and Social Life (40:20) Anticipating Life's Challenges With Discipline (54:10) Seeking Closure for Past Relationships (57:43) Embracing Courage for Growth (01:07:03) Balancing Fitness and Personal Growth (01:19:56) Take Action and Become Your Best

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LARRY HAGNER | Spirit of Fatherhood Jul 02, 2024

Being a father is hard work but it’s also one of the most rewarding journeys a man can take in his life. With all the demands of life, it can feel like we, as fathers, as simply flailing around trying to figure out the best way to raise our children. With 4 of my own, just when I think I have it figured out, I’m thrown another curveball.

My guest today, Larry Hagner, has spent the last 10 years coaching men who want to become the best fathers they can and, possibly, the fathers they never had themselves. Today, we talk about the spirit of fatherhood, what to plan for before your first child, a powerful tool Larry has built called the “Family Score,” to assess your performance as a father, building unbreakable bonds with your kids, how best to have tough conversations.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Fatherhood and Male Friendships (05:48) - Fatherhood Challenges and Growth (16:15) - Family Score and Feedback Perception (21:59) - Parental Communication and Emotional Regulation (29:47) - Personal Reform and Family Reconnection (33:59) - Men's Health and Personal Accountability (44:39) - Supporting Friends in Times of Struggle (51:45) - Empowering Through Curious Questions (55:33) - Bullying Advice and Fatherhood Support (59:11) - Exciting Event Coming Up

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How to Communicate Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jun 28, 2024

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unlocks the secrets to mastering respectful and effective conversations. Learn the "10 Commandments of Healthy Conversation" and understand how to navigate complex topics like the transgender movement and COVID-19 without falling prey to the allure of popular opinions. Through real-world examples, Ryan highlights how critical thinking can safeguard your discussions from resentment and animosity.

Ryan tackles the nuanced concept of the burden of proof, addressing its significance in debates on contentious issues such as transgenderism and healthcare. Discover why those making bold claims must back them up with solid evidence and how this principle applies to political and scientific conversations. Personal anecdotes and notable examples, including reflections on Dr. Fauci, serve to illustrate the dangers of arguing from ignorance and the importance of informed debate.

Finally, Ryan offers practical advice on avoiding logical fallacies in both decision-making and debate. From understanding false dichotomies to steering clear of straw man arguments, this episode equips you with the tools you need for intelligent, honest discourse. Join us to enhance your communication skills, build credibility, and engage in more meaningful, respectful dialogues.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (02:18) - The 10 Commandments of Healthy Conversation (12:40) - Burden of Proof and Ignorance (21:26) - Avoiding Logical Fallacies in Decision Making (33:14) - Avoiding Logical Fallacies in Debate (38:32) - Communicating Like a Logical Man (43:22) - Enhancing Communication for Success

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Mastering Fatherhood & Leadership Secrets | ASK ME ANYTHING Jun 26, 2024

In this week's Ask Me Anything episode, Kipp and Shawn delve into the complexities of balancing fatherhood, leadership, and personal growth. They share vivid stories of summer backpacking adventures, highlighting the importance of resilience and structured activities for children.

The discussion transitions to workplace dynamics, offering practical advice on leadership and effective communication. They explore relationship dynamics, self-awareness, and societal perceptions of parenting. Personal anecdotes underscore the value of hope, self-love, and positive self-talk. Tune in for insightful strategies on becoming the best version of yourself in both family and professional life.

(00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Summer Chaos and Fatherhood Reflections (13:43) - Navigating Workplace Interactions and Leadership (28:49) - Marriage (32:44) - Self-Confidence and Relationship Dynamics (39:40) - Navigating Relationship Values and Father Strength (51:48) - Finding Hope and Overcoming Anxiety (01:00:54) - Positive Self-Talk and Self-Nurturing (01:11:36) - Empowering Self-Talk and Business Growth (01:24:46) - Truck Advocacy and Business Strategy (01:30:59) - Join Iron Council and Adventure Opportunities

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JACKSON HIGHTOWER | Understanding Sexual Dynamics Between Men and Women Jun 25, 2024

The sexual dynamics between the sexes aren’t something we address as often as we should. It’s something that impacts men and women on a daily basis, but we’re simply expected to know how to speak to the opposite sex in terms of sexual attraction and intimacy. This often leads to frustration in the bedroom and beyond.

My guest today is Jackson Hightower, and he is a sexual mastery expert who works closely with men in building intimacy and sexual connection between man and woman. Today, we talk about what women find sexual attractive and irresistible, why men struggle to communicate their sexual wants, needs, and desires, what is causing an increase in erectile dysfunction and lowering testosterone rates, how a man can improve his performance under the sheets, and learning to satisfy both your woman and have your own needs met.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (03:50) - Understanding Sexual Mastery and Communication (10:30) - Catering Love Language for Partners (14:23) - Exploring Sexual Growth and Communication (18:14) - Effective Communication in Sexual Relationships (22:38) - Seeking Feedback in Sexual Relationships (26:11) - Navigating Sexual Partnerships and Exploration (38:05) - Navigating Sexual Desire and Masturbation (41:30) - Negative Effects of Porn in Men (51:59) - Embracing Sexual Authenticity and Communication

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10 Harsh Truths for Every Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jun 21, 2024

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler unlocks the key to a confident and fulfilling life, where hard-hitting truths every man must embrace are confronted. Discover why men aren't inherently entitled to anything and the critical importance of continuously proving worth through performance and value. Learn how to build more meaningful relationships and endeavors by making significant contributions that truly count.

Find out how true strength lies in humility and honesty as conventional ideas of vulnerability are challenged. Ryan delves into the power of openly addressing struggles without falling into victimhood. Understand the crucial value of presenting solutions and maintaining control over circumstances to foster stronger personal relationships and an unshakeable sense of self-worth.

Embrace the liberating power of focusing on what can be controlled and letting go of what can't. Discover practical advice on personal growth, skill enhancement, and nurturing meaningful relationships to lead a more adaptable and resilient life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:40) - 10 Harsh Truths Every Man Needs - (12:24) - The Power of Humility and Honesty - (24:22) - Letting Go and Accepting Life's Realities - (38:21) - Join IronCouncil

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Handling Increased Responsibility, Advice for New Fathers & Starting From Nothing | ASK ME ANYTHING Jun 19, 2024

Reflecting on their contrasting Father's Day experiences, Ryan and Kipp kick off this week's Ask Me Anything with a personal touch. They then dive into a critical discussion around the House's recent defense bill. They explore the multifaceted implications of this decision, including the establishment of a drone force and the nuanced considerations of gender identity within these regulations.

Switching gears, Ryan and Kipp dissect a thought-provoking interview with Joe Missoula, head coach for the Boston Celtics. Missoula's emphasis on his Christian faith over racial identity in sports challenges prevailing narratives and offers a fresh lens on leadership and diversity.

They delve into heartfelt discussions on personal growth and parenting. For first-time fathers, Ryan offers invaluable tips on supporting partners and fostering bonds with newborns. He champions the idea of gradually introducing children to life's challenges, preparing them for independence. The episode concludes with insights on effective networking, the balance of parenting styles, and the perpetual journey of self-improvement.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:40) - Father’s Day, Draft Bill and Headlines (14:34) - Faith-Based Coach Discusses NBA Diversity (19:14) - Building Influence With Team Leaders (26:02) - Building Meaningful Connections Through Leadership (36:58) - Parenting Advice for First-Time Fathers (46:14) - Effective Networking and Personal Growth (53:25) - Navigating Communication Challenges in the Workplace (01:03:54) - The Power of Self-Development and Leadership (01:14:51) - Friendship and Appreciation in Leadership

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MARK DRISCOLL | Act Like a Man Jun 18, 2024

If you’re paying attention even in the slightest, you know there is a clear and deliberate agenda to undermine and de-value men and the role they play in society. It’s crucial that we, as men, remain vigilant in the knowledge of that and, more importantly, continue to show up powerfully for those we wish to lead and serve.

My guest today, Mark Driscoll, has been doing this for decades specifically through his ministry of Christ. We talk about whether or not men are the problem in society, the balance between fearless courage and loving kindness, why submitting to proper authority does not make us weaker men, the key archetypes of masculinity, Christian weakness, and why curiosity will you put you on a path to becoming a better man.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:42) - Men, Masculinity, and Convictions (07:23) - The Nature of God and Humanity (19:16) - Navigating Faith, Authority, and Hope (25:52) - Discussion on Faith and Humanity (34:50) - Exploring Fatherhood and Authority in Society (49:07) - Erosion of Masculinity in Society (01:00:26) - Encouraging Courage in Men (01:07:00) - Masculinity, Motives, and Mentorship

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The Trifecta of Men’s Health | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jun 14, 2024

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler dives headfirst into the trifecta of health—mental, emotional, and physical. He reveals practical advice for optimizing physical health through the right diet and exercise, using an unforgettable analogy between vehicle maintenance and body care to underscore the importance of holistic well-being. Listeners will master the art of balancing all three aspects of health and become the best version of themselves.

Prepare to build an unshakeable mental fortitude by embracing and conquering life's toughest challenges. Avoiding difficult tasks and conversations might feel easier, but it stunts growth and hampers productivity. This episode encourages you to face these hurdles head-on—whether it's a grueling workout, public speaking engagement, or deep self-reflection. Discover how pushing beyond your comfort zone and being brutally honest about your weaknesses can unlock your true potential and create an indomitable mental toughness. Our actionable steps will guide you toward courageous and honest self-assessment.

Lastly, Ryan dives into the critical aspects of emotional well-being and personal growth. Learn why addressing procrastinated tasks and setting clear physical goals can help stabilize your emotional health.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:40) - Improving Mental, Emotional, and Physical Health - (12:29) - Building Mental Fortitude Through Challenges - (16:59) - Emotional Wellbeing and Personal Growth - (29:32) - The Iron Council Opens

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Self-Fulfilling Prophecy, Men Lack Confidence, and the Benjamin Franklin Effect | ASK ME ANYTHING Jun 12, 2024

Returning from a grueling hunting trip in Hawaii left Ryan and Kipp physically exhausted but mentally invigorated. They introduce Revitalized Womanhood, a women's community led by Gina Trimmer, and discussed off-grid self-reliance skills, emphasizing the value of this knowledge.

They discuss the importance of thinking on one's feet and emotional resilience. Resourcefulness and adaptability were key themes, stressing the importance of physical, mental, and emotional health in overcoming challenges.

Practical tips on building assertiveness and courage were shared, along with an invitation to join the Iron Council for a supportive community.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) - Episode intro (01:00) - Scrambling to Balance Work and Vacation (05:47) - Developing Critical Thinking and Emotional Resilience (18:05) - Embrace Your Circumstances, Create Connections (29:50) - Maintaining Focus and Building Relationships (42:14) - Men's Fear and Assertiveness (53:47) - The Iron Council Opens

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KIPP SORENSEN | Lessons Learned on a First Hunt Jun 11, 2024

Hunting has become such an integral part of my life and I can’t help but want to talk about all the stories and memories I’ve made and what hunting has done in my own life with other people. Many of you who listen to the podcast, know my co-host, Kipp Sorensen. When I had the opportunity to take him on his first archery hunt in Hawaii last week, I could not wait for it. Today, I share our conversation from the porch in Hawaii about his first archery experience. We talk about looking for and creating opportunities, the power of curiosity and inquisitiveness, how to get into hunting for the first time, being coachable and teachable and what that will do for your life, some of the lessons he’s learned, and whether or not he was able to get his first kill.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (01:13) - Guest Intro - (03:26) - Primitive Archery Hunt on Molokai - (15:40) - Navigating Challenges in Skill Development - (18:44) - Finding Joy in the Process - (21:51) - Learning Archery - (28:10) - Importance of Presence in Hunting - (35:09) - Leveraging Solitude for Growth - (38:05) - Focused Mindset in Challenging Situations - (48:17) - Hunting Strategies and Value Exchange - (57:37) - The Power of Curiosity and Communication - (60:20) - Understanding Appreciation in Relationships

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When No One is Looking, Do the Right Thing | FIRDAY FIELD NOTES Jun 07, 2024

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explores the crucial topic of addressing mistakes with integrity and confidence. Failure is an inevitable part of life, but how we handle our missteps truly defines our character. Ryan shares personal anecdotes, including an archery practice mishap that led to damaging a neighbor's trailer tire.

Through this seemingly minor incident, he illustrates a powerful three-part formula for addressing mistakes: acknowledging the error, making a deliberate attempt to fix it, and maintaining integrity. By owning up to our failures, we build the character necessary to face more significant challenges.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:42) - Addressing Mistakes With Integrity and Confidence - (07:31) - Take Responsibility, Learn, Improve - (16:24) - Men of Integrity

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Dealing with Divorce, Boost Testosterone Naturally, and Normalizing Self-Doubt | ASK ME ANYTHING Jun 05, 2024

In this episode of ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into the critical impact of government spending on inflation and economic stability. By dissecting the inefficiencies in state-funded systems like a medical program in Boston, they underscore the urgent need for fiscal responsibility and accountability. Their discussion is packed with real-world examples and a light-hearted t-shirt recommendation, giving listeners a no-nonsense look at the current state of the nation.

They also stress the importance of accountability and personal growth in overcoming life's challenges. From naturally boosting testosterone and navigating legal issues to tackling major depressive disorder and moving past divorce, they provide actionable insights and practical steps. They introduce the Iron Council, a robust network designed to support men through common struggles, and urge listeners to join their community for continuous support and resources. This episode is essential for any man looking to tackle life's obstacles and achieve personal growth.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) - Episode Intro (00:42) - Debate Over Modern Society (09:40) - Debt, Government Spending, and Economic Impact (17:09) - The Importance of Accountability and Growth (31:40) - Boosting Testosterone and Legal Issues (37:32) - Exploring Depression and Insightful Solutions (48:45) - Navigating Divorce and Finding Growth (53:48) - Iron Council Enrollment Announcement (57:33) - Take Action to Become Your Best

Own Your Shit | DAVE FIELDING Jun 04, 2024

If you’re like me, when you were a young boy, you had dreams of growing up to be an American hero and/or a spy like James Bond. But what does that actually mean in real life and, what does it take? My guest today is a man who has done just that. His name is Dave Fielding, Green Beret turned American Spy. And, today, he shares some of his insight into the world of US intelligence including what we can do to protect ourselves and maintain our rights. We talk about how arrogance hurts you but also how it might be able to help, how the common citizen deciphers between false and accurate information, the importance of owning your shit, the power of asking yourself, “why” in all things, and how self-awareness leads to a fulfilled life.

Show Highlights

(00:00) - Episode Intro
(00:40) - Embracing Growth Through Seeking Help
(03:49) - Personal Growth in Intelligence Operations
(20:07) - Concerns About National Security
(25:18) - Building Trust in Three Letter Agencies
(33:26) - Assassination Involvement and Counterterrorism Strategy
(46:49) - Unpacking Emotional Healing and Growth
(60:13) - Redemption and Improvement Through Darkness

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Navigating a New Divorce | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES May 31, 2024

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler his journey through the emotional upheaval of divorce and offers actionable advice for others facing similar challenges. Ryan emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, accountability, and personal development across mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, and financial dimensions. With a candid approach, Ryan discusses the dangers of repeating destructive patterns, the need for strong parenting during separation, and strategies for fostering resilience and growth post-divorce. Practical steps for managing financial challenges and maintaining a positive trajectory are also covered. This episode serves as a beacon of hope and guidance for men striving to rebuild their lives and emerge stronger after the pain of marital breakup.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:52) - Navigating the Challenges of Divorce - (12:58) - Navigating Divorce - (17:24) - Personal Growth After Divorce - (26:26) - Navigating Divorce - (36:39) - Navigating Life After Divorce

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Leading with Honor The Ethical Authority Debate | ASK ME ANYTHING May 29, 2024

Join us in this week ASK ME ANYTHING as we share our exciting preparations for an upcoming axis deer archery hunt in Hawaii. Listen in as we detail the rigorous daily archery practice sessions and the vital adjustments needed for pinpoint accuracy – reminiscent of zeroing in a rifle. We'll explore the delicate balance between high expectations and the humility that comes with such an immersive outdoor experience, emphasizing the need for adaptability, not just in hunting, but in all walks of life.

Power and leadership come with immense responsibility, a theme we tackle head-on as we discuss the contentious ideas put forth by Erik Prince and the ethical implications they carry. We scrutinize the thin line between the beneficial use and potential abuse of power, drawing insights from religious texts and philosophical musings on the human condition. In a similar vein, we navigate the intersection of personal faith and secular professional life, advocating for the integration of Christian principles in a way that respects diverse beliefs while avoiding logical fallacies in reasoning.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Intro 00:40 - Preparing for Archery Hunt in Hawaii 07:43 - Power and Responsibility in Leadership 15:58 - Biblical Principles in Secular Environments 28:43 - Effective Networking and Increasing Earning Potential 33:22 - Navigating Relationships and Self-Improvement 46:55 - Letting Go and Moving On 52:46 - Complimenting Ryan's Resemblance

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HARRISON SCHENCK | Save Your Sons May 28, 2024

If we have any hope of saving this great nation, we’re going to have to learn to turn to the generation behind us and equip them with the mindset of truth, righteousness, and individual responsibility. Unfortunately, much of society (including the halls of academia where they spend most of their time) are hellbent on instilling the mindset of relativism, degeneracy, and victimhood.

Today, I’m joined by Harrison Schenck of Save Your Sons to talk about what it’s going to take to turn the tide of culture for our boys who we’ll eventually call on to lead. We talk about the participation trophy generation, the warped conception of what a man is, overcoming the neediness of boys and men, when comparison can serve us, the dangers of “white knighting,” and saving our sons for and from society.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:50) Navigating Authenticity in Online Presence

(08:00) Understanding Masculinity in Modern Society

(18:25) Understanding Masculinity and Modern Relationships

(29:14) Pre-Grieving and Voluntary Hardship

(40:10) Maximizing Potential Through Comparison

(43:11) Importance of Caring What Others Think

(46:11) Legacy, Truth, and Setting Examples

(50:41) Gender Roles and Response Max Rule

(57:24) Men and Women

(01:03:42) Collaboration for Positive Impact

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Man Vs. Bear | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES May 24, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the dance between male and female dynamics, revealing how both genders offer distinct yet complementary strengths. He shares insights into the power of personal growth, encouraging men to forge ahead in their journey of self-improvement.

From physical fitness to the mental grit informed by stoicism, he lays out a blueprint for men to stand as pillars of reliability and emotional intelligence. Listen in for strategies that challenge and change antiquated notions, paving the way for healthier, more meaningful connections. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:21) - Man vs Bear Debate Amongst Women (03:54) - Building Strong Masculine Identity (16:13) - Enlist Other Men in Battle (21:47) - Iron Council Enrollment for 2024

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Defeat Your Inner Critic, the Paradox of Choice, and Beating Bitterness May 22, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:42) Political Turmoil and Health Concerns

(07:32) Frustration With Politics and Personal Growth

(16:51) Overcoming Impostor Syndrome and Judgments

(26:13) Realistic Expectations Through Mentorship

(30:46) Navigating Life Transitions and Family Dynamics

(44:08) Learning Empathy and Letting Go

(48:10) Overcoming Challenges and Staying Focused

(54:43) Finding a Partner

(01:02:54) The Paradox of Choice in Relationships

(01:14:57) Upcoming Interviews and Resources

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GS YOUNGBLOOD | The Crucial Difference Between Men and Women in Relationships May 21, 2024

We know we’d like to step more fully into our masculinity in relationships. We, as men, inherently know that it makes for a much more rewarding and fulfilling partnership with the fairer sex. But what does it look like in practicality and application?

My guest today is author and men’s coach, GS Youngblood. Today, we talk about why masculine leadership is a gift, how to evoke women to relax into their femininity, why a man’s job is to provide structure to a relationship and how to do it, how men should handle their emotions, and why, in relationships, it can be a good idea to address feelings first and facts later.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:52) Masculine Leadership in Relationships

(10:59) Masculine Blueprint for Relationship Success

(24:16) Navigating Masculine Leadership in Relationships

(33:52) Navigating Selfishness and Assertiveness in Relationships

(43:16) Embodying Presence in Relationships

(53:15) Men's Bootcamp Program Discussion

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Men, Be More Assertive | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES May 17, 2024

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explores the pivotal role of assertiveness in men's lives, discussing how embracing this quality can lead to a more fulfilling and commanding existence. He addresses the spectrum of communication styles – passive, aggressive, and passive-aggressive – and unpack why assertiveness stands out as the most effective approach. Ryan also introduces five transformative daily exercises designed to steer men away from less effective communication habits and towards a more confident and direct way of expressing their desires.

Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:50) - Episode Intro - (00:50) - Becoming More Assertive - (06:27) - Steps to Assertiveness in Communication - (12:58) - Developing Assertiveness in Communication - (18:38) - Learning to Be Assertive and Honest - (28:06) - Be Assertive and Honest Always

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Men’s Impact on Boy Scouts, Personal Growth, and Achieving Balance | ASK ME ANYTHING May 15, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:50) Men's Impact in Boy Scouts

(05:43) Impact of Values on Organizational Change

(18:00) Navigating Publishing and Mental Health

(23:50) Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth

(35:53) Choosing and Addressing Life's Challenges

(42:35) Balancing Work, Family, and Goals

(58:16) Moving Past Resentment and Focusing Forward

(01:04:17) 30 Days to Battle Ready

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NICK FREITAS | Are You Good at Being a Man? May 14, 2024

You want to be a better man than you currently are. If that wasn’t the case, you wouldn’t even be listening to this podcast. Regardless of where you are on your path and how you feel about how you show up in life as a father, husband, business owner, and/or community leader there is room left on the table for all of us to step up even more.

My guest today, Nick Freitas, shares with us some insight onto how to do just that. Today, we talk about what “bad guys” get right, why, “happy wife, happy life,” is garbage, the role of women and men in family and society, harnessing masculinity for good purposes, addressing and dealing with your insecurities, and the difference between being a “good man,” and being, “good at being a man.”

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:50) Defining Masculinity and Family Role

(09:18) Navigating Relationships and Divorce Challenges

(18:38) Test of Loyalty in Marriage

(26:36) Navigating Decisions and Communication in Marriage

(32:26) Exploring the Bad Boy Archetype

(38:46) Understanding Men's Emotional Maturity

(44:25) The Roles of Men and Women

(49:58) Traditional Gender Roles and Mental Health

(53:53) Traditional Gender Roles in Marriage

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In All Things, Be Intentional | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES May 10, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down how we can live the life we desire by being intentional. He uncovers how to identify what truly matters, reduce the noise of modern distractions, and live with deliberate action to better serve ourselves and those we care for. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

- (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:40) - The Importance of Being Intentional - (12:24) - Articulate Your Goals and Enlist Support - (20:59) - The Importance of Alignment and Boundaries - (28:27) - Being Intentional in Becoming a Man

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Impactful Challenges for Men, Achieving and Maintaining Excellence, and Making Hard Choices | ASK ME ANYTHING May 08, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions LIVE from the Order of Man Uprising event. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:50) Men's Impactful Challenges and Growth

(10:26) Achieving and Maintaining Excellence

(15:37) Choices and Integrity

(26:02) Achieving Balance in Alpha Relationships

(33:08) Navigating Growth and Burnout in Community

(44:37) Event Schedule and Team Appreciation

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RICK TRIMMER | Build a Life You’re Excited About May 07, 2024

You want a life you’re excited to live. That’s a given. But why does it continue to be so elusive? That’s a question my guest and good friend, Rick Trimmer, has spent the last 20 years of his life trying to answer. From building 12 highly-successful businesses to traveling the world with his family for the past decade, he knows a thing or two about what makes a person a success and how to make it so for the average man. Today, Rick and I talk about getting over what other people think of you, creating integration between professional and personal pursuits, how to identify what types of businesses to start, the ability to let the non-issues slide, the power of consistency and persistency, and, ultimately, how to build the life you desire.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:52) Overcoming Failure and Taking Action

(08:28) Mindset and Expectations in Business

(13:20) Letting Things Slide for Better Relationships

(20:32) Lessons From Growth and Resilience

(31:34) Navigating Modern Challenges With Scarcity Mindset

(35:56) Life Changes and Travel Adventures

(44:24) Embrace Life's Adventures and Experiences

(53:49) Travel, Family, and Business Tips

(01:03:27) Adventure Education and Experience Retreat

(01:07:39) Outdoor Adventure Event Planning and Vision

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Stress-Reduction Strategies | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES May 03, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses several different stress reduction strategies, and how to manage anxiety effectively. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(01:14) Men's Stress Management Strategies for Success

(04:40) Managing Stress Through the Five W's

(17:05) Managing Stress Through Various Techniques

(20:42) Managing Stress and Anxiety Effectively

(31:26) Maintaining Stress Management Strategies

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Do Not Misrepresent Your Failures, Moving on From Hardship, and Identifying Truth and Lies May 01, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:52) Misattributing Failure

(10:34) Self-Awareness and Perspective

(16:54) Navigating Challenges in Modern America

(20:27) The Importance of Developing Marketable Skills

(33:20) Improving Relationships Through Understanding & Communication

(40:28) Navigating Relationships With Intention and Acceptance

(52:21) Navigating Failure, Accountability, and Overcoming Lust

(01:01:02) Understanding and Overcoming Relationship Blockages

(01:08:53) YouTube Channel Growth and Reflection

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UFC LEGEND JIM MILLER | Life as a Fighter Apr 30, 2024

Most men have never been in a fight in their life (or, at most, a handful). So, what does it take to enter the Octogon and make a 16-year career (and counting) of administering and receiving the brunt end of physical violence. It’s something my guest today, UFC legend, Jim Miller, has done. And, he’s brought us so many incredible moments in the world of professional MMA.

Today, Jim and I talk about what it takes to fight for a living and why he believes he was built to fight. We cover some of the highs and lows of his career including his debilitating battle with Lyme disease and his recovery, how he shapes his training atmosphere for maximum results, how to win and lose with class and grace, ensuring he never puts himself into the victim role, and his immense respect for men who step into the cage with him.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00)Episode Intro

(04:18)Fighter Nicknames and Future Fights

(11:42)The Path to Success in MMA

(24:46)Navigating Public Opinion and Personal Standards

(30:46)Parenting and Fighting

(42:02)Lyme Disease and Its Impact

(56:01)The Lifestyle of Hunting and Fighting

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Purpose, Passion, and a Plan | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Apr 26, 2024

Have you ever felt that undeniable spark when you're doing something you genuinely love, something that lights you up inside? That's what we're chasing in this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES episode, as Ryan Michler dissects the essence of purpose, passion, and planning. He'll look at the stark reality that so many of us are disconnected from our work, and lays out the challenge to break free from that norm and find pride in our daily grind.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) Episode Intro - (00:50) - Purpose and Passion, and Fulfillment Formula - (13:17) - Planning for Fulfillment

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Ownership over Victimhood, Handling Aggression, and Letting Go Apr 24, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:50) Racism in Employment and Crime Rates

(10:28) Addressing Social Issues and Consequences

(21:36) Navigating Life's Challenges and Adapting

(36:39) Letting Go and Moving On

(45:10) Handling Aggression With Grace and Empowerment

(52:10) Letting Go and Finding Forgiveness

(01:03:11) Impact of Relationships and Vulnerability

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DUSTIN DIEFENDERFER | Are You Tough Enough? Apr 23, 2024

“Tough” is an adjective we often associate with our perception of manliness. But in the relative ease of modernity, men are becoming increasingly soft and pathetic. Being tough is no longer amatter of survival but a matter of choice. And, why wouldn’t you choose to be tough? It’s rhetorical but why are so many men weak?

My guest today, founder of MTNTOUGH, Dustin Diefenderfer is a man who knows what it means to be tough. He’s also training thousands of men to do the same though physical fitness that matters in the mountains and in everyday life. Today, we talk about the importance of brotherhood, the reason every man needs a purpose, passion, and plan, taking “tests” to quantify your progress, what he calls, “the 10-year rule,” the “Spartan Effect,” and so much more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

What does it mean to be tough?
The importance of brotherhood
Why every man needs a purpose, passion, and plan
Taking "tests" to quantify your progress
The "10 year rule"
The Spartan Effect

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Communication is King | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Apr 19, 2024

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler tackles the often-unspoken side of communication—the receiver's role. He unpacks the concept of a 100-100 approach, where both parties carry equal weight in ensuring the success of a conversation. He explores how being aware of the intended outcome can shape our understanding and responses, and why it's crucial to set personal and time boundaries for a respectful and fruitful dialogue. As he dissects these responsibilities, he also addresses the need to actively strive for comprehension rather than feign ignorance, shedding light on how these practices contribute to more meaningful interactions.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(01:50) The Responsibility of Effective Communication

(09:54) Effective Communication and Logical Fallacies

(13:28) Building Stronger Relationships and Communication

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OJ Simpson, Faith in Your Course of Action, and Taking on Other People’s Issues Apr 17, 2024

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, the news of OJ Simpson's passing hit the headlines, it set off a whirlwind of emotions and retrospection about the impact of celebrity and the justice system on society. Our latest discussion is an unflinching look at how we remember those who've led tumultuous lives, and the struggle to honor the departed while acknowledging their controversial legacies. Kipp and I delve into societal expectations when it comes to paying tribute to such individuals, weighing the scales of public opinion against legal outcomes, and sharing our personal reflections on the matter.

Stoicism offers a beacon in the fog when personal integrity seems at odds with external pressures. It's a philosophy that Kipp and I summon as we navigate the maze of life's decisions, from the verdicts handed down by juries to the practices of parenting amidst societal shifts. This episode is an open invitation to our listeners to consider the influence of conscience over fear. We share stories from our own lives, from blending families to supporting friends through personal struggles, which illustrate the profound impact of our choices and actions in shaping our path to authenticity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:50) Controversy Over OJ Simpson's Death

(14:08) Essence of Integrity and Legacy

(23:19) Prove Yourself and Earn More

(34:51) Circle Inclusion and Impactful Influence

(44:05) Respecting Tradition and Honoring Culture

(54:41) Navigating Introducing Significant Others to Kids

(01:01:08) Supporting a Friend With Alcohol Struggles

(01:12:34) Taking Responsibility and Taking Action

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MATT GUTMAN | When Anxiety Attacks Apr 16, 2024

If you’ve never experienced an anxiety attack, it’s hard to articulate the sense of fear and dread one can elicit. It wasn’t until earlier this year when I experienced an anxiety attack, did I fully realize how difficult it can be to understand and process. My guest today is ABC News’ chief national correspondent, Matt Gutman, and author of No Time to Panic: How I Curbed My Anxiety and Conquered a Lifetime of Panic Attacks. We talk about destigmatizing men’s mental health issues, what anxiety truly is and how to curb it when it sneaks up, powerful mindfulness techniques to keep you present in the moment, SSRI’s for the use of anxiety and stress, and riding yourself of the shame that can be a primary driver of anxiety.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:51) Understanding Panic Attacks vs Anxiety

(13:04) Dealing With Panic Attacks

(26:52) Overcoming Panic Attacks in Broadcasting

(32:19) Healing Through Psychedelics and Emotional Expression

(36:33) Ketamine Therapy Experiences and Benefits

(42:40) Breaking the Stigma on Mental Health

(47:36) Online Outreach for Mental Health Support

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Forgive Yourself | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Apr 12, 2024

Ever wrestle with the specter of past mistakes? In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler guides you to breaking free from guilt and embracing a future of self-growth. He delves into the transformative act of self-forgiveness, laying out a roadmap for freeing oneself from the chains of regret. Through heartfelt discussion, he unpacks the power of acknowledging our missteps and the impact they've had on others, as well as the subtle art of making amends. Learn five actionable strategies to forgive yourself, and discover how to offer sincere apologies without falling into the trap of manipulation or over-apologizing.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:47 - 01:28) Learning to Forgive Yourself

(07:17 - 08:16) Moving on Without Acceptance of Apology

(17:32 - 18:38) Recognizing Personal Growth

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Do Not validate Mental Derangement, Men are NOT worthless, and Gi or No-Gi BJJ in a Street Fight Apr 10, 2024

In this week's ASK ME ANYTHING, join me as Kipp and I navigate the complexities of social dynamics and personal responsibility, covering everything from the art of making plans to the nuances of gender roles. We ponder the paradox women face when preferring men to initiate contact, as well as the thorny issue of toxic feminism and its impact on society. We dissect the idea of body identity integrity disorder (BIID), delve into the psychological ramifications of affirming unrealistic beliefs, and the significance of men and women in our communities.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(00:50) Issue of Transgender Medicine Controversy

(14:57) Toxic Feminism and Misandry Implementation

(20:57) Taking Action to Manage Anxiety

(32:59) Building Strong Partnerships in Life

(40:30) Effective Use of T-Shirts and Jiu-Jitsu

(49:35) Self-Defense and Jiu Jitsu Training Tips

(55:58) Balancing Responsibilities in Life

(01:07:31) Online Business via Social Media

(01:12:59) Tools for Becoming a Better Man

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BEDROS KEUILIAN | Adversity Introduces a Man to Himself Apr 09, 2024

Most men live soft, sedated lifestyles. Then, they expect themselves to perform at the highest possible standard when life gets real. At best, they wonder why they can’t seem to get ahead in their personal and professional lives and, often, chalk it up to luck or poor external circumstances. My guest today, Bedros Keuilian, makes the case that only in adversity is a man revealed to himself and why it’s so crucial every man learns to develop the mental fortitude required to succeed in life. We also discuss the how the work we do in private shows itself in public, how to avoid the destructive drift of life, where vulnerability fits into the equation with men, what one question every man is attempting to answer for himself, Bedros’ idea of the “Karmic Bank Account,” and why the “covenant of the blood is greater than the water of the womb."

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Episode Intro

(01:10) Men's Personal Development Program Misunderstood

(09:53) Healing and Bonding Through Adversity

(22:41) Men's Accountability and Emotional Vulnerability

(33:26) Overcoming Victim Mentality and Identity Labels

(39:46) Breaking the Cycle

(48:47) Discovering Self Through Stillness

(59:39) Connecting With Bedros Koulian on Projects

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When All Of Society is Lost, Create Your Own | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Apr 05, 2024

In this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler delves into the heart of reclaiming masculinity and fortifying communities. Unpack personal growth strategies, from fitness to meditation, and learn how to enhance family bonds and societal ties. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what's working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) Episode Intro - (01:01) Threats to Cultural Traditions - (05:39) Improving Health Through Daily Exercise - (11:00) Building Skills for Personal Growth - (17:07) Building Strong Community Connections - (21:14) Impactful Men Serving Those Closest

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Manipulative Media, The Power of the Human Spirit, and Affording Yourself Some Grace | ASK ME ANYTHING Apr 03, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode Intro

(21:12) In a relationship, when is it time to decide that enough is enough?

(24:05) What is your full hunting setup, and lessons learned on this journey?

(27:55) What’s the best advice you can give a man after having an awkward interaction with an ex?

(31:56) What are your methods for developing patience?

(37:10) Recovery update

(39:05) What would you say to a man who hasn’t hit rock bottom yet, but avoided it in a way?

(47:56) What is the hardest quadrant to remain consistent in for you on the battle plan, and what tactics can we deploy to shift out of that mindset?

(50:35) What are some strategies on being calm when doing something new?

(55:40) What are some practical ideas or resources to move past the fear of losing security and becoming more of a sovereign man?

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JOSHUA BROOME | The Lies That Will Ruin a Man's Life Apr 02, 2024

With so many false narratives, it’s easy to get caught up in deceit, deception, and destruction. We don’t intentionally go out seeking these thoughts, ideas, and concepts that will do damage, but they have a way of creeping into our lives all the same. That’s why it’s crucial that we remain diligent and steadfast in seeking the truth about the way we operate as men. Today, I’m joined by former pornstar turned preacher, Joshua Broome to talk about these lies and, most importantly, how to protect ourselves and our loved ones against them. We talk about the dangers in objectifying others, learning to be comfortable in our own skin, why money and fame won’t satisfy your soul, getting over the false approval of others, and why only you can be you (and, why that’s a huge advantage).

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode intro
(4:00) The destructive role that pornography plays in men’s lives
(7:30) The danger in objectifying others
(9:30) Why money and fame won’t satisfy your soul
(17:10) Getting over the false approval of others
(43:32) Why only you can be you, and why that’s a huge advantage

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Men Aren’t Meant to Go At It Alone | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 29, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 4 different reasons why every man needs men in his corner. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

4 Reasons why a man needs other men in his corner

(2:52) You need a sounding board
(5:04) You need some accountability
(7:17) Look for opportunities from other men
(8:42) Friendship and fellowship

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Don’t Rescue People, What is “Wokeism,” and Imperfection is Relateable. Mar 27, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode Intro

(11:20) What is a leadership trait you admire?

(24:35) What do each of your children say about you when you’re not in the room?

(31:14) Best piece of advice for someone going through divorce, and what is the hardest part about going through a divorce?

(43:24) What is the most memorable conversation you’ve had with a guest on the show?

(46:58) Any suggestions on dealing with the loss of a family member?

(58:16) What was the most important lesson learned during the order of man journey?

(1:04:07) Should you let your kids come to you in a situation where you’re not currently seeing them, or do you chalk it up as a loss?

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JEFF KARP | Energize Your Brain Mar 26, 2024

Do you feel like you’re not reaching your full potential? So many men know there is more to life and more to what they’re capable of doing. But, at times, we all fail to realize what we know, deep down within us, that we can accomplish. So, what then do we lack if we know what we want but fail to obtain it. I believe the answer is systems to ensure that we’re on the path to success. My guest believes that as well. His name is Jeff Karp. He is a biomedical engineer at Harvard Medical School and MIT and the author of his latest book, LIT (Life Ignition Tools). Today we talk about the power of questions and curiosity, what true diversity looks like and how only it can lead to strength, how neurodiversity and plasticity will change the way we look at problems and solutions, the power of pressing pause, and finding new ways to develop conscious thinking.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode intro
(8:30) How neurodiversity and plasticity will change the way we look at problems and solutions
(11:32) The power of questions and curiosity
(14:25) Tapping into your flow state
(21:31) The power of pressing pause
(32:45) You don’t need to solve all problems, just the ones you’re bothered by
(36:08) Stay proximate to the problem
(50:00) What true diversity looks like and it can only lead to strength
(54:15) Finding new ways to develop conscious thinking

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Why Every Man Should Dress Well | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 22, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses dressing for success, common misconceptions about this concept, and how to elevate how you look and present yourself. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode intro
(10:30) Looking like a slob will deter someone from reaching out and trying to further engage with you
(11:28) Make sure what you are wearing is in alignment with who you want to be
(12:58) Investing in your appearance WILL make a difference, and is worth the time put forth
(13:51) Price vs cost
(15:58) Considering and communicating your why
(17:15) When your office lacks a dress code, it’s easy to drift
(19:40) The advantages of having a standard uniform
(26:10) Caring about what the right people think of you

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Victimhood Culture, Time Management Vs Task Management, and Modern Dating Tips | ASK ME ANYTHING Mar 20, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode Intro

(18:49) Is there a happy middle ground in planning your day, and tips to improve on day to day organization?

(25:33) Have you felt frustration in your kids bushing your boundaries, and how do you combat it?

(31:35) Best way to find a new partner after getting out of a long term relationship?

(39:43) Why is there a large amount of men conversing in the OOM Facebook group about broken relationships?

(46:47) When was the last time you lost your temper, and what did you learn upon reflection?

(55:12) How do you establish boundaries early on in relationships?

(59:12) What advice would you give to someone who knows what needs to get done, but is procrastinating doing it?

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Growing Excellence in Yourself and Others | RYAN HAWK & BROOK CUPPS Mar 19, 2024

Men are called to lead. But too many men lack the skillset to do it effectively. That’s the badnews. The good news is that much of the skillset required to lead can be learned, developed,and harnessed to serve the people you care about. It’s just a matter of whether or not mendecide to invest in the tools available to better their lives and the lives of the people around them.

My guests today, Ryan Hawkand Brook Cupps, know a lot about the tools required as they areboth extremely successful in leading others in their own right. Today, we talk about the threemost powerful ways to build trust (laughing, crying, and suffering), the difference andimportance between being trustworthy and trust-giving, why it’s crucial to deflect praise andembrace criticism, how curiosity serves your most important relationships, and the differencebetween intuitive and analytical leading.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(11:30) How do you know you’re on the right path?
(18:50) The difference between intuitive and and analytical leading
(38:08) The three most powerful ways to build trust
(39:55) The difference and importance between being trustworthy and trust willing
(45:32) We’re all role players
(51:22) Why it’s crucial to deflect praise and embrace criticism
How curiosity serves your most important relationships

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What to Do to Fix Relationships | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 15, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses SIX Key things you can incorporate into your life to get you back on track when you screw up. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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You must realize that you can’t undo the past—own the mistake
Begin to make amends
Ask for expectations when it is appropriate
Changing your behavior
Have check ins
Having your own personal after action review

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Repairing Damage to Others, Keeping Training Playful, and Red-Lining When it Counts | ASK ME ANYTHING Mar 13, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode Intro

(20:54) What are the differences between the periods of pushing hard towards your goals to the point of overextending oneself and experiencing mental burnout?

(36:48) If someone had started listening to the OOM pod years ago but stopped, should they pick back up where they left off, or start with the most recent episode?

(39:46) What is the process you’d recommend to someone choosing their team on The Iron Council?

(42:38) When do you know when it’s time to let go of a friend?

(49:00) Am I sending my kids the wrong impression about physical presentation when I’m less careful about it at home?

(54:15) How do we begin to repair and own up to the mistakes and repercussions of them that we might have made in regards to our family?

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RICKY SCHRODER | Correcting the Degeneracy in Hollywood Mar 12, 2024

Hollywood is at the forefront of the sexualization of society. Unfortunately, many in the entertainment industry just aren’t willing to speak up and against what is taking place and working to combat that sexualization and the increasing pornography epidemic. But it’s not only that, much of the way we see culture is shaped through the lens of what Hollywood wants to promote, not necessarily what we want to see.

My guest today has been inside since he was just a boy. His name is Ricky Schroder and he’s made it his life’s mission to bring moral, heroic stories to the silver screen and to fight against the rampant pornography industry. Today, we talk about how Hollywood is a reflection of society, what he refers to as “counter programming,” whether or not 1st amendment rights actually do cover pornography, how pedophilia is being pushed as a “sexual orientation,” and how to course-correct the degeneracy in Hollywood.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(2:12) The life and upbringing of a childhood actor
(8:16) How Hollywood propaganda impacts our nation and its counter programming
(16:00) Hollywood is a reflection of our society
(24:45) Whether or not our first amendment rights cover pornography
(20:03) How pedophilia is being pushed as a sexual orientation
(32:30) How to course correct the degeneracy in Hollywood
(40:57) How AI and robotics can infiltrate the porn industry

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Pick a Fight | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 08, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the SIX key things that you can do to find your battle to fight, and why it’s important to have a battle. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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SIX key things that you can do to find your battle:

Questions to ask yourself to find your fight (see below)
Creating your plan
What’s your next first step?
Continue to make yourself more capable
Enlist other men into your battle
Look at this as a process of evolution

Questions to ask yourself in order to find your FIGHT:

What am I doing when time moves the fastest?
What are you doing that people are continuously asking your advice for?
What would you do, if money were of no concern?
What injustices do you see in the world?

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Moral Capitalism, Dealing with Exes, and Don’t Try to Change People | ASK ME ANYTHING Mar 06, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(17:54) Do you ever feel yourself feeling cynical about the world, and how do you overcome that feeling?

(25:06) What are some strategies around building self worth outside of what’s going on at work?

(29:35) At what age do you take a boy from being provided for, to teaching him to be providing.

(35:42) What do you keep in your vehicles, and is it actually what you need for emergent situations and unexpected overnight stays?

(41:04) Tips on coparenting, and parenting alongside an ex partner’s new spouse, or parenting a new partner’s children.

(46:13) Rationalization can be either a cue to know when something is wrong, or the carefully planning of effective tactics; what are some indicators for you that identify the differences between the two?

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JASON KHALIPA | Train, Protect, Provide Mar 05, 2024

You know as well as I do the world needs more capable men. Inherently, we all want to do right by the people we love and care about, but the question is, are we doing anything about it? It can be a challenge to take care of ourselves with all the demands of life but the demands of life require that we operate at our fullest potential.

My guest today, Jason Khalipa, is a man who knows all too well what it takes to succeed at the highest level and be there for our people. He is a Crossfit Games Champion, Jiu-Jitsu Brown Belt, and an incredibly successful entrepreneur. Today, we talk about balancing professional and personal pursuits, how and why to prioritize fitness, changing culture in your home, work, and community, the power of shared suffering with other men, and why every man needs to train, protect, and provide.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

Creating the fittest community locally
How training hard can translate mentally and into real life circumstances
All men should be able to train, protect, and provide
An in depth explanation of EMOM and AMRAP
The benefits of CrossFit and strength training

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How a Man Builds Sovereignty | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Mar 01, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler talks about the concept of sovereignty and the four realms of our lives that it encompasses. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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4 realms of sovereignty in our lives

Faith: Is it your sovereignty, or God’s sovereignty?
Friends and family: Having integrity in yourself
Fitness: Are you exactly where you want to be?
Finances: Getting yourself out of debt

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When to Limit Transparency, False Summits, and Toxic Work Environments | ASK ME ANYTHING Feb 28, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(10:34) What are the top three things to be prepared for when things go awry?

(19:54) What is your soul crushing MMA move?

(22:14) Have you ever pressure tapped (MMA)?

(25:16) What kind of filters do you use in the decision making process, if any?

(39:02) Is there a limit to how transparent you are to those you lead?

(43:25) Do you think men only join brotherhoods when they’re encouraged to do so because of nature or nurture?

(48:04) How to stop feeling lonely and insecure because of lack of dating experience?

(58:00) What do you consider signs of a toxic work environment, and when do you know when it’s time to leave?

(1:04:00) What are some important lessons that fathers can teach their daughters?

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Saving the West Through Culture, Entertainment, and Sports | JAKE & BLAIN CRAIN & DAVID CONE Feb 27, 2024

Our conversation today is a great follow-up to the conversation we had with Hollywood actor and producer, Kevin Sorbo, last week. We have to fight the issues where they are and, right now, entertainment and sports are at the front of the battleground to capture, and re-define what manliness looks like in the west today. I’m not interested in letting that happen and neither are my guests, Jake Crain, Blain Crain, and David Cone. They are the hosts of Crain & Company where they discuss cultural commentary through the world of sports. Today, we talk about the dangers of censorship in sports and culture, why so many people stand on money when they should be standing on what is right, how sports shapes much of our views on men, masculinity, and society, why we as a culture tend to mistakenly prioritize tolerance and acceptance, how sports is a powerful answer to the fatherlessness epidemic, and how to shift the Overton Window back from where it’s trending.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

The dangers of censorship in sports and culture
Why so many people stand on money when they should be standing on what is right
How sports shapes much of our view on men, masculinity, and society
Why we as a culture tend to mistakingly prioritize tolerance and acceptance
How sports is a powerful answer to the fatherless epidemic

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5 Obstacles and Answers to Starting a Business | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Feb 23, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses what it takes to succeed as an entrepreneur. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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5 Things to be aware of when starting a business

It’s going to take a lot of time and energy up front, and become more efficient overtime.
Additional costs continue to accrue.
You’re going to make mistakes along the way.
Learning how to communicate with all sorts of different people.
There’s a challenge in making sure you’re continually growing.

5 Solutions you can consider when starting your own business

Recognize that you’re in a season when working on the startup.
Plan ahead for those additional costs that build up.
Work with coaches and building entrepreneurial friendships to combat the mistakes you will make along the way.
Recognize that all people are not like you.
Knowing that what got you here, might not get you to the next point.

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Hazing for Men, Why Systems are Crucial, and Building Financial Sovereignty | ASK ME ANYTHING Feb 21, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Steve Baumgartner take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode Intro

(8:09) How important is hazing, and how do you know that it’s gone too far?

(14:36) How do you make habits that contribute to having discipline and consistency.

(24:17) When you’ve taken on a lot of responsibilities and start to feel like you are stretched too thin, how do you decide which things to keep and which to discard?

(37:56) What are the critical questions you ask yourself when evaluating your leadership and building a successful team?

(43:01) How do you keep up with your battle plan when things get busy at work and home?

(52:42) Where do you draw the line between do it yourself and hire out?

(59:05) What is your best advice when considering a career switch?

(1:05:55) How do we get to a place where covert contracts and establishing hidden expectations of our significant other no longer exist?

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KEVIN SORBO | The Cultural Battleground For Masculinity Feb 20, 2024

It’s no great surprise that many of our cultural institutions are actively rallying against masculinity and the virtues that made this country great. Nowhere is that truer and more accurate than with the Hollywood elites who shape much of the cultural ideology that is so pervasive in society today. Today, I am joined by actor, Kevin Sorbo, to talk about what it looks like from the inside and how he (and others) are working to shift the cultural and societal conversation happening there. Today, we talk about the overt emasculation of men, the hijacking of Hollywood, the battle of ideologies taking place in the entertainment industry, and also hot cultural buttons like transgenderism, unvetted illegal immigrants, the dangers of the World Economic Forum, and so much more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

The overt emasculation of men
The hijacking of Hollywood
The battle of ideologies taking place in the entertainment industry
Hot cultural buttons including: Transgenderism, unvetted illegal immigrants, the dangers of the world economic forum, and more!

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Courage > Confidence | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Feb 16, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the concept of not settling. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

5 Ways You Can Develop Your Courage

Look at life as a game
Making more courageous decisions today
Surround yourself with courageous individuals
Practice being courageous
We can hedge the risk in our lives by operating in abundance and developing sovereignty

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Moments of Self-Betrayal, Winning Where You Are, and Letting Go of the Man You Were | ASK ME ANYTHING Feb 14, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of actually doing the work and not just planning and thinking about it. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(2:16) What do you think stops men from deciding to make improvements today?

(22:14) How long have Kipp and Ryan known each other?

(30:31) Talk about forgiveness of yourself and others and the impact that it has on the work around us.

(45:46) What are the three most powerful lessons that you’ve learned with your belief in Christ, your marriage, and your legacy?

(49:35) How to set boundaries while also cultivating creativity with your kids’ interests?

(57:00) How do you manage to identify which areas to tackle first and systems to implement for your Jiu Jitsu journey?

(1:05:45) Any tips and suggestions for starting a podcast?

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CHE | From Prison to Patriarch Feb 13, 2024

My guest today is a man who spent 15 years behind bars trying to figure out how to get out of the destructive patterns and habits he had acquired growing up with violence, gangs, and drugs. And, although not all of us have been convicted and segregated from society, I think each and every one of us can relate with what it takes to overcome adversity and setback. He goes by the name of Che and, today, we talk about emotional control, learning to forgive yourself for past wrongdoings, in what ways prison (and the military) can simplify life and make things easier, harnessing your desires to healthy outlets, the perversion of modern masculinity, and overcoming the path of no purpose.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

Emotional control
Learning to forgive yourself for past wrongdoings
In what ways prison and the military can simplify life
Harnessing your desires for healthy outlets and healthy outcomes
The perversion of modern masculinity
Overcoming the path of no purpose
Adapting to life after prison

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Don't Settle | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Feb 09, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the concept of not settling. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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5 mindsets you can incorporate to ensure that you aren’t settling

Believe that you are worth more than you think you are
No one owes us anything
ou’re either growing or dying in life
You already have everything you need to succeed in life
Some people will want you to succeed and others will not

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Planning Your Personal Life Like Your Professional Life, Do's and Don't of Creating a Brand, and Learning to Delegate Effectively | ASK ME ANYTHING Feb 07, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Alan Placer take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

(4:02) What advice can you give to men trying to start their own business, and the first steps to venturing into self-employment?

(12:00) What are the first three things you would do if you were to start a brand new business without using any of your current funding and contacts?

(20:06) What are the key components to creating, foraging, and fostering your brand?

(30:15) What advice do you have for transitioning from working in the business to working on the business?

(39:03) What are your favorite ways of getting comfortable with getting uncomfortable? Do you have any recommendations for how we can recognize and create those controlled environments for ourselves?

(48:42) How to be productive working from home with kids?

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VICTOR MARX | The Burden and Blessing of Masculinity Feb 06, 2024

My guest today is a man who is not only comfortable with violence, but he’s also comfortable with empathy, compassion, and forgiveness. And, I think that is EXACTLY what makes us men – the ability to administer violence and the capacity to restrain ourselves and harness it for good.

His name is Victor Marx, a high-risk humanitarian. And, today he is here to talk about what is really going to down in Israel, the risk it poses to the United States, the fight of good and evil in society today, surrounding yourself with the right people, how to make important decisions based in love, and the burden and blessing of masculinity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

What’s really happening in Israel and the risks that it possesses to the U.S.
The fight of good and evil in society today
Surrounding yourself with the right people
How to make important decisions based in love
The burden and blessing of masculinity
The power of God against evil

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What Would the Man I Want to Be Do? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Feb 02, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler asks one simple question: What would the man I want to be do? Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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How to become the man that you want to be:

You must identify who that man is
Ask yourself what you notice about other men that you respect.
Detach yourself from the result

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Unnecessary Intellectualism, Perfection Paralysis, and Imposter Syndrome | ASK ME ANYTHING Jan 31, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(8:33) What are some of the best ways to strengthen and improve consistency?

(19:02) How do you recover from burnout, and what are some ways to combat imposter syndrome when taking on a moonshot goal?

(32:43) Who are your top 3-5 bucket list guests?

(42:08) How do you deal with peoples’ previous impressions of you as you are evolving and bettering yourself?

(50:56) Is the media blowing things out of proportion in the U.S.?

(56:05) What are some lessons you’ve learned in marketing?

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NOAH KAGAN - How to Build a Million-Dollar Business Jan 30, 2024

So many men aspire to build a thriving, rewarding business. They’re dissatisfied with their work and know there is something more to both their personal and professional lives. But very few men know how to do it. My guest today, Noah Kagan, is a man who does as he has a track-record of creating multiple million-dollar organizations. And, he’s here to peel back the curtain and show us how in his newest book, The Million Dollar Weekend: The Surprisingly Simple Way to Launch a 7-Figure Business in 48 Hours.

Today, we talk about the need to believe you can create a great life and doing the work to have it, why your future results start with today’s actions, the often-overlooked reason the slow and steady pace is best for building businesses, the power of rejection, why offering your product or service is so much more than a sale – it’s a duty, and so much more.

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Peeling back the curtain on how to create a million dollar organization
The surprisingly simple way to launch a 7 figure business
The need to believe you can create a great life and doing the work to have it
Why your future results start with today’s actions
The often overlooked reason why the slow and steady pace is best for building businesses
The power of rejection
Why offering your product or service is so much more than a sale, it’s a duty.

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The Art of the Ask | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jan 26, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why it’s so important that you learn to ask for what you want in life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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FIVE key things that you can incorporate in order to ask for what you want

Know what you want.
Know what you offer.
Avoid attaching your worth to rejection.
Ask for feedback.
Experiment with asking for things in low consequence environments.

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Why You Should Hunt, Eliminate Expectations, and Focus on Skills Over Tools | ASK ME ANYTHING Jan 24, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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(0:00) Episode Intro

(2:06) What are the nutrient dense and high protein items you utilize for your diet?

(15:14) When did you both realize that you had a desire to make a difference in the lives of men?

(32:34) Is there any way to get the word out there to the women in our lives that want to grow alongside of us that there is also a group for women?

(38:44) How do you realize when you have a good idea for business and what strategies do you recommend for a younger man looking to get into entrepreneurship?

(51:43) What is the one daily habit that has stood out that has helped move the needle in your life in the direction that you’re crafted in your vision?

(59:08) What is the significance of being a peacemaker versus a peacekeeper?

(1:03:34) How would you explain the Iron Council to significant others who lack a complete understanding of the movement?

(1:08:52) Any news on the next Order of Man legacy event?

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GEORGE KAMEL | Don't Be Broke Jan 23, 2024

I don’t really believe there is an excuse to be broke in today’s society. But there are factors that contribute to both the mindset and the behaviors that keep many men from financial prosperity. But once you become a man, I think your excuses expire. You, after all, are responsible for your own financial abundance and prosperity. In fact, it’s one of the core tenants of manliness – to provide. Today, I’m joined by Dave Ramsay Personality, George Kamel, to talk about what keeps us from achieving the ultimate wealth and prosperity we desire. We talk about some common, pervasive myths about money, what exactly is the ‘money matrix,’ and how to break free from it, the importance of ‘relational equity’ in the wealth-building process, the three emotions keeping you from financial prosperity, and so much more.

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What keeps us from achieving the ultimate wealth and prosperity that we desire.
Common pervasive myths about money
What is the “money matrix” and how to break free from it
The importance of relational equity in the wealth building process
The three emotions keeping you from financial prosperity
Cash flowing assets versus depreciating assets

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The Truth Shall Set You Free | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jan 19, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses telling yourself the truth, why it’s important, and how you can incorporate the truth into your life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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FIVE tactics to becoming more honest

You have to make a commitment to the truth regardless of any pain involved.
Quantify your results.
Surround yourself with truth tellers.
Do not let your emotions sabotage you.
Tell the truth to other people.

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Accepting Grief of Failed Relationships, Training People How to Communicate With You, and Doing the Right Things for Right Reasons | ASK ME ANYTHING Jan 17, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(3:00) Can you give specific examples on how the Iron Council has impacted your life and helped you reach certain goals?

(15:42) How do we, as men, accept grief that follows us after a woman we love leaves us

(23:50) What are some tactics in trying to heal a marriage you feel irritated in?

(39:49) How do you move forward from feeling burnt out, and how do you give yourself self love?

(46:54) What worked and didn’t work for you after using Keith Yackey’s 5 Dial program

(53:11) Advice on getting out of a rut and back on your feet after a separation?

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BRUCE FLEMING | Saving Our Service Academies Jan 16, 2024

The state of our U.S service academies is in continual decline which tracks considering every branch of the military has and will continue to struggle to meet its recruiting and retention goals. But how can it be the premier fighting force in the world is finding it so difficult to appeal to the millions of young men it has historically recruited? My guest today has been a professor at the U.S. Naval Academy since 1987. His name is Bruce Fleming and today we talk about the dangers of the Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) agenda infused into our service institutions, why many young men are turned away from the direction of the U.S. military, what service academy attendees expect to find vs. what they actually find on campuses, and why academia and politics is ruining the future of our military fighting force.

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The dangers of The Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion Agenda
Why many young men are turned away from the direction and messaging of the U.S. military
What service academy attendees expect to find when they join versus what they actually find on campuses
Why academia and politics is ruining the future of our military fighting force
Joining the military is not what it used to be
The warped definition of sexual assault

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How a Man Finds Purpose in Life | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jan 12, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses how men find their purpose in life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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FIVE key points on how to find purpose

Go all in with where you are
Explore all of your hobbies and interests
What problems do you see with the world?
What have you personally gone through and overcome that will help other people’s problems in a similar situation?
Tap into a higher power

THREE Questions to ask yourself in order to see what you have an aptitude for

What would you be doing if money was no concern?
What advice are people asking your for?
What am I doing when time goes the fastest?

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Structured Time with Men, Hobby vs. Career, and the Ritualization of Manhood | ASK ME ANYTHING Jan 10, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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(0:00) Episode Intro

(2:46) What are the best ways to combat a man’s urge to isolate himself, even if he’s got a band of brothers.

(9:05) How do you balance finding a hobby/passion and choosing to pursue it as a career or business idea; what usually separates the two in your mind?

(21:46) What are some strategies to help you to stop being resentful and/or bitter?

(30:22) Will there be another season of Order of Man on the Warrior Poet Society Network?

(31:17) What would be an example of something that young men should do and implement to get initiated into becoming a man or what should a father do in order to initiate his son into manhood?

(36:44) What is the best way to grow a coaching business?

(41:18) Where to draw the line on engaging with your children and letting them learn to occupy themselves?

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MATT BEAUDREAU | The Broken Public School System Jan 09, 2024

The public school system is broken. Most of us know that and even if we do, it's hard to see a viable alternative to what so many have adopted as the way to educate our children. But the public school system is not conducive to the way children learn and what they'll be exposed to once they graduate. But even with this knowledge, only a few people are doing something about it. And my guest today, Matt Beaudreau, is one of them.

Today, we'll uncover what he's doing to solve the problem of the educational system. We talk about how and why the education system is simply a behavioral management program for a large group of people, why we've decided to outsource our education, how public school has become the largest religion in the country, why we decided to lower the standards for our children and how to fix that, and how to develop and find specific aptitudes for our children.

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The problem with the education system and how it’s being solved
Why the education system is simply a behavioral management program for a large group of people
Why we have decided to outsource our education
Why public school has become the largest religion in our country
Why we decided to lower the standards for our children and how to fix it
How to develop and find specific aptitudes for our children
What Apogee Education is and entails

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Handle Adversity Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Jan 05, 2024

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses adversity and shares 5 different mindsets you can incorporate in order to combat and overcome this year’s inevitable challenges and hardships like a man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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FIVE tips to help overcome adversity

Our energy is infectious
Adversity comes and goes
Adversity is opportunity
Realizing our triggers and where they come from
Emotions are a factor, not the only factor

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Properly Evaluate Your Capabilities, Manage Your Energy Effectively, and Overcome an Alcohol Addiction | ASK ME ANYTHING Jan 03, 2024

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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(0:00) Episode Intro

(2:05) How to deal with critics that aren’t supportive of your goals and dreams?

(12:42) How do you navigate a situation where a family member needs to move out of your house?

18:30) What 2024 look like for the Iron Council?

(26:46) How do you evaluate and strategize your goals and tasks in relation or consideration to your capacity?

(33:34) Three questions you can ask yourself on energy management

(36:18) How would you mentally prepare for a court hearing that is holding a family member in contempt of court?

(42:49) Do you have any tips for a marriage proposal, and then steps to take following an engagement?

(44:50) Advice on setting a long term goal on how to cut alcohol out of your life.

(52:32) What is one key area you found most impactful as a new husband that you wish you had prioritized or focused on?

(59:47)What is the most valuable lesson you’ve learned in 2023?

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ADAM LANE SMITH | Are You Anxious, Avoidant, or Secure? Jan 02, 2024

I’ve spent a lot of time over the past 18 months looking into the various attachment styles of men – anxious, avoidant, and secure. I think we all intuitively know that “secure” is the best place to be, but the question is, “How do we get there?” It’s especially difficult considering our engrained attachment style drives so much of our decision-making process – much of which is subconscious. My guest today is licensed psychotherapist and attachment specialist, Adam Lane Smith. Today, Adam and I discuss building secure, sustainable relationships, why responsibility breeds security and why we subconsciously avoid it, how the chemicals, Oxytocin and Vasopressin, drive our emotional and problem-solving connections, and why every man needs to work on building his “male solution network.”

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Building secure and sustainable relationships
Why responsibility breeds security, and why we subconsciously avoid it
How the chemicals oxytocin and vasopressin drive our emotional and problem solving connections
Why ever man needs to work on building his male solution network
The different attachment styles seen in men
Modern day dating
The 5 clusters that are relied on to create healthy and secure attachment
Modern femininity versus masculinity
Building emotional intimacy

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When Discipline Falls Flat | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Dec 29, 2023

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses what happens when discipline falls flat and provides 5 questions you can ask yourself to help you get back on the path. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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FIVE questions you can ask yourself to help you get back on the path

What is your plan?
Where did that plan fail?
What and who are your resources?
What information do you not have?
What is your system and how can your current systems be improved?

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Hope vs. Despair, Restoring Integrity, and The Value of Pure Intent | ASK ME ANYTHING Dec 27, 2023

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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(0:00) Episode Intro

(7:22) What are some goals that both of you have set for next year?

(14:19) What skills do you use to overcome anxiety?

(24:22) Do the hard times we experience in life draw us towards or away from God?

(30:20) What advice do you have towards continuing to grow and enter new territory in regards to that growth?

(35:17) How do you view annual planning?

(39:14) What goals should I be making in order to connect more effectively with my wife?

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MICHAEL GERVAIS | Get Over What Others Think of You Dec 26, 2023

Fear keeps most men from pursuing meaningful and fulfilling opportunities in life – whether romantic, a business start-up, having a hard conversation, asking for a promotion or the sale, etc. But it really isn’t what we think it is – the fear of failure. More often than not, it’s the fear of what others may think about us that keeps us from going after what we desire. My guest is Dr. Michael Gervais, a psychologist who studies mastery and what keeps us from obtaining it. In fact, he has worked with Super Bowl Champions, Olympic Gold Medalists, and some of the most elite performers in the world. Today, we discuss FOPO (fear of people’s opinions), the first rule of mastery, why we care so much about what others think, how we over-index approval as a necessary part of tribe building, and the dangers in being a one-dimensional man.

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What keeps us from obtaining mastery
Fear of people’s opinions
The first rule of mastery
Why we care so much about what others think
The dangers in being a one dimensional man
Single focused mindfulness and contemplative mindfulness
How to be present

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Make the Most of 2024 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Dec 22, 2023

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses key things you can do to actually make 2024 your year. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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FIVE key things you can do to make 2024 your year

Make a plan
Invest in yourself
Prune the tree
Commit to mastery
Rework the plan

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The Importance of a Tribe, How a Man Shows Up, and Confronting Toxic Employees | ASK ME ANYTHING Dec 20, 2023

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

(0:00) Episode Intro

(12:15) What advice would you give men going into 2024 trying to execute their main goal?

(19:03) What is your strategy for creating a successful time block schedule

(26:44) Is it appropriate to keep the same vision for an undetermined amount of time if it is still applicable?

(38:31) In a work environment, what advice can you offer in ways of managing older men?

(45:42) Why are most men so quick to put others down and criticize those who spend time creating?

(55:46) What is your opinion on the idea that at some fundamental level, certain aspects of people are just who or how they are?

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LEX ROBINSON | Producing Peak Performance Dec 19, 2023

All of us know there’s gas left in the tank of our own personal performance. And, yet, with all the tasks and responsibilities we bear, the distractions to overcome, and our own ability to deceive ourselves, it’s challenging to meet the bare minimum at times let alone go above and beyond. So then, how exactly do we excel and produce the lives we desire for ourselves and our families. My guest today has the answers. His name is Lex Robinson and he is a peak performance coach and mentor. Today, we talk about the concepts of “calendar worship,” “power down process,” and “religious unitasking.” We also discuss the benefits of learning how to communicate directly, removing unimportant distractions from our lives, getting clarity on what we desire, and so much more.

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Understanding a person’s tone and demeanor
Communicating directly with others
Getting clarity on what we truly desire
Getting comfortable with discomfort
Giving credit where credit is due
Recognizing others’ value
Overcoming distractions
Excelling and producing the lives that we desire

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Stop Procrastination For Good | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Dec 15, 2023

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses five key strategies that you can employ in your life to reduce, eliminate, and eradicate procrastination. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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You must link the effort to the result
Identifying the lowest common denominator
Collapse your timeframe and use Parkinson’s Law to your advantage
Make lists
Building a carrot and a stick

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How to Overcome Fear, Identifying Deeply-Seeded Non-Negotiables, and How to Receive Compliments | ASK ME ANYTHING Dec 13, 2023

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(6:00) what does leading your family spiritually and “in faith” mean to you?

(15:30) Why are religious men so condescending toward non-believers?

(29:00) What are several non-negotiable that you have and how have you integrated those into your battle plan?

(40:30) When you fall short of achieving a standard that you hav been working toward, what changes need to be made in order to get yourself and your mindset back on track?

(47:00) Whats another word for “The Manosphere”?

(50:20) Do you think it’s disrespectful to not respond with “thank you” when receiving a compliment?

(54:30) Can you provide some insights for how to effectively navigate a situation when a woman I have been seeing may no longer be interested?

(62:00) How do you deal with fear?

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LARRY HAGNER | How to Build a Movement of Men Dec 12, 2023

For many of you, this is the first Order of Man podcast you’ve ever listened to. For many of you, you’ve listened to all 1,100+ shows we’ve done. Regardless, what you may not know is that we’ve been at this mission – reclaim and restore masculinity – for almost 9 years. And, I can’t think of a better way than to wind this year down as we ramp up for 2024 with a man, friend, and mentor who has been in the same game just as long as we have. His name is Larry Hagner, Founder of The Dad Edge, and, today, we talk about turning a passion into a profession, how we can best learn from our past, the key of forgiveness and what it unlocks in ourselves and others, how to raise each of our unique children, and how to create a men’s movement that matters.

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Turning a passion into a profession
How we can best learn from our past
The key of forgiveness and what it unlocks both in ourselves and others
How to raise each of our unique children
How to create a men’s movement that matters
The growth of men’s podcasting
Behind DadEdge
The differences in raising boys versus girls
What playing sports growing up is actually for

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Goal Setting That Actually Works | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Dec 08, 2023

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the FIVE components of goal setting that actually works. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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5 components of goal setting that actually works

Have a vision for where you’re going
Our objectives in the four key areas of goal setting (mental, physical, emotional and spiritual)
Everyday tactics
Have checkpoints along the way
After action review

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The Limits of Personal Rights, Confronting Fear, and Wrestling with God's Will | ASK ME ANYTHING Dec 06, 2023

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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(5:35) What does it mean to be a man?

(10:15) Why is it important to be surrounded by other men who hold you accountable?

(10:40) What are your thoughts on the goal of counting calories vs. eating clean. Do you value one method when it comes to weight loss?

(17:00) What tips do you have for taking written and verbal advice?

(29:20) How do you discern between holiday traditions that are valuable, expected, or just busy-work?

(35:40) When dating at this stage of your life, what constitutes a woman of value for you?

(44:50) Do you believe individual rights or personal freedoms have any boundaries or limitations?

(51:00) What are your best books of the year?

(52:30) How do you change an ingrained negative attitude toward the business held by the employees?

(59:10) How do you deal with fear?

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The Limits of Personal Rights, Confronting Fear, and Wrestling with God's Will | ASK ME ANYTHING Dec 06, 2023

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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(5:35) What does it mean to be a man?

(10:15) Why is it important to be surrounded by other men who hold you accountable?

(10:40) What are your thoughts on the goal of counting calories vs. eating clean. Do you value one method when it comes to weight loss?

(17:00) What tips do you have for taking written and verbal advice?

(29:20) How do you discern between holiday traditions that are valuable, expected, or just busy-work?

(35:40) When dating at this stage of your life, what constitutes a woman of value for you?

(44:50) Do you believe individual rights or personal freedoms have any boundaries or limitations?

(51:00) What are your best books of the year?

(52:30) How do you change an ingrained negative attitude toward the business held by the employees?

(59:10) How do you deal with fear?

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BERT SORIN | Why Delusionally Passionate Men Win Dec 05, 2023

Passion and delusion aren’t two terms we often think of working in harmony but my good friend and guest today, Bert Sorin, makes the case that some of the most successful people in the world are not only the most passionate but often believe (with no valid reason to) that they have what it takes to succeed. Today, we talk about the ebbs and flows of life and improving the average between the two points, creating intentionality behind our actions, why EQ is oftentimes more important than IQ, holding back in life when we shouldn’t, and so much more.

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The ebbs and flows of life and improving the average between the two points
Creating intentionality behind our actions
Why EQ is often more important than IQ
Holding back in life when we shouldn’t
Thinking in advance
Rather than thinking “what can this give me today”, think “what can it give when I’m gone”.
Putting in the effort
Where you start doesn’t matter

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Are You Quitting for the Right Or Wrong Reason? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Dec 01, 2023

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the concept of quitting, and prompting FIVE unique questions to ask yourself in order to determine whether or not it’s right to leave what you’re deciding to quit. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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5 questions to ask yourself before you quit

Is my feeling towards this thing temporary or sustained?
What does my gut, heart, soul, and/or instinct tell me?
Is there something that I can do to make this situation better?
What is it that I really don’t like about the circumstances, and can I search deeper?
Is the grass truly greener on the other side?

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Make Your Life a Masterpiece, The Value in Failure, and How to Inspire Your Children | ASK ME ANYTHING Nov 29, 2023

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(10:30) What is the biggest reason that you believe men leave the Iron Council?

(18:20) How do you act like your life has no limits or act like today is your last?

(30:00) How can we as men be confident that we are right about what we believe in?

(42:30) How do you overcome limiting beliefs and imposter syndrome with starting a new business?

(51:20) How do you push through on the days where you don’t feel like putting in the work?

(54:00) What was the most important first step oof your business and how did you manage the stress of supporting your family while taking the leap?

(1:02:20) How do you motivate and encourage your kids?

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MIKE MASSIMINO, NASA Astronaut | Achieve the Impossible Nov 28, 2023

Life is full of hard-learned lessons. We all know that. But it’s been said that, “A smart man learns from his mistakes, a wise man learns from the mistakes of others.” That’s why this podcast is so powerful – because we get to hear from incredible men doing incredible things who can teach us things that would be painful, delayed, and expensive to find out ourselves. And, I can think of few men as qualified to do so as former NASA Astronaut, Mike Massimino. Today, Mike and I talk about some of his best lessons learned in the NASA program and in space including, “no one leaves the pool until everyone passes the test,” learning to adjust to life and your goals along the way, what was different about NASA astronaut candidates that made them successful, knowing when to pivot and break a few rules, and how to achieve the seemingly impossible.

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Mike Massimino’s books Moonshot and Spaceman
What it takes to be an astronaut
Space isn’t always glamorous
Passion and dedication
Military culture
If you really understand something, you should be able to communicate it to anybody.
No one leaves the pool until everyone passes the test
Hubble space telescope missions

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A Pragmatic Guide to Gratitude | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Nov 24, 2023

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses a pragmatic guide to gratitude, giving five reasons why we should be grateful, and five practical steps you can implement in order to have more gratitude in your life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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5 reasons to be grateful

Being grateful makes you a more likable person.
Being grateful makes you more trustworthy.
Being grateful makes you happier.
Being grateful makes you less desperate.
Being grateful creates more opportunities for you.

5 ways to implement gratitude

Say thank you, be kind, be polite.
Give compliments.
Take advantage of your blessings.
When things go wrong, look for the good.
Use your resources to help others.

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Bad Habits or Destructive Tendencies, Why Work Life is Easier Than Home Life, and That Which is Measured Improves | ASK ME ANYTHING Nov 22, 2023

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(12:00) Even though I have worked very hard to get on a good path, I still feel desires to fall back into old patterns of destructive behavior. Will these desires ever go away?

(19:00) How should I find a new path of work to move toward if I know that I will be unable to perform my current job forever?

(28:00) What are your Thanksgiving traditions?

(31:20) What have you learned through your hunting experiences?

(39:30) Why is it easier to perform at work than it is at home?

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BRIAN JOHNSON | Theory, Practice, Mastery Nov 21, 2023

We all know there is a formula for success in any venture. We’ve all heard things like, “success leaves clues,” and seen certain people replicate success over and over and over again. And, yet, so many men struggle to create and maintain success on the professional and personal front of their lives. That’s why it’s so important we learn what protocols are required to achieve the results we desire. Today, I’m joined by philosopher and CEO, Brian Johnson to talk about his theory of Arete and why success on any level is so simple yet so elusive. We talk about what confidence in others actually is and how to develop it, how talent won’t get you all the way to your goals, why intrinsic motivation must be your pursuit, and the Stockdale Paradox and how to use it to your advantage.

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Brian’s upcoming book Areté: Activate Your Heroic Potential
Maintaining trust and integrity gaps
What were you doing when you were at your best?
Creating micromoments
Being grateful for the little things
The meaning behind the word “hero”
Ancient wisdom, modern science, and practical tools
Training heroes

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The Only Thing That Matters is What You Actually Do | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Nov 17, 2023

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of actually doing the work and not just planning and thinking about it. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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Stop thinking, stop planning, start doing the work
People don’t care about what you say, they care about what you do
Life is too short to NOT take action

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How to Get Yourself Out of a Rut, Doing the Work of Your Shadow, and Re-Establishing Trust With Your Wife | ASK ME ANYTHING Nov 15, 2023

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.

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(0:00) Episode intro⠀

(1:45) What What are some things you’ve done to embrace your shadow and reclaim pieces of yourself that were within it?

(15:10) How do I scale my business when I only have one technician to do the work?

(26:30) What are ways and tips to overcome mental ruts as quickly as possible?

(34:10) How do I get my wife to understand that just because I work from home doesn’t mean that my job isn’t demanding as well?

(51:40) What do you suggest someone do to begin preparing for the deterioration we are seeing in the world?

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JIM KWIK | Upgrade Your Brain Nov 14, 2023

Men, our minds are nearly limitless and yet we spend an inordinate amount of time reading, running, working out, practicing hobbies, talking with other people, performing as best we can across various mediums and take so little time developing the power of our brains and minds. Of the nearly 500 guests I’ve had on this podcast, all of them believe their thing is the most important thing and, yet, it’s the mind that makes everything else possible. That’s why I wanted to have repeat guest, Jim Kwik back on the podcast to discuss how to leverage the gray matter between our ears. We talk about everything from learning to learn faster, the 6 thinking hats for decision making, 4 cognitive types (Cheetah, Owl, Dolphin, and Elephant) and how to use this information, and becoming the pilot of our minds, not just the passengers.

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