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Is OnlyFans Ruining Relationships or Redefining Power? Apr 08, 2025

OnlyFans: Empowerment or betrayal? In this explosive episode of On The Contrary, we dive deep into the blurred lines between independence, intimacy, and insecurity.

We’re asking the real questions:

• Is starting an OnlyFans without your partner’s approval a form of cheating?

• Can a man really handle dating a woman who makes more money from OF than he does?

• Is society ready to respect creators the same way we respect CEOs and doctors?

From finance to feelings, this convo gets RAW. Expect bold takes, heated debates, and some serious truth bombs.

Would YOU be okay with your partner on OnlyFans? Sound off in the comments. Like, comment, and subscribe for more unfiltered conversations.

Booty Calls Part 2: When Feelings Get Involved… It Gets Messy | On The Contrary Apr 01, 2025

The conversation gets even hotter in Part 2—because let’s be real… once feelings get involved, booty calls get complicated. This episode, we’re diving into the real-life situations, the messy moments, and when “just sex” turns into something way more.

🔥 Can you keep it casual when someone starts acting different? 🔥 Is it fair to expect more just because you caught feelings? 🔥 When does a booty call turn into a relationship without the label?

It’s juicy, it’s real, and no one is holding back. Tap in, hit that like, and drop a comment—have you ever been in too deep with a booty call?

📺 Watch now on ItsonsiteTV.com & YouTube #BootyCalls #Podcast #OnTheContrary #Situationships #NoStringsAttached #HookupCulture #SpicyTalk #ViralPodcast

Is Hip-Hop Hurting the Black Community or Telling Its Truth? Mar 25, 2025

Does hip-hop reflect the struggles of the Black community—or does it reinforce them? In this unapologetic episode of On The Contrary, the conversation gets deep, emotional, and real as we unpack the impact of hip-hop on Black relationships, families, and identity.

We dive into the hard questions:

Is hip-hop destroying the Black household or just exposing it?

How does music influence how Black men treat Black women—and vice versa?

Are absent fathers the real root issue, or is it something deeper?

Can love survive in a culture shaped by lyrics glorifying money, power, and pain?

This isn’t just about music. This is about accountability, healing, and breaking cycles. If you're ready for a raw, unfiltered look at culture, community, and truth—press play.

Booty Calls: No Strings Fun or Just a Fast Track to Drama? | On The Contrary Mar 18, 2025

Are booty calls really no strings attached, or is someone always catching feelings? This episode, we’re breaking down the game—from sneaky links to whether a late-night “come thru” can turn into something real.

🔥 Can booty calls ever stay drama-free?

🔥 Do men and women see them the same way?

🔥 How much are people actually spending just to get some?!

We’re talking the do’s, the don’ts, and the straight-up messy moments. Tap in, don’t get caught up, and let’s get into it!

📺 Watch now exclusively on ItsonsiteTV.com & YouTube!

💬 Drop a comment—are booty calls a good setup or a waste of time?

Polygamy: True Love or Just an Excuse to Cheat? Mar 12, 2025

Is polygamy real love or just a way to avoid commitment? We’re debating whether having multiple partners is about freedom, emotional maturity, or control. Does it actually work, or is it just chaos?

💬 What do you think? Drop your thoughts in the comments!

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Would You Sleep with a Married Person? The Controversial Truth Mar 04, 2025

Is it ever okay to sleep with someone who’s married? Is cheating always black and white, or are there gray areas? In this explosive episode of On The Contrary, we dive into the moral, emotional, and societal consequences of infidelity.

Men vs. Women: The Brutal Truth About Cheating & Forgiveness Feb 25, 2025

Why is it that when men cheat, they want a second chance—but when women cheat, it’s unforgivable? In this explosive conversation, we break down the double standards of infidelity, how men and women cheat differently, and the role social media plays in temptation. Emotional cheating vs. physical cheating—does one hurt more? Let’s talk about it!

Get It How You Live featuring Eliza Reign Jan 22, 2025

In this episode, we have Eliza Reign in the studio, and things get heated when she and Organik discuss a man's role in dating. We also find out if dating someone who lives far has its benefits and we help a listener who is dating a younger woman.

The Best of 2024 Part 2 Dec 19, 2024

Even more laughs, more advice and more best moments of 2024.

The Best of 2024 Dec 19, 2024

In this episode we put together all the best advice, laughs and best moments of 2024.

Work Husband Dec 03, 2024

On this episode we learn about the pitfalls of workplace relationships and the hosts give a listener some advice after making a mistake at work that could cost her the bag.

Cougar Chronicles Nov 19, 2024

In this episode we find out who is still thinking about their ex, learning how to communicate with your partner and we give advice to a woman who is dating a younger man.

Toy Story with Diamond the Body Nov 12, 2024

On this episode we have Diamond the Body sitting in the studio with the crew to discuss giving your partner a hall pass, being open minded about toys and googling someone before you ignore them.

From Ashy to Classy Nov 12, 2024

In this episode, we discover what we would change if we could travel back in time and how you upgrade your partner's style. We also help a listener who is dealing with a jealous husband.

Break My Soul Oct 29, 2024

Have you ever dated someone who embarrassed you or cheated to get out of a relationship? In this episode, we find out if those strategies work. We also discuss what to do after a breakup and what to avoid in new relationships.

Dating After a Breakup Oct 22, 2024

In this episode, we find out if soul mates are real, if gifts should be returned after a breakup and what to do if you start missing an old flame. We also help a listener who is back in the market after a being in a long relationship. 01:02 Are soul mates real? 03:02 Do you miss old flames? 04:34 Does Mr. Organik have a kindred spirit? 10:12 What lessons have you learned from a past relationship that brought into a new one? 16:48 Can you find love after a breakup?

More Money More Problems Oct 16, 2024

In this episode, we find out if life was easier before making money and we ask the age-old question does money buy happiness? We also help a listener who just came into some money and we find out if you can build an empire while also maintaining a relationship.

Hurry Up and Wait Oct 08, 2024

In this episode, we find out who likes to prank their significant other and if there is ever a time when your goals are more important than your relationship. The hosts also help a listener with a marriage ultimatum.

Thick As Thieves Oct 01, 2024

In this episode, the hosts travel back in time and we find out what they would tell their younger selves. We also help a listener who has a BFF with sticky fingers.

Long Distance Loving Sep 24, 2024

In this episode we find out if one of the hosts has ever stolen from a partner and what's the craziest lie they have ever told someone. We also get to the bottom of long-distance relationships and if they ever work.

Spying On Your Boo Sep 10, 2024

In this episode, we find out what’s the craziest thing someone has done for love, why checking your partner’s phone is risky and we help a listener deal with a cheating fiasco.

00:50 Have you ever created a fake account to find out if your significant lover is cheating?

03:20 What’s in Organik’s phone?

06:00 What are your last 10 photos?

08:45 What’s the craziest thing you’ve done in the name of love?

11:20 Why is Xena sleeping in the studio?

16:06 Luis shares a wild story about how far you will go for love.

21:03 He cheated on me 6 months ago!

28:00 Is monogamy overrated?

37:55 Quit the road rage.

Money Talks Sep 03, 2024

In this episode we find out if any hosts have ever kept a financial secret from a partner, we ask if a man support you and we breakdown why people should open their horizons when dating.

01:05 Have you ever kept a financial secret from your partner?

05:32 Have you ever lent money to a partner and not been paid back?

17:30 Should a man you’re with financially support you?

25:40 Should a man court you?

27:35 Who should pay if you go out to eat?

32:02 Telling your partner your financial flaws?

35:46 Opening your horizons when dating.

39:18 Looking at who your partner is following on social media.

The Keys to Success with Smart (Part 2) Aug 27, 2024

In part two we have the crew and Smart giving their thoughts on marriage, power structures and giving sound advice to a listener who is having an issue with her boyfriend. Follow Smart https://www.instagram.com/thesmartguy_?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

The Keys to Success with Smart (Part 1) Aug 20, 2024

On this episode, we have motivational speaker, artist, and future light heavyweight champ Smart discussing his keys to success and why leadership and accountability are important in the black community.

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Flag on The Play Aug 13, 2024

In this episode, we discover what happens when the honeymoon phase is over and if any hosts have ever ghosted someone. We also answer a listener’s questions, give some tips on how cheaters get caught and we find out why safety is always important.

00:39 Have You Ever Clicked With Someone In The Bedroom But Hated Their Personality?

07:56 How Do You Handle Red Flags Once The Honeymoon Period Is Over?

23:17 Is Subscribing To Your Ex’s OF Page Cheating?

37:42 Get This Off My Chest!

Corn But With a P Aug 06, 2024

In this episode, the hosts discuss which city has the best gentlemen’s club and why people are addicted to certain private home videos. The crew also gets to the bottom of why people cheat and we have something to get off our chest this episode.

The Pajama Jammy Jam Jul 30, 2024

In this episode, the hosts break out their finest sleepwear as they discuss what they would do in Vegas if they could hang out with any celebrity and had to spend a million dollars in 48 hours. We also find out how far into the relationship granny panties make their first appearance and the hosts show off their acting skills.

Welcome To The Circus Jul 23, 2024

In this episode, we discover what song gets the team started for the day and why holding money to your ear might be considered clown behavior. The crew also gives a listener some great advice and we get something off our chest!

Career Day Jul 16, 2024

In this episode, we discover which countries have the most beautiful people, who are better at keeping secrets and the hosts have something to get off their chests. We also find out what secret talents the crew has that nobody knows about.

Should I Stay, Should I Go? Jul 09, 2024

In this episode, we find out how the hosts have grown since their past relationships, why some people stay in abusive relationships and the crew introduces a new segment that will have you rolling on the floor laughing.

Back To The Future Jul 02, 2024

In this episode, we give flowers to those who helped us along the way and we find out how our past affects our current relationships. We also give a scorned listener advice on what to do about a co-worker who snatched her crush away.

Breakups to Makeups Jun 25, 2024

In this episode we find out what percentage of your ex’s want you back and the hosts reveal the biggest arguments they’ve had with their partners. The crew also gives advice on how to deal with a pathological liar.

Who Is Thee Prize? Jun 18, 2024

How important is forgiveness in a relationship? What things have you learned from past partners and relationships? We get to the bottom of these topics and find out who is actually thee prize in a relationship.

Case Of The Ex Jun 11, 2024

Can you be friends with an ex? Can your new boo be friends with their exes? We explore this topic, give the people some great book recommendations and get in everyone’s business with a confession segment that you won’t want to miss.

Could You Be Kept? Jun 04, 2024

On this episode we explore age gaps and being kept. Rah’s all men cheat campaign continues and the jokes roll in as always, join us for the latest episode of On The Contrary

Love Don’t Live Here Anymore May 28, 2024

The hosts get personal with this week’s opening question and an ambiguous question of the week leads to a spicy conversation with the hosts. You don’t want to miss this episode of On The Contrary.

Untitled May 21, 2024

From subs to tough love we learn a bit more about our hosts and what makes them tick. Join us for another episode of On the Contrary.

All Black Everything May 14, 2024

If you want to see how we go from celebrity crushes to the black experience and end up becoming Asian students in under an hour join us for another wild ride on this episode of On The Contrary.

Paging Dr. Miami… May 07, 2024

The hosts discuss the double standard when it comes to beauty standards and the pros and cons of going under the knife. Join us for this hilarious episode!

Kickin It with Cutty Apr 30, 2024

We have switched things up, new studio, who this? And we have our first guest ever! Join us as we get to know author and dating coach @Passport_Cutty

Lucky Number #13 Apr 23, 2024

Join us for another wild episode where we discuss everything from Porn Names to Astrology. The jokes are never ending and we sprinkled in some real advice for a listener with an issue.

All The Feelings… Apr 16, 2024

In a never-ending journey to be better partners, the hosts explore the idea of forgiveness and what love and support look like in a relationship.

When Its Not Fun Mar 27, 2024

The Cast gets serious…well as serious as they can be with tips to get through the tough times. An email from a listener brings opposing views in this hilarious new episode. Join us so you can get some game and get these jokes.

Upgrade U Mar 13, 2024

In this episode we explore how learning from your past relationships and mistakes can help you in the future. Laugh with us as we struggle to accept our faults and become the best version of ourselves.

Hunting Season Mar 06, 2024

Not sure where to find a quality partner? Need tips on how to identify a good one? Look no further, our hosts give you a lil bit of game to help you hunt down and bag a quality partner?

Being a Good Partner Feb 21, 2024

Our hosts explore body swapping, being a good partner and give advice to a husband going through it. Join us!

Kids and Thangs Feb 14, 2024

We learn more about our hosts as they bring levity to serious convos about having children, inheritances and more…

Back in the days Feb 07, 2024

We take a trip down memory lane and reminisce about an experience that was either Wild, Funny or Embarrassing. Join us for story time!

Everything but the D;@&! Jan 31, 2024

Are you knocking it out of the park every time? What’s the perfect soundtrack in the bedroom? These questions and plenty more get explored on this episode of On the Contrary

A Little Bit of This, A Little Bit of That Jan 24, 2024

We had a clear direction when we started this episode, we took a couple detours, talked some ish, learned some ish and as always leaving you wanting more…

Get your Freak On Jan 10, 2024

Title Get your Freak On

DOES IT MAKE SENSE TO CONFESS TO CHEATING? 1:23

SEX: HOW MUCH IS AVERAGE 5:18

BODY COUNT 7:30

TOPIC OF THE WEEK KINKS N THINGS 10:38

QUESTION OF THE WEEK 18:45

GET IT OFF YOUR CHEST 24:41

Let me ask you a question? Dec 27, 2023

An unplanned game of 20 questions takes us from bad housekeepers and weekend trips to lubricants and vasectomies. It will all make sense (we promise!), just relax and enjoy the ride.

Takeoff Dec 20, 2023

Meet your hosts as they welcome you to On The Contrary:

The new podcast presented by Onsite! that explores Love, Dating, Sex, Marriage, Divorce, City Girls, F@#$ Boys and everything in between. Come take this journey with your hosts @Rah_Ali @MrOganik @_Mnimn_Lbernardez & @Au_Natural38

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