No Small Talk- Conversation Starters for Introverts

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50. 6 Conversation Starters That Will Take You From Chit Chat to Connection Feb 05, 2021

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Preparing for social settings and interactions will help you feel more comfortable and confident. What better way to prepare than to have 1 or 2 conversation starters in your tool kit that you can use anywhere?

In today's episode we compile conversation starters from guests from our previous episodes. These conversation starters are sure to create intimacy and connection with anyone you're talking to. Our conversation starters are designed to create more interesting and memorable social interactions. The great thing about our conversation starters is that they start off with one basic question, but will prompt a back-and-forth exchange of ideas and lead to other interesting topics. Use them and watch your relationships grow stronger as you share your answers and listen to others.

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No Small Talk is hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; produced by Wale "Breathe Easy" Balogun

49. Walking into your Extroverted Purpose as an Introvert Feb 03, 2021

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Do you feel like you’re called to do something more? Know you have a greater purpose in life, in this world? As introverts, when we are called to do something in an extroverted world we can be frozen by fear. It can be many reasons, maybe it’s fear of failure, fear of not being up to the task, fear of judgment, and what people may say. In this episode, Ebony is going to be talking to you about how we as introverts can walk into our extroverted purpose. This isn’t easy for us! But we want to encourage you that you are NOT alone. We all go through this! But you know what? You can do it - you can live out your purpose, and do it courageously! As introverts, we can tend to overthink things, and just being in our heads too much. So today we want to share some tips that will help you with that. Ebony also talks about: Why it's critical to push ourselves out of our comfort zones How changing your mindset can change your life Why it's necessary to take the time to recharge How you can find joy in your journey in becoming who you were meant to be Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Click here for our "20 Easy Conversation Starters You Can Use Anytime". Get Social with Us: Sign up for our weekly newsletter for more motivation, tips and resources No Small Talk Podcast Instagram - @nosmalltalkpodcast Twitter - @nosmalltalkpod1 Facebook Group - No Small Talk Podcast Subscribe & Review Are you subscribed to our podcast? If you're not, we want to encourage you to do that today. We've been adding a lot of bonus tips and conversation starters to each episode, and if you're not subscribed, you may miss out on the goodness. Click here to subscribe in Apple. Now if you're feeling extra generous, we'd love if you left us a review on Apple as well. Those reviews help other people find the podcast. Just click here to review, select "Ratings and Reviews" and "Write a Review" and let us know what you love about the episode. Thank you! No Small Talk is hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; produced by Wale "Breathe Easy" Balogun

48. 10 Conversation Starters for the Holidays Nov 26, 2020

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Holidays are the time for gathering and get togethers with family and friends. And while it's easy to default to small talk or talk politics, especially with this year's controversial and eventful elections, we hope that you can take a break from all that and have conversations that bring you closer and strengthen bonds. It doesn't hurt to go into these events with 1 or 2 questions planned to get the conversatiom going. So, in today's episode we offer 10 conversation starters to help you deepen connections with those closest to you. Grab the link in our bio and tune in to Episode 47.

47. No Small Talk Conversation | Children's Edition Nov 18, 2020

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Today we are changing things up a bit.....

You've heard Sherry and I share with you all before how we've been dealing with quarantining, social distancing and staying at home. And I've also been working from home as well as home schooling my children! I think as parents, it's important to check in and talk to our children during these times. It's important to see how they are doing, and what their experience and perspective is in all of this. How they've been dealing with staying home as well, and social distancing.

Not every child's experience is the same! You will get to hear two very different opinions from two of my children - One experiences struggles with plans changing, missing their friends, and one is actually taking the quarantine quite well and is happy to be at home!

They also share about:

What it's like to be homeschooled
Their perspective on spending more time at home
Advice to other kids who are missing friends, and doing things outside

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46. No Small Talk Conversation with Ebony and Sherry | Conversation Starters for any Situation Nov 04, 2020

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Do you ever sit back and say to yourself..."Wow, I miss feeling (fill in the blank).

This could be you reminiscing about the happiest time in your life, who you were with and what you were doing; or reflecting on the person you used to be...maybe more fun? Carefree? Unafraid? Or you weren't worried about impressing anybody, you were stubborn, and determined to be who you wanted to be, and do what you truly enjoyed doing.

This is what Sherry and Ebony get into in this week’s episode. The seasons of life oftentimes have the effect of changing how we see things, how we think, and how we feel. This change can be good and bad. And while we often talk about the good that comes with the journey of life, today we talk about some of the things we lost along the way and wish to have back.

We also talk about:

The feeling of freedom and lack of worry
Why we shouldn’t internalize everything
Why it’s beneficial to sometimes say “No”

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45. Why Now is the Best Time to Try Online Dating Oct 21, 2020

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There are over 40 million people dating online right now. And that was BEFORE COVID! So many people have had to turn to online dating during these unprecedented times.

Our lives have changed in so many ways, and dating has been no exception! So if you have found yourself looking for that special someone online, and have questions like, "What should my profile picture be?" "What should my bio say?" "How do I know if that person is right for me?" Then you're going to want to tune in!

We all have had to learn to pivot, be more creative and find a new way of doing things. In this episode, we wanted to share with you some tips on dating online successfully, (since there're so many of us doing it right now!) and highlight tips shared by a friend who met his wife on match.com.

Tips include:

Be Honest and Kind Always
Don't just say "Hi". Personalize your greeting and message
Know when to transition conversation offline and work on meeting in person
Having a strong bio and banging, but true profile pic!

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Meetup – a site on which like-minded people can get together to learn, do, and share new things

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44. Skip the Small Talk and Do These Instead Oct 14, 2020

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Happy hours, networking events, conferences... have you ever dodged these events because you hate large crowds and dread small talk? Do you struggle with initiating more meaningful conversations in your social interactions? In today’s episode, Sherry shares 3 ways to steer any conversation to get what you desire most- meaningful conversations.

We desire meaningful conversations! Connection. REAL talk! We are over the shallow conversations that feel pointless and like a waste of time. As introverts, if a conversation doesn’t go beyond small talk, we feel like we don’t have a chance to create a significant relationship. And because we’re always looking for meaningful conversations, we assume we won’t be get those at happy hour events. But while it may seem tempting to avoid networking and small talk all together, that's not the best idea either. If we want to go further faster, we need to rely on our relationships and network.

Sherry also talks about:

How to take the lead in conversations
How to prepare for and enjoy those events you might typically dread
Why creating meaningful connections will help you feel fulfilled and more satisfied.
The importance of quality relationships

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43. 6 Ways To Get Your Mindset Right Sep 30, 2020

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In today's episode we are changing things up a little bit. Ebony talks about something that has been on her mind and heart lately- the power of a positive mindset.

This episode is all about encouraging you to be intentional about keeping a positive mindset and speaking positivity into your life.

As introverts we are very in tune with ourselves. We tend to be very inward turning and focus on our thoughts and our feelings. And so because of this, the success of our well being can very well depend on our mindset. Ebony shares some tips about starting your day off on a good note, practicing gratitude and more easy steps that we can start doing today to have a more positive mindset.

With everything that has happened in 2020 it is understandable that people have struggled to keep a positive mindset. And many of us have concerns for what the rest of the year will bring as well. But we need to be intentional about not staying in a case of despair. Let's speak light and positivity into our lives and encourage one another. We are all in this together!

Ebony also talks about:

How powerful mindset can truly be
The benefits and value of incorporating positive affirmations into your daily routine
Why we should remove negativity from our lives
The importance of self-care

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42. How to Build a Personal Brand as an Introvert with Yetunde Shorters Sep 23, 2020

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In today's episode we talk about the importance of branding even as an introvert and offer some verbal and nonverbal ways to effectively and confidently do it without overwhelm.

So, what is the best way to do this? It can start with authentically portraying yourself, and embracing what makes you unique. Our friend, Yetunde Shorters talks to us about personal branding and using our personalities to set us apart from our competitors. People want to invest in those that they emotionally connect with, and Yetunde tells us steps we can take to start showing our true selves.

Yetunde thrives on helping female entrepreneur leaders get clear on what their purpose is so that they can have more impact on the world, and build a community around it.

We also talk about:

How to bring your personality to your brand but still be professional and not overshare
How to know if your brand aligns with your core values
How to identify our individual personal values
What’s one thing introverts can do TODAY to start building their personal brand?

Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

Yetunde Shorters Masterclass
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Subscribe & Review in Apple Are you subscribed to our podcast? If you're not, we want to encourage you to do that today. We've been adding a lot of bonus tips and conversation starters to each episode, and if you're not subscribed, you may miss out on the goodness. Click here to subscribe in Apple. Now if you're feeling extra generous, we'd love if you left us a review on Apple as well. Those reviews help other people find the podcast. Just click here to review, select "Ratings and Reviews" and "Write a Review" and let us know what you love about the episode. Thank you! No Small Talk is hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; produced by Wale "Breathe Easy" Balogun

41. No Small Talk Conversation with Jeanette Hendrix | Conversation Starters for any Situation Sep 16, 2020

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Do you struggle with always having to have a plan for your life? For your family's life? Or the opposite, being comfortable just the way things are? We start today's episode with conversation starter - Do you live more in the moment or plan for the future and why?

We are joined by fellow introvert, Teacher, and Podcaster Jeanette Hendrix.

In this episode, we talk about:

Our experiences with planning and preparing for different phases in our lives, and the lessons that came from that
The value of finding balance in preparing for the future and allowing things to be
Being confident and believing that we have what it takes, even in the most difficult and random situations of life
Being ok with saying "I don't know"

Our conversation starters are designed to create more interesting and memorable social interactions. The great thing about our conversation starters is that they start off with one basic question, but will prompt a back-and-forth exchange of ideas and lead to other interesting topics. Use them and watch your relationships grow stronger as you share your answers and listen to others.

Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

The Chronicles of an Introverted Black Woman
@introvertedblkwoman
Click here for our "20 Easy Conversation Starters You Can Use Anytime".

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Are you subscribed to our podcast? If you're not, we want to encourage you to do that today. We've been adding a lot of bonus tips and conversation starters to each episode, and if you're not subscribed, you may miss out on the goodness. Click here to subscribe in Apple. Now if you're feeling extra generous, we'd love if you left us a review on Apple as well. Those reviews help other people find the podcast. Just click here to review, select "Ratings and Reviews" and "Write a Review" and let us know what you love about the episode. Thank you!

No Small Talk is hosted by Ebony Anuforo and Shereefat Balogun; produced by Wale "Breathe Easy" Balogun

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